Breastfeeding is tough... 😞 || The Abbika Series
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I’ve been having some challenges with breastfeeding Abby. I feel like all of us mums are battling something or the other…I always tell myself that this is temporary
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no hate but this trend of celebrating birthday in every month is really weird😂😂
I am a new mom to be and honestly watching you handle things since you were pregnant and now as a mother to a two month old. You are absolutely one wonder! Thanks for inspiring so many new moms. Watching your videos is like those virtual hugs you get while you are almost breaking down. Sending loads of love ❤
Here I am..... Completely single, no plan of marriage but I still watch the whole video ❤. Love you Mals😘
M single too, trust me jst luv urslf it's more dan enuf
In love with how you conduct yourself so gratefully even after seeing the lowest.
Not saying this to put pressure but actually inspired by you. Your mindset inspires me.
Stay strong, lots of love!❤
You know Mals! It just clicked me. You are an amazing therapist! By listening to you so many women are getting validation. They are getting to know about the real & raw experience about postpartum from woman to woman!! They are learning about life that not being taught to women neither in school, college or their own homes!! Your videos empowers women like no other times in the history!!
Thank you thank you thank you 🫶🏻
Just made me 🥹 seeing so much love, pain, courage, happiness, frustration.… how can we as moms experience so many emotions all in one minute, in one event….
It's so tough to see you and abigail your mum like this ,but I hope all of you are fine now and recovering.
Lots of love to Abbi 🥺and big hug to you malzz ❤
I have been watching your videos since years... Have been a great fan of your vlogs... But professionally being a lactation counsellor I just don't really appreciate the way you are normalizing use of formula and bottle feeds.... Understand that that even the ads for formulas are banned by the health ministry..there must be some clinical evidence to that?
You do you.. Great that you are choosing things that suits well for you.. And one should..But from last couple of videos it's been just formula saves life..*4 times
If you choose formula be ready for its side effects.. If you didn't get it, your baby didn't get don't assume no baby would..
If you choose bottle -nipple confusion cries are for real, struggle of weaning baby from bottle, oral thrush are real
If you choose breastfeeding.. - again it's a skill which has its own set of challanges,
People discuss it with professionals and decide what suits them the best.. But please stop normalizing the things that you are choosing to practice especially use of formula.. Without any clinical knowledge!
May you find all the love and happiness you lost in your journey through her. She’s so precious and beautiful
First time mom to a one month old and I struggled with breastfeeding for the first two weeks, it left me feeling sad, worried and scared for my baby. It's terrible to feel like your baby is not getting enough to eat, while depending on you. Now, though the feeding is better, I'm still dealing with the anxiety that the problems will come back or that my baby won't be OK. We really need to talk about the emotional and practical help that new moms need, specially regarding feeding.
Just hang in there. Trust me it keeps getting better. Your body automatically produces the right amount of milk for ur baby. Its like magic 😄😄 just keep doing ur things, you’re rocking thid mamma!!!
Malvika, while listening to you speak your heart out about breast feeding, I can completely relate to you. I myself am going through the same with a one month old baby. Breast feeding is hard and at the end of the day it exhausts you. On top of that you don’t even know whether your baby is filling up on the milk or not.
I want to thank you for saying it out loud that we are all in the same boat.
I agree with everything you said. Had no clue that breastfeeding was so exhausting. Add lack of sleep to the equation.
I’m so happy Indian women are talking about themselves and their experience more openly now so you can help others.
Thank you for always showing up for all of us, i love you on a different level mals💕
You’re the coolest bad ass woman and mom! I’m not a make up lover but absolutely dig your strength since the pregnancy announcement. Stay strong and love you first!
She is such a good person! Like she said everyone has their own goods and flaws. She is just being true to self ig. And the mature thing with akhil and his fam yeh, abby is gonna get all the love she deserves and she will be as independent as like her mom❤
Just a student in abroad..sitting and watching ur videos..can relate to other way round..as I am also struggling and getting shocked everyday..how I got this stregnth to be this strong..going through challenging face..bt it is always inspiring to watch ur videos..lots of love and stregnth to you and abby..😘❤
You guys got this❤️
I hope you all stay in good health❤️
Happy to hear you talk about this ❤️..There is a lot of criticism around mothers who do not breastfeed and I really wish people get more open to let mothers decide what is best for their mental health so that they can keep their child happy. I went through a painful journey of IVF to conceive and decided post 2 months of delivery to completely stop breast feeding. I have no guilt around it
I wonder how and why people who can work from home decide to stop breastfeeding even if they have enough milk supply..it's such a blessing for the baby to get the breastfeed. Yes it is very exhausting..but I know the feeling when you want to breastfeed but couldn't as there is less milk supply. Formula is the best option for breastmilk but why..if you have enough milk..🥺
Not that we should idolize it but what a self sacrificing and hard working mom Jen is. Looking forward to her next vlog. At this rate I’ll be watching Abby’s videos too soon 😂
My friend had horrible breastfeeding experience. Her baby just wouldn't latch. It reached a point where the baby was hungry and irritated and her milk supply also dwindled. She tried for 3 months then switched completely to formula, too. It was hard to watch the baby hungry and crying and the mother getting crushed in mom guilt.
You do what's best for your kid.
happened with me too
Same thing happened with me
It is happening to me rn 😭😭😭😭
You are truly an inspiration Mals❤
Love you Malz❤ And people who doesn't relate to her pls leave and unsubscribe her, she is such a positive person pls do not show this negativity here.
Good morning ❤ new video on a weekday! Made my day Mals❤
Watching malz video every night after coming home from work is my happy hour.❤love her and it feels like im living her journey❤️
You are on point mal my baby is 2 months old...feeling so low can't go out can't think about anything else....I pump all the time ....I am feeling milky all the time .....more power to you and myself as well.....
Hey mals ...ur a grt good mom...doing all stuff happily...
I am a mother of 3 and wanna give just a bit of advice...wear full coverage clothes ( full sleeve tshirts n pyjamas etc) as u are breastfeeding and having a cold ..so the baby also needs to be covered properly and you too .
Lots of love .....
😢 Pls post present videos.. We many ppl follow u in insta.. These feel like very old videos 😅😅😅 U decide everything u r the boss of ur life.. .. Hope u don't regret something later ❤❤❤ Lots of love to u both
Very cute baby 😍 hey akil is here...how come? Happy to see you both
I relate so much with Mals. I went through the same scenario. My baby took bottle in initial days and then she gave up on bottle and till date its just breast feeding. I am blessed to be working from home and now that my baby takes solid food too.. but oh god 6 months were tough really tough. Mals. U got it Babe. And Abby AWW BABY u r soo soo cute
I can totally relate with you Mals, I was so guilty of giving top feed to my baby girl because my milk supply dropped suddenly by 3 months and any method I tried din't increase my supply. I used to be so tired during the night in those early months and had constant lower back pain still used to wake up in middle of night to feed in order to increase my supply. I am from a nuclear family and dint have anyone to support me all the time, finally I made the decision to switch to total formula by 4 1/2 months. My baby is 8 months now and absolutely perfect and growing well. So yes formula is not bad at all, MOMs should not feel guilty and not over stress themselves.
What formula is best can u plz suggest me
@@MADEBYDEEPA The pediatrician will prescribe whats best for the baby. My Pedi suggested Enfamil, but it was not suiting my baby, she had spit ups, I then switched to Aptamil, this is working very well for her.
I had 2 c section. It was so hard to recover from a major surgery and be constantly available and breast feed your child .The first time around . I would suffer in silence . The cracked nipple, the bleeding , the painful latching. In my head I used to think I should probably switch to formula because my mental health was taking a nose dive, but the people around me was like nooo the child needs breast milk only. I carried on for 6 months and then I just couldn't. I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and it was a dark and lonely place.
The isolation that new mom's go through is horrendous. Everyone is fussing over the well being of the baby that the mom is neglected.
The breastfeeding journey was so traumatic that I took a little time form an attachment to my baby. It wasn't love at first sight or instant connection that people talk about. It took time and now she is the love of my life.
My 2nd one ,baby boy also struggled with latching and I started getting those depressing thoughts, but this time around I had a toddler who needed me too.
On day 3 I decided enough, I will switch to formula. My husband was my pillar of support. I'm so so glad I took that decision cause I did not go into PPD . I was mentally stable to look after both the kiddos. Yes people did sing the same song about how breast milk is the only way , the child will not develop well etc😂.
Well my bub started walking at the end of 6 months , he started running at 8 months and now he is a smart energetic, 1 and half year old.
My advice to new mom's is to do what feels right for you and your baby. There will always be a lot of opinions , but it's imperative you take a decisions that's healthy for both of you not just for the baby❤
The adviced sucked though
I totally agree with you with rest of the things except that the baby started walking on 7months and running by 8,9 months , Formula fed babies are faster than I thought, its my personal experience though.A happy mom can raise a happy child, when will people understand. Let the mother decide whats best for the child.
It’s oly another month or month an half after tat child will understand the routine and will get adjusted to you.. try doing this feed from easy way for first 10 minutes wen u think shes almost full switch to side where she doesn’t latch.. or feed her before she’s hungry with tat side where she doesn’t latch.. sometimes it worked for me with my daughter
Which blush are you using?
queen malzz i love u soo much...so raw..truly warrior 😘💪
God bless abbbyyyyy and all of youuu just show abbby more we love love love herrrrrrr❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Belated Happy birthday 🎂gorgeous!🎉❤
Love u a lot Abby! Ur smile melts the heart Abby! U are gem of a person Malvika! Ur aura is something that spreads rays of inspiration! Love! Strength! Magical thoughts! Positivity! Love thruout! Love u immeasurably!
Stay happy and healthy Abby and Mals! Both of ur names first letter creates the strongest word from Malvika-M.From Abigail--A.Which makes the magic word 'MA' meaning mother in Bengali!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Happy to see akhil there, and jake doing dad job with Khloe ❤❤❤❤❤
This was so reassuring and comforting❤ thank you mama❤️
Love you malvika always I am not interested in makeup so I was not your subscriber before but I love mums vlogs and stuff so I am definitely now and please just because of the society pressure of being a GOOD MOM never ever feel depressed or fake smile because that's what people wants from a mother always fake smile and be happy even if you are in pain so ignore other and say if you wanna go out or have a self day without Abby or just a good 9 hour sleep say it and normalise it ❤️🥰💖
It's a growth spurts its really draining there will be multiple growth spurts till one year but it's temporary, give her a slight massages in day time, baby will feel relaxed a bit and take naps.
Hii...luv to u n Abby ...she is such a sweetheart ❤..hey plz tell me where u got ur glasses from...or if u hav the link..plzzzz share😊
What a BRAVE soul you are..
Yes malz YOU.
The childishness we have seen over the years in you, the happy go lucky one can be this MATURE and BRAVE... Damn, YOU are an INSPIRATION 🤎
I'm so glad to choose your content n consume it, the best way... ❤
Its just like a sit down video🙂🙂not a vlog..
Have you tried Doctor Brown's Anti colic bottle? See if this works.
Hang in there Mamma...!!!! You got this. I am 3 yrs post partum and 3 years of breast feeding... i totally feel you.
Lots of love malzz❤❤❤❤
Akhil came to her 2nd birthday, so happy for it bythe way she look alike her father especially her eyes
Kudos to u ... Btw without makeup u look sooooooo pretty 😍😍😍
Thank you for showing her to us malz ❤
the mums who r going through it ,can understand her.she is not all exaggerating.
The first three month is hard. It gets better. Breastfeeding gets better. Don’t give up now.
What happened to comment section? Initially it was one of positive section, where i felt lot of people are with me..but now i feel like, it is turning into negativity. 😢😢 if you have nothing to say, then don't say anything. It is better than those negative comments... you are strong MALZ❤❤ it is very hard to open up taboo topics like this...and you are inspiring ❤
seroiusly shocking. why do they even watch the vlogs??
She’s absolutely beautiful! I’m a physical therapist so I’m wondering if She might have torticolis if she’s only feeding on one side! Check with a physical therapist ?
Being mom is very difficult biological duty given to women but women are powerful goddess capable of doing everything
I stopped breastfeeding my 6 weeks old boy. Dying of guilt. I felt like you were talking to me 😢 Much needed
I have a daughter,her name is Aaira and she is 3 now, just wait for Abby to be on board with you and it's super amazing.....
You are blessed ❤
Good luck.
2:22 🧿❤ lots of love to Mals and Abby
Abby is soooo cuteee!!!! Mashallah
love your effort
You are so brave cause nowadays every single mother is hiding their babies.. it's scary and irritating at the same time 😂
You're amazing mals❤ love you ❤
Breastfeeding was the hardest thing I have done. I did till 2 years. It was hard.
Super appreciable👏🏻
I m here for your mom vent while doing makeup.....❤❤❤
Relatable maannn
I m a mother and i m 6 month postpartum and
exclusively breastfeeding my baby is 6 month old now she refuses to take bottle and she has breast preference she drinks only frm right breast i m regretting it now but please introduce bottle in early months cuz just because of mama guilt i didnt introduce bottle love you bless both of you abbika 💜love the content this days ....not like some fake happy vlogger like ooh i enjoyyy breastfeeding and i loveee this experience....dudee who are they fooling n if they really enjoy bee happy but if someone is venting and putting realistic parenthood don't go after them ....love you if you sees this msg like cuz while breastfeeding i m TYPING IT BY FUCKING ONE HAND 😂😂😂❤
You can try ‘ pegeon slow flow bottle ‘ for one week. She will definitely take it . Mine refused it for5 days. I made her practice everyday , looking at her eyes c telling her stories n all. Finally , on the 8th day she took it like a pro.
Strong girl you are❤
Here to relive my early mommy days ...Sore, bleeding nipples for the first two months😢.... Initially my feed was less but it slowly came in.. Breastfed for 2 years before weaning him off, kiddo turned 9 recently 😊
How much can you crib…
Even mom goes through this
Be grateful that you have your mom to help and you don’t go out to work keeping your baby with babysitter
Then you will know the real pain
Learn to be thankful with what you have
Dude 😬 if you don't want to listen truth and hardships then don't but we definitely want to listen and learn . Don't spread hate like that don't discourage her maybe you can fake smile and always be 'THANKFULL; but not everyone is fake for the society, she's going with a tough phase and she's sharing with us so you can BYE BYE 😂
Breastfeeding is the hardest thing I ever did. I used to think its so natural for some people why not me. I had the guilt when she couldn't latch. I tried seeing the specialist for that but nothing worked and my supply was close to nothing even when I pumped alot. I tried for month and half then completely stopped. I was happier, baby was thriving with full tummy. I got shamed alot for it though but I didn't't care. My daughter is 4 now and has very strong immunity, very healthy and active. I don't know why we put so much pressure on ourselves. Next time around I will definitely try bf first but i wont mind switching to formula if it doesnt work out. My daughter started sleeping so good when she was full on formula, opnly woke up twice per night which was life changing.
Omg same here i also want my own baby so that i can do all those things ❤
Stay strong❤
Breakups hurt malz but looking at u I cnt stop smiling n I cnt evr thanq enuf❤
Just a suggestion it was with my son too.
Ezekiel loved from one boob , but over a period I realised it's not the breast, it's the position they are feeding; so try to feed from both breasts but in the same position .
(The way she is put feeding boob the same position . It will be difficult for u to hold her , but the feeding pillow will help a lot). Try n let me know
Same thing happened with me too!
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Just a suggestion for ur little one: since she is 2 month old now, it is recommended that you donot put mittens anymore . Please have alook into it.
Also there is no harm in kissing your baby but I would recommend not kissing while you are unwell with sore throat urself as it could be viral infection and you dont want your baby to get thr virus and suffer unnecessarily. ❤
exactly why kissing in lips n mouth
Lovely❤❤❤❤
Does her father come to see the baby? Lots of love to her
You are the best ❤
Yes they get to know the difference between nipple and bottle.. But this phase will pass.. happened with me too.. then she took the bottle.. and then again after 7.5 months not taking the bottle.. So still trying 😅
Woohooo!morning just got better🎉❤
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I am very curious as to what made you all breakup…I mean look at the little joy you have in your life…as parents we just want to cherish that ❤❤❤❤ her dad must miss her too everyday…why not just become a one unit family.. ? Must be something really serious …hope u all stay happy however it may be…
Do a video on affordable skincare and l.a girl one brand makeup tutorial
❤ you !
Hi I am just a new mom .... Of a one year girl ..... It's my experience give her ur milk for just 6 months .... Along with the powder milk because ur milk has different nutrients value..... Just 6 months
Oh my gosh thank you so much for this video! I used to feel guilty doing exactly what you do, letting someone else give her a top up with pumped milk or formula cause my nipples need a break! 🤷🏽♀️
More than you I guess I love your mom❤
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I am going thru exactly same thing
Is she separated imean they both get divorce??????
Cute😍
It’s temporary dnt loose ur hope
Eventually she wil drink from both side.
I went through d same phase dat she didn’t feed from right side.
Feed ur baby atleast for 6 months dan she wil start solids n dan it wil b only 4-5 breast feeding in a day.
N it won’t b difficult after solids.
So til dat time u dnt loose ur hope n continue bf
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Sending Love your way 💙💙
Expecting us to produce milk as much as women from older generation is v unrealistic. With all the stress we go through our work life personal life everything is v different from that gen with a few exceptions ofc. We have to do what we need to do to make sure those cutie angels are well fed no matter what . Only moms will know that with all due respect to every other relatives out there.
Milking your pregnancy to the fullest. We get it😂
Name of your momz chanl?
Aren’t you using other brands other than H&M and zara for Abby?? Like mother care, first cry..even they have good quality neutral Color clothes
Show off
Hey do you get to workout🤔
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Oh goooooddd I’m struggling with breastfeeding and how and I’ve driven myself crazy and my husband and my mom also crazy!
I’ve just fed too much into this breastfeeding hi karna hai thing it just kills me mentally
I want to give the bottle but then I draw my hand back and again try my baby is hungry many times
But now I’ve just switched to bottle and breast feeding both so that she has at least few full meals
Idk my whole day is about feeding and feeding right and then pumping and then counting full diapers keeping potty count
And I look like a homeless person the whole day with not having used a moisturizer in dayssssssseeeeee
This was my rant to just vent it out I love my bacha the most and I’m ready to do anything give her the best that I can
Im also pregnant this is my second baby abhi mujhe dar lagta hai mere baby ko lekar and mera phla baby abhi 18 months ka hai and maine bi usko Philips avent bottle diya tha and he really likes that bottle 🍼 😅 but wo jaga hota tha tou he reject bottle milk Meri booby se peeta tha😅my right booby is fuck up 😅😂😂
Actually u could have worn a mask while breastfeeding her .. you passed on the virus.. But its okay.. It gets passed on the babies really fast.. you have to really control kissing that cute face.. I faced the same .. took so much care while breastfeeding but she still got it.. get well soon guys
When the mother or baby is sick breast milk produces antibodies to help fight it. So it’s going to be ok. During covid also mothers were advised to feed the baby even when they have covid.
Hey Malvika, just a suggestion. Kindly do not repeat content/stretch content. Feels like the content was the same in the last vlog as well as on stories. Feels like we have already seen everything.
She already talked about this and she know that all her vlogs are now kind of sit down vlogs as she is not going anywhere. So just give her time and let things go as there going.
Lots of love malss🩷
Wow seriously??
20:39 These hair looks good on you . ❤