Bodycam: Daycare Owner Guilty in Baby’s Death Reacts to Cops Investigating Her for Murder

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @koryngalen6228
    @koryngalen6228 Год назад +14890

    The mother running to the ambulance gave me a knot in my throat, this is truly devastating.

    • @DrReginaldFinleySr
      @DrReginaldFinleySr Год назад +221

      Same here. I lost it.

    • @JustMe-px9qy
      @JustMe-px9qy Год назад +166

      I had to stop watching

    • @personalaccount2169
      @personalaccount2169 Год назад +278

      It hurts knowing there is nobody capable of comforting her. Very tragic.

    • @soleilove1037
      @soleilove1037 Год назад +94

      Me too I thought about this happening everyday I went to work I’m a sahm mom right now but even now I’m getting ready to go back to work and it will always be in the back of my mind what might happen at a daycare I hate living like this people are so evil while parents are just trying to work no body deserves this.

    • @Ruth78620
      @Ruth78620 Год назад +98

      I was fighting tears watching Charlie being taken out the ambulance knowing the outcome 😭 I couldn't help but put myself in her shoes. I have 1 child and the thought of anything happening to him omg that would end me. She's not even phased getting arrested! Pure evil!

  • @jbaby007
    @jbaby007 Год назад +11701

    All daycares should have a live feed video monitoring system available for parents to view at any given time when their child is in their care. This is heartbreaking.

    • @xxxytheguy1296
      @xxxytheguy1296 Год назад +580

      Parents should just raise their kids 🤷

    • @isrealx2680
      @isrealx2680 Год назад +472

      @@xxxytheguy1296 can’t expect them to be there 24/7 and take care of them 😭😭😭

    • @xxxytheguy1296
      @xxxytheguy1296 Год назад +373

      @@isrealx2680 then don't have kids 🤷

    • @xxxytheguy1296
      @xxxytheguy1296 Год назад +315

      @isrealx2680 I raise my son. He has never been to daycare nor public school. It's my job, my responsibility to make sure my son grows up to be a decent human being capable of so much that most can't comprehend.

    • @laurenmadison1573
      @laurenmadison1573 Год назад

      so you don't work to provide for your kids? who is providing for them?@@xxxytheguy1296

  • @xerxezrax
    @xerxezrax Год назад +5469

    that poor mother rushing to the ambulance....heartbreaking.

    • @bongwizard5256
      @bongwizard5256 Год назад +154

      immediately interrupted by a lawyer ad.

    • @godsgoldenchildggc7914
      @godsgoldenchildggc7914 Год назад +112

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    • @roxiewatters1161
      @roxiewatters1161 Год назад +9

      Yes 💔😢

    • @Red-uf4hr
      @Red-uf4hr Год назад +36

      Yeah after looking like she was asleep all day. No excuse to let someone watch your kid if you’re a stay at home mom

    • @jordyn814
      @jordyn814 Год назад +118

      Or maybe she works from home tf? Most home jobs are taking call or making calls and that’s hard to do with a baby when you’re by yourself

  • @jojolamberthall7631
    @jojolamberthall7631 7 месяцев назад +84

    after a child dies because of her neglect... she has the nerve to ask if she is closed. WOW

  • @creeisaacson
    @creeisaacson Год назад +3548

    Her holding a child while she's being questioned about another child's death in her care is insane to me. I'm heartbroken for that mother.

    • @rmcar549
      @rmcar549 Год назад +84

      ​@usworkforceco.7482because they don't know it was her fault yet so why would they?

    • @GSAhunting
      @GSAhunting Год назад +30

      @@rmcar549because critical thinking has left the chat. Thank God some people like yourself still use it!

    • @isabelamogosanu7777
      @isabelamogosanu7777 Год назад +14

      @@rmcar549 more like they are short staffed. no one wants to work for daycares, speaking as a former employee

    • @allieannette3712
      @allieannette3712 Год назад

      because if it was actually sids, which it well could have been, then it's nobody's fault@usworkforceco.7482

    • @GolDDarius
      @GolDDarius Год назад +24

      Innocent until proven guilty. We know she’s guilty now but at the time this could’ve just been an accident. I just don’t know how you leave a child unattended for two hours. What on earth was so important? Just soulless…

  • @GodBlessedThisBod
    @GodBlessedThisBod Год назад +7350

    She didn’t start crying until she knew she had to face the parents. The fact that she wasn’t even the slightest bit upset prior to that is unbelievable

    • @StrawberryFields4ever65
      @StrawberryFields4ever65 Год назад +350

      I am a RN with 30+ years experience, trained to keep my emotions in check. One thing I know with certainty is I would be inconsolable if this were me!!! This woman seemed unphased....cold as ice!!!

    • @melissafraser2190
      @melissafraser2190 Год назад +216

      She even was heard laughing and bantering with officers on scene

    • @GodBlessedThisBod
      @GodBlessedThisBod Год назад +72

      @@melissafraser2190 yesss I caught that 😒😞

    • @sputnikalgrim
      @sputnikalgrim Год назад +89

      People respond to trauma differently, her behavior seems to be an indicator of some mental/emotional issues

    • @rr_esthetics1
      @rr_esthetics1 Год назад +49

      It doesn’t seem they’re aware he’s passed yet with him being sent in the ambulance 😢😢😢

  • @alizaepstein273
    @alizaepstein273 Год назад +3889

    My mother ran a successful daycare out of our home in the 80s and she sadly had a baby die under her care from SIDS My mother was inconsolable for months and has never been the same person since that day. she still goes to a therapist every week to deal with the guilt amongst other life traumas and it wasn’t her fault. This woman has no emotions at all. That’s scary to me.

    • @merimebardhi5129
      @merimebardhi5129 Год назад +186

      Oh my what a heartbreaking story 💔

    • @kimsland999
      @kimsland999 Год назад +78

      Did the Coroner confirm SIDS?
      If in this vid was 1980, then there wouldn't be any cameras about. Thus it is possible (and likely true) that many daycare infant deaths were in fact caused by the daycare provider, its just that we don't know.
      Absence of Evidence is not Evidence of Absence
      This means that without any evidence, then clearly we cannot accuse your Mother of doing anything to show guilt. But as soon as I hear daycare in the home! My concern is heightened dramatically. As a home (especially in the 80's) is not as ideal as a daycare business with multiple staff, and the whole building and grounds being specifically designed for a daycare facility.
      Clearly this input by you does add some suspicion, as would the baby be alive if it were in a recognized daycare building?
      I suppose we'll never truly know, but your Mother would know the real truth.

    • @itzsaccoo
      @itzsaccoo Год назад +961

      @@kimsland999 you’re asking if someone is lying about whether or not their mother killed an infant?

    • @morganwheat4871
      @morganwheat4871 Год назад

      what is wrong with you @@kimsland999

    • @Whattheheck829
      @Whattheheck829 Год назад +171

      Sounds like your mother needs to forgive herself. Sounds like she had no control over the situation meaning it was a devastating accident. I’m so sorry for her.

  • @erinfowler9803
    @erinfowler9803 10 месяцев назад +302

    That poor mother running to the ambulance grabbing her chest literally gave me chills and instant nausea. 😢 how beyond heart wrenching.

    • @wereallydoinhandlesnow
      @wereallydoinhandlesnow 5 месяцев назад +2

      Gosh I know 😔😞 poor lady. Extra prayers for her tonight.

  • @sarahplustheboys3338
    @sarahplustheboys3338 Год назад +3679

    It’s crazy how calm she is… my child or not, I’d be puking and inconsolable.

  • @lunarbluep
    @lunarbluep Год назад +4265

    She seems so calm while all this is happening. I would have been devastated if anything happened to a child I was responsible for.

    • @rosarioortiz-jacinto1596
      @rosarioortiz-jacinto1596 Год назад +168

      Then when she has to " tell the other parents" she cries and falls apart classic murdery actions. 😔 😟

    • @lunarbluep
      @lunarbluep Год назад +120

      @@rosarioortiz-jacinto1596 Yes! Almost like taking some responsibility and speaking to the parents is what had her in tears. Not the fact that a baby died in her care!

    • @heath82
      @heath82 Год назад +59

      @@lunarbluep that was one of the worst parts.. when u finally see her act out of sorts, when she realizes she has to tell ppl.. she feels sorry for herself that she needs to do that, and isn’t even asking on the condition of the baby she’s supposed to really care for, if not love ❤️

    • @meetmeet6104
      @meetmeet6104 Год назад +58

      She seems very cold, just acting as some minor incident

    • @kaylahall1219
      @kaylahall1219 Год назад +34

      You have to keep a calm head; but it was very telling when she went to pieces having to tell the other parents. If I found a baby dead in my care I would be very distressed and distraught.

  • @darianharvey2907
    @darianharvey2907 Год назад +2562

    When she found out the baby had passed, no tears. Having to tell the parents what happened and realizing her business and life is ruined, waterfalls of tears. No remorse, such an awful human being

    • @808Fee
      @808Fee Год назад +103

      Notice how she leaned away from her husband trying to hug her. Subconsciously she knows she doesn't deserve that type of empathy. She's also not really surprised when the cuffs are being slapped on. As an innocent person, you'd have a different reaction in my opinion. Sad case.

    • @SoulforSale
      @SoulforSale Год назад +18

      Just a typical woman. No less.

    • @Aylii1
      @Aylii1 Год назад +133

      @@SoulforSaleYou’ve been hurt quite a bit huh 💀

    • @SoulforSale
      @SoulforSale Год назад +11

      @@Aylii1 enough to know better

    • @stefany2024
      @stefany2024 Год назад +24

      She panicked because she knew she was caught.

  • @papoochacoo
    @papoochacoo 7 месяцев назад +277

    She had too many infants simultaneously, imo. The lines of cribs looked so strange.

    • @sasamoody1801
      @sasamoody1801 6 месяцев назад +29

      Law dictates 1 - 4 ratio for children under 2 this was not a licensed daycare

    • @kafkaseyebrows
      @kafkaseyebrows 5 месяцев назад +6

      and the poor babies didn't even have blankets

    • @reganklatt6621
      @reganklatt6621 2 месяца назад +21

      @@kafkaseyebrowsit is not considered safe to have blankets in the crib with infants

    • @nkmsvwde5612
      @nkmsvwde5612 Месяц назад +4

      @@kafkaseyebrowsactually at that age blankets are not recommended for infants

    • @RowesRising
      @RowesRising Месяц назад +2

      She had so many babies that they had to switch out babies in the cribs.

  • @moneekodunze7602
    @moneekodunze7602 Год назад +1759

    The mom running to the ambulance made me have a visceral reaction. How incredibly sad. That had to be the worst day of her life.

    • @MortgageGirl7
      @MortgageGirl7 Год назад +23

      Me too! This whole video shook me! 😢

    • @KathleenHopper-o3j
      @KathleenHopper-o3j Год назад +7

      I thought the same 😢

    • @nataliablanco6184
      @nataliablanco6184 Год назад +13

      Broke my heart for her 😢😔😭

    • @bumbles910
      @bumbles910 Год назад +2

      Me too. So sad.

    • @RelaxationGalaxy
      @RelaxationGalaxy Год назад +12

      but then she is so calm listening to the cop and how it happened😐
      It’s as if the idea is about how her child got a bruise and didn’t die. This is such a strange reaction for the mother of a dead baby 🙄

  • @stezton
    @stezton Год назад +2072

    The fact she's so calm when they come to arrest her just screams she knew it was coming.

    • @Homeschoolkindermum
      @Homeschoolkindermum Год назад +161

      And when the police told the daughter that her mother was going to jail, she was like “ok” like she was expecting it.

    • @jacquelinekoch7446
      @jacquelinekoch7446 Год назад +46

      And the daughter.

    • @wednesday9623
      @wednesday9623 Год назад +114

      She almost held her hands out to be arrested she definitely knew it was coming

    • @Schiffon
      @Schiffon Год назад +17

      Sociopathic woman?

    • @amandathacker2687
      @amandathacker2687 Год назад +27

      @@SchiffonI don't see that from her. What I see is maybe pint up aggression and anger and she is taking it out defenseless innocent babies.

  • @cherispang3807
    @cherispang3807 Год назад +1278

    This is why a single person daycare should not, by law, be able to care for more than 3 babies at a time.

    • @fadumomohamed2342
      @fadumomohamed2342 8 месяцев назад +130

      I use to work at a daycare, I wasn’t normally in the infant room for more than an hour but I could handle 4 on my own as an 18 year old.
      I don’t think single daycares should exist though, there has to be 2+ people no exceptions. Taking care of children is mentally exhausting and taxing and daycares are notoriously known to have workers turn abusive.

    • @laurieh4742
      @laurieh4742 7 месяцев назад +14

      There is a law in canada here

    • @kidzrrelevant2593
      @kidzrrelevant2593 7 месяцев назад +21

      There is a true ratio of children in childcare. I believe the standard is 4 to 1...but, if that individual has children, the ratio may change...she was overwhelmed, clumsy, followed no rules in my opinion and just got plain lazy in my opinion!!! She might lay her own infants on their stomach, but it is not allowed in professional childcare!!!

    • @CherokeeBird
      @CherokeeBird 7 месяцев назад +9

      Our state only allows 3 per adult.

    • @justinkaufman495
      @justinkaufman495 7 месяцев назад +13

      I feel like this woman's actions were a little more deliberate than simply not being able to take care of all the kids at once.

  • @TTSantiago821
    @TTSantiago821 10 месяцев назад +1308

    This is why we need a federal maternity leave law in place for working mothers. Having to leave your child with strangers during infancy is not only not normal but inhumane and cruel. I can't imagine getting this phone call. This woman is the devil smh.

    • @beckajo
      @beckajo 9 месяцев назад +4

      Same with me

    • @snowflake4656
      @snowflake4656 9 месяцев назад

      Democrat laws want to kill children not protect them .democrats want to be on an island with minors not fight for your rights. They want you to have no rights. They want control of the curriculum and every aspect of your child’s life. Vote Trump. Save our youth.

    • @mandelorean6243
      @mandelorean6243 9 месяцев назад +10

      Meh, mothers have their kids taken care of/baby sat until their 18 as a norm these days.
      Danger doesn't endafter infant age

    • @TTSantiago821
      @TTSantiago821 9 месяцев назад +41

      @mandelorean6243 it doesn't, my statement still remains. I'm only speaking to infancy.....of course more time is needed.

    • @lobsters12111
      @lobsters12111 9 месяцев назад +72

      ​@@mandelorean6243 If your kid can't tell you when something happened you shouldn't leave them in daycare. There are too many evil people that will take advantage, and they're drawn to these places.

  • @easter_sunday
    @easter_sunday Год назад +2701

    I don't have any empathy for someone who abuses children like this.

    • @Daniell_Dani_Daniell
      @Daniell_Dani_Daniell Год назад +35

      Right! None at all.... My heart breaks for the mother and father... 😢

    • @donnagelina8548
      @donnagelina8548 Год назад +141

      Did I miss something? She put the baby down in the wrong position, on his stomach. So that was murder?

    • @jescovideo
      @jescovideo Год назад +75

      @@donnagelina8548 yeah im trying to figure that out too

    • @Masteralyssa
      @Masteralyssa Год назад +38

      ​@@jescovideoYeah i'm not understanding either

    • @stevetyrell8721
      @stevetyrell8721 Год назад +13

      You must have really high standards.

  • @Im_Sayce
    @Im_Sayce Год назад +1454

    This is EXACTLY why I retired and have been the only one to watch my 3 grandsons since birth. I worked in the criminal courtroom my entire career and saw cases just like this too many times. Swore when I had grandkids they would never have to go to daycare. My heart breaks for the Momma, I can’t even begin to imagine…glad she got 30 years!! 👏

    • @truebratt
      @truebratt Год назад +3

      I’m grateful that Justice was served for this baby boy, but unfortunately 30 years is NOTHING compared to the life that innocent baby could’ve/would’ve had…

    • @ceebee8255
      @ceebee8255 Год назад +65

      God bless you !!! That’s amazing that your grandchildren are SAFE with you

    • @queentiff9827
      @queentiff9827 Год назад +48

      Not all grandmothers are like you mam. Some would pretend they care and hurt the child because they don't loke their mom or dad.

    • @brandymatlock6169
      @brandymatlock6169 Год назад +28

      I did they samething when my grandbabies were born. So my business and I'm a stay home grandma.

    • @blueskyandgoldenlight
      @blueskyandgoldenlight Год назад +44

      I stayed home with my babies because I trust NO ONE. Maybe my mom but daycare, never never ever

  • @amyflash3637
    @amyflash3637 Год назад +1415

    The fact the daycare provider isn't crying or upset 😔 ..... RIP sweet baby Charlie ❤

    • @Eljefecontent247
      @Eljefecontent247 Год назад +36

      That bothered me as well she was acting like the baby had gas - like a child has passed I would be so upset..

    • @Oliviabtruecrime
      @Oliviabtruecrime Год назад +31

      I would be inconsolable! I wouldn’t be able to even answer questions! 🤬

    • @DakotaActually
      @DakotaActually Год назад +11

      Right, because shock doesn't exist.

    • @BarekHalfhand
      @BarekHalfhand Год назад +8

      @@DASOMILITIA
      Yeah it was all about how it's going to reflect on her 😡. 10:09

    • @u.synlig
      @u.synlig Год назад +9

      I just wondered why she had "TRUMP" campaign material displayed in the daycare facility (cupboard). Inspiration?

  • @-valmetal-
    @-valmetal- 11 месяцев назад +233

    the way she was trembling when she had to show the officer the video footage just tells me everything i needed to know. what a vile, disgusting excuse of a caretaker

    • @carringtonbowman3349
      @carringtonbowman3349 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@noquestions9529what’s wrong with you?

    • @shawnmaria-z2k
      @shawnmaria-z2k 6 месяцев назад

      @@noquestions9529sure she didn’t! Just like she didn’t “mean” to throw a 6mo old baby! People that think like you are just as disgusting as the ones who actually abuse children/babies!!!

    • @beautyisonlyrazordeep
      @beautyisonlyrazordeep 5 месяцев назад

      @@noquestions9529me when i need attention

    • @mejane7010
      @mejane7010 4 месяца назад +2

      @@noquestions9529 The latter charges stem from other videos from the home daycare center which prosecutors said showed Hickey abusing six other children who ranged in age from 6 months to 16 months. According to the indictment, the abuse included “slamming a child on the floor,” pulling the hair of another child, “forcing her face-first into a playpen,” picking up a child by one leg and swinging the child by the leg into a playpen onto her head, shaking a child, and carrying a child in a “negligent manner causing him to bump his head and cry.”

  • @samusami7439
    @samusami7439 Год назад +811

    Rest in peace Charlie, your time was short but the world was blessed to have you.

  • @Preciousmos
    @Preciousmos Год назад +2955

    The fact that her daughters immediate reaction was “is she in trouble, is she going to jail” is very telling about how her daughter and her family know the kinda person she is/was to these children.

    • @Mikol_Billy
      @Mikol_Billy Год назад +315

      Eh I see what you mean but she could also assume that if something happens that has several cruisers outside that she’s in trouble, ya know

    • @kittencatlover156
      @kittencatlover156 Год назад +45

      she got 30 years for putting the baby on her stomach rather than back. Hardly the signs of a daughter who thinks that of her mum.

    • @lisasanfilippo1223
      @lisasanfilippo1223 Год назад

      daughter knew mom did something! Sorry but that woman is a POS!

    • @sylvaindescoteaux4208
      @sylvaindescoteaux4208 Год назад +1

      She exhibit the typical sociopathic pathology.

    • @Lori-nv4fu
      @Lori-nv4fu Год назад +234

      @@kittencatlover156 Is THAT what you learned from this video? You THINK the woman got 30 years for simply putting the child on his stomach instead of his back? DID YOU EVEN WATCH THE VIDEO! Evidently, the woman flung the baby onto the floor as she was holding him by his one arm and the baby landed on his head and the momentum of his weight after he flipped over snapped his little neck!

  • @Confused_Philosopher
    @Confused_Philosopher Год назад +1740

    The daycare worker is strangely calm and unemotional for someone who has just had a baby die while under their care.

    • @wanaraz
      @wanaraz Год назад +27

      You don't know what she is feeling.

    • @zanderarvizu
      @zanderarvizu Год назад +109

      @@wanaraz are you seriously defending her?

    • @noax79
      @noax79 Год назад +82

      @@wanarazShe feels nothing. She’s evil.

    • @mikeclemets863
      @mikeclemets863 Год назад +11

      ​@@wanarazprobably a psychopath or ur right maybe her heartbeat going nuts per minute

    • @alexisg7644
      @alexisg7644 Год назад +30

      Right?! If I were in her shoes, I would be inconsolable. It would be such a horrific thing to find a dead baby. That afternoon would literally be the worst moment of my life. To be questioning yourself on whether your actions could have influenced the outcome.. Only a guilty person acts like she did. It seemed like just another day at work for her and it was an inconvenience to have to deal with

  • @GaragebuiltOriginal
    @GaragebuiltOriginal 11 месяцев назад +284

    This is why my wife and I work opposite schedules so we are the only ones who watch our children.

    • @CocoPink44
      @CocoPink44 9 месяцев назад +19

      That is what me and my husband did too. I just could not put a baby or young child in daycare. Doesn't feel right.

    • @kenw2225
      @kenw2225 9 месяцев назад +11

      Everyone makes excuses for their kids being cared for by strangers. Good for you. My sisters both have their kids in daycare. The one sister and her husband work from home lol. I can't even believe they do it. See their kids 1 hour before day care in am. Then 2.5-3.5 hours at night. 3-4 hours a day they see their kids . lol . While, yes that's how we were raised but i prefer seeing my kids. They want to put careers first I suppose

    • @shari7742
      @shari7742 9 месяцев назад +9

      My parents did the same thing. One of them was always with us. The rare time that anyone else watched us, it was my Grandma.

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel 8 месяцев назад +19

      ​@@kenw2225 a lot of parents are single parents and have to work and not everyone is blessed to have a village of people they trust. So daycare is their only option. Stop being judgemental and just offer your condolences. Also why don't you offer to watch your niece or nephew?!?! Oh it's because you're a sorry excuse for a sister

    • @AlexusLeeannn
      @AlexusLeeannn 7 месяцев назад +6

      Some people don’t have that luxury

  • @LindaKayHolevas
    @LindaKayHolevas Год назад +826

    It’s disgusting that she’s crying for herself when she realizes she has to tell the other parents, but she didn’t shed a tear over the baby. Evil walks among us.

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Год назад

      My cousin diagnosis

    • @LalaSmiles
      @LalaSmiles Год назад +21

      Right. That’s so scary. She’s a mother herself and felt no sympathy that the baby she cared for was killed by her hands. No sympathy for the mother that was losing her child

    • @lilaeckitties7524
      @lilaeckitties7524 Год назад

      Yes you are evil.

    • @lauralynn4640
      @lauralynn4640 Год назад

      My sentiments exactly

    • @Poppa_Reed
      @Poppa_Reed Год назад +4

      She didn't know the baby was dead yet

  • @jackiemarini3203
    @jackiemarini3203 Год назад +501

    My boyfriend has a friend who lost his child at a daycare.The women pushed his child down the steps.The women went too prison .His mom and dad are still hurting so very bad 😢

    • @aspoonfullofkiwi
      @aspoonfullofkiwi Год назад +26

      That's heartbreaking 😔

    • @mmenace2sobrietyy
      @mmenace2sobrietyy Год назад +24

      oh my god i’m so sorry for his friend 💔.
      our healthcare system, even our daycares, are SO corrupted by EVIL people 😭💔❗️

    • @sydneyreynolds6967
      @sydneyreynolds6967 Год назад +6

      I remember this case, or another situation like this. Absolute oxygen thief!

    • @jesusisgod4992
      @jesusisgod4992 Год назад +3

      to*

    • @daniellewebber1960
      @daniellewebber1960 Год назад

      Whistle blowers get fired that's why nothing changes

  • @breezluize3282
    @breezluize3282 Год назад +475

    To think that the mother of that baby carried him in her stomach longer than he was alive on Earth is heartbreaking.

    • @sammi723
      @sammi723 Год назад +30

      I never thought of that, it’s so sad and heartbreaking 💔 😢

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Год назад +10

      This perspective really hurts

    • @hellenicboi14
      @hellenicboi14 Год назад +2

      He was still alive in the womb.

    • @breezluize3282
      @breezluize3282 Год назад +2

      @@hellenicboi14 No one's giving you attention in real life, huh?

    • @hellenicboi14
      @hellenicboi14 Год назад

      @@breezluize3282 You left a public comment and I replied to it. If you can't handle that then maybe the internet isn't for you.

  • @pattyandersen5516
    @pattyandersen5516 9 месяцев назад +49

    A room with no windows. No emotion from the woman. And how many babies did she have each day? Poor mother and family! My heart breaks for her.

  • @kimberlee1732
    @kimberlee1732 Год назад +357

    If a child died in my care i would be inconsolable. This woman was completely unmoved . Terrifying 😢

    • @tesskaiser2190
      @tesskaiser2190 Год назад +10

      Agreed it's sociopathic

    • @wellhellothere9157
      @wellhellothere9157 Год назад +2

      She only cried when she realized she had to tell the other parents.

    • @waynecarr9150
      @waynecarr9150 Год назад +5

      Im not defending the woman's actions, but you cant use an emotional response (or lack of one) as intent or presumed guilt. We all respond to things differently.

    • @bimm7930
      @bimm7930 Год назад

      ​@@waynecarr9150agreed

  • @BeRightBack131
    @BeRightBack131 Год назад +385

    This is why I stopped babysitting years ago. I had one little boy who would hold his breath until his lips turned blue. His parents said yeah, he does that when he gets mad. I said well you need to find another sitter. That shyt scared me so bad I never wanted to babysit again.

    • @Rebelmutt507
      @Rebelmutt507 11 месяцев назад +28

      I agree so acary but sadly so common for young ones!

    • @jasminewilliams2367
      @jasminewilliams2367 11 месяцев назад +53

      I know that’s right. Baby he gotta go else where with all that

    • @curtisschwab9436
      @curtisschwab9436 11 месяцев назад +12

      Fo real lol

    • @marcosleon215
      @marcosleon215 10 месяцев назад +4

      🧢

    • @Zeng-rv9mv
      @Zeng-rv9mv 9 месяцев назад +2

      Bad parenting.

  • @dannishoemake731
    @dannishoemake731 Год назад +781

    I have always felt bad for parents who have to use daycares. I never trusted anyone with my kids.

    • @aspoonfullofkiwi
      @aspoonfullofkiwi Год назад +38

      Same, I could never after seeing so many innocent children hurt by seemingly normal women, men. I feel for those hardworking moms and dads and to the good daycare workers who have their profession tainted by these monsters. Even in my hometown there have been reports of parents finding their children placed in cribs for hours on end, and leaving older children that take care of the younger ones. I couldn't place my trust in anyone after seeing some of these stories come out.

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 Год назад +22

      Ya... my sister is terrified, she's a first time mom and her maternity leave is almost done. She's not ganna have a choice. Even if you get references and throughly investigate the daycare before you send the kid, its still a gamble 😢

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 Год назад

      ​​@@eruditeeremite72891st and 2nd wave feminists were really important... but this new wave is an absolute joke. Sometimes I think we should just send all the radical feminists to Afghanistan 😂... give them something real to complain about!

    • @CheifChef
      @CheifChef Год назад +22

      I have Never had a Babysitter or Daycare for my 2 daughters. I was in daycare when I was little. That's a big Nope!!

    • @Yagirlreacts
      @Yagirlreacts Год назад +18

      Im a single mum who is going back to work soon and I’m terrified. If I could afford to stay home I would.

  • @kayzbluegenes
    @kayzbluegenes 8 месяцев назад +67

    This is terrifying. That house is lovely; everything is clean; the environment is beautifully decorated and seems like a childhood wonder land. No red flags that would cause a parent to suspect the evil that resides there. 😢

    • @SuacyFUG
      @SuacyFUG 2 месяца назад

      @@kayzbluegenes I was thinking while watching you would think it would be dirty and messy

  • @mahaleyking3585
    @mahaleyking3585 11 месяцев назад +598

    When that cop turned around with such confidence and said “felony murder and cruelty to children in the second degree” I got chills. I’m sorry this had to happen at all, but I’m also relieved she won’t be able to do it again.

    • @essxo2885
      @essxo2885 11 месяцев назад +13

      Like wym why is she getting arrested a baby died ?

    • @sheldonmurphy6031
      @sheldonmurphy6031 10 месяцев назад

      That shut hippie boy up really quick! lol

    • @mandelorean6243
      @mandelorean6243 9 месяцев назад

      ​@essxo2885 tells us youre daft and naive without telling us.

    • @SoItsSophieXx
      @SoItsSophieXx 9 месяцев назад

      She caused his death by ignoring safe sleep guidelines@@essxo2885

    • @squeso33
      @squeso33 9 месяцев назад +10

      ​@essxo2885 from my understanding that's a valid question. Especially if he hasn't there. For all he knows he just thought it was a freak accident.

  • @seemenow8603
    @seemenow8603 Год назад +1620

    This is why paid maternity/paternity leave/child care leave is crucial for the first year and a half of a childs life and safety. Parents need to take care of their babies without worrying if they will be fired or dismissed, remote working for many jobs is a strong possibility and reduced hours , especially in major corporations.... So many of these accidents happen, and we still refuse to fix it.
    Had to correct and fix a few things because people online are Literalists. PLEASE don't forget an innocent life has been lost in all of this, so keep your words kind when offering your point of view.
    Condolences to the family. ❤

    • @NickP771
      @NickP771 Год назад +201

      We need to return to a single income system. Both parents are not meant to work.

    • @Becalavelle
      @Becalavelle Год назад +32

      @@NickP771 exactly!!!

    • @seemenow8603
      @seemenow8603 Год назад +45

      @NickP771 wow in this economy?! Not likely, but we have great examples in 1st world countries in Europe that already have a system that works. Why not take their model and make it work in America?!

    • @NickP771
      @NickP771 Год назад +26

      @@seemenow8603 their system "works" because they are small homogenous nations (for now) and don't need to spend on militaries because the US covers most of it. Also we know that government services always degrade over time as they expand their mission and balloon their beaurocracy so it's only a matter of time before those programs fall apart.

    • @TreeFrawg
      @TreeFrawg Год назад +27

      I find this to be a stronger argument for abortion being legal,safe and frequent.

  • @adrienneshouse9742
    @adrienneshouse9742 Год назад +539

    I worked in a daycare for years. I absolutely loved my job. HOW COULD U EVER HURT A BABY . This makes me sick ;( I'm so sorry to the parents of these children!!!!

    • @PsychedOut..
      @PsychedOut.. Год назад +9

      Same. I worked as a nursery nurse for years in my late teens, I can’t imagine ever hurting or risking the safety of a defenceless baby or child. The trust and responsibility the parents place on you is immeasurable, to not carry that with the greatest of care and compassion just isn’t an option 💔

    • @WholeWhiteBaby
      @WholeWhiteBaby Год назад +23

      She didn't intend to kill the infant, she is just ridiculously irresponsible...

    • @tia-q3
      @tia-q3 Год назад +5

      ​@kylecook7503
      Huh? Why even defend her behaviour that caused the de@th of a little baby?
      She wasn't even the baby's mother & suffering from postnatal depression/ psychosis.
      So no excuse.
      Smh.

    • @sassysucculent6291
      @sassysucculent6291 Год назад +7

      @@WholeWhiteBabythat’s what I am trying to figure out. Did she throw him? Is that what killed him? What did he pass from? Was it instant ? Wish there were more details

    • @notlacF
      @notlacF Год назад

      @@sassysucculent6291 look up sudden infant death syndrome. its negligence on part of the daycare owner

  • @Velvittede
    @Velvittede 11 месяцев назад +70

    I don’t have kids, I was never really a kid person. But man, if someone else’s child out of my care, I would be absolutely beyond devastated. Devastated. Why is she so calm that lady. Seeing that poor mom trying to find her child actually made me cry. So sad

  • @Camille-wk9zs
    @Camille-wk9zs Год назад +630

    This woman is just way to calm for a child to have died under her care. If that were me, I’d be freaking out. I’d be hysterical. GUILTY, written all over this. 😱😢

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Год назад +24

      Lack of empathy, maybe a sociopath

    • @4markie
      @4markie Год назад

      ur cringe

    • @batterybroken
      @batterybroken Год назад +15

      I mean, shock could be a factor (if she was innocent) but that usually wears off and this was unchanging. It’s just unnerving how she acts

    • @nicoleh9551
      @nicoleh9551 Год назад +3

      Completely agree

    • @annjepsen1621
      @annjepsen1621 11 месяцев назад +1

      I babysit my 4mo old niece about 25hrs a week. I take that responsibility incredibly seriously and I would be *inconsolable and bawling* if anything happened to her, let alone something I was responsible for.
      This woman has no heart. She didn't start crying until they told her she had to close down her daycare, ugh! 😤

  • @SmokyDaBear710
    @SmokyDaBear710 Год назад +608

    Almost hit my knees when I saw the mom running to the ambulance this should have never happen!

    • @jai3064
      @jai3064 Год назад +6

      Brung me too tears 💯

    • @TheActionHank
      @TheActionHank Год назад +5

      I avoided looking directly at that clip.

    • @lamar310
      @lamar310 Год назад +6

      That was very hard to watch and I'm not an emotional guy

    • @rcg224
      @rcg224 Год назад +4

      time stamp? I'm all over the place watching this video . I'm heartbroken

    • @towritemichelle210
      @towritemichelle210 Год назад

      ​@@rcg224before the minute mark

  • @sarita5572
    @sarita5572 Год назад +496

    Wow...my mom had a daycare for 18 years and had a 1 month old pass away at our house from SIDS. I was a little girl when it happened. I came home from school to an ambulance outside. My mom was an absolute mess. She actually didnt come out of her room for weeks after it happened. This woman giggles and has no emotion whatsoever. That is not normal.

    • @zsofiathompson7501
      @zsofiathompson7501 Год назад +66

      Heartbreaking 💔 but also heartbreaking someone put their baby in childcare at 1 month old!

    • @Shifter22
      @Shifter22 Год назад +11

      So sorry for your mom, that's tough. And ya this woman seems off.

    • @angeles959
      @angeles959 Год назад +43

      @@zsofiathompson7501 some parents have no other choice because of working. at least they found someone to watch their baby instead of leaving them with anyone

    • @priscillapie
      @priscillapie Год назад +2

      Hmmm 🤔 🧐

    • @mandapanda6233
      @mandapanda6233 Год назад

      @@angeles959Parental leave in the US seriously needs an overhaul. It's so depressing hearing stories of babies being left in daycare at months old, because there's basically no other option. When I had my baby, I had 2 weeks of vacation/pto saved up, after that I was on my own. Sure, because of FMLA, they "guaranteed" I still had a job after spending an entire 12 WEEKS with my baby. I wasn't fired, but didn't get paid outside of that 2 weeks I had saved up from years at this clinic.

  • @msch7620
    @msch7620 9 месяцев назад +162

    Honestly there is something to be said about lack of maternity leave in the US. It’s not normal for a 4 month old to be separated from mom. Then, the ratio caregiver-children seem way too high. It should be 1:4 for babies. 1:5 for toddlers.

    • @4amcripple
      @4amcripple 5 месяцев назад +1

      Seems to me she was taking extra babies as long as she didn't have a state check that day. They almost always let them know when they are having an inspection

    • @Cincy_Kid
      @Cincy_Kid 5 месяцев назад +9

      But they need more money for Ukraine so the tax cattle needs to be working

    • @Chicken_witch
      @Chicken_witch 2 месяца назад +3

      Children belong with mothers and/or family for at least the first 5 years.

    • @FaunaFruity
      @FaunaFruity 2 месяца назад +1

      REAL PARENTS STAY HOME

    • @niklaslund2204
      @niklaslund2204 2 месяца назад

      @@Cincy_Kid they haven't even given 20 bucks. Each us citizen paid roughly 12-15$

  • @NatashaHuffMotivates
    @NatashaHuffMotivates Год назад +862

    The woman's tears were not for the loss of the precious baby who died because of her irresponsible ways, but rather for the judgment of others on her situation. This is truly disturbing. My heart goes out to the family of the baby, may they find the peace they deserve. 🙏🏾

    • @drshin9893
      @drshin9893 Год назад +11

      Close but I don’t think it’s the judgement as much as losing all that business

    • @victorianeal9369
      @victorianeal9369 Год назад +6

      Prayers for the family 💕 May they find peace in Jesus through this devastating loss

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Год назад

      ​@@victorianeal9369amen 🙏🏽

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 11 месяцев назад +1

      You don’t know this…… everybody handles death differently, both her and the parents were clearly in SHOCK . 14:21 parents were not in tears.

    • @kittybridgeman3524
      @kittybridgeman3524 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@drshin9893 the nursery was creepy. Not a good vibe at all

  • @nicolejttmom6061
    @nicolejttmom6061 Год назад +905

    The fact that the defendant isn't upset about the baby and that her daughter immediately asks if her mother is in trouble tells it all.

    • @mypov8028
      @mypov8028 Год назад +31

      The cop told her that her mother was fine. People need to stop being simple minded. Leave her out of it.

    • @lexir7504
      @lexir7504 Год назад +67

      yeah she showed 0 emotion for anything ralated to the baby and then completely broke down at the thought of having to close her daycare for a couple days. very strange and the daughter was definitely sus too for what she asked. if i saw tons of cops my first thought wouldn't be that someone at my house was in trouble i'd be worried that they were hurt or a kid got hurt

    • @docrx1857
      @docrx1857 Год назад +110

      @@lexir7504 100 percent. when the daughter runs up asking "is she in trouble" tells the whole story. they know how she treats these kids.

    • @vickidolph1581
      @vickidolph1581 Год назад +54

      That’s exactly what I thought!! One of the daughter’s first questions was, ‘Is my Mom going to jail?’

    • @FloraDubya
      @FloraDubya Год назад +46

      @@lexir7504I think that if my child was in a daycare where a child died, I would take my child out of there the same day.

  • @ericjmasters
    @ericjmasters Год назад +548

    As a 49 year old male of 2 kids I always felt blessed I owned my own company and took my kids to work. Never ever did I have anyone babysit except for grand parents. Why cause I know my parents did amazing with me. Prayers for the mother this is heartbreaking

    • @FarmerDrew
      @FarmerDrew Год назад +41

      Me too, man, me too. It's hard enough letting them go to school.

    • @anthonygallegos3269
      @anthonygallegos3269 Год назад +13

      @ericjmasters nobody cares

    • @michaelfinnegan3805
      @michaelfinnegan3805 Год назад +8

      You do you, Mr Doo Doo 💩

    • @RedForeman
      @RedForeman Год назад +29

      I’m poor as a cup of water and I ain’t taken my kids to daycare either it ain’t bout money it’s about your standards and how you want you children raised who you want them around etc..

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Год назад +6

      You're 49 years old?! You don't look it! I am 36 years old and have two children. I'm lucky that my extended family is able to watch them when I'm in need.

  • @sarahsaavedra4732
    @sarahsaavedra4732 8 месяцев назад +163

    Weird that the daughter instantly asks if her mom is in trouble.

    • @elpapito7809
      @elpapito7809 7 месяцев назад +50

      I mean there is like 20 cops at your house…someone is clearly in trouble !
      She asked first if her mom was okay

    • @melissalsmith883
      @melissalsmith883 7 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah weird… their home is crawling with completely weird for the daughter to ask that 🙄🙄in case you’re confused that was sarcasm

    • @Dinjur
      @Dinjur 7 месяцев назад +4

      How? There's a ton of cops there? What do you mean?

    • @soand3919
      @soand3919 5 месяцев назад +22

      It is weird that her first question was is mom in trouble and is she going to jail and not is everyone ok? My first thought would have been Is everyone ok? It makes me think she has seen her mom do something bad before.

    • @chickenmaster66
      @chickenmaster66 Месяц назад

      @@elpapito7809no she didn’t she said several times “is she in trouble is she in trouble?” Her mom texted her medical emergency. And on top of that the video in her own house showed her grabbing a toddler by the leg and throwing them into a playpen headfirst. Pulling a toddler by the hair and dragging them. Throwing another toddler face first into the play pen etc etc. this women routinely abused children and her OWN kids and family MOST likely knew this… it is NOT normal to ask if someone is in trouble unless you suspect them being guilty of something.

  • @veggiesarefruits
    @veggiesarefruits Год назад +601

    If a child died in my care, I would be absolutely inconsolable. Even if it was a complete accident, it would ruin me for the rest of my life. Now, everyone does react differently to horrible news. I recognize that. But she seemed more concerned about what the parents would think of HER when having to call and tell them that there was an emergency and they'd have to come get their kids, than she was concerned about the baby who died. I cannot imagine the pain the family must be going through. You don't get over something like this. I can't bear to think about it.

    • @ashleyduckworthyt3224
      @ashleyduckworthyt3224 Год назад +10

      And her daughter’s immediate reaction wasn’t if she was safe it was if she was getting arrested or not.

    • @ShesAbsurd
      @ShesAbsurd Год назад +7

      @@ashleyduckworthyt3224 I noticed that too. I’m like why would she immediately think she’s in trouble?

    • @Moomoo-oq8zk
      @Moomoo-oq8zk Год назад +10

      @@ShesAbsurd because her mom owns the childcare and thats a lot of liability. She came and all she saw are a bunch of cops and news that a baby died. I think its normal for her to be worried about whats going to happen to her mom or if her mom would be held liable even if she didnt cause the death (hypothetically i mean)

    • @patriciaduran222
      @patriciaduran222 Год назад

      Exactly!

    • @jasminesolomon6362
      @jasminesolomon6362 Год назад +1

      She only got emotional when she had to face the parents. Sad

  • @roxiewatters1161
    @roxiewatters1161 Год назад +613

    “No shock advised” broke me 😢🥺💔 I take CPR classes annually and to hear that baby cannot be helped is devastating

    • @sillyqueen79
      @sillyqueen79 Год назад +26

      Same here 😢😢😢 just heart and gut wrenching!

    • @lbpalexcool1
      @lbpalexcool1 Год назад +13

      How did the machine know not to shock him?

    • @bippidyboppidyboo4428
      @bippidyboppidyboo4428 Год назад +75

      "No shock advised" doesn't necessarily mean the patient is gone. The "No shock advised" message will also occur if a pulse is detected. Either way, it's terrible what happened to that baby. The poor mom running up to the ambulance was heartbreaking :(

    • @francegamble1
      @francegamble1 Год назад +25

      ​@lbpalexcool1 The machine is looking for the heart to send out a pulse or an electrical stimulation to need help starting again. This allows the people helping to know if there is still nervous signals in the body and no pulse or there is now a pulse so no shock needed.

    • @chrisabella624
      @chrisabella624 Год назад +29

      It's called asystole your heart has absolutely no electrical rhythm. There are certain rythems that the and won't let you shock. So the machine basically said that young child was dead. There was nothing that was gonna bring him back. I have had asystole save through cpr but maybe 2 out of 1000. And I only have maybe 8 or 10 saves total. Most of the time they wait for their loved one to be to far gone to be saved. And the rest are young people having heart attacks and drug overdoses.

  • @taylorraine8264
    @taylorraine8264 Год назад +432

    This is exactly why the United States needs to make maternity leave longer than just three months, as a mother myself I think it’s ridiculous that we have to return to work so quick.

    • @kyle6209
      @kyle6209 Год назад +23

      Agreed, very few companies offer a long term leave

    • @danielleschiazza6172
      @danielleschiazza6172 Год назад +27

      Yes it should be at least a year.

    • @Bluelilly40
      @Bluelilly40 Год назад +20

      In Sweden, I think parents get 4 or 5 years.

    • @tainahernandez5141
      @tainahernandez5141 Год назад +17

      As a mother for a 3rd time I agree. I have never taken any of my girls to day care. Their dad works in the morning and I work nights. It’s hard but I know they are 100% safe with us. The world is rotten 💔

    • @Osama_Bin_Ladder
      @Osama_Bin_Ladder Год назад

      @@Bluelilly40no they don’t you literally made that up. 480 days is the max and you have to apply for that through the government. Why spread misinformation that’s so easily fact checkable?

  • @caroljohnson9230
    @caroljohnson9230 11 месяцев назад +73

    AS A MOTHER THAT HAS LOST A CHILD AND 2 GRAND CHILDREN, NO MATTER WHAT THEIR AGE, THIS IS A PAIN THAT IS UNDISCRIBABLE. THIS IS A PAIN THAT LITERALLY FLOODS THE VERY DEBTH OF YOUR SOUL AND STAYS PLANTED UNTIL YOU TAKE YOUR VERY LAST BREATH.
    LORD HELP THIS MOTHER, THIS POOR MOTHER WOULD HAVE GIVEN HER PRECIOUS BABE HER VERY LAST BREATH 🥀

    • @yerawizardjimmeh809
      @yerawizardjimmeh809 9 месяцев назад

      This comment broke me down into tears. I cannot imagine the pain you have felt. I am so so sorry, nobody deserves this kind of pain. This caretaker is another kind of evil.

    • @caroljohnson9230
      @caroljohnson9230 8 месяцев назад

      @@yerawizardjimmeh809 🥀

  • @levia5343
    @levia5343 Год назад +308

    My heart goes out to his mom. I can’t imagine losing my baby. You just can’t trust anyone with your children.

  • @razz8367
    @razz8367 Год назад +82

    Daughter knew right away what her mom was doing when she asked if she was going to jail straight away.

  • @AmandaLeeRex
    @AmandaLeeRex Год назад +161

    In the late 1980s my brother and I were in a daycare run by an elderly woman in our town. She was horribly abusive to us both. I was locked in her bedroom with the lights off and forced to lay in her bed with the sheets around me tucked tight under the mattress and was told not to move until lunch time. If I whined bc I had to go to the bathroom she would scream at me to shut up. At lunch she forced us to watch the game show The Price is Right and then I was put back into the bedroom, no lights, until 30 min before my father picked us up. My brother was forced to sit in a wooden chair facing the wall all day and was smacked with something that looked like a long glue stick if he “misbehaved “. We were always threatened that if we told our parents we would be in huge trouble so we never said anything. They only found out bc I stopped bringing my bag of toys and asked me why I wasn’t bringing them, and being a kid not thinking I said what’s the point since I don’t get to play with them. I instantly started bawling my eyes out bc I thought I would be punished. My mother forced me to tell her everything and I never saw that lady again. My parents never went to the police but they should have.
    To this day I cannot stand seeing ANYTHING that has to do with the show The Price is Right and the music makes me want to have a full on panic attack. I have 3 kids and stay home with them.

    • @Tommyknocker.
      @Tommyknocker. 8 месяцев назад +10

      Reminds me of my own experience back in the days, but it was somewhere in 90s
      I still remember being locked in a huge bedroom and I had nothing to do. The windows had window blinds so it was dark and depressing, at least sometimes I was locked in with some random mates.. still was boring

    • @lovetolove2995
      @lovetolove2995 8 месяцев назад +4

      Wow😢..I could never imagine any of my loved ones going through this. What's done in the dark always comes out in the light. I agree though, that your parents should have got the authorities involved. Glad you're ok. ❤❤❤

    • @aquirayves278
      @aquirayves278 7 месяцев назад +4

      I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you are able to stay at home with your children.

  • @jazzyg1162
    @jazzyg1162 5 месяцев назад +16

    She is disgustingly calm for killing someone’s sweet little baby. 😢

  • @mombythec
    @mombythec Год назад +776

    Woah. As a former licensed daycare provider, I watched this carefully and at first I looked like just some negligence. The end was shocking! I once had a baby lethargic and struggling to breathe during naptime and thank god I checked on them every 15 minutes as required because he was having a severe asthma attack and we got him to the ER and he was doing well shortly after some treatments. We were all shaken up, it was terrifying!

    • @deborahwhit9583
      @deborahwhit9583 Год назад +5

      No excuses!

    • @jakeharmon8767
      @jakeharmon8767 Год назад

      Parents who send their kids to daycare are LOSERS! Absolute L O S E R S

    • @kimsland999
      @kimsland999 Год назад +7

      Wouldn't anyone check every 15mins (actually I'd say every minute for a baby not breathing properly!!!) When you say 'thank God..." I don't really understand that comment?
      Are you saying that normally you would not check every 15mins (??) on a baby struggling to breath?
      What you said doesn't make sense.
      1. You wouldn't thank a God, you'd merely use common sense, or to be a bit more relevant, a LICENCED day-care provider, would be *expected* to check a baby every minute, if the baby showed signs of breathing difficulties. To tell you the truth: I would have called the parents immediately and NEVER left the baby for any of those 15minte (multiple?) intervals.
      "Severe asthma attack' ? Why would you leave a baby for 15mins ever for this?
      Something is missing in your post. Because what you wrote any caring person would have known better. What you wrote shows someone WITHOUT due care! Plus it bothers me when you say thank God (which claimed God?) because I'm very concerned you are thanking your believed in God!!! Did your God hate the baby in this vid? I mean I hope you were using that in a colloquial manner? I expect you were just using a term of English? Because we DON'T thank a God, we EXPECT a licenced Daycare provider has a minimum understanding of human care of a baby! Your post is below standard on what any parent would expect of you.

    • @allthejuice8236
      @allthejuice8236 Год назад +10

      That’s horrifying and scary. Thank God you were present and attentive to the babies needs.

    • @trailerparksupervisor5378
      @trailerparksupervisor5378 Год назад +100

      ​​​@@kimsland999 Quite the high horse for someone with such low reading comprehension. They discovered the troubled breathing BECAUSE they did checks every 15 minutes. So your entire rant about God and whatever was completely pointless.

  • @telingo23
    @telingo23 Год назад +702

    She keeps giggling while the officer asks her questions. How disgusting. A child just died or at least to her knowledge is fighting for his life and she’s laughing. She’s beyond guilty.

    • @Mae-vy4pr
      @Mae-vy4pr Год назад +27

      Maybe she is nervous as well 😢😢

    • @jason200912
      @jason200912 Год назад +12

      The mom did too who was being shown how the baby died

    • @bbd359
      @bbd359 Год назад +4

      She did not lough 😅because the baby died😢.
      Watch again the 📹 🎥.
      She is also 😲 and in dilemma. check the kids before there parents hand them too you.
      If they are sick don't allow a sick child in daycare let there parent's take care of them.
      I can't a day care with kids under 1 year old.😢

    • @flarkjohnson6785
      @flarkjohnson6785 Год назад +42

      I think her daughters first words being "is she in trouble" says a lot about the kind of person she is. her own daughter automatically assumed she had done something malicious to an infant.

    • @PazuzuM666
      @PazuzuM666 Год назад +7

      Awkward hug from husband too... like he'd never done it before! 😮😮

  • @rayb7426
    @rayb7426 Год назад +142

    Why is she so calm?? I would've been freaking out if i found a 4 month old had passed away in my care!! Shes a monster

  • @vanessavalley9747
    @vanessavalley9747 8 месяцев назад +13

    30 years in prison. For a child that was taken away from life. An will never even see 30. Wow!! So sad. Prayers for that sweet babys family! May he R.I.P.

  • @emilyward4388
    @emilyward4388 Год назад +721

    How heartbreaking!!!! This is exactly why I’m happy I’m able to be a stay at home mom. Mothers and dads shouldn’t ever have to worry about this!!!!

    • @cn4936
      @cn4936 Год назад +36

      Im British, We have extensive maternal and paternal leave. A 4 month old would be with either; up to their 1 year birthday. I am so sorry for the Mum and Dad. RIP x

    • @brittanywoodhead1560
      @brittanywoodhead1560 Год назад

      @@cn4936 1year? I got 6 weeks of unpaid leave. And I was told I was lucky they help my spot until I could come back.

    • @7fpsmarvin
      @7fpsmarvin Год назад +6

      @emilyward4388 I wonder how you do it! Mine is a stay at home and when I get home she’s losing it ! Lol

    • @AtomicGarden68
      @AtomicGarden68 Год назад +26

      @@7fpsmarvin better than losing it ALl..... sorry bro that's being a mom, and that time is precious and every parent pretty much misses that time when it's gone. Now this mother and father will never have that time again for what?? A few more dollars? Our grandparents did it without a second thought... Now look at the kids today quite a difference... This generation is lost.

    • @tiffaniterris2886
      @tiffaniterris2886 Год назад +22

      @@7fpsmarvin - They've been doing it for millennia, something we as a society have failed to show appreciation for - how vital a roll the stay at home mom plays.

  • @marisaperez3890
    @marisaperez3890 Год назад +1130

    Never judge a mother for leaving her career to stay home with her babies. We stay home to prevent things like this. Unfortunately, some caretakers just don’t have common sense…. RIP sweet baby this is so unfortunate and devastating.

    • @hippiebits2071
      @hippiebits2071 Год назад +68

      I 100% respect mothers who choose to take a break and stay home especially for the first few years.

    • @kaecake9575
      @kaecake9575 Год назад +21

      That's what it always been but my generation Z is switching up their roles. It's sad to see

    • @TruthBeTold0914
      @TruthBeTold0914 Год назад +7

      ​@kaecake9575 Thank you for seeing that. It's refreshing to know not everyone in your generation is lost.

    • @vengefulbeauty
      @vengefulbeauty Год назад +2

      Some caretakers just don't care, sadly.

    • @hippiebits2071
      @hippiebits2071 Год назад +27

      @vengefulbeauty I see it more as a societal problem. The last few generations have been raised largely by parents who invested money rather than time in their kids and it shows.

  • @rebelmaam
    @rebelmaam Год назад +136

    I don't understand how one person has so many babies in her care and I can't handle all those little ones crying.

    • @christinametal1071
      @christinametal1071 Год назад +34

      she was only supposed to have 6 but they found out she had 12

    • @kittikat2318
      @kittikat2318 Год назад +49

      Cause she’s greedy & wants $$. There’s NO WAY anyone could provide quality care w/ that many kids.

    • @Nashae-kz5bc
      @Nashae-kz5bc Год назад +32

      Even the 1 to 5 and 1 to 6 ratio for infants and toddlers that the state requires. I feel like it’s too much babies and toddlers for one person. I believe all daycares should have a assistant checking in and helping with babies and toddlers. Most daycares and child care centers like this lady is greedy and only care for money and that’s it.

    • @yarnpower
      @yarnpower Год назад +13

      @@Nashae-kz5bcI agree. It is as if they think babies just need feeding and changing but not human interaction.

    • @gp2613
      @gp2613 Год назад +1

      Greed

  • @alishadlewis
    @alishadlewis 8 месяцев назад +8

    The mom didn't have the reaction I thought she would have during the cop's demonstration of what happened to her baby.

  • @midnight_spisee6049
    @midnight_spisee6049 Год назад +491

    When they came to arrest her she knew… she knew she was guilty… sickening. When will this country wake up and value family over work. We need longer PAID maternity leave, better resources for families to receive safe and affordable care who do need to work. Heartbreaking

    • @SoggySlopster
      @SoggySlopster Год назад +13

      Or just actually take care of your kids

    • @JSchaffer214
      @JSchaffer214 Год назад +4

      I know people think that every business owner grows money on trees but it just doesn't work like that. Yeah, there are many massive corporations who could provide better insurance and benefits to their employees but there even more who can't afford to do that. The sad part is that the companies who can't give more are usually the ones who would be willing to do more.

    • @JSchaffer214
      @JSchaffer214 Год назад +6

      @kenstone5531 Then maybe you should reevaluate where you live? If you made 2k monthly with two children in my region of the USA, you'd be doing pretty well for yourselves.

    • @justincain2702
      @justincain2702 Год назад +7

      @@SoggySlopster How do they do that without longer paid maternity leave?

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 Год назад +3

      it seems wrong to me to get paid when you dont work. especially because you sorta chose to do so....its like basically someone else is paying you to raise a child 😅 each to their own though but i come from a different culture and this concept is very alien to me and doesnt make sense

  • @Lemonhead0014
    @Lemonhead0014 Год назад +207

    The lady don't even seem upset??!!! ...WTF??!!! 🤷 ...It ripped my heart out seeing the mother run to her baby knowing what they're going to tell her... 😞 🙏

    • @anthonyrodrigues5032
      @anthonyrodrigues5032 Год назад +7

      Cant speak for her but people have different ways of dealing with stuff and maybe she though he could have been brought back. When I was a emt student my first time I gave cpr in the er of the hospital. Everyone did what they could but the woman didnt make it. I felt really bad while in the room but as soon as I walked out of the room I shrugged it off for the most part. Kids are worse for me though.

    • @niks.1391
      @niks.1391 Год назад +4

      Oh I know!!!! I started hyperventilating with anxiety w the thought and then tears came came thinking of the parents! Oh my goodness bless their hearts and God hold that sweet baby tight until he's re united w his parents and family

    • @kristeng113
      @kristeng113 Год назад +1

      ​@@anthonyrodrigues5032You were an EMT. This woman was responsible for the situation. Completely different comparison.

  • @nanapam6376
    @nanapam6376 Год назад +214

    The same thing happened to my nine week old nephew and the woman watching him was inconsolable, they had to sedate her as well as my sister in law. I can’t comprehend how this woman isn’t showing emotion!?

    • @chiloveradiouncut
      @chiloveradiouncut Год назад +36

      Because she killed the baby.

    • @MelanieBarrozo-u7s
      @MelanieBarrozo-u7s Год назад +9

      You’re saying the woman watching him was never shown to have fault for it then? Like a case of SIDS? Because initially that’s what I thought this case was.

    • @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
      @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim Год назад

      @@MelanieBarrozo-u7s SIDS isn’t real.

    • @moBitches1994
      @moBitches1994 Год назад

      It’s because she’s a P.O.S. Who cares about the paychecks coming from the children. Not being a caregiver. It’s disgusting she was in charge on multiple young children, has one die on her watch, and still believes she’s able to care for the others. I.e will she still receive a paycheck for the other children

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +5

      @@MelanieBarrozo-u7s yeah that’s what I’m trying to understand as well. According to this video, she put the baby down on its stomach which she wasn’t supposed to do and didn’t check on him for two hours. Then they describe her being rough with another child. Her own daughter obviously loves her and has a good relationship, so what made her become so reckless/careless with other children?

  • @heavenleigh3835
    @heavenleigh3835 8 месяцев назад +61

    Was she not sleepchecking him?? I'm am infant daycare provider and we are supposed to sleep check every 10/15 minutes on top of safe sleep. This is sickening and could've been avoided!

    • @patriciacurtis8990
      @patriciacurtis8990 7 месяцев назад

      she was beating on the kids.

    • @stewarln52284
      @stewarln52284 6 месяцев назад +3

      Same here- we check every 15 minutes, and the ratio is one teacher to four students under the age of 2 (in Wisconsin)

    • @amyturner6275
      @amyturner6275 5 месяцев назад +3

      In New Zealand we check every five minutes

    • @leeislove1422
      @leeislove1422 5 месяцев назад +2

      You know she wasn’t! She didn’t care that’s the point!

    • @kelleygreengrass
      @kelleygreengrass 5 месяцев назад

      She was probably beating him

  • @shelby_button
    @shelby_button Год назад +527

    Ugh. The faces of those parents in the car after hearing “I’m gonna let y’all go home” really broke my heart. How do you return home to that empty house and nursery 😢

    • @AseAleisha
      @AseAleisha Год назад +3

      Fr

    • @Darkuschris21
      @Darkuschris21 Год назад +4

      Timestamp?

    • @Darkuschris21
      @Darkuschris21 Год назад +12

      I answered my own question 14:10

    • @cricket34
      @cricket34 Год назад +1

      Why did they come back to the scene?

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 Год назад +19

      ​@cricket34 probably looking for answers from the care provider. I would want to know everything that happened too.

  • @sarahbethxoxo
    @sarahbethxoxo Год назад +341

    the daycare owner seems so unbothered… absolute garbage human. 😡
    so many prayers for this sweet baby’s family. i can’t even imagine the immense pain they will feel for the rest of their lives. watching mama sprinting to the ambulance almost brought me to tears. 💔

    • @mistyblackfoot3848
      @mistyblackfoot3848 Год назад +16

      I don't think its 'unbothered'. I think its shock and absolute fear, and later resignation/mental exhaustion. Her whole life is over. I mean, I'm not justifying her, I haven't seen the evidence against her yet (still watching the video). But I don't think she's so stiff because she's unbothered.

    • @betsybabf748
      @betsybabf748 Год назад +11

      @@mistyblackfoot3848 You're correct. People either go into hysterics or go into shock. She's definitely behaving like she's in shock, which is normal. The brain protects us by shutting down emotion and disassociating, People sometimes judge that but it's ignorance to how the body's response occurs at time of tragedy.

    • @Nope-s
      @Nope-s Год назад +3

      ​@mistyblackfoot3848 well you don't get second degree murder charges for nothing. She did something very bad.

    • @mistyblackfoot3848
      @mistyblackfoot3848 Год назад +3

      Being charged does not mean being guilty. @@Nope-s

    • @bobbieboomboomkelly
      @bobbieboomboomkelly Год назад +1

      she got 30 that’s guilty

  • @ELLE-yg6lk
    @ELLE-yg6lk Год назад +141

    I cannot even fathom the horror that poor mother faced. My heart goes out to her. This murderer is so cruel, she wasn’t even bothered at the scene. Absolutely disgusting.

  • @meganlynn3097
    @meganlynn3097 10 месяцев назад +15

    As a former nanny, when I hear cases like this my mind is just blown. The whole purpose is to provide and protect these children… what an evil monster

  • @marsisthegodofwar
    @marsisthegodofwar Год назад +156

    @17:00 When the husband asked what the charges were and the cop said, "Felony murder and cruelty to children in the 2nd degree."
    You could see his soul leave his body.
    You could literally see his heart drop into the pit of his stomach.

    • @todd2324
      @todd2324 Год назад +4

      It didn't seem like he cared to me. He looked more confused and shocked that she was being arrested. I highly doubt that he had no clue as to what was going on in that basement.

    • @hotmessexpress7056
      @hotmessexpress7056 Год назад +10

      He was there when she flung kids to the floor per the surveillance footage so he's just as bad to enable her evilness

  • @suzs3770
    @suzs3770 Год назад +532

    My goodness I can’t imagine what that poor momma is going through. This is absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @momsterzz
      @momsterzz Год назад +9

      And father!

    • @tatertotcasserolewithsalt
      @tatertotcasserolewithsalt Год назад +2

      Worst nightmare for sure. 😢

    • @Transformersarecoming4yourkids
      @Transformersarecoming4yourkids Год назад +6

      She literally just had that baby and now it’s been taken away from them. SMH.

    • @crypton_8l87
      @crypton_8l87 Год назад +3

      Poor momma had no time for her 4 month old baby. But she obviously had enough money to pay for day care services

    • @Arbiter710
      @Arbiter710 Год назад +2

      Do people open up these daycares to carry out their sick twisted thoughts of hurting kids? That’s what it seems like

  • @twizz420
    @twizz420 Год назад +806

    The fact that the daughter didn't act surprised or even question why they were arresting her mom leads me to believe that she knew what happened

    • @kali4good
      @kali4good Год назад +69

      The daughter was literally crying and shocked. What are you talking about ??

    • @rebelwithacause2229
      @rebelwithacause2229 Год назад +75

      Yep. Her daughter immediately asks, “Is she in trouble?” @twizz420

    • @Starkiller_1911
      @Starkiller_1911 Год назад +61

      Yeah first words were is she in trouble? Yeah they should have asked her why would she say that

    • @terpenstine
      @terpenstine Год назад +19

      @@kali4goodshe was shocked but didn’t cry at first, instead asked if her mom is in trouble

    • @michelelavishfoster2888
      @michelelavishfoster2888 Год назад +24

      The mom nor daughter were surprised when she got arrested

  • @heathert.4637
    @heathert.4637 10 месяцев назад +22

    I own my own home daycare…. her level of calm is absolute insanity. But, I truly believe that infants belong with their parents. My daycare kids are MY kids.😭😭😭😭

  • @jadelyth7397
    @jadelyth7397 Год назад +411

    This is one of the reasons I’d never leave an infant in a daycare, this happens too often. It’s sad that in this day and age we can’t trust anyone with our children. The footage of the mum is heartbreaking, I can’t imagine what she is still living through.

    • @raizinboyz
      @raizinboyz Год назад +23

      I am 58 and I remember when day care was literally a last resort for parents. Now it has become the "norm" I feel. My oldest was born in 93 and I had every intention of going back to work full time. That sure changed after he was born! Luckily, we were able to swing it with me working nights and with help from family. I was able to stay home with all 3 of my kids, sometimes working part-time. You DO save money by not working and with some sacrifices and adjustments, I think more people could stay home with their babies. It's sad, really.

    • @jadelyth7397
      @jadelyth7397 Год назад +13

      @@raizinboyz I worked full time with my first child and my mum looked after her, but with my second and third I gave up working to raise them, I’ve always been against putting babies in daycare because I just don’t trust people sadly, plus I’ve seen kids be practically raised by daycare and after school clubs and these kids generally aren’t happy and want their parents or are very distant with their parents. It’s sad so many people need to resort to it.

    • @dntwachmewachtv
      @dntwachmewachtv Год назад +19

      Well lucky you! Everyone doesn’t have that luxury

    • @smittysmeee
      @smittysmeee Год назад +38

      @@dntwachmewachtv Luck has nothing to do with it, and neither does luxury. It's called planning. We all know where babies come from. Don't have children if you don't have the means to either raise them yourself or pay for decent daycare.

    • @raizinboyz
      @raizinboyz Год назад

      @@dntwachmewachtv obviously, but I think a lot more people could survive without daycare.

  • @Scottiejae
    @Scottiejae Год назад +242

    Those poor babies. As a mom I'm devastated by these stories. It's already so hard to leave your kids in someone else's care

  • @mandad1015
    @mandad1015 Год назад +78

    When it said "no shock advised." Every first responder's heart just sank...

    • @warhammerfaction
      @warhammerfaction Год назад +2

      Why

    • @heiroot
      @heiroot Год назад +8

      ​@@warhammerfactionmeans the kid is gone

    • @justaperson4475
      @justaperson4475 6 месяцев назад

      @@warhammerfaction hey can’t jump his heart I assume, he already gone

  • @KTown-i2h
    @KTown-i2h 10 месяцев назад +12

    Seeing the mom run just broke my heart oh baby, Charlie what an adorable, sweet baby face. I am so sorry you were hurt and taken from your family. What a beautiful, baby boy I cannot even imagine. So many prayers are with the mother.

  • @honeybee1852
    @honeybee1852 Год назад +243

    Her personality shines through when they tell her she has to inform the parents, what a selfish response making it about her & how hard it’s going to be for her having to tell them, nothing. Unbelievable. What a devastating, horrific case & waist of such a young life

    • @THRASHMETALFUNRIFFS
      @THRASHMETALFUNRIFFS Год назад +12

      And that was only to go tell the parents of the other clients that she would be closed for awhile and they need to make other arrangements

    • @scottdrew6403
      @scottdrew6403 Год назад

      She seems pilled out or just emotionally flat. I would never leave my kid with that space cadet. Just look at the way she appears and dresses. She screams mental health issues.

    • @ydoicare2000
      @ydoicare2000 Год назад

      Well good lord. Even if she wasn’t at fault of course it would be hard to tell parents.

  • @dwe4507
    @dwe4507 Год назад +138

    One person watching ALL those infants at one time? The stress for mother's to have to work is making us do things that make no sense

    • @clarezajac3276
      @clarezajac3276 Год назад +15

      Yes!! I couldn't imagine putting a three or four month old baby in daycare

    • @danan9061
      @danan9061 Год назад

      ​@@clarezajac3276my first was in daycare at 10 weeks. Maternity leave in US military is 6weeks. You work until the babe comes out then you get 6 weeks regardless of vaginal or c-section surgery. Then you have to use your vacation leave and I had 1 month saved. The military daycares are safe though. Lots of oversight. I wouldnt do daycare with some random woman from online

    • @mikeymike443
      @mikeymike443 Год назад +11

      @@clarezajac3276thank liberals and feminists

    • @clarezajac3276
      @clarezajac3276 Год назад +5

      @@mikeymike443 Right. What a nightmare

    • @SoulforSale
      @SoulforSale Год назад +3

      Yay! Feminism.

  • @TheOldSchoolExpert
    @TheOldSchoolExpert Год назад +266

    My heart breaks for the mother. As a father of a 2 year old, I can't imagine the pain and grief she felt and likely still feels. My son is my world and I just can't fathom life going on without him. That poor woman.

    • @Cons2911
      @Cons2911 Год назад +4

      Same here.. it’s hard to think of anything more scary than somethibad happening to my little one

    • @JAPARICAN50-50
      @JAPARICAN50-50 Год назад

      Yugiohhhh

    • @FUNNYMANERICWHITE
      @FUNNYMANERICWHITE Год назад +2

      And the father

    • @jennifergrow6474
      @jennifergrow6474 Год назад +2

      The mother and father will feel the pain, grief, loss, anger, sadness and heartache for the rest of their lives. It literally feels like a piece of you is missing, forever. It is the worst emotional pain imaginable, but it also feels like a physical pain.

    • @auspiciousexhibionist
      @auspiciousexhibionist 11 месяцев назад

      Same here! My daughter is still inside of me and I absolutely would be heartbroken if anything happened to her! I love my daughter to death!

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell2837 Месяц назад +2

    Her being so calm has got me screaming😢😢 RIP Charlie💜🕊 And that mom running to her baby broke me.

  • @QuartzieK
    @QuartzieK Год назад +249

    This is every parents worst nightmare when it comes to leaving their children at day care 🥺 I’m so gutted for those parents

    • @ryanw2553
      @ryanw2553 10 месяцев назад +3

      I used pack and play cribs for all three of my children and I was paranoid of leaving them to sleep in there. I would get up and check on them every 5 minutes or so. This is exactly the reason my wife and I refuse daycare for our children. Heartbreaking. I am so sorry for the parents of that little angel. May the Lord comfort them and keep Charlie safe and happy till they see him again.

  • @amym3279
    @amym3279 Год назад +398

    I send my condolences to the mother. The extreme terror seen on her face when she was running to the ambulance was heart wrenching. Prayers and justice for the family. 🙏 ❤

    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 Год назад +1

      15:46 She seemed calm and ready when being placed under arrest.
      16:36 Why is the daughter so calm seeing her mother arrested?! Was this some satantic ritual!?

  • @cindyballard7585
    @cindyballard7585 Год назад +346

    I'm so blessed to be able to watch my little grandbabies while their mom and dad are working. This is absolutely heart wrenching and my deepest condolences to the family of the sweet baby who died at this monsters hands.

    • @JRTHESINGER
      @JRTHESINGER Год назад +10

      My mother is the same with me and my sister and our daughters . You are truly a saint and trust me your kids appreciate it so so much ❤️

    • @genevabullard7500
      @genevabullard7500 Год назад +5

      So am i,I have 3 granddaughters 4 ,2,and 10 mos they're always safe with me no daycare period

    • @kathy8018
      @kathy8018 11 месяцев назад +3

      I was also lucky enough to have my mother in law keep my son while I worked. My only worry was that she would spoil him too much. 🙃 Obviously, I had no worries, just as your children don't. You are doing such a wonderful thing and I just know they appreciate it immensely ❤️

    • @LG-tx7pk
      @LG-tx7pk 11 месяцев назад +3

      Currently watching my 4 month old grandson. Me and my husband are the only ones to have babysat. I keep him everyday and drop him off to my husband at work when I have appointments and can't bring the baby. We're lucky he's able to do this with his job.

    • @MeaghanTamara
      @MeaghanTamara 11 месяцев назад +1

      They are blessed to have you.

  • @kendalynnn
    @kendalynnn 8 месяцев назад +7

    I was a daycare teacher, i used to cry in my car daily as I had a child who would bite his hands until he drew blood... if i had a child who was unresponsive id be completely devastated

  • @FattLlamaTTV
    @FattLlamaTTV Год назад +235

    my heart breaks for the mother of the child that passed away. no one should ever have to live through something like this.

    • @longlivesnupe1635
      @longlivesnupe1635 Год назад +15

      Not just the mother , the father also both of them endured pain 😭🙏🏽

    • @_Hanus_
      @_Hanus_ 10 месяцев назад +2

      Father also

    • @_Hanus_
      @_Hanus_ 8 месяцев назад

      @@lou1salane ok?

  • @lightninggirl33
    @lightninggirl33 Год назад +193

    I’m terrified to put my kid back in daycare, she was in for a short while and it wasn’t a good period in our lives. It’s really scary to put your child in other peoples care!

    • @kimsland999
      @kimsland999 Год назад +7

      Lets be very clear here: Daycare houses! Probably not a good idea.
      Daycare centers designed from ground up to be a daycare business (not home) would be ok.

    • @jaxxiet5851
      @jaxxiet5851 Год назад +2

      I agree. I don’t have children but have many kids in my family and cannot imagine putting one of them in a strangers care for the day. Absolutely not.

  • @rheannonphelps2685
    @rheannonphelps2685 Год назад +175

    I run an in home daycare currently and this is so devastating. I’m so sorry that people like this make the entire world of childcare look bad. I would like to say not all are abusive and neglectful. So sad. I love all the babies like my own because I know how hard it is to leave them with someone else

  • @BKM-333
    @BKM-333 10 месяцев назад +13

    Need mandatory licensing for all childcare workers!! Not 10 min online, but actual 1-2 year certified program, required to pass & take licensing exams.
    If teachers have to have 4 years college, then this is least we should require for childcare workers responsible for infants.

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 10 месяцев назад

      The place has to be licensed and they are strenuous rules & requirements to be the owner of a daycare. Unfortunately though there are bad people in every profession.

  • @lexismom9341
    @lexismom9341 Год назад +187

    My niece's daughter (my great niece) died at her daycare at 7 months old, 5 days before Christmas last year. Unsafe sleep related. No charges were brought against the daycare owner. It's absolutely heartbreaking. My thoughts and my prayers go out to the family of this baby boy. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    • @chiccacherrycolalime
      @chiccacherrycolalime Год назад +16

      I'm so so sorry.... shame on those workers. Prayers to your family as well.

    • @seangildersleeve1270
      @seangildersleeve1270 11 месяцев назад +8

      OMG. That is horrific.

    • @ashliej6557
      @ashliej6557 10 месяцев назад +7

      My prayers go out to this family and your family also. All death is hard, but that of infants and children is an unbearable feeling. 😢

    • @Zeng-rv9mv
      @Zeng-rv9mv 9 месяцев назад +4

      Bring your own justice. Get the responsible person and.... y t won't let me say this.

    • @denisehagwood4542
      @denisehagwood4542 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Zeng-rv9mv they let you say it lol

  • @anitaaugustin9511
    @anitaaugustin9511 Год назад +459

    The fact that the first question from the daughter after hearing “Medical Emergency” was “is she in trouble” rather than “is she hurt” spoke volumes.

  • @Beetlebug781
    @Beetlebug781 Год назад +64

    My six month old son died at the babysitter’s home. She had him on the floor napping. I thought he was in a playpen. When she checked on him he was sleeping. When she closed the door. The air caused a plastic bag to fall on him. He died December 16, 1994. Sending my sincere condolences to the family.

  • @lynetteroberts6556
    @lynetteroberts6556 10 месяцев назад +12

    The fact that she came out the house and put her hands in cuff position. She was so calm. She knew what it was. And her kids and husband knew too. Her daughter was almost awkward about the fact that they told her

    • @pamelaliegh
      @pamelaliegh 5 месяцев назад +1

      It’s as though the Husband knew his wife had been corrected about this , many times. How the daughter looked at her Mom, this was a point of contention…. Now look what happened.

  • @ccmcgee9062
    @ccmcgee9062 11 месяцев назад +62

    This is an at home daycare? I would NEVER feel safe leaving my child there!! My heart is broken for this mother. Im in tears.

  • @grumby111
    @grumby111 Год назад +149

    Poor mother! It was heart-wrenching to hear her pain and running towards the ambulance. She gave birth to him and thought of all the wonderful things in store for his life. Hugs to mother.
    RIP Angel

    • @taramay8174
      @taramay8174 Год назад

      The fact she left this baby for two hours and didn't do proper routine cot checks is disgusting. By law in Australia it's ten minute checks

  • @TJ-bn2cn
    @TJ-bn2cn Год назад +119

    I don’t even want to comprehend what this baby boys parents are going through. Many thoughts, prayers and love to them ❤

  • @jnieswartz4878
    @jnieswartz4878 10 месяцев назад +9

    As a parent this is heartbreaking! The pain that mother was going through is unimaginable

  • @Tara_Lee_80
    @Tara_Lee_80 Год назад +231

    Ive worked in several daycares. Its incredibly rewarding. The longest Ive spent at one is 7yrs. Hardest job ive ever had to leave. I watched infants grow and start school. Witnessed a lot of firsts. Crawl, steps, words, clap, etc.
    I SOBBED like a baby the last week I was there. I was a nervous wreck bc I knew someone was taking my place and it was terrifying bc theres people like this lady out there. This was almost 20 years ago and I still thinking about those kids.😢

    • @chiobabe2180
      @chiobabe2180 Год назад +15

      God bless ppl like you . I have a 5yr old who loved his daycare teachers! As a mom & nurse I appreciate you! ❤

    • @awkwardautistic
      @awkwardautistic Год назад +6

      I feel so bad for babies and children who have to go to daycare.

    • @realtalkchannel1275
      @realtalkchannel1275 Год назад

      No one asked for your long story

    • @pokerqAK47
      @pokerqAK47 Год назад +2

      @@awkwardautisticI loved my daycare. Although I was like 5 when I went there. I think. 4 months is too young

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Год назад +3

      I wish child care was full of people like you,, but unfortunately, just like elderly care, that is not the case.

  • @yellowdayz1800
    @yellowdayz1800 Год назад +307

    I was a TRUSTED day care provider, I will always be proud of that. I quit working a few years back to retire early. And little did I know that one day I would miss those children and cried over missing them. 💛 Yes, they were a lot of work and very annoying at times. But that is what working with children is all about. Don't do it if you don't have proper patience for children! I will always miss and love the children.

    • @trippyhippy777
      @trippyhippy777 Год назад +16

      It’s about to be 2 years for me since I stopped working at a daycare. I was the head infant teacher and I still think of all the babies I took care of ( I worked there for 6 years). I treated them all like my own ❤

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Год назад +11

      @@trippyhippy777 hugs and much love to you. 💛 Children are very special. If one is ready to work.. They are not so annoying. But if one is trying to get by without a lot of work with them.. Then the annoyance is likely to be maybe unbearable.. I think this is where many err. Working with children is going to keep you on your toes etc I enjoyed the work for the most part. There was times it was hard... Especially the longer you work with them. I would do day care again. If I had to do it all over again. 🌿🌿

    • @NeVerKnowFFS
      @NeVerKnowFFS Год назад +7

      Well I'm glad that they had someone like you to care and watch over them, thank you for your duties as a day care provider.

    • @carolsanders3979
      @carolsanders3979 Год назад +7

      Exactly true don’t do something like this if you can’t if you know that you don’t have the patience for it and you are emotionally drained or whatever is going on. Just don’t do something like this because those little babies are precious and they don’t ask to be treated. That way they were babies they need attention he can’t give it to them and don’t run a daycares.

    • @chevy050
      @chevy050 Год назад +2

      Well said

  • @Matisse_Famke
    @Matisse_Famke Год назад +81

    The mother's reaction hit me so hard, devastating. You truly cannot leave your child in the care of anyone, this woman makes me sick.

    • @LickyTee
      @LickyTee Год назад

      What did she do?

    • @Matisse_Famke
      @Matisse_Famke Год назад +1

      @@LickyTee Her heart dropped frantically as she rushed toward her baby in the ambulance 😢

    • @LickyTee
      @LickyTee Год назад

      @@Matisse_Famke i mean the woman that runs the daycare

    • @hethen5846
      @hethen5846 Год назад +1

      ​@@Matisse_FamkeI know everyone reacts differently but she was way too calmed when they describe how her child was killed.

    • @shahwilloughby4603
      @shahwilloughby4603 Год назад +6

      ​@@hethen5846do you think just maybe .. she was in shock?!!! 🤷