Abby's first cafe visit! ☕️ || Venting, Hospital trips & more... || The Abbika Series

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @deepikahotta9684
    @deepikahotta9684 Год назад +43

    everytime I hear women are strong and they can do anthing when times come. you are the example to it. you are so motivating and feel very proud of you.

  • @poojasuvarnakhandi478
    @poojasuvarnakhandi478 Год назад +8

    abby changed you in so many ways!!! I can feel the change in your vibe and energy!!
    god bless u !

  • @adeebakhan2098
    @adeebakhan2098 Год назад +85

    Don’t buy expensive clothes for baby they outgrow them soo quickly

  • @contouredsoul1827
    @contouredsoul1827 Год назад +10

    Bro my mom did this whole newborn thing WHILE my grandfather was undergoing cancer treatment and we had relatives visiting us damnn makes me cry just even thinking about it. Thanks for being so transparent about your experiences mals. Stay strong, hope it gets better for you soon! Love to you and Abby! ❤️

  • @abhilashaawasthi3466
    @abhilashaawasthi3466 Год назад +25

    Can I just say that your skin looks so healthy without makeup! Please share your updated skincare routine in detail.

  • @tasleemiqbalshaikh8389
    @tasleemiqbalshaikh8389 Год назад +31

    It is so bizarre to me that the women has to do everything and father is the one who enjoys his life and do everything he just comes sees abby and goes and do his own things the women Malvika has to do everything she is facing everything and she pays for everything I don’t think akhil is paying for anything he is enjoying his life in Italy and she is here waiting for her daughter she don’t have any emotional support I know women deal with a lot I hope malvika gets everything in her life how her life changed in 2 years is really shocking I hope she gets everything she wants in her life and she gets to enjoy that with her daughter and her new partner how can someone leave his daughter and go away and how can you leave someone who you have known for 12 years it’s really bizarre

  • @mitalisatam15
    @mitalisatam15 Год назад +27

    Such a nice vlog! Also, extra appreciation for your mum, who is always there with you and taking care of you and Abby

  • @loveleen5204
    @loveleen5204 Год назад +5

    Mals can’t explain you in words you your videos and now abby babyy all are just wholesome literally loving every single bit of your videos feeling we are along with you just just and just keeping going all the very best and blessings ❤️❤️🥹🥹

  • @swetabanerjee1343
    @swetabanerjee1343 Год назад +15

    Thank you for keeping this real. lt means so much for women who have not had a baby yet, and the whole idea has been romanticized and idealized. I love the way you discuss every aspect of motherhood. Thank you ❤

  • @lifelearnings8642
    @lifelearnings8642 Год назад +25

    You are so strong malvika
    Managing all the phases of your life is soo inspiring
    Others may see it like what is she doing
    But for me it's so encouraging and feeling each and every moment with the little one is just so awesome for you.
    More power to you
    Love
    S

  • @abychouhan9316
    @abychouhan9316 Год назад +10

    I know it was a difficult journey and its not over yet but you are blessed with a healthy baby thats the super imp thing. Here i am 14 week pregnant having a high risk of dual marker test. Went through NIPT waiting for my baby result. I am not sure am i be able to hold my baby some day or not. Having a healthy baby is a blessing .

    • @Utopianpooja
      @Utopianpooja Год назад +2

      I wish you get to hold your healthy baby and may you live happily ever after 😘😘

    • @abychouhan9316
      @abychouhan9316 Год назад

      @@Utopianpooja Thankyou so much for these kind words. Really wanted to hear this. And i got my NIPT result it came low risk. I hope everything go fine now onwards.

    • @surbhisharma8674
      @surbhisharma8674 Год назад +2

      ​@@abychouhan9316praying for you and your child❤❤❤

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 Год назад +6

    I love how raw and open you are about your current life ! Keep it up. This too shall pass.

  • @mansimalviya2499
    @mansimalviya2499 Год назад +3

    I feel so connected to you because of how raw and real you are on the camera. It makes me feel comfort and ease 🥺❤️‍🩹 Love you 100000000 Malss! 😭❤️🧿

  • @sunayan100
    @sunayan100 Год назад +13

    Infants sense very well when they are in their mother's lap because of oxytocin hormone, they feel safe and calm as soon as they are close or being held by their mother

  • @chaitra5048
    @chaitra5048 Год назад +10

    Hey, mals going through the same with a 2-month-old baby. I feel so lonely no social life. Just feed and put my baby to sleep it's like 24/7. At one point, it feels like it's never going to end. I can relate to you. We girls are so strong we somehow do it hopefully this shall pass soon. Take care of you and Abby much love.❤️❤❤

  • @nikitasaraph06
    @nikitasaraph06 Год назад +4

    You don't feel pain because 'GIRL THATS THE POWER OF BEING A WOMAN WHO HAS GIVEN BIRTH! SHE IS INVINCIBLE' So so sooo glad you are closer to feeling normal and soon you'll feel insanely awesome! PS: Abby's cheeks are GOALS

  • @yaramuni1427
    @yaramuni1427 Год назад +36

    please if possible show abby more everyone lovessss her....ur place in our heart is slowly being taken by her💗💗

  • @travel_Food2024
    @travel_Food2024 Год назад +28

    So good to see Mals being such a cute and strong mom lots of love from NEPAL 🇳🇵❤

  • @kirtivijaywargi3423
    @kirtivijaywargi3423 Год назад +5

    Omg! Your rant was so relatable 💯
    You said things that most of us are afraid to say.
    More power to you ❤

  • @rafatkalam1467
    @rafatkalam1467 Год назад +4

    From watching malzzz with Sunday chit chat now we all watched her baby journey and story.
    We all grew in a life.
    Trust me I loved this side of malzz we all gonna learn soo much from you.
    You truly updated a new version in you life,from removing wisdom tooth😂 to birth journey.
    I am with you.❤

  • @justflow110
    @justflow110 Год назад +6

    I live for the venting sesshh cuz girl u need to know every real shit of motherhood !!!!!! Love you mahls for sharing it all.. So proud of you being this strong and always doinng this much ❤❤❤❤❤ lots of love to abby and nona ❤and ofcourse u ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @KR_vlogs21
    @KR_vlogs21 Год назад +3

    I don't know why people are harsh here in comments section, it's good to know that how a women suffers from pregnancy and the pain, people don't talk about it 🙄 but Mals is talking, she's showing the the truth to everyone, so what wrong she is doing, pregnancy is scary it's painful, and i think there is nothing to enjoy about pregnancy, women's suffer from so much pain after delivery also, after showing the truth I don't know why people are having problem with her. I think it's good to know for women the truth before getting pregnant, we should be aware and have enough knowledge that now what we have to do and how to deal with it. I think Mals has done good job to make aware all women's. Thankyou Mals

  • @shrutiagarwal9080
    @shrutiagarwal9080 Год назад +5

    Mbbs is a Doctor, nurse is the ones who do BSc nursing. Both are very different. And it feels bad when people call female Doctors as Nurse or sister.

  • @sudhama6224
    @sudhama6224 Год назад +3

    Can nobody go down there please ? It’s shut shop ... no prodding no poking .... as much as I feel your pain... I burst out laughing ... you’ll get there girl,,, you are almost there !!! Just a few more days ....you got it

  • @dariusrao2536
    @dariusrao2536 Год назад

    U r a symbol of strength, and hope to so many young women .....you are awesome ..know that u r loved and admired....stay strong ...God has removed the narcs in ur life n made u more aware...now u can breathe n live a happy pure life....

  • @Ankeeta0304
    @Ankeeta0304 Год назад +1

    I feel... if she is feeling better by talking to all her subscribers then we should support her instead of criticizing.... Everyone's life journey is different.... some keep it in their mind and struggle... some speak out like malvika.... and feel better.... we are always here for u malvika❤❤❤❤ we all love u.... and we will always support u through out ur life journey ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ellyella6500
    @ellyella6500 Год назад +7

    Can’t believe akhil is just having fun not seeing his new baby for so long

  • @soja1317
    @soja1317 Год назад +7

    Mals,You have always mentioned that you are very scared of injections and pain . I am also just like you . Please share how you dealt with the delivery pain or is it something that we can deal with it?

  • @chandana_dancingmom
    @chandana_dancingmom Год назад +4

    Mals, everything will happen it’s just about this phase of time. This shall pass and I can see you n your girl enjoying and chilling in the park. You might miss these days too 🥹 that’s how this works girllllll 😊 love love love n only love for you n your baby ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @asmishinde4652
    @asmishinde4652 Год назад +3

    Wooowww.... All that is too much to handle.. Glad that you are sharing all your experiences.. Thanks for sharing it all Malzzzz... Love you & Abby..❤❤❤ Loads of Blessings, Love & Strength to you & Abby..❤❤❤❤❤

  • @swagataroychowdhury5213
    @swagataroychowdhury5213 Год назад +6

    Is it wierd that I am still curiously to find out what happens between you and Akhil? 🤔

  • @sheenathakur3358
    @sheenathakur3358 Год назад

    Hello Mals as I’m in my last trimester,I just saw that feeding cloth which you’ve draped around please please lemme know about the brand you have used as I loves it so much.please reply

  • @Sakshi_sultania
    @Sakshi_sultania Год назад +6

    Hey hey hey ...you cribbing is the most funniest part in this video 💕😂
    And thank you for letting us know that ...we tend to forget our journey ..60%, 70% so on...
    And only focus on "not healed part" which is not right ...
    🎉🎉🎉Kudos ..and love to you and Abby and your mum 💜☄️💙

  • @jyotimehta7293
    @jyotimehta7293 Год назад +1

    You can find great mittens on ajio that fit in your colour palette

  • @debanjanadas3944
    @debanjanadas3944 Год назад +1

    Its so wonderful that you have found such lovely companionship through Veronica! Such friends make situations so much more comforting!

  • @mrs.randhawa2967
    @mrs.randhawa2967 Год назад +1

    It will get better I promise, I remember those days were so hard. Plus we had so many visitors and it was horrible experience. That's true take care of yourself first then you will take care of her better. I had to give my daughter formula because my supply was close to nothing. I felt so guilty for doing that!!!!! Us moms feel guilty for everything lol

  • @priyankaagarwal2631
    @priyankaagarwal2631 Год назад +2

    Mals your mom …. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼moms are just everything … i love my mom the most 🥹

  • @Aasthabasnet7
    @Aasthabasnet7 Год назад +6

    We all need friend like Veronica ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 Год назад +1

    Hey Malvika. Which blush do you use ? It looks really good on you !

  • @pallavigupta7936
    @pallavigupta7936 Год назад

    hey hope you are fine btw from
    where did you brought your nursing cover? . its pretty !

  • @priyankaagarwal2631
    @priyankaagarwal2631 Год назад +3

    If you want a newborn give up your life - malvika …. This is so so true man !

  • @trishvoyage
    @trishvoyage Год назад +3

    Love your strength and sarcastic humor to keep going😅 ❤ more power to you🫶

  • @mrh797
    @mrh797 Год назад +2

    Can you please share what is your diet to increase your milk supply?
    How do you use the pump and store the pumped milk?
    What skin products do you use for your baby?

  • @swagatachakraborty6568
    @swagatachakraborty6568 Год назад

    Malvika you are such a brave mother and I am so so proud of you. Talking about pain does not make you negative or a bad mother, you only come across more and more real. Pregnancy is beautiful everybody talks about that but it is a painful journey as well. Thank you for highlighting things that people are too afraid to talk about being a new mother. Guys we should realize that pregnancy as a journey itself can be very difficult and painflul for some women, plus the kind of circumstances she gave birth under in made her journey more so hurting. But what is important is that despite all the pain and difficulties she loves her baby and doest not regret going through so much for her. Speaking out is not the same as regretting or demotivating others. Cut her some slack. If it is too much for you dont bother watching her videos at this point of time because being a real youtuber, staying true to her audience she will talk about the way she is feeling without sugar coating anything.

  • @dimmychongloi
    @dimmychongloi Год назад +1

    GOOOO. Mals❤️ Just so happy to see you get better every day💕

  • @testoneplusoneplus1680
    @testoneplusoneplus1680 Год назад +2

    Moms are so happy after baby sleeps peacefully

  • @aishwaryashrivastav9317
    @aishwaryashrivastav9317 Год назад +5

    So proud of you for doing this, more power to you 🎉

  • @kamaalmadam
    @kamaalmadam Год назад +1

    Yes, Agree with you. I wish we have baby and momma cafe 😂

  • @lakshmij3381
    @lakshmij3381 Год назад +1

    Hey dear I would like to give one advice please take complete rest for atleast 90days and opt for some postnatal ayurveda treatment it will really help you heal 😊

  • @pooheena
    @pooheena Год назад +3

    Watching youuu is always so amazing!😭❤️

  • @_JayaReddy
    @_JayaReddy Год назад +2

    I really connected alot to you Mal's bcz am also a new mom , I literally felt you what u are going through

  • @ramneezrecites4746
    @ramneezrecites4746 Год назад +2

    Can u provide the link to black floral dress u r wearing? It’s beautiful

  • @sobiyameraj8966
    @sobiyameraj8966 Год назад

    In the world of fake vlogging and superficial good happy mode of influencer, it takes balls to come out in public with everything honest emotionally, I have been following ur series and also on insta every moment I feel like Iam made aware of the true journey a mom goes thr , everyone is different but Atleast we r aware of the truth. Thank you for being so honest and open about it mals May Allah bless you and ur family esp the angel 👼 ❤

  • @pragyasharma3133
    @pragyasharma3133 Год назад +1

    Can totally relate to you as a new mom.. seriously I want to runaway .. we are bored and we are stuck in these 4 walls.. just want my baby to grow up any how 🥹

  • @poulomidas905
    @poulomidas905 Год назад +59

    Abby is the minimized version of Malz.. ❤

  • @MB-uv4qu
    @MB-uv4qu Год назад +1

    Usually Mums do stay at home, don’t go to the beaches😂🤣. So soon
    I didn’t even get any help, u r very lucky

  • @wareeshakhushbakht5802
    @wareeshakhushbakht5802 Год назад +1

    Malvika I just wanna say do not listen to people crap and just do whatever you're happy and comfortable with take care of yourself first and then the baby because HEALTHY MAMA SO HEALTHY BABY😉✌️and I siriously love to hear the truth about pregnancy and postpartum 💖

  • @marwarimommy8028
    @marwarimommy8028 Год назад +5

    Try firstcry.. they have some amazing collection

  • @nishh6852
    @nishh6852 Год назад +3

    Hi mals, just wanted to know when are you going to do birth story video??? Also some tips & whats worked for you in hospital & new born essentials + postpartum essentials. Please talk about those stuff too. Im 27 week in waiting for your videos to buy what you suggest

  • @smriti1181
    @smriti1181 Год назад +1

    With lots of love and happiness..... Take care.... Your vlogs are just bliss and raw that's why i love your vlogs alot 🎉🎉❤

  • @medhabanerjee9490
    @medhabanerjee9490 Год назад

    Hey mals, Hope you are doing well. Abby is a splitting replica of you. Just a thought for your next video. Would you like to make a video on your best liquid blushes like favs and recommendation? I love the blushesh you put.

  • @divyasunish6738
    @divyasunish6738 Год назад

    Malz.. u are a great women and strong too dear.. yaa.. I understand these situations being a mom of 2 kids.. I am from Kerala.. here after delivery can't use even mobile bcoz of radiation if had undergone a C section.. and here for 3 months we keep a mid wife to make us bath and make our baby bath yaa grandma also does 🥰 but it's enjoyable too dear feeding the baby , watching them sleep, playing in between smiling and all 🥰 be with Abby.. she needs your love, care, warmth everything now the most malz..

  • @nehatiwari-ts8jw
    @nehatiwari-ts8jw Год назад

    I want more this type of vediossss so so relaxingggggg

  • @chalkhillblueify
    @chalkhillblueify Год назад

    I got pregnant almost with with it should I say 2 months after u did .. and trust me your vlog helped me big time to prepare myself mentally.. thanks .. a heart felt thanks ❤️

  • @muskan8764
    @muskan8764 Год назад +6

    Don't say like that ban gae nurse mbbs it hurts😢
    Mbbs are doctors dude

  • @procaffeinate_withbooks
    @procaffeinate_withbooks Год назад

    You listen to Jay Shetty for inspiration, and we listen to you😅 prepping myself mentally now

  • @canadaislove
    @canadaislove Год назад +2

    Where is her dad ...where is co parenting....mals u r doing a great job as a mother so keep going n never forget wat this guy did to you ur family n friends are ur support system not ur husband.

  • @ambreenazad8873
    @ambreenazad8873 Год назад +3

    And you are my motivation podcast❤

  • @priyanshijain7147
    @priyanshijain7147 Год назад

    Hi mals! Could you please suggest a good heat protectant for hair

  • @samreensam3953
    @samreensam3953 Год назад

    Love love love totally relate wid uh nd tht cribbing part toh😅✌🏻❤️

  • @mehekd
    @mehekd Год назад

    Malvika, can you let us know from where did you get the breastfeeding cover?

  • @riddhibasu7512
    @riddhibasu7512 Год назад

    I consulted a pelvic floor therapist and it helped my broken vagina to heal a lot. I got a 2nd degree cut down there.Try consulting one after 3 or 6 months after you feel your body is ready to visit a pelvic floor therapist.

  • @senorapadmanathan6807
    @senorapadmanathan6807 Год назад +1

    Just soo happy to see you smile like that at 27:11 🥹❤️

  • @garimasingh2646
    @garimasingh2646 Год назад +2

    Pahle nahi pta tha kya ki baby ke baad life nahi hoti kaafi time tak..
    pahle se thoda research karna tha babe.. its 24*7 job.. beach par bhi yeahi kar rahi hoti hain mothers.. vacations are just a different location but the jobs are same..

  • @bibibatoolpaknejad8754
    @bibibatoolpaknejad8754 Год назад +1

    Ur so beautiful
    So brave
    Such a inspiration for the new mom
    U bring back my old memories into life
    So patient and yes such soulful person
    Keep going and keep it up ❤❤❤

  • @aishpawar3695
    @aishpawar3695 Год назад +1

    You are so strong mals, all mothers basically.
    But u r dealing with so many things at one time just hat's off to you 🙌 we love you mals ❤️

  • @zakiyasamreen5629
    @zakiyasamreen5629 Год назад

    Am also a new mother mals I can understand what you are going through 😮 thousands of emotions running into mind😮

  • @charmidsouza9070
    @charmidsouza9070 Год назад +7

    Poor kid growing up without any exposure to beautiful, bright colours.

  • @traversewithsoumi8851
    @traversewithsoumi8851 Год назад

    Strong mama's strong girl... ❤

  • @priyankakhare2396
    @priyankakhare2396 Год назад +3

    waiting for ur vlog... its amazingggggg😘😘😘😘

  • @bibibatoolpaknejad8754
    @bibibatoolpaknejad8754 Год назад +1

    But u need to eat a lot of protein and power packed meals
    But I had a question how can feed ur kids when ur on antibiotics as it’s not recommended

  • @thefantasticmommy
    @thefantasticmommy Год назад +3

    I get you and this rant. I am twin mom n i breastfeeded both of them and sometimes both of them at the same time... But now i really miss those days.

  • @priyanka1996N
    @priyanka1996N Год назад +3

    I love Abby so much❤

  • @the_cosmoholic_8
    @the_cosmoholic_8 Год назад +1

    Loved watching you... hearing from you 😍. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @meghachathri7370
    @meghachathri7370 Год назад +2

    Love you malvika ❤ take care of yourself 😘 you are so strong love the way you handle everything ❤️ you're inspiration for me love to watch u all the time waiting for your videos ❤

  • @ruchakulkarni616
    @ruchakulkarni616 Год назад

    Hi Mals! Did you have a water birth or a C-section? My bestie is pregnant.. She's 3 months along! I'm so excited for her and want to be there along the way..

  • @harshitagupta1257
    @harshitagupta1257 Год назад +1

    Hey mals can you pls tell from where you buy this nursing cover

  • @theartcart2668
    @theartcart2668 Год назад +1

    You are soooo strongg❤❤More and more love to you and Abby💗🤍

  • @foreveryoung8831
    @foreveryoung8831 Год назад +2

    As if I was waiting for this video to be posted😘

  • @priyathakur6723
    @priyathakur6723 Год назад

    woww woww malvss you looked so stunning . lots of love to ua family

  • @priyankakhare2396
    @priyankakhare2396 Год назад +4

    i bought baby stuff for my sis from marks and spencer.... all neutral....😇

  • @jemimasolomon553
    @jemimasolomon553 Год назад +1

    The best part of the video was the “last 10 minutes”. Completely relatable and yes breast feeding is very very tiring for a new mom.
    My two cents - Order yourself a Recliner and you’ll thank me for that. It’s super helpful and the pleasure of having a new born on your chest while you’re in a comfortable position is just the best feeling.
    It’s okay to pump every 6 hours ( twice during day and once at night) also if you’re breast feeding , there’s no need for you to pump unless you want her to exclusively have breast milk only. Doing both - breast feeding and pumping is EXHAUSTING.

  • @somdipapusti716
    @somdipapusti716 Год назад +2

    how do you store breast milk and how to reuse it? I'm a new mom and I'm really confused about all of it. If you tell me I will be very grateful.

  • @roshni5703
    @roshni5703 Год назад +67

    Malavika try stop talking about what's wrong for a change, focus on good things, things will get better.... You talk too much about your pain which is attracting more pain.... All the best ❤️

    • @bloom7931
      @bloom7931 Год назад +15

      So true!! Atleast someone said this..
      Talking about bad things will only attract the bad things more..

    • @joycemokashi3920
      @joycemokashi3920 Год назад +3

      Exactly!

    • @dk_bajaj
      @dk_bajaj Год назад +9

      Hope u r not blocked for constructive feedback !!!🤭

    • @PratyushaMishra
      @PratyushaMishra Год назад +19

      It doesn’t work like this. Easier said than done - this is the reality of postpartum and no, one cannot be positive 24X7 just for the sake of it. Focusing on good doesn’t diminish the challenges that come with it. She is in pain and that’s why she talks about it and I am glad she does because Indians still live in glorified scenarios of giving birth. I hope she continues to talk about it.

    • @bloom7931
      @bloom7931 Год назад +8

      @@PratyushaMishra continuously talking about pain,bad things for almost whole pregnancy and after pregnancy will not make her feel any good neither make us feel good..(women who are pregnant will be horrified about giving birth)
      A 30mins vlog full of these talks is boring sometimes. And people who give birth knows the pain ,and nobody is saying she shouldn't say about these things but not in every vlog. Whatever, people have different perspectives and you said yours ,we said ours..
      Not saying you're wrong neither gonna take that I'm wrong.
      Thank you.

  • @digeenadavis6402
    @digeenadavis6402 Год назад

    Hey can you please mention from where did you get that feeding cover ..

  • @paulomisanyal3885
    @paulomisanyal3885 Год назад

    Hi…. Marks and Spencers for baby bibs / socks etc too, they make cool clothes

  • @taniyashaikh1218
    @taniyashaikh1218 Год назад +2

    Mals venting time is so me nowadays all the time 😂
    FYI - exausted tired new mom here 🖐🏻
    So relatable

  • @jashomotisinha5126
    @jashomotisinha5126 Год назад +8

    Is it just me or does anybody else too think that Abby looks more like her dad?

  • @nishh6852
    @nishh6852 Год назад

    Mals where is the feeding cover is from???

  • @taibasayyad3073
    @taibasayyad3073 Год назад +2

    Hey mals
    M gonna be mom soon
    I just love love ur covering to feed baby it's so fancy n new can u just lemme knw from where did u got that robe ..plz