How to Navigate Through Painful Situations in Life | Buddhism In English

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Комментарии • 359

  • @mytaffycat
    @mytaffycat 8 месяцев назад +164

    "Pain is inevitable, worry is optional." I might write this on my hand and read it several times a day. And night.

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад +2

      😰 *PLEASE SAVE JAPAN 🇯🇵 FR0M 👳 BEF0RE ITS T00 LATE*

    • @soul17169
      @soul17169 8 месяцев назад +2

      Explain ​@@NatsukiTakama

    • @hisheydoma1808
      @hisheydoma1808 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@NatsukiTakama from forceful catholics conversion?

    • @LotusWisdom-if8bc
      @LotusWisdom-if8bc 8 месяцев назад +2

      😢 ❤

    • @brainy3429
      @brainy3429 7 месяцев назад +1

      It cover not only for pain but for every feeling and everything that happens to us on a daily basis. Our used to bad responses are optional.

  • @Carbonmonoxide007
    @Carbonmonoxide007 8 месяцев назад +58

    Having gone through multiple failures in life for the past 2 years it’s now that I have got something. I have been following your channel and I have never been this strong before mentally and content in myself. I have developed good habits in due time like gratitude kindness and patience. And I am thankful for the difficult times in my life because I would have not known how strong I actually am and I want to continue exploring myself. Thankyou for getting me started on this beautiful journey. God bless everyone.

    • @yukfat1928
      @yukfat1928 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your comment. You give me courage to keep going😊

    • @fun-with_knowledge
      @fun-with_knowledge 8 месяцев назад +2

      All the best for ur future🎉 tq

    • @soumyas.pradhan6038
      @soumyas.pradhan6038 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much..

    • @Steven-vt9yr
      @Steven-vt9yr 7 месяцев назад

      Hi Hi. Carbon - I've been through the most revealed
      Failure hehe you have nothing
      To worry about I was born
      A life of failure and damage
      I'm counting the age slowly

  • @subuddhijayasinghe4500
    @subuddhijayasinghe4500 8 месяцев назад +46

    Pain is inevitable. Worrying is optional. Well said.

  • @lean8658
    @lean8658 8 месяцев назад +13

    I’ve been interesting in Buddhism since I was 14 and I’m 16 now, and you are so inspiring to me. I dealt with so much pain in my life and I want to love and find myself and allow myself to heal and learn. Your words make it easier, thank you.

  • @cindyrhodes
    @cindyrhodes 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
    Last week, I was suffering from a painful situation and holding on too long to the negativity. When I realized this, I laughed out loud!!!!! I immediately saw that I was at fault for holding on to it for too long. I was able to understand the situation more fully and then allow the situation to resolve itself, as I knew it naturally would. Thank you.

  • @italico2792
    @italico2792 8 месяцев назад +8

    I'm suffering a lot in my life. I feel lost and I don't know what's my path. I wish my life was completely different but I dunno where to start, it's just hard. Thank you, since I've been listening and reading Buddha's teaching I discovered my values

  • @sanjanasanju1143
    @sanjanasanju1143 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you so much for the valuable lesson just a few minutes ago i was suffering from the difficult situation suddenly i came across this vedio now i feel as if universe is answering my call and i feel less worried now 😊. Thank u coz u made my day

  • @johanac.ozunaking395
    @johanac.ozunaking395 8 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you for this! I am going through hard times at the moment but I am trying to remind myself that there are also good things happening simultaneously in this present moment. This helps with the worrying sometimes. I have a tendency to get really anxious when bad things are happening or when someone is being negative on purpose around me. I am working on myself, removing some bad habits that I used to justify when going through hard times. The justification of bad habits is not serving me anymore and I decided to be as strong as I can to remove them from my life right now.

  • @RaghavanM-o4v
    @RaghavanM-o4v 8 месяцев назад +10

    Pain is inevitable but worry is optional.... Great lesson. Thank you Sir...❤ Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Smriti.pathak
    @Smriti.pathak 8 месяцев назад +17

    Wow i am so overwhealmed and lucky to comment at first...Namo buddhya... Love from nepal🇳🇵...Wishing the beautiful life ahead to all the viewers..🕊️

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад

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  • @samyak_pusate
    @samyak_pusate 8 месяцев назад +26

    The root cause of suffering is attachment

  • @KingMu01
    @KingMu01 7 месяцев назад +9

    Even in micro-stuff like fatigue or sleepiness, I've noticed I distract myself with my phone rather than sleep and rest which just makes the problem worse 🙏

  • @pamodarajapaksha694
    @pamodarajapaksha694 8 месяцев назад +12

    🙏නමෝ බුද්ධාය!☸️
    ✨අප හට මහත් අනුකම්පාවෙන් අර්ථයෙන් ධර්මයෙන් අනුශාසනා කරන පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔
    🙏සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු..🙏
    ✨පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මේ භවයේදීම උතුම් චතුරාර්ය සත්‍ය ධර්මය පරිපුර්ණ වශයෙන්ම අවබෝධ කර ගැනීමට මේ ධර්ම දානමය කුසලය හේතු වාසනා වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔
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    🙏තෙරුවන් සරණයි පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස..!☸️

  • @elenad.2959
    @elenad.2959 8 месяцев назад +3

    I ❤ this: "pain is inevitable, worrying is optional." I'll keep that in my mind at all times. Thank you 🙏

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад

      *THE 👳🏾👳👳🏾 ARE DOING FAKE PROPAGANDA IN JAPAN AS WELL AS SOUTH KOREA THAT*
      - BUDDHA WAS A MZLM
      - BUDDHA WAS ALSO A PROPHET
      Please give me best refuting arguments for that.

  • @jmdhjayasinghe5588
    @jmdhjayasinghe5588 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you honourable thero for this wonderful preaching! I am struggling through a difficult phase in life n these teaching made me feel hopeful and stronger! Namo Buddhaya!

  • @LotusWisdom-if8bc
    @LotusWisdom-if8bc 8 месяцев назад +5

    I am writing this to you with my gratitude, love & respect, Most Ven.Thero, each & every video that you posted here made & make me inspired & motivated to creat my own content to propagate Dhamma through the social media.
    I bless you with utmost power of the noble triple gem have a health, wealthy and long life with the all merits that I accumulated in my whole life and may you attain supreme bliss of Englightenment in this very life of the Gautama Buddha's dispensation.🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @camila-d6l
    @camila-d6l 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm your number one fan, you bring me peace and security, above all, I learn to speak English with your videos

  • @Photo_doctor
    @Photo_doctor 8 месяцев назад +13

    May your lives be filled with happiness and joy!
    May you relieve from suffering and pain!
    May Buddhism help everyone find peace!

  • @rosemelitadoadison3514
    @rosemelitadoadison3514 8 месяцев назад +2

    Every morning, I seek your channel to listen to your teaching to energies my spirit ❤..thank you

  • @adithit4123
    @adithit4123 8 месяцев назад +7

    it was really amazing to watch this video in morning after meditation😇😇

  • @dariolara533
    @dariolara533 8 месяцев назад +2

    This channel has changed my life! Thank you so much for sharing this amazing and practical knowledge.

  • @Saloni_1408
    @Saloni_1408 8 месяцев назад +2

    Pain is inevitable, worrying is optional.....
    Namo Buddhaya ✨🙇🏻‍♀️🙏🏻

  • @ashiandrasamaraghandi615
    @ashiandrasamaraghandi615 7 месяцев назад

    This video come to me in the right time. I'm worrying about what my future would be and im crying im dying this night, and this video helped me a lot I feel a lot better now thankyou ❤❤

  • @mr_thevi
    @mr_thevi 8 месяцев назад +1

    “Pain is inevitable, Worrying is optional”
    Namo Buddaya🙏

  • @maxwel7059
    @maxwel7059 8 месяцев назад +4

    I am a catholic. Even though I’m listening your thoughts every morning.

  • @Temujin.MongolianPatriot
    @Temujin.MongolianPatriot 8 месяцев назад +1

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏 I am Buddhist from Mongolia🇲🇳☸️❤️

  • @meerasingh2327
    @meerasingh2327 8 месяцев назад

    I like the analogy of two arrows. It make sense mind and body two pain at the same time. 🙏🇨🇦🇬🇧

  • @youtubelover2060
    @youtubelover2060 8 месяцев назад

    Pains will be always there, but whether worrying about those pains is our choice. We can choose to have a more peaceful life by considering the pains as part of our lives and move on with that! Thank you Sir🙏🙏🙏 🙏🙏

  • @projectashe2593
    @projectashe2593 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this video, I’m going through hard situations and feelings right now and sometimes people just try to deny the pain I’m feeling. Knowing that suffering is inevitable puts the mind at ease a little bit, we have just to wait for our life to get better 🙏

  • @leonardus6791
    @leonardus6791 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much..... Many times I already 'know' your words but there's a time they start to sink in...again, thank you.

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад

      🛑🍅😰 *PLEASE SAVE JAPAN 🇯🇵 FR0M 👳 BEF0RE ITS T00 LATE*

  • @sindhuudayakumar7979
    @sindhuudayakumar7979 8 месяцев назад

    ❤🙏🏻Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu. Namo Buddhaya Buddhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❣️

  • @quin923
    @quin923 8 месяцев назад

    Pain is inevitable & worry is optional. Yes, we should always try not to worry, but to count on the blessings🙏🏻 Thank you dear reverend

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад

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      Write 💲 then "U" followed by "L" then "T", put an "🅰️" after it and end the word with "N".

  • @thida2901
    @thida2901 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much your showing of Buddhism .
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu, Namo Buddhaya.Jai maha param Guru.

  • @1thoughtinfinitylife
    @1thoughtinfinitylife 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you monk!
    I really want to learn Buddhism from you a month and more in my life. And I want to meet you.
    After your words i feel more relief.
    Shadu shadu shadu.😊

  • @stormy8092
    @stormy8092 8 месяцев назад +1

    To replace pain and suffering with a sort of quiet resignation is the best one can hope for. Let it go. If it is love that has been taken, let it go and be grateful you knew it once. Resign yourself to life without that love.

  • @VirginiaSado
    @VirginiaSado 6 месяцев назад

    Amen, and (dats, no, it's days). In Buddha Teachings, I was full of guidance and to include the assurance if God's love to me. Now that I escaped from that Reality, I moved on and now Happy, but I keep closer to the Lord for His Constant guidance and direction i am now safe. Amen. Namo, Buddaya

  • @esearigbe9189
    @esearigbe9189 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir for this teaching, life is really worth experiencing according to these rules 🙏

  • @LotusWisdom-if8bc
    @LotusWisdom-if8bc 8 месяцев назад +1

    Very clear explanation & a well prepared presentation ❤❤❤

  • @aswinos551
    @aswinos551 8 месяцев назад +1

    It's really helpful in life
    Thank u sir

  • @aliciahaney3680
    @aliciahaney3680 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for your teachings. This passage of knowledge has slowly changed things for me.

  • @Shizuka-d6v
    @Shizuka-d6v 8 месяцев назад

    This is what healing is all about❤❤

  • @doates625
    @doates625 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you. This is a lesson I am teaching myself in real time. Anxiety is only useful insofar as it leads to productive preparation and action.

  • @crimped357
    @crimped357 8 месяцев назад

    thank you so much for these weekly lessons and reminders. Namo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @YOGITADHOND
    @YOGITADHOND 8 месяцев назад

    I was so broken up mentally since last some days and thank you for ur dis video❤ I m so blessed by seeing ur such a beautiful positive video❤so much countless thnks to you sir❤ you r one of my motivational strength always been in life since long time❤ and you will be forever ❤god bless u sir ❤

  • @Sunny-nh3wl
    @Sunny-nh3wl 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for making such helpful video. Sometimes I don’t know how to handle painful situation then i come this channel & always get solution how to handle situation ❤

  • @darthjiricz5796
    @darthjiricz5796 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for your teachings. Namo Buddhaya 🙏❤️🙏❤️🇪🇺🌈

  • @सुनिता-ह5प
    @सुनिता-ह5प 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Guruji.🙏 Your videos help me a lot. Namo buddhay, love from Maharashtra, Thane.❤

  • @shona4252
    @shona4252 8 месяцев назад

    You always solve my problems & give me solution 😊❤️😌🙏You always make my mind peaceful 😊❤️😌🙏Thank you Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji 😊❤️😌🙏Glad to have you in my life 😊❤️😌🙏Namo Buddhay 😊❤️😌🙏

  • @drshrenikpatil3324
    @drshrenikpatil3324 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks and grateful 🙏 guru

  • @NweNi-yk7rl
    @NweNi-yk7rl 7 месяцев назад

    I always listen whenever i feel down and up that is just temporary .
    Pain is an inevitable for all of body own.

  • @RealStoicTeachings
    @RealStoicTeachings 8 месяцев назад +1

    This content is a gem. Great learnings! .Thank you so much my friend.

  • @dakshayani_daksh8507
    @dakshayani_daksh8507 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for your guidance..I'm blessed to have you 🙏 Namo Budhaya!!

  • @eleanorbuck715
    @eleanorbuck715 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your kind words of wisdom. It is very helpful...

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🌷

  • @saneharajput-w8b
    @saneharajput-w8b 8 месяцев назад +1

    thanks for always guiding me 💛💛

  • @st7616
    @st7616 8 месяцев назад

    Pain is inevitable , worrying is optional . ❤

  • @sriharitha-thrivingsoul8138
    @sriharitha-thrivingsoul8138 8 месяцев назад

    Your teachings what made me alive today 🙏

  • @shyamaaggarwal3578
    @shyamaaggarwal3578 8 месяцев назад

    Namo budhaya
    Thank u sooooo much ❤

  • @pronunciationway8502
    @pronunciationway8502 8 месяцев назад

    Thankyou soo much for the beautiful lesson🙏❤

  • @OpulenceJoshua
    @OpulenceJoshua 6 месяцев назад +1

    I understand pain can be difficult from time to time and pain is everywhere around this planet and I am having pain and hurt in my struggling and Feeling like having the same Feelings again and again every daily social life and feeling hurt as well and feeling like that life is so rough for me and tough for a little time.

  • @pradeephettiarachchi5954
    @pradeephettiarachchi5954 8 месяцев назад

    Buddisam, for peaceful life. No other way to get relief. ❤

  • @garyeddings2639
    @garyeddings2639 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for these thoughts

  • @bekmanaogful
    @bekmanaogful 8 месяцев назад

    Well said...Pain is part of happy life.

  • @pminkponcharoen9469
    @pminkponcharoen9469 8 месяцев назад

    #Namo Buddhāya🙏🙏🙏
    #Sabbe Sattā Bhavantu Sukhitattā🙏
    #May all Beings be Happy🙏
    #May all Beings be free from Suffering🙏
    #Sādhu🙏🙏🙏
    🙏💌Support from THAILAND🙏💞🙏❣🙏

  • @GEBOMMAYI
    @GEBOMMAYI 8 месяцев назад +1

    Much needed, tnkew 🙏😇

  • @captaineskimo
    @captaineskimo 8 месяцев назад +1

    So true, thank you!

  • @stubornnn_dreamer
    @stubornnn_dreamer 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you 🙏...Your teachings saved my mind

  • @謝秉真
    @謝秉真 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks❤❤❤,Namo buddaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @imashanimasha7728
    @imashanimasha7728 8 месяцев назад

    Namo Buddhaya ! 🙏🙏🙏💐

  • @anujimaya
    @anujimaya 8 месяцев назад

    thank you so much for this❤
    Namo Buddhaya!!

  • @Mahadeva_114
    @Mahadeva_114 8 месяцев назад +1

    NAMO BUDDAYA ❤

  • @fansizhe9997
    @fansizhe9997 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you!!! Namo Bhudaya!!!👍🙏🙏🙏🙏😍

  • @okarbomtatu2712
    @okarbomtatu2712 7 месяцев назад

    Namo Buddhaya🕊️

  • @LaxmiMandal-vd1ik
    @LaxmiMandal-vd1ik 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you dear mentor it really help me to understand my situation!!

  • @sandalimalisha4110
    @sandalimalisha4110 8 месяцев назад

    I am soo thankful for your help in my life

  • @binbin2550
    @binbin2550 7 месяцев назад

    Wooooooooooooow ,Thank u very much 🙏💐☸️

  • @bhagwatprasad842
    @bhagwatprasad842 8 месяцев назад

    For about one month I started to watch your videos. I like your videos and have subscribed to your channel. One question always comes to mind. One day, I was going to my house in my village and on the way, I saw two persons (father and son) were quarrelling with their neighbour and started to beat him. As I knew them, I told them not to quarrel. They paused but the two again started to beat the single one. I just asked them again not to quarrel and walked towards my house. Later I heard that they beat the single one again. I also know that if I would have tried to protect the single one, they might had manhandled me also. I am always trying to learn and practice Buddhism. But I am not clear about what I should do in such situation. Please, clarify it by making a video in RUclips. Thank you. Bhavatu sabba mangalam.

  • @EC-yd9yv
    @EC-yd9yv 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you.. always wonderful words of wisdom ✨ 🕊️🙏💙✨

  • @deepikag2139
    @deepikag2139 8 месяцев назад

    I really want this, thank you so much for this video.
    Lots of respect 🙏🏼

  • @chyperboliccc5607
    @chyperboliccc5607 8 месяцев назад

    Absultly right sir thank you so much giving us great knowledge ❤❤

  • @veenackm
    @veenackm 8 месяцев назад

    Tq for you valuable words
    Namo budhaya ☮️

  • @koushalkhan
    @koushalkhan 8 месяцев назад

    Namo Budhhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you❤❤❤❤
    Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Siddeswaraedu71
    @Siddeswaraedu71 8 месяцев назад

    ನಮೋ ಬುದ್ಧಯಾ 🙏🏻💐

  • @rasikasurendragamage5860
    @rasikasurendragamage5860 8 месяцев назад

    Sadu sadu sadu 🙏🏼

  • @deburgh65
    @deburgh65 8 месяцев назад

    Pain is normal in every life but avoiding the pain from worrying is intelligent and consciousness. 🙏

  • @pankajkone123
    @pankajkone123 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much. This has helped me. ❤

  • @ume6890
    @ume6890 8 месяцев назад

    Understood Swaminwahansa
    Namo buddhaya 🙂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @rahulbatta8244
    @rahulbatta8244 8 месяцев назад

    May All be Happy. May All get the strength to calmly handle their problems and win in life. Namo Buddhaya

  • @bryanfrancisco-t7x
    @bryanfrancisco-t7x 8 месяцев назад

    Now i understand. Thank u for this teaching.

  • @lalitkumargiri1611
    @lalitkumargiri1611 8 месяцев назад

    Namo Buddhaya 🥰🙏

  • @AbithaKrishnan-gj9dx
    @AbithaKrishnan-gj9dx 8 месяцев назад

    Thank You So much for your lesson ❤️

  • @vanianguyen6935
    @vanianguyen6935 7 месяцев назад +1

    That what arises will die, that this world is impermanent, and that sentient beings, bacause of their great ignorance and egos, have countless affictions and mistakes like greed, hatred, and conceit. And because of being attached to their ignorance and egos, sentient beings are forever engulfed by suffering.

  • @AnujjjSingh
    @AnujjjSingh 8 месяцев назад +1

    "Without pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from our
    mistakes. To make it right,
    pain and suffering is the key to
    all windows, without it, there is
    no way of life. 🍃

    • @NatsukiTakama
      @NatsukiTakama 8 месяцев назад

      You are right. Lots of love from Japan 🇯🇵

    • @AnujjjSingh
      @AnujjjSingh 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@NatsukiTakama 😍🇮🇳

  • @favouritemusic8959
    @favouritemusic8959 8 месяцев назад

    We all need this. Sending 💚💚

  • @LathaNair702
    @LathaNair702 8 месяцев назад

    Wow such a beautiful quite. Thank you❤

  • @Writing_poetry_dance
    @Writing_poetry_dance 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you. I really needed this 🙏🏻

  • @anjou6497
    @anjou6497 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you. 🧡🌿🌷

  • @pahan_Randil
    @pahan_Randil 8 месяцев назад

    Always mind changing 😊