It’s funny that Toni’s insecurity was bright colours because I (as an extremely pale person) have always been told that they won’t look good on me and only work for dark skin tones! She rocked all the looks btw!
This goes to show that people will always have something negative to say about what you should and shouldn't do or wear. But in the end it's none of anyone's business except your own. Wear whatever you feel like wearing and do whatever you wanna do!
This is a big thing for black people, black girls specifically. As soon as she said her insecurity I was like omg yess. I grew up with people telling me that, specialy my family. I'm glad that now people recognize how gorgeous bright colors look on dark skin.
As a dark skin woman I relate to Toni sooo much. All your life you are told to not wear bright colors because it makes you look darker. Trying to break that mentality is sooooo hard especially also being a plus size woman where literally black clothing is advertised. This video was much needed. Bravo!!
But whyyyyy? Your skin tone, as well as Toni's, looks so great. Since I don't have dark skin I certainly can not relate to it, but I think you are beautiful. And if bright colors make you look darker, you still look beautiful. Don't let anyone dictate what you have to wear.
@A M honestly, family members said that. Its sad to say but its the truth. Media only confirmed what I was being told, not directly but it is inferred. Looking at plus size website, black dresses are literally advertised for the summer time
I never upvote videos, but I upvoted this one for Shane. Damn, what a legend. I am so inspired by his choice to push himself and put himself out there like this. I am not Trans, but I know from hearing from others how intense chest dysphoria can be. King status
@@phoenixnystrom7532 I didn't realize I was gender fluid till I was 21. Though I did identify as bi though now I know I'm pans. So it was a struggle to be pan in school
@abeMiss Yes! People need to normalize not everybody having the same body shape. Like why do all women need to have huge breasts and a big butt- just let people be who they wanna beeeeeeee
VERY proud of him for pushing himself past his insecurities, but if he wasn't feeling safe then... he had a right to leave and go home if he was feeling that unsafe 🥺 also babe his cat was SO PRETTYYYYYYY
My biggest insecurity has always been my stomach and thighs and yesterday I bought a very form fitting jumpsuit and my very first bikini swimsuit. I know yall wont care but this is alot for me Thanks you guys for all of the support watching videos like this really helped me have the confidence and I am wearing the jumpsuit to my friends wedding tomorrow and I just got back from a lake wearing my swimsuit To anyone who does not know my pro nouns are he/they/she so don’t worry about calling me a girl or boy or anything like that if you wanted to know
I really care because I was looking for this comment. My biggest insecurity is my stomach and thighs, and I’ve always wanted to wear a bikini but I never have. I’m thinking that maybe I should just get out there and try it. I’m female and I also can’t shave down there because I have a really bad rash, so I’m super insecure about wearing a bikini. But I’ve always wanted to. Maybe I should just try it one day
I'm self conscious about my excessive body hair, so I felt like I couldn't wear crop tops. My boyfriend tells me all the time that I don't have to shave to be beautiful. He doesn't care if I shave or not, he will love me no matter what I look like. I know that self love should be from within, but him saying that has really helped me a lot.
Shane is breaking down barriers for all trans/non-binary people. He is so brave and I think everyone can admit that what he did is just completely amazing
It's amazing to hear other people talk about their insecurities, they are always things I wouldn't notice OR I admire! For example, I've always been obsessed with how amazing neon/bright colors look against dark skin. This helps me understand that the things I feel self conscious about probably aren't even on anyone else's radar. ❤
"My mom" is my biggest clothing insecurity. She is the person whom I had a 4 hour fight with on my prom night over my choice of footwear, like seriously. She is the reason I pack 2 outfits when I come and visit her because she's going to say something so negative about me and what I'm wearing. And now, I will not go shopping with her or allow her anywhere near anything having to do with my clothing choices. Like she will NEVER be on my list of people to go wedding dress shopping with. She's a super insecure person herself and has admitted she takes it out on me, but she's also made no attempts to change that behavior which just sucks.
I’m sorry to hear that. That must be very exhausting and frustrating for you. I’m glad that you at least know that it’s actually about her and has nothing to do with you. I hope that you find strength to stand by your boundaries and put up new ones if she doesn’t change. You only deserve the best and respectful treatment! Sending you love!
@@ohboilien Thank you for your kind words. Being constantly judged is mentally exhausting, but I do stay firm on not exposing myself to that negativity as much anymore because it's not healthy for me and I know that.
I'm so glad you're standing your ground! Her opinions on your outfits being so negative is disgusting and disturbing. My mom was like that and told me my body didn't work in clothes other's bodies did. She shamed me but I never stopped wearing whatever I wanted!!! Now she's out of my life and I found my confidence through clothes. You matter and your beautiful body matters too! Clothing is self expression and is essential for your positive development and self love 💕 wishing you the best and don't excuse any of her nasty behavior
Shane shines so bright, I really love his energy! All three looked just wonderful & I really wish I learned something for my own journey of accepting myself! We're all beautiful
I have to say the depth and vulnerability of this video and these wonderful people touched me deeply. The representation of different folks facing different insecurities is wonderful. I just want to thank all the participants -- you are beautiful and inspiring!
As a young trans/genderfluid person, I was so incredibly happy to see Shane talk about chest dysphoria and safety precautions. It is so important for me to see genuine representation and this made my day!
As a Black woman I've always the different shades of brown that we come in, Toni skin tone is GORGEOUS! I thought she was going to talk about some other insecurity.
Remember, colourism and Euro-centric standards of beauty are constantly pushed in our society. Toni's insecurities were extremely valid, especially since the media is constantly trying to paint black folks in a negative light and colourism is a huge problem within the black community.
shane feeling himself in that burgundy muscle tee made me actually gasp out loud because he looked SO incredibly handsome. this whole video is really great and reminds me that our biggest insecurities can be the things other people love most about us. 💕
seeing everyone become more confident and their insecurities becoming less and less of an issue for them is really inspiring because they went for it and tackled their insecurities no matter how scared they were
These three are fabulous. It just goes to show that how you present yourself to the world, and the confidence you show, are all that people know. We’d never know that they felt insecure if they didn’t tell us.
When I was younger and a size 6 I was so self conscious about wearing anything that was more than 10 percent out of my “comfort” zone. Now that I’m older and a size 18 I have learned much more about how to style an outfit and wear any damn thing I want. I honestly have more fun dressing myself now than 80 lbs ago. And it’s thanks to people like y’all who have taught me to just be me. Love to all. ❤️
Shane you look so masculine even with your chest exposed!!! It takes nothing away from your gender identity and you look so beautiful! The last outfit was by far my favorite omg
Right!? I've been stepping out of my comfort zone lately and wearing shorts and more fitted clothes. My neighbor keeps saying stuff like, oh wow, you're dressing more sexy. Or you look sexy. And I have to keep asking my husband if the outfit actually looks good or if she's trying to tell me to cover up....
@@chacopaco407 Gurllll I'm so glad you've been stepping out of your comfort zone!! 💕💕 I'm pretty sure you're rocking it ;)) And no, I feel like your neighbor's actually complimenting you . Don't you dare cover up ( if you don't want to) . Be unapologetically YOU😤💖
i am honestly so proud of all of these wonderful people. i'm trans so i completely understand what shane was experiencing. i am so, so happy and proud of everybody who participated in this
Tank tops actually makes Jessica look slimmer and bright colours actually makes her skin pops 💀💀💀 it literally doing the opposite of what they think lol
I know that you mean this as a compliment, but "looking slimmer" was never the goal of Jessica wearing a tank top. Associating being thin with success is the opposite of the point of this video.
@@carolinedilts3878 they probably thought that jessica’s insecurity was how big her arms were. that’s why Andrea said that they looked slimmer in tank tops bc we assume she’s insecure with the size
@Caroline Dilts I knew someone was going to say that, but think about it, what change happened in quarantine that she had to get used to? Having fatter arms right? That’s the thing she’s insecure about even if she didn’t directly say that, that’s why the original commenter wrote that.
Advice for anyone struggling with confidence and or insecurities: think about it like this who told you these bad things about yourself who told you to believe those things so why can’t you start believing in the good things about yourself find a positive about your insecurities and start bringing the negative thought to the for front and turn into a positive Ik it’s easier said then done (bc I still struggle with my own insecurities but it’s getting better) but once you start thinking positive about YOU you’ll prosper
I got a small tub of ice cream and my brother says omg your eating all that? Your gonna get so fat and you already are fat it’ll just make it worse! and my sister said yea.. 😳 and I was just like.. “ ok 🥺 “ I went to my room crying eating ice cream and they post this which made me feel special 🥺💗
I keep tattooing my insecure parts. I don’t like my thighs so I got a thigh tattoo. Now I have to wear shorts. I don’t like my collar bones so I got collar tattoos. Now I have to wear scoop neck shirts. I don’t like my bat wings so I got a tattoo on them. Now I have to wear tank tops.
Jillian, this is brilliant! It makes your insecurities beautiful and people notice your tattoos instead of your body insecurities. I am using this advice!
watching things like this that are exuding positivity and confidence really gives me serotonin and just radiated the confident and joyful energy, and i’d like to stay here :)
Toni‘s skin is sooo beautiful. I’m mixed African and European/Black and White and when I was younger I was a lot darker than now and bright colors looked so great on me and now I’m lighter because I’m rarely in the sun (not on purpose) and I think it doesn’t look as popping as it used to.
This whole video was so amazing and legit I wanted to shed a tear..Toni looks AMAZING in bright colors, her skin looks soooooooo gooooddd and shes soooo beautifulll! Jess is a freaking fashion ICON, i loved allll of her fits! She's so gorgeous! Shane's whole situation was sooooo brave and so inspiratonal, I love all 3 of these people and I thank them for their bravery. I know this will help so many people
Shane's outfits and confidence make me want to step out of my comfort zone more and try styles that better show my gender identity :')) he pulled every outfit off so damn well
It’s so interesting to hear and see what other people are insecure about, because I always wonder, why would they be insecure about that, they look great. So maybe to other, my own insecurities don’t look as bad as I myself think I do 🤔
For me my biggest insecurity is my calves and thighs. They are bigger in proportion to my stomach. I challenged myself to wear leggings yesterday. This video had great timing because I really needed this after yesterday’s bad body image day.
It’s crazy to think about how others insecurities are something that you would never pick up on because you’re not as critical of them as they are with themselves. I think big calves and thighs are beautiful and look strong. Congratulations on going out of your comfort zone and wearing leggings. I’m sure you look amazing😊
I am so proud of you guys to be doing this, but also in front of millions if people online and all of your insecurities are beautiful. you all are beautiful!!
I’m so proud of you all! Whatever you’re trying to hide, everyone knows it’s there, so dress for yourself. Have some fun with what you wear. Brown skin is beautiful, and looks the best in vibrant colours. Bravo!
I love younger people today and their body positivity. I'm 33 and when I was in my 20's things just weren't so encouraging. I bought a jumpsuit I really like but I'm insecure about my arms and this instantly made me feel more confident. Thanks, youngin's!
Its been 5 years i have not wore any short clothings that expose my legs, i am really insecure abt my thighs and legs. I am always covered on the bottom i would love to wear a short dress or shorts but i am scared.
I used to be the same! I worked my way up slowly! Started by showing my legs in front of friends and family and taking pictures to show myself that it’s not that bad! Trust me you got this! It takes time but you can do it! You’re beautiful, wear whatever you want ❤️
Ya’ll are Beautiful! You totally proved that your insecurities are fabricated and you can’t let them hinder you. People may judge but it will never be what you think, and it is OK to let yourself be free to live your best life. Kudos on your bravery and I hope you continue your journey towards happiness and peace, as we all deserve that!
EACH of these beautiful souls aren't just breaking stereotypes and barriers, Y'ALL ARE SLAYING THEM! To EVERYONE who took the few minutes to watch this, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND perfect AS YOU ARE!! Sending love light and joy for all of you. Blessed Sunday everyone
My biggest insecurity is my SCAR But now I started loving 'em because they are the reminders of something that I went through & I passed it courageously. ✌️🦶💛
Through the whole video...I was thinking about my insecurities too...I was saying my arms too...it's rare when I raise my arms...and I have so much confidence too...🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️..I don't usually buy things that are sleeveless and when I do I always think what can I put on top of it to cover my arms...
Hey , hey, if you want you can check scarred not scared, Michelle is the woman running it and a wonderful person with loads of scars due to surgery, she has videos here maybe it could help you loving yourself even more !( she is on YT & instagram)
I have to say I would not have had a hint of a thought about any of the 3 highlighting their insecurities! Gorgeous skin, gorgeous girl, and gorgeous man! All three are a delight!
You all looked amazing. Thank you for allowing us to go a long with challenging your insecurities. It's huge!! BTW, Shane, the sporting store is a whole "situation" 👀 that has nothing to do with you.
I'm so happy just watching them challenging their body image w things I also struggle a lot with (I have/had huge issues accepting my chest,skin and also my natural hair) and I'm so happy seeing that these beautiful people can love themselves and see themselves in all their greatness I hope to see myself like that one day💕🥺
i jusr recently found out im in stage 2 of Lipedema.... its been a whirlwind of emotions, but i know now is my chance to restart my relationship with my body, accept myself as is, stop hiding and be free. this channel has helped me so much and i just want to thank all of you for sharing your insecurities
I am going thew a big step of trying to be more masculine now and trying to fit in more with the “male” category so Shane feels like a huge idol right now!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Everyone looked absolutely amazing the whole way through 😍 insecurities are so hard to pinpoint and analyze and I'm so so so proud of all of them for doing this and feeling so good at the end of this 💕
This beautiful young woman talking about her skin color and how she wouldn‘t wear bright neon colors because of the contrast and would make her look darker just made me cry… I really hope one day we will overcome all of the hate, discourage and just accept everyone…
Jessica’s 3rd or 4th outfit (idk whatever the knit top and jeans one was) IS LITERALLY SO CUTE I LOVE IT SM AND IT LOOKS SO GOOD ON HER AND SHE STYLED IT SO WELL (she has a good taste it fashion)
Love love love this video, its so true, just be gentle with yourself! No one knows your insecurities and hopefully that provides freedom to love yourself to the fullest as best as you can!
My biggest insecurity was my hair, it used to give me bad dysphoria but I just got a pixie after years of really needing it. I know that I had great hair which everyone liked but it made me feel horrid and since I got the cut I have never felt so good in my life and confidence is through the roof. Wish I could have cut it earlier but better late than never
This motivated me to face some of my insecurities! Thank you so much for making this video, and to everyone facing their insecurities, I’m proud of you and you are doing amazing! Keep going!
everyone looked great in the outfits they picked!!!!!! I hope this challenge helped show everyone they can totally rock anything!! loving the confidence
It’s funny that Toni’s insecurity was bright colours because I (as an extremely pale person) have always been told that they won’t look good on me and only work for dark skin tones! She rocked all the looks btw!
This goes to show that people will always have something negative to say about what you should and shouldn't do or wear. But in the end it's none of anyone's business except your own. Wear whatever you feel like wearing and do whatever you wanna do!
I think you'd look amazing in bright colors 😁
This is a big thing for black people, black girls specifically. As soon as she said her insecurity I was like omg yess. I grew up with people telling me that, specialy my family. I'm glad that now people recognize how gorgeous bright colors look on dark skin.
As a dark skin woman I relate to Toni sooo much. All your life you are told to not wear bright colors because it makes you look darker. Trying to break that mentality is sooooo hard especially also being a plus size woman where literally black clothing is advertised. This video was much needed. Bravo!!
Surprisingly, I’ve always been told to not wear black because of my dark skin
But whyyyyy? Your skin tone, as well as Toni's, looks so great. Since I don't have dark skin I certainly can not relate to it, but I think you are beautiful. And if bright colors make you look darker, you still look beautiful. Don't let anyone dictate what you have to wear.
@A M honestly, family members said that. Its sad to say but its the truth. Media only confirmed what I was being told, not directly but it is inferred. Looking at plus size website, black dresses are literally advertised for the summer time
@@RK-ci1yi Thank youu 💕💕
I'm super pale so this is coming from someone who can't actually pull off neon at all- ladies with darker skin look AMAZING in neon.
I never upvote videos, but I upvoted this one for Shane. Damn, what a legend. I am so inspired by his choice to push himself and put himself out there like this. I am not Trans, but I know from hearing from others how intense chest dysphoria can be. King status
I came here to say the exact same thing. Beaming with pride and gratitude for Shane!!!! ♥️♥️♥️
I'm gender fluid. And I have a big chest. It sucks so bad
@@shadowprismaticwolf same, and I’m only 15, so it’s really hard at school
@@phoenixnystrom7532 I didn't realize I was gender fluid till I was 21. Though I did identify as bi though now I know I'm pans. So it was a struggle to be pan in school
@abeMiss Yes! People need to normalize not everybody having the same body shape. Like why do all women need to have huge breasts and a big butt- just let people be who they wanna beeeeeeee
Shane you are so brave. It is so sad that in trying to accept your body, you were concerned about your safety. We need to do better
This! It broke my heart to hear him say he was concerned for his safety. 💔
Agreed x
VERY proud of him for pushing himself past his insecurities, but if he wasn't feeling safe then... he had a right to leave and go home if he was feeling that unsafe 🥺 also babe his cat was SO PRETTYYYYYYY
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We have such a long way to go but we can help by informing our youth its okay to be different
My biggest insecurity has always been my arms. This just inspired me to buy a one sleeve!!
Yass queen 👑
You’re gonna look SO beautiful 💕💕 proud of you bby
I hate my arms too, this has been so positive to watch💖
You go girl!!! 😋😛
Mine too girl
My biggest insecurity has always been my stomach and thighs and yesterday I bought a very form fitting jumpsuit and my very first bikini swimsuit. I know yall wont care but this is alot for me
Thanks you guys for all of the support watching videos like this really helped me have the confidence and I am wearing the jumpsuit to my friends wedding tomorrow and I just got back from a lake wearing my swimsuit
To anyone who does not know my pro nouns are he/they/she so don’t worry about calling me a girl or boy or anything like that if you wanted to know
You go girl !!!
happy for you!! you're gonna rock it!
We do care! Congrats you’re amazing and I know you will look amazing :) take all the time you need!
I really care because I was looking for this comment. My biggest insecurity is my stomach and thighs, and I’ve always wanted to wear a bikini but I never have. I’m thinking that maybe I should just get out there and try it. I’m female and I also can’t shave down there because I have a really bad rash, so I’m super insecure about wearing a bikini. But I’ve always wanted to. Maybe I should just try it one day
@@finneyhamster9106yes do try it!
It’s interesting that I didn’t notice their “flaws” until they consistently pointed it out
Yes, it’s a sad fact that people don’t realize their perfections and that their « flaws » are just another amazing part of them
This video is like a free therapy session. Thanks for the love and positivity!! 💛
Love Shane so much. His eyes are AMAZING and just help to exude how cool and bright he is. Love human sunflowers.
“human sunflowers” i love that!
im gonna steal human sunflowers!
@@dream9873 "We’re all beautiful golden sunflowers inside"
Allen Ginsberg
I'm self conscious about my excessive body hair, so I felt like I couldn't wear crop tops. My boyfriend tells me all the time that I don't have to shave to be beautiful. He doesn't care if I shave or not, he will love me no matter what I look like. I know that self love should be from within, but him saying that has really helped me a lot.
From what I've learned with my now thick happy trail DONT TOUCH IT . . It comes back stronger
And also it don't stop the croptop
Your boyfriend is so nice!!!!
@@aiden5246 I don’t deserve him
@@sarahkinsey5434 omg yes u do!
Shane is breaking down barriers for all trans/non-binary people. He is so brave and I think everyone can admit that what he did is just completely amazing
Omg yeah, i;m non binary and would never DREAM of showing my chest, he’s so brave!
It's amazing to hear other people talk about their insecurities, they are always things I wouldn't notice OR I admire! For example, I've always been obsessed with how amazing neon/bright colors look against dark skin. This helps me understand that the things I feel self conscious about probably aren't even on anyone else's radar. ❤
The insta photoshoot day killed me, they all looked absolutely amazing and their confidence was SO inspiring!
She SLAYED that bandana top,
brb going to buy one right now !!!!
Riiiight, I love bandana tops, but I thought they were only for the itty bitty committee. I stand soooooo corrected!
And to think it was the one she was the most nervous for! It looks SO good on her.
She's giving me Selena vibes in that top!!
out of all the outfits she tried on I liked the bandana the most
"My mom" is my biggest clothing insecurity. She is the person whom I had a 4 hour fight with on my prom night over my choice of footwear, like seriously. She is the reason I pack 2 outfits when I come and visit her because she's going to say something so negative about me and what I'm wearing. And now, I will not go shopping with her or allow her anywhere near anything having to do with my clothing choices. Like she will NEVER be on my list of people to go wedding dress shopping with. She's a super insecure person herself and has admitted she takes it out on me, but she's also made no attempts to change that behavior which just sucks.
I’m sorry to hear that. That must be very exhausting and frustrating for you. I’m glad that you at least know that it’s actually about her and has nothing to do with you. I hope that you find strength to stand by your boundaries and put up new ones if she doesn’t change. You only deserve the best and respectful treatment! Sending you love!
@@ohboilien Thank you for your kind words. Being constantly judged is mentally exhausting, but I do stay firm on not exposing myself to that negativity as much anymore because it's not healthy for me and I know that.
The best thing about this is you are taking control and setting boundaries. Good for you!
Sending you love Bando 💞
I'm so glad you're standing your ground! Her opinions on your outfits being so negative is disgusting and disturbing. My mom was like that and told me my body didn't work in clothes other's bodies did. She shamed me but I never stopped wearing whatever I wanted!!! Now she's out of my life and I found my confidence through clothes. You matter and your beautiful body matters too! Clothing is self expression and is essential for your positive development and self love 💕 wishing you the best and don't excuse any of her nasty behavior
Shane shines so bright, I really love his energy!
All three looked just wonderful & I really wish I learned something for my own journey of accepting myself! We're all beautiful
That pink moment is everything!!!
Omg Shane is STUNNING!! I'm obsessed with his vibe and style
is no one gonna talk about how good all three of their senses of styles are?!?!
I have to say the depth and vulnerability of this video and these wonderful people touched me deeply. The representation of different folks facing different insecurities is wonderful. I just want to thank all the participants -- you are beautiful and inspiring!
As a young trans/genderfluid person, I was so incredibly happy to see Shane talk about chest dysphoria and safety precautions. It is so important for me to see genuine representation and this made my day!
As a Black woman I've always the different shades of brown that we come in, Toni skin tone is GORGEOUS! I thought she was going to talk about some other insecurity.
Those bright colors were MADE FOR HER🥰❤😍
I SWEAR😩😩 she rocking tf outta em’
The black girl is CRAZYYY, her skin is GORGEOUS ✨ & everything looks 10 times prettier on her skin tone
@@extrashotofespresso_ yeah I'm with this, you don't really chose your insecurities and you can't really change them so she's not crazy ✨
@@extrashotofespresso_ was about to say this! 💯
As a brown woman I totally understand wearing clothes that I feel don't make my skin colour stand out
Remember, colourism and Euro-centric standards of beauty are constantly pushed in our society. Toni's insecurities were extremely valid, especially since the media is constantly trying to paint black folks in a negative light and colourism is a huge problem within the black community.
She's flawless
shane feeling himself in that burgundy muscle tee made me actually gasp out loud because he looked SO incredibly handsome. this whole video is really great and reminds me that our biggest insecurities can be the things other people love most about us. 💕
seeing everyone become more confident and their insecurities becoming less and less of an issue for them is really inspiring because they went for it and tackled their insecurities no matter how scared they were
Shawn gives me the best vibes
0:29 baby blue fit SERVED AND UNDERSTOOD THE ASSIGNMENT! Ma'am I'm stealing this whole look and won't be taking no more questions at this time.
These three are fabulous. It just goes to show that how you present yourself to the world, and the confidence you show, are all that people know. We’d never know that they felt insecure if they didn’t tell us.
“We’re here...we’re queer...and we have our arms out”
I will I’ve by that for as long as I live
Toni's skin tone is so beautiful omg, I'm so shocked to know that it's an insecurity of hers
When I was younger and a size 6 I was so self conscious about wearing anything that was more than 10 percent out of my “comfort” zone. Now that I’m older and a size 18 I have learned much more about how to style an outfit and wear any damn thing I want. I honestly have more fun dressing myself now than 80 lbs ago. And it’s thanks to people like y’all who have taught me to just be me. Love to all. ❤️
Shane you look so masculine even with your chest exposed!!! It takes nothing away from your gender identity and you look so beautiful! The last outfit was by far my favorite omg
Y'all I almost always take compliments as backhanded compliments 😩
Right!? I've been stepping out of my comfort zone lately and wearing shorts and more fitted clothes. My neighbor keeps saying stuff like, oh wow, you're dressing more sexy. Or you look sexy. And I have to keep asking my husband if the outfit actually looks good or if she's trying to tell me to cover up....
@@chacopaco407 Gurllll I'm so glad you've been stepping out of your comfort zone!! 💕💕 I'm pretty sure you're rocking it ;))
And no, I feel like your neighbor's actually complimenting you .
Don't you dare cover up ( if you don't want to) . Be unapologetically YOU😤💖
Yep me too
Shane SLAYED that last outfit, it looked so good on him!
i am honestly so proud of all of these wonderful people. i'm trans so i completely understand what shane was experiencing. i am so, so happy and proud of everybody who participated in this
Tank tops actually makes Jessica look slimmer and bright colours actually makes her skin pops 💀💀💀 it literally doing the opposite of what they think lol
I was thinking the same thing lol
I know that you mean this as a compliment, but "looking slimmer" was never the goal of Jessica wearing a tank top. Associating being thin with success is the opposite of the point of this video.
Yes, yes, all insecurities are rooted in logic
@@carolinedilts3878 they probably thought that jessica’s insecurity was how big her arms were. that’s why Andrea said that they looked slimmer in tank tops bc we assume she’s insecure with the size
@Caroline Dilts I knew someone was going to say that, but think about it, what change happened in quarantine that she had to get used to? Having fatter arms right? That’s the thing she’s insecure about even if she didn’t directly say that, that’s why the original commenter wrote that.
Advice for anyone struggling with confidence and or insecurities:
think about it like this who told you these bad things about yourself who told you to believe those things
so why can’t you start believing in the good things about yourself
find a positive about your insecurities and start bringing the negative thought to the for front and turn into a positive
Ik it’s easier said then done (bc I still struggle with my own insecurities but it’s getting better) but once you start thinking positive about YOU you’ll prosper
I got a small tub of ice cream and my brother says omg your eating all that? Your gonna get so fat and you already are fat it’ll just make it worse! and my sister said yea.. 😳 and I was just like.. “ ok 🥺 “ I went to my room crying eating ice cream and they post this which made me feel special 🥺💗
Tysm for this 🥺💗
I’m trying to lose weight also and the ice cream was on my cheat day 🥺😭
@@lr_laura im so sorry :( nobody should go through that
There is nothing good about me lol
I keep tattooing my insecure parts. I don’t like my thighs so I got a thigh tattoo. Now I have to wear shorts. I don’t like my collar bones so I got collar tattoos. Now I have to wear scoop neck shirts. I don’t like my bat wings so I got a tattoo on them. Now I have to wear tank tops.
Whats bat wings?
I like this
Jillian, this is brilliant! It makes your insecurities beautiful and people notice your tattoos instead of your body insecurities. I am using this advice!
Same same !!! I got sleeves because I hate my arms and now I love love love my arms!!
Same! Just a month ago I got tattoos on my arm and back because I'm insecure about those!
watching things like this that are exuding positivity and confidence really gives me serotonin and just radiated the confident and joyful energy, and i’d like to stay here :)
Toni‘s skin is sooo beautiful. I’m mixed African and European/Black and White and when I was younger I was a lot darker than now and bright colors looked so great on me and now I’m lighter because I’m rarely in the sun (not on purpose) and I think it doesn’t look as popping as it used to.
Jessica is sooo beautiful!! Plus size QUEEN!❤️
More of 600 pound shame
@@amymifsud7864 how about you stop bullying people? It's not cool. If you bully people you are a horrible person
as someone with dysphoria, i am so so proud of shame for going without a binder. it is something that is very hard to do and he handled it so well!!
Shane is so attractive!! Got butterflies whenever he was on screen
This whole video was so amazing and legit I wanted to shed a tear..Toni looks AMAZING in bright colors, her skin looks soooooooo gooooddd and shes soooo beautifulll! Jess is a freaking fashion ICON, i loved allll of her fits! She's so gorgeous! Shane's whole situation was sooooo brave and so inspiratonal, I love all 3 of these people and I thank them for their bravery. I know this will help so many people
Shane's outfits and confidence make me want to step out of my comfort zone more and try styles that better show my gender identity :')) he pulled every outfit off so damn well
im scared of bright colors
was about only neon hoodies behind her lol
P.S love you bravery. 8th
It’s so interesting to hear and see what other people are insecure about, because I always wonder, why would they be insecure about that, they look great. So maybe to other, my own insecurities don’t look as bad as I myself think I do 🤔
For me my biggest insecurity is my calves and thighs. They are bigger in proportion to my stomach. I challenged myself to wear leggings yesterday. This video had great timing because I really needed this after yesterday’s bad body image day.
It’s crazy to think about how others insecurities are something that you would never pick up on because you’re not as critical of them as they are with themselves. I think big calves and thighs are beautiful and look strong. Congratulations on going out of your comfort zone and wearing leggings. I’m sure you look amazing😊
@@whattheheckie3024 thank you 😊
This is what im doing this summer.🥰
Y’all are REAL ROLE MODELS! Self LOVE LOOKS SOO GOOD ON YAH!
I am so proud of you guys to be doing this, but also in front of millions if people online and all of your insecurities are beautiful. you all are beautiful!!
That bright pink dress is so cute! Toni looked so good in bright colours, she should wear them more often!
I’m so proud of you all! Whatever you’re trying to hide, everyone knows it’s there, so dress for yourself. Have some fun with what you wear. Brown skin is beautiful, and looks the best in vibrant colours. Bravo!
I love younger people today and their body positivity. I'm 33 and when I was in my 20's things just weren't so encouraging. I bought a jumpsuit I really like but I'm insecure about my arms and this instantly made me feel more confident. Thanks, youngin's!
Its been 5 years i have not wore any short clothings that expose my legs, i am really insecure abt my thighs and legs. I am always covered on the bottom i would love to wear a short dress or shorts but i am scared.
You can do it! Wear whatever you want to wear! ❤️❤️❤️
Take all the time you need and one day you will be ready :) we believe in you!
@@lanadelrey3njoyer388 thankyou so much
@@ohboilien thankyou for believing ❤️
I used to be the same! I worked my way up slowly! Started by showing my legs in front of friends and family and taking pictures to show myself that it’s not that bad! Trust me you got this! It takes time but you can do it! You’re beautiful, wear whatever you want ❤️
Ya’ll are Beautiful! You totally proved that your insecurities are fabricated and you can’t let them hinder you. People may judge but it will never be what you think, and it is OK to let yourself be free to live your best life. Kudos on your bravery and I hope you continue your journey towards happiness and peace, as we all deserve that!
That hot pink dress was EVERYTHING!! Your skin was glowing and georgeous 😍😍😍😍
EACH of these beautiful souls aren't just breaking stereotypes and barriers, Y'ALL ARE SLAYING THEM! To EVERYONE who took the few minutes to watch this, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND perfect AS YOU ARE!! Sending love light and joy for all of you. Blessed Sunday everyone
My biggest insecurity is my SCAR
But now I started loving 'em because they are the reminders of something that I went through & I passed it courageously.
✌️🦶💛
I actually love scars on ppl, like it just shows the hard times they’ve gone through but it shows how strong they are too.
Through the whole video...I was thinking about my insecurities too...I was saying my arms too...it's rare when I raise my arms...and I have so much confidence too...🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️..I don't usually buy things that are sleeveless and when I do I always think what can I put on top of it to cover my arms...
Hey , hey, if you want you can check scarred not scared, Michelle is the woman running it and a wonderful person with loads of scars due to surgery, she has videos here maybe it could help you loving yourself even more !( she is on YT & instagram)
tbh Shane is my stylish goals ocmpletely he looks PERFECT
They literally looked so amazing in EVERY outfit! 👌🏼🥰
these outfits were so fire though!! Shane KILLED IT, I loved those patterned pants so much.
all of you three have nothing to be insecure about. Your are all beautiful :-) sending some love from germany
I have to say I would not have had a hint of a thought about any of the 3 highlighting their insecurities! Gorgeous skin, gorgeous girl, and gorgeous man! All three are a delight!
So proud of everyone for tackling their insecurities and absolutely killing it! Am beyond obsessed with Toni's glasses, I neeeeed these but purple!!!!
You all looked amazing. Thank you for allowing us to go a long with challenging your insecurities. It's huge!! BTW, Shane, the sporting store is a whole "situation" 👀 that has nothing to do with you.
I'm so happy just watching them challenging their body image w things I also struggle a lot with (I have/had huge issues accepting my chest,skin and also my natural hair) and I'm so happy seeing that these beautiful people can love themselves and see themselves in all their greatness I hope to see myself like that one day💕🥺
i jusr recently found out im in stage 2 of Lipedema.... its been a whirlwind of emotions, but i know now is my chance to restart my relationship with my body, accept myself as is, stop hiding and be free. this channel has helped me so much and i just want to thank all of you for sharing your insecurities
All of their second outfits were my favorite; they all looked amazing!
Love yourself
Respect yourself
“And I feel so pretty” my heart SINGS!! 💓
I am going thew a big step of trying to be more masculine now and trying to fit in more with the “male” category so Shane feels like a huge idol right now!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
i love this series. thank you for being so vulnerable
They brought back Shane!!!! He's just a ray of sunshine!
Everyone looked absolutely amazing the whole way through 😍 insecurities are so hard to pinpoint and analyze and I'm so so so proud of all of them for doing this and feeling so good at the end of this 💕
This beautiful young woman talking about her skin color and how she wouldn‘t wear bright neon colors because of the contrast and would make her look darker just made me cry… I really hope one day we will overcome all of the hate, discourage and just accept everyone…
I’m a simple person. I see Shane, I click.
Jessica’s 3rd or 4th outfit (idk whatever the knit top and jeans one was) IS LITERALLY SO CUTE I LOVE IT SM AND IT LOOKS SO GOOD ON HER AND SHE STYLED IT SO WELL (she has a good taste it fashion)
Omg Toni I am literally crying you look so stunning in this pink dress
they are all so beautiful. and they all ATE UP day 3👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
All three ppl looked AMAZING and completely ROCKED all of the outfits!! They were so brave and Thats awsome :)
Love love love this video, its so true, just be gentle with yourself! No one knows your insecurities and hopefully that provides freedom to love yourself to the fullest as best as you can!
The bright colors made Toni’s skin glow it was a pretty contrast.
My biggest insecurity was my hair, it used to give me bad dysphoria but I just got a pixie after years of really needing it. I know that I had great hair which everyone liked but it made me feel horrid and since I got the cut I have never felt so good in my life and confidence is through the roof. Wish I could have cut it earlier but better late than never
I just want to give Shane the biggest hug ever like he seems s sweet and like he gives the best hugs
I'm feeling so encouraged and empowered by all of you... Sending so much love your way.
This motivated me to face some of my insecurities!
Thank you so much for making this video, and to everyone facing their insecurities, I’m proud of you and you are doing amazing! Keep going!
Shane is adorable like everyone rocked there outfits
everyone looked great in the outfits they picked!!!!!! I hope this challenge helped show everyone they can totally rock anything!! loving the confidence
remember everyone just by complementing someone out on the streets or anywhere could literally make their day
this has to be one of my favorite videos on youtube 🥺💓
They all look so amazing in all of these! I love these videos, they have helped me learn to love myself.
All three of you guys killed it!!Ya'll looked bomb.
OMG!! You are all AWESOME!! Shane I love you! You are strong and confident! Ladies keep rocking it! You are beautiful!
Shane my dear you are PURE 🔥. Watching you pose for photos and feeling yourself has just made my day, keep doing you hun! Xxx
Loved this video!! I relate to all of these on some level, and am so glad that they were able to grow in their confidence journeys 💛
Shane, so much love to you! It's so sad that it's still necessary to say this to people, but stay safe
More of these please! What a bunch of legends ❤️
Toni,You are gorgeous in pinks and corals. It makes your skin so warm and buttery!
0:37 girl your skin tone is beautiful!!🤍☀️