This only works if a man has stepped into the masculine mentality of protecting and providing. Doesn’t work with a guy with wounded masculine…who wants all the benefits of a committed relationship but none of the sacrifice and responsibility that it entails.
I’m 63 and in a committed relationship with my man who is 69. We’ve been together a year now. I’m financially our provider. He takes care of what he can but is unable to provide for the things that I can. I am having our home built and furnished, it will be ready this coming spring. We have a prenup which he insisted on. I bought our rings and most always pay for our dining out and entertainment. How can I make him feel and know I respect and honor him. But not feel bad about spending my money to do the things we want. He’s a Godly man, so glad we found each other. His qualities as a man are more valuable to me than money. I’ve been told I should have held out for a man in my financial arena, I tried but never found that deep connection I prayed for. I appreciate all your advice in keeping our relationship together and growing. Thank you. Life is fleeting….prayers for us all.
I didn't understand until recently, that a man can love bomb for a month, then breadcrumb you into oblivion and never committing once he sees you're comfortable with his love bombs... and women that have never been through this, don't understand it's happening until it's too late... and months in, you realize you have become the doormat and all the sudden you're "mothering" or "trying to close the gap" and he is dreaming about his next chase while you're craving all the attention he gave you in the beginning, before his wounded masculine decided that he's got all the benefits of the relationship without committing.... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 It really messes with the mind and self worth! the longer it goes on, the longer you need to recover and heal from these broken men. 🙏🏽
There was absolutely NOTHING I could do to get my ex back. No contact, emotional control, PRAYER. Nothing worked. In hindsight I see I dodged a bullet. He had no integrity or purpose. He was a cowardly man. Who wants that?
6. Genuine appreciation 5. Receptive and open 4. Share your emotions vulnerability 3. Encourage his leadership 3. Authentic and honest 1. Maintain selfworth
Excellent video; I'm still struggling to let go of my seven-year relationship. My former significant other, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can't seem to move on. I'm feeling irritated and powerless since nothing has worked to bring him back into my existence. I've tried to move on, but my heart still hurts for him, and I can't see myself with anyone else. I apologise for posting this here, but I just can't seem to move on from missing him.
It's difficult to say goodbye to someone you love; I know this from my 12-year relationship. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually had to seek help from a spiritual counsellor.
Thank you for sharing this crucial information; I've just done some research about him online. Startlingly, I looked up Father Obah Eze online and, whoa, he seems like a real guy. Once again, thank you so much ❤
My precious Soulmate king of my heart is in the UK and I always tell him he touch my heart and would love to be in his strong arms wrapped around me where I will feel safe.. That his my fortress and thanks for loving me the way he do.. How I appreciate him as my love..
For a man that hasn't insecurities issues that shouldn't be a problem. My energy is quite masculine sometimes and my boy says that he loves that I'm a trader being a woman (99% are men). There are many ways to be feminine and make him feel good, don't worry!
This is your best video yet that I have seen anyway. To me. You put so much information in this one and got straight into the meat of it all. Lol. I appreciate this. You are doing a wonderful job and your content is valuable to me if to nobody else. God bless you and your wife and family!
To the lady falling for your therapist First make sure he’s single then . You amaze me , you are so smart, I’m learning so much from you. Ask how do I address him with a problem without sounding needy with out hurting him,
I am posting the list, from start to finish #6 - #1. Some timestamps were available. Hey. All of this has blown my mind. Seriously. Its something I have NEVER heard before and its raw; its real. I find it to be true. In all relationships, there is famine energy and masculine energy roles. I am going to take this to heart, study it and use this to help my marriage. Luckily - I have been doing some of these to the "T" yet truely desire him to take the lead more often. Its exhausting any other way and feels so unnatural.... Thank you for posting such an informative video, one I may learn from and apply in a practical way. ❤ Sending gratitude from my heart to you and yours! #1 - Maintain your self worth #2 - Be authentic and honest #3 - 4:59 Encourage his leadership #4 - 4:10 Share your emotional vulnerability #5 - Be receptive and open #6 - Express genuine appreciation
This video has been extremely helpful and just hearing these points from an actual male gives me so much hope! I have been leaning so much into my masculine energy so I know I’m going to have to play this video a few more times to truly get to actualize these tips. Thank you!!
I agree with most of your points but not completely. In certain countries we are very equal and it works very well for us. The whole thing about leading and not taking action just sounds like an extremely boring way of life. And letting the control of your life be put in another persons hands. If I want to do something or suggest an activity to do, I will say it. No one wants a dead rag doll as a partner that should “inspire him”. We Scandinavians have always liked independent people all the way back to the vikings and will continue to do this. This works great for us, Americans have another way that would never be able to adapt this way of living.
There's quite a variety of relationships in the US that seem to work fine for the people involved. A lot of men prefer "bossy" women, just one example . I see all kinds here.
What if you share feelings or thoughts and he starts yelling at you, berating you and not willing to stop until he has made you feel so small and insignificant and fearful. Then you’ve got eggshells to walk on. How do you move on from that hmmm?
To say that women do not desire an outcome is an outright LIE! Women desire an outcome even MORE than men!!! The outcome is always love, respect, protection, provision, marriage, etc! What a foolish toxic teaching.
I don't think this is toxic. Of course most women want an outcome but he doesn't need to know that. Not initially as he may feel pressured. Plus HE must lead. I think many men 'ghost ' because the lady is too keen for that outcome. Too eager. Women...get to know his character and intentions. Best to be friends first.
Yes, women will desire and outcome if dating someone. If there are no expectations then definitely you are fooling around and living on another planet.
That’s a red flag. Feminist men sound great…but it’s usually because they have avoidant attachment style…wounded masculine. He’s afraid of being taken and range of.
Invite him to something you enjoy doing so he can watch you having fun in your element. That's how he can get to know you better. We all love to watch the person we like doing something they love, smiling, talking, creating, sharing, etc.
So how are you supposed to properly express feelings? Just saying "I feel sad" and not giving any context will drive a man crazy trying to figure out what the issue is. Non violent communication advises us to attach our feelings to an action some has done, as opposed to the individual itself, they advocate for using formulations like "When you do x, I feel sad". But in this video you advice against that as well, explicitly stating that saying "when you said this, is very hurtful" should be avoided.
Of course you give context. It's how you express your need. I know I used to get very very angry. I had rage from childhood abuse. It's imperative to heal.
Not a good idea. I'm sure deep inside you know you don't really love your therapist. You just feel close to him because he's listening to you and helping you. But remember he's doing it for a price. If you can't pay, he's not going to be your therapist, period. There's no 'love' in transaction, that's business.
It's common to have feelings for your therapist, but these relationships are illegal because they're Not Authentic. You feel it due to closeness that forms as part of Therapist-Client relationship, and that's fine. But you don't know him as a regular person. And you should not.
why don't you make videos on things that guys should do that make women love? Lets turn the table around and see. Your videos are meant to feel like its all women's responsibility to make guy feel certain way, play mind games and get their approval or pass their test. There is no place for honest, loyal and open communication. To all ladies out there if a guy is meant to stay in your life, he will no matter what and if not then you'll keep hearing excuses. Trust me being divorced and gone through hell, all these tips and tricks won't help.. Guys are after you till they don't get validation basically love to chase but once you are in committed relationship or married ..you'll be taken for granted and that's a natural human tendency.. irrespective of gender can happen with man or women if you are with the wrong person. So stop following all this crap and live your life on your own terms.
Brodie addresses females, this channel directed towards women, Brodie’s advice based on biological/social differences between the sexes. For YOU, a great channel to get advice/insight on dating women is “Entrepreneurs In Cars.”
This video is for women. Maybe he will make videos for men on how to treat women better in the future. Lots of content about this on RUclips. The tables are turning... You seem very bitter which is a result of hurt & disappointment. I get it. I will pray for you.
So, I’m curious - how do you justify turning women into manipulators and promoting the idea of emotionally stunted, but therefore “easy to train” men? Do you also not practice honesty with your spouse? 🤔 Is your marriage a union of two people, or is it a business venture? It’d be really interesting to see how long you’d last without the financial benefit you’re making off of inexperienced, emotionally starved folk that come here for your advice… (and that you’re not really teaching anything that will make them better people in any way that it matters.
@@MagnetizeYourMan Actually, that is now what it sounds like, but you sure are marketing yourselves well. I didn’t expect an honest answer, either. You know, they say “what goes around, comes around”, but it really is sad to see that this is what people granted the free will to choose would end up doing.
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This only works if a man has stepped into the masculine mentality of protecting and providing. Doesn’t work with a guy with wounded masculine…who wants all the benefits of a committed relationship but none of the sacrifice and responsibility that it entails.
I’m 63 and in a committed relationship with my man who is 69. We’ve been together a year now. I’m financially our provider. He takes care of what he can but is unable to provide for the things that I can. I am having our home built and furnished, it will be ready this coming spring. We have a prenup which he insisted on. I bought our rings and most always pay for our dining out and entertainment. How can I make him feel and know I respect and honor him. But not feel bad about spending my money to do the things we want. He’s a Godly man, so glad we found each other. His qualities as a man are more valuable to me than money. I’ve been told I should have held out for a man in my financial arena, I tried but never found that deep connection I prayed for. I appreciate all your advice in keeping our relationship together and growing. Thank you. Life is fleeting….prayers for us all.
I definitely agree, broken men are not existed for these nice treatment bc they think negative even we do from our hearts. USELESS
💯 NAILED IT!
I didn't understand until recently, that a man can love bomb for a month, then breadcrumb you into oblivion and never committing once he sees you're comfortable with his love bombs... and women that have never been through this, don't understand it's happening until it's too late... and months in, you realize you have become the doormat and all the sudden you're "mothering" or "trying to close the gap" and he is dreaming about his next chase while you're craving all the attention he gave you in the beginning, before his wounded masculine decided that he's got all the benefits of the relationship without committing.... 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It really messes with the mind and self worth! the longer it goes on, the longer you need to recover and heal from these broken men. 🙏🏽
When he no longer needs you nor wants you anymore nothing in the world will make him stay 😢
Ya got that right. lol
There was absolutely NOTHING I could do to get my ex back. No contact, emotional control, PRAYER. Nothing worked. In hindsight I see I dodged a bullet. He had no integrity or purpose. He was a cowardly man. Who wants that?
He never deserved you!
Someone else will value you genuinely when you least expect it. Have hope. You're not alone.❤
I like how the #1 is about self-love and self-care. It really is crucial.
6. Genuine appreciation
5. Receptive and open
4. Share your emotions vulnerability
3. Encourage his leadership
3. Authentic and honest
1. Maintain selfworth
Excellent video; I'm still struggling to let go of my seven-year relationship. My former significant other, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can't seem to move on. I'm feeling irritated and powerless since nothing has worked to bring him back into my existence. I've tried to move on, but my heart still hurts for him, and I can't see myself with anyone else. I apologise for posting this here, but I just can't seem to move on from missing him.
It's difficult to say goodbye to someone you love; I know this from my 12-year relationship. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually had to seek help from a spiritual counsellor.
By the way, how did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in contact with him?
Father Obah Eze can get your ex back and is a great spiritual counsellor.
Father Obah Eze is who he is; he has incredible powers and can help you.
Thank you for sharing this crucial information; I've just done some research about him online. Startlingly, I looked up Father Obah Eze online and, whoa, he seems like a real guy. Once again, thank you so much ❤
You cannot force a man to stay when he doesn’t want to no matter how soft/feminine a woman is😢
I agree, particularly very old men
Realizing he was better at sharing his emotions than I was.
A man must be confident to know his role as a man that’s it…..
My precious Soulmate king of my heart is in the UK and I always tell him he touch my heart and would love to be in his strong arms wrapped around me where I will feel safe.. That his my fortress and thanks for loving me the way he do.. How I appreciate him as my love..
How to make him feel and know he’s my king when I’m the one with the financial strength in our relationship …
For a man that hasn't insecurities issues that shouldn't be a problem.
My energy is quite masculine sometimes and my boy says that he loves that I'm a trader being a woman (99% are men).
There are many ways to be feminine and make him feel good, don't worry!
This is your best video yet that I have seen anyway. To me. You put so much information in this one and got straight into the meat of it all. Lol. I appreciate this. You are doing a wonderful job and your content is valuable to me if to nobody else. God bless you and your wife and family!
Awesome to hear and glad you liked it! :)
To the lady falling for your therapist First make sure he’s single then . You amaze me , you are so smart, I’m learning so much from you. Ask how do I address him with a problem without sounding needy with out hurting him,
I love my guy with my whole heart..im happy when im around him❤❤❤
I am posting the list, from start to finish #6 - #1. Some timestamps were available.
Hey. All of this has blown my mind. Seriously. Its something I have NEVER heard before and its raw; its real. I find it to be true. In all relationships, there is famine energy and masculine energy roles. I am going to take this to heart, study it and use this to help my marriage. Luckily - I have been doing some of these to the "T" yet truely desire him to take the lead more often. Its exhausting any other way and feels so unnatural.... Thank you for posting such an informative video, one I may learn from and apply in a practical way. ❤ Sending gratitude from my heart to you and yours!
#1 - Maintain your self worth
#2 - Be authentic and honest
#3 - 4:59 Encourage his leadership
#4 - 4:10 Share your emotional vulnerability
#5 - Be receptive and open
#6 - Express genuine appreciation
This video has been extremely helpful and just hearing these points from an actual male gives me so much hope! I have been leaning so much into my masculine energy so I know I’m going to have to play this video a few more times to truly get to actualize these tips. Thank you!!
You're so welcome!
Thank you for sharing!!! 😀😀
I agree with most of your points but not completely. In certain countries we are very equal and it works very well for us. The whole thing about leading and not taking action just sounds like an extremely boring way of life. And letting the control of your life be put in another persons hands. If I want to do something or suggest an activity to do, I will say it. No one wants a dead rag doll as a partner that should “inspire him”. We Scandinavians have always liked independent people all the way back to the vikings and will continue to do this. This works great for us, Americans have another way that would never be able to adapt this way of living.
Dead rag doll? That sounds extreme. I don't think you quite get it.
There's quite a variety of relationships in the US that seem to work fine for the people involved. A lot of men prefer "bossy" women, just one example . I see all kinds here.
So valuable as always ❤🥰👑
So glad!
Wounded little boys who just want their independence CANNOT fulfill this role…no matter how you try to encourage him. It scares him away.
Best advice ever!
What if you share feelings or thoughts and he starts yelling at you, berating you and not willing to stop until he has made you feel so small and insignificant and fearful. Then you’ve got eggshells to walk on. How do you move on from that hmmm?
You value yourself and leave.
He's a narcissist
To say that women do not desire an outcome is an outright LIE! Women desire an outcome even MORE than men!!! The outcome is always love, respect, protection, provision, marriage, etc! What a foolish toxic teaching.
I don't think this is toxic. Of course most women want an outcome but he doesn't need to know that. Not initially as he may feel pressured. Plus HE must lead. I think many men 'ghost ' because the lady is too keen for that outcome. Too eager. Women...get to know his character and intentions. Best to be friends first.
You can desire an outcome without being "attached" to it, that is the key difference that allows you to be in your feminine magnetism
Yes, women will desire and outcome if dating someone. If there are no expectations then definitely you are fooling around and living on another planet.
Thankyou so much
Women look for MEN...not guys...try to keep it on the level
Yes 💯
My guy told me that he wanted me to take him on a date because he wanted me to reciprocate his actions. Is there something wrong with that?
That’s a red flag.
Feminist men sound great…but it’s usually because they have avoidant attachment style…wounded masculine. He’s afraid of being taken and range of.
No. Both partners should be putting in that effort, especially if he's asking for it.
Take him for coffee or have a picnic. Nothing elaborate.
Invite him to something you enjoy doing so he can watch you having fun in your element. That's how he can get to know you better. We all love to watch the person we like doing something they love, smiling, talking, creating, sharing, etc.
Yes. He wants a mommy.
So how are you supposed to properly express feelings? Just saying "I feel sad" and not giving any context will drive a man crazy trying to figure out what the issue is. Non violent communication advises us to attach our feelings to an action some has done, as opposed to the individual itself, they advocate for using formulations like "When you do x, I feel sad". But in this video you advice against that as well, explicitly stating that saying "when you said this, is very hurtful" should be avoided.
Of course you give context. It's how you express your need. I know I used to get very very angry. I had rage from childhood abuse. It's imperative to heal.
Praying for thay guy, thought i found him ,only for him to alaways accuse me of crazy crap ,and make me feel worthlessness
Doesn't look good, buttercup.
Sometimes there is a sunami...
Sadly I can't express that to the obe I love. He's my therapist...
Not a good idea. I'm sure deep inside you know you don't really love your therapist. You just feel close to him because he's listening to you and helping you. But remember he's doing it for a price. If you can't pay, he's not going to be your therapist, period. There's no 'love' in transaction, that's business.
Tsk tsk tsk
It's common to have feelings for your therapist, but these relationships are illegal because they're Not Authentic. You feel it due to closeness that forms as part of Therapist-Client relationship, and that's fine. But you don't know him as a regular person. And you should not.
You are a male chauvinist, but you do make some good points.
Nah.....He honors women.
What happens when this all works for 10 years and then it all falls apart....?
Giving gifts cant be masculine energy. We have holidays and any situation that may cause thoughtfulness
I love you and what you say
“That happened in the ideal world” nowadays 🤨
🌟
why don't you make videos on things that guys should do that make women love? Lets turn the table around and see. Your videos are meant to feel like its all women's responsibility to make guy feel certain way, play mind games and get their approval or pass their test. There is no place for honest, loyal and open communication. To all ladies out there if a guy is meant to stay in your life, he will no matter what and if not then you'll keep hearing excuses. Trust me being divorced and gone through hell, all these tips and tricks won't help.. Guys are after you till they don't get validation basically love to chase but once you are in committed relationship or married ..you'll be taken for granted and that's a natural human tendency.. irrespective of gender can happen with man or women if you are with the wrong person. So stop following all this crap and live your life on your own terms.
Brodie addresses females, this channel directed towards women, Brodie’s advice based on biological/social differences between the sexes. For YOU, a great channel to get advice/insight on dating women is “Entrepreneurs In Cars.”
This video is for women. Maybe he will make videos for men on how to treat women better in the future. Lots of content about this on RUclips. The tables are turning... You seem very bitter which is a result of hurt & disappointment. I get it. I will pray for you.
So, I’m curious - how do you justify turning women into manipulators and promoting the idea of emotionally stunted, but therefore “easy to train” men? Do you also not practice honesty with your spouse? 🤔 Is your marriage a union of two people, or is it a business venture? It’d be really interesting to see how long you’d last without the financial benefit you’re making off of inexperienced, emotionally starved folk that come here for your advice… (and that you’re not really teaching anything that will make them better people in any way that it matters.
Yes what we are teaching here is radical vulnerability, honesty and authenticity
Your trippin. Cool your jets. Your bitter.
@@danilaroche1156 What a lovely, educated, argumented and eloquent comment. Get an education, I’ll be prayin for ya.
@@MagnetizeYourMan Actually, that is now what it sounds like, but you sure are marketing yourselves well. I didn’t expect an honest answer, either. You know, they say “what goes around, comes around”, but it really is sad to see that this is what people granted the free will to choose would end up doing.