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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Sometimes you embarrass yourself on stage and it really do be like that. Check out my album Bad Ideas as well as the music videos for Crush, Games, I Like (the idea of) You, and Bad Ideas! I'm @tessaviolet on twitter and instagram
    also check out my new song #Games with lovelytheband!
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  • @itmedana
    @itmedana 4 года назад +688

    it’s so weird how the “no one cares about me” mentality can actually be so comforting

    • @ploopybear
      @ploopybear 4 года назад +20

      not when you care about them caring about you

    • @randomperson-de1rs
      @randomperson-de1rs 4 года назад +9

      Ploopybear *Ah* *HAH* *HAH* *I* *DO* *THAT*

    • @TheManyThings
      @TheManyThings 4 года назад +4

      Smile; no one cares how you feel.

    • @MinaFem
      @MinaFem 4 года назад +3

      Leave out the "about me". It's just no one cares :)

    • @bruce-le-smith
      @bruce-le-smith 4 года назад +4

      I had a moment once where I realized that me thinking everyone was analyzing and thinking about me was just ego. most of the time no one is thinking about you for more than a brief moment, before they go back to thinking about themselves. plus we all know we're fudge ups, so when you fudge up most normal people will just move on, those who don't are either your very best closest friends who help you in love, or they're mean people that you may not need to spend time binding yourself to and interacting with. actually my experience is just what Tessa is saying as I type

  • @moth6020
    @moth6020 4 года назад +231

    Games is melancholy - there’s like a quiet anger to it in a way?

    • @1901180108
      @1901180108 4 года назад +5

      Yes! I was gonna go with "quietly angry." :)

    • @clarekramer4
      @clarekramer4 4 года назад +2

      Melancholy is what I thought at first too!

  • @челолюд-з2л
    @челолюд-з2л 4 года назад +283

    Просто красивая девушка славянской внешности.

    • @kappaMeister
      @kappaMeister 4 года назад +9

      о, привет

    • @camilqaq1478
      @camilqaq1478 4 года назад +4

      заебали с этими шутками

  • @alexeymaksimets1698
    @alexeymaksimets1698 4 года назад +146

    Пацаны, где Русскиcе сабы ?

  • @gurvindersohal803
    @gurvindersohal803 4 года назад +154

    For me Games right now as an emotion is "raw"

  • @alexsid1327
    @alexsid1327 4 года назад +131

    Великая и могучая наша

    • @Levisch
      @Levisch 4 года назад +1

      @@camilqaq1478 пнх нерусь

  • @УсатыйТаракан-ы5ж
    @УсатыйТаракан-ы5ж 4 года назад +48

    Фиксируем ,словян.

  • @funghoulfrnk
    @funghoulfrnk 4 года назад +12

    Me: Games is an absolute BOP!!
    Tessa: pls DONT use words like bop...
    Me: 😧

  • @Frooba3
    @Frooba3 4 года назад +10

    Games is powerful and empowering to me. It is a moment of realization that what is going on is not okay, and deciding what you can do about it. Maybe you let it slide again? Maybe you shut that shit down. The build throughout the song really encourages the feeling of growth and like something is coming to a head.

  • @beanhope8739
    @beanhope8739 4 года назад +92

    I would describe “Games” as heavy or strong. Someone that is fed up with the way things are but are too weighed down or low energy to get angry about it so it just festers and eats at them, idk that’s just what I get from the tone of it

  • @OTristian
    @OTristian 4 года назад +9

    "Practice makes perfect."

  • @reeemery3064
    @reeemery3064 4 года назад +77

    I would describe Games as tension, I read a comment saying “quiet anger” and that is such a great description!

    • @davidsmets99
      @davidsmets99 4 года назад +2

      Yes this

    • @Lenny2Lux
      @Lenny2Lux 4 года назад +2

      I saw that comment too, I'm definitely putting "quiet anger" into my big bag of adjectives.

  • @jigmeypartsang2039
    @jigmeypartsang2039 4 года назад +73

    glad u ended up posting this lol don't want u to waste energy filming it again

  • @TheJoshSpeaks
    @TheJoshSpeaks 4 года назад +6

    Every time I hear Games, I feel like there's a choir lifting your voice up to the sky for one incredibly exhilarating crescendo. I'd describe it as unrestrained jubilation.

  • @mickeyb8442
    @mickeyb8442 4 года назад +5

    I feel like games summed up is “frustration” just being frustrated at a situation u aren’t willing to leave but know is wrong

  • @sam270272
    @sam270272 4 года назад +19

    I would describe games as hesitant or guarded. Maybe

  • @strawberrycreamchz
    @strawberrycreamchz 4 года назад +37

    tessa be like “and this is a new song called “tuning my guitar”

  • @marishkaa0
    @marishkaa0 4 года назад +27

    Никто:
    Абсолютно никто:
    Фокус: * УХОДИТ *

  • @danser172
    @danser172 4 года назад +12

    Games is a reckoning. Like get real, come to terms

  • @ignazi132
    @ignazi132 4 года назад +5

    I think I'd best describe Games as Cathartic? You've realized the relationship was toxic, in some form, and are doing something about it.

  • @1901180108
    @1901180108 4 года назад +7

    "Games" is fed up/frustrated/quietly angry.

  • @Magstarcutie
    @Magstarcutie 4 года назад +4

    Words I would use to describe games: exciting, entertaining, makes you dance to it, very relatable, not only does it sound good it has a good story to it too

  • @Kelsx13
    @Kelsx13 4 года назад +1

    I think I would describe Games as frustrated resignation? It feels like the emotions involved are acceptance about the things that have happened but not being at peace with the fact they happened if that makes sense. There is no denial involved, it's just "You did this thing and you treated me shitty and I'm hurt by that."

  • @JetBlackLi
    @JetBlackLi 4 года назад +41

    Games feels to me like “swelling” or “building,” or perhaps “spiraling”? How it starts out really sparse, including the first chorus, and then building up to and blowing up in the second chorus and staying there for an extended section caught me off-guard, and just felt like whatever you were feeling was becoming more and more overwhelming

  • @georgiastar4688
    @georgiastar4688 4 года назад +17

    we love being on the texts list :)

  • @duffs591
    @duffs591 4 года назад +18

    Раньше она была симпатичнее, думаю дело в волосах

    • @---nw5ft
      @---nw5ft 4 года назад

      именно

  • @coreybroyles3377
    @coreybroyles3377 4 года назад +52

    When I think of the song Games honestly I think of “heartbreak” “relatable” and “low”

  • @OVGryffindor
    @OVGryffindor 4 года назад +12

    games is ... resigned anger. feels like you've reached the end of your tether but ...not quite.

  • @YuzuDrink
    @YuzuDrink 4 года назад +3

    "Games" to me is mostly pretty low-key, and while the lyrics are dark, the rhythm is actually pretty driving and almost upbeat; and the lyrics I could almost describe as playful...?

  • @SarahFrickArt
    @SarahFrickArt 4 года назад +1

    Games makes me feel like I'm driving home alone in summer when the sun is setting. Too specific?

  • @kathleenhargest418
    @kathleenhargest418 4 года назад +1

    Games - honest, powerful, defiant, galvanising

  • @MorShadi
    @MorShadi 4 года назад +3

    I love these videos. Thoughts on Games: Strained patience, self empowerment.

  • @brgtmcrdl
    @brgtmcrdl 4 года назад +42

    games is like, dark, brooding, moody, anxious

  • @Nightblaze20
    @Nightblaze20 4 года назад +7

    Games: Hurt, growing, and learning!

  • @auroranoble6015
    @auroranoble6015 4 года назад +3

    For Games I would say its apprehensive or suppressed. I love how it feels almost rambling, the lyrics seem to come out without leaving yourself room to think, sort of like what happens when you feel that someone you care about is taking advantage of you. It really accentuates the anxiety of the situation. It also feels like you're struggling against yourself, trying to keep calm while also trying to express strong feelings, but you can't do both at once and end up doing neither well. I love how effectively this song communicates that very familiar feeling.

  • @nataliemartin5979
    @nataliemartin5979 4 года назад +1

    the actual instrumentation of games i would say would be chunky and square, very beepbopboop u kno what im sayin? the lyrics and melody, on the contrary, are very longing and floaty, and i like the contrast between the two.

  • @devonjane8123
    @devonjane8123 4 года назад +8

    games feels like stomping if that makes sense

  • @Feeluck
    @Feeluck 4 года назад +1

    words to describe 'games':
    music: refreshing, catchy, timeless, cool
    video: artsy, interessting, fun-to-watch
    vocals: pure, somewhat naive (in a cute/innocent way), stand-out (i like your singing voice alot, its unique and distinguishable - too bad they don't play your music in the radio here in germany... yet)
    lyrics: relateable, personal
    overall a very great track!

  • @sam270272
    @sam270272 4 года назад +4

    Love you tessa😍😍😍😍😍

  • @abatos1146
    @abatos1146 4 года назад +3

    On Games :
    Inspired.. to be better.
    I mean I'm not that kind of guy but it's a good reminder to not become that kind of guy, ya know?

  • @polinagonch
    @polinagonch 4 года назад +1

    Games is frustrated and fresh?? and kinda hot/cold at the same time idk

  • @alo.e.ra.2202
    @alo.e.ra.2202 4 года назад +4

    When I think/listen to Games I think of the word ‘danceable’ or ‘free’. In other words, it makes me feel free to dance on the spot 😂

  • @kyo7669
    @kyo7669 4 года назад +5

    I describe games as "deep thougts" or
    "Before brakeup"

  • @jinjex6942
    @jinjex6942 4 года назад +2

    🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺

  • @firewordsparkler
    @firewordsparkler 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for texting this to me Tessa!

  • @Lara-tm2cj
    @Lara-tm2cj 4 года назад +4

    The only word I can think of is brimming like it feels like it’s a bundle of feeling about to overflow I think?

  • @smileyrose131313
    @smileyrose131313 4 года назад +2

    When I first heard Games I initially felt and thought “ok broken heart, betrayal, and anger” and when I listened more what i related those words were the friendships I felt I had built but were full of lies and backhanded actions even though I was trying so hard to have a connection and I felt like I was going crazy being pushed and pulled by people I was trying to care for.
    I agree with a lot of the descriptions everyone has commented: quite anger, tension, and moody. I would add painful, hurt, and pressure.

  • @geenarobles6578
    @geenarobles6578 4 года назад +3

    So glad I got the text!! ❤

  • @raynebednars4951
    @raynebednars4951 4 года назад +2

    When it comes to the song "Games" I have a few words that come to mind, mainly stuggle, confusion, confrontation, realization. It's like you're stuck in this glass room of a relationship, but it's been foggy so you aren't able to compare it to other relationships. Then, finally, you ferllike something is off so you wipe away the fog and realize there's a problem with the relationship and you deserve better, so you need to break out, but you love that person, so it might be worth fixing, so it's confusing.
    I have no idea if this helps at all but yeah.

  • @stagnantfox3027
    @stagnantfox3027 4 года назад +2

    "Games" for me personally starts like soul reaching, relatable to those who's hearts have been toyed with. But then the ref comes and it feels like you're standing up for yourself and calling them out for their terrible behaviour.
    Or in short: starts melancholic progresses into empowering.

  • @3lc0rr3A
    @3lc0rr3A 4 года назад

    Challenging, Destress, Adventure, Imagination, Creative, Spontaneous, Cornered, Alliance, Trust, Betrayal.

  • @ДанилТ-х3ф
    @ДанилТ-х3ф 4 года назад +1

    Slavic appearance is beautiful!!!!!

  • @mariacote6858
    @mariacote6858 4 года назад +37

    YESSSS We love a texting queen

  • @andypanda1056
    @andypanda1056 4 года назад +1

    "Ouiiiii "your intro is french hahahihi😂🤣😂

  • @paulfarr7
    @paulfarr7 4 года назад +1

    Games = Deep, Real, Raw, Poignant, Restless, Frustrated

  • @RoshniS
    @RoshniS 4 года назад

    Games I think has melancholic lyrics and at the same time has the newer kind of music with the cool beats and everything. Its kind of a mix of 2012-13 kind of pop music (approximately around the time when the Red album by Taylor Swift came out I think) and the new pop music....I personally love your entire album and I've recommended it to everyone❤️

  • @francoisrd
    @francoisrd 4 года назад +1

    Hopeful, energetic, uplifting

  • @janicekaylie
    @janicekaylie 4 года назад +1

    geez i really want your hair 💛

  • @PostTraumaticVictory
    @PostTraumaticVictory 4 года назад

    I'm channeling my anxious energy into knitting a blanket and listening to the album! I would describe "games" as contemplative. Is that a word? Regardless, that's my adjective. (Edit: it is a word, and yes, that's my adjective!)

  • @myhandsaslanguage
    @myhandsaslanguage 4 года назад +16

    “Games” brings these words to mind: Passionate
    Adamant
    Struggle

  • @floofyfizzle
    @floofyfizzle 4 года назад

    I think Games is like like heavy spiraling. It sounds like you're literally being played games with. It's like when you're starting to question and wonder and start spiraling about something intense but then someone will go "you're overreacting" and it causes you to spiral even more because said thing is bothering you A LOT but now you think it's dumb to even be worried about it and so you literally bully yourself into silence. You're too afraid to confront X thing but also more and more things keep adding to X thing you are bothered but BUT YOU JUST Ignore it because haha lmfao ;);););) it's totally fine right lets keep pretending until I go insane

  • @KookieWee
    @KookieWee 4 года назад

    for me Games is EXACTLY that emotion you described feeling after soundcheck was weird and you were like "its fine lmao" - Looking Away from the Red Flags. Is there a word for that? Like is this probably gonna end terribly? ABSOLUTELY. Am I gonna do it anyways because I friggin WANNA? Yes. Hold my beer. I guess uhhhh impulsive. NO CLUE if thats helpful.

  • @Sophie_Stedman
    @Sophie_Stedman 4 года назад

    'Games' is....... -I can't quite think of the right adjectives, but it's Nostalgic, Dramatic at points, Emotionally Strong(?), Chilling kinda? -like, the beat+tone of it, andddd idk the word but it's Easily Immersive?

  • @Ranger7Studios
    @Ranger7Studios 4 года назад

    Lol. Been there, bought the tee shirt. I started using the Peter Griffin/Family Guy line. Just look at the audience and say, "This guitar was completely in tune when I started". Always gets a laugh.

  • @heyjeremiahwhite.
    @heyjeremiahwhite. 4 года назад +4

    games is lovely hype music,
    thats relates so much to me.

  • @robinleeann
    @robinleeann 4 года назад +3

    "Games" honestly reminds me of Demi Lovato's song "Games." Just that attitude to want how the world is now to stop. Almost like they think the games are not...a mature thing to do. (I was trying to think of a better way to phrase that but couldn't.) It's that fed up attitude that you're going to be stronger than the other person but just telling them to stop.
    Hopefully that helps.

  • @bestmermaid
    @bestmermaid 4 года назад

    Games (music): dark jazzy bass, gloomy, dreamy, church choir vibes, bouncy during the chorus
    (Lyrics): raw, honest, fed up, emotional yet emotionless

  • @NicholasFranz
    @NicholasFranz 4 года назад +1

    Text squad!!!!!!

  • @mehulkarwa8059
    @mehulkarwa8059 3 года назад +1

    "I don't want a piece of that cause Ik there's no peace in that."
    The intro to Games could not be any better, the lyric's deep, music's soothing and the song is just addictive af

  • @izme1000
    @izme1000 4 года назад

    That's a tough one. "Happy" is the first thing that comes to mind, because it's an enjoyable song, but I don't relate to it personally. That doesn't feel descriptive enough.
    I have woken up thinking about the lyrics, so I feel "memorable" might fit what you're looking for.

  • @Jeanmigus
    @Jeanmigus 4 года назад

    Hello Tessa! English ain't my first language, so maybe the definitions I have of those adjectives don't really fit what I feel when listening to Games, but well I'll give it a try anyway! "Games" felt nostalgic, and uplifting at the same time. Uplifitng as in wooohoooo here comes the wave and I'm gonna surf on it, whatever you guys say!! It also felt very much danceable, and it made me want to share it with other people. In my first language (maybe you could translate that!) :
    La chanson « Games » me rappelait plusieurs autres chansons que j'avais déjà écoutées auparavant, d'où le sentiment de nostalgie. C'est pour ça qu'elle me donnait envie de danser et qu'elle réussissait à m'atteindre facilement. Elle était aussi très "groovy"!
    Here you go! Keep on doing your amazing job and being your amazing self :)

  • @JNRartist
    @JNRartist 4 года назад +1

    Games to me is relateable and exudes confidence; being aware of a situation and being SICK and DONE with it

  • @camillatreviso6176
    @camillatreviso6176 4 года назад +2

    Games makes me thing of “exhausting” “frustration” and “manipulative”

  • @black_swanN
    @black_swanN 4 года назад

    《 Game -
    " you asshole."
    dearly.
    Me.

    (Explanation : you're playing me, i've been there, i know what i have to know. you stfo ._.

  • @nekothin4813
    @nekothin4813 4 года назад +1

    My favorite artisttttt omg im early today :DD greetings Tessa! from Philippines

  • @seanschke
    @seanschke 4 года назад

    My wife's words for "Games" are: "Liberating, Awakening, with a damp crunch of kicking open a half-locked door with your boot"
    I was going to come up with something myself, but I don't think I can top that.

  • @geanniee
    @geanniee 4 года назад +8

    I feel so special being early

  • @theguywiththetail
    @theguywiththetail 4 года назад

    Yeah I get terrible, crippling stage fright. I shake uncontrollably, my hands sweat, and I get quieter. It's always been bad, and I have had dreams of doing something like stand-up so it really sucks.
    A word I would use for Games is Energizing. It kind of gets me pumped up honestly.

  • @tangerinejukebox
    @tangerinejukebox 4 года назад +1

    I went to see Garbage a few months ago - yes, the Garbage from the 90’s, I’m only happy when it rains Garbage - who must have 100 years or more of stage experience between them. Yet for one song, Shirley Manson had to stop a minute into the song, change ear monitor because hers wasn’t working, all while chatting to the crowd. She apologised and laughed, said that if we had any complaints and wanted a ticket refund, we should... and then she proceeded to raise both her middle fingers at us, and cackle like the brilliantly crazy Scottish woman that she is.
    Stage hiccups can happen to anyone, and I would dare say that, to the audience, it feels like an intimate moment with the artist, a peek into the vulnerability of being on stage, and it’s remembered fondly. 💖

  • @madking2
    @madking2 4 года назад +1

    man, am I the only one that thinks with that guitar thing "where's the f-ing backup guitar?" that's like insurance.

  • @ItsRadishTime
    @ItsRadishTime 4 года назад

    games is my favorite song on the album. it feels a little darker, moodier than the others. there's a little more of an edge to it. makes me wanna stomp around a city in the night time and look mean.

  • @DariaHupov
    @DariaHupov 4 года назад

    Games is Cathartic and Empowering. At least that's what it makes me feel. There is so much more I want to share about it, but this post would be too long. One of my favourite songs from your album! Thank you for creating it! ❤

  • @ROBERTHOCKER
    @ROBERTHOCKER 4 года назад

    If the fear is uncontrollable; in America, anyone may go to a doctor, tell him/her, you are going to be nervous for a stage appearance; and, if he/she will prescribe Propanolol. He/She will; immediately give you a prescription for 1-3 tablets...

  • @ТайлерДёрден-г8ф
    @ТайлерДёрден-г8ф 4 года назад +1

    Привет Тессачка, поговори со мной

  • @sparo_art
    @sparo_art 4 года назад

    I'm really happy to have more videos from you ^^ I've been following you for about ten years maybe and I am never bored!
    regarding "games" For me, it is makes me really sad, almost fill with a note of desperation and maybe resignation? and at the same time the end, the last words are kind of if the whole song is running frenetically and suddenly stopping. I really love this song :)

  • @elmoseviltwinda
    @elmoseviltwinda 4 года назад

    For Games: idk if this will be helpful since I can't really put my finger on a specific adjective, but I just get this huge sense of growing, like... empowerment? Is the closest I can think of. Like it feels like crying in your car one too many times, and the last time, that one fuckin song comes on that gives you the little bit of whatever you need to decide its enough. And it's that feeling after you've been crying for so long you can't even cry anymore, and you go from being mad to being like, almost manic and cold-hearted in a super badass "I'm taking care of myself and that means I'm actually done with you for real this time"
    So, empowering? Encouraging? Like a long time of feeling helpless and defeated, followed by suddenly not putting up with an ounce of shit anymore. I'm sure it's one of those things that German has a ridiculously specific word for lol.
    Love you and the new album and your wonderfully down to earth "chat/get ready with me" videos. 💛

  • @lilyyazdi
    @lilyyazdi 4 года назад +1

    games is *ehm* mellifluous

  • @hundejahre
    @hundejahre 4 года назад

    Games- spiritual, in that the chorus with backup singers reminds me of 70s R&B spiritual songs. The ones where you think “Is this song about a relationship with a guy/girl or god? Because it could go either way.”

  • @Lizzilla73
    @Lizzilla73 4 года назад

    Games is my favorite song on the album. It's very raw. Emotionally exhausting (especially at the "you're lying..." part) because I feel that we can feel how exhausted you are with this person "playing games"

  • @geekscene7187
    @geekscene7187 4 года назад

    These aren't adjectives, but 'Games' to me is like my "ADHD", "Heartbeats", and a song I'd listen to when I am training "Boxing"

  • @kujasan
    @kujasan 4 года назад

    it doesn't matter and noone cares. NOW THAT IS SOME MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKING I CAN GET BEHIND
    ;)

  • @Mikanojo
    @Mikanojo 4 года назад

    The song Games came at me with a sense of resolution,
    you had realized that you were involved with a player, a user,
    who had no intention of being good to you, they just kept playing games
    and it was hurting you, and you realized that either they did not care that their lies hurt you,
    or they might even be sadistically enjoying how their actions were hurting you.
    because IF they really cared about you, they would stop.
    You were mentally breaking away from a toxic relationship.
    So... describing words? hmmmn...
    Resolute
    Aware
    Self-caring

  • @matthewhuber8697
    @matthewhuber8697 4 года назад

    When I listen to Games, I think Wow what a bop! Lol just playin'... but fr, I would describe it as "homey" in a way where I'm like nostalgic about a memory that I havent had yet, if that makes any sense. :)

  • @CakeMusume
    @CakeMusume 4 года назад

    I'm so grateful that you are uploading vlogs!!
    My word for Games is powerful.
    Congratz on the album release!

  • @PaulpaulHuffle
    @PaulpaulHuffle 4 года назад

    Games is a build up, overcoming, a realization. It’s confident in questioning what’s really going on and it’s unapologetic. I love it for the brave face it puts on while still finding its way through it.

  • @fizz3612
    @fizz3612 4 года назад

    "games" sounds somewhat distrustful to me. idk if that's how i was supposed to describe how it sounds to me, but that's kinda the vibe i get from it. your new album is really awesome by the way! "bored" has been stuck in my head for so long aaa it's so good ☆

  • @miceymoose
    @miceymoose 4 года назад

    I think Games is definitely relatable, kind of defiant almost? Like you're fed up with how you've been treated, and tired of being played with, you know?
    Like when someone makes a joke about you, and you're not sure if they meant to be hurtful, so you play it off as nothing... but after the 3rd or 4th or 14th jab you just kinda snap? That song is like being on the cusp of snapping. The calm before the storm if you will. idk i might be projecting lol

  • @sophiastecina694
    @sophiastecina694 4 года назад +3

    This is so sweet and genuine ,,, I love

  • @wolfhound7919
    @wolfhound7919 4 года назад

    Personally, having never been a musician and only a fan of people who have far more musical talent than myself, if I go to a live show of any band/singer/performer I do not expect perfection. I expect the small imperfections and variations that make live music so magical. If I wanted "Perfection" I would only stick to studio recordings and how boring is that? Really.?

  • @mouseluva
    @mouseluva 4 года назад

    Games to me feels like the frustration of knowing the change the other person needs to make to stop the relationship from ending is so easy why on earth don't they do it!! But then also questioning yourself like if the change is small is it really a big deal? I guess adjectives would be frustration, tension, doubt and then release of all of the above? I can't describe precisely what/how Games does to me but I adore it.
    (Also I love having an assignment for the comments am I teacher's pet yet do I get a sticker)