Like yeah, she broke the rules, but a consequence should be connected to the action, maybe instead, she isn’t allowed to buy clothes for a while, not ruining something she’s worked hard for and enjoying it, then all your left with is a kid that’s never coming back once they leave
I hate how we're seeing her slowly become numb and emotional, u can tell how she's shutting down in response to her mom. It's so upsetting, it's a trauma response
Ik that not every parent deserve a child but not all kids deserve their parents either some kids out there have good parents and some parents out there have kids who treat them like trash
@@AnastasiaLytvynyuk Well maybe but you have to remember that kids aren't just born with that behaviour, they're like sponges and take in and learn that behaviour from people such as their parents or other family members. Also, even if they do learn that behaviour and use it, they still deserve a family either way.
My mom actually said to one of my siblings during a normal conversation the other day, “I could take everything from you with a smile on my face” with a smile on her face. She’s done it to me before, not even talking strictly belongings, I had no communication with friends other then school, no hanging out with anyone or going anywhere, no internet and regular lectures about the Bible and why I was a horrible person. Genuinely broke me and years later I’m still rebounding from that but I still and stuck there.
@@Isyneemeyer please hang on, not everyone is like that. I hope someday soon you will be able to walk away from that toxic, abusive, relationship. I’m just a stranger but I’m a mom and a grandma and I’m telling you, I love you. ❤️🩹
IF THAT. I hope their kids just ghost them and leave them to fend for themselves in their old age. Or get sent to a Medicaid funded senior living facility. Because a retirement home is too nice for such people.
not even an elderly home. my generation (gen z & younger millennials) are more likely to just say f that and let the parents figure it out on their own once the parents are old and need help. we aren't spending our money on people who did the bare minimum or less 😂
@@chinesefood2222 depends on the state. Some states have filial responsibility laws requiring children to take care of their parents. Good in many cases to avoid more homeless elderly. But bad in situations where these same parents were abusers.
I'd be looking up bad reviews, and asking for a room with no window right next to the nurses station for this bitch. (Nurses station lights never are off, and they're busy alllllll night making noise.)
PSA: KNOW YOUR ABUSE. Cutting someones hair against their consent is legally treated as physical assault. This is emotional and physical abuse. Know that for many people, a persons hair holds extreme sentimental value and can be their outlet for expressing themselves especially culturally. Unlike taking away a gadget or privileges, cutting hair as punishment affects a child's autonomy over his or her physical body, potentially damaging a crucial developmental stage, and it could also blur the concept of consent.
Yep. It's fucked up. And to anyone saying they did it for lice, I was a live magnet as a child and my mom simply dyed my hair the same color as my natural hair and it killed the bugs and eggs and nits and you don't even have to keep it in for the full amount of time required to actually dye the hair. There's always another way. And if you just like to hurt your kids you shouldn't fcking have them. The fact that so many ppl can literally make their own punching bag by having kids is just disgusting.
My mom dosent let me grow out my hair and its been short my entire life and im 12 I think I'm hold enough. She says she wants it to look "neat" and "put together"
You know, it’s the worst feeling when you’re trying to be calm through an argument, and a parent uses your own vulnerabilities against you. And when you finally lose your cool, they smile. That type of behavior is exactly the reason why so many kids just drop their parents when they turn 18 and never come back.
when the kid is always the mature one and the adult keeps pushing them until they snap, and then get angry with the kid for falling into their traps but they’d also be angry if they were called out on their mind games. and no matter what the adult is right because they know better.
Because, with parents like this, that’s EXACTLY what the mom wanted. She wanted her daughter to beg and plead because mom’s goal is to exercise control over her child in any way possible.
When I was sixteen my father did this to me and I had a very similar reaction of no caring and “let’s get this over with “ bc he was abus!ng me and I knew if i fought back it could be so much worse
My dad just always threatened to punch me in the mouth every time I spoke up and made it clear to everyone his parenting style was based on fear. One of the best days of my life was just a short while ago, when he threatened me again and I told him to go right the fuck ahead. He swung and I put my hands around his neck. Good day.
reminds me of the time my grandma shaved my mom’s entire hair because she was “attracting” boys (which was her singing in the balcony which some boys caught onto and stopped to listen). Really sucks that some people are like that, I am so so glad my mom broke the cycle
This is actually a tactic that I used to get back at my narcissistic uncle because he would try to punish me, and then I would just act like I didn’t care of the entire time. A lot of toxic parents when they realize you don’t care realize they don’t want to do the punishment anymore because they don’t actually want to punish you they just want to get back at you in someway to try and teach you a lesson but they don’t know how to teach them.
I used to cry when I got my hair done cause in tender headed and one day when I was proably in 3rd grade, my mom combed my hair really hard and everytime I swarmed from the pain, she cut it off. It was really long and wavey and beautiful. My hair hasn't grown back the same and I'm almost out of high school now. And she is always like "your hair used to be so pretty, what happened ?" Like she wasn't the one who cut it all off....this video just brought that memory back
My 11 yr old sister came to me after our mother did this to her. Half her hair was to her shoulders and the other half was short, and she just walls up to and hands me the same scissors mother used and gave this look of can-you-fix-this-absolute-monstrosity. So naturally, as the one who's been cutting all three of my sisters hair for the past 8 years so we weren't spending 80 bucks per haircut, I threw the scissors in the bin and pull out my kit. Locked the bathroom door, texted my twin sister to be bodyguard and distract mother if she came close to the main bathroom, wrapped my little sister in a salon poncho, pulled out my clippers, combs, clips, and hair scissors and went to work. I asked her if I could do a split look and work with the different lengths. She said yes but then asked for a shorter Venus McFlytap hairstyle. I was so excited to do a side shave buzzcut, unlike the full buzz cut I did to my twin sister a few months prior to this. Little sister had platinum blonde hair, I had a secret stash of A LOT of hair dyes, we could actually do the full look. Hot pink and joker green streaks in the bob side and the buzz cut was dyed hot pink. First time having colour in hair and she was obsessed. Then when mother left for work we finished up and left the bathroom to show the other too sisters. My twins hair is a curly short boy cut that is *still* silver and has little hot pink it's from the leopard print dye I did on the buzzcut, I still had my neon orange and red ombre hair, and my 7 year old sister want to join in on the fun too. So I go back into the bathroom to dye my baby sisters hair, she also had platinum blonde hair so no bleach was needed, and she wanted the underlayers two different colors, green and red for Christmas last year, so I did two layers, bottom most layer was bright red. And a thin layer just above it, neon green. Mother worked the last shift that night so everything was packed up and hidden in a little secret safe in our bedroom ceiling mother doesn't know about, she gets home and sees that now her two youngest have as crazy hair as her two "disrespectful and hateful" older twin kids. It's so funny seeing her tune the house upside down trying to find the stuff we used and any rubbish remains in the bins. There's literally no evidence we even got it done in the house so there a chance she might think we go to a friend's place to get it done, but she doesn't know any of our friends because we hang out with eachother at school and keep all interactions with our her kids secret from her. Even our friends parents and our teachers are in on it. She gets so mad it's honestly funny to think she's so pressed about these trivial matters. I don't even know why she cut my sisters hair in the first place, but t doesn't matter because now she looks badass. F you mother, you can't bring a single one of us down, not while I'm around
My mom chased me with scissors, sat on me to hold me down, and cut all my hair off when I was 8 because I didn't brush my hair before coming downstairs. Ahh memories. And she wonders why I'm a ball of anxiety and blames it on bullying that happened once when I was 11.
@@the_thing_inside_your_walls that’s abuse it’s ok if parents like hit their kids with like a belt, or give them a spanking for not behaving properly or for disobeying them but if ur parents hit you just bc they felt like it or were angry then that’s not ok there’s different ways to express anger I’m sorry you and ur sister had to go through that
@@AnastasiaLytvynyukI am sorry you think that way but no it's not okay to hit a child with a belt, maybe spanking is fine i don't know but belt no way tbh hitting the child should be the last resort, grounding them or something like that should do it. i think you should never hit a child unless it's something really bad like if they stole or something. I remember my parents hitting me but only until like i was 8, 10 and that too slaps on my back nothing too much and it never did really hurt cuz the other parent would always protect us. If you hit your child for disobedience they are just going to disobey you more. I love my parents but as a child I was scared to anger them not cuz they would hit me, they never really did but cuz they would scold me, i didn't want them to get angry so i would try to not do anything bad and even if i did i would apologise and now as a teen I love my parents the most and they are me best friends , I still get scolding for what is not right and instead of arguing i listen to them and i understand them and that is how you maintain good relationship with your children. I really think my parents are really good parents, I am not saying they didn't make mistakes they might have but still my brother and I are really close to them and we love them. So yeah try not to hit the child as much as you can.
You know there was this news story about a father cutting his daughters hair off even shaving it cause the mum (seperated) got her highlighters in her hair for her birthday. They took him to court for emotional damage as the girl was 14 I think and devastated as you can imagine and they won. I can’t remember if the father isn’t allowed see her anymore or if he’s only allowed supervised visits but yer. My heart goes out to that lil girl
God, I remember that. It really broke my heart and I remember some people saying it wasn’t that big a deal but to most people, hair is a big way of expressing their identity. I felt so awful for that poor girl and hope she’s surrounded by love now.
When I was 9 I had beautiful hair all the way down my back but because no one ever showed me how to take care of it, when my mother brushed it it felt like she was going to detach my head from my body and no one ever thought to use detangling spray or literally anything other than cheap shampoo and conditioner on my hair, it constantly was tangled so my mother took me to the hairdresser and had her put into a ponytail and hacked off to donate it to kids with cancer because they would 'appreciate it more'. It was a bowl cut level with the tops of my ears. My hair is now over 60cm long and I haven't had a hair cut in almost 7 years, I also have a son of my own now and if anyone touches a hair on his little head without his express permission I'm going to rip out each hair individually until they're completely bald including eyebrows and lashes.
My mom did that to my sister for the same exact reason when she was anywhere from 4-7 and she had really long hair except it was a cute bob cut She cried so much but I don’t think it’s too bad doing that to a child who’s 0-6 because my mom always had my hair in this curly bowl cut until I was like 6 but when I started caring about my appearance I cried every time I got it cut
Sorry 😔, for the pain, and wishing you well, only happiness and health for you and your child, it's so hard to find a way of dealing with the Trauma. I'm sorry 😔 you are so young and have a baby already, wishing you strength.
I have very similar trauma, my mom would never brush my hair except 2 times a year and give up on brushing it and cut bald spots into my hair. She was jealous of my red hair which is why she never took care of my hair. I always had sores on my head. She would take me to the salon and they would brush my hair out gently and I’d beg to keep it long and my mom would say no and they’d cut it into a pixie cut. My hair is now extremely long it goes down my back and I feel like a Disney princess
@@heartacheanon3275 I never knew that other people were actually kind to their respective children, the first time I saw it.... That was more than 30 years ago and I still remember the feeling of finding out what could of have been but never was... My stepmother always cut my hair to inflict pain on me....and did other terrible stuff, nothing I want to be thinking about... Pain is still deep inside me, thought it was gone after therapy but it seems to never really go away for ever.
That actually happened to me a couple of months ago 😢 Because my mom said I don't style my hair other than a ponytail and she still gets mad that I only have it in a ponytail but I can't style it because it's short enough to be a ponytail and not anything else 😢
I've known my husband since middle school and his mom shaved his head as a form of punishment in Middle School. It really upset him. But the good thing is, when you're older you can kick people out of your life and that's what he did! they haven't spoke in 3 years. She's very abusive mentally and emotionally.
I love how my mom gets mad at me for not saying anything during arguments anymore. I used to, i used to voice my troubles and give my input but she either used my struggles to hurt me or just ended up monologuing. She has told and called me pretty horrible things so I just shut down now. I cant handle it anymore and i know anything i say wont make it better, only worse.
You probably already know this, but this is textbook emotional abuse. It took me awhile to recognize it in my relationship with my parents because they weren't bad all of the time
Ive learned to just say "ok mom" in a plain tone while keeping up whatever im doing to any bullshit she says and shell leave because shes so angry im not upset.
My mom would always tell me “if you don’t take care of your hair ill chop it all off like your brother” then when i wanted to cut it she said “absolutely not” 💀💀
Same the only people allowed to ever cut my hair were my grandma and a stylist I had seen for years but my grandma died 3 years ago and I live in a different state now so once a year when I go back to visit family I get a haircut at the same time not even willing to try a stylist out here
The thing is, parents can scoot their way out of it and then the punishments get worse and worse. Cps does nothing to help the poor kids who go through it and the parents are great at giving an in dept description on how these kids are lying. Kids are to scared to say something because they don’t want to get in trouble, and in most cases, these parents don’t get caught.
Thats not going to help lol. The parents will be told abt it then that kid is going to be abused (physically/mentally) till they cover it up. Also my friend went to school councilors and the principal many times and they did nothing. School really doesnt care abt you.
My mom would get pissed whenever I don’t argue back with her. Literally I’m trying to keep the fire out, but you’re giving me gasoline and a match 😂🤦🏻♀️
I'm the most respectful, kind and obedient daughter but if my mom tried coming anywhere near me with scissors like that our relationship is over and I'm out.Nope.
@@jellyfreeedits7664 even if it was extensions, she cut it really short…. Like, at that point it would’ve been her real hair unless she’s got a pixie cut and has been wearing extensions this whole time like-
Between me and my siblings we have some horrible stories; being verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally, and even spiritually abused (growing up in a Hispanic religious household). After everything we went through and finally reaching a point in our young adult life we all just kinda woke up and left the church. We stopped giving our parents the satisfaction of hurting us. Now we're healing from everything, some of us in relationships seeing the trama we've been through and reacting horribly to love and kindness. We would bring things up to our parents for them to understand why we react or have changed because what they out us through, only to be met with gaslighting and manipulation. Growing up with a narcissist mother and father who couldn't control his anger was wild. I'm glad to say that it's been a process, but healing is possible 💕 You choose your family!
reminds me of the time i emotionally shut down so hard that it didn't matter that my mother had broken a metal hanger and cut my leg from how hard she hit me. all she saw was her youngest just staring her dead in the eyes while her hand was trembling from the force of the hit. she left me alone for a good amount of time. i wish i remembered what lead up to it, but i'll never forget the shock and terror in her eyes.
My mother hated how emotionally dead I became from her abuse. She wouldn't stop until I cried, she wasn't satisfied until I broke. So I never broke. I became an emotionless husk that only expressed its anger. And when my eyes glossed over even when she no longer beat me she finally realized what she'd done. Now she "doesn't remember doing that". Edit cause this sounds really bad: I'm much mentally healthier now, took three years of no contact and the right people to help me get to where I am. I have a loving husband, 5 ferrets, and a pretty good life. I still have trauma and issues but I'm no longer angry or stuck on the abuse as I was. It really does get better folks
@@mikachan1444 thank you for sharing your story. im in the same situation right now and im struggling with my mental health because of it. I don’t have any friends who i trust enough to talk about my problems, i only have my therapist. i don’t trust my therapist ether because she always defends my parents for their acts and it gives me the feeling i cant do anything right. I hope i can move out as soon as possible (im 16) but that would be hard because i dont have much money saved up and in my country (The Netherlands) moving out is really expensive.
My mom did this to me. She knows my hair is the only thing about me that I’m confident about and then she posted it on the Internet and then showed all her friends and family.
One time I dyed a friend's hair at my house and my mom was upset that it stained the tub so she woke me up in the middle of the night and screamed at me. I was like like "yeah, okay, I'll clean it *right now*" and just got to scrubbing. All the while she's still screaming at me, and I'm just not saying anything- cleaning. Eventually she got bored and stopped. It was the weirdest moments of my life. I could tell she wasn't getting what she wanted out of the altercation, which apparently wasn't a clean tub, so she just stopped. Don't do this to your kids. Don't yell and scream at them just to try and embarrass them and make them upset if what you're freaking out about isn't even fucking important to you.
This hurts me so much. I could never do this to my daughter. We’ve gone round and round about her tangles but it’s HER body and HER hair. She’s a child. It’s my job to help her.
I wish I could tell my mom and dad that I want to cut my hair to my shoulders but my dad said no cuz my hair is almost at my knees it took almost 10 years to grow and I'm 16 and can't make my own decision
"Can we talk?" "No." "Can I meet the man you're seeing?" "No." "Can I walk you down the aisle?" "No!" "Can I meet my grandchildren?" "No!!" "Can I come to your funeral as a ghost?" "Hell No!!!"
I got lice when I was younger, and my aunt made me cut all of my hair off. I did my best to embrace it, but over time I would try to grow it out and she refused to let me grow it. One time I came home from a salon with my hair to my shoulders and she sent me back to get it cut shorter because it was “too long.” Even after years of this, she would never let me grow my hair, she said it was because I was dirty, but I would still shower every day. All of my cousins were allowed to grow their hair, and she had long hair, but I wasn’t allowed to have that hair. I realize now that it was a way of keeping me separate from my cousins, but at the time it was traumatizing
i’m sorry you went through that. my mum made me have shorter than shoulder length hair too… her excuse was “you get head lice with long hair” she always had long hair… she knew i wanted long hair… she cut it without my consent until i was old enough to move out… im an adult now, and haven’t cut it in 6 years…
That's the comment that gets me.....I recently got back in contact with my mother because I spent 9 years in therapy and I decided to maybe give her a chance, only this is the answer I get for all the terrible shit I was put through, chopping my hair off starving me so I'm skinny, smacking me and having me miss school because eshe didn't want people to know, oh it was just a joke I'm too sensitive, she'll never met my children I can promise you that.
"Oh yeah... Well I have a joke for you too" *Put them in a rat infested nursing home* "See so funny, why are you crying? laugh it's a joke... Well see you on your death bed lol"
@@bulmauchiha3973 if I had a mother like that I would never let her even know I had kids and just run away with my bf/ or gf Sry u had to go through that!
@@bloodinsnowx. ooh I did, she had no idea I am a mother,i was smart about meeting her without my children or girlfriend, and my ex husband was smart enough to never let my family know we were married then divorced let alone that we had children together.
I knew a girl in middle school who's dad this to her. She had the longest, most luscious, thick and shiny hair. One day she came into chorus class and all of it was chopped up into a short, uneven bob. She told everyone her dad did it as a "joke", but im sure everyone knew. She was always the type of person to be loud and funny, but after that, she changed. As an adult I'm not sure if she talks to her dad or not, but I wouldn't blame her if she didn't.
I can’t imagine what justification this Mom felt gave her the right to cut her daughter’s hair that way. She definitely sounded like she enjoyed hurting her daughter and planned to keep doing it.
My mom would do this to me when I was little. Anytime she thought I was lying, this was one of my punishments, even if I was telling the truth, it didn’t matter 😔
Omg ....I can't even imagine how parents can be like this. I feel so sorry for you, hope you are OK now in your life 🙏 ❤️ stay strong 💪 lost of love ❤️
This reminded me of a time where my father wanted to cancel my 10th birthday party. I just shrugged my shoulders and said fine. Later he came to me and asked me why I didn’t react. Five years forward, my parents are divorced, and he gets a new girlfriend and he is scared to talk to me about because he fears a reaction. Parents are unbelievable sometimes.
There comes a point when you just stop crying in front of them. They will ridiculou you even more for it. You can see the glee in their eyes when a punishment like this makes you sad
@@xquizzeat8348 exactly. You just get so used to it too that you don’t even care anymore. It’s like I don’t care what you do. There’s nothing that you can do to me that could possibly hurt me even more than what you’ve been doing to me, just quit wasting my time with your childish behavior.
I had a friend who had long hair like me when we were in elementary/ middle school. We loved having long hair and were very proud of it. Her mom on the other side for some reason had an obsession with wanting to cut her hair short. My friend of course refused to cut it, she took good care of it so there was really no reason for her mom’s obsession besides being weird and controlling. So, one night, she chopped her hair while she was sleeping. It was all messy so she had to go to a hairdresser to make it all even. It was horrifying and she was devastated for a really long time. I still don’t know why she did it, my friend was an overall respectful and nice kid, she never got in any trouble, it was very bizarre
What you just described and stuff like the "punishment" in this video are forms of abuse. It's terrible that there are parents out here who think it's ok.
This is actually a way my dad used to punish me- Everytime I did literally anything it would be snip snip of an inch, now my hair is pretty short but I love it and I moved out lol
I remember when my mom chopped my long curly hair off in 7th grade because I wouldn’t stop crying. Due to my curl and brutal straight chop of my hair I had severe “pyramid head” and was called Hey Arnold at school the rest of the year. I was crying because I took public transportation to and from school and while walking a big gust of wind blew a project I worked hours on out of my hands into the street.
Not only she cut your hair off but she also had you bullied in school and get called horrible nicknames just for simply showing emotion, crying is a normal thing for all human beings especially at the age you were when you were in 7th grade that was so stupid of your mom to do that she was basically teaching you that you can’t show emotion
and shit like this coming from my stepdad has now blessed me with the skill to completely turn off my own wants and needs and only focusing on placating the other person so i don’t have a panic attack
Then the parents end up like “why am I all alone and my kids hate me and haven’t spoken a peep to me for 20 years? I treated them so well and loved them with my whole heart! ❤️” parents like this shouldn’t exist no child should ever have to suffer just because their parent is a horrible piece of human trash.
Very off topic but I just wanted to say your pfp is absolutely adorable (Also I may be a lil biased cause I thought I was omni for a hot second ((turns out I'm aroace)) but the flag is one of my absolute favorites, it's just so aesthetically pleasing)
My mom did this to me once, she made me hair short but still nice, not ugly, she is a hair dresser so she made it nice even and to my shoulders but i got picked on and hated it short
My dad said I sucked after I wanted to say goodbye to my mom, and he knows im overly emotional and sensitive, so I cried for a really long while. It hurt. I had to go home with my mom. It was on my birthday too
my hair used to be really long and when id get in trouble my dad would threaten to chop off all my hair if i continued misbehaving and he'd even talk to other people about it and theyd be like "yea if she continues you should, thatll teach her to listen" and then id go to my room and sob for hours. so last year a gave myself a wolfcut
This is why parents end up getting blocked by their kids and never talk to them for like years and years and years and the parents wonder why they don't have their children talking them
My mom used to say "keep crying and ill give you a reason to cry" when I was little so growing up I don't cry anymore I just kind of stare off or eye contact the entire time She's talking, but she gets mad at me for "not showing enough emotion" and not "caring" 😭 she told me if I leave my hairbrush out all my hair will be shaved off and if I leave my makeup out ill lose that until I graduate. 😭 I have to keep As and Bs or she'll tell her friends how I'm not trying in school and get so distracted. And how I'm lazy and not caring, When u was younger she used to lock me in a dark room for like 20 minutes until i stopped screaming because i was scared if the dark and still am. So now I harefuse to sleeo without a nightlight e the dark and
My mom did this to me. Was growing my hair out and she thought I cut a piece of I couldn’t even see so she got mad and cut it into a bob. Took 2-3 years to grow again. She wondered why’d we always argue until I moved out at 19. Luckily she’s on medication now and has apologized for her past actions. Hurts still there though
The fact that her mom said
“It looks so bad I love it” so gleefully
just shows how toxic she is
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Like yeah, she broke the rules, but a consequence should be connected to the action, maybe instead, she isn’t allowed to buy clothes for a while, not ruining something she’s worked hard for and enjoying it, then all your left with is a kid that’s never coming back once they leave
Just like my parents
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why is the mom so proud. she’s the one that has to be seen in public with her
Yassssssss also congrats on 669 likes
Bro it’s not real
@@Bella-ky4mz they are just saying plus if it was if it was real that would be really bad and disgusting
When is part 2
@@Pretty.Girl.Em182 now 2k likes-
I hate how we're seeing her slowly become numb and emotional, u can tell how she's shutting down in response to her mom. It's so upsetting, it's a trauma response
You mean unemotional?
That’s already happened to me yay,
im sorry for ur sis but how much did u type bro😂
@@nevinbenny5630I think you posted this in the wrong comment :/
@@nevinbenny5630 did you reply to the wrong comment?
“ All kids deserve a parent ,but not every parent deserves a child “
Ik that not every parent deserve a child but not all kids deserve their parents either some kids out there have good parents and some parents out there have kids who treat them like trash
@@AnastasiaLytvynyuk Well maybe but you have to remember that kids aren't just born with that behaviour, they're like sponges and take in and learn that behaviour from people such as their parents or other family members. Also, even if they do learn that behaviour and use it, they still deserve a family either way.
Yassssss
True
" Why did my child put me in a nursing home ?"
- this parent
I wouldn’t even put mine In a nursing home that’s too expensive
@@adriannegonzalez3277 yup
Or “why did you put my child in a mental institution?”
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“It looks so bad already, I love it” Sadistic, vile woman. That’s when you know your parent actually, truly, hates you.
So true I feel so bad for the girl who actually went through this ❤
@@michellejones8783 same ❤️
I thought it was a Freudian slip bc the hair didn't look that bad
My mom actually said to one of my siblings during a normal conversation the other day, “I could take everything from you with a smile on my face” with a smile on her face. She’s done it to me before, not even talking strictly belongings, I had no communication with friends other then school, no hanging out with anyone or going anywhere, no internet and regular lectures about the Bible and why I was a horrible person. Genuinely broke me and years later I’m still rebounding from that but I still and stuck there.
@@Isyneemeyer please hang on, not everyone is like that. I hope someday soon you will be able to walk away from that toxic, abusive, relationship. I’m just a stranger but I’m a mom and a grandma and I’m telling you, I love you. ❤️🩹
Any parent who does this just understand that you’re getting put in the worst elderly home when you get old
Nah. Probably will be abandoned to die alone
IF THAT. I hope their kids just ghost them and leave them to fend for themselves in their old age. Or get sent to a Medicaid funded senior living facility. Because a retirement home is too nice for such people.
not even an elderly home. my generation (gen z & younger millennials) are more likely to just say f that and let the parents figure it out on their own once the parents are old and need help. we aren't spending our money on people who did the bare minimum or less 😂
@@chinesefood2222 depends on the state. Some states have filial responsibility laws requiring children to take care of their parents. Good in many cases to avoid more homeless elderly. But bad in situations where these same parents were abusers.
I'd be looking up bad reviews, and asking for a room with no window right next to the nurses station for this bitch.
(Nurses station lights never are off, and they're busy alllllll night making noise.)
PSA: KNOW YOUR ABUSE.
Cutting someones hair against their consent is legally treated as physical assault. This is emotional and physical abuse. Know that for many people, a persons hair holds extreme sentimental value and can be their outlet for expressing themselves especially culturally. Unlike taking away a gadget or privileges, cutting hair as punishment affects a child's autonomy over his or her physical body, potentially damaging a crucial developmental stage, and it could also blur the concept of consent.
Yep. It's fucked up. And to anyone saying they did it for lice, I was a live magnet as a child and my mom simply dyed my hair the same color as my natural hair and it killed the bugs and eggs and nits and you don't even have to keep it in for the full amount of time required to actually dye the hair. There's always another way. And if you just like to hurt your kids you shouldn't fcking have them. The fact that so many ppl can literally make their own punching bag by having kids is just disgusting.
@@thefckigaveflewawaywithu6904 you can also use anti lice shampoo
@@sheagaier7582😂
My mom dosent let me grow out my hair and its been short my entire life and im 12 I think I'm hold enough. She says she wants it to look "neat" and "put together"
@@Snowystormtherianomg! I feel so bad for you 😭😭😭
My dad was so pissed the first time I didn't cry during an argument.. It's fucked how much joy they get from making you upset
same. with my mother though. it's fucked up so bad that you just don't care anymore
That's why some people shouldn't be parents!
My dad stopped talking to me for a few months and he was upset that I was so nonchalant about it
All kids deserve good parents but not all parents deserve kids.
My mom got very pissed when I got so depressed that I just got numb instead of upset. I genuinely didn't care anymore and she got so fucking angry
You know, it’s the worst feeling when you’re trying to be calm through an argument, and a parent uses your own vulnerabilities against you. And when you finally lose your cool, they smile. That type of behavior is exactly the reason why so many kids just drop their parents when they turn 18 and never come back.
when the kid is always the mature one and the adult keeps pushing them until they snap, and then get angry with the kid for falling into their traps but they’d also be angry if they were called out on their mind games. and no matter what the adult is right because they know better.
I grew up with this. My therapist had to tell me "Um, hey, that's textbook emotional abuse?"
Plot twist it wasn't her reel hear
I thought that was normal 😰
@@DirttySocksDraws no. That is not normal. It is abuse and manipulation. And it should never be done to anyone. Especially your own children.
The way she just asked if she was just “Okay with it” like she was looking for a “PLEASE DON’T DO THIS!”
Because, with parents like this, that’s EXACTLY what the mom wanted.
She wanted her daughter to beg and plead because mom’s goal is to exercise control over her child in any way possible.
@@fluffylover1231And unfortunately that’s like 70% of parents, if not, more.
this is so aggravating. when they get mad at you when you are numb to it and dont show a reaction but then say “i dont enjoy doing this to you”
When I was sixteen my father did this to me and I had a very similar reaction of no caring and “let’s get this over with “ bc he was abus!ng me and I knew if i fought back it could be so much worse
@anomimos6643I'm not even going to my dad's funeral. He deserves what he has.
My dad just always threatened to punch me in the mouth every time I spoke up and made it clear to everyone his parenting style was based on fear. One of the best days of my life was just a short while ago, when he threatened me again and I told him to go right the fuck ahead. He swung and I put my hands around his neck.
Good day.
We’re You too scared to not call the police bc you were worried about him doing worse stuff? (Just asking)
@@ajcook3146YASS GET IT
So did she cut her real hair?
"Why won't they let me see my grandkids?"
Ahh
Honestly
My mother passed away 4 years ago. She never met my kids. They're 26, 24, and 22. Oh well.
"Remember sweetie, Grandma's not allowed near scissors."
"Because she'll hurt herself?"
"No baby, because Grandma's a bitch."
@@_XxButterflyxX_ lol
“Why hasn’t my kid talked to me for 10 years?”💀💀
Wonder if my father's thought of that... It's been exactly 10 years this year.
Yeah me too. Wonder if my mom’s thought of that, it’ll be 11 years this year.
Parents that take joy from embarrassing/degrading/bullying their kids like this are despicable. This is not a punishment.
There's literally a viral video of a mom doing this exact thing, then gaslighting her daughter to say that she is the one who embarrassed herself.
I looked it up and I’m so disgusted
What's it called?!
@@BexFoxlynn Here you go ruclips.net/video/GXmSQik88Zo/видео.html
@@BexFoxlynn I don't remember but I'll try to find the link
@@BexFoxlynn ruclips.net/user/shortstBpQae5C_LQ?feature=share Here it is !
"All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids"
Stolen comment
@@aubrimartin1495 they put it in quotes lol and it’s true-
@@aubrimartin1495 Many ppl used this same comment so we don't know who stole who's comment 💀
@@aubrimartin1495 its a common quote, been hearing it for like a couple years now, and likely will see it again for years to come
@Clover Kramer No, it's originally "children" not kids, and the comment directly under this is posted not too much before this one.
reminds me of the time my grandma shaved my mom’s entire hair because she was “attracting” boys (which was her singing in the balcony which some boys caught onto and stopped to listen). Really sucks that some people are like that, I am so so glad my mom broke the cycle
She sounds like a Disney princess 😅
Your mom sounds awesome
Your mom is the main character
@@bootybuttcheeks she really is :)
@@anaburney6570 she does haha
This is actually a tactic that I used to get back at my narcissistic uncle because he would try to punish me, and then I would just act like I didn’t care of the entire time. A lot of toxic parents when they realize you don’t care realize they don’t want to do the punishment anymore because they don’t actually want to punish you they just want to get back at you in someway to try and teach you a lesson but they don’t know how to teach them.
"Why don't my kids talk to me anymore?"
-Parents like this
Yes
💀
Exactly! 👏🏼👏🏼
Welp💀
fr
Her acting like she likes her hair and doesn't mind it even tho she hates it is literally me
She is wearing a wig
@Rui no I think the character is wearing a wig as in it will grow in a week cuz she pulled one over on her mom. Does that make sense?
@Rui I agree
She’d probably get a worse punishment if she did anything except say thank you
I used to cry when I got my hair done cause in tender headed and one day when I was proably in 3rd grade, my mom combed my hair really hard and everytime I swarmed from the pain, she cut it off. It was really long and wavey and beautiful. My hair hasn't grown back the same and I'm almost out of high school now. And she is always like "your hair used to be so pretty, what happened ?" Like she wasn't the one who cut it all off....this video just brought that memory back
Tell her point blank "You cut it all off."
Dude remind her that she abused you
Get therapy too if you havent already. Im sorry you went through this.
Sue when you get out of high school and get a restraining order.
Report ur mom for child abuse
“It looks so bad already I LOVE it”
…Do I even need to explain?
"Why do you never call or talk to me anymore?!"
*"Hm I wonder why..."*
My 11 yr old sister came to me after our mother did this to her. Half her hair was to her shoulders and the other half was short, and she just walls up to and hands me the same scissors mother used and gave this look of can-you-fix-this-absolute-monstrosity. So naturally, as the one who's been cutting all three of my sisters hair for the past 8 years so we weren't spending 80 bucks per haircut, I threw the scissors in the bin and pull out my kit. Locked the bathroom door, texted my twin sister to be bodyguard and distract mother if she came close to the main bathroom, wrapped my little sister in a salon poncho, pulled out my clippers, combs, clips, and hair scissors and went to work.
I asked her if I could do a split look and work with the different lengths. She said yes but then asked for a shorter Venus McFlytap hairstyle. I was so excited to do a side shave buzzcut, unlike the full buzz cut I did to my twin sister a few months prior to this. Little sister had platinum blonde hair, I had a secret stash of A LOT of hair dyes, we could actually do the full look. Hot pink and joker green streaks in the bob side and the buzz cut was dyed hot pink. First time having colour in hair and she was obsessed.
Then when mother left for work we finished up and left the bathroom to show the other too sisters. My twins hair is a curly short boy cut that is *still* silver and has little hot pink it's from the leopard print dye I did on the buzzcut, I still had my neon orange and red ombre hair, and my 7 year old sister want to join in on the fun too.
So I go back into the bathroom to dye my baby sisters hair, she also had platinum blonde hair so no bleach was needed, and she wanted the underlayers two different colors, green and red for Christmas last year, so I did two layers, bottom most layer was bright red. And a thin layer just above it, neon green. Mother worked the last shift that night so everything was packed up and hidden in a little secret safe in our bedroom ceiling mother doesn't know about, she gets home and sees that now her two youngest have as crazy hair as her two "disrespectful and hateful" older twin kids.
It's so funny seeing her tune the house upside down trying to find the stuff we used and any rubbish remains in the bins. There's literally no evidence we even got it done in the house so there a chance she might think we go to a friend's place to get it done, but she doesn't know any of our friends because we hang out with eachother at school and keep all interactions with our her kids secret from her. Even our friends parents and our teachers are in on it. She gets so mad it's honestly funny to think she's so pressed about these trivial matters. I don't even know why she cut my sisters hair in the first place, but t doesn't matter because now she looks badass.
F you mother, you can't bring a single one of us down, not while I'm around
That's so cool, though I'm sorry you have to go through that. Sounds like all your guy's hair looks epic now :)
Omg!!! Wonderful! 👏 your so sweet and amazing! ❤❤❤
@jeweetzelf me
I read it.
I read it.
Glad you brought sunshine to your sisters ❤
My mom chased me with scissors, sat on me to hold me down, and cut all my hair off when I was 8 because I didn't brush my hair before coming downstairs. Ahh memories. And she wonders why I'm a ball of anxiety and blames it on bullying that happened once when I was 11.
Oh my god!!! I hope your okay now!! my parents would hit my sister and I, just to release their anger
@@the_thing_inside_your_walls that’s abuse it’s ok if parents like hit their kids with like a belt, or give them a spanking for not behaving properly or for disobeying them but if ur parents hit you just bc they felt like it or were angry then that’s not ok there’s different ways to express anger I’m sorry you and ur sister had to go through that
Yeah, except she three years off. I can’t imagine parents being so cruel.
@@AnastasiaLytvynyukI am sorry you think that way but no it's not okay to hit a child with a belt, maybe spanking is fine i don't know but belt no way tbh hitting the child should be the last resort, grounding them or something like that should do it. i think you should never hit a child unless it's something really bad like if they stole or something. I remember my parents hitting me but only until like i was 8, 10 and that too slaps on my back nothing too much and it never did really hurt cuz the other parent would always protect us. If you hit your child for disobedience they are just going to disobey you more. I love my parents but as a child I was scared to anger them not cuz they would hit me, they never really did but cuz they would scold me, i didn't want them to get angry so i would try to not do anything bad and even if i did i would apologise and now as a teen I love my parents the most and they are me best friends , I still get scolding for what is not right and instead of arguing i listen to them and i understand them and that is how you maintain good relationship with your children. I really think my parents are really good parents, I am not saying they didn't make mistakes they might have but still my brother and I are really close to them and we love them. So yeah try not to hit the child as much as you can.
You know there was this news story about a father cutting his daughters hair off even shaving it cause the mum (seperated) got her highlighters in her hair for her birthday. They took him to court for emotional damage as the girl was 14 I think and devastated as you can imagine and they won. I can’t remember if the father isn’t allowed see her anymore or if he’s only allowed supervised visits but yer. My heart goes out to that lil girl
God, I remember that. It really broke my heart and I remember some people saying it wasn’t that big a deal but to most people, hair is a big way of expressing their identity. I felt so awful for that poor girl and hope she’s surrounded by love now.
I would hope only supervised cuz what he did was far more than mental and emotional abuse, it was also physical.
@@xavierplymptonstongue54 also same, off topic but the was you where saying it I thought you where going to say that YOU where the little girl😅
Wasn't it the dads new gfs idea?
When I was 9 I had beautiful hair all the way down my back but because no one ever showed me how to take care of it, when my mother brushed it it felt like she was going to detach my head from my body and no one ever thought to use detangling spray or literally anything other than cheap shampoo and conditioner on my hair, it constantly was tangled so my mother took me to the hairdresser and had her put into a ponytail and hacked off to donate it to kids with cancer because they would 'appreciate it more'. It was a bowl cut level with the tops of my ears. My hair is now over 60cm long and I haven't had a hair cut in almost 7 years, I also have a son of my own now and if anyone touches a hair on his little head without his express permission I'm going to rip out each hair individually until they're completely bald including eyebrows and lashes.
My mom did that to my sister for the same exact reason when she was anywhere from 4-7 and she had really long hair
except it was a cute bob cut
She cried so much but I don’t think it’s too bad doing that to a child who’s 0-6 because my mom always had my hair in this curly bowl cut until I was like 6 but when I started caring about my appearance I cried every time I got it cut
Sorry 😔, for the pain, and wishing you well, only happiness and health for you and your child, it's so hard to find a way of dealing with the Trauma. I'm sorry 😔 you are so young and have a baby already, wishing you strength.
I have very similar trauma, my mom would never brush my hair except 2 times a year and give up on brushing it and cut bald spots into my hair. She was jealous of my red hair which is why she never took care of my hair. I always had sores on my head. She would take me to the salon and they would brush my hair out gently and I’d beg to keep it long and my mom would say no and they’d cut it into a pixie cut. My hair is now extremely long it goes down my back and I feel like a Disney princess
@@heartacheanon3275 I never knew that other people were actually kind to their respective children, the first time I saw it.... That was more than 30 years ago and I still remember the feeling of finding out what could of have been but never was... My stepmother always cut my hair to inflict pain on me....and did other terrible stuff, nothing I want to be thinking about... Pain is still deep inside me, thought it was gone after therapy but it seems to never really go away for ever.
i have really long hair and i keep it brushed but if ANYONE cuts my hair short I WILL RUN AWAY
Sad part is abusive parents do this and no one does anything about it
My dad has a picture of my little brother crying at a barber because he cut his hair.
@@roxassora2706 that’s not abuse
That actually happened to me a couple of months ago 😢
Because my mom said I don't style my hair other than a ponytail and she still gets mad that I only have it in a ponytail but I can't style it because it's short enough to be a ponytail and not anything else 😢
My mom threatened me with this
@@fw_kinsey I think it could be argued that this would fall under emotional/psychological abuse
I've known my husband since middle school and his mom shaved his head as a form of punishment in Middle School. It really upset him. But the good thing is, when you're older you can kick people out of your life and that's what he did! they haven't spoke in 3 years. She's very abusive mentally and emotionally.
Parents like this are the ones who aren’t sane, THEY GET JOY FROM YOUR PAIN
for the ppl who didnt watch the other vid: she asked her mum about her hair growing back bc her friends mum said she would buy the girl extensions
Oh I need to find that video. I must have missed one somehow
ruclips.net/video/DSO8crZCbHs/видео.html THE VID
I love how my mom gets mad at me for not saying anything during arguments anymore.
I used to, i used to voice my troubles and give my input but she either used my struggles to hurt me or just ended up monologuing.
She has told and called me pretty horrible things so I just shut down now.
I cant handle it anymore and i know anything i say wont make it better, only worse.
You probably already know this, but this is textbook emotional abuse. It took me awhile to recognize it in my relationship with my parents because they weren't bad all of the time
Ive learned to just say "ok mom" in a plain tone while keeping up whatever im doing to any bullshit she says and shell leave because shes so angry im not upset.
You really cutted your hair! That shows how much you love your viewers!. You are such a nice person and the vid was so good! Stay safe!
Don't worry, I believe it's a wig lol
extensions
@@person5476
@@person5476I hope it is but to be honest it’s a cute length in the beginning
My mom would always tell me “if you don’t take care of your hair ill chop it all off like your brother” then when i wanted to cut it she said “absolutely not” 💀💀
Tell me why this is so accurate
literally my mom💀💀💀
@@nobody-yf9zh yeah lol 💀 they want you to take care of your hair for your sake so they threaten you 😭😭
@@randomblob8996 fr tho moms r weird💀💀
As someone who gets BAD anxiety about getting haircuts, I felt this...
my heart was beating so fast
Same the only people allowed to ever cut my hair were my grandma and a stylist I had seen for years but my grandma died 3 years ago and I live in a different state now so once a year when I go back to visit family I get a haircut at the same time not even willing to try a stylist out here
Lol I think the daughter wore a wig to trick the mom that’s why she doesn’t seem that upset lol 😂
her friends mom said she would take her to get extensions, so that’s why she’s so calm
I think so too lol
same
@@crochetbystella ohhhh
But she was upset when she FIRST cut it
Yep I know a poor girl that dealt with this toxicity! She ran away and at 17 and has never looked back!
The amount of dedication she has for cutting her own hair for a video- 🙌🏼
I think it’s a wig or extensions
It’s a halo extension you can tell by the color. Her real hair is in a low bun
Idk if she did but maybe she made this video bc she wanted to do it lately
if my mom did that i'd be so happy like "wait really? yay i finally get to have my dream haircut" and then my mom would be so confused
Same!!!! I've always wanted shorter hair, but my mom won't let me cut it above my shoulders
Literally me when my mom cut my hair- she seemed really offended after I said I liked it after she said it looked like a second grader cut it
I love short hair ngl- 💅
If that was me
Whispers mid cut : “You’re a terrible mom.”
I’d die if I said that
She would smack you with the scissors knowing the mom
@@rainmeh4255 she’s probable be like *huge gasp* >:O
The quickest way to die. My momma would have ripped my hair out instead of cutting it at that point
Nah if my mom tried to do this I'd just shave my head and get scalp tattoos🤣🤣 glad Im grown
Nobody is talking about the dedication she has to RUclips that she chopped a full head of hair of for this video.. respect
Children need to talk to an adult at school about this.
The thing is, parents can scoot their way out of it and then the punishments get worse and worse. Cps does nothing to help the poor kids who go through it and the parents are great at giving an in dept description on how these kids are lying. Kids are to scared to say something because they don’t want to get in trouble, and in most cases, these parents don’t get caught.
Thats not going to help lol.
The parents will be told abt it then that kid is going to be abused (physically/mentally) till they cover it up.
Also my friend went to school councilors and the principal many times and they did nothing. School really doesnt care abt you.
That rarely works.
An adult midget be a sympathetic listener but the school couldn’t do much unless there is physical abuse.
All that happens is dcf which then makes the kids life more hell ..... I'm the product of it and it sucked
*me trying to figure out if she actually cut it*
She didn’t it’s just a wig
its a wig
@@tabassumbano9861 O mk xd
extensions. that's why she asked if she would cut off her hair if it grew back in a week.
No fr I'm losing track
“ why did my kids abandon me? I did nothing “
My mom would get pissed whenever I don’t argue back with her. Literally I’m trying to keep the fire out, but you’re giving me gasoline and a match 😂🤦🏻♀️
I'm the most respectful, kind and obedient daughter but if my mom tried coming anywhere near me with scissors like that our relationship is over and I'm out.Nope.
In 30 years the retirement home gonna be calling her name 🤧
Lol even good parents get put in retirement homes
Specifically a bad retirement home
PLEASE BE A WIGG!! Not her luscious locks!! I think it’ll be cute either way but you rocked the long hair
Ikr!
YESS
I think she added extensions but lm not sure😅
It may be real but she may be doing in for the woman that got killed for not having right dress code
@@jellyfreeedits7664 even if it was extensions, she cut it really short…. Like, at that point it would’ve been her real hair unless she’s got a pixie cut and has been wearing extensions this whole time like-
Between me and my siblings we have some horrible stories; being verbally, physically, emotionally, mentally, and even spiritually abused (growing up in a Hispanic religious household). After everything we went through and finally reaching a point in our young adult life we all just kinda woke up and left the church. We stopped giving our parents the satisfaction of hurting us. Now we're healing from everything, some of us in relationships seeing the trama we've been through and reacting horribly to love and kindness. We would bring things up to our parents for them to understand why we react or have changed because what they out us through, only to be met with gaslighting and manipulation. Growing up with a narcissist mother and father who couldn't control his anger was wild. I'm glad to say that it's been a process, but healing is possible 💕 You choose your family!
reminds me of the time i emotionally shut down so hard that it didn't matter that my mother had broken a metal hanger and cut my leg from how hard she hit me. all she saw was her youngest just staring her dead in the eyes while her hand was trembling from the force of the hit. she left me alone for a good amount of time. i wish i remembered what lead up to it, but i'll never forget the shock and terror in her eyes.
I'm so sorry that happened to you that's horrible!
@@HelloKittyIsBabe it's quite alright. it's in the past now. nothing to do but go forward from there :)
My mother hated how emotionally dead I became from her abuse. She wouldn't stop until I cried, she wasn't satisfied until I broke. So I never broke. I became an emotionless husk that only expressed its anger. And when my eyes glossed over even when she no longer beat me she finally realized what she'd done. Now she "doesn't remember doing that".
Edit cause this sounds really bad: I'm much mentally healthier now, took three years of no contact and the right people to help me get to where I am. I have a loving husband, 5 ferrets, and a pretty good life. I still have trauma and issues but I'm no longer angry or stuck on the abuse as I was. It really does get better folks
@@reinerbraun5097 if she ever says “I don’t remember” then confront her
@@mikachan1444 thank you for sharing your story. im in the same situation right now and im struggling with my mental health because of it. I don’t have any friends who i trust enough to talk about my problems, i only have my therapist. i don’t trust my therapist ether because she always defends my parents for their acts and it gives me the feeling i cant do anything right. I hope i can move out as soon as possible (im 16) but that would be hard because i dont have much money saved up and in my country (The Netherlands) moving out is really expensive.
My mom did this to me. She knows my hair is the only thing about me that I’m confident about and then she posted it on the Internet and then showed all her friends and family.
I'm so sorry 😞🤬
This shows how much parents hate their children
This is so twisted I feel so sorry for you
😦🤯
I’m so sorry for you, that sounds horrible.
One time I dyed a friend's hair at my house and my mom was upset that it stained the tub so she woke me up in the middle of the night and screamed at me. I was like like "yeah, okay, I'll clean it *right now*" and just got to scrubbing. All the while she's still screaming at me, and I'm just not saying anything- cleaning. Eventually she got bored and stopped. It was the weirdest moments of my life. I could tell she wasn't getting what she wanted out of the altercation, which apparently wasn't a clean tub, so she just stopped. Don't do this to your kids. Don't yell and scream at them just to try and embarrass them and make them upset if what you're freaking out about isn't even fucking important to you.
This hurts me so much. I could never do this to my daughter. We’ve gone round and round about her tangles but it’s HER body and HER hair. She’s a child. It’s my job to help her.
This is one of the most messed up things I have ever seen. What did she even do to deserve this?
I wish I could tell my mom and dad that I want to cut my hair to my shoulders but my dad said no cuz my hair is almost at my knees it took almost 10 years to grow and I'm 16 and can't make my own decision
"I feel like my kids don't know I'm here anymore"
-Im sorry, in my defense YOU CUT MY HAIR OFF
My mom was the opposite I loved having short hair and my mom said “Well you’re never getting your hair cut again”
Did you cut it again
sameeeee
@Noah Hamilton No… though I will be getting it cut on my Birthday
The craziest part is, some parents really do this. It's so horrible
my dad did
I think these videos are based off of her real experiences (don’t quote me on that, I could be wrong)
My mom threatened me with this so much as a kid, and then when I went to get my hair cut off on my own terms she threw a fit.😅
I did the same thing! I cut it to a pixie hairstyle. She hated it
"Can we talk?"
"No."
"Can I meet the man you're seeing?"
"No."
"Can I walk you down the aisle?"
"No!"
"Can I meet my grandchildren?"
"No!!"
"Can I come to your funeral as a ghost?"
"Hell No!!!"
Lol omg I can’t wait for the next part! It’s like a sad over dramatic after school special that I’m completely addicted to 😂😍
"Why do my kids not visit me..?"
you know why.
I got lice when I was younger, and my aunt made me cut all of my hair off. I did my best to embrace it, but over time I would try to grow it out and she refused to let me grow it. One time I came home from a salon with my hair to my shoulders and she sent me back to get it cut shorter because it was “too long.” Even after years of this, she would never let me grow my hair, she said it was because I was dirty, but I would still shower every day. All of my cousins were allowed to grow their hair, and she had long hair, but I wasn’t allowed to have that hair. I realize now that it was a way of keeping me separate from my cousins, but at the time it was traumatizing
Either way is so traumatizing even if you figure out the reason why they did that f up thing
Why would she try to separate you from your cousins?
I feel so bad
That si so cruel and not fair what king of aunty would do that
i’m sorry you went through that. my mum made me have shorter than shoulder length hair too… her excuse was “you get head lice with long hair” she always had long hair… she knew i wanted long hair… she cut it without my consent until i was old enough to move out… im an adult now, and haven’t cut it in 6 years…
Thats exactly what happens to me, it finally gets back long, my parents get mad from an arguement and its gone AGAIN
"Hunny u never talk to me anymore"
*remembers this moment*
"IT WAS JUST A JOKE"
That's the comment that gets me.....I recently got back in contact with my mother because I spent 9 years in therapy and I decided to maybe give her a chance, only this is the answer I get for all the terrible shit I was put through, chopping my hair off starving me so I'm skinny, smacking me and having me miss school because eshe didn't want people to know, oh it was just a joke I'm too sensitive, she'll never met my children I can promise you that.
"Oh yeah... Well I have a joke for you too"
*Put them in a rat infested nursing home*
"See so funny, why are you crying? laugh it's a joke... Well see you on your death bed lol"
@@animerockgirl1 was that meant for me cuz I really don't care cuz rats r cute
@@bulmauchiha3973 if I had a mother like that I would never let her even know I had kids and just run away with my bf/ or gf
Sry u had to go through that!
@@bloodinsnowx. ooh I did, she had no idea I am a mother,i was smart about meeting her without my children or girlfriend, and my ex husband was smart enough to never let my family know we were married then divorced let alone that we had children together.
I knew a girl in middle school who's dad this to her. She had the longest, most luscious, thick and shiny hair. One day she came into chorus class and all of it was chopped up into a short, uneven bob. She told everyone her dad did it as a "joke", but im sure everyone knew. She was always the type of person to be loud and funny, but after that, she changed.
As an adult I'm not sure if she talks to her dad or not, but I wouldn't blame her if she didn't.
Bad parents :
“Why do my children hate me so much😢”
Also them…
I can’t imagine what justification this Mom felt gave her the right to cut her daughter’s hair that way. She definitely sounded like she enjoyed hurting her daughter and planned to keep doing it.
My mom would do this to me when I was little. Anytime she thought I was lying, this was one of my punishments, even if I was telling the truth, it didn’t matter 😔
Omg I feel so bad no child should ever have to experience that.
Omg ....I can't even imagine how parents can be like this. I feel so sorry for you, hope you are OK now in your life 🙏 ❤️ stay strong 💪 lost of love ❤️
This reminded me of a time where my father wanted to cancel my 10th birthday party. I just shrugged my shoulders and said fine. Later he came to me and asked me why I didn’t react.
Five years forward, my parents are divorced, and he gets a new girlfriend and he is scared to talk to me about because he fears a reaction.
Parents are unbelievable sometimes.
Why did your dad want to cancel your party?
I’m so sorry they got divorced
I can’t imagine going through that if that happened to me
You don’t deserve that
I would’ve absolutely started BAWLING.
The fact that the girl didn’t even resist and said, “Just do it. I don’t care.”
Damn this hit different-
There comes a point when you just stop crying in front of them. They will ridiculou you even more for it. You can see the glee in their eyes when a punishment like this makes you sad
My mom was like this as well but because I never took care of my hair so she cut it off while I was bawling
@@xquizzeat8348 exactly. You just get so used to it too that you don’t even care anymore. It’s like I don’t care what you do. There’s nothing that you can do to me that could possibly hurt me even more than what you’ve been doing to me, just quit wasting my time with your childish behavior.
"every child deserves parents, but not every parent deserves kids"
to save y’all from the wait i’m pretty sure she did it bc her friends mom said she get her extensions
@Jade Jeter I think it’s a wig.
Yea
@@erin.is.better. that looks like her real hair..
@@ephemeraIl yeah but it's a wig
@@ephemeraIl yeah it could be a weave
I had a friend who had long hair like me when we were in elementary/ middle school. We loved having long hair and were very proud of it. Her mom on the other side for some reason had an obsession with wanting to cut her hair short. My friend of course refused to cut it, she took good care of it so there was really no reason for her mom’s obsession besides being weird and controlling. So, one night, she chopped her hair while she was sleeping. It was all messy so she had to go to a hairdresser to make it all even. It was horrifying and she was devastated for a really long time. I still don’t know why she did it, my friend was an overall respectful and nice kid, she never got in any trouble, it was very bizarre
That sounds like her mom was jealous of her daughters hair
What you just described and stuff like the "punishment" in this video are forms of abuse. It's terrible that there are parents out here who think it's ok.
Bipolar parent. Don't do sneaky shit when i'm asleep I'll come up swinging!
Mom was jealous. My mom was the same but she would sabotage me in other ways
@@NekoKuro-il8rz or maybe her mom was a psycho who always needed to get her way. Mental illness is prevalent everywhere
This is actually a way my dad used to punish me-
Everytime I did literally anything it would be snip snip of an inch, now my hair is pretty short but I love it and I moved out lol
sorry that sounds awful
Every kid deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid
That was commitment!! It actually didn’t look terrible, but I bet it is cut professionally by now and styled cuter than I can even imagine ❤
I remember when my mom chopped my long curly hair off in 7th grade because I wouldn’t stop crying. Due to my curl and brutal straight chop of my hair I had severe “pyramid head” and was called Hey Arnold at school the rest of the year.
I was crying because I took public transportation to and from school and while walking a big gust of wind blew a project I worked hours on out of my hands into the street.
Not only she cut your hair off but she also had you bullied in school and get called horrible nicknames just for simply showing emotion, crying is a normal thing for all human beings especially at the age you were when you were in 7th grade that was so stupid of your mom to do that she was basically teaching you that you can’t show emotion
and shit like this coming from my stepdad has now blessed me with the skill to completely turn off my own wants and needs and only focusing on placating the other person so i don’t have a panic attack
Slay queen you look amazing
It's ok, parents like this always end up in the worst grouping homes when they are old
Or maybe they stay at their own home
@@victorlolxd7347 well sometimes old people can’t take care of themselves so they have to be in a nursing home
“And the worst mom award goes toooo! Drum roll plea- never mind it’s this mom”
Movie idea /: strict mom gets taken away by the police and cool mom adopts her
The fact that she actually cut her hair just from a series that she is making for her fans❤❤❤
Then the parents end up like “why am I all alone and my kids hate me and haven’t spoken a peep to me for 20 years? I treated them so well and loved them with my whole heart! ❤️” parents like this shouldn’t exist no child should ever have to suffer just because their parent is a horrible piece of human trash.
Very off topic but I just wanted to say your pfp is absolutely adorable (Also I may be a lil biased cause I thought I was omni for a hot second ((turns out I'm aroace)) but the flag is one of my absolute favorites, it's just so aesthetically pleasing)
My mom did this to me once, she made me hair short but still nice, not ugly, she is a hair dresser so she made it nice even and to my shoulders but i got picked on and hated it short
My dad said I sucked after I wanted to say goodbye to my mom, and he knows im overly emotional and sensitive, so I cried for a really long while. It hurt. I had to go home with my mom. It was on my birthday too
my hair used to be really long and when id get in trouble my dad would threaten to chop off all my hair if i continued misbehaving and he'd even talk to other people about it and theyd be like "yea if she continues you should, thatll teach her to listen" and then id go to my room and sob for hours. so last year a gave myself a wolfcut
Parents who punish their children with humiliation or fear or things that can harm them do not deserve to be parents in my opinion.
lol these videos are somehow both extremely awkward while also accurate
"Why aren't you crying and breaking down? I want to see you miserable"
Laughs in wearing a wig
Mothers like this don’t even deserve to be called mom
I feel so bad for people who have to go through this
And she’s gonna end up saying” cmon why don’t you talk to me anymore?😪”
Also.. did she really just cut her hair!😵💫 ( was it a wig or smth?!😧)
This is why parents end up getting blocked by their kids and never talk to them for like years and years and years and the parents wonder why they don't have their children talking them
ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE SACRIFICE-?!
My mom used to say "keep crying and ill give you a reason to cry" when I was little so growing up I don't cry anymore I just kind of stare off or eye contact the entire time She's talking, but she gets mad at me for "not showing enough emotion" and not "caring" 😭 she told me if I leave my hairbrush out all my hair will be shaved off and if I leave my makeup out ill lose that until I graduate. 😭 I have to keep As and Bs or she'll tell her friends how I'm not trying in school and get so distracted. And how I'm lazy and not caring, When u was younger she used to lock me in a dark room for like 20 minutes until i stopped screaming because i was scared if the dark and still am. So now I harefuse to sleeo without a nightlight e the dark and
Hope this mom wakes up and realizes why her kids don’t love her or talk to her anymore
IM GONNA CRYYYYY! YOU CHOPPED YOU BEAUTIFUL HAIR OFF 😭 I KNOW THERE MUST BE A REASON SO I WILL SUPPORT YOU
My mom did this to me. Was growing my hair out and she thought I cut a piece of I couldn’t even see so she got mad and cut it into a bob. Took 2-3 years to grow again. She wondered why’d we always argue until I moved out at 19. Luckily she’s on medication now and has apologized for her past actions. Hurts still there though
I got this as a "punishment" 😂😂 little did she know I was THRILLED!!