My wife was my best friend. Stayed that way for ,43 years of marriage until I lost her to cancer. 43 years went be so fast. Time flies when you are having fun.
Sorry for your loss brother. But I happy for you for actually finding the one. For yourself. She sounds wonderful and I'm sorry you lost her. God bless brother
No shit Sherlock?! 😱 all the other ones are only fan models, what did you expect ? Are you guys going out sometimes, make friends ? Because I can’t understand why red pill dudes think this kind of woman is rare. I’m 30, I have meet a lot of women in my life. Never heard a woman say a man need to be rich and handsome. All of my female friends are married with average joe and very in love. Is it like this only in America ?
@@lovejunkie490 I’m with you! I think MOST women think like her… BUT if you’re a man who only hangs around OF creators or women who party… well duh! That’s all you’re meeting is trashy women and therefore you think that’s normal when it’s not.
@@lovejunkie490If it wasn't becoming so common no one would watch this show. I am glad I live in Poland where this isn't an issue (yet), but it's not easy for people to simply be, in this kind of environment.
@@sebagab9795 this is becoming common ? Not at all. Not even 5% of women population are only fan models or sex workers. The big majority of women aren’t on dating apps. Maybe stop spending your day on social media and go out. These women represent the minority of women, not the majority. These podcast become a things because men are delusional and far away from reality. They have have no social life and never had a women friends in their life. Most of them don’t have friends IRL at all, sitting all day in their room, playing video games.
I agree however it's not exclusive for the guy. Same goes for a same sex relationship. I have a girlfriend and I have nothing to regret about it and no reason at all to change that
@JuliaJuanaAlvarez valid point. But usually they’ll talk in terms of heterosexual relationships because that’s most relationships and it makes it all that more relatable to most people. Regardless of one’s sexual orientation, I believe looking at core values in any potential partner is the most prudent way to end up in a fulfilling relationship no matter what direction it goes The verbiage appears to gear this towards one type of relationship, but the advice is relevant without regard to said genders involved
@@BigWahly23nice people are nice to everyone, and can cause miss understandings and drama. A kind person, knows the value of kindness, and knows when someone is undeserving of it.
@@BigWahly23someone who is nice is basically agreeable they won’t tell you things you may need to hear while someone kind will push you to do things that will improve your life down the road. It’s all semantics really the words are interchangeable but I believe that’s the point she’s making here.
You do know shes just saying what beta males wanna hear? To make sure you never reproduce. This is how females control you, making sure you stay out of the reproductive loop
I'm gonna provide for you and be your stability, but let me cheat on you every time I have the chance..."looking for what you need and not necessarily what you want"
No exaggerated or fake things too like implants, filers, minimal level of makeup and intelligent very rare nowadays was the norm back when social media wasn't a thing like it is now, social media destroyed the world
@@Local-Vibes4444 ???? Your comment makes absolutely no sense!!! it’s hard to find intelligent woman??? They are rare??? Who cares if someone wants to put fillers all over their face. That is their choice.
Amen. My wife is priceless, she’s very emotional but she’s never once let that lead to irrational thoughts or poor-decisions. No doubt largely because her Dad is the most Christ-like bloke I’ve ever met. Although her sister is a bit of a mess but horses & water etc.
One of the best pieces of information I was ever taught was from one of my first managers training me to be management. “Hire for character, train for skill. Skill can be taught, character can’t.”
@@reyco6231 Right exactly Just because someone is a quality person on the inside that doesn't automatically mean they can become skilled enough at something too Apples an oranges honestly
What the clip conveniently didn't show was that she went on 50 dates in 6 months as a ChalLeNGe, not to find a husband. Shes as modern as they come b/c traditional women that are wives don't play around like that and get ran through.
Population of women: 1% trad 1% fem 98% normal Normal ones don't go online espousing their extreme beliefs 2% are the 'vocal minority', as is the case with most 'extreme/not normal' beliefs that make it seem that all "abc group" is like that
@@ryankuypers1819 historical? Which part of history? Because whatever era you're talking about... there was a time before that. So you can't keep looking backwards, because at some point we were in caves fighting with sticks
@@techboi_420this is the stupidest thing I've read today. there's a thing called modern history, basically history ever since we were civilized, aka not cavemen.
She is gorgeous, and intelligent… but what if she was the same beautiful person without the body and face, wouldn’t most men no longer be interested…? That’s the pattern I’ve seen. High quality girls are overlooked and men go for the pretty but brainless girls instead which is odd. Not here to criticize men, I understand that they’re visually wired. However, I see many beautiful women in my life who have a hard time committing, because the message from men is that their worth and value lies within their physical/external beauty… but all of that fades. When that fades away for me, I want to still be just as loved simply for being me. I wish that I could be enough, even after looks fade. Instead of it being received as a compliment now, when my so-called “beauty” is mentioned by men, it instills a great deal of fear instead… because it’s the one thing about me that’s complimented the most BUT it’s literally the one thing about me that won’t last! What about my humor/being a jokester, fun-loving heart, adventurous spirit, my care, nurturing personality, interests, creativity, love for people, etc…. I’m not saying I’m amazing, but is all of that nothing without a “pretty face?” I noticed I feel a confidence boost when women compliment me, but I feel insecure when men compliment me. Why? Because women compliment my character, my attitude, my positivity, and what I get most often is that I’m “so sweet” and caring. Men, however, simply compliment my external “beauty”…. which will be long gone in a couple decades. 😂!!! That’s NOT ME!! That’s just my shell that contains ME. I know they mean well when they compliment women’s looks, but for me at least, their intention backfires badly. It breeds insecurity, knowing that in the eyes of men, my ULTIMATE worth is always going to be how attractive my face and body are. It’s part of life to age. It seems like a man won’t stay in love once a girl’s external beauty fades. I know some of the BEST, most attractive, sweetest, “hot” women and they all got cheated on after getting “old,” like over 30, or after having babies. I know it’s not all men. There are still good men out there. As I write this, I am becoming aware that perhaps this is me searching for hope. I didn’t expect to brain splat such a long comment. Maybe I’m subconsciously looking for a little hope in this thread, to see men who are capable of loving beyond the superficial. A man who is faithful and devoted, and honors me as I honor him, who cherishes every ounce of love I pour into him… a safe place where my love won’t be wasted… a man who won’t have a wandering eye and wandering heart as I age… soon I will be older and not able to compete with all the girls in their 20’s anymore. Will someone love me, and be enamored with only me still, as the younger girls walk by, flaunting their bodies, tempting him to stray from me (even if not physically, but emotional cheating hurts much worse)…. As we sit on a park bench together in our older years, as I tend to you and taking care of the children, as I’m messy, stressed, and at my worst? Will you not seek out other women who are now younger and more attractive than me? I’ve also been the target of married men who have such amazing wives but yet they were seeking me out sexually/romantically. One guy straight out told me “I want a wife AND a mistress.” THAT is NOT a compliment to be pursued by married men. All it does is reinforce the fear of “that wife will be ME one day; the same thing is bound to happen to me and it’s the cycle of life through the ages.” It seems to be what most men do, and I don’t understand the over-valuing looks. Again, I believe there are absolutely gems of men out there. I just know what I’ve seen in about 95% of the men I know… cheating, porn, divorce, emotional barriers, abandonment, desire goes down etc. I don’t want a man disgusted by me after having his children, as I change and get older. What I’ve seen is just confusing, saddening and discouraging… it seems I won’t be able to keep someone in love with me after my looks fade. Such vanity. I can’t stand the way looks have been hyper-worshipped in our culture… as well as the brainwashing through media and TV etc, communicating that cheating is SO natural/normal/not a big deal…. High value on my looks my entire life has bred insecurity… that’s the natural by product because the message within that is that physically attractive = worthy of love, and when that’s gone, I’ll be thrown away. I can’t blame men for how they’re super visually wired, and I am aware that maybe I don’t fully understand their minds. It’s like we are completely different creatures, regardless of whether we are all “human” in the flesh. I would love to understand more. What happens if I trip and fall into boiling grease, and my face is mutilated? Would I not be abandoned so fast, cheated on and left alone with my heart shattered…? I’m also a hopeless romantic who wants to believe so badly in a life-long love. I give myself whole-heartedly when I love. So these parts of me are always at war with each other! Anyway thanks to anyone who actually reads this stream of consciousness extra long rambling!
@@JaneThatcher89 there are many high quality men out there who do not drive the right car or make the right salary or would ever be on the cover of GQ. do not condemn men only for the superficiality of our society. Women either hate all men or admire only those who can fulfill their fantasies of fulfillment: their fulfillment, not the man’s. Short men do not get a second look. Ugly men do not get a second look. Poor men do not get a second look. These men are made to feel inadequate and inferior: by women.
@@JaneThatcher89 we’re attracted by what we see, that’s how we are. There are always ways to make yourself eye pleasing. Attractive fit men haven’t been born that way. It takes time and determination to work on yourself physically and mentally!
@@boodrowwilson1894Exactly. And good luck getting her. Just because she’s “traditional” doesn’t mean she doesn’t have hypergamy. She’s still only going for Chads.
@Praw-Too-Ehleem Ok fine, I'll make the lowest brow joke I can, since no one else will... she could bobble on my lower head. This joke brought to you by virgin-energy.
Too bad she's rare and makes up only like 10% of women 😆 That was so nice to hear. You never hear women talk with sense and logic. It's always some selfish emotional monolog.
Not necessarily. The stuff she said I figured out at a young age and my parents are divorced. Even when they were married I never saw them like that. But I do have a great relationship with my dad.
@@WolfMountfordJust heads up, You will run into quite a few girls who talk a good game like this one. Pay far more attention to how they act and what they do.
They always are smart to do the manipulation and acting game. This is no traditional woman. Look a real one, she'll be married and talk and move very different. This girl is like just coming from streets.
@@johnelder4273 maybe the woman who’s actually speaking feels that way but I doubt all the others really care. They just signed up to make incels feel validated on the internet
@@malindudissanayake7458A kind man is one who is respectful and caring; he also defends and stands up for what’s right. A nice guy doesn’t do the last part.
@@malindudissanayake7458being nice is a man whose agreeable to everything even when he disagrees it’s a sign of weakness and lack of confidence. Being kind is being able to disagree and do it without being disrespectful. Women typically follow your lead.
If the culture wasn't paying too much attention to the degenerates we'd see more of women like this. The intelligent ones don't draw too much attention to themselves
The problem I have with people like this is that they can't differentiate between being kind or nice like they think. Most of the time they like it directed at them, the moment kindness is directed at others it is seen as a disrespect or cheating behavior. I have disqualified so many women the moment they get upset I hold the door open for another person besides her. Some even get upset for holding the door open for elders.
Fr bro, I remember my sister hating our dad when she was a teenager for stopping her from doing things, but last year at 38 years old I heard her tell him "you know all the times I got mad at you for not letting me do things, I realize now that you were right". That's the problem with most parents these days, when they tell their kid to do or not to do something, and the kid pitches a fit about it, they just back down and give them what they want. Doing that for them is going to hurt them in the long run, because the real world doesn't work that way
@@AbdulGiwabeing nice is what women do. It is going along to get along and not making difficult decisions out of fear of offending someone. It is fear masquerading as niceness from a position of cowardice. Someone who is nice, is fake. However, kindness is delivered from a position of strength. Is the ability to stand alone how to make principled stands. The same corollary applies to peaceful men, they are capable of great violence and strength but keep is focused for good, a weak man is not a peaceful man, he is harmless like a rabbit.
@@christopherpakney8542 I believe the question pertains to the distinction between being kind vs nice. Instead of explaining the difference you go on a tangent and enumerate the qualities of one pretending to be nice or even a wussy as opposed to one who is actually nice because that fits your narrative. Being kind and nice are not mutually exclusive. One can’t be nice without being kind and vice versa. In my humble opinion, she was trying to sound sophisticated and impress her audience and apparently she succeeded.
@@samw8045 the other brother asked for an explanation. Being nice is a safety mechanism so you can fit in with the In Crowd and never offend anybody kindness and nice are different. Kindness is actually doing something beneficial for someone else being nice is simply doing everything you can not to offend or ruffle feathers.
@@christopherpakney8542 I think you’re describing someone who happens to be nice albeit with other undesirable traits attached to it. A UFC fighter can actually be nice outside of the ring. If she had said I want someone nice but not too nice, it would have made sense. But no! She had to go for shock and awe and make that ridiculous statement and ran with it.
I hope you said that based off the full episode with her, because saying one reasonable thing doesn't make her _overall_ reasonable or intelligent, and certainly not conservative (although I assume that she _is_ indeed in favor of traditional relationships at the least regardless of how conservative her overall cultural/political views are). For that matter being intelligent, beautiful, and reasonable doesn't even make a person certainly likeable or a good partner. People can be liars or narcissists, have various addictions and/or proclivities for addictions, could have anger issues, disabilities, reproductive issues, etc.. None of those are necessarily no-go traits for someone, but they can be for many people, and multiple of them could probably total to no-go for nearly everyone.
She's ironically so much more physically attractive imo because she's clearly confident in herself, speaks politely and eloquently, dresses modestly and lets her wisdom and mentality be the thing you notice more than her looks. Ever notice how someone becomes more physically attractive when you both vibe really well? Or the opposite, they seem less physically attractive when you start to realize she's for the streets.
@@whatisanamelol Excuse me. I also show a certain kind of empathy with your intellectual disability, without having an ulterior motive. With you, it's more pity. When your mother told you that you were special, she certainly meant something else.
I used to believe those lies, when i realized the truth is the opposite i went from scoring with zero to now scoring near 200, its so many that i lost count long ago - by not believing a word. This lady only want to make sure that simps continue to not get any girls.
Nice: pleasant; agreeable. Kind: having or showing a friendly, generous, and considerate nature. These are practically interchangeable. I would be hard pressed to describe a quality found in a kind person that would not also be present in a nice person, and vice-versa.
@@ryanwilhite You said it in your definitions... "Agreeable" which means "yes man" who goes along with your delusions. A Kind person will not, because it is kind to not further your mental illness.
@@ryanwilhite no, the difference is subtle but important. "Nice" involves agreeablity which requires that the person being described is ready to submit to others. Kind just means that you are sympathetic and helpful, but not automatically submitting to the whims of others.
@@MissTaelus There are instances where agreeability wouldn't infer niceness. For instance, letting someone put themselves into a dangerous situation, which you knew was preventable beforehand. You could agree with someone who says they are worthless and should end their own life. That isn't nice. Also, on a related note, are you familiar with the concept of malicious compliance? It is when you would agree to do something, even though you have the knowledge beforehand that the desired outcome would not be achieved by following through with said order or request. Not to mention, "willing to agree to something" is not the only definition of agreeable. Considering all of this, it's more likely they were referring to the "enjoyable and pleasurable; pleasant" definition of agreeable.
@@waltermh111A good definition of “nice”would be someone validating a male who wants to cut body parts off to become a female, telling him to live his truth and then helping him live that lie. A good definition of “kind” would be in the same situation, that person tells the one wanting to cut body parts of that it will ruin his life, and it will never make him a woman; kindness is telling the truth and tough love for the benefit of the other person.
@@waltermh111 They aren't the same. Being nice is about being polite and trying not to hurt someone's feelings. Being kind is doing what is best for someone, regardless of whether it's what they want to see or hear. Kind is much more related to your morality than simply being nice is
@DrasticSkuba sure, keep telling yourself that. I am too old to play modern games. Glad those word games are working out for you. I travel around the world and the rest of the world lives by the original meaning and the nice (aka kind) guys have good relationships out there. No problem. No word play. You can have all the American women that you want. Just remember, they either aren't picking the kind guys or are leaving them too. The stats are a disaster for most men.
Number one she’s not telling you what you want to hear. She is explaining her core beliefs, which typically stand immovable as they form one’s character.
Look at the makeup earing hairstyle nails. That is not a female that have discipline or any integrity. Just because it knows what a good husband is doesnt mean it will be a good spouse.
There's many out there. They just may not be as pretty as her. That's the hard part: finding someone that is beautiful in your eyes that also has a moderate to conservative, rational mind and has the capacity to love you even with your flaws.
@Fullofgrace2002 how the hell is it sexist? This is a high quality traditional woman who looks for the right qualities in a man rather than all the superficial BS like all the Onlyfans models that goes on that show. Open your eyes and wake up!
@Fullofgrace2002 notice how nearly every single one of these comments are praising her for her judgment and insight on what really makes an attractive male. Maybe you should learn a lesson or two here 😉
Dude I left this same comment in another one of his videos!! Not word for word or anything but literally like pointed out the same thing with a different set of girls but exact same situation.
It's always the more liberal ones who look defeated as well.. and im not one who likes terms like left right liberal and conservative ect, bc all people arent that, even ones seen as one or the other dont fully agree with everything seen as a view the group shares, and blah blah blah, but people who live less conservative lives tend to be the ones that look that way, idk how else to say it 😂
@traxagenda3445 idk if you're responding to me, but im the only one who brought up ideologies, but I also said it in a way where I was clearly saying everyone isn't the same, so you'd always have people who seem like they're on the left or right with opposite views. Only sheep fully agree with the ideals of a party or views media and people attribute to a party.. so basically I'm confused if you're talking to me lol
@@JENKEN425 mature not old. You can tell she's aged gracefully and doesn't lie about her age by getting plastic surgery. Does her hair well and a tolerable amount of makeup. She dresses for her man and not like a hoe for everyone else
He makes sense. Doesn't matter what kind of man you are, if you don't get chosen by her then there really is nothing you can do about it. We just have to deal with it. @@SpanishKitten
Yes exactly, nothing non feminist about her. Key word non. It's the red pilled ladies shouldn't expect much trope when they couldn't handle what actually being red-pilled is. Hint ,it's not a college degree, being a 40 hr + wage slave or lowering the standards men and women had for each other for thousands of years and saying those standards are asking too much, ladies.
These guys literally pick and choose who is on their podcast and they intentionally pick the ones who are not very clever most of the time because it is more entertaining and will always make the guys look much smarter.
Yes it does have everything to do with ‘traditional’. People who live by traditional standards, values, way of thinking have a tendency towards keeping a sufficient amount of working brain cells working. They are not destroying them, wasting them, or atrophying those cells with nonsense, self destructive thought processes, and weak thinking. “I think therefore I am”, not I feel therefore I am. 🤔🏆
@@MarielleilonaLinthorst Great! There’s hope for you. The accusation/lie which the Left constantly pushes is that traditional also means identifying with every negative and destructive form of action, behavior, and mode of relationship from the past. The word conservative is its most basic meaning, devoid of modern partisan manipulation, is defined as conserving all that is considered good as recognized by nearly everyone. I am traditional and I hate racism, sexism, injustice, and mistreatment of any nature. I conserve only what is good. Change is good only if it brings on us what we all can know to be good. You may be of a good heart as “non traditional” but many are not. When the vast majority of us can acknowledge something as good, and it is factually good, not just an opinion as good by ideology and preference, we can all be at peace over it. 🤔🇺🇸
She was raised right and properly educated by intelligent folks with traditional values, and it shows. This is the sort of thing that should be taught in school.
I'm sorry, but no. Values should be taught in the home, parents want to abdicate all of their responsibility to schools. A school is a place to learn academics, not a place to be taught values.
@@matthewdennis1739The problem is that too many kids come from homes where they'll never get the opportunity to learn these values, so somewhere besides the home has to offer an alternative way of introducing and reinforcing good values. Equally, there's a whole lot of people in this world who aren't academically inclined, and schools need to be offering them something besides a place for them to constantly fail until they leave as adults with not only sub par academic achievements, but no discernable life skills or useful values.
@@lollylou22 Agreed on offering more trade skill opportunities. Also agreed on a basic level the school needs to provide basic values for those who don't have parents teaching them at home, but that's just a band aid. We need to address the issue at its root.
@@matthewdennis1739There is nothing wrong with both. In fact, even when you’re not actively being taught values, you should be learning them based on the experiences you have with all sorts of different people. My parents are wonderful, but I’ve learned much more about life outside of my parents rearing. It is entirely up to you after a certain point to learn what your values are and every experience plays into that.
Yes I noticed that. Also, there was the added bonus of her not having green or purple hair, tatoos, or a metal bolt through her nose...and she didn't say ' literally ' even once. This, along with her other attributes, raises her pretty much to level of an angel on earth 😊
This is 100% the best, honest & understanding answer I have ever heard on these shorts. As long as anotger guy isn't filling the positions as "Confidant" that she spoke about when saying she didn't expect every socialideaology to be filled by one person isn't another Male (Personally, I wouldn't want her confidant to be another straight male... That puts the guy in a position where if he does have a crush & is lying to her ((100% would be the only reason for a straight guy to be friends with a married woman.)) he would constantly be hearing about any private problems you & your wife would be going through & trying to manipulate to sitution to end up driving a wedge between the married coupke & painting himself as a knight in shining armor.) I would have no problems with her having all the homosexual guy friends... they don't bother me or give me that "in the wings, waiting" vibe that any straight guy friends do.
You apparently haven't watched this guys channel before because the girls ALWAYS consist of Instagram influencers who post lewd pictures and Onlyfans "models" with one outlier who happened to be this lady. Rightnoff the baye you most certainly can make a judgment.@alexandercrichton3052
Hopefully the other women are paying attention…. It’s good for women to learn from other women how to evolve into better women… get humble and put all cattiness aside 😊
100 bucks says she has a good dad.
I'd bet my savings on it lol
I’d double that to say her parents are still together
@@shadow6543I'll throw in both my kidneys that she comes from a family very united.
I won't take that bet
I will
That's not destroying. That's educating.
The word destroy gets more clicks
It's destroying their delusions. So, yes. It is destroying while also being educational.
@@missyjo2475it looked like they were nodding in agreement with her. No one was “destroyed.”
Welcome to the Internet. Before jumping in let's have a look at some conventions which aren't meant to be taken literally...
@@missyjo2475i’m sorry but saying you “destroyed” someone in an argument is some corny ass shit😂
My wife was my best friend. Stayed that way for ,43 years of marriage until I lost her to cancer. 43 years went be so fast. Time flies when you are having fun.
Thats sweet dear sir.
Rock on buddy. Happy you two found each other
Sorry for your loss but it sounds like you made each other happy and that's a wonderful accomplishment to have in life.
Sorry for your loss, Steve! Glad you and her enjoyed your time together! May she rest in peace.
Oh….and F*** cancer!!
Sorry for your loss brother. But I happy for you for actually finding the one. For yourself. She sounds wonderful and I'm sorry you lost her. God bless brother
This woman just exudes class. Gorgeous, modest, respectful, well spoken. The whole package.
The opposite is true
She's got a big brain literally. And still beyond beautiful!! Wonder what's her name
@@jessestinson9252literally?
It’s called a conservative woman
She is one a man would give everything for.
That's not just intelligence, that's wisdom.
1K like bro.
That’s the best thing any woman has said on this show. Period.
No shit Sherlock?! 😱 all the other ones are only fan models, what did you expect ? Are you guys going out sometimes, make friends ? Because I can’t understand why red pill dudes think this kind of woman is rare. I’m 30, I have meet a lot of women in my life. Never heard a woman say a man need to be rich and handsome. All of my female friends are married with average joe and very in love. Is it like this only in America ?
@@lovejunkie490 I’m with you! I think MOST women think like her… BUT if you’re a man who only hangs around OF creators or women who party… well duh! That’s all you’re meeting is trashy women and therefore you think that’s normal when it’s not.
Period? Yikes!
@@lovejunkie490If it wasn't becoming so common no one would watch this show.
I am glad I live in Poland where this isn't an issue (yet), but it's not easy for people to simply be, in this kind of environment.
@@sebagab9795 this is becoming common ? Not at all. Not even 5% of women population are only fan models or sex workers. The big majority of women aren’t on dating apps. Maybe stop spending your day on social media and go out. These women represent the minority of women, not the majority. These podcast become a things because men are delusional and far away from reality. They have have no social life and never had a women friends in their life. Most of them don’t have friends IRL at all, sitting all day in their room, playing video games.
That one’s definiately a keeper.
She would still date a Chad in a moment. And I guarantee you that she'll want to know his income as well. Wolf in sheep's clothing.
Yeah right, it's all blah blah blah I want, I want..... the reality is, you never pay attention to what they say, only what they do.
@@mmtot yep. Watch what she says over here, but does over there.
Words dont count. Only actions do ;)@@dannyfrog
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"Someone who is kind not nice".
Explain that please...
The other girls had no idea what she was saying
As a married woman, I concur with everything she said. Core values are huge.
Agreed. This woman is spot-on!
I agree however it's not exclusive for the guy. Same goes for a same sex relationship. I have a girlfriend and I have nothing to regret about it and no reason at all to change that
At what point will you stop having regular sex with your husband?
@JuliaJuanaAlvarez valid point. But usually they’ll talk in terms of heterosexual relationships because that’s most relationships and it makes it all that more relatable to most people. Regardless of one’s sexual orientation, I believe looking at core values in any potential partner is the most prudent way to end up in a fulfilling relationship no matter what direction it goes
The verbiage appears to gear this towards one type of relationship, but the advice is relevant without regard to said genders involved
@@nicholasselke5214 Yeah I guess that's true
Gorgeous and intelligent. She's a keeper.
Really? Sounded to me like she is talking about an open relationship
What did she say to make anyone think she endorsed an open relationship?
@@PR-xm5zc You definitely made that up in your own head.
Seems she just changed recently. I heard she's 30 something. Looks like she wasn't what she's saying a decade ago.
@@AmFFFers They often change their tune once they feel that biological clock ticking.
"Someone that's kind, not nice." Second level understanding right there.
Can you explain the difference?
@@BigWahly23nice people are nice to everyone, and can cause miss understandings and drama.
A kind person, knows the value of kindness, and knows when someone is undeserving of it.
@@BigWahly23someone who is nice is basically agreeable they won’t tell you things you may need to hear while someone kind will push you to do things that will improve your life down the road. It’s all semantics really the words are interchangeable but I believe that’s the point she’s making here.
@@BigWahly23”nice” is being polite, it’s surface level. Being kind is genuine and selflessly caring for others.
Anyone can be nice, not everyone is kind. Lots of people are nice just to manipulate others to get what they want.
“Looking for what you NEED not what you WANT” 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 WORRDDDD
Facts
Is it that right??
Maturity is a great thing. Kudos to this woman
Men, if you find someone like this, don't let go.
I don't know why, but I don't think she's like that either.
You wont need too, she’ll do that for you
Then she'll let you go instead
And if she want let go? Can I force her to stay with me? Like, lock her in a room? Just kidding. or not.
I didn't.
She is still in the basement...
A true example of a humble, honourable, and respectful woman.. Bless her heart! More women need to have this mindset.
She is not humble, just smart
She is a gold digger. Stop it.
She's spot on.
I think she used a 50 cent lyric lol
Marriage Material!!!!!!!
But is single. She looking for a man with money.
“Looking for what u NEED, not necessarily what u want”
Tough one for a lot of people to swallow
Speaking of swallowing...
Those girls would swallow anything but the truth
You do know shes just saying what beta males wanna hear? To make sure you never reproduce. This is how females control you, making sure you stay out of the reproductive loop
I'm gonna provide for you and be your stability, but let me cheat on you every time I have the chance..."looking for what you need and not necessarily what you want"
@@rosesforeverysin1780 Lotsa projection I see.
Notice she actually looks normal! Beautiful, intelligent, not demanding and nasty towards a man and not acting like she is better than others!
No exaggerated or fake things too like implants, filers, minimal level of makeup and intelligent very rare nowadays was the norm back when social media wasn't a thing like it is now, social media destroyed the world
Not tattoed like a convict out of san quentin.
That’s not what feminism is. Feminism is about equality. Not thinking you are better than anyone.
@@Local-Vibes4444 ???? Your comment makes absolutely no sense!!! it’s hard to find intelligent woman??? They are rare??? Who cares if someone wants to put fillers all over their face. That is their choice.
@@jhonatancock2302so many people have tattoos that you don't even realize
That's the best response I think I've ever heard.
Now that’s what we really call a high value woman
Yeah the other Girls in that room is just trash
I believe referring to her as a "high value woman" would make you not the person she is looking for
you bought her lies
@@michaelbrown8441 who hurt you?
@@michaelbrown8441does your wife beat you…….. come on now don’t lie. She does everybody can tell.
There's *Nothing More Beautiful Than A SENSIBLE WOMAN.*
Agreed. Absolutely. Priceless.
And no visible Tattoos. @@bran7134
Absolutely. And being as beautiful as she is already just puts her at the top tier. That's not no regular chick right there.
@@trujillo71921agreed and I believe she deserves the best in life
Amen. My wife is priceless, she’s very emotional but she’s never once let that lead to irrational thoughts or poor-decisions. No doubt largely because her Dad is the most Christ-like bloke I’ve ever met. Although her sister is a bit of a mess but horses & water etc.
One of the best pieces of information I was ever taught was from one of my first managers training me to be management. “Hire for character, train for skill. Skill can be taught, character can’t.”
Oooooooh, that gave me chills. That’s 💯💯💯💯✨✨✨
And make sure they have 10 years experience when they're 18
Sound advice but I work in manufacturing and skill can not always be taught along with common sense not being so common.
@@reyco6231
Right exactly
Just because someone is a quality person on the inside that doesn't automatically mean they can become skilled enough at something too
Apples an oranges honestly
That’s gold 💯💯
What the clip conveniently didn't show was that she went on 50 dates in 6 months as a ChalLeNGe, not to find a husband. Shes as modern as they come b/c traditional women that are wives don't play around like that and get ran through.
But did she just go on those dates as like a dinner date or did she go on those dates for a Diddy party date?
Big difference between the 2 there.
She’s not traditional she’s just normal.
Population of women:
1% trad
1% fem
98% normal
Normal ones don't go online espousing their extreme beliefs
2% are the 'vocal minority', as is the case with most 'extreme/not normal' beliefs that make it seem that all "abc group" is like that
Being traditional reflects historical societal norms so yes, she's normal.
@@ryankuypers1819 historical? Which part of history? Because whatever era you're talking about... there was a time before that. So you can't keep looking backwards, because at some point we were in caves fighting with sticks
@@techboi_420this is the stupidest thing I've read today. there's a thing called modern history, basically history ever since we were civilized, aka not cavemen.
She’s both. Ryan’s reasoning is correct.
Hearing what she says reveals the beauty of the person, not the beauty of a body.
She is gorgeous, and intelligent… but what if she was the same beautiful person without the body and face, wouldn’t most men no longer be interested…? That’s the pattern I’ve seen. High quality girls are overlooked and men go for the pretty but brainless girls instead which is odd. Not here to criticize men, I understand that they’re visually wired. However, I see many beautiful women in my life who have a hard time committing, because the message from men is that their worth and value lies within their physical/external beauty… but all of that fades.
When that fades away for me, I want to still be just as loved simply for being me. I wish that I could be enough, even after looks fade. Instead of it being received as a compliment now, when my so-called “beauty” is mentioned by men, it instills a great deal of fear instead… because it’s the one thing about me that’s complimented the most BUT it’s literally the one thing about me that won’t last! What about my humor/being a jokester, fun-loving heart, adventurous spirit, my care, nurturing personality, interests, creativity, love for people, etc…. I’m not saying I’m amazing, but is all of that nothing without a “pretty face?”
I noticed I feel a confidence boost when women compliment me, but I feel insecure when men compliment me. Why? Because women compliment my character, my attitude, my positivity, and what I get most often is that I’m “so sweet” and caring. Men, however, simply compliment my external “beauty”…. which will be long gone in a couple decades. 😂!!! That’s NOT ME!! That’s just my shell that contains ME. I know they mean well when they compliment women’s looks, but for me at least, their intention backfires badly. It breeds insecurity, knowing that in the eyes of men, my ULTIMATE worth is always going to be how attractive my face and body are.
It’s part of life to age. It seems like a man won’t stay in love once a girl’s external beauty fades. I know some of the BEST, most attractive, sweetest, “hot” women and they all got cheated on after getting “old,” like over 30, or after having babies. I know it’s not all men. There are still good men out there.
As I write this, I am becoming aware that perhaps this is me searching for hope. I didn’t expect to brain splat such a long comment. Maybe I’m subconsciously looking for a little hope in this thread, to see men who are capable of loving beyond the superficial. A man who is faithful and devoted, and honors me as I honor him, who cherishes every ounce of love I pour into him… a safe place where my love won’t be wasted… a man who won’t have a wandering eye and wandering heart as I age… soon I will be older and not able to compete with all the girls in their 20’s anymore.
Will someone love me, and be enamored with only me still, as the younger girls walk by, flaunting their bodies, tempting him to stray from me (even if not physically, but emotional cheating hurts much worse)…. As we sit on a park bench together in our older years, as I tend to you and taking care of the children, as I’m messy, stressed, and at my worst? Will you not seek out other women who are now younger and more attractive than me?
I’ve also been the target of married men who have such amazing wives but yet they were seeking me out sexually/romantically. One guy straight out told me “I want a wife AND a mistress.” THAT is NOT a compliment to be pursued by married men. All it does is reinforce the fear of “that wife will be ME one day; the same thing is bound to happen to me and it’s the cycle of life through the ages.” It seems to be what most men do, and I don’t understand the over-valuing looks. Again, I believe there are absolutely gems of men out there. I just know what I’ve seen in about 95% of the men I know… cheating, porn, divorce, emotional barriers, abandonment, desire goes down etc.
I don’t want a man disgusted by me after having his children, as I change and get older. What I’ve seen is just confusing, saddening and discouraging… it seems I won’t be able to keep someone in love with me after my looks fade. Such vanity. I can’t stand the way looks have been hyper-worshipped in our culture… as well as the brainwashing through media and TV etc, communicating that cheating is SO natural/normal/not a big deal…. High value on my looks my entire life has bred insecurity… that’s the natural by product because the message within that is that physically attractive = worthy of love, and when that’s gone, I’ll be thrown away.
I can’t blame men for how they’re super visually wired, and I am aware that maybe I don’t fully understand their minds. It’s like we are completely different creatures, regardless of whether we are all “human” in the flesh. I would love to understand more. What happens if I trip and fall into boiling grease, and my face is mutilated? Would I not be abandoned so fast, cheated on and left alone with my heart shattered…? I’m also a hopeless romantic who wants to believe so badly in a life-long love. I give myself whole-heartedly when I love. So these parts of me are always at war with each other! Anyway thanks to anyone who actually reads this stream of consciousness extra long rambling!
@@JaneThatcher89 there are many high quality men out there who do not drive the right car or make the right salary or would ever be on the cover of GQ. do not condemn men only for the superficiality of our society. Women either hate all men or admire only those who can fulfill their fantasies of fulfillment: their fulfillment, not the man’s. Short men do not get a second look. Ugly men do not get a second look. Poor men do not get a second look. These men are made to feel inadequate and inferior: by women.
Very well said👌🏻
Physical beauty has short expirations. Nice to get our first attention but sadly doesn’t hold.
@@JaneThatcher89 we’re attracted by what we see, that’s how we are. There are always ways to make yourself eye pleasing. Attractive fit men haven’t been born that way. It takes time and determination to work on yourself physically and mentally!
Brains, beauty, and wisdom. Triple threat.
@@matthewmacon666 Just a compliment. I forgot that's not allowed on the internet. 😜
She's not pretty though.
Trifecta
I agree
and a five head!
What she said, spot on!! Core values is the most matter needed in life.
Exactly what is missing these days 😢
An America woman that doesn’t have a ridiculous croaky voice and doesn’t keep using the filler word “like” - this one’s a keeper !
I agree 💯
Extra points if she does not refer to her SO as BRUH
So a conservative...
And no neck tats
@@sunzshotcuts1162 Any tattoo on a woman is a red flag
She's a keeper... Period!!!!
You said period, but you used exclamation marks. 😂
Period? Yikes!
Women will say things like this , then do the exact opposite. If you're even believing any of this at this point, you are totally lost.
@@boodrowwilson1894Exactly. And good luck getting her. Just because she’s “traditional” doesn’t mean she doesn’t have hypergamy. She’s still only going for Chads.
@@geneticfreak84Yawn. Don't be a curmudgeon.
Sage advice. That lady has a good head on her shoulders
@Praw-Too-Ehleem i was thinking her head was a little big myself 😅
Yes and very attractive to boot
@Praw-Too-Ehleem Ok fine, I'll make the lowest brow joke I can, since no one else will... she could bobble on my lower head. This joke brought to you by virgin-energy.
@Praw-Too-EhleemYour brains 200 grams lighter and you know it
@@kniviz510you’re combined IQ with the other Smooth brained gentlemen in this comment are equivalent to a grasshopper
Very well said. She is also very well spoken. Incredible speech!!!
CLONE HER!
Until the mold wears out!💯
A man can’t give you Everything in the world, but a Good Man will still try to
I’ve never heard the simp motto explained so simply.
I got burned out by this sentiment. Focus on the self and make yourself happy before trying to make others happy.
So very true
@@donniefairLOL!
Wrong. A good man will reciprocate what he gets in a way that's fair to him, and nothing more.
“ it’s not fair to ask one person to give you all these things when most of us can’t even give it to ourselves” that is a bar!!
What is it "we cannot give ourselves"? What does she mean? Logically, noone can give himself anything; gifts are coming from the outside.
See sane tradional woman call out feminist is something I will never get tried of see.
😃👍
This has nothing to do with being a trad wife or a feminist. It's just wisdom and common sense.
Apparently, it’s not that common…that common sense. 😮
@@doogleticker5183True, look at the 304’s there. None of them seem to have common sense
So...not a feminist, then.
Right so a traditional wife 😂😂
Common sense is not common to everyone @@doogleticker5183
She's from a loving home, where her parents were a team, and worked at what they have. She's seen her Dad and her Mum help and compliment each other
Too bad she's rare and makes up only like 10% of women 😆 That was so nice to hear. You never hear women talk with sense and logic. It's always some selfish emotional monolog.
Not necessarily. The stuff she said I figured out at a young age and my parents are divorced. Even when they were married I never saw them like that. But I do have a great relationship with my dad.
100%. Our children grow up reflecting our own behaviour (maybe more than we would like). We owe it to them to be good role models.
@@WolfMountfordJust heads up, You will run into quite a few girls who talk a good game like this one. Pay far more attention to how they act and what they do.
Spoken from a woman... I like her words .. but is she really about those words.. gift to gab, or real about it
100% agree with her. Simply but eloquently put. Bravo.
Kudos to this Woman❤👏She nailed it perfectly
Looking for what you Need - Not what you Want. That is a very smart young lady !!
They always are smart to do the manipulation and acting game. This is no traditional woman. Look a real one, she'll be married and talk and move very different. This girl is like just coming from streets.
She talks a big game, that's for sure. Most women do, and as usual, most guys fall for it
@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd and most guys want someone to control and depend on them so they can do whatever they want...cheat, control, abuse.
This is what Wisdom looks like
All of the women at that table knew they can’t compete with her!!!
I don’t think it’s a competition lol
Anytime there is more than one lady in the room, it's a competition.
@@johnelder4273 maybe the woman who’s actually speaking feels that way but I doubt all the others really care. They just signed up to make incels feel validated on the internet
@@Doyouandshutupwrong. Nobody cares what incels feel, which is why they're bitter.
how do you compete when there is no contest?
"...KIND, not nice."
Huge difference. Worth noting.
I love how she clarified that. Being “nice” is not a virtue.
Yep, being nice to your partner but not nice to everyone else is just terrible.
honestly asking, whats the difference?
@@malindudissanayake7458A kind man is one who is respectful and caring; he also defends and stands up for what’s right. A nice guy doesn’t do the last part.
@@malindudissanayake7458being nice is a man whose agreeable to everything even when he disagrees it’s a sign of weakness and lack of confidence. Being kind is being able to disagree and do it without being disrespectful. Women typically follow your lead.
Such maturity and wisdom from such a young lady how refreshing.
Probably came from a stable, loving 2 parent home.
If the culture wasn't paying too much attention to the degenerates we'd see more of women like this. The intelligent ones don't draw too much attention to themselves
The problem I have with people like this is that they can't differentiate between being kind or nice like they think.
Most of the time they like it directed at them, the moment kindness is directed at others it is seen as a disrespect or cheating behavior.
I have disqualified so many women the moment they get upset I hold the door open for another person besides her. Some even get upset for holding the door open for elders.
@@BenjiPOTF
But face it man, you'll never even be on her selection list no matter how many doors you hold open.
@@OceanFrontVilla3 what's that got To do with anything? I am not saying I want her am I?
She's a unicorn!
Yeah, a unicorn with a father.
I had to pinch myself a few times while I was watching the video!😆
According to the hot/crazy matrix, she's probably a dude
She's being political. No woman is above being corrupted by their looks. Least of all somebody who looks like that.
Wanting integrity doesn't mean she has any
She LISTENS to her dad's advice while her mother raised her right.
Nah only a father can influence a woman wanting a real man and knowing what she wants.
@@amp8899Lie.
@@amp8899bruh that’s false on so many levels
Fr bro, I remember my sister hating our dad when she was a teenager for stopping her from doing things, but last year at 38 years old I heard her tell him "you know all the times I got mad at you for not letting me do things, I realize now that you were right". That's the problem with most parents these days, when they tell their kid to do or not to do something, and the kid pitches a fit about it, they just back down and give them what they want. Doing that for them is going to hurt them in the long run, because the real world doesn't work that way
@@Just_A_Name14Yes she definitely watched her dad grow up.
I love the distinction between "kind" and "nice". Subtle but full of meaning.
Explain the difference.
@@AbdulGiwabeing nice is what women do. It is going along to get along and not making difficult decisions out of fear of offending someone. It is fear masquerading as niceness from a position of cowardice. Someone who is nice, is fake. However, kindness is delivered from a position of strength. Is the ability to stand alone how to make principled stands. The same corollary applies to peaceful men, they are capable of great violence and strength but keep is focused for good, a weak man is not a peaceful man, he is harmless like a rabbit.
@@christopherpakney8542 I believe the question pertains to the distinction between being kind vs nice. Instead of explaining the difference you go on a tangent and enumerate the qualities of one pretending to be nice or even a wussy as opposed to one who is actually nice because that fits your narrative. Being kind and nice are not mutually exclusive. One can’t be nice without being kind and vice versa. In my humble opinion, she was trying to sound sophisticated and impress her audience and apparently she succeeded.
@@samw8045 the other brother asked for an explanation. Being nice is a safety mechanism so you can fit in with the In Crowd and never offend anybody kindness and nice are different. Kindness is actually doing something beneficial for someone else being nice is simply doing everything you can not to offend or ruffle feathers.
@@christopherpakney8542 I think you’re describing someone who happens to be nice albeit with other undesirable traits attached to it. A UFC fighter can actually be nice outside of the ring. If she had said I want someone nice but not too nice, it would have made sense. But no! She had to go for shock and awe and make that ridiculous statement and ran with it.
There! Thank you sister
That answer alone already makes her attractive. Her gorgeousness is just a huge plus. 😍
Stop simping
@FallenFlag9 Stop telling others what to do. Who are you, my boss? Lol. Besides, it's not simping.
@@AMERICANsparky32so stating that a woman is gorgeous, simping now?
@dirtdiver2525 If you're gonna do that, then yes.
Wow
Now this is a woman who was raised by great parents
Sadly, this woman is a UNICORN on the Hot Crazy Scale. Beautiful, intelligent, conservative, reasonable, understands a man compliments her life.
I hope you said that based off the full episode with her, because saying one reasonable thing doesn't make her _overall_ reasonable or intelligent, and certainly not conservative (although I assume that she _is_ indeed in favor of traditional relationships at the least regardless of how conservative her overall cultural/political views are).
For that matter being intelligent, beautiful, and reasonable doesn't even make a person certainly likeable or a good partner. People can be liars or narcissists, have various addictions and/or proclivities for addictions, could have anger issues, disabilities, reproductive issues, etc.. None of those are necessarily no-go traits for someone, but they can be for many people, and multiple of them could probably total to no-go for nearly everyone.
Hey James say that to your wife
She chose bad men before because kind and nice are synonymous and she said she didn’t want someone nice
And yet the guys on here would judge her for her fake nails, dyed hair and colored contacts
@@jadexx1 That might be your own projection onto them
Beautifully and education 👏
Beautiful and sane is a really rare quality these days, unfortunately.
I actually find the most well adjusted women tend to be the best looking.
And that woman deserves a handsome man.
I find that I don't find any women particularly beautiful until I've heard them speak for a while.
She's a unicorn... If you know you know
Dude, they are all crazy... She just seems less crazy then most.
She's ironically so much more physically attractive imo because she's clearly confident in herself, speaks politely and eloquently, dresses modestly and lets her wisdom and mentality be the thing you notice more than her looks. Ever notice how someone becomes more physically attractive when you both vibe really well? Or the opposite, they seem less physically attractive when you start to realize she's for the streets.
She was also born prettier
And she doesn't harp on about how her guy has to be gorgeous...
In french we talk about "internal beauty"... I don't know how it translates to English but that's what you described
100% agree!
Frfr. She the 0.01% 😍
I wish from the bottom of my heart that she will find the person at her side who can offer her all this. Really charming woman.
@@whatisanamelol Excuse me. I also show a certain kind of empathy with your intellectual disability, without having an ulterior motive. With you, it's more pity. When your mother told you that you were special, she certainly meant something else.
@@whatisanameloland incels too.
Ahhh, but can you give that back in return 🤔🤔
A lot of truth bombs just got dropped. THIS is how you present yourself. Protect this woman!
Noo! She tell all the lies simps wanna hear, to keep you away from reproduction
I used to believe those lies, when i realized the truth is the opposite i went from scoring with zero to now scoring near 200, its so many that i lost count long ago - by not believing a word. This lady only want to make sure that simps continue to not get any girls.
Very wise. Those traits are a must for any successful marriage.
Beauty and brains. This one is a definite catch.
Don’t be naive- women are still women
And only the best of the A list stands a chance, don't forget that.
She couldn't have explained that any better! 💯
I like that she distinguished kind not nice.
Underrated distinction.
Nice: pleasant; agreeable.
Kind: having or showing a friendly, generous, and considerate nature.
These are practically interchangeable. I would be hard pressed to describe a quality found in a kind person that would not also be present in a nice person, and vice-versa.
@@ryanwilhite You said it in your definitions... "Agreeable" which means "yes man" who goes along with your delusions. A Kind person will not, because it is kind to not further your mental illness.
@@ryanwilhite no, the difference is subtle but important. "Nice" involves agreeablity which requires that the person being described is ready to submit to others. Kind just means that you are sympathetic and helpful, but not automatically submitting to the whims of others.
@@MissTaelus There are instances where agreeability wouldn't infer niceness. For instance, letting someone put themselves into a dangerous situation, which you knew was preventable beforehand. You could agree with someone who says they are worthless and should end their own life. That isn't nice. Also, on a related note, are you familiar with the concept of malicious compliance? It is when you would agree to do something, even though you have the knowledge beforehand that the desired outcome would not be achieved by following through with said order or request. Not to mention, "willing to agree to something" is not the only definition of agreeable. Considering all of this, it's more likely they were referring to the "enjoyable and pleasurable; pleasant" definition of agreeable.
Not destruction. Just wisdom
Yes I loved that…That’s the best part of it that we could all learn from.. you don’t have to destroy others to make your point come across🙌
Attention is their oxygen, validation is their currency, and accountability is their kryptonite.
A 1000 🐐 to u sir...salute
@@LoneWolf-rk6kp Anything to help out mankind, keyword man...
Is that for men, women or the general populace? Because pigeonholing on one side of the other means you're missing an entire demographic.
True @@normalantipathy
LOL. I bet you're 14.
She asked for everything that she isn't. Run!
The characteristics she mentioned are for women who are looking for keepers. So a lot of shallow people can't understand.
Integrity. KIND. Disciplined.
Amen!
Yes, integrity, nice (synonymous with kind, not different), and disciplined. The best.
@@waltermh111A good definition of “nice”would be someone validating a male who wants to cut body parts off to become a female, telling him to live his truth and then helping him live that lie. A good definition of “kind” would be in the same situation, that person tells the one wanting to cut body parts of that it will ruin his life, and it will never make him a woman; kindness is telling the truth and tough love for the benefit of the other person.
@@waltermh111 They aren't the same. Being nice is about being polite and trying not to hurt someone's feelings. Being kind is doing what is best for someone, regardless of whether it's what they want to see or hear. Kind is much more related to your morality than simply being nice is
@DrasticSkuba sure, keep telling yourself that. I am too old to play modern games. Glad those word games are working out for you. I travel around the world and the rest of the world lives by the original meaning and the nice (aka kind) guys have good relationships out there. No problem. No word play. You can have all the American women that you want. Just remember, they either aren't picking the kind guys or are leaving them too. The stats are a disaster for most men.
Isn’t kind same as nice
Number one she’s not telling you what you want to hear. She is explaining her core beliefs, which typically stand immovable as they form one’s character.
Exactly...most people (men and women) do not know what they believe
Absolute wife material, God bless the dude who marries her
Very well said.
She is not telling you what u want to hear. She is telling you what you need to hear and what most women need to realize
Look at the makeup earing hairstyle nails. That is not a female that have discipline or any integrity. Just because it knows what a good husband is doesnt mean it will be a good spouse.
That's a REAL woman!!👏👏
I've never heard a woman say something like that before.
Because she’s fake
@@newmanskitchenandstuff9738 what is the definition of fake to you.
Damn that’s sad.
What she’s saying sounds rehearsed/given to her by Eminem’s flannel wearing brother
There's many out there. They just may not be as pretty as her. That's the hard part: finding someone that is beautiful in your eyes that also has a moderate to conservative, rational mind and has the capacity to love you even with your flaws.
Now that is a high quality woman. A rare diamond in a sea of 304s
I hope you realize how sexist this is…
Maybe, she might be the worst human being.
@Fullofgrace2002 how the hell is it sexist? This is a high quality traditional woman who looks for the right qualities in a man rather than all the superficial BS like all the Onlyfans models that goes on that show. Open your eyes and wake up!
@Fullofgrace2002 notice how nearly every single one of these comments are praising her for her judgment and insight on what really makes an attractive male. Maybe you should learn a lesson or two here 😉
@@Fullofgrace2002 I hope you realize how stupid your comment is
The one speaking facts looks so full of life and optimism. The other circus clowns look defeated by life at 25 😂😂😂
Dude I left this same comment in another one of his videos!! Not word for word or anything but literally like pointed out the same thing with a different set of girls but exact same situation.
It's always the more liberal ones who look defeated as well.. and im not one who likes terms like left right liberal and conservative ect, bc all people arent that, even ones seen as one or the other dont fully agree with everything seen as a view the group shares, and blah blah blah, but people who live less conservative lives tend to be the ones that look that way, idk how else to say it 😂
The girl they kept showing on the right is also conservative. She would've said the same thing
@traxagenda3445 idk if you're responding to me, but im the only one who brought up ideologies, but I also said it in a way where I was clearly saying everyone isn't the same, so you'd always have people who seem like they're on the left or right with opposite views. Only sheep fully agree with the ideals of a party or views media and people attribute to a party.. so basically I'm confused if you're talking to me lol
Yup
💯 PERCENT CORRECT! " WHAT YOU NEED"
She has a father. Plain and simple.
She’s not only the prettiest, she’s also the most well-balanced & mentally stable. That’s woman is a KEEPER!
she looks oldest too
That’s wild than women in there hate her and you can tell they do
After listening to her for 45 seconds...cmon man
Makes a change to see a beautiful woman, making sense on this show.
@@matthewscott4629don’t think many men listened to what she was saying but I was watching…
This woman grew up with an excellent father figure who must have loved her and raised her admirably.
Only because her boobs are below average.
Absolutely spot on love
She’s gorgeous on top of that. That’s what a 10 looks like folks.
shes old
@@JENKEN425 What are you, 12?
She is garbage.
@JENKEN425 only this woman aged like wine. The rest are just curd
@@JENKEN425 mature not old. You can tell she's aged gracefully and doesn't lie about her age by getting plastic surgery. Does her hair well and a tolerable amount of makeup. She dresses for her man and not like a hoe for everyone else
Brilliantly stated. This woman is true emotional maturity.
Well you know... she is an apprentice
I like how the girl next to her is wearing a night gown and she’s just over here looking 10x hotter in a plain tshirt
Her intelligence and empathy is what sets her apart and that is even more attractive
She's beautiful, but judging by what she said right here makes her that much more
attractive.
Nah other girl still hotter. We haven't even heard her opinion
"Nightgown"? It's a modestly cut dress with a crochet shawl over her shoulders 🤷♂️
White shirt is pretty.
Nightgown is hot.
So more than one guy? That's the problem.
Yes ma’am! You nailed it.
I think we would all be detter off if more PEOPLE, not just women, believed in this. Thank you for putting this up.
@kushhazard3109 lol bruh what?
He makes sense. Doesn't matter what kind of man you are, if you don't get chosen by her then there really is nothing you can do about it. We just have to deal with it. @@SpanishKitten
Read it until it makes sense. If you can read, it makes perfect sense.@@SpanishKitten
@@SpanishKittenit's hard to see until you see it.
👏👏👏
She is showing a lot of intelligence and you can tell her emotions are strong as well.
that was 100% amazing!
That's the truth - Old School Wisdom, surely a keeper
Actually, there's nothing non-feminist about her. What she wants is what most healthy women want.
Traditional woman are waaaay more sexy. You can tell.
And a healthy woman is not moving along modern feminsm standars.
@@lucasmerli263 Modern feminism is not actual feminism.
"most healthy women" doesnt equal "most women".
Its like saying "Most amputed people are missing a limb".
Yes exactly, nothing non feminist about her. Key word non. It's the red pilled ladies shouldn't expect much trope when they couldn't handle what actually being red-pilled is. Hint ,it's not a college degree, being a 40 hr + wage slave or lowering the standards men and women had for each other for thousands of years and saying those standards are asking too much, ladies.
Isn't it refreshing to see an intelligent woman speaking for a change !
These guys literally pick and choose who is on their podcast and they intentionally pick the ones who are not very clever most of the time because it is more entertaining and will always make the guys look much smarter.
@@vanhattfield8292 Actually it's making the dumb and stupid girls look even worse , when you see an articulate woman speaking !
Yo. As soon as she looked into the camera, my heart skipped a beat.
She spoke to me.
😮
Sad thing is the other girls are so caught up, they can’t even really hear what’s being said.
yep, they're all looking around clueless like some deer in front of a headlight. really sad.
"Caught up" in what?
How would you know man? In fact, what DO you know
@@WforBogarty'all are always so worried about controlling how girls act. It's not wonder y'all will never settle down
Kind and disciplined are two skills rarely found together in the common individual.
No, has nothing to do with ‘traditional’ but with a sufficient amount of working brain cells. That’s all what is required for an answer like this.
There’s a good reason why traditions remain in a strong, resilient culture.
True. Common sense isn’t common nowadays.
Yes it does have everything to do with ‘traditional’. People who live by traditional standards, values, way of thinking have a tendency towards keeping a sufficient amount of working brain cells working. They are not destroying them, wasting them, or atrophying those cells with nonsense, self destructive thought processes, and weak thinking. “I think therefore I am”, not I feel therefore I am. 🤔🏆
@spooderdoggy My inner circle and I are non traditional and we do none of that.
@@MarielleilonaLinthorst Great! There’s hope for you. The accusation/lie which the Left constantly pushes is that traditional also means identifying with every negative and destructive form of action, behavior, and mode of relationship from the past. The word conservative is its most basic meaning, devoid of modern partisan manipulation, is defined as conserving all that is considered good as recognized by nearly everyone. I am traditional and I hate racism, sexism, injustice, and mistreatment of any nature. I conserve only what is good. Change is good only if it brings on us what we all can know to be good.
You may be of a good heart as “non traditional” but many are not. When the vast majority of us can acknowledge something as good, and it is factually good, not just an opinion as good by ideology and preference, we can all be at peace over it. 🤔🇺🇸
"High level of integrity" is the best response. It also explains why she's single. Smh Finding such a person today is like finding a unicorn.
My father, two brothers, and husband all have high integrity.
I’ve got high integrity, but it’s more overpowered by my introverted-ness
Yeap
She was raised right and properly educated by intelligent folks with traditional values, and it shows.
This is the sort of thing that should be taught in school.
I'm sorry, but no. Values should be taught in the home, parents want to abdicate all of their responsibility to schools.
A school is a place to learn academics, not a place to be taught values.
@@matthewdennis1739The problem is that too many kids come from homes where they'll never get the opportunity to learn these values, so somewhere besides the home has to offer an alternative way of introducing and reinforcing good values.
Equally, there's a whole lot of people in this world who aren't academically inclined, and schools need to be offering them something besides a place for them to constantly fail until they leave as adults with not only sub par academic achievements, but no discernable life skills or useful values.
@@lollylou22 Agreed on offering more trade skill opportunities. Also agreed on a basic level the school needs to provide basic values for those who don't have parents teaching them at home, but that's just a band aid. We need to address the issue at its root.
I want someone who is kind but not nice . Which means she wants a bad boy stupid.
@@matthewdennis1739There is nothing wrong with both. In fact, even when you’re not actively being taught values, you should be learning them based on the experiences you have with all sorts of different people. My parents are wonderful, but I’ve learned much more about life outside of my parents rearing. It is entirely up to you after a certain point to learn what your values are and every experience plays into that.
Just her non-usage of “like” for every other word is legendary🏆
She used "like" literally only one time in this clip.
Yes I noticed that. Also, there was the added bonus of her not having green or purple hair, tatoos, or a metal bolt through her nose...and she didn't say ' literally ' even once.
This, along with her other attributes, raises her pretty much to level of an angel on earth 😊
@@celticgold4028 Also mid-to normal nail length and color. Not those ridiculous parrot length claw nails with monkey paint on them.
She doesn't want you. Stop commenting like this just to signal inflated value
Omg. I was like, literally just thinking the same thing
This is 100% the best, honest & understanding answer I have ever heard on these shorts. As long as anotger guy isn't filling the positions as "Confidant" that she spoke about when saying she didn't expect every socialideaology to be filled by one person isn't another Male (Personally, I wouldn't want her confidant to be another straight male... That puts the guy in a position where if he does have a crush & is lying to her ((100% would be the only reason for a straight guy to be friends with a married woman.)) he would constantly be hearing about any private problems you & your wife would be going through & trying to manipulate to sitution to end up driving a wedge between the married coupke & painting himself as a knight in shining armor.)
I would have no problems with her having all the homosexual guy friends... they don't bother me or give me that "in the wings, waiting" vibe that any straight guy friends do.
The key is looking for what you need, not what you want.
Some people struggle to tell the difference between the two, and often mistake what they want for what they need.
Straight away, she is many levels above the other girls there. A true woman.
Since not one of the others said a word, your premise is unproven.
You apparently haven't watched this guys channel before because the girls ALWAYS consist of Instagram influencers who post lewd pictures and Onlyfans "models" with one outlier who happened to be this lady. Rightnoff the baye you most certainly can make a judgment.@alexandercrichton3052
And what did the other women on this exact panel say? Bet you didn’t even watch.
Hopefully the other women are paying attention…. It’s good for women to learn from other women how to evolve into better women… get humble and put all cattiness aside 😊
She sounds like she went through some stuff and found the truth
I thought i was gonna watch someone DESTROY some feminist ideas. But she was just speaking like a healthy person lol
Very clickbait title
Same thing...
She's a keeper. Smart, beautiful and realistic, caring about the things that really matter.
She's an absolute SMOKE SHOW too... she needs a ring IMMEDIATELY
... just saying. "Smoke Show" is traditionally not a compliment. It really means a deception, aka a smoke screen.
But yeah, she is Hott😅
Nah her forehead is that of pennywise
@utliscarletaaron6287 dude you would piss your pants if you ever even seen her irl let alone talk to her. I would love to see what you look like lol
Relax. She's around a 7 looks wise. Her mentality though makes her a solid 10.
@@utliscarletaaron6287that’s bold coming from someone who doesn’t even post their face