Getting A Girlfriend WON'T Make You Happy...
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
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Dude the crazy thing is, I literally just got a girl a couple days ago. But I still focus on working out and meditation. I got her to workout too. I don’t depend on her tho. It’s fun to hang out with her, but I don’t rely on her for my pleasure. As always Matt, love you bro and the videos❤️
Happy for you bro
@@MattSpear99 thanks man❤️
facts and the best part about working on yourself and making yourself the priority while having a girlfriend is if anything happens you still have yourself and your goals so it'll be okay
Your timing is so good… it’s almost scary haha
Ive been talking to a girl for about a month and thinking of asking her out; but I have had good mental health for over a year
Ask her out
Ask her out
A girl should never be the reason why you’re happy, they can’t be the only thing in life to fulfill you but rather they should be a positive person in your life that you can live well without. A girl is just a positive addition to an already good life, or at least, that’s how it should be
Thanks man you truly are amazing help.I just have to keep on working on myself and make sure that I’m always striving to be 1% better everyday. Im on day 4 of semen retention,been doing core everyday and trying to workout because I am pretty skinny. Im also a cross country runner. Just gotta focus on myself and my own goals and be happy with myself before I can handle a girl.
You can’t save yourself but Jesus can
Bs.
But can Jesus save me 15% or more on car insurance in just 15 minutes?
Only God can
Yeah 🎉 💯
Matt you’re becoming better than Hamza in my opinion you’re actually doing stuff that helps people. Keep putting up the good work
He is better than Hamza
I personally didn't like hamza. Just another "red pill" dude.
Yeah and hamzas video are hours long, like who tf has time for that
@@MOH10492hamza used to be good a lil over a year ago. Now he’s totally different.
Wtf is hamza 😂
The thing is people wait to get a gf to "quit" bad habits and if she were to leave them they would without a doubt go back to those bad habits
Love seeing your channel grow Matt!
Great advice as usual.
Thank you Matt, thats a really good reminder. We always tend to forget we dont really need someone to be happy but ourselves.
I’ve been there too. I wasn’t the most attractive person in my high school and when I did get a girls attention one time, I’ve been a bit to clingy, not to mention Ive got played by a girl that same year, I was unhappy that time cuz I was constantly bullied and always relied on other people for happiness. It was only until the second semester of college freshman year that it gave me plenty of time to work on myself, redeem myself from my past wrong doings. So if there’s one thing that I learned is that happiness doesn’t only come from friends, it comes from you and how do you find true happiness with your routines
Thank you matt!
Can you go into more detail on how to get over not feeling good enough or what we can do
Thank you bro❤
Thx bro I appreciate you're help
Not gona lie man its hard to see this reality. Credit to you for making a video like this. So many guys struggle with this. You make some great points that I personally experienced as well. Its difficult to see it through but I will try.
Matt you are stating facts, Thank you matt I need to build myself and then women eventually enter my life I need to prioritize Me and my purpose women are a bonus in my life, not my life!!
thank you king.
I'm currently in a relationship right now. We're in a healthy relationship but i feel sad and depressed because i have no control over my mental health. Everyday I feel weak and I feel disgusted about myself and i overthink too much. I'm kind of insecure about myself and I feel like I'm really immature. I used to be depressed for a long time and when i met my girl few days before i decided to change myself and started working on it. but after getting into relationship i stopped focusing on it and i got depressed eventually after 2 months. im willing to work on those 6 steps and i will do these properly this time which i promise to myself. i won't let myself down but i want to know if the things you mentioned are possible to do while being in a relationship. Because the way i am right now i feel like it's affecting my relationship at some extent so i'd like to to know if i can work to change myself while being in a relationship or not
I can confirm this is true brother
Bruh I got everything I need long term. I got the job and I got 40k in my savings. I’m confident in myself and I still can’t get a girl lmao
Hate to break it to you but most girls can be financially independent these days and don't need a man for that. You gotta have the looks and game to compensate
Dude practicing this Nofap by your own without Jesus you can't win this battle none of us can, I tried multiple times celibacy and that is impossible to do with a flow cause there's gonna be triggers always around us.
Matt this girl came in my while I was focusing on myself it was going great but now I feel like I’m being to clingy to her but she seem not to be bothered by it
Sheesh w vid let’s go
Real❗
Bro noted my comment earlier😅
Goals before holes 💪💪💪
real
I have social anxiety and i watched instagram profiles of 2 girls every day. SIMP, also i had a simp mindset that if my crush doesn't show to school my day is bad. SIMP, thank god i got rid of both those problems 😎
What happend ???? Thats a diffrent light in the room
No added light this time. Just the natural light from outside
@@MattSpear99 well its diffrent than before
Movies are the problem where max of the teenager get scammed!!!
Perfect sense for me. You are talking like the John Bradshaw. Very long-going idea
Matt, I was on a 3 week SR streak and I had a nocturnal emission today, I don’t know where I stand with my streak Atm, I wanted to see if you can tell me if my streak stills intact and am If I’m still gonna experience the benefits
Yes you’re good bro. Wet dreams are natural part of the process. Just keep going
I strongly disagree, woman and men were meant to be together, self improvement and being whole , doSent work u need both be whole while having women , we self improve for women and if you disagree your cap , women are a big part of our happiness, but I get the mindset tho
Ofc