I understand your husband. Real men don't deal with ppl like that. My brother and I were raised by a man like your husband. In hindsight, our biological fathers were a non-factor. My step dad adopted us and still takes care of us (& his biological children) today even though we are well in our 30's. My mom is happy and thats what matters.❤❤❤
Rose, don’t you lose your husband fooling with those folks. If you all break up they will just be over there laughing at you. Any further dealings with them should be through the court only. As you get older, you will learn that there are some people in this world you cannot help. You have to leave those people where they are. Don’t drag them around with you.
I remember you taking that family with you...they seemed so nice and attentive. Wow....I'm sorry. I have trouble trusting people as it is...that would be the end for me. You have a beautiful family, don't let them ruin it. So sorry ❤
Go no contact. Let him be absent. It will be up to him at that point to make the effort to be in their lives which you already know he won’t do. Look up abandonment laws in your state. If it’s anything similar to the laws here, you can file for abandonment after 6 months of no contact and get full custodial rights and you can bring them wherever you want. In Minnesota the law states : Failure to have regular contact with your children or show interest in their wellbeing for 6 months without a good reason is considered abandonment and is grounds to terminate parental rights.
People need to realize that a Mother, Father, In-laws, etc CAN be toxic. And I'd drop EVERY ONE OF THEM. Toxicity destroys peace and love. DON'T allow it on your watch. You/we/us deserve the same love and light that we put out.
Thats sad! my youngest sons grandma was always close to me for 15 years and more until she died. She was always on my side not her toxic son. I called her mom, and we talked every day. My experience was completely different thank God. I loved that woman so much; she was the best thing that ever happened to me. When she passed away, I was so devastated! She never lied to me or tried to ruin my marriage; she was so happy for me that I found someone who loved her grandson so much. And she knew her son was a horrible father to her grandson. Unfortunately, my husband ended up passing away like 5 years ago. So, I'm so sorry that your kid's grandma is not good to you! Believe me, not every situation comes out bad with ex mother in laws! I was lucky enough to get a good grandma for my son! Rest her soul! Love- Jessica
Life is very unpredictable. Since Brett is not the biological or legally father and the biological father pays child support, if something happens and Rose is unavailable in some situations, I wonder what kind of authority Brett has. I understand Rose's anger but the world doesn't need to know how bad those boys' father is. She won't be able to stop them from having a relationship with him if that's what they want in the future.
@@larissalaflore7202 I agree, what does it help to mash and bash the children's biological father publically - is he doing that to her. There are 2 sides to a story and to downgrade his parents, where is the GRACE. She is precarious - opening statement "cultural differences" - this is not a black or white issue it is the issue of her not being able to show dignity in the face of difficulty. Honestly, I think she feel as if having a MAN of a different culture makes it all better. Perhaps, in some way, it may, but let's not disgrace their father in the process. What will they do or how will they feel when next they either see or speak to him. She is the bitter hurt one...baggage...she has not released or forgiven the father for what was done, it demonstrates that you have to practice what you preach. Do unto others as you would have them to do unto you... vengeance is not hers to take as she feels. My God show the man AND HIS FAMILY what you alleged he did not show you - RESPECT!! Lets be reminded she use to be a stripper even when she met Brett. We could all say she got with Brett because he could help her financially and encourage her to stop stripping her clothes and self-dignity. Money changes folk and for real the channel is borderline soft porn, she is always demoing what should be left to the imagination - WE GET IT YOU HAVE A HUSBAND NOW SHOW US WHAT ELSE "YOU" HAVE - time to unsubscribe! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have 2 sons and could never do this to the women that birth my grandchildren ❤️❤️I Love them both 2 pieces ❤️❤️I don’t care if they are together or not but thank God they are all on the same page🙏🏾🙏🏾I Love You Rose❤️❤️❤️
OMG I'm so sorry to hear this!!!! You and Brett are solid parents! You don't need to keep trying to force your ex and make it easier for him to be a better father. It's not in him. It shocked me to hear that they let that other boy beat up one of your precious sons and bully him into hiding it. They are evil and can't be trusted. I would file for sole custody and revoke the grandparent's rights just based on that alone. They are taking out their anger for you on him. As far as I see it, your ex and his family are not acting like family. Cut them off! You are the mom, you have your and his parents as the grandparents, & Brett is their dad!
Yes, I was able to go directly to the court and ask the judge to sign off on my kid's passports. I then took the paperwork to the post office that stated I'm the custodial parent and the courts give me permission to obtain passports for them without their fathers permission! Was so much easier to avoid his drama!
Read up on the dfcs requirements for filing child abandonment and neglect. . Try to file to have all rights restored to you, 100% legal and physical rights..
@@lifeventures6651The US is literally a melting pot. There is no necessity to leave the US. I know most of y’all have no clue regarding your heritage and those separate cultures ( let alone speaking those languages), but it’s on you to learn culture. Go find it.
Where as i agree with your opinion that he needs to be on your side at all times, you were right. After watching the drama with my brother in law and his ex over the kids to the point i got roped in schleping the kids back and forth because his ex couldn't behave long enough to just pick up or drop the boys off. Im extremely fed up with it at this point and I am exhausted being ropped into this trashy nonsense. I completely understand why one of his inside the head thoughts accidentally dripped out. There is a point where you just crack because its always the same nonsense and its lame and exhausting.
I have seen it so many times when the dad doesn’t want to take care of their kids when they are young or be apart of their life. And when the kids are grown, the missing BD want to be apart of their lives now and talk about how they turn out to be decent young men etc. Well, in this case all of the props will go to you Rose and your husband!! SHAQ stepdad raised him and even made a song about it.
Time to definitely let that go. Like you said if they want to see the boys and have a relationship then go to court. That goes for BD and grandparents. It’s time they step up without you and your husband trying to push or financially support it. Don’t let them disrupt your house. No ma’am ❤❤
Girl ur way more emotionally grown than ppl give u credit..the depths u took to do whats right by ur children, gave the BD respect he didn't deserve, pushed to morally be grown up about shit..my opinion; ur approach is exactly what I feel is morally right in life. Obviously by now u see that some ppl will just be ppl & there's nothing u can do. But also for Brett to really be a super supportive to u & ur sons is amazing. Him putting his foot down is him only looking out for u & the boys best interest & I don't like to assume but he might have done knowin u would still push continue to still invest more energy & time on a situation that's essentially be more of a let down than anything. Sometimes u dont have to necessarily cut ppl off off but definitely handle them in a differnt way. Just when u think ppl can't shock u, they will hands down do just that & top the last time. Hats off to both of u. Ur not only a role models for ur children but Rose 4 woman, Brett 4 men, yall as a couple. I feel like u guys really don't realize the magnitude of yalls morals, the way u carry urselfs, u show that raw side too..sorry to rant but ppl could use a few tips from u guys. Ur awesome ppl all around, & the greatest thing is yall are Tru Honest Real ass ppl..ur every move revolves around doing what's right persay. I have a quote & "It Ought to be Crystal Clear, What's Up,What's Down,What's Right, What's Wrong, What God Blesses & What He Does Not Bless" And yall are Blessed..Beyond. what u guys distill in ur children, shows very much & I pray that other kids learn from them what it means to be real men cuz honestly the boys aren't exactly hittin on that kind of love & dedication from a real man like Brett. Shit these days half these kids don't have mama nor a daddy. So sorry to keep writing & boosting u guys but this world needs more ppl like yall. Thanks for ALWAYS making my ass laugh BTW. MaDLuV from VA
Bitter BD is a real thing and it’s unfortunate cause their own pride and bitterness ruins their joy and makes them miss out on the benefits of raising amazing children
Girllll you have no idea how happy I am that I took my son and just moved away. He’ll never meet his dad or his dad’s side of family. They hate me because baby daddy made things up and told them about me they were stalking me threatening me while pregnant. They’ll never see or hear from us for as long as they all live. My life is very peaceful now. Let them believe and do what they want.
Talk with the boys and ask them how they feel about the situation and ask them what they want. They are old enough to tell you how they feel. And handle it with the courts. Please don't let this nonsense come between y'all. Y'all are a beautiful family.❤❤❤
The way you treat your current husband makes me wonder how you treated your first husband. You are very self-centered in THIS marriage & nothing would make me feel you weren’t the same with your first husband. You’re incredibly emotionally immature. If you’re immature NOW, I can only imagine how childish you were when you were younger. We are only hearing your side of the story & there are ALWAYS 2 sides to every story. I’m not listening to only what you have to say.
Does their bio dad still have rights? Would he be willing to relinquish them, so your hubby can adopt them? Just seems like so much trouble…if he doesn’t want to pay for his kids, he’s not interested in being a father.
were soooo frustrated bc nothing was ever ordered by courts.. so the dad doesn't call or talk to the boys but won't do that due to how his family would view him.. its so frustrating honestly..
@@AnimatedBlastexactly! His parents were the only ones from his side in their lives. (I think) I’m sad that rose isn’t really messing with them anymore… of course the mom gonna be loyal to her son first, any mom would be. Just gotta know not to trust her with certain ish, but i hope the boys can still have relationships with their grandparents because they seemed close , they used to go stay with them every summer.
And technically, his absence proves neglect. Not sure if she has legal custody of her boys, but I’m thinking this wouldn’t be a difficult situation if she did. Go to the courts, get legal custody and live your life. I don’t see what cultural differences have to do with this. A dusty is a dusty.
thank you for sharing your story. it’s reconfirming for me that i did the right thing but getting my abuse narcissistic demonic BD and his witch bitch out of my son’s life. I pray that they never come back. It would be more harm to my child and I. I would never force them in our life. I took him off child support just to get him out of our life, he tried to set me up and kill me and they were mistreating my son he’s only 1. I’m so sorry they did that to your son, THEY Will Reap What They Sow! Karma will be delivered to those evil ppl TenFold!! Justice will be served ♐️❤
Was this after you had his parents over and bought the mother the coach boots and jacket? You and Brett are winning I love yall family don't let those haters rent space in your head. Misery loves company
So glad you have a strong support system with your husband!!! I believe he didn't say anything initially to not escalate the situation. #stillwatersrundeep
2:06 This! Cause girl, I was sick for you when I saw this. All I could think about was how you took them on vacation, and how happy I was for yall. I hate this happened, but am SO glad God revealed to you who they are! He's a GOOD GOD! Let them loose, and live a FULL life!
Rose I’m side eyeing you girl because I know you’re not entertaining this foolishness for real. So I’m going to chop this story time to entertainment only. May GOD bless your union.
That's crazy. Thabks for sharing. Hopefully that situation gets better. But as those boys get older they'll rectify that situation. Eventually children begin to see whats going on.
What a shame! Here I thought it was so great that you all were able to go on a beautiful vacation in Hawaii. I thought that was the epitome of class on your part 🌹👏🏽🌹👏🏼🌹👏🏻🌹👏🌹👏🏿🌹👏🏾You don't need this negative ish in your happy life. Keep winning Rose, you have a beautiful family ❤❤❤All love & positive vibes from Queens, New York.
Sadly, I think it was somewhat ok until after Hawaii when shit hit the fan, esp when they had to get the kids home and such....his mother started to show her real feelings in choosing her son.
Yesss HEAVY on them being FAKE AF & their loyalty to their deadbeat sons. Even when they are SO WRONG !! Like wrong is wrong no matter WHO IT IS. Family, friends or not. And it’s not like we ask them to hate their sons or disown them or anything like that ! It’s just about speaking up fr what’s right, helping & showing empathy to us on the OTHERSIDE who have your grandchildren ! It’s soooo draining & exhausting to deal with. All of them. ‼️‼️💯💯
Rose no matter what your husband should always take up for you! No matter if you are a kind person, and sometimes give in to trying to make your kids grandmother relationship work. You have to deal with your baby daddy's mom till your kids are 18-year-old. So sometimes you will go through a period where you're not talking to her, and then sometimes you girls might get along. When your husband makes comments saying one minute you hate her and never want to see her again, and the next thing you're ok with her is not cool. You are a very kind person who just wants everyone to get along. I can tell you wear your heart on your sleeve. I know you want your boys to have a relationship with their grandma. So don't ever be spiteful towards your kid's grandma, don't go down to her level. Always be the bigger person. Before my husband passed away, he always supported me in anything I was doing. He kept his negative comments to himself, and always took up for me! So, stay strong Rose, and remind your husband you always need him in your corner! Love- Jessica
Don’t force it Rose give them stability. Emotional stability is very important for them to be able to become strong, healthy men. You are doing an awesome job and you have a wonderful husband.
@@anthonytaylor7928 why are you old bitter black males in her comment section ? Y'all are so obsessed with us. Y'all can NEVER compete with white men on any level. Go heal
She plays the victim a lot when it comes to their father. Once she was saying their grandma was the best now here we go… it’s tasteless and regardless of how she views them, they are a part of her sons and this will only hurt her sons in the long run. She has the same weird attitude towards Brett’s daughter. She likes drama, I stopped watching a while ago and this popped up but she’s still on the same thing. Life will humble her.
@@mekathemoneymagnet1015 Indeed. I stopped watching too, she's an absolute narcissist and not a nice person, hence no friends in real life! Life will definitely humble her! With exception of Naka and Dom, I watch black couples only now, black women that make me proud to be black and not embarrassed!
Hey rose, i remember when you took those people on the trip and brett purchase a expensive shoes and purse . I would leave it alone , you and your wonderful husband have really tried , went over and beyond. Leave it to god , do that which is necessary. Love peace and blessings to you rose , brett and to each of your families always and forever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I've been there. I let them show my daughter our differences as she gets older. I know who I am. They won't disturb not our child, nor myself's peace... Especially physically.
Baby girl it is so time for you to grow up and set boundaries, my niece's ex family called last week and requested 4 tickets to attend grandson graduation, my niece replied by simply hanging up😳😳😳
What! Beaten up and bloody face! Rose, I would be concerned for Rais and Raiden's safety while in their care. If they are telling your children to keep secrets from you; then that is grounds right there. They way the world is, I would not let them take my children because they obviously do not care for them on a parental level. I would not trust them to ensure they would be protected and safe. Something devasting could happen with those folks! Those children have a beautiful life with you and Brett as parents. I would not give them any power in this situation. I would be researching my rights and make this $hite happen! The boys clearly do not want to be with bio dad any more than the bio dad and stepmom want them there. Rose, I would bring the fire and burn it down! You are the ultimate mama bear and they have clearly taken you there. You are strong and they do not understand that all bets are off when it comes to protecting your babies. By the way, I agree with Brett about not sending the kids. I would just handle this without the drama which they would love. Personally, I would do my research and take action. Petition the court to get the passports and find out what needs to happen for parental rights to be relinquished if that is what needs to happen. Information is power in this case.
Ooooooooooooooo!!!!!😂😂😂😮😮😮😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Hilarious Rose!!!! Great story… Stay Strong and FOCUSED SIS!!! Your money and life story OVERALL IS PHENOMENAL!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Rose I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Don't worry you did and still do what you're supposed to do. After that they got to be left to their reprobate minds give it up to God and move on. I can't stand that mess they to much only jealousy makes no sense whatsoever. Keep your heads up and stay looking forward please and thank you.
As somebody who kind of went through this…my sons dad was absent for over a year. He then tried to come back in his life like nothing happened….NOPE! I went to a lawyer, told them the facts, and NC viewed him as an unfit parent. He couldn’t see him without my permission and on my terms.
In laws truly suck hon but I am so sorry they treated you like this way when you were always so kind and decent with them. My ex MIL tried to get me arrested, called CPS, harassed me at work, on and on. But I really am sorry for you having to go through this.
Listen from experience DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY AGAIN, for those people. They do not care about the boys at all. Its more of a game to them. I almost lost my marriage over my baby daddy and his family. Thank god i stopped and listened to what my husband was saying. But for a while it out a rift between us while they were all over there fine. Make them go to court. I know youre doing for the boys but its only gonna hurt them being around people who teach them lying to their mom is ok and no telling what else!
Your loyalty will always be to your kids. He's your ex husband. Not your baby daddy. So don't devalue yourself like that. But you know his parents felt some type of way when the boys said they were raised by Bret proudly😂
I grew up with my mom (BW) and bonus dad (WM). I can completely relate to your family and struggles you go through. I Love my dad just like any other and skin tone is the least of our worries all that matters is the love ❤ Wish I had a channel like yours to watch growing up!
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Bitter baby daddies always lie and say it's us. The real tea is, they can't stand to see u do better without them.
" THAT PART "
Exactly 💯💯
Yes ma’am
That part !!
Facts
Never let other people interrupt your marriage and peace
I understand your husband. Real men don't deal with ppl like that. My brother and I were raised by a man like your husband. In hindsight, our biological fathers were a non-factor. My step dad adopted us and still takes care of us (& his biological children) today even though we are well in our 30's. My mom is happy and thats what matters.❤❤❤
Maybe ur mom baby trapped him.
You've created a beautiful life with your husband & children. Leave that toxicity away from yall.
Master manipulator at work.
Be careful. This kind of turmoil between exes and kids breaks people up. For Brett to say what he did, he's already had enough.
Agreed if she wants to save her marriage she should if not already take time to listen to her husband
Rose, don’t you lose your husband fooling with those folks. If you all break up they will just be over there laughing at you. Any further dealings with them should be through the court only. As you get older, you will learn that there are some people in this world you cannot help. You have to leave those people where they are. Don’t drag them around with you.
Amen
So true, couldn't say it better myself! 💯💯💯
Soooo true!!
absolutely 1000% agree Carol… cut them down to only court communications; sneaky needs to be shut down, closed down; ugh to that nonsense and drama??
Facts 💯🎯
Cut that cord. When someone shows you who they are believe it. Stop putting yourself and kids in an environment that only brings pain.
Amen 👏 👏
I’m 53 and I can 💯 agree with this!! You live and learn
@@BelindaMuasame! I agree.
Babysitting.
I remember you taking that family with you...they seemed so nice and attentive. Wow....I'm sorry. I have trouble trusting people as it is...that would be the end for me. You have a beautiful family, don't let them ruin it. So sorry ❤
Don’t let the dusty ruin your good life leave them right where they are
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never put your spouse in a situation you can avoid, its not smart at all
God has blessed you with a amazing husband and a amazing life .Keep enjoying your life .
Don’t let people destroy your marriage and family. Protect your marriage and kids. Do what’s best for your family not the ex’s family.
PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE SIS!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go no contact. Let him be absent. It will be up to him at that point to make the effort to be in their lives which you already know he won’t do. Look up abandonment laws in your state. If it’s anything similar to the laws here, you can file for abandonment after 6 months of no contact and get full custodial rights and you can bring them wherever you want. In Minnesota the law states : Failure to have regular contact with your children or show interest in their wellbeing for 6 months without a good reason is considered abandonment and is grounds to terminate parental rights.
Very true his absence isn't force some people should not procreate
Why R some granted 2 express long term ? Other opinions R sliced & diced ??
Johnson 8165wrote an Essay WTH were they related to K.Clark ? ( Silenced Woo! )
Brett and Rose please stay away from those people block them toxic both sides also don't entertain that spirit of chaos continue to build your family
People need to realize that a Mother, Father, In-laws, etc CAN be toxic. And I'd drop EVERY ONE OF THEM. Toxicity destroys peace and love. DON'T allow it on your watch. You/we/us deserve the same love and light that we put out.
Get rid of toxic people in your life. You all be happier❤
Leave those folks aka “your older sons dad’s people” alone!
Thats sad! my youngest sons grandma was always close to me for 15 years and more until she died. She was always on my side not her toxic son. I called her mom, and we talked every day. My experience was completely different thank God. I loved that woman so much; she was the best thing that ever happened to me. When she passed away, I was so devastated! She never lied to me or tried to ruin my marriage; she was so happy for me that I found someone who loved her grandson so much. And she knew her son was a horrible father to her grandson. Unfortunately, my husband ended up passing away like 5 years ago. So, I'm so sorry that your kid's grandma is not good to you! Believe me, not every situation comes out bad with ex mother in laws! I was lucky enough to get a good grandma for my son! Rest her soul! Love- Jessica
Bless your heart
Mother will always be devoted to there Sons 😂😂
This is so real! It came between my marriage too! But at the end of the day WE CAN NOT FORCE no one to be a parent. Girl I feel you!
Im so surprised. Last year, you had them in town shopping, and everything
SOMEONE MARRIED HIM⁉️ UNREAL❗️❗️❗️ The saying, “it’s someone for everyone” is really TRUE.
He cheated with her. Then he fell for her, had more kid and married her.
Who marries a deadbeat dad?😒🤨
@@jensalcplenty if women insist on it. See my kids, see our kids.
Who’s here to watch rose after she got destroyed by Tasha K 😂😂😂
Yes you are the drama. When the boys get older they will be able to speak for themselves and it will not be nice to the other side.
Trust the real dad will be heart breaking
I agree with your husband bc that woulda been my EXTACT response because I’m blunt and quite
Rose you have a good, gentle man. Leave all the poison outside and nurture your union. You are a team.
hope her sons never see this video. some things are better left alone and to god until it reaches the time when they can be made to understand.
Life is very unpredictable. Since Brett is not the biological or legally father and the biological father pays child support, if something happens and Rose is unavailable in some situations, I wonder what kind of authority Brett has. I understand Rose's anger but the world doesn't need to know how bad those boys' father is. She won't be able to stop them from having a relationship with him if that's what they want in the future.
@@larissalaflore7202 I agree, what does it help to mash and bash the children's biological father publically - is he doing that to her. There are 2 sides to a story and to downgrade his parents, where is the GRACE. She is precarious - opening statement "cultural differences" - this is not a black or white issue it is the issue of her not being able to show dignity in the face of difficulty. Honestly, I think she feel as if having a MAN of a different culture makes it all better. Perhaps, in some way, it may, but let's not disgrace their father in the process. What will they do or how will they feel when next they either see or speak to him. She is the bitter hurt one...baggage...she has not released or forgiven the father for what was done, it demonstrates that you have to practice what you preach. Do unto others as you would have them to do unto you... vengeance is not hers to take as she feels. My God show the man AND HIS FAMILY what you alleged he did not show you - RESPECT!! Lets be reminded she use to be a stripper even when she met Brett. We could all say she got with Brett because he could help her financially and encourage her to stop stripping her clothes and self-dignity. Money changes folk and for real the channel is borderline soft porn, she is always demoing what should be left to the imagination - WE GET IT YOU HAVE A HUSBAND NOW SHOW US WHAT ELSE "YOU" HAVE - time to unsubscribe! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Super duper fake and will always be loyal to their sons, not the daughter in law, regardless of reason.
You can actually get passports for your sons without bd signature. Theres a special form that you can fill out.
Rose you started that, stop pushing that
I admire how you have found a beautiful life with someone who loves you by your side.
Let him go to court. I agree with your husband.
I’m so sorry sis… that relationship with a mother of a son like hers will never work.
I have 2 sons and could never do this to the women that birth my grandchildren ❤️❤️I Love them both 2 pieces ❤️❤️I don’t care if they are together or not but thank God they are all on the same page🙏🏾🙏🏾I Love You Rose❤️❤️❤️
Girl the same thing happened to me with my BD mom. She’s fake as hell and it really hurts when you realize it.
It is painful as hell but we have to remember their only concern is their Son's and most of them is obsessed with their Son's and cause havoc..
Why would you expect someone to take your side over their own flesh and blood in the first place? 🤔
OMG I'm so sorry to hear this!!!! You and Brett are solid parents! You don't need to keep trying to force your ex and make it easier for him to be a better father. It's not in him. It shocked me to hear that they let that other boy beat up one of your precious sons and bully him into hiding it. They are evil and can't be trusted. I would file for sole custody and revoke the grandparent's rights just based on that alone. They are taking out their anger for you on him. As far as I see it, your ex and his family are not acting like family. Cut them off! You are the mom, you have your and his parents as the grandparents, & Brett is their dad!
Hey Rose❣🥰🌹🥰🌹I love that you have this channel in addition to the family channel so we can have these kind of chats❣🥰😘🌹🌹
Thank you Tinaaa 🥰🥰♥️
Full Custody for sure!!! TF 🤬
You should be able to get the travel authorization for the kids from the court.
Yes, I was able to go directly to the court and ask the judge to sign off on my kid's passports. I then took the paperwork to the post office that stated I'm the custodial parent and the courts give me permission to obtain passports for them without their fathers permission! Was so much easier to avoid his drama!
He pays child support. And the kids don’t legally need to leave US.
Read up on the dfcs requirements for filing child abandonment and neglect. . Try to file to have all rights restored to you, 100% legal and physical rights..
@@AnimatedBlastNope. Kids deserve to travel and be cultured. You don’t hold them hostage like that. They learn a lot from traveling.
@@lifeventures6651The US is literally a melting pot. There is no necessity to leave the US. I know most of y’all have no clue regarding your heritage and those separate cultures ( let alone speaking those languages), but it’s on you to learn culture. Go find it.
Where as i agree with your opinion that he needs to be on your side at all times, you were right. After watching the drama with my brother in law and his ex over the kids to the point i got roped in schleping the kids back and forth because his ex couldn't behave long enough to just pick up or drop the boys off. Im extremely fed up with it at this point and I am exhausted being ropped into this trashy nonsense. I completely understand why one of his inside the head thoughts accidentally dripped out. There is a point where you just crack because its always the same nonsense and its lame and exhausting.
Them kids never need to go back to them
Facts!
I have seen it so many times when the dad doesn’t want to take care of their kids when they are young or be apart of their life. And when the kids are grown, the missing BD want to be apart of their lives now and talk about how they turn out to be decent young men etc. Well, in this case all of the props will go to you Rose and your husband!! SHAQ stepdad raised him and even made a song about it.
I needed to hear this message. Thanks for sharing your story.😢
Time to definitely let that go. Like you said if they want to see the boys and have a relationship then go to court. That goes for BD and grandparents. It’s time they step up without you and your husband trying to push or financially support it. Don’t let them disrupt your house. No ma’am ❤❤
He didn’t treat you and the children right and he hates that you’re not only standing , but doing way better . All I can say is God is good .
Girl ur way more emotionally grown than ppl give u credit..the depths u took to do whats right by ur children, gave the BD respect he didn't deserve, pushed to morally be grown up about shit..my opinion; ur approach is exactly what I feel is morally right in life. Obviously by now u see that some ppl will just be ppl & there's nothing u can do. But also for Brett to really be a super supportive to u & ur sons is amazing. Him putting his foot down is him only looking out for u & the boys best interest & I don't like to assume but he might have done knowin u would still push continue to still invest more energy & time on a situation that's essentially be more of a let down than anything. Sometimes u dont have to necessarily cut ppl off off but definitely handle them in a differnt way. Just when u think ppl can't shock u, they will hands down do just that & top the last time. Hats off to both of u. Ur not only a role models for ur children but Rose 4 woman, Brett 4 men, yall as a couple. I feel like u guys really don't realize the magnitude of yalls morals, the way u carry urselfs, u show that raw side too..sorry to rant but ppl could use a few tips from u guys. Ur awesome ppl all around, & the greatest thing is yall are Tru Honest Real ass ppl..ur every move revolves around doing what's right persay. I have a quote &
"It Ought to be Crystal Clear, What's Up,What's Down,What's Right, What's Wrong, What God Blesses & What He Does Not Bless" And yall are Blessed..Beyond. what u guys distill in ur children, shows very much & I pray that other kids learn from them what it means to be real men cuz honestly the boys aren't exactly hittin on that kind of love & dedication from a real man like Brett. Shit these days half these kids don't have mama nor a daddy. So sorry to keep writing & boosting u guys but this world needs more ppl like yall. Thanks for ALWAYS making my ass laugh BTW. MaDLuV from VA
Bitter BD is a real thing and it’s unfortunate cause their own pride and bitterness ruins their joy and makes them miss out on the benefits of raising amazing children
Aw rose. Sensing a hug. You are one of my favorite aries❤
My husband said same thing " im not here 4 this hood as shit" & he BLK when i have arguments with my Tennant's when im evicting them 🤣😂🤣😂🤷🏾💯
Girllll you have no idea how happy I am that I took my son and just moved away. He’ll never meet his dad or his dad’s side of family. They hate me because baby daddy made things up and told them about me they were stalking me threatening me while pregnant. They’ll never see or hear from us for as long as they all live. My life is very peaceful now. Let them believe and do what they want.
Talk with the boys and ask them how they feel about the situation and ask them what they want. They are old enough to tell you how they feel. And handle it with the courts. Please don't let this nonsense come between y'all. Y'all are a beautiful family.❤❤❤
Sorry for your boys...that really sucks. You're lucky to have such a wonderful husband. Too bad for the boys bio father....he is missing out
The way you treat your current husband makes me wonder how you treated your first husband. You are very self-centered in THIS marriage & nothing would make me feel you weren’t the same with your first husband. You’re incredibly emotionally immature. If you’re immature NOW, I can only imagine how childish you were when you were younger. We are only hearing your side of the story & there are ALWAYS 2 sides to every story. I’m not listening to only what you have to say.
Does their bio dad still have rights? Would he be willing to relinquish them, so your hubby can adopt them? Just seems like so much trouble…if he doesn’t want to pay for his kids, he’s not interested in being a father.
were soooo frustrated bc nothing was ever ordered by courts.. so the dad doesn't call or talk to the boys but won't do that due to how his family would view him.. its so frustrating honestly..
@@Kweenofkingslives I’m not familiar with how it works, but can YOU legally take control?
@@KweenofkingslivesHis family are okay with him not seeing his kids though? What kind of family is this
@@AnimatedBlastexactly! His parents were the only ones from his side in their lives. (I think)
I’m sad that rose isn’t really messing with them anymore… of course the mom gonna be loyal to her son first, any mom would be.
Just gotta know not to trust her with certain ish, but i hope the boys can still have relationships with their grandparents because they seemed close , they used to go stay with them every summer.
And technically, his absence proves neglect. Not sure if she has legal custody of her boys, but I’m thinking this wouldn’t be a difficult situation if she did. Go to the courts, get legal custody and live your life. I don’t see what cultural differences have to do with this. A dusty is a dusty.
thank you for sharing your story. it’s reconfirming for me that i did the right thing but getting my abuse narcissistic demonic BD and his witch bitch out of my son’s life. I pray that they never come back. It would be more harm to my child and I. I would never force them in our life. I took him off child support just to get him out of our life, he tried to set me up and kill me and they were mistreating my son he’s only 1. I’m so sorry they did that to your son, THEY Will Reap What They Sow! Karma will be delivered to those evil ppl TenFold!! Justice will be served ♐️❤
take hm to court & ask them to mandate him to sign paperwork for the passport
Was this after you had his parents over and bought the mother the coach boots and jacket? You and Brett are winning I love yall family don't let those haters rent space in your head. Misery loves company
So glad you have a strong support system with your husband!!! I believe he didn't say anything initially to not escalate the situation. #stillwatersrundeep
Let me go back to the Hawaii vlog 😂😂😂 sis you got this keep on moving forward you doing all the right things ❤
Lord talk about growth and maturity!!!
2:06 This! Cause girl, I was sick for you when I saw this. All I could think about was how you took them on vacation, and how happy I was for yall. I hate this happened, but am SO glad God revealed to you who they are! He's a GOOD GOD! Let them loose, and live a FULL life!
Rose I’m side eyeing you girl because I know you’re not entertaining this foolishness for real. So I’m going to chop this story time to entertainment only. May GOD bless your union.
I love your attitude on this
STAND YOUR GROUND HONEY ❤
That's crazy. Thabks for sharing. Hopefully that situation gets better. But as those boys get older they'll rectify that situation. Eventually children begin to see whats going on.
Killing me dogg.....let it go boo! Your husband sees the bullshit
If your BD signs away his rights you can get your son’s passports.
I just want to say I’m proud of you … you are a bridge gapper , a truth speaker and overall lovely woman ❤
What a shame! Here I thought it was so great that you all were able to go on a beautiful vacation in Hawaii. I thought that was the epitome of class on your part 🌹👏🏽🌹👏🏼🌹👏🏻🌹👏🌹👏🏿🌹👏🏾You don't need this negative ish in your happy life. Keep winning Rose, you have a beautiful family ❤❤❤All love & positive vibes from Queens, New York.
Sadly, I think it was somewhat ok until after Hawaii when shit hit the fan, esp when they had to get the kids home and such....his mother started to show her real feelings in choosing her son.
Yesss HEAVY on them being FAKE AF & their loyalty to their deadbeat sons. Even when they are SO WRONG !! Like wrong is wrong no matter WHO IT IS. Family, friends or not. And it’s not like we ask them to hate their sons or disown them or anything like that ! It’s just about speaking up fr what’s right, helping & showing empathy to us on the OTHERSIDE who have your grandchildren ! It’s soooo draining & exhausting to deal with. All of them. ‼️‼️💯💯
I love how truthful you are. Even when people come at you. Keep it up. ❤❤❤
Rose no matter what your husband should always take up for you! No matter if you are a kind person, and sometimes give in to trying to make your kids grandmother relationship work. You have to deal with your baby daddy's mom till your kids are 18-year-old. So sometimes you will go through a period where you're not talking to her, and then sometimes you girls might get along. When your husband makes comments saying one minute you hate her and never want to see her again, and the next thing you're ok with her is not cool. You are a very kind person who just wants everyone to get along. I can tell you wear your heart on your sleeve. I know you want your boys to have a relationship with their grandma. So don't ever be spiteful towards your kid's grandma, don't go down to her level. Always be the bigger person. Before my husband passed away, he always supported me in anything I was doing. He kept his negative comments to himself, and always took up for me! So, stay strong Rose, and remind your husband you always need him in your corner! Love- Jessica
Don’t force it Rose give them stability. Emotional stability is very important for them to be able to become strong, healthy men. You are doing an awesome job and you have a wonderful husband.
Girl we in the same boat…They the BIGGEST haters!!!
She is so ridiculously extra.
What's sad is that some people like myself saw that already. Wow. Now you are confirming. really break my heart for you.🍂🧡😢
That’s right she said “ My husband said my kids not going” that’s right I love a man that take charge like he gave it a chance but now he like na !
I’m so proud of you Rose your doing Great y’all keep going pumping that good shhh ❤
Two sides to every story. We're only hearing your side!
Soo true i.ll bet u thats why she ran to Hawaii so abruptly
@@anthonytaylor7928 why are you old bitter black males in her comment section ? Y'all are so obsessed with us. Y'all can NEVER compete with white men on any level. Go heal
She plays the victim a lot when it comes to their father. Once she was saying their grandma was the best now here we go… it’s tasteless and regardless of how she views them, they are a part of her sons and this will only hurt her sons in the long run. She has the same weird attitude towards Brett’s daughter. She likes drama, I stopped watching a while ago and this popped up but she’s still on the same thing. Life will humble her.
@@mekathemoneymagnet1015 Indeed. I stopped watching too, she's an absolute narcissist and not a nice person, hence no friends in real life! Life will definitely humble her! With exception of Naka and Dom, I watch black couples only now, black women that make me proud to be black and not embarrassed!
Don’t accept people or circumstances that will cause you to fail.
Hey rose, i remember when you took those people on the trip and brett purchase a expensive shoes and purse . I would leave it alone , you and your wonderful husband have really tried , went over and beyond. Leave it to god , do that which is necessary. Love peace and blessings to you rose , brett and to each of your families always and forever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I've been there. I let them show my daughter our differences as she gets older. I know who I am. They won't disturb not our child, nor myself's peace... Especially physically.
It could be confusing and he aint want no drama either so yall both on same page and im glad yall past past it❤god is good
Aren’t these the same people you guys have visit you, and take them on vacations with you?
I totally agree with husband
Jusr stay on one road. No drama
7:05 😂😂😂😂😂 that part. That's one reason I dont deal with my family. I don't have time for the nonesense.
thank God that yall came to an understanding 😢😊
Baby girl it is so time for you to grow up and set boundaries, my niece's ex family called last week and requested 4 tickets to attend grandson graduation, my niece replied by simply hanging up😳😳😳
You can take him to court for the passport as well.
What! Beaten up and bloody face! Rose, I would be concerned for Rais and Raiden's safety while in their care. If they are telling your children to keep secrets from you; then that is grounds right there. They way the world is, I would not let them take my children because they obviously do not care for them on a parental level. I would not trust them to ensure they would be protected and safe. Something devasting could happen with those folks! Those children have a beautiful life with you and Brett as parents. I would not give them any power in this situation. I would be researching my rights and make this $hite happen! The boys clearly do not want to be with bio dad any more than the bio dad and stepmom want them there. Rose, I would bring the fire and burn it down! You are the ultimate mama bear and they have clearly taken you there. You are strong and they do not understand that all bets are off when it comes to protecting your babies.
By the way, I agree with Brett about not sending the kids. I would just handle this without the drama which they would love. Personally, I would do my research and take action. Petition the court to get the passports and find out what needs to happen for parental rights to be relinquished if that is what needs to happen. Information is power in this case.
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS…. I GET IT SIS. Stay completely who you are, and strong!!! ❤❤
The grandma probably thought you can easily afford the $500
Ooooooooooooooo!!!!!😂😂😂😮😮😮😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Hilarious Rose!!!! Great story… Stay Strong and FOCUSED SIS!!! Your money and life story OVERALL IS PHENOMENAL!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Rose I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Don't worry you did and still do what you're supposed to do. After that they got to be left to their reprobate minds give it up to God and move on. I can't stand that mess they to much only jealousy makes no sense whatsoever. Keep your heads up and stay looking forward please and thank you.
As somebody who kind of went through this…my sons dad was absent for over a year. He then tried to come back in his life like nothing happened….NOPE! I went to a lawyer, told them the facts, and NC viewed him as an unfit parent. He couldn’t see him without my permission and on my terms.
In laws truly suck hon but I am so sorry they treated you like this way when you were always so kind and decent with them. My ex MIL tried to get me arrested, called CPS, harassed me at work, on and on. But I really am sorry for you having to go through this.
Listen from experience DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY AGAIN, for those people. They do not care about the boys at all. Its more of a game to them. I almost lost my marriage over my baby daddy and his family. Thank god i stopped and listened to what my husband was saying. But for a while it out a rift between us while they were all over there fine. Make them go to court. I know youre doing for the boys but its only gonna hurt them being around people who teach them lying to their mom is ok and no telling what else!
Your loyalty will always be to your kids. He's your ex husband. Not your baby daddy. So don't devalue yourself like that. But you know his parents felt some type of way when the boys said they were raised by Bret proudly😂
May God continue to bless you! Enjoy your family! Listen & trust your husband, he wont stir you or your family the wrong way!
I grew up with my mom (BW) and bonus dad (WM). I can completely relate to your family and struggles you go through.
I Love my dad just like any other and skin tone is the least of our worries all that matters is the love ❤
Wish I had a channel like yours to watch growing up!