Just like many things in life, you're in a unique situation, but every situation is a unique situation. The embodiment of self-worth radiates out of those who love themselves enough to allow themselves to be loved.
The One definitely exists. His name is Neo, and he's in a movie entitled "The Matrix". He knows Kung Fu, and can fly around really fast, just by flapping his arms.
I love my wife. She is exceptionally bright and has a very busy/stressful career. I decided to commit to her happiness. I limit my drinking, I explore the World with her and I accept her criticisms of my lack of 'attention to detail'. She is OC. She is constantly cleaning and sweeping. I try to match her in energy, but it is exhausting. I finally decided that all I can do is my best, and to be faithful to her. It seems to be working. She forgives my little inattentions, and chooses to ignore my snoring and personal mess. I love her to bits.
People, especially women, want to feel special. They want to feel chosen because they are one-of-a-kind and cannot be replaced. I once told a girl that was "in love with me" that I'm not special, she's not special either, and that for each of us there are so many other people we will align with. She was not "in love with me" anymore 🙂 It is so hard to shift people's mindsets. What's easy, is telling them there's something wrong with them that needs fixing.
There is no "the one'. I am monogamous and need a mate that is very family oriented even if she doesn't want children. Going through life with a committed partner is what marriage means to me. Whatever we do, we do together. Family and career are all anyone can do and anything outside that is short-changing family and career. My mate must be my best friend and I hers. I always look forward to coming home and seeing her. There is nothing casual or half-hearted about marriage. The best part of marriage is having someone to love and if you are very fortunate, you will be loved by your spouse. Which parts of a person need love the most, the good parts or the bad parts? The success of a marriage hinges on accepting the consequences of unconditional love.
Assume you plan to meet n potential partners in your life. Reject the first k = n/e candidates (e=2,718). Then select the next partner who is better than all those you've seen so far. This strategy maximizes the probability of selecting the best candidate. Mathematically, the probability of success approaches about 37% (1/e). All the best for your young channel.
Hahaha haven't seen this formula in my maths lectures, very impressed 😂 but to point out something interesting, out of all "compatible" candidates, we can't really say that some are overall better or worse. Everyone will have some better qualities compared to others - because of course we are all individual. So there is no strict criteria for who is a "better" partner out of those compatible. But I like your thinking 🤣 Thank you for the wishes!
What is your view about "the one"? ❤
Just like many things in life, you're in a unique situation, but every situation is a unique situation. The embodiment of self-worth radiates out of those who love themselves enough to allow themselves to be loved.
The One definitely exists. His name is Neo, and he's in a movie entitled "The Matrix". He knows Kung Fu, and can fly around really fast, just by flapping his arms.
@@paulhurst4445 🤣🤣
I love my wife. She is exceptionally bright and has a very busy/stressful career. I decided to commit to her happiness. I limit my drinking, I explore the World with her and I accept her criticisms of my lack of 'attention to detail'. She is OC. She is constantly cleaning and sweeping. I try to match her in energy, but it is exhausting. I finally decided that all I can do is my best, and to be faithful to her.
It seems to be working. She forgives my little inattentions, and chooses to ignore my snoring and personal mess. I love her to bits.
@@bigglesharrumpher4139 sounds like you found the recipe to your personal family's happiness 😁🙏🏼
People, especially women, want to feel special. They want to feel chosen because they are one-of-a-kind and cannot be replaced.
I once told a girl that was "in love with me" that I'm not special, she's not special either, and that for each of us there are so many other people we will align with. She was not "in love with me" anymore 🙂 It is so hard to shift people's mindsets. What's easy, is telling them there's something wrong with them that needs fixing.
Well, that woman was not very bright.
Kinda figured everyone just knew this already haha. I learned this at a pretty young age, probably my teens.
There is no "the one'. I am monogamous and need a mate that is very family oriented even if she doesn't want children. Going through life with a committed partner is what marriage means to me. Whatever we do, we do together. Family and career are all anyone can do and anything outside that is short-changing family and career. My mate must be my best friend and I hers. I always look forward to coming home and seeing her. There is nothing casual or half-hearted about marriage. The best part of marriage is having someone to love and if you are very fortunate, you will be loved by your spouse. Which parts of a person need love the most, the good parts or the bad parts? The success of a marriage hinges on accepting the consequences of unconditional love.
@@Paul-v8v4j that's beautifully put, very glad that you have a clear vision for what you're looking for!
Assume you plan to meet n potential partners in your life. Reject the first k = n/e candidates (e=2,718). Then select the next partner who is better than all those you've seen so far. This strategy maximizes the probability of selecting the best candidate. Mathematically, the probability of success approaches about 37% (1/e). All the best for your young channel.
Hahaha haven't seen this formula in my maths lectures, very impressed 😂 but to point out something interesting, out of all "compatible" candidates, we can't really say that some are overall better or worse. Everyone will have some better qualities compared to others - because of course we are all individual. So there is no strict criteria for who is a "better" partner out of those compatible. But I like your thinking 🤣
Thank you for the wishes!