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LOVING YOUR POSTPARTUM BODY TAKES TIME.. || The Abbika Series
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
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So..lots happened...I'm trying to switch to bottle feeding for Abby since I am facing challenges in breastfeeding. I'm also discarding my current wardrobe and trying to find some new clothes that fit me...
I love you
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You look amazing Mals!
Don't be too hard on yourself and take it one day at a time.
Happy to see you doing much better now.
I haven't commented my entire life . But watching your videos motivates me postpartum . Thank you for this talk. I have started accepting my body now .love you a lot
Hey Mals. Thanks for this video. I wanna begin saying that I’m not a mom, I didn’t go through birth. Im just a 22year old college going girl who’s been procrastinating to go the gym or get physical fitness started. But after I saw you working out, I was like dude this girl has been through birth and look at her working out just like 2 months after. Made me realize if someone who’s been through the most physically traumatic event like giving birth can do it, why can’t I? I saw your video 5 days ago, but I’m writing this now coz I want to go to the gym and then say it to you that “I did it”.
Im 2 months postpartum and am terrified of the hairloss thats going to happen...I was on bedrest throughout my pregnancy and i literally need to start from zero in getting my body to even move like before...But like you said...I love my daughter...and i am going to do everything to get back to being healthy and fit to take care of her more..lots of love to you Mals...
What????? She says shez a vegetarian and she is eating chicken biryani?? And justifying it by saying I am going to eat the chicken does that even sense? You are either a vegetarian or a non vegetarian there is nothing in between 😂😂
So proud of you and all the mums around the world❤❤❤❤ a woman’s strength cannot be compared to anything in this world, truly!
Abby, lil shona, looks like an absolute angel👼🏻😭💞🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿
Its called maternal ambivalence , conflicting feelings co existing . Love the honesty and vulnerability . Thanks for saying sorry , for saying love your body no matter what in the past .when it was easy to love your body Not many people can be so open to say sorry .
That’s why you should think before you talk😒 not just blabber..
The "she took the bottle" dance was so adorable. 😂❤
It's good to watch you falling in love with your postpartum body. I am still to start liking it after 2 yrs of delivery. I put on a whopping 45kgs due to bed rest, septate uterus, and pregnancy induced thyroidism. Have barely lost 10 kgs. My body keeps aching because I am not used to being so heavy, have lean legs and they ache like hell making it difficult to sleep. Plus had a c section so the scar area is still numb. Can't work out heavy since it was the second c section. And so on. Plus, working a corporate job woth no nanny to help with the baby has been such a struggle. Practically had no house help for first 9 months so was cleaning, sweeping, mopping, doing dishes, cooking, taking care of the baby all by my own (with my husband and daughter's help, of course)
So seeing your vlogs fill me with mixed feelings of anger and hope. But it's good to see you trying to heal. It's gives me the notion that hope is the way to go and one day it will all be alright. Sending hugs and prayers! ❤😊
Omgg my babe 😓😓😓😓 you are amazing ❤ I understand what it takes to have no support 😞
Thanks darlin' hope everyone heals better and faster 💗
Ever since I started watching your motherhood vlogs am so attached to you that.. I Literally wait for your vlogs every time . They’re so relaxing relatable and raw real I love all your vlogs . So much so much ❤
Ohk so she's comparing her birth process to some accident and trauma dude why so negative you clearly chose to be pregnant
Are you a man? Because you don’t get that childbirth is traumatic to the body.
Shutup. It's not that much as she says. This girl has lived all her life like a Barbie doll.and when real life shit happened she couldn't take it
Hey Malz, it's an incredible journey you're on, and your body has done something truly amazing. I know it's natural to feel a bit self-conscious after giving birth, but please remember that your body has just been through an incredible process. You're beautiful exactly as you are, and your body will adjust over time.
I totally get that you might want to freshen up your wardrobe, but let's think about the environment too. Throwing away perfectly good clothes isn't very sustainable. Maybe we can explore ways to revamp your style without contributing to waste. There are plenty of creative options out there!
As for the baby's clothes, I think you might know but babies thrive in a colorful environment that stimulates their senses. Maybe you find a compromise between your love for beige and incorporating some vibrant colors that could also help with your baby's development.
Remember, you're doing an amazing job as a new mom, and there's no need to be too hard on yourself. Sending you lots of positive vibes 💖
I can totally agree on loving your body thing.. i am also a new mom and going through postpartum recovery ❤ love ur vlogs.
Sucha wholesome video malzz glad to see you happy ❤
U look a lot happier n bright here! Feels good♥️
I only came to know about your ig from reddit. The more I see your content, the more I absolutely adore you. You are so beautiful and have gone through so much. I wish you all the strength in the world. Love to Abby as well !! 💖💖🧿🧿
I can totally understand how you are feeling, after 2 c-sections still not able to lose weight because I had diastasis recti after 2 pregnancy, it's so difficult to lose weight in this problem,and I used to carry my baby a lot even after he was two years old and because of that I had slipped disc twice, I still miss those days when I used to be slim 😁 trying to lose weight but it's very difficult because of this diastasis recti problem, not many doctors in people are familiar with this
Please strengthen your core by doing core strengthening exercises which are diastatis recti friendly.
Loving these abikka vlogs. Your words are empowering.
I have been watching you since many many many years and I am also going through a similar situation like yours. I really wish to come to your place and sit and chat with you but I am from Kerala I love the bond you have with your mother, I have the same with my mom . Love you three girls❤❤❤
Am 8months pp and still don't have the courage to look at my body in the mirror... It's very hard to love one's body the way it is especially postpartum.. even if ppl say it's brought a life into this world n stuff. Completely relate to your views at 8mins + into the video
Malvika: I don’t want to crib
Also malvika: me ne me me me and me😂😂😂😂😂
Good to see the sparkle in your eyes ❤. One day at a time 🌸
I dnt know if mals looks at this comment but want to put it out there, I have been watching mals since soo many years now, and I relate to you soo soo much and u might me just few years older to me but I look up to u soo much thank you for sharing the pregnancy journey as raw as it could be! Iam here in the US all alone with toxic in laws around so taking care of myself and be prepared when I get pregnant would be so imp and looking at ur journey I feel so empowered and strong already and feel like I can go thr anything if I have the right mind set! The key is not to give up, we will have good days bad days let is to not give up. Thank you mals and May Allah bless you and your family the best of health in sha Allah! And the cutest abby I love her to bits and brings a smile on my sad depressed face when I look at her❤
God bless you all.. Hope for the best.. Keep going mals.. 😇😇
I can totally feel you girl…you know mals when I had my first baby it was normal oh god I know how much time it takes to heal…and my 2nd was more tough and when I delivered complications were there so much C-section happen oh god it takes to much time to heal and it’s fine but when you see yourself…mine bestie told me have you forgotten yourself kya that day I was like she’s right then I started to look myself and I’ll never forget that if I’m not feeling myself I can’t look my kids ❤❤ love you so very much and much love to Abigail lots of blessings to little one ❤
You three are sooo amazing! ❤ lots of love and hugs 🤗 to Abby! 😘
who three
SHE SMOL 🥺❤️
It’s true…people with a skinny body type will always find it easier to love their bodies
That is so not true
That's bullshit. I'm skinny and I don't like my body.
@@sweedellee1521totally agreed!!
Just shut up .
It's so true...casue even I was lean body type, and post partum I m size L
Happy 800K malzzz❤❤
From where did you get that bag?
Abby's hair is just awesome 👌 😍😍😍😍😍
Though i am not post partum , but loving one's body after a big or traumatic incident is damm difficult . Gaining 10 kgs after thyroid and slip disc issues , it was really tough to even be comfortable with one's body where we have to pack up all your old clothes and constantly buy new ones because after some time clothes dont fit . And sometimes you just cant love your body the way it is . But in past year , i have learned to accept it . Though i miss being that muscular person i was , i am still grateful for just walking . Seeing other people go through this , gave me stength . Its so good that you put up reality ❤
I have same issue 😔
Lots of Love Mals ur so beautiful as a person❤
Wowwww …. Love the haul ❤plz do more
Love your motivational talks xx
what clear glasses are you wearing. can you pls share the product link? thnx.
Lots of love and happiness
Recently addicted to your videos Mals❤
I'm sure Abby will grow up watching it all she'll be so happy and proud. You've got a strength of a lion girl keep it up. Raising a child alone being emotionally and physically available takes a lot of strength. She'll see all of this she'll realise her mom worked her ass off in raising her. She did ❤❤❤❤.
Product links ? I want to get that bag and sleep wear
I love your daughter 🩷 she’s so cute 🥺
Woho🎉 finally 800k❤
Witnessing Mals in the ad, while watching her video ❤
#Malsified!
Love you Mals ♥️
You may not be very happy with the new mommy body but i swear man…. You’re just prettier than ever now😳
I mean how can someone look this good amidst all the chaos and changes 🤯
What are you, mals?
Hi Malz , could you pls share the link of the h&m bag you mentioned. I am not able to find it anywhere.
Yeah this was one of the reasons I stopped watching you because you used to be all about toxic positivity but i started re watching your videos since your pregnancy journey and i love your videos again now 💖
Where is the black top from?
love you no matter what
Lovely❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂 Mals so cute.. When she's happy n slim she asks and talk it out to ppl to love ur body self love blah 😂 when shes suffering when she gains weight when she faces trauma she advices differently 😂😂😂 being natural n normal n accepting all emotions is HUMAN ❤ as u said in insta it's ur venting out channel n ur life story it's OK.. Appreciate that u realize things n apologize for it ❤❤❤❤❤
God bless Abby 😘❤️
Please let me know the Postpartum belly belt you used please link and any recommendations
We want birthday vlog maam. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ always rewatching the older ones.
So refreshing meals..god bless
I just realised why I love mals so such is the colours she like I like the same beige colours 😅🫣
Just a nude colour baby 🫢
Did you work out while pregnant ? I’m 7 weeks and plan to keep training. I hope that will help me. I’m so nervous bout how my body will change
She is sooo cute ❤
She is so cute😍
Abby was like "mama I want a live makeup video"
It’s the timing of the child wen u feed her before she is hungry she will takes it easily wen u give her wen she is too hungry she won’t take it I’ve experienced this with my child too
Love you and love watching you 😘
So cute❤❤ love love and kisses to little cute abby…
raw and real🫶🏻
Malvika thank me so much for sharing the true side of pregnancy
Please can u tell me where u got this bra???
Love you Mals 😘😘
Which brand ur nursing bras from?
Jen Aunty is the best❤
🎉🎉 congratulations Mals.. Have not seen anyone in our circle feeling so happy for not breast feeding her own kid that too 2 months old baby 😂😂😂 such a brave mom u r.. You have to work earn for ur family... ❤❤ what a lucky baby Abi is to have a grand mom like ur mom n mom like you ❤❤❤
Love you mals❤
My baby boy is 2 months now and about body everything is related to me as well.i feel the same way m not accepting my body.i want to be fit again .m also wana start workout but my body is not responding in tht way.. emotional and physical breakdowns are on peek
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Lovely talk❤❤❤
I know you are busy enough but if you can just sell off your clothes instead. Coz your collection is fab ❤
Hey mals…how did you loose belly fat..love for abby❤
Links for the products pls
Even If we just virtually see you , we still love having you as an elder sister who looks out for us ..we love you malzs
Always so negative yar .. nt cool...
Love you❤
Hey new mommy here ... please link the nursing bra and jeans ... Just had a daughter 22 days back and can relate to all your new mom content.. earlier I was a makeup addict..new life new priorities.. much love and power to you... Also yeah breastfeeding is so tough .you don't know until you don't do... Dealing with less supply and frustrated with my cranky baby all the time.. plus doctors are so against formula... Suggest good formulas for new born .. already tried lactogen
I can’t find the links to anything?
Malavika you didn’t add the links!!!! Plz add the link to the jeans! ❤❤ to you
If you update all the links to purchases it will be great 😊… hope u find the time 😊.. and thanks for the encouragement… love ur speeches and i am grateful 😇
I am a mom of a 3 yr old. I have always been a size 8 and suddenly being pregnant i gained alot of weight got stretch marks all over my belly and thighs🥺. But its a part of our journey being a mom.
Even though u don't go out, you can vlog your daily life
We love u ..
Breast feeding it meant to be at leadt minimum 3 months.. u can give both formula and breast feed but u need to breast feed.. u might get fluid stuck yourself and they be converted into cysts have experienced it so upto you
what happened with her? What did Akhil do?
I'm not a mom.I used to be in xs size (46kg ) and gained weight(55)..but i love how i look when i gained weight.. but for the past 3 months i noticed I'm getting belly fat. But still it can't be noticed by another person, they see it when i show or tell them about that. No one teased me.but at the end of the day, when i look into mirror, it's me who hate it. I had flat stomatch with hour glass body shape. I was not ready to accept my body. From yesterday onwards i started to do workouts... but I'm not able to do it properly 😢 somehow completed day 1.. looking forward to get back in my previous stomach shape..
I totally relate to you! I was the same too, I have belly fat now and I can't look at myself in the mirror. I always used to wear body hugging clothes as I was super skinny and now when I wear them I immediately notice my tummy and it's a lot to accept. And staying consistent with workouts and diet is again a lot while working, studying it's just a lot. But being patient with yourself, with your body is all you can do❤
@@sinchananarendra1330exactly..but everyone is not able to understand that.. bcoz there are people who thinks my body looks nice.. but when I say my concern, they are behaving like I'm complaining too much 🥺🥹
Girl same story .I used to be super skinny (45kg) and always wanted to gain weight. Finally during the lockdown I gained almost 6-7kg . But then everyone around me started pointing it out and made me super uncomfortable in my body to the point that I literally starved myself to lose weight . As a result I ended up losing 3-4 kgs in just 2 weeks .Now even if I want to eat something it's like my body rejects it .People don't let u live either way 😭 ya toh u are too fat or too skinny
Love you malvika ...... Big fan ❤❤
Please share diet chart 🙏
Mum said she weaned my brother and also me away from her ....and I was bottle baby ....and Here I am.....😅😂😂😂 goood and fit Single at 40s
This made me emotional 😢
Pls share link of nursing bra
But bottle feed is not good🥲
Why you will not breast feed her? Just asking. For knowledge
Have you seen Tully?
What about diastis recti!? Educate on tht too .
Abby has akhil’s eyes ❤