If one side refuses to acknowledge that the relationship is romantic in nature, then that's pretty much an indicator that love is lacking from that side.
This isn't difficult people... 1) *Know what you want, and say so! Clearly!* 2) *Make sure everyone is on the same page.* 3) *Don't stick around if someone isn't giving you what you want.* 4) *Don't let anyoone tell you what you should want as a LGBTetc person. Not everyone can or wants to do hookups, casual stuff etc.* 5) *Wanting an oldschool relationship is ok. Not wanting an old-school relationship is also ok. DON'T MIX THE TWO!* 6) *Dating/having a boy/girlfriend isn't the be-all and end-all!* 7) *Drama is for people with nothing going on in their lives.* THE END.
Ngl oskar gives me creepy vibes. At 30 what things in common do u have with a 20 year old? Plus he insulted mark throughout and smiled arrogantly in his face , feel like ooskar viewed Mark as niave and he strung him along. Seemed very manipultive and taking advantage of him
I find it very interesting how direct, honest, and vulnerable Ryan is being here... Yet, in the presence of neurotypical/healthy people, he has a distorted perception of reality (or perhaps he has so many walls built up that he self-sabotages himself). This is a blind assumption, but it may be possible that the reason why he's so cruel to empaths is because he's attracted to narcissists and/or has been forced to "love" (or submit to) narcissists at home/work. Very sad.
He’s wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more mature than this thirty year old child and I thought it would be the other way around. It would take him a century to get to this twenty year old level. When ppl can’t bring you down, they take jabs and hope it works so tht those words leaves you questioning yourself You make fun of ppl’s feelings and make putty faces while they express themselves and you called the other person immature?
HEAR HEAR!! Oskar was RUUUDE ! there must have been a reason that Ryan thought he was in a relationship, even if he did get it wrong . Oskar just came along with a bag of word tricks to put it all onto Ryan . Ryan was Very right to Not carry on the friendship , it would be toxic and not what he needs . Oskar could at least have tried to be honest , at least have tried to see he had hurt the person he had been with and say sorry
... by the gods, that Ryan Mark is seriously insecure and bitter. Look, you lost someone you may have liked a lot who didn't like you so much back. You got mixed messages or deluded yourself for whatever reason. We all do it. You feel a bit used, yes, but its on you not to invest in the wrong people. That's life. Move on. *Drama with someone who doesn't care about you is not a substitute for life with someone who does.* And if he's like 20... holy heck... there's way more years for all this. Maybe he was your first and its a big deal to you at the moment but you've just got to take the loss on the chin, and move on. And to anyone else struggling with heartache: If you're walking through hell, walk faster. And don't look back.
Ryan is actually a lovely person and he held himself with dignity. That man was an arrogant, narcissistic stereotypical luxury retail jerk and if you ask me I think he was just jealous that Ryan has surpassed him in life. Peridot.
Lmaoo, if Oscar didn’t want this drama he shouldn’t have been preying on such young men. He’s creepy, I’m surprised you would even open your mouth to comment anything but
The other guy knew damn well what that Ryna guy was like and he played him at his own game from being nonchalant and indifferent, its basically what you call karma, theres no desire future with somone like that and he will never change.
Using discrimination - age in this case - to hide one’s emotional unavailability to oneself , first , is the expression of what discrimination is : denial. This is why discrimination is heartbreaking “all ways” : the person denying his/her hurt uses discrimination to hurt someone else - in order to normalize hurt, and therefore deny it
Self worth is a good thing. And I didn't see any entitlement. However, I do see a lot of non communication . This should have been discussed sometime during the relationship. It could have saved a lot of hurt feelings.
@@darkkiss7247 Mark Ryan and Oscar ( I know this is not how you spell his name) there conversation Mark-Ryan spent his time belittling and patronising Oscar at times being blatantly rude. I am not saying Oscar is a angel in my opinion but he never once belittled Mark Ryan. I agree with you 100% they should have communicated better in their relationship. I don't think they would have still been together now. Mark-Ryan think he should be put on a pedestal. Sorry but in my opinion the problem with things on pedestals they have a habit of coming down with a crash.
@@thescarecrow.8581 Excellent reply. I've been placed on a pedestal and I didn't like it because you're right, the only place to go is down when they find out that you're as human as they are.
@@Dobetter15 I wish that was true from my experience what you are like in your twentys will nine times out if ten is the way you will always be. My ex brother was the same as Ryan-Mark he had a inflated sense of self-worh and entitlement twenty years on nothing has changed he has just got worse.
I’ve seen a bunch of clips of Ryan-Mark being absolutely insufferable on other dates. And someone recommended watching this video to see him get taken down a peg. But now I just feel sorry for him. 😢
Yeah they are better apart. The age gap might be an issue for them because they are in 2 clearly different places in their lives. But Ryan Mark definitely does seem immature and kind of bitter.
I think the problem is they are too similar. They both want to be the most important person who the other person is obsessed with and they are both stubborn. If they weren’t so stubborn they could be perfect together. Their loss...
15+ years ago I had a "boyfriend" (that I really liked) tell me "oh no we're just friends with benefits". So that was the end of that benefits package for him! No he was not laid off he was FIRED
Watching Ryan get so disrespected when he clearly cares just makes me laugh he was so rude and disgusting to his dates on celebs go dating total karma right here....
the things people do to give the illusion that they have a strong jawline...there's also such a thing as jaw injections now...not giving anyone any ideas.
Okay I never liked Ryan Marks because he's so entitled and so full of himself but man this guy Oskar twice as than him. He's 30 and yet he acted like a teenager. Aren't you too old to act that way? Ryan Marks was like talk to a kid. Lol.
the thing i've realised with those migrants/immigrants whilst being in a relationship is that they in denial of being childish/ they want to be approached and yet they speak broken english. immigrant please
Woah, that "jawline" beard is something else.
He made an outright attempt at gaslighting too.
straight from turkey
If one side refuses to acknowledge that the relationship is romantic in nature, then that's pretty much an indicator that love is lacking from that side.
Things i’m never going to do:
1. Commit murder
2. Eat with my ex
Guess Lord Sugar isn't the only person who fired him.
This isn't difficult people...
1) *Know what you want, and say so! Clearly!*
2) *Make sure everyone is on the same page.*
3) *Don't stick around if someone isn't giving you what you want.*
4) *Don't let anyoone tell you what you should want as a LGBTetc person. Not everyone can or wants to do hookups, casual stuff etc.*
5) *Wanting an oldschool relationship is ok. Not wanting an old-school relationship is also ok. DON'T MIX THE TWO!*
6) *Dating/having a boy/girlfriend isn't the be-all and end-all!*
7) *Drama is for people with nothing going on in their lives.*
THE END.
Yes
This, this and THIS!!! THANK you! =)
@@DanielSelk You're welcome! haha
Ngl oskar gives me creepy vibes. At 30 what things in common do u have with a 20 year old? Plus he insulted mark throughout and smiled arrogantly in his face , feel like ooskar viewed Mark as niave and he strung him along. Seemed very manipultive and taking advantage of him
I was thinking the same thing, also came across a bit manipulative to me.
@@zhaohenglee9182 uhhhhhhh wha the... FBI??
@@zhaohenglee9182 wait are u the younger one of so nvm
I actually know Oskar and he is far from that believe me
@@OzzieEratli its hard to believe you when he comes across as a manipulative jerk who takes advantage of men much younger than him
Two bottoms, I can see why it didn’t work.
😂😂😂😂😂
The shade of it all 😂
Best comment ever!
Right
Ha ha ha
They're perfect for each other. Because they're both so self indulgent!
Both of them are so damn catty 😂😂
*As a wise man once said :*
_"Only when a mosquito lands on your testicles will you realize violence isn't always the answer"._
amazing
Which wise man?
Ryan nerds to think before he speaks , calm down, watch his tone of voice and most importantly... LISTEN!
I find it very interesting how direct, honest, and vulnerable Ryan is being here... Yet, in the presence of neurotypical/healthy people, he has a distorted perception of reality (or perhaps he has so many walls built up that he self-sabotages himself).
This is a blind assumption, but it may be possible that the reason why he's so cruel to empaths is because he's attracted to narcissists and/or has been forced to "love" (or submit to) narcissists at home/work. Very sad.
He’s wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more mature than this thirty year old child and I thought it would be the other way around. It would take him a century to get to this twenty year old level. When ppl can’t bring you down, they take jabs and hope it works so tht those words leaves you questioning yourself
You make fun of ppl’s feelings and make putty faces while they express themselves and you called the other person immature?
HEAR HEAR!! Oskar was RUUUDE ! there must have been a reason that Ryan thought he was in a relationship, even if he did get it wrong . Oskar just came along with a bag of word tricks to put it all onto Ryan . Ryan was Very right to Not carry on the friendship , it would be toxic and not what he needs . Oskar could at least have tried to be honest , at least have tried to see he had hurt the person he had been with and say sorry
Makes more sense how Ryan Mark treats people on celebs go dating now... Gosh his ex was more of a tool than him!!
His ex saw his pompous douchery and out played him.
... by the gods, that Ryan Mark is seriously insecure and bitter.
Look, you lost someone you may have liked a lot who didn't like you so much back. You got mixed messages or deluded yourself for whatever reason. We all do it. You feel a bit used, yes, but its on you not to invest in the wrong people. That's life. Move on.
*Drama with someone who doesn't care about you is not a substitute for life with someone who does.*
And if he's like 20... holy heck... there's way more years for all this. Maybe he was your first and its a big deal to you at the moment but you've just got to take the loss on the chin, and move on.
And to anyone else struggling with heartache:
If you're walking through hell, walk faster. And don't look back.
Best youtube comment BY FAR! Esp the if you are walking through hell...walk faster and don’t look back. Love it love it love it.
@@TheStoicMindset haha Thanks. You're welcome :)
Ryan is actually a lovely person and he held himself with dignity. That man was an arrogant, narcissistic stereotypical luxury retail jerk and if you ask me I think he was just jealous that Ryan has surpassed him in life. Peridot.
Haha that's one comment to screenshot
Lmaoo, if Oscar didn’t want this drama he shouldn’t have been preying on such young men. He’s creepy, I’m surprised you would even open your mouth to comment anything but
Watching this, I can't stop being reminded of One Punch Man's mosquito episode
Best anime
ive never watched it, can you explain?
Is it me or is this Micheal McIntyre?
Why is he trying to fake a jawline with his beard. Makes it look worse and more obvious that he doesnt really have one lol
Omg 😭🤣😂
The other guy knew damn well what that Ryna guy was like and he played him at his own game from being nonchalant and indifferent, its basically what you call karma, theres no desire future with somone like that and he will never change.
Gosh some people are so frustrating to just even watch / listen for literally 5 minutes
cmon we all know after this they smashed each other to bits
🤣🤣🤣
Two bottoms don’t make a top
Using discrimination - age in this case - to hide one’s emotional unavailability to oneself , first , is the expression of what discrimination is : denial. This is why discrimination is heartbreaking “all ways” : the person denying his/her hurt uses discrimination to hurt someone else - in order to normalize hurt, and therefore deny it
This is why people don't want to pay a license fee.
I'd rather have someone at the BBC use it as a bribe than go towards producing this rubbish
Ryan mark is a mood
Good for Ryan for burying that narcissistic liar lol.
Ryan is worse... Watch him on celebs go dating
He has the most slappable face ever.
>dates a 20 year old
>complains that they’re not grown up
Ryan-Mark needs to grow up. He is very inflated sense of self-worth & entitlement.
Self worth is a good thing. And I didn't see any entitlement. However, I do see a lot of non communication . This should have been discussed sometime during the relationship. It could have saved a lot of hurt feelings.
@@darkkiss7247 Mark Ryan and Oscar ( I know this is not how you spell his name) there conversation Mark-Ryan spent his time belittling and patronising Oscar at times being blatantly rude. I am not saying Oscar is a angel in my opinion but he never once belittled Mark Ryan. I agree with you 100% they should have communicated better in their relationship. I don't think they would have still been together now. Mark-Ryan think he should be put on a pedestal. Sorry but in my opinion the problem with things on pedestals they have a habit of coming down with a crash.
@@thescarecrow.8581 Excellent reply. I've been placed on a pedestal and I didn't like it because you're right, the only place to go is down when they find out that you're as human as they are.
He’s lit 20 he will grow as a person
@@Dobetter15 I wish that was true from my experience what you are like in your twentys will nine times out if ten is the way you will always be. My ex brother was the same as Ryan-Mark he had a inflated sense of self-worh and entitlement twenty years on nothing has changed he has just got worse.
I need more videos please.....l'm enjoying watching them 🤗
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I’ve seen a bunch of clips of Ryan-Mark being absolutely insufferable on other dates. And someone recommended watching this video to see him get taken down a peg. But now I just feel sorry for him. 😢
A 30 yr old beard guy is acting like a 20 yr old.
Yeah they are better apart. The age gap might be an issue for them because they are in 2 clearly different places in their lives. But Ryan Mark definitely does seem immature and kind of bitter.
I think the problem is they are too similar. They both want to be the most important person who the other person is obsessed with and they are both stubborn. If they weren’t so stubborn they could be perfect together. Their loss...
Ryan baby you're a star in my eyesssss
Omg oskars eyes 😍😍
"you have led me down a path to disappointment" LOL
This is hilarious ahaha
Neither is really listening to the other.
Hahahaha love Ryan mark 😂
Does he have one contact in or just one blue one brown🤔
15+ years ago I had a "boyfriend" (that I really liked) tell me "oh no we're just friends with benefits". So that was the end of that benefits package for him! No he was not laid off he was FIRED
4:44 i’m dead 😭
Ryan is an absolute mess 😂😂😂😂
Watching Ryan get so disrespected when he clearly cares just makes me laugh he was so rude and disgusting to his dates on celebs go dating total karma right here....
Unfortunately this was before celebs go dating
@@jessicabosch518 So what?
Deep down he wants him alright....
Its like he is 12 and that is his daddy...its wrong, but I said it.
Wow.
Which one of those two is the celebrity?
ryan mark was on the apprentice once. Didn't win
Why he looks like playdoh tho
which one?
Like when he said freind with benefits he should of walked away
People talk. Not read other people's mind. Why not make it easier?
Someone rejected Ryan. Wow.
Team Oskar lol
Ryan Mark seems a bit Narssessistic.
the things people do to give the illusion that they have a strong jawline...there's also such a thing as jaw injections now...not giving anyone any ideas.
The pp wasn't good enough. End of relationship.
Basically
Major oof 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Who is this guy Ryan-Mark Parsons??? What can you learn from him I can only see a big ego in a small body... What are you OMG!!!
Okay I never liked Ryan Marks because he's so entitled and so full of himself but man this guy Oskar twice as than him. He's 30 and yet he acted like a teenager. Aren't you too old to act that way? Ryan Marks was like talk to a kid. Lol.
Trippy Heterochromia.
They're both manipulative drama queens.
Wow, Ryan Mark is childish and has anger issues, a real drama queen.
God this guy has dropped down hugely... from the apprentice to this.. Jesus 🤦🏼♀️
I cannot stand Ryan-Mark, but the juvenile behaviour came from the old man...
Ryan grow up.
bit rich coming from the manchild
Wait RYAN MARK is 🌈
0:42 Ryan is annoying
That Ryan guy's too irritating.
D*mn.
🤢🤮
*Congrats to everyone who is early and who found this comment*
the thing i've realised with those migrants/immigrants whilst being in a relationship is that they in denial of being childish/ they want to be approached and yet they speak broken english. immigrant please
crap
Yup, young, dramatic, juvenile, with years of growing to do. Oskar seems to have saved himself from having a long relationship with a female.
Thats a weird sexist/homophobic comment.
Says the individual who looks like a hermaphrodite in their profile picture.
Both VILE
Ryan mark has a weak chin