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  • @AonePule
    @AonePule 2 месяца назад +180

    May this kind of love never locate me 😢

  • @biancaaochamus6757
    @biancaaochamus6757 2 месяца назад +141

    It's the pride in the boy,, look at the way he's sitting and stirring at her ,, didn't he notice how his father humble himself when talking to his wife's...

    • @Miss-Koetle
      @Miss-Koetle 2 месяца назад +13

      He's proud of everything because his father have already gave him advises and said abahamba abahambayo sosala siyicenga😭so he literally no longer cares about what Vuyo says

    • @user-ld8ik3ke1p
      @user-ld8ik3ke1p 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@Miss-Koetletrue and the sad thing is his no aware how much pain his inflicting on to these women,

    • @ntokozomkhwanazi6118
      @ntokozomkhwanazi6118 2 месяца назад +3

      Poor advice from the father 😢​@@Miss-Koetle

    • @Miss-Koetle
      @Miss-Koetle 2 месяца назад +3

      @@user-ld8ik3ke1p karma is gonna deal with him coz there's no one thts gonna love him like how Vuyo does🤞

    • @TroyieMaddie
      @TroyieMaddie 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Miss-Koetle true he is disrespectful Mpumelelo

  • @ThabsileGumede-bc2cc
    @ThabsileGumede-bc2cc 2 месяца назад +191

    This girl akaphume and demand maintenance for both kids. He is arrogant

    • @swipethru3286
      @swipethru3286 2 месяца назад +6

      Is he working? Already the first child stays with Mayeni

    • @SuccessMasondo
      @SuccessMasondo 2 месяца назад +4

      @@swipethru3286 I think he runs some of his father's businesses with him. And the show pays them as well I think. They are not airing their dirty laundry for free😂😂😂

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +6

      100% lento yokungena kuma DM abafana and show interest will always come back to haunt women. I suspect yiyo ngoku eyi issue for uMpumelelo. Uba classifayile into a "type that hunts on IG or Facebook" 4 a man. Akunzima 😢😮

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@swipethru3286akacwadanga no kuncwada enjalo nje.

    • @nomavabaleni7871
      @nomavabaleni7871 2 месяца назад

      Simple!

  • @nicoletteramabina6544
    @nicoletteramabina6544 2 месяца назад +85

    The fact that the boy says that she knows that she cannot be the first what exactly does that mean guys after giving her two kids this is so embarrassing

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂men know who they wanna marry, even if you give him 10kids, if its not you its not🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @MotlalepulaLefoka-te9zb
    @MotlalepulaLefoka-te9zb 2 месяца назад +88

    She should not have given him second child, because red flags we all see them at the beginning of the relationship

    • @ZandileKhwela
      @ZandileKhwela 2 месяца назад

      wayengazi naye bakithi kuthi kuyoba nje asingabe sisamubeka ucala lokuthi wamuzallal again

    • @ericanonjaba206
      @ericanonjaba206 2 месяца назад

      Kubuhlungu ushiywa nengane and ngoku kuzoba worse kuye ngoba the whole country u
      Iyabona lomfana akasamthandi 🤔

  • @dieketsengmoloi
    @dieketsengmoloi 2 месяца назад +70

    But naye Uvuyo bekungamele amithe ingane yesbili, but ke the damage is done and I kinda feel bad for her cause Mpumpelo is a hot mess and doesn’t even know what he wants.

    • @ZandileKhwela
      @ZandileKhwela 2 месяца назад

      yaaaaah asiphumeni lapho ukthi kwakungamele enze bby no 2 sekwenzekili kwenzekile , so wish uma ephuma kaMseleku athole mutu ozomuthanda aphumelel nase mpilwen

  • @TroyieMaddie
    @TroyieMaddie 2 месяца назад +61

    He is doing exactly what his father told him to do

    • @NdumiMaseko
      @NdumiMaseko 2 месяца назад +1

      Udlala nabantwana Bantu lona u cc makafunde ayozisebenzela baningi Bafana phandle yooo

  • @user-qe6bi1jd8e
    @user-qe6bi1jd8e 2 месяца назад +53

    The cheek in this boy just for inkomo entsha because that also is going to get old and then what??

  • @tshololekwene2702
    @tshololekwene2702 2 месяца назад +79

    This thing is pure obvious Mpumelelo wants a Zulu girl as his 1st wife,he impregnanted a Xhosa and Tswana girl 1st only to realise it later!!!!!!!!!!which is weird!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.... He knows a Zulu girl as a 1st wife for future she wont stop him and give him problems in taking more wives......Other tribes have Polygamy but its not as deep and rooted as it is in the Zulu Nation...so boy is just trying to play it safe by also getting his advices from his Dad to say" Polygamy in the Tswana culture is not so famous,Xhosa they do it also but its not popular as in the Zulu Culture so get a Zulu girl as a first wife cause she knows our culture and the boy said ohk BABA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

    • @judyatoro9387
      @judyatoro9387 2 месяца назад +6

      True

    • @lightslite
      @lightslite 2 месяца назад +21

      Very interesting observation. You making a valid point yazi

    • @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
      @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 2 месяца назад +9

      wow, you've opened my eyes I couldn't think of this, interesting observation

    • @leratosehoole2909
      @leratosehoole2909 2 месяца назад +6

      Spot on....👌

    • @tshololekwene2702
      @tshololekwene2702 2 месяца назад +2

      @@lightslite lol and trust me this whole idea came up with his Dad, cause for me Mpumelelo shudnt have had kids 1st with these 2 ladies but because he is still a kid who enjoyed the spot light that came with the surname he carries, he did things without thinking them thoroughly..... Now the Dad had to Jump in to Direct him and say both your women will not fit for 1st wife position, for future you going to have a Problem!!!!!!!!

  • @yolomatiwane
    @yolomatiwane 2 месяца назад +25

    Things we subject our parents to sometimes 😒 ngoku abazali baka vuyokazi kfuneka behlale meetings ezinje okungathi bahlalele izinto zomtshato kodwa zizinto zomjolo nomfana osileyo, ogezayo, omncinci. Imagine ukuvela uTVin uvelele ububhanxa obunje ngenxa yomntwana wakho ohleli kububhanxa be-relationship.

    • @zukiezukiswa5487
      @zukiezukiswa5487 2 месяца назад +5

      Ayboh wena ilumezisa ngamazinyo Lena into iyanyanyisa nje futhi, yaz bahlalele ububhanxa nyani😢😢kodwa lenkwenkwe umhlaba wona will humble him ..kwalowo wokuqala usazom saver right

    • @judyatoro9387
      @judyatoro9387 2 месяца назад +3

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂Ububhanxa berelationship 😂🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +2

      Sad, and you can see they dnt even have a make just uMalume to go with, at least kube iman to man, no Mpumelelo and his dad😢😢

  • @MonicaThendo
    @MonicaThendo 2 месяца назад +35

    😂😂😂😂 so tell me where are benefits of endurance in this situation 😂😂😂

  • @SuccessMasondo
    @SuccessMasondo 2 месяца назад +73

    As a girlfriend it wasn't supposed to even get here. This lady needs to open her eyes and ears and hear what Mpumelelo is saying. He doesn't want to marry her. She is not that important in that boy's life. He doesn't see her or care for her anymore. Probably the only thing keeping them together is the kids. How embarrassing💔😢. Now parents are having a meeting? What? 😂😂😂😂. For girlfriend and boyfriend. Haibo! 🙆🏾😂😂.
    Mna if I was her mother I wouldn't entertain this nonsense. Honestly, especially if I warned her about this. I wouldn't bother. This is giving desperate 🤞🤦🏾.

    • @Chi__22
      @Chi__22 2 месяца назад +6

      They are doing it for her, she's dragging them there, Vuyo loves this boy... I don't know if that's her mother she did say something like she mustn't waste time on a boy or something.

    • @IamBarati
      @IamBarati 2 месяца назад +4

      There are kids involved

    • @rileymbadla5163
      @rileymbadla5163 2 месяца назад +4

      They have kids

    • @SuccessMasondo
      @SuccessMasondo 2 месяца назад +5

      @@Chi__22 She needs to remember who she is and leave this man child alone. Akamfuni. Maybe go and enhance her education or something, and come and get her kids during holidays since the first one already lives with Mayeni. She should give them the second child too and bounce, get her bag and then co-parent properly with this guy. There is still time. Otherwise baby no. 3 will make things complicated for her in all this mess😂😂😂.

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +1

      Dinga shauwna i embarrassment ngingumzali ka Vuyo struu fly from WC to be humiliated e KZN yooh. Soze

  • @valm7314
    @valm7314 2 месяца назад +72

    Yo it must be hard 😢 she proclaimed herself as first wife 😢

  • @pulengramabitla2574
    @pulengramabitla2574 2 месяца назад +24

    Ngibona ukudelela nje Mina ku Mpumelelo

  • @mandisimaake2497
    @mandisimaake2497 2 месяца назад +10

    Vuyokazi please Phuma Sisi
    You WILL find the right man to love you like a Queen ❤ kids and ALL

  • @khomotsolegodi6927
    @khomotsolegodi6927 2 месяца назад +8

    Vuyo my Dear..God blessed you with two healthy babies.. Pls Go back to School and get your degree and focus on yourself and ur beautiful kids..Wishing you all the best..

  • @Wyntah888
    @Wyntah888 2 месяца назад +46

    So basically she thought she was important to him and his family and she’s finding out she’s not.also why does her daughter live with MaYeni when her mom is around?? And why did she get pregnant again knowing the situation she’s in?

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +4

      I would also like to know ukuthi ubengenwe yini?

    • @ayakhantsingila2288
      @ayakhantsingila2288 2 месяца назад +2

      They paid lobola for mhlophekazi she’s a mseleku

    • @Wyntah888
      @Wyntah888 2 месяца назад

      @@ayakhantsingila2288 in the Zulu culture,paying lobola for a child automatically makes that child live with the fathers family? Educate me🙏🏿

  • @sindiswampungose9242
    @sindiswampungose9242 2 месяца назад +5

    I can't believe these young beautiful girls are putting themselves through this,for fame&a bit of money. Why? Vuyo is educated mos,she can make things happen. She seriously believes ukth Mpumelelo is the ONLY future she can have. Yoh. This is sad.
    She sees the kind of torment this lifestyle has caused the mothers of the Mseleku kids but she still wants to experience the misery for herself. Ay ngeke.
    Girls need to do better. We need to choose ourselves,put some worth on our time,energy and bodies.
    Shes not even married&already she's having such devastating convos on national tv. When will we learn?
    This is traumatic,furthermore,its damaging to ones dignity as a woman. Fighting over a man who treats you like a second grade option. Sies. For what?

  • @sweetienzima860
    @sweetienzima860 2 месяца назад +4

    The mistake she did was to think she's a first "wife" while she's a "girlfriend"

  • @Ntombi_Red
    @Ntombi_Red 2 месяца назад +11

    No amount of money should have you looking like a fool on national tv girl, get out while you still can💔bathi" iBus libhaliwe futhi"💔

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 2 месяца назад +10

    This silly boy does not love her and umtaka Flo is supporting him 100%, .. she needs to cut her losses and move on and focus on co parenting and living her life❤️

  • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
    @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +12

    Mina ngingu parent oyimi, I would never ngizehlise isidima sami by going nomtana wentombazane or womfana ukuyothetha into zomjolo with her boyfriend's or girlfriends parent. I was not there, they decided ukumitha, and play the role kamamkhulu endingayazi bengu boyfriend no ghul friend. Worse lomfana mcinci kusisi. I was not there. Baziqale ngingekho zonke lezinto zabo. It will be agriculture to the rock (mazilime ziye etsheni) one time lakimi. Where I will come in is to discuss the welfare of the babies qhaa with the other family. Umuntu makabuyele esikolweni or ayosebenza ondle izingane zakhe. If ziyamhlula makazise kuyise, yena afunde. Uyozilanda uma ese right financially, azikhulisele.

    • @busisiwebuccy1051
      @busisiwebuccy1051 2 месяца назад +1

      Good yhuuu soze ndeze kwalonto Sana MNa yin wakhetha ukumitha kayi2 emfaneni embona futh ukuba u mphumelelo ufuna isithemb futh andiboni ukuba wamthembisa ukumenza u mamkhulu yena uyolwela ukuba ngumamkhul

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад

      @busisiwebuccy1051 yi own goal nje le ayenza uVuyo, busy wanting to make indlalifa for idrop out yomfana competing no Tirelo. They dnt even know isiZulu culture and how indlalifa is decided if a man has isithembu. Babusy namaqadi ezindlu thinking, they will be made indlunkulu 🤔🫢

  • @NthabisengMavhusha
    @NthabisengMavhusha 2 месяца назад +17

    Yoh imagine being played by a boy this boy is not ready for isethembu 🙄🙄

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +1

      23yrs old - wayegenwe yini uSisi ?

    • @mosibudimildred6267
      @mosibudimildred6267 2 месяца назад

      I even doubt he will marry them, he will marry the virgin that he met. These ones he will only pay damages 4 de kids

  • @ziyandamaphini4722
    @ziyandamaphini4722 2 месяца назад +13

    "wabuzi bus bhaliwe"...yindlavini lo mpumelelo wakhona, I don't know what these kids want from this stupid boy, bayozihlukumezisa ngaye for what .

    • @user-wf6bh3qv4e
      @user-wf6bh3qv4e 2 месяца назад +2

      Yinkulumo ekhombisa ukweyisa ibhasi ibhaliwe yokunuka

  • @lucialeratotaukobong124
    @lucialeratotaukobong124 2 месяца назад +27

    Mpumelelo called Vuyokazi mamkhulu on season 1 when they were having a conversation with Tirelo about going to kzn to announce Tirelo's pregnancy,this is when Vuyokazi had left the table during the conversation.This boy is confused and even prayers can't help him.If hes doing this to the mother of his daughter,what will become of her daughter in the future?

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +4

      Akakho uMamkhulu emjolweni. Umamkhulu uyashadwa, akamithiswa twice ekubo, without even ukuyo hlawula abantwana or ageze umuzi uMpumelelo

    • @ayakhantsingila2288
      @ayakhantsingila2288 2 месяца назад

      He paid for the kids

  • @tholoanaphateli9743
    @tholoanaphateli9743 2 месяца назад +26

    Yooo the disrespectful is in another from this boy

  • @LungiswaLulama
    @LungiswaLulama 2 месяца назад +30

    Phuma lapho umuhle nd you young for isthembu

  • @troseya4221
    @troseya4221 2 месяца назад +6

    Even if vuyo can roll and scream however she likes this boy will never go against his father’s advice, Musa has him wrapped around his finger. Unless you are financially independent from your parents they will make decisions for you all your life and Mpumelelo knows where his bread is buttered.

  • @Mmatlhabi
    @Mmatlhabi 2 месяца назад +4

    Mothers teach your girl child the importance of self love and more so to be selfish with their bodies that what i preach to my daughter and prepare them for live disappointment cause its rough out there

  • @keamogetswedladla1486
    @keamogetswedladla1486 2 месяца назад +3

    It’s also overstepping on Vuyo’s side to even initiate such a conversation and involve the parents. Bangenaphi ?

  • @andronicangwenya6934
    @andronicangwenya6934 2 месяца назад +7

    Niyoze nifunde nini ukuthi awuy'zaleli iboyfriend?

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад

      🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🫡🫡🫡 if you do make that choice, have all the resources you need to be a successful single mom.

    • @ntandokazimanqele9462
      @ntandokazimanqele9462 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you for saying this entlek louder pleasssee🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😮😮😮

  • @babalwandamase9509
    @babalwandamase9509 2 месяца назад +16

    Phuma girl and don't look back ungaziphambanisi ,you will not enjoy that marriage anyway all you will get is small fame

    • @nomavabaleni7871
      @nomavabaleni7871 2 месяца назад

      Makaphume qha

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 2 месяца назад

      I think ngoba esaziwa she can make something out of that. She is very beautiful and well spoken. I believe she can stand on her own and make something for herself.

  • @lusandatsilana8890
    @lusandatsilana8890 2 месяца назад +3

    UVuyo naye uyathanda uthetha😂😂
    Abantu abadala ababuzwa ngemijolo. Kufuneka uhloniphe because Mpumelelo’s family doesn’t owe her anything except for maintenance of the children.
    Mpumelelo can and will do what he wants because it’s HIS life.
    Can’t control other people.
    It must hurt to be in her situation but she must accept it so she can be at peace

  • @Mumo_Mailu
    @Mumo_Mailu 2 месяца назад +1

    My opinion: Miss V likes misery, rather she's become comfortable with it. If this relationship stopped making sense and she's been miserable;why get pregnant? Why be bothered as well about being 1st wife? Was becoming the 1st wife "reward" for patience and suffering? Now that she realises her endurance and suffering were for nothing; why not just exit? What's the point in repeating she won't be 2nd wife. This man barely even cares for her. Look at his demeanour ... Yoh! Baby girl needs to get away fast, heal and continue with her life. At 26?! No girl. You've got power. STAND UP!!

  • @ziyandamaphini4722
    @ziyandamaphini4722 2 месяца назад +2

    "Ndibuza kuni nobathathu", utsho ebantwini abadala ke elo xesha. Mayeni, nizigezelisa nje ngamantombazana alapha phandle.

  • @Liz1418
    @Liz1418 2 месяца назад +6

    🤦angazi ubani isthuphethu esikhulu btwn the 2. Musa ukusifaka as a country we were not shocked,Kade utshelwa ukuthi baleka ngezinyawo zombili and u chose 2 hop u said it yaself ukuthi he does not treat u well. Angithi Wena uwumamkhulu emjolweni and u decided u gonna have a second baby with isthuphethu,Wena u just dickmatized qha. U still young impilo isengaqhubeka. This guy akakuthandi,uhambe elala nje u chose to stay Nana azikhale. Yoh Nkosi nqaba nami baba 🤧
    As for uMusa angikaze ngimthande lowababa wona ikusasa lezingane ubaba onjani othi ezinganeni azibe nabantwana at such a young age akasile Lo baba🤧

  • @mjboswa5794
    @mjboswa5794 2 месяца назад +2

    Iv bin following this programs but no man Gents lets respect women.

  • @nonkosisithole8000
    @nonkosisithole8000 2 месяца назад +8

    Awuhloniphi wee Mpumelelo Mseleku abantu abangomama zinkomo apha kuwe awukwazi UFOLOSA NGAYE hayi ca ukhona mfo kaMseleku.

  • @Mr_Matu
    @Mr_Matu 2 месяца назад +1

    Muzi sambo is giving out interships WELL DONE doc. I can tell from the theme track used here.

  • @yolomatiwane
    @yolomatiwane 2 месяца назад +10

    Mamkhulu emjolweni not emendweni sana. Yhoooo!!

  • @lucialeratotaukobong124
    @lucialeratotaukobong124 2 месяца назад +7

    Mpumelelo loves what happened to her mom,if he goes and takes a Cele girl as first wife and his father's first wife is a Cele🤔he doesn't respect even his mom's feelings what is Vuyokazi ?

    • @hgpamwelase
      @hgpamwelase 2 месяца назад +1

      @lucialeratotaukobong124 True sister, patterns of bloodline.

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +3

      History is repeating itself, generational curses are real. Always pray before you yoke yourself to any family. Their demons that visit every generation of men, will be yours and uzokhala.

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 2 месяца назад

      ​@@therealmncwanegwabeni7263This is creepy. Why is he taking someone from KwaCele?

  • @zukiezukiswa5487
    @zukiezukiswa5487 2 месяца назад +5

    Yhey yhey ake nifundiseni lenkwenkwe umhlaba ba unjani , i pride engaka eyantoni vele😢 mhm kodwa ke kwalowo wokuqala ngase amenzele amahololo uyadelela lomntwana yhuuu

    • @user-wf6bh3qv4e
      @user-wf6bh3qv4e 2 месяца назад

      Usanganiswa yimali,uyadelela lengane,how many second did he take to Answer Mthombeni or his mother ukuthi uyamthanda Na uVuyokazi?

  • @nokukhanyakhwela2011
    @nokukhanyakhwela2011 2 месяца назад +2

    Yoooo Mpumelelo, ngiye saba izinyembezi zomuntu wesifazane aziweli phansi, akudlawa ngabantu besifazane😢

  • @kristelngami4816
    @kristelngami4816 2 месяца назад +1

    She looks so mature in her confessional

  • @kemisosefatsane9476
    @kemisosefatsane9476 2 месяца назад +6

    Mpumeleoooo!!!Jooo nna mmeee weeeee!!!Jobo!!!!!Oweeee!!!Helek!!!Morena!!!!Jooooweeee!!!!

  • @Tait1990
    @Tait1990 2 месяца назад +2

    Mseleku is the one behind this with his boy. They wanted her out hence the spoke about virginity.

  • @vumiegasa6080
    @vumiegasa6080 2 месяца назад +2

    Mpumelelo iSthuphethu sakwaMseleku, yena noSiyacela ziTwin Brothers😞

  • @user-nb8jb3fo8c
    @user-nb8jb3fo8c 2 месяца назад +1

    Vuyo girl Mpumelelo is no longer having your feellings anymore.pack your bags and your kids go home.awaliwanga ezulwini lomamkhulu amkhethile naye uzozala abe second hand njengawe.Dont wory qhubeka nezifundo zakho Nkulunkulu uzokunikeza empilo encono dont stress.umshado akuyona qualification.

  • @khosisibiya2197
    @khosisibiya2197 2 месяца назад +1

    Waze wayimosha ingane uMseleku and ihambe ezinyathelweni zakhe

  • @Samkelisiwe-zi7hz
    @Samkelisiwe-zi7hz 2 месяца назад +2

    😢that boy

  • @cassendrankosi699
    @cassendrankosi699 2 месяца назад +6

    Vuyokazi needs to have more self-esteem and self-worth for herself. Why did she have the 2nd baby not knowing where this relationship is headed? Why is she focused on this man and not investing in her career or something? She's a smart and beautiful girl, she deserves more than the crumbs she's getting from this guy.

  • @ayandamgiba3912
    @ayandamgiba3912 2 месяца назад +1

    The way he’s too proud of causing her pain…I hope she finds the strength one day to leave this good for nothing boy.

  • @Stylishgirlnextdoor
    @Stylishgirlnextdoor 2 месяца назад +7

    i’pride ka Mpumelelo 🫠💀🫣wow! Vuyo must leave Uzoba right. She can’t keep staying in that relationship bangam’thandi💔

  • @Misslalagirl
    @Misslalagirl 2 месяца назад +6

    I still don't understand why did she involve parents endabeni zomjolo. This girl is not ready for marriage and she's very disrespectful.
    Ayenzwa le ayiyenzile. Imagine calling a meeting for a girlfriend and boyfriend situation, what an insult.

  • @rileymbadla5163
    @rileymbadla5163 2 месяца назад +2

    Kodwa Vuyo ngabe ukhulume no uMpumelelo wakhe hayi abazali noba kusiskolo sika babakhe kodwa akaphoqiwe athathe mnye umntu

  • @Nzuki-gc6bl
    @Nzuki-gc6bl 2 месяца назад +1

    Hayi sana weqile, ubuza nabazali 🤔

  • @user-fk9ke3uv1f
    @user-fk9ke3uv1f 2 месяца назад +2

    This girl is too demanding..

  • @cebisilemabaso8445
    @cebisilemabaso8445 2 месяца назад +4

    Awy kodwa uVuyokazi uyadelele ikakhulukazi ngoba umseleku ubemthanda. Uzamile ukumlwela phela ngeke amphoqe umpumelelo. Zibaluleke ngani kezi number eselwa kangaka ugirl ebiza ama meetings while he is a mere girl lfriend. Kuthiwe amalobolo ayophuma ngelanga elilodwa. Its not like uyashiywa ngemuva

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 2 месяца назад +3

      No. Mseleku is very disrespectful. Nguye othe uMpumelelo akathathe ivirgin. UMseleku uthanda izingane hhai uVuyokazi.

    • @cebisilemabaso8445
      @cebisilemabaso8445 2 месяца назад +1

      @@khosiethabekhulu3497 no akazange akusho wamtshela kahle umpumelelo ukuthi ayikho leyonto ngenkathi esho leyonto benomayeni. Waze wathi uzitshela ukuthi uyazi kanti akazi. Uthi iVirgin alithathe ngoba limeseka umpumelelo endabeni yesthembu. Kwenziwa njalo vele. Akumele indoda efuna isthembu ithathe nkosikazi ozòyilwisa ngaso isthembu. Umpumelelo uryt ube wrong ngesizathu asibekile sokuthi athi ngoba akaselona virgin

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@cebisilemabaso8445Mseleku is inconsistent in his character. MaNgwabe ubukeka ngathi uyahlanya uma ethi akalungile. The last episode portrays exactly who he is. There are things that they do for cameras and that is different from who they are. Do you think he didn't know about the virgin story? He has to pretend like akazi lutho for us the viewers. There are things I can't write here online but kunendaba on why befuna a pure girl.... Kuningi okulaphaya.

  • @JohnDoe-oh8ci
    @JohnDoe-oh8ci 2 месяца назад +1

    Ingathi ndingafumana uswazi ndibethe lo Vuyokazi agoduke.... yintoni le ingaka kulentwana? Girl you need to love yourself.

  • @syathokozahlophe9011
    @syathokozahlophe9011 2 месяца назад +1

    I honestly don’t know why Vuyokazi is still in this relationship…. And she made matters by falling pregnant again ….

  • @brendamlaba3587
    @brendamlaba3587 2 месяца назад +1

    This boy is rude and it's these gals that are giving this attitude by tolerating the nonsense

  • @asandankohla
    @asandankohla 2 месяца назад +1

    This is a lot to carry 😬

  • @PalesaStuurman
    @PalesaStuurman 2 месяца назад

    I wish vuyo can see this is a blessing in disguise. She is very young and beautiful for ukuba kwi sithembu sobubhanxa. Makaphume apa kuse early akonto imnandi pha look at abafazi bakamseleku those ladies are not happy macele and mangwabe look like they have alot of resentment towards mseleku i mayeni yena therapy iyam sebenzela akasakhathali maKhumalo yena the girl understand assignment so shez very happy.Why efuna ungena usathana wento enje. UThixo umthandile his trying to protect her I hope she gets it and leave this human being alone and more over mpumelelo is in his twenties ufuna 3 wives kuzokwenzaka nton xa ena 35 add more yhoo yingxaki. Vuyo girl choose you imali yakwam seleku is not worth it.

  • @vuyelwaradebe9312
    @vuyelwaradebe9312 2 месяца назад +2

    sthembu sani at early age... ukuphapha nje doing something u dont know

  • @doembuyazi
    @doembuyazi 2 месяца назад +1

    Phuma

  • @muzisambo4664
    @muzisambo4664 2 месяца назад +1

    Vele indoda ingakuzalisa iyambuluza shame it takes courage to walk away buy its not easy again she made a mistake by having 2 kids for a man who never paid not even a cent ngakibo wayethi kuyocina kupi men a thrash i mean the majority of them this is so pain full

  • @filyciamoyo5330
    @filyciamoyo5330 2 месяца назад +3

    Love and respect work together when someone loves u....they automatically respect u ......you dont hv to be asking for respect from them ....plus Mpumelelo knew ukuti he wants to marry a virgin first why would he go around pregnanting non virgins in the first place what does it say about him in the way he sees and respect women....simply shows he wont end there i feel these young ladies are compromising a lot.....

  • @claudettecleokgarebe
    @claudettecleokgarebe 2 месяца назад +1

    The disrespect. He's showing no remorse.

  • @NontleSobhuye
    @NontleSobhuye 2 месяца назад +2

    Wabuza bhasi bhaliwe which means ungumxhosa

  • @user-mv7gk9ui6i
    @user-mv7gk9ui6i 2 месяца назад

    Guys umhler umayeni murr❤❤❤

  • @gracemusamahlangu
    @gracemusamahlangu 2 месяца назад

    Ewu. It's tough shame😭

  • @molebohengchanett849
    @molebohengchanett849 2 месяца назад +1

    She must just leave him period njeeh just co parent with him... He doesn't love her and he doesn't want to marry her... Mugal must just focuz on her life.

  • @ziyandamaphini4722
    @ziyandamaphini4722 2 месяца назад +1

    Maybe ke, this is just for a show ke nokwenzi mali kwa mseleku. But yi meeting yantoni le ezobizwa yi girlfriend, ibize abantu adala ukuzobaqangisa (confront) ngomjolo wakhe no mpumelelo...hay , i really hope its just for the show... otherwise, its nonsense.

  • @lifewithpeers
    @lifewithpeers 2 месяца назад +4

    Lentwana le izozisola... Life will unfold, he hasn't faced a situation that shapes him.. that's why ehlaza nje..

  • @thabisilemakhoba4758
    @thabisilemakhoba4758 2 месяца назад +2

    Usegaxele noMayeni yize ayekhuza

  • @mbalilotusmakhanya622
    @mbalilotusmakhanya622 2 месяца назад

    I hate that she's in this situation....I hate that his father failed him and that the cycle will continue like this. What a disgraceful man.

  • @SurayaBarnabas
    @SurayaBarnabas 2 месяца назад

    Vuyokazi must get out here qha, this boy is beyond disrespectful. Only thing she can communicate naye is him looking after his kids and visitation.

  • @beekaym4422
    @beekaym4422 2 месяца назад

    She’ll do anything but leave 🤣

  • @judyatoro9387
    @judyatoro9387 2 месяца назад +4

    Good vuyokazi 👏👏👏

  • @tumiedyakopu8370
    @tumiedyakopu8370 2 месяца назад +8

    Vuyokaz was supposed to talk with Mpumelelo about this. . Now I see a reason why she can't be Momkhulu

    • @user-gi2po3hc1h
      @user-gi2po3hc1h 2 месяца назад +22

      Not just be Mamkhu, She really can't be in Isithembu , she is a queen first of all ....she deserves a man not a boy esaleqa impundu

    • @kaziasa
      @kaziasa 2 месяца назад +7

      Vuyo is very respectful and she knows when to involve abantu abadala. She deserves way more. That boy doesn't deserve Vuyokazi bethuna. Tuuuu!!!

    • @snenhlanhlamzulwini8977
      @snenhlanhlamzulwini8977 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@kaziasahe doesn't deserve her at all!!.....loyamfana is just a boy boy even nangokucabanga....Voyo needs a real man,who know what he wants

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 2 месяца назад +3

      Why didn't Mpumelelo talk to her first. Vuyokazi deserves beautiful things. Not ibhadi elinguMpumelelo. Phela uMpumelelo is a tragedy. He is not the price.

  • @mlabalabazwide5445
    @mlabalabazwide5445 14 дней назад

    May this be a lesson to the girls out there, some man think like this about woman and when they are done bazokuthola ngalento ongayifuni then thats their ticket out

  • @trustingnobody628
    @trustingnobody628 2 месяца назад +1

    😮😮😮. Heeee! Ndakuyicel'ivuthiwe. I feel for Vuyo! Tirelo has no problem that much. Basothos have a long-standing traditional culture. A cousin is on standby.
    Babhem, indenza iintlini kanjani indaba kaMpumelelo othi uzakuthatha uMaCele!!! Things don't go that way because uyise utshate noMaCele. Meaning, the Mseleku family, phaya kwatat'uMusa banibuhlobo kwaCele. In English kuthiwa they are related by marriage.
    UMpumelelo akamboni umana wakhe uMaCele tu. Olandelayo umfazi ke makabe ngowakwaYeni kuba ulala kuboonina bakhe uMpumelelo. Intiyano ezakubakulaa mzi. Ndiske ndoyika! Azi iyozala nkomoni?

    • @makitoloane3636
      @makitoloane3636 2 месяца назад

      O re etsang na😂😂. Ngoana malome 'nyale

  • @pinkpearlsaps8
    @pinkpearlsaps8 2 месяца назад +1

    If she knows what's good for her she would run for her life good riddance to bad rubbish that boy us a ticking time bomb no woman he has no vision for his own and is riding on his fathers parade

  • @user-rh6wu4eq5k
    @user-rh6wu4eq5k 2 месяца назад +1

    Mina angsboni isidingo sokuthi Vuyo eze nabazali bakhe uguy ufun ukushada ne virgin it either she's in or out

  • @stizo3066
    @stizo3066 2 месяца назад

    This first wife story does one get a prize or a degree for being madam no.1.
    This boy is too young to be dealing with all these issues women, emotions and children. He barely knows himself

  • @divinekharidzha759
    @divinekharidzha759 2 месяца назад

    Umayeni and vuyo are really beautiful

  • @user-bt4vj3fi7r
    @user-bt4vj3fi7r 2 месяца назад +1

    Lomfana akaz lutho uyeyisa nje semzalise izingane eziw2 zonke

  • @senzyandndivhu
    @senzyandndivhu 2 месяца назад +2

    Mayeni😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад

      She is about to be grate some cheese. Remember, she was left holding baby number one and before Abe na 5 yrs old, qatha 2 other grand children from different moms.

  • @user-bo3yc1tg1t
    @user-bo3yc1tg1t 2 месяца назад

    Ibhasi libhaliwe,Haibo mfana uthini mnxm😢😢

  • @sibusiwengqwemesa9024
    @sibusiwengqwemesa9024 2 месяца назад +1

    Usile maan lomtana angu Mpumelelo ye sees nxa

  • @mlonobel2856
    @mlonobel2856 2 месяца назад

    Ufika uzalise izingane zabantu bese uthi uzothatha ivirgin, this boy is full of himself ubabawakhe wonke lo

  • @zakithimyeza3379
    @zakithimyeza3379 2 месяца назад

    MaYeni nkosi yami ngaze ngamzwela

  • @ayandasibanda4836
    @ayandasibanda4836 2 месяца назад

    Vuyokazi bezalelelani ingane yesibili ama red flags bekhona kudala and if e ngaphumi kasa early uzozi sola

  • @nhlakahnxumalo-qq1kb
    @nhlakahnxumalo-qq1kb 2 месяца назад +1

    Kuyahlany lokhu okumpulelo nd nomseleku uvuna umsangano

  • @zukiswazawula5621
    @zukiswazawula5621 2 месяца назад +1

    Hamba Vuyo goduka dana ibambo lakho likumele shiya cc

  • @zamacindy7923
    @zamacindy7923 2 месяца назад +2

    Manje leliqhalaqhala eliwuMseleku lagobodisa ikhanda phantsi ngoba yimikhuba yalo lelna i feel sorry for uMayeni usezophendula ngoba phela umama😢uVuyo muhle uzomthola umuntu ozomupha uthando

    • @nonozi4147
      @nonozi4147 2 месяца назад

      Igwala kabi uMseleku

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад +4

      Uyazenzisa nguye uCEO and principal shareholder wesithembu sika Mpumelelo.

  • @user-kf9on5cz7g
    @user-kf9on5cz7g 2 месяца назад +1

    Ngaze ngaphoxeka iNto ebuzwa uMaYeni jehovah😢😂

    • @therealmncwanegwabeni7263
      @therealmncwanegwabeni7263 2 месяца назад

      Blood is thicker than water that is what mom always said when it came to her inlaws. Parent mostly defended their own. They close rank on you and minimize your complaints or dismiss you like what Mayeni is doing there.

  • @busisiwebuccy1051
    @busisiwebuccy1051 2 месяца назад +1

    Vuyokaz yena yin bamthembisa ukumenza u mamkhulu lento ezoba nesibind sohlonganisa I meeting

  • @user-kf9on5cz7g
    @user-kf9on5cz7g 2 месяца назад +2

    Haibo MaYeni😂😂😂😂

    • @ayakhantsingila2288
      @ayakhantsingila2288 2 месяца назад

      🤣🤣useqala uyeyisa umzwile “ubuza thina noma yena “

    • @ziyandamaphini4722
      @ziyandamaphini4722 2 месяца назад

      Bebevele bezofunani apha oo Mayeni, babizwa i meting yintombazana bona? Hy nabo, I really don't get them,. sebeqangiswa yintombazana engekabinguye nomakoti. Haysuka.... but ke this is just a tv show anyway ....

  • @vatiswamhlola9918
    @vatiswamhlola9918 2 месяца назад

    Hayi bo kwaxhosa zange ndabona le