Appalachian Woman interview-Ruby

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

Комментарии • 12 тыс.

  • @tylerburkhart4303
    @tylerburkhart4303 3 месяца назад +311

    This is my great aunt. And yes she’s still alive.

    • @believingtoday
      @believingtoday 3 месяца назад +15

      I came by to watch Ruby again. Love this interview so much. She is such an inspiration. Love hearing about her life. Loved hearing her sing about our Lord!. Blessings to you.

    • @pettynettie5514
      @pettynettie5514 3 месяца назад +17

      Please find time to sit with her and record her story. From the very beginning until now. Every time an elder dies, a library burns to the ground. You are very, VERY lucky to still have her - and her mind is razor sharp. Such a gift!!! May God bless and keep her for a couple more decades.

    • @tammymccord629
      @tammymccord629 3 месяца назад +4

      You are well blessed with such a wonderful aunt be sure to treasure her

    • @AndiNobles-fn7hz
      @AndiNobles-fn7hz 2 месяца назад +8

      I am doing a project for my anthropology class about this interview! My dad showed this one to me a couple years ago and as soon as I was assigned the project I knew I immediately wanted it to be about Ruby :)

    • @SoulSis_7
      @SoulSis_7 2 месяца назад +9

      I love her and I’m a black girl from Chicago. Please record her for those generations to come

  • @desirewhitefire
    @desirewhitefire 2 года назад +2411

    At the time of this interview, this 87 year old lady was still driving a semi truck. I don't think many people have caught she's a truck driver along with supporting rental properties and her own farm. She's put generations of her family through school while living in one of the most impoverished areas of the US.
    She's a perfect example of not lying down and letting the world beat you down.

    • @Susie98052
      @Susie98052 2 года назад +206

      I'm ashamed of myself. She does more by 9am than I get done in a week! Starting tomorrow, I'll be drinking a cup of gelatin and singing amazing Grace

    • @kimberlynielsen6485
      @kimberlynielsen6485 2 года назад +89

      My grandmother was from Appalachian. 11 kids 5 orphans sold moonshine , gardens, chickens to take care of her family. She's my hero!

    • @JustBabyGril
      @JustBabyGril 2 года назад +57

      She's amazing! I love how she scoffed when Mark asked if she wore glasses LOL

    • @ANCHOREDINCHRISTFOREVER
      @ANCHOREDINCHRISTFOREVER 2 года назад +23

      I'm ust wondering: What makes you not "think many people have caught..." what you were able to catch, from watching the exact same interview, of this good natured, industrious Christian woman?

    • @debbieelmore7431
      @debbieelmore7431 2 года назад +11

      Amen

  • @GoGirl311
    @GoGirl311 2 года назад +2062

    She is literally the core of history that no one teaches or talks about in todays society. Shes worth more than coal or gold.

    • @florindalucero3236
      @florindalucero3236 2 года назад +71

      Her story needs to be in the Library of Congress, I'm not kidding, someone from Story Corps needs to contact her.

    • @fludderkiddie
      @fludderkiddie 2 года назад +64

      Amen.
      I know ppl like this. My gram is like this. She's 96 and just got herself a new John Deere tractor so she can mow the giant lawn.

    • @usmc_6976
      @usmc_6976 2 года назад +43

      Right❤️I literally just want to hangout and hear all her stories ❤️

    • @fludderkiddie
      @fludderkiddie 2 года назад +8

      @@usmc_6976 same

    • @fiftiesandfabulous
      @fiftiesandfabulous 2 года назад +7

      Well said

  • @ianrjm969
    @ianrjm969 Год назад +108

    “I live it just like I want to. If you don’t, you’ve wasted the whole thing.” Wow, I was not expecting her to play the guitar and sing so fast and loud! Awesome lady.

    • @rhondaadkins3848
      @rhondaadkins3848 7 месяцев назад +3

      That was a powerful statement.

    • @paulaclark7989
      @paulaclark7989 6 месяцев назад +2

      Wisest words I’ve heard in a long time. Yes ma’am Ms Ruby, yes ma’am.

  • @vsetkoumiera7683
    @vsetkoumiera7683 3 года назад +2809

    Ms. Ruby has helped so so so many people, she’s kept a many of kids from starving to death. I have known Ms.Ruby for quite a while and I swear she has wings because she is a angel !!!

    • @amberrobinson13
      @amberrobinson13 3 года назад +79

      I would love to meet her ❤️

    • @jessica-fo5gn
      @jessica-fo5gn 3 года назад +60

      I believe you, she is a treat to listen to, I love her stories like I did my granny's.

    • @Tabitha-7
      @Tabitha-7 3 года назад +42

      Please how can we meet this beautiful soul🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @kelistratton5067
      @kelistratton5067 3 года назад +34

      I’d love to
      Meet her!

    • @yolandarobinson1990
      @yolandarobinson1990 3 года назад +46

      She's one of my favorites. I just love her beautiful spirit.

  • @christinah.8504
    @christinah.8504 4 года назад +776

    she's stoic. She doesn't waste time in the affairs of others. She lives her life for herself. Infinite respect.

    • @Peace-Love-Light
      @Peace-Love-Light 4 года назад +25

      She seems healthy, active, and bright. Hope to be in as good condition at 87 as she.

    • @nicke1903
      @nicke1903 4 года назад +17

      That's my kind of folks right there, it is my people here in The WNC Mtns my Grandmother's are the same way, I love this series I can relate so much to alot of em.

    • @simonaivancic528
      @simonaivancic528 4 года назад +18

      and for others..otherwise it would be selfish..she is great

    • @danielmota1095
      @danielmota1095 4 года назад +15

      Unbelievable person with good ethics

    • @ryangrapes9833
      @ryangrapes9833 4 года назад +8

      Ruby is amazing and an inspiration. Just love her.

  • @MarzannaMorana
    @MarzannaMorana 4 года назад +2444

    2 quotes from her "I don't fool with nothing that cause me to have regrets." & "If someone gets in my way I just go around them." She's the true definition of a Matriarch. It would be an honor to meet her 💞

    • @bettybiskuit798
      @bettybiskuit798 4 года назад +11

      ​@@clipclop7605 so mentioning the word Matriach is man hating?! lol

    • @The_A_Cast
      @The_A_Cast 4 года назад +8

      @@clipclop7605 Are you drunk? 🤦‍♂️

    • @The_A_Cast
      @The_A_Cast 4 года назад +31

      @Nurse Terra,
      Same here! Just watching her makes me smile!

    • @Thurston.Howell.the.3rd
      @Thurston.Howell.the.3rd 4 года назад +58

      'im as limber as a dish rag' was my favorite

    • @JohnSmith-bp1er
      @JohnSmith-bp1er 4 года назад +7

      Agreed. Going in the spring

  • @jachsmom1
    @jachsmom1 11 месяцев назад +34

    I’m from a neighboring county and my own grandmother had this same spirit and lived to be 97! She had the same values and lived “off the land” that she was born and raised. I attribute much of my common sense, values and knowledge to her. I see so much of my love for eastern Kentucky in this interview! She’s a jewel and obviously a blessing to many!

  • @abrielrobertsson4160
    @abrielrobertsson4160 2 года назад +535

    This woman is the definition of a badass. Forget all the celebrities talking nonsense without experiencing shit. This lady right here is an example of strength and perseverance for every young girl (and boy) out there.

    • @jeweltee69
      @jeweltee69 2 года назад +14

      Right? I 100% agree, she is confident without knowing there was anything else to be but confident.

    • @connievida4089
      @connievida4089 2 года назад +10

      God Bless her! OX

    • @luckycarebear9406
      @luckycarebear9406 Год назад

      Yup can u imagine if Kylie Jenner or the rest of them right taking a bath in the river
      Or raise and buttering their own food !
      They would be the first people that wouldn’t survive if the world went to shit
      They have no life skills

    • @willard6283
      @willard6283 Год назад +8

      Amen to that

    • @reginagaughan-kassery4575
      @reginagaughan-kassery4575 Год назад +9

      You really have to admire a woman so single minded as Ruby, there is nothing shallow or superficial about her ...God bless her with a long life to live to be that 104 years as her ancestors lived.

  • @stringchz
    @stringchz 2 года назад +629

    As someone who lives in the Appalachian area, I can say that 90% of our old Appalachian women are like this. They really are a treasure and I don't think many people appreciate them.

    • @srbinsajuga3326
      @srbinsajuga3326 2 года назад

      And the young girls are all tattooed and drugged up by 15. Let's see what the future holds.

    • @nastypupp
      @nastypupp 2 года назад +20

      I appreciate them. This is so wonderful to see this video.
      These old women are a national treasure. Good someone is saving their knowledge & stories.

    • @rroadmap
      @rroadmap 2 года назад +20

      She's great! I love her optimism and her no-nonsense attitude! Rather than complain about the struggles of life, she's looking at the blessings and thanking and praising God for them.

    • @Mr60minor
      @Mr60minor 2 года назад +14

      I APPRECIATE HER. STRONG. RESILIENT. INCREDIBLE!! KNOWS WHAT IS VALUABLE.

    • @lucibloom5966
      @lucibloom5966 2 года назад +14

      That’s a shame they aren’t appreciated, that’s sad! Appalachian history and culture are so original and extreme in some ways.
      I’m from Australia and love learning about anything Appalachian!

  • @robreichhartz5771
    @robreichhartz5771 2 года назад +350

    "Just an old time woman." "Limber as a dish rag." This gal's amazing; a pure gem and a true inspiration.

    • @wlhansen2068
      @wlhansen2068 2 года назад +6

      Definitely refreshing to see this lovely woman talk

    • @wlhansen2068
      @wlhansen2068 2 года назад +9

      I could listen to her for hours.What a great attitude and she did a great job on her singing guitar playing 😮

    • @shierocshieroc3735
      @shierocshieroc3735 2 года назад +5

      She is such a bright spot.

    • @mariagonzalez4136
      @mariagonzalez4136 2 года назад +6

      What an inspiration. Ruby should right a book and call it "Life of an Appalachian woman" I would buy it in a heartbeat.

    • @tamararutland-mills9530
      @tamararutland-mills9530 2 года назад +4

      @@mariagonzalez4136 She could make a pile of money on doing podcasts.

  • @markjordan8116
    @markjordan8116 Год назад +47

    Holly Hunter was at my wife's family reunion while preparing for her role in the movie Harlan County War. She was living with Ruby at the time, learning the dialect. Ruby is a wonderful lady; she loves everyone that she meets.

    • @atis9061
      @atis9061 11 месяцев назад +6

      Wow

  • @rinaatienza2554
    @rinaatienza2554 3 года назад +236

    About 500 acres, 5 generations, still helping send great grandkids to school by paying tuitions, grows/harvest, canning, beans stocks, can hear well, eyesight still good, no joint problems, still driving...oh man! 87 y.o. and still active more than the teenagers nowadays. Love love love stories like this.

    • @sunnyadams5842
      @sunnyadams5842 2 месяца назад +1

      IKR?? I wish the teenagers of today could go spend a week with people like her and find out what living is like!! I feel so sorry for the kids today...

  • @sherrybridges7936
    @sherrybridges7936 3 года назад +1153

    She is a national treasure, glad they filmed her so this can be preserved.

  • @cfn957
    @cfn957 Год назад +88

    This deserves way more views. This woman IS the example of how to live a long, satisfying life.

  • @DrannonMoore00
    @DrannonMoore00 2 года назад +410

    As a rural Kentuckian, I'm happy to see people being respectful and saying sweet things about this woman. Appalachia & the South are often mocked, stereotyped and ridiculed by people around the world so it's wholesome to see so many different people sharing their kind words.

    • @etienne426
      @etienne426 Год назад +33

      Agree 100%. I grew up in Appalachia and moved to cities after. I learned quickly that people mock, look down upon, and make fun of Applachian people. I'm glad this channel brings to light that some of these people are living happier, more wholesome lives than those who degrade them. This makes my soul happy!

    • @michaeldavy1586
      @michaeldavy1586 Год назад +15

      I hear that but often people attack what they don't understand or what they fear.Im fortunate that my parents taught me many moons ago to respect people that deserve respect,this woman has achieved more with her life than 5 generations of other families have and that is truly something to revere

    • @motherboard424
      @motherboard424 Год назад +4

      @@michaeldavy1586 I love your response. My upbringing wasn’t much different.

    • @lisaquigley-moon9583
      @lisaquigley-moon9583 Год назад +16

      The South is a wonderful place to grow up. Well before Wokeism

    • @motherboard424
      @motherboard424 Год назад

      @@lisaquigley-moon9583 everywhere, growing up pre-wokeism, was better. Wtf you taking about. Are you a genXer? Gtfo. Go live with parents again and learn respect.

  • @kristofferbjork8331
    @kristofferbjork8331 4 года назад +860

    This is the face of a person that lived her life just the way she wanted it. Gives me peace just listening to her for some reason.

    • @antonioperalez8808
      @antonioperalez8808 4 года назад +27

      I agree with you . It gave me piece listening to her talk and I even prayed about the Lord helping me get closer to him

    • @americanstrongg1289
      @americanstrongg1289 4 года назад +17

      Me too! Can’t agree more! Cutest lil gram ever!

    • @ShadowOfMachines
      @ShadowOfMachines 4 года назад +17

      She's got a voice with a strong force of will behind it. Still healthy, works hard still by the sound of it.

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +10

      Amen,Amen,Amen,God bless you💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

    • @deidracalvert2738
      @deidracalvert2738 4 года назад +15

      I could listen to her for hours on end. What a wonderful woman.♥️

  • @rickyhadley5296
    @rickyhadley5296 4 года назад +424

    She’s way smarter than most people. Has a business, plays an instrument and grows her food. I love her lol

  • @kath6643
    @kath6643 Год назад +161

    I love Ruby! Her mind is sharp, she’s strong and healthy, proof that raising and growing your own food and breathing mountain air is the best medicine. God bless her and her family. ❤

  • @ajones68
    @ajones68 3 года назад +899

    Anyone that criticizes mountain folk should take this lady as an example. She is hard working, and its graced her with amazing longevity.

    • @emilyincasper4434
      @emilyincasper4434 3 года назад +17

      I am absolutely fascinated with appalachian life and culture.

    • @azurephoenix9546
      @azurephoenix9546 3 года назад +34

      I loved growing up in the Appalachian mountains. It's a hard life, but it'll keep you strong and healthy. The community bonds run very deep and they stay strong. I could go back there today and probably everyone would remember me from 30 years ago, and they'd remember the names of every one of my babies. I still remember all of them, too. It's a life that's built on strong bonds and kinsmanship. If your neighbor needed food, you gave it. If they needed fire wood or coal, you went around collecting it for them, especially if they were elderly bc those are our living ancestors. Everything we will build in our lives will be built upon their sacrifices for us, so they will always get our respect and consideration first.
      It's a very different value system than most people have today.

    • @larrym.johnson9219
      @larrym.johnson9219 3 года назад +13

      @@azurephoenix9546 Stand proud do not take a back seat to any one be Appalachian.

    • @Kenlydford
      @Kenlydford 3 года назад +1

      @@larrym.johnson9219 I love that saying.

    • @TerryYoungOutdoors
      @TerryYoungOutdoors 3 года назад +17

      These people are some of the hardest working, most God fearing and genuine people on this earth. Big city folks could learn from them.

  • @heathercochran6514
    @heathercochran6514 2 года назад +218

    Being born and raised in Harlan County Kentucky I can tell you Miss Ruby is the norm of the type of older women here. I’m thankful to you for showing the “real” Appalachia! We’re definitely not all dumb backwoods inbreds like a lot of Hollywood likes to make us out to be. This is the norm here…not the usual stereotype. We may talk differently and live more simple lives, but we are a strong , god fearing, family oriented people. I’m proud to be from Appalachia ❤️

    • @kagyu1
      @kagyu1 Год назад +8

      Years ago I fell in love with a girl from Kentucky whose grandfather was a WW2 hero, her whole family were smart and educated ( some educators). People look down on them because of the accent , it’s dumb. They were smart , sweet people. Didn’t work out between us , but she opened my eyes.

    • @LukeC__Biggest_Fan_MelBthatsME
      @LukeC__Biggest_Fan_MelBthatsME Год назад +3

      I grew up in Whitetop, VA but moved to North Carolina at 18…….I am extremely proud of where I’m from, I speak a very country accent and I get made fun of all the time and I just laugh it off……ppl just don’t understand what’s it’s like to grew up where there were farms and my Mom raised gardens that were so big, she canned and we had good ole’ sausage and we could make the best gravy around with it, green beans (pink tip, if anyone has heard of them, but they make the best beans), jellies and jams and pumpkin pies with homemade pie crust, my granny and my Mom were both terrific cooks…….we called biscuits “catheads”……I have no idea how that came about but I’ve heard it all of my life. My granny taught my Mom so much and Mom done her best to teach it to my sisters and I, I remember granny and Mom saying things like “if you don’t listen you will feel” “a stitch in time saves nine”……haha I remember my granny called kids that weren’t minding hulick (probably way off on the spelling lol) she also said Hethrin (probably spelled wrong too lol…..I didn’t say I could spell em just that I heard them growing up) so many words I heard my granny say, granny didn’t care to whip ya butt when you were bad and my parents done the same and I appreciate every whipping I got and probably needed more lol…….kids nowadays need a good butt whipping every once in a while and they wouldn’t be spoiled brats lol……oh I’m off on a tangent lol, just wanted to say I love this little Ruby, she’s a blessing✝️🎚️😇

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic2011
      @louieo.blevinsmusic2011 Год назад +3

      @@LukeC__Biggest_Fan_MelBthatsME the sweetest winds blow through the south. Was raised in Bridgeport, Ala then Macon, Ga/Savannah, Ga. She’s definitely a treasure. Best musicians are from Kentucky with Chris Knight, Tyler Childers, Sturgill. Just nasty bluegrass players.

    • @madbrowniac7871
      @madbrowniac7871 Год назад

      louieoblevins: "The sweetest winds blow through The South!" That's pure Country and Western Poetry right there.😇😭❤B.W.

    • @70mustang302
      @70mustang302 Год назад

      Love from North Carolina! 🇺🇸

  • @karianne1970
    @karianne1970 3 года назад +817

    I love this woman. She’s salt of the earth, and her smile is *glorious.* She sent her kids to college, plays guitar, and she has a spirit that’s irrepressible. She’s *amazing.* When I grow up I want to be this interesting. (I’m 51)

    • @constant_change72
      @constant_change72 3 года назад +19

      Same....im 49 and she's younger than i am.

    • @ladonnagaither2279
      @ladonnagaither2279 3 года назад +8

      Yes! I loved her story too!!

    • @thepameed
      @thepameed 3 года назад +5

      Ì love her so much she is just like my folks

    • @bettymaxie9343
      @bettymaxie9343 3 года назад

      U

    • @vandellaboyce8164
      @vandellaboyce8164 3 года назад +10

      I grow up in the same place and was born in harlan co hospital these are pioneers some of the nicest folks you'll ever meet I miss my little home town of lynch Kentucky

  • @Ldub0302
    @Ldub0302 Год назад +121

    She made my whole day! People judge this community so harshly, but every time I watch the old folks talk…I realized I missed out on so much. Bless her sweet soul. I wish her continued good health & prosperity!❤

    • @thefamily2707
      @thefamily2707 Год назад

      Only liberals judge these people and truth is when the shite hits the fan soon those people will be begging for these people to help them.

    • @Ned88Man
      @Ned88Man Год назад +1

      People judge what they don’t know

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl 10 месяцев назад +1

      Me too.
      She is a wonderful lady..🌻

  • @darlenedrivera165
    @darlenedrivera165 3 года назад +331

    I am from eastern Kentucky, plenty of folks like this...very kind hard working people. We are all not ignorant, nor incestuous.

    • @kadeelacayo4806
      @kadeelacayo4806 3 года назад +18

      No one thinks that Kentucky is only full of ignorant incestuous folks. It’s just more common in the backwoods areas , and that’s facts. Literally no one thinks that it’s all of you

    • @darlenedrivera165
      @darlenedrivera165 3 года назад +5

      @@kadeelacayo4806 😘thank you

    • @Ryan-qc3ku
      @Ryan-qc3ku 3 года назад +4

      Ky represent! Proud to live here even though I wasn't born here. Appalachia is beautiful, but I'll stay in central KY over Eastern, but that's just me.

    • @militzamadrid462
      @militzamadrid462 3 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️😵

    • @dondobbs9302
      @dondobbs9302 3 года назад +8

      The elite in the city are ignorant and incestuous too, look at NYC's former mayor.

  • @samstallard6059
    @samstallard6059 3 года назад +1089

    Ruby was my grandmother through marriage for years ◡̈ She is such an inspiration and an amazing woman. I remember building a deck at one of her houses at 10 years old and chasing hogs and goats around 😂! So glad I’ve found this interview! It brings back so many good memories

    • @christinapusztay2193
      @christinapusztay2193 3 года назад +10

      You say was, has Ruby died?

    • @samstallard6059
      @samstallard6059 3 года назад +32

      @@christinapusztay2193 no

    • @mombradshaw5528
      @mombradshaw5528 3 года назад +34

      I'm from East TN mountains and watching this makes me so homesick..

    • @michaelmitchell5909
      @michaelmitchell5909 3 года назад +7

      Very cool!....great story

    • @Any-Okra
      @Any-Okra 3 года назад +49

      @@mombradshaw5528 I live in Russel Co Va. I love Ruby. She reminds me of my mamaw , I do love these mountains and my roots , Ruby is the poster image of a true salt of the earth woman

  • @terio818
    @terio818 3 года назад +172

    “I lived my life the way I wanted to. If you don’t, you just wasted the whole thing.” I am gobsmacked by this wisdom.

  • @BelleTolles
    @BelleTolles Год назад +21

    If your eyes were dry when she was singing, I'm not sure you have a soul. She has that beautiful old timey voice I'm familiar with. And wow, the passion she played and sang with!! You go girl! 💓. My favorite line was "you get in my way I go around you and just keep goin'. ". She's something.

  • @Bear-nu8xm
    @Bear-nu8xm 4 года назад +172

    She is like a 30 year-old woman with 85 year-old skin on her. She seems so full of life still. This lady is great!

  • @michaelhaile6371
    @michaelhaile6371 4 года назад +461

    Her spirit reminds me of my grandmother. She was African American and Cherokee from the hills of Tennessee. She lived to be 89. I miss her

    • @mindmy609
      @mindmy609 4 года назад +11

      Yeah my grandma was from. East TN Cherokee

    • @MsSylvia45
      @MsSylvia45 4 года назад +11

      Yes I’m in TN and such beautiful places here

    • @whitmichelletv
      @whitmichelletv 4 года назад +8

      I’m from Tennessee. I miss it. Beautiful state.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 4 года назад +9

      With that mix, I bet she was a beautiful woman.

    • @StilettoCutsQuick.
      @StilettoCutsQuick. 4 года назад +6

      Michael Haile how funny, she reminds me of my Grandmother who was Cherokee and from Arkansas via Alabama. I miss her so much.

  • @PSBartlett
    @PSBartlett 4 года назад +381

    Someone needs to write a book or make a movie about her life with her narrating it. No one could tell her story better than her. Incredible woman!

    • @ScaredShiftless91
      @ScaredShiftless91 4 года назад +11

      Definitely! Her and alot of these people could teach the rest of us some priceless life lessons! Great story for sure!

    • @amandabrook5089
      @amandabrook5089 4 года назад +3

      I would love a movie about her

    • @Thefearmongrels
      @Thefearmongrels 4 года назад +1

      None of you people actually know her. She was the basis for a Holy Hunter film.

    • @amandabrook5089
      @amandabrook5089 4 года назад +7

      @@Thefearmongrels obviously don't know any more then what we have found here. That's why I'm interested in a film so I can know more. No need to be a jerk

    • @Thefearmongrels
      @Thefearmongrels 4 года назад +2

      I apologize if I came off as a jerk, but Ruby has many faults. She once emptied her pistol at me because she mistakenly thought I was shooting her pigs. She has started many problems with the locals. I however still like her and get along with her quite well.
      Most of the interview is false. She is not very honest. Sorry if I came off rude.

  • @societaldecay
    @societaldecay 8 месяцев назад +11

    Ruby reminds me of my grandma. My grandma was an Oakie, married my grandpa at the age of 15 and popped out 11 kids. She passed away in the early 2000's at the age of 86. Loved listening to her!

  • @MrBigMac-IN
    @MrBigMac-IN 4 года назад +2114

    Considering the absolutely staggering amount of quality interviews and content on this channel - what I'm about to say carries some serious weight. This was honestly one of the best, and quite possibly THE best, interview that I have ever seen on SWU. This woman is the epitome of the soul in Appalachia. This woman is true American grit, through and through. Thank you for sharing your stories and your life with us, Ruby. You are a wonderful woman, and it was an honor as well as a pleasure getting to know you.

    • @inthemilkroom4542
      @inthemilkroom4542 4 года назад +40

      Agree 1000%!!

    • @lisalamorey3453
      @lisalamorey3453 4 года назад +28

      Amen!

    • @judyamyx7946
      @judyamyx7946 4 года назад +33

      I agree. In a lot of ways she reminded me of my grandmother who lived to be 96. She had 10 siblings and every one of them lived to be in their late 80s or early 90s. Her dad lived to be 99. Strong people. My dad only made it to 70 (he had cancer) but his sister lived to be 88.

    • @retiredfirecaptain7819
      @retiredfirecaptain7819 4 года назад +14

      Amen

    • @JohnSmith-bp1er
      @JohnSmith-bp1er 4 года назад +10

      Sweet

  • @lilaworley8935
    @lilaworley8935 4 года назад +794

    "I'm as limber as a dishrag"
    Oh my God this woman is adorable. 😂🥰

    • @mgansworth78
      @mgansworth78 4 года назад +16

      Wasn't that adorable?! Never heard that one before 😂

    • @elaynewrightberman2336
      @elaynewrightberman2336 4 года назад +4

      🤣🤣👊

    • @lindacaudill3043
      @lindacaudill3043 4 года назад +13

      I grew up in eastern mountains Perry Hazard Kentucky an Breathitt Jackson Kentucky I still say this plus I say like making homemade soup I say I put everthing in my soup but the dishrag lol.

    • @shortyshark1
      @shortyshark1 4 года назад +2

      I will be using this in the future 😆👍

    • @NatureNymph46
      @NatureNymph46 3 года назад +2

      I'm from Mississippi. We use the term "limp as a dishrag."

  • @user-in7cx5lz9c
    @user-in7cx5lz9c 3 года назад +212

    I LOVE her. She is from a generation that is the backbone of this country. Tough as nails ,hardworking, happy and satisfied with life. Many could learn from her.

  • @mzm2644
    @mzm2644 Год назад +74

    Her singing got to my soul. I felt her pure joy 😭🥰

  • @rainedelaze708
    @rainedelaze708 3 года назад +367

    Mark- “What’s been the best time of your life?”
    Ruby- “Well I just wouldn’t know, it’s all been good!”
    Bless this woman 💜🤍

    • @AndreaWestlake306
      @AndreaWestlake306 2 года назад +1

      J Peterson could stand to listen to her!! Man!

  • @joerandolph3672
    @joerandolph3672 3 года назад +162

    " I don't fool with nothing that would cause me to regret" Wise words from a wise woman.

  • @jaythibodeau6961
    @jaythibodeau6961 3 года назад +240

    So many one liners... “Amazing Grace... just tides me over, and my jello”. 😂 “as limber as a dishrag..”. A simple life is a beautiful one. I love this woman.

    • @Kenlydford
      @Kenlydford 3 года назад +2

      Yea. She is a sweet woman.

  • @sarabenson4474
    @sarabenson4474 Год назад +25

    I come from a family of film makers and this is just about the most beautiful documentary I have ever seen. Ruby must have been a neck-snapping stunner in her day. Still absolutely gorgeous. The interview pulled on all of my heart strings in the best way. Thank you!

  • @bmoto0044
    @bmoto0044 3 года назад +226

    I left Appalachia for nearly 20 years. I was 17 and couldn’t wait to get out and live in the city. Every year I was away, the ache to return got stronger and stronger. There’s a reason my family has lived in this same county for more than 200 years. When I came back, it was like I was whole again. I live right up the road from Ruby in a neighboring county and I can’t see myself anywhere else. She is so much like my grandparents and the rest of my family, and I loved getting to listen to her wonderful stories. Thank you for this video.

    • @sharaemadewell9332
      @sharaemadewell9332 3 года назад +7

      You are blessed.

    • @bmoto0044
      @bmoto0044 3 года назад +4

      @@sharaemadewell9332 I truly feel that I am.

    • @luvtrump8658
      @luvtrump8658 3 года назад +5

      I am fascinated by Appalachian folks and the livelihoods there. You are lucky to have grown up there.
      As for myself, I grew up in WA State and I am having a hard time leaving this place(I think about moving every year to a sunnier place like FL, lol). WA will always be home to me. We all are a product of our environment.

  • @Rforsch1
    @Rforsch1 3 года назад +446

    I understand why you interview a lot of the hard cases in the world but it was really nice to see somebody that didn’t get molested or wasn’t on drugs and made the best out of life and had a good outlook on life. Thank you for doing this interview!

    • @deepsouth3319
      @deepsouth3319 2 года назад +5

      Amen!

    • @alireid5874
      @alireid5874 2 года назад +17

      I agree with the sentiment, but just a reminder not to assume the details of her life just because she didn't choose to share them. I certainly hope her life was a pleasant as she recounted.

    • @deepsouth3319
      @deepsouth3319 2 года назад +16

      @@alireid5874 She never tried to say that her life did not have problems, she just chose to face them head on and have a good attitude about it. She had problems just like everyone does, and she shared them, she just "took it on" and conquered them. She answered all his questions in an intelligent straight forward manner. Having a pleasant life does not mean it lacks problems, you just move through them and that is what she has done. God bless her for it! She sets a great example for everyone.

    • @alireid5874
      @alireid5874 2 года назад +9

      @@deepsouth3319 many people of the older generation didn't share about the abuse or trauma that they experienced, because they were trained not to. That doesn't mean that it didn't happen, though I'm not projecting that on her. I am saying that when people celebrate people who only say positive things, it discourages people from speaking their truth, and discussing the difficult things that they experienced.

    • @deepsouth3319
      @deepsouth3319 2 года назад +5

      @@alireid5874 This particular RUclips site is called "Soft White Underbelly" it is "Ripe" with all kinds of horror stories and some from older people. So what you are stating is not true, yet, you chose a positive story like this to make your cynical statements. To me, that says a lot about you. It would do you good to watch this interview again and try applying some of her philosophy to your own life.

  • @sarahblack1632
    @sarahblack1632 3 года назад +182

    I could listen to her for hours. “I don’t fool with anything that caused me regrets.” Wish I could say that.

  • @Silverfoxy50
    @Silverfoxy50 Год назад +37

    The way she rolled out that southern gospel was amazing!! 🙏🙏 Most enjoyable interview, Mark 💞

  • @karenrhodes9973
    @karenrhodes9973 2 года назад +52

    This woman should be a National Treasure. The guy asked her what the best part of her life was and she looked at him with a cheeky grin and told him ALL her life was the best part. Awesome.

  • @jclark1817
    @jclark1817 4 года назад +265

    About half way through the 11th minute she just started blowing my mind to pieces. “I live my life the way I want it, if you don’t do that you’ve wasted the whole thing.” “You’re not living your life if your doing what other people tell you to do, I’ve never let no one get in my way.” This woman is incredible.

    • @platinumemories
      @platinumemories 4 года назад +5

      Man I sure felt that one- deep.

    • @brennaeidenier6537
      @brennaeidenier6537 3 года назад +3

      Best part! I don't think I've taken anything to heart more ♥️

    • @aquariusmoon3901
      @aquariusmoon3901 3 года назад +3

      Goosebumps still...

    • @sicklytwiztd1152
      @sicklytwiztd1152 3 года назад +5

      Between the Blue Ridge mtns and my eastern band of Cherokee, i can vouch that THIS is exactly what 2020 taught me. Outspoken but introverted, tell the truth & learn somethin' long the way. Lost both my grandparents within 6 weeks of each other. Together almost 60 years. A true blessing to this generation contributing to raise me/mine.
      Spiritual and church is two different things and with a hs education, i can work circles around my grown kids and todays generation. Humans have just plain ol lazy. If everyone just minded their business, we'd be in alot better shape

    • @sicklytwiztd1152
      @sicklytwiztd1152 3 года назад +2

      Side note, my father in law had the EXACT same accident. Cut a true and crack his skull wide open. So hard it knocked him off of a tractor. He survived but it was insane.
      City folk dont understand that the air is different, the land is different, the feel is different and the people are different. Although in another state, we also dont take out huge loans in descend in debt. Those antiques, are currently still used here in sw Va.

  • @horsebytes
    @horsebytes 2 года назад +312

    She's leaving her property to her kids (all 5 generations, etc.) but she's going to make sure that they, "can't sell it or mortgage it" SMART woman! This is generational wealth! Also, I love that she took her teeth out to sing!

    • @bygraceonly182
      @bygraceonly182 2 года назад +1

      Not smart, they will be stuck with it paying taxes whether they can afford it or not.

    • @LeahHa8
      @LeahHa8 2 года назад +10

      I bet she’s leaving them a hefty amount in the bank, too.

    • @horsebytes
      @horsebytes 2 года назад +26

      @@bygraceonly182 Believe me, FIVE generations of her decendants can figure out how to pay the taxes (with no mortgage)! That's a true legacy! Imagine always having the family property in the family!

    • @athanksgivingbaby570
      @athanksgivingbaby570 2 года назад +23

      She has set up rentals on that property. That's passive income and definitely true generational wealth. That woman is a force of nature.

    • @Betsy.Ross76
      @Betsy.Ross76 2 года назад +17

      It's incredibly smart. The taxes there are next to nothing and you have a portion of the rent pay those. Smart people make their money work for them.

  • @Stopyhecap
    @Stopyhecap Год назад +52

    From the coal mines of Kentucky, through the Smokey Mountains of Tennessee, down through the Cumberland Plateau, and delta of Memphis and Mississippi. This amazing woman represents how rural southerners have lived and spoken in these hills, hollers, and bottoms for hundreds of years.

  • @Cian_
    @Cian_ 2 года назад +390

    She's absolutely spot on about her health being directly related to her diet. She eats zero processed food. She's eighty-seven and she is as nimble and her brain is healthier than many forty-year-olds I know.

  • @LisaV751
    @LisaV751 3 года назад +547

    If there’s a way to let her know, she just made a difference in my life.

    • @SisterShirley
      @SisterShirley 3 года назад +23

      Now that you mention it, I feel the same way. Ruby is so beautiful.

    • @phoenixrising1799
      @phoenixrising1799 3 года назад +15

      @Lisa so true, she's a BEAUTIFUL SOUL 😇⚘💜

    • @karenderuyter2568
      @karenderuyter2568 3 года назад +12

      Yes, me too....what a lovely thing to say.

    • @brandy195
      @brandy195 3 года назад +5

      Same 🥰

    • @caroldunn2306
      @caroldunn2306 3 года назад +15

      Yes I agree!
      If the world was full of people like her, we wouldn’t have any problems!💕🙏🏻💕

  • @Meg-bq2hy
    @Meg-bq2hy 4 года назад +468

    This woman is a diamond in the rough. She is absolutely fascinating. I am just in awe of her and her spirit. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @pinkjellybean1202
      @pinkjellybean1202 4 года назад +6

      Amen

    • @jasminflower3814
      @jasminflower3814 4 года назад +28

      She's no diamond in the rough. She has had 86 years to shine up her diamond to perfection.
      She shines brightly and has for decades.

    • @Only2TRU
      @Only2TRU 4 года назад +5

      I couldn't agree more with this comment as well as the other 2 top liked comments

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +3

      Amen,Amen,Amen

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +2

      @@jasminflower3814 Amen,Amen,Amen

  • @carrottop7802
    @carrottop7802 Год назад +15

    What a treasure she is!
    Hands down, my very favorite interview on this channel. I'm hoping for a follow up interview with Ruby!!!😊

  • @missandi
    @missandi 3 года назад +140

    This lady reminds me of my grandmother. She was born 1921. Shes passed now. She grew her food in gardens her whole life and until my grandpa passed they slaughtered cattle for meat and milked them for milk.. slaughtered hogs. They grew tabacco too. She was so old fashioned never wore pants unless she was working in the garden or with the animals. Went to church every Wednesday and Sunday. I use to love her stories and voice. Helped her break beans and can everything you can think of. She was in rural Tenneessee.. where I live now. She split her land between her 5 kids. Her name was Ruby too! This woman is amazing. I love this video so much! ❤God bless her. She's so sweet.❤

    • @larrym.johnson9219
      @larrym.johnson9219 3 года назад +3

      So was mine Sept 1921.

    • @Makaiisa
      @Makaiisa 3 года назад +4

      My Great-Grandma died in January 1995 at 100. She grew her own food, too. She still had smooth skin & clear blue eyes. They don't build them like this woman or my Grandma anymore. I so wish I could live like they did.

  • @jwallace_windowsbyrba9703
    @jwallace_windowsbyrba9703 3 года назад +156

    "I don't fool with anything that would cause me any regrets"
    What an awesome lady!!

  • @tiraljones7647
    @tiraljones7647 3 года назад +228

    She is very articulate, and her mind is still sharp. Just imagine all the stories she has. She is a living history book!

    • @ronjefferson4261
      @ronjefferson4261 3 года назад +1

      First thing I noticed. Amazing.

    • @txmetalhead82xk
      @txmetalhead82xk 3 года назад

      Amazing!

    • @prittyrican
      @prittyrican 2 года назад +1

      That's exactly why I chose this video above others. I knew she had some good stories.

    • @lisav9770
      @lisav9770 2 года назад

      I would love to hear all her stories

  • @kingofallthings8944
    @kingofallthings8944 16 дней назад +2

    This is by far my favorite video you ever posted. God is with and has Blessed Ms. Ruby. May HE continue to keep her in HIS hands, in HIS grace and favor. ❤

  • @browneyedgirl4637
    @browneyedgirl4637 4 года назад +69

    Everybody needs a Ruby in their life. The name fits her perfectly because she is a special gem.

  • @TaniaSeabock
    @TaniaSeabock 2 года назад +86

    She's almost 90 and speaks so quickly and her body language is so alert. What an amazing interview!

  • @TheCharlieSmithChannel
    @TheCharlieSmithChannel 4 года назад +307

    This absolutely made my day. It makes me feel so much better about the world to know that souls like Ruby exsist. Beautiful x

  • @andrewnardo1021
    @andrewnardo1021 Год назад +24

    My grandma is her age, still lives on the farm by herself. She does everything for herself and the doctors say she’ll make it to 100. It goes to show what keeping busy does for your longevity and health. Our running joke is she’s too mean to die, but we all know that it’s her keeping busy that has kept her going the way she has.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Год назад +3

      My grandfather always told me, he had seen tons of guys who didn't pick up a hobby or have anything to do in retirement. Those who didn't would die in 6 months or a few years. He said you HAVE TO have something to do, or you'll die young.

  • @marvindunn8980
    @marvindunn8980 4 года назад +201

    She’s a blessing. Her smile is infectious. God has been good to her with 5 generations of kids.

    • @melissasisney
      @melissasisney 4 года назад +4

      Amen, He sure has. My grandpa was a Dunn, his people were from around Carthage, Missouri, but we’re all from Oklahoma.

    • @peepindis
      @peepindis 3 года назад

      She was given a lot of gifts

  • @MontyGirl550
    @MontyGirl550 2 года назад +403

    More Ruby please! What an amazing woman, I didn’t want this interview to ever end.

    • @philobetto5106
      @philobetto5106 2 года назад +8

      Yes, what Rebecca said... more Ruby

    • @chuckdavis5300
      @chuckdavis5300 2 года назад +5

      And if you get her on again, have her share her recipes using the 50 lb. bag of beans!

    • @Youtubeiscool865
      @Youtubeiscool865 2 года назад +4

      She doesn’t have time to do a lot of interviews

    • @libertypastor1307
      @libertypastor1307 2 года назад +3

      I look forward to interviewing her in heaven!

    • @angelaantonelli1669
      @angelaantonelli1669 Год назад +2

      Yes! I love this woman ❤

  • @corybush7324
    @corybush7324 4 года назад +98

    I just find it totally heartbreaking that ANYONE would dislike this video

    • @leannbrewer2489
      @leannbrewer2489 4 года назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing...

    • @pixieheart9303
      @pixieheart9303 4 года назад +5

      Don't give them too much thought. It's an energy zapper

    • @Cabbage_math
      @Cabbage_math 4 года назад +6

      Because the haters live meaningless lives

    • @mjmj2860
      @mjmj2860 4 года назад +6

      Well I totally agree she's a good lady should never dislike someone like this. I believe those people are called trolls! 🌼🍄

    • @judyives1832
      @judyives1832 4 года назад +7

      I’m a blind person and I always comment when someone makes this observation. Because I have to use accessible technology to read posts, and have to swipe the screen, I often hit the dislike button. When I do, it’s very hard for me to find it and fix it. There are also people who have issues with their hands who are also having this issue. So please don’t assume that everyone who hits the “dislike” button is mean or a “hater”. There is a large population of disabled people who use technology that requires us to swipe or tap the screen in the area of the dislike button in order to have the comments read to us.
      My apologies for it. Please understand that as blind people, we have to work hard to stay connected and to have a voice in the world. We mean no disrespect.

  • @debbietaubler1410
    @debbietaubler1410 Год назад +9

    I'm truly at a loss for words and that doesn't happen often. I read all the comments and I feel exactly the way everyone does. I just want to hug her and tell her how much I admire her. Such a simple kind yet eloquent and graceful soul. I hope her family down the generations know what a gem she is.. I have never seen any of your interviews before , but will definitely look for more. Thank u both 💓

  • @jimbobintennessee5788
    @jimbobintennessee5788 4 года назад +115

    This is an incredible lady. She is smarter than 95% of the people on earth. She is so greatful for everything she has. She has worked hard everyday shes been alive. This country use to be full of people like this lady and thats why America became so great. People could learn so much from her.

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +2

      Amen,Amen,Amen,Amen,Amen💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +4

      I'm smiling, Thank you Jesus for these smiles, she's giving me and around the world.🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸, Thank yoy for sharing.

    • @claycolvin7475
      @claycolvin7475 4 года назад

      Your percentage may be a bit on the low side just saying...

    • @debbiepakzaban515
      @debbiepakzaban515 4 года назад +1

      She is incredible! The opposite of lazy! Wow!!! Love her!!!

    • @elizabethpeterson7165
      @elizabethpeterson7165 4 года назад

      Then there are leaches like Biden who never worked a real job outside government.... and has tried to cheat himself into the presidency. Total disgrace! No morals. No conscience. Only wants to take from the American people.

  • @michellediaz2615
    @michellediaz2615 4 года назад +63

    This is my family. Holly Hunter came and stayed with her to learn her ways. She used her personality to film the movie Harlan County War.

    • @emilyflotilla931
      @emilyflotilla931 4 года назад +5

      What a wonderful family!

    • @roneseelliott-lee7321
      @roneseelliott-lee7321 4 года назад +4

      You come from great stock if your are apart of her family. I want to move back to KY just to go see Mrs. Ruby!

  • @archimmes
    @archimmes 3 года назад +174

    Listening to her is like looking deep into past of this nation as it was in the 19th century. She is a national treasure!

    • @MrBigMac-IN
      @MrBigMac-IN 3 года назад +6

      She's true American grit. Through and through.

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 3 года назад +4

      She is very beautiful!

    • @Prezents
      @Prezents 3 года назад

      @@MrBigMac-IN you

    • @OneYeBilly
      @OneYeBilly 3 года назад

      She doesn't have to be. We can be national treasures as well

    • @brandonspencer3840
      @brandonspencer3840 3 года назад

      Believe it or not there are a ton of Ruby’s around but we are losing them quickly.

  • @barbaraketchum8287
    @barbaraketchum8287 9 месяцев назад +3

    The song at the end is everything!! She is so full of love for life and people. What a pure joy to watch her interview!!

  • @StephieBshort
    @StephieBshort 3 года назад +46

    This woman is the perfect example of a life well lived. She cares for herself and her family. She passes on generational wealth. She even cared for her uncle.

  • @lapetitevenus
    @lapetitevenus 4 года назад +437

    I feel like her growing all of her own produce and hunting her own meat is why she is still so healthy at 86.

  • @johnbaumgartner2406
    @johnbaumgartner2406 3 года назад +126

    The way she has taken it upon herself to financially support the young family members of the family is unbelievable!

  • @rickmeisch643
    @rickmeisch643 8 месяцев назад +3

    Ruby put her heart and soul into that Amazing Grace song! All of America should be listening to her for a visit and realize just what simple life is and what to hold of value in this world! You could take the words to the song she sang and use her name in the lyrics.

  • @snakebiteserenade9079
    @snakebiteserenade9079 2 года назад +275

    This might be the best thing I’ve seen on here in a long time. What an absolutely fascinating woman. I bet I could listen to her for hours and not get bored.

    • @julieshoemake5561
      @julieshoemake5561 2 года назад +2

      Same!!!

    • @robarnold6998
      @robarnold6998 2 года назад +2

      Snakebite Serenade! 👍👍👍Great name for a Rock band.

    • @texasstateofmind744
      @texasstateofmind744 2 года назад +2

      Totally agree! Every school should show her video to kids. What an inspiration.

  • @ThrifterPickerShipper
    @ThrifterPickerShipper 2 года назад +108

    I'm a city girl turned small town but when this interview was done, me at 57 years old, wanted to go stay with Ruby for a week or so and learn some things! What a wonderful woman!

  • @kurdishgirl6361
    @kurdishgirl6361 4 года назад +85

    She reminds me so much of my grandma, who was a traditional kurdish woman from the mountains, nature was holy to her, she had her farm, never went to school, had no electricity at home, raised 7 kids, never went to a doctor, made all her kids go to university and made it to 102 years. It’s beautiful to see how people from geographically completely different places and cultures might have more in common than we know. I would like to see the Appalachian Mountains on my next trip to the US...hopefully I’ll make it to Miami afterwards 🤣

    • @sandykeller7492
      @sandykeller7492 4 года назад +2

      Bless this beautiful lady! To be so poor, work day and night and so happy and content

    • @AlmazB
      @AlmazB 4 года назад +3

      Kurdish food is awesome.

    • @marylougeorge9890
      @marylougeorge9890 4 года назад +8

      @@sandykeller7492 She's not poor. She just sent $4000 to pay for grandson's truck driving school & is on to saving for the next one. Sounds like every financial opportunity that came her way, she took.

    • @juliettezea9507
      @juliettezea9507 4 года назад

      Wow and I’ve tried hard in college and education and can’t get a man

    • @sandykeller7492
      @sandykeller7492 4 года назад

      @@marylougeorge9890 I totally had forgot she paid the four thousand. I know I wished to get around like her.

  • @morobl350
    @morobl350 Год назад +4

    I started growing and putting up my own food when my husband was trying to get on the list for a transplant. Ruby is right. my health has never been better. Saved my husbands life.

  • @kathifuller5332
    @kathifuller5332 2 года назад +114

    Ruby's accent is EXACTLY like my mom's. When she said "I just love those little children," I felt like she was sitting here in this room with me. Mom was born in 1932 in rural Tennessee and passed away in February. I miss her so much and Ruby brought her right back to me 💔

    • @MEJ48386
      @MEJ48386 2 года назад +1

      Blessings to you, it’s so hard to loose your Mom! Remember she’s physically gone but her spirit is with you every minute of everyday! She’ll hear you ❤️

    • @MomMom4Cubs
      @MomMom4Cubs 2 года назад

      I'm sorry for your loss!
      She's still in your heart, always will be. You ain't gotta miss her, because you can visit with her anytime you want.

    • @bthalsey5943
      @bthalsey5943 2 года назад

      I’m sorry

    • @Anonymous-km5pj
      @Anonymous-km5pj 2 года назад

      amen and God bless

  • @jengeesh
    @jengeesh 3 года назад +174

    Losing a baby is a soul changing thing. I was so touched when she said she had 5 children but when she was saying what job her children did she named 2 jobs said one was killed at 18 she lost 2 as babies at birth. Later she said about regrets it’s sad when u lose a baby or something and don’t get to know them. 😭even at her age u see the hurt when she’s talking about her babies. I lost one baby and it’s been a long time ago 19 years I still remember and grieve. This is a incredible women bless her and her family she’s got great genetics 🧬 I truly enjoyed her spirt what a beautiful lady

    • @jbailey1898
      @jbailey1898 3 года назад +13

      Didn't you love that? It told the secret of a mother's heart when her mouth said she had 3 children, but her hand said 5. Those 2 she lost at birth are in her heart.

    • @LAVirgo67
      @LAVirgo67 3 года назад +11

      My mom lost a baby girl when she was 1 year old. My mom thought of her often even though 60 years had passed. You never forget those babies.

  • @ashleyjames3568
    @ashleyjames3568 3 года назад +63

    “I’m just as limber as a dish rag..” 💕 this has been my FAVORITE INTERVIEW BY FAR! (He said “ & just as cute as can be..” I AGREE!)

  • @alexisjackson1124
    @alexisjackson1124 4 года назад +703

    “I never let anyone get in my way. They get in my way, I go around them.”
    Yes Ms. Ruby. Yes.

  • @vicb2266
    @vicb2266 Год назад +10

    I could listen to her talk for hours! What I wouldn't give to have a cup of tea with this lady! What a life she has lived.
    Bless her heart.

  • @TDeezyDoesIt
    @TDeezyDoesIt 3 года назад +103

    These Appalachian interviews are absolutely amazing. This woman is the best looking 87 year old I've ever seen! Smart as a whip. Incredible woman. Love these!!!

  • @Kata_the_cat_lady
    @Kata_the_cat_lady 3 года назад +162

    "My family usually lives to be 104 or five" - wow!! One of the best and most positive interviews! You can see by her eyes how strong and inteligent she is. Reminded me how I should be grateful for simple things life gave me!

    • @magesalmanac6424
      @magesalmanac6424 3 года назад +7

      I love how casually she mentioned that too! Yeah no big deal, usually we live past 100.

  • @chaddy1969
    @chaddy1969 4 года назад +115

    It's been a real shitty year for a lot of people and anyone feeling the strain just needs to watch this.
    Ruby's a walking, talking cure for anybody on a downer. Amazing woman.

  • @bobking39
    @bobking39 Год назад +7

    it's been 10 min and i'm still dazed. she's inspirational. i will look at life differently. thank you Ruby

  • @ilurker3033
    @ilurker3033 3 года назад +74

    My grandmother grew up where this lady did. She lived to be 103 years old and passed three years ago. I know she had a rough life. She worked hard until she was in her early 90’s. She was a wonderful lady!

    • @Regina0964
      @Regina0964 3 года назад +1

      ❤️🙏❤️ Bless your Grandmother and I'm glad she lived a wonderful life 103 wow that's great, even though I'm sure she was getting tired. But now she's with the Angels and keeping things together up in Heaven.. what a blessing .

    • @irishladyjewelie
      @irishladyjewelie 3 года назад +4

      My granny lived in Manchester, Ky and she lived the same way. She was putting new tin on her roof in her eighties. Unbelievably she only lived to be 91.

    • @Regina0964
      @Regina0964 3 года назад +2

      @@irishladyjewelie ❤️

    • @militzamadrid462
      @militzamadrid462 3 года назад +1

      ...my graother crooked her lady dinner the same day she died, she as the good lord to take her while on her feet. She was 92.

  • @lorimollette3970
    @lorimollette3970 4 года назад +83

    She sounds just like my momma and my grandma from West virginia!" My momma had that southern drawl. I miss her so much!" She was Scott Irish and Cherokee. I am one of 18 children of my mother. I have 7 brothers and 10 sister's. I grew up just like this lady. I wouldn't change a thing.

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +2

      God Bless you, beautiful big family. I'm the baby of 8, I'm 54 now, big family🌸🌸🌸

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад

      God Bless

    • @randybeard6040
      @randybeard6040 4 года назад +5

      America has such a Wonderful History--women like this Made this Country Great..

    • @annaclark2171
      @annaclark2171 4 года назад

      What was it like sharing a bathroom?

  • @yoshimilotus_kayleidoscope
    @yoshimilotus_kayleidoscope 4 года назад +173

    Omg her singing at the end just took it to a whole ‘nother level I was not expecting!!! 👏 so so good! this woman is such a pure amazing soul 💗

  • @sharonblac
    @sharonblac 11 месяцев назад +4

    She knows everything about being self sufficient. She would be a great teacher to the younger generation about fending for yourself and being independant. Ruby is a walking history book that people should respect and pay attention to!

  • @timpilcher2876
    @timpilcher2876 3 года назад +206

    The best interview ever. They're all fascinating, but this one is 100% positive and refreshing. She's incredible.

  • @aaronr1328
    @aaronr1328 4 года назад +203

    This women puts a smile on my face, and not many people can do that for me..

    • @williamhusseyjr1143
      @williamhusseyjr1143 4 года назад +7

      likewise... hard to find joy these days and this woman certainly did me in

    • @personofinterest8731
      @personofinterest8731 4 года назад +3

      Same here

    • @rochellekeels8466
      @rochellekeels8466 4 года назад +4

      Amen,Amen,Amen, God bless you.💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

    • @JT-mg1my
      @JT-mg1my 4 года назад +2

      Ditto!

    • @Mommaof3girlsAndaCatnamedGary
      @Mommaof3girlsAndaCatnamedGary 4 года назад +2

      Same here
      I sat here absolutely mesmerized by her with a smile on my face. Not too many ppl can do that.

  • @danielmeuler2877
    @danielmeuler2877 3 года назад +83

    This Women is a National Treasure. I don't know what else to say but I have nothing but the utmost respect for her.

  • @ashleyriggs7883
    @ashleyriggs7883 Год назад +10

    I don’t think I’ve ever smiled so much! What a sweet soul!

  • @justjane7838
    @justjane7838 2 года назад +82

    So glad you asked her to sing, "Amazing Grace!" Love her version. Powerful rather than sad. "How's that!" Wonderful Ruby!

    • @sharksport01
      @sharksport01 2 года назад

      I didnt understand why she took out her teeth to sing....until she started WAILING!!! ❤️

  • @46lurtz
    @46lurtz 4 года назад +411

    People like Ruby are the true wealth of America.

    • @313-v9k
      @313-v9k 4 года назад +9

      And they're mostly all Trump Supporters down there.

    • @stacywhaley9957
      @stacywhaley9957 4 года назад +1

      Amen♥️

    • @littlejoe2595
      @littlejoe2595 4 года назад +4

      I would add the "true health" of America. They don't need no Medicare4All down there. Just hard work and healthy food. No bacon or cheeseburger, just huckleberry and apple.

    • @ShydoodleO_o
      @ShydoodleO_o 4 года назад +5

      @@313-v9k idk why your making it political but since you are.. I’m actually from them area. I moved to Salt Lake City sometime ago but not everyone in my hometown are trump supporters. There are assholes but not all of us are like that.

    • @ShydoodleO_o
      @ShydoodleO_o 4 года назад

      @@littlejoe2595 Not everyone thinks like that there. Trust me. As in my other reply, there are trump supporting ass holes but not all of us think like that

  • @ericae6903
    @ericae6903 4 года назад +95

    I felt Mark's smile during this entire interview.

  • @lesissmilinglytryin1436
    @lesissmilinglytryin1436 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mrs. Ruby you are one in ten billion. I had an accident and I am paralyzed from the waist down. I have been feeling a little down lately. This was the video I needed to see right now. Your rendition of Amazing Grace swept me away and gave me some hope, In your interview you said that you hoped maybe one person would see this and it would make a difference in their lives. Well I see from the previous comments that you have had a HUGE impact on the world and I am one of those voices. I imagine you might be Order of the Evening Star. however, I agree that getting involved in building a strong family and community is so important. Thank you for sharing your story. Excellent interview Mark. I think she wanted to sit and talk with you a little while longer it was adorable.

  • @ambersamusements
    @ambersamusements 4 года назад +441

    She’s a good woman. Securing her land for future generations. Putting her family through college.

    • @JohnSmith-bp1er
      @JohnSmith-bp1er 4 года назад

      Help

    • @grammamarth6681
      @grammamarth6681 4 года назад +13

      @kiwii_bones "UFFDAH!" Her children, I betcha’! would NEVER speak about nor to their mother like you just have about yours. These good people take nothing for granted and are grateful for everything. Did you grow up with electricity, heat, plumbing, nice clothes and food? Maybe your mamma’s trying to teach you now, the lessons this woman has taught hers their whole lives. The question is will you, child, learn it?

    • @J9theExplorer
      @J9theExplorer 4 года назад +13

      @@grammamarth6681 sometimes people have very selfish parents. It’s good to call out people who don’t take care of their kids. Keep everyone honest. There are some real POS’ having kids you know...
      As much as you call out the good, also voice the issues. Don’t be delusional or one sided

    • @grammamarth6681
      @grammamarth6681 4 года назад +10

      @@J9theExplorer Can’t speak about/ to this person’s mother. No idea what she’s like. This person, however, showing such a great deal of disrespect for his own mother, warranted or not, shows only against him.
      Got a lousy mom, go make your point with her not You Tube and then go make your own way without her (like an adult), and suck it up. Ask this wise Appalachian lady what she’d do...

    • @J9theExplorer
      @J9theExplorer 4 года назад +4

      @@grammamarth6681 I imagine the person has addressed this with their parent as well as sharing anonymously on RUclips. maybe this isn’t the place for you to make your point? I welcome debate . It sounds like you might have trouble with your children? Maybe they have issues with the type of parent you are? Maybe they too voiced this and you thought they’re ungrateful? Maybe you’re projecting? I don’t know for sure but it seems like that.

  • @kayla.thehealingplace
    @kayla.thehealingplace 2 года назад +112

    I live in the Appalachians, my husband went to Berea High. The elderly people with that bright light and love are dying out, I cried off an on throughout this whole video, what a wonderful soul, I hope lives in this world for many years to come. And that was the most beautiful version of Amazing Grace I've ever heard , and I'm not even religious. (Am spiritual though). I just love Ruby, I bet she's an earth angel. What a beautiful beautiful life and culture. What a beautiful soul and person.

    • @kateturner1849
      @kateturner1849 2 года назад

      @Kayla Wright - how dangerous is it now in 2023? Are the city diseases of chemicals in the food and air, theft, rape and murder encroaching? Modern life may be easy - gadgets and switches and shops but it brings creeps, criminals, bad health and chaos. I'd love to hear about general safety where you are. 🌹

  • @urbanhippiechi4426
    @urbanhippiechi4426 2 года назад +185

    I rarely watch interviews all the way through. However this gem of a woman had me hooked the moment she started talking. So much grace, knowledge, wisdom, and heart. She definitely embodies her name ❤

  • @Stacey0619
    @Stacey0619 Год назад +13

    Mark- thank you! I can’t imagine the number of hours and stories filled with trauma and sadness you’ve endured. It is my hope that your time spent with sweet Ms. Ruby was as rewarding for you as it was for those of us watching. ❤