childhood friend last longer as we build more connection and memories with them and when we were young, 80% of our world revolve around having fun with them. in adulthood, new friends come and go, as 80% of our world revolves around our work/ significant other
0:34: 👥 The episode discusses adult friendships and why they can be difficult. 4:25: 👥 The speaker discusses their role in their friendships and how friendships change over time. 7:54: 💼 The speakers discuss the importance of prioritizing friendships and setting boundaries based on their needs and personality types. 11:02: 👥 The importance of valuing and re-evaluating friendships based on mutual effort and understanding. 16:03: 👥 The discussion revolves around friendships as adults and the joy of missing out (JOMO). 20:05: 🤝 The speaker discusses different ways of making friends, including joining organizations and online communities. 23:54: 😊 Building friendships with colleagues can make work more enjoyable and fun. 27:11: 👥 Advice for making new friends and the importance of being yourself. Recap by Tammy AI
Q the feelings are mutual I love u n will always support you, love you and be there for you, ups downs swerves whatever you’ve got me and I’ll continuously put in effort to learn about you and be a friend to you in the ways I best can at each phase of life xo
Good topic. You will find, the only real friend you have is your mother so, look after her. Go to a local nursing home and volunteer and you will see...none of us have anyone watching our backs or friends when we are old.
It's so true! I finally uds why I have lesser friends now. As I move towards being an introvert at times and extrovert at times, esp after covid. I do have a higher standard/criteria to mingle and make the effort to know the person. I became a 被动 person. Where I interact more after feeling the energy that the person is interested in knowing me as well. I guess it's just lessons these yrs, knowing I have not much energy to invest in a friendship n only picking friends w the same mindset as ze Liang. It's ok if we don't talk for a long while. As long as we r there when they need us. I will automatically walk away if I feel this person is high maintenance. At the same time I might need to work on myself, because I think there is only like 5% chance someone would approach me first n show interest in knowing me sadly. I use to be the organiser. I will usually step in if noone steps in n when I feel a need to bring ppl tgt. One day, I was tired n decided to test the grp if someone else were to take up the organiser role. But nope. It died. They just gathered among themselves. I lost the energy n motivation to pull things tgt since I don't feel fitted in their life.
as people age...the less friends and acquaintances they have. It is because people change, people move on in life and people pass away and you yourself change. In your 20's and 30's you may have the same group of friends and as you age that group changes to less than half until, there is only one friend (if you are lucky) then, in 70's and 80's you just want everyone to go away.
when you see some one comment a " bo jio ? " insert minions banana meme and add " Nah jio " also, It's tiring to be personify a persona to attract some one. how long can you wear a mask for ? Just be yourself! your vibe will attract your tribe !
Why do I feel such a strong romance tension between Hazelle and Zeliang😍
because they have attractive face and attracted to each other
childhood friend last longer as we build more connection and memories with them and when we were young, 80% of our world revolve around having fun with them.
in adulthood, new friends come and go, as 80% of our world revolves around our work/ significant other
Nic’s humour is the best man!
absolutely love this yes933 duo and how relatable this ep is ❤❤❤
0:34: 👥 The episode discusses adult friendships and why they can be difficult.
4:25: 👥 The speaker discusses their role in their friendships and how friendships change over time.
7:54: 💼 The speakers discuss the importance of prioritizing friendships and setting boundaries based on their needs and personality types.
11:02: 👥 The importance of valuing and re-evaluating friendships based on mutual effort and understanding.
16:03: 👥 The discussion revolves around friendships as adults and the joy of missing out (JOMO).
20:05: 🤝 The speaker discusses different ways of making friends, including joining organizations and online communities.
23:54: 😊 Building friendships with colleagues can make work more enjoyable and fun.
27:11: 👥 Advice for making new friends and the importance of being yourself.
Recap by Tammy AI
Love this episode. So relatable! Enjoyed zeliang and hazelle sharing❤
Q the feelings are mutual I love u n will always support you, love you and be there for you, ups downs swerves whatever you’ve got me and I’ll continuously put in effort to learn about you and be a friend to you in the ways I best can at each phase of life xo
I also got say you good
@@nicholasyeam you solid la nic u slaying also love the fit 🔥🔥 HAHAHA i told q the other day u are a very nice person to talk to xo
@@charmcheong9022 thx u also
Love this podcast episode!❣️ I can relate. 🙂
Goodness ze Liang 好帅. Here to watch him
This episode is absolutely GOLDsome. Also everytime I see nic I just can't help laughing.
Relatable. Love this episode! ❤
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Good topic. You will find, the only real friend you have is your mother so, look after her. Go to a local nursing home and volunteer and you will see...none of us have anyone watching our backs or friends when we are old.
Totally resonate with zeliang's style of low maintenance
20:20 Jurong!!! Q.....come come, westies gather!!!.....😄😄😄
Hazel + Zeliang = 🤯🤯🤯
It's so true! I finally uds why I have lesser friends now. As I move towards being an introvert at times and extrovert at times, esp after covid. I do have a higher standard/criteria to mingle and make the effort to know the person. I became a 被动 person. Where I interact more after feeling the energy that the person is interested in knowing me as well. I guess it's just lessons these yrs, knowing I have not much energy to invest in a friendship n only picking friends w the same mindset as ze Liang. It's ok if we don't talk for a long while. As long as we r there when they need us. I will automatically walk away if I feel this person is high maintenance. At the same time I might need to work on myself, because I think there is only like 5% chance someone would approach me first n show interest in knowing me sadly. I use to be the organiser. I will usually step in if noone steps in n when I feel a need to bring ppl tgt. One day, I was tired n decided to test the grp if someone else were to take up the organiser role. But nope. It died. They just gathered among themselves. I lost the energy n motivation to pull things tgt since I don't feel fitted in their life.
as people age...the less friends and acquaintances they have. It is because people change, people move on in life and people pass away and you yourself change. In your 20's and 30's you may have the same group of friends and as you age that group changes to less than half until, there is only one friend (if you are lucky) then, in 70's and 80's you just want everyone to go away.
Haha, I think Ze Liang's English name is Peter?
when you see some one comment a " bo jio ? "
insert minions banana meme
and add " Nah jio "
also,
It's tiring to be personify a persona to attract some one.
how long can you wear a mask for ?
Just be yourself!
your vibe will attract your tribe !
the episode content is so good but the auto caption 🥹
Losing friends in adult hood is normal … because majority of the friend already married..
What do you think Ze Liang's english name is? 🤔
I still think he looks like a Justin :')
Fold-light
Peter
David 😂