'Why did you let me leave?' - Mim Shaikh and Destiny - Eating With My Ex Celeb Specials

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Комментарии • 248

  • @SageCloverThyme
    @SageCloverThyme 3 года назад +434

    This is the most honest and emotionally intelligent conversation I've come across on this show! Bravo! 👏

  • @indiangirl.uk.8420
    @indiangirl.uk.8420 3 года назад +256

    This guy!!!! His sooo cute and he took ownership of everything, spoke like a boss and was a true gentleman. Loved how they left things on a positive! This is the way it should be, it’s all about communicating bless them, I really hope things work out for them two 💗🤞

  • @jenniferrivera8627
    @jenniferrivera8627 3 года назад +187

    Communication is key. They genuinely look like they care about each other

  • @jeoneunthatbitch3897
    @jeoneunthatbitch3897 3 года назад +336

    damn he literally has the nicest smile ive ever seen

  • @lorid4160
    @lorid4160 3 года назад +71

    I rate this man sooo much! You can tell its difficult for him to say what he really feels, but he did it anyway and in an open intelligent way and in doing so he was able to let his (male) guard down. A lot a men need to take a page out of his book for real, respect to him

  • @faeex1428
    @faeex1428 3 года назад +73

    His smile is so nice especially when she walked in

  • @darrentobia1180
    @darrentobia1180 3 года назад +210

    They are lucky. I bet many couples don’t work because of what is left unsaid.

  • @tikaroxanne7286
    @tikaroxanne7286 3 года назад +61

    His smile is hypnotizing 😍😍

  • @Jacqui-gf7gn
    @Jacqui-gf7gn 3 года назад +113

    Young People, 1 word COMMUNICATION!

  • @LauraBidingCitizen
    @LauraBidingCitizen 3 года назад +95

    What genuinely nice people. Seems to me it was a bit of the age old ‘if you love them let them go’ with regards to her going away, but he didn’t communicate how he really felt & she didn’t tell him how hurt she felt with how easy he let her go.
    They’re young, & were even younger back then.. it’s always to do with lack of communication. Talk! Really good advice to all of you out there, just talk it out.
    Really hope it works out for them this time around! x

  • @dandohando1242
    @dandohando1242 3 года назад +50

    Two beautiful people, they seem more mature and if they carry on communicating like this, they can be together forever.

  • @TheRenee10
    @TheRenee10 3 года назад +103

    It sounds like she's only holding him accountable when she could have been the one that also told him how she feel and that she feel like they can work it out while she was away

    • @brokehalo101
      @brokehalo101 3 года назад +3

      Yup

    • @bef3442
      @bef3442 3 года назад +19

      True, but him saying something would show that he cared about how she felt and then she'd open up. Explaining yourself to someone who doesn't care really sucks

    • @superslyfoxx1
      @superslyfoxx1 3 года назад +2

      3:30

    • @Veon_Ray
      @Veon_Ray 2 года назад

      @@superslyfoxx1 taking accountability means *not* blaming your actions, or a lack thereof, on someone else.

  • @gazajadebrown9866
    @gazajadebrown9866 3 года назад +51

    These two are so beautiful together chemistry it's still there you see what happens when people communicate communication is most definitely the key

  • @c4411
    @c4411 3 года назад +203

    I hope they make it work 👊🏽🙏🏽

  • @mstrulygolden
    @mstrulygolden 3 года назад +72

    She’s gorgeous 🥰

  • @tulipsxw2
    @tulipsxw2 3 года назад +45

    These videos makes me want to call my ex that doesn't know he's my ex, but we once had a "thing."

  • @laylakaye8127
    @laylakaye8127 3 года назад +44

    one of the most attractive couples

  • @gangatalishis
    @gangatalishis 3 года назад +116

    Poor communication is what led to the downfall of this relationship, if that’s how she felt why not say instead of doing these stupid tests.

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 года назад +18

      I see no tests? Just an honest conversation. They were young. Did you not make mistakes when you were young & in a relationship?!

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 3 года назад +28

      I agree it wasn't a test... She was living her life, and he treated her casual like it was a disposable relationship.. Niether pursued a continued friendship. He even said maybe he was avoiding it. Emotional honesty would save most relationships.

    • @morpheus6394
      @morpheus6394 3 года назад +1

      Bruh!!! Men should value the concept of abundance.

    • @princessninjapants
      @princessninjapants 3 года назад +1

      Total games.. Accusing him of bad communication

  • @averaa7
    @averaa7 3 года назад +51

    Seeing real love and attraction makes me happy.

  • @bettyboop8529
    @bettyboop8529 3 года назад +21

    Aww that is so sweet, I was trying not to cry the entire time. And yes boys, say how you feel, and make contact if you like a girl. We need that!

  • @lovelustfashion
    @lovelustfashion 3 года назад +10

    They are both gorgeous ... my face the whole video 😍😍😍... It’s the smiles and the exuberant skin for me 😍😍😍

  • @TyraHigh
    @TyraHigh 3 года назад +14

    They are adorable individually and collectively.

  • @sarahs5340
    @sarahs5340 3 года назад +17

    Somehow these two seem like a match and yet they aren’t.

  • @Femmecreole91
    @Femmecreole91 3 года назад +5

    and this is how grown people talk to each other

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 3 года назад +17

    I love a mature conversation. This is beautiful. Hope they work out!!

  • @annco9801
    @annco9801 3 года назад +5

    she reminds me of the singer Shamari from the singing group Blaque

  • @crazymumma3944
    @crazymumma3944 2 года назад +2

    She is absolutely gorgeous!!! These two are actually really cute!!!

  • @her0807
    @her0807 3 года назад +10

    They’re so cute together awwww

  • @chantalmartel4721
    @chantalmartel4721 3 года назад +17

    Communication its the base for a relationship.

  • @v383
    @v383 3 года назад +36

    She puts all on him, she should step up to

  • @anthonydurance2601
    @anthonydurance2601 3 года назад +18

    So she did what she wanted, he accepted and she complaining he didn’t beg and chase 😂😂 good luck to them🙌

    • @mandandi
      @mandandi 3 года назад +2

      Not really about begging. Something along the lines of "I really like what we have. I understand that you want to travel. How is our relationship going to work while you travel?. " would have helped.

  • @miahbrowning3354
    @miahbrowning3354 3 года назад +13

    This the only couple I’ve seen that should get back together

  • @rightweaponry908
    @rightweaponry908 3 года назад +9

    They are both so beautiful

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 3 года назад +3

    I watched this on Facebook and now am here again loved it.

  • @briggyb
    @briggyb 3 года назад +19

    How often is it, _"We were in a serious relationship 6 years ago and were together 4 years..."_
    *-Brittany Age 22*

  • @pg3395
    @pg3395 3 года назад +2

    Is it just me or their facial features look similar ? They look cute together. May be it's a soulmate ting lool. 🤣🤣 Omg they both are so attractive. 😲😲

  • @chadwickcrutchfield2403
    @chadwickcrutchfield2403 3 года назад +3

    Their reactions when they first saw each other in the restaurant was so cute 🤩

  • @Naturally3m0
    @Naturally3m0 3 года назад +10

    I think they make a really good couple!! She's stunning!

  • @rflores1456
    @rflores1456 3 года назад +8

    Why didn't she just call him when she got back? Say hey I'm back... just wanted to say hello I missed you etc...call me if you want to meet for coffee or lunch. Or vice versa he call her and say hey I saw that you're back....

    • @LeratoM33711
      @LeratoM33711 3 года назад

      I think she wanted to be chased

  • @centigradz2centigradz289
    @centigradz2centigradz289 2 года назад +1

    She's super pretty. He is saying all the right things. Because on paper what he says works. He wanted her to live her life. But that's also the best excuse to dump a girl u r not serious about. Happened to a friend of mine. The girl left to travel around the world. He couldn't care less. Actually told her that he wouldn't restrict her. He married a girl he met only twice through an arranged marriage two months later. His parents didn't even know he had dated a black girl until his friends told his uber religious Muslim mother.

  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 3 года назад +5

    She has incredible bone structure. She is still young, go travel and live a little.

  • @m1rko.4u
    @m1rko.4u 3 года назад +11

    she placed all the blame on my man, Mim like it was not her decision to leave

  • @mahrufurrahman9759
    @mahrufurrahman9759 3 года назад +18

    Yo that's the Sunni Vs Shia guy.

    • @M00niE_k
      @M00niE_k 3 года назад

      Thats so truuu

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. 3 года назад

      Huh

  • @jackien1108
    @jackien1108 3 года назад +5

    This is so cute.
    On the communication thing: It was not clear to me if she clarified whether or not she was open to having a traveling partner. That’s maybe why the guy reacted unexpectedly?

  • @AM-dv1xh
    @AM-dv1xh 3 года назад +4

    I literally love Mim! ❤ He seems sooo sweet and honest. She's lovely too 😍 Wish them all the best ❤💙💕♥💖

  • @angelaaldridge5040
    @angelaaldridge5040 3 года назад +8

    He's so handsome 💕💕

  • @samantahopkinson2658
    @samantahopkinson2658 3 года назад +14

    I LOVE THEY CHEMISTRY, I WANT THEM TOBE TOGETHER.

  • @TlhomphoDitedu
    @TlhomphoDitedu 3 года назад +2

    “It would be rude not to.” Good answer

  • @M00niE_k
    @M00niE_k 3 года назад +9

    Omg i really hope it works !!! This is acc so exciting

  • @TheAfrikanSuperstar
    @TheAfrikanSuperstar 3 года назад +8

    He's too nonchalant for me. I feel like he doesn't care.

  • @simplyleonel7534
    @simplyleonel7534 3 года назад +1

    The quemistry is fireeee like you can see they still like each other

  • @mandandi
    @mandandi 3 года назад +1

    I like the way they communicate here. This is the kind of communication that builds a relationship. They were young though. Also, he had other issues to deal with from seeing his life story earlier. I think they are ready to be together for the long haul. Wish them all the best.

  • @KryptonIstheFuture
    @KryptonIstheFuture 3 года назад +32

    brudda she left and then asks 'why did you let me leave ??'' . im confused . Woman in 2021 its a Mazza . we need to reinstall operating system at this point

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 3 года назад +4

      Bruv..fam.. hahah let me help you.
      You never go wrong trying.Always make the move first.
      Period.

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 3 года назад

      😅

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 года назад

      lmao

  • @diakim753
    @diakim753 3 года назад +2

    They have the best smiles

  • @feedbackaccepted3663
    @feedbackaccepted3663 2 года назад

    That smile when she walked in! Gorgeous girl.
    Really hope they reconnected

  • @sjsj4976
    @sjsj4976 3 месяца назад

    His smile makes me smile, wow so beautiful 😍💕

  • @markadamson2102
    @markadamson2102 3 года назад +4

    Such a good looking couple wishing you all the best

  • @truthspeaker1102
    @truthspeaker1102 3 года назад +2

    I always tell the men I date healthy honest respectful conversation is very very very important in any connection or relationship.

  • @lalaland5332
    @lalaland5332 3 года назад +3

    They miss each other!!

  • @cynthiapetty520
    @cynthiapetty520 3 года назад +7

    They look cute together.

  • @kissymonero9581
    @kissymonero9581 3 года назад +4

    Cute couple..... Just keep the conversation going.

  • @marcelineleee
    @marcelineleee 3 года назад +5

    What I kearned fron the movie what wonen want is that.. if you want someone to know what you want then tell them.

  • @Kimmie_xxx
    @Kimmie_xxx 3 года назад

    I LITERALLY LOVE THEM !!!! THEY ARE LITERALLY THE CUTEST ❤️🦋THEY ARE THE DEFINITION OF MATCHING EACH OTHERS ENERGY🙏🏽

  • @pinkyz6042
    @pinkyz6042 3 года назад +2

    It’s the guy from the Shia // Sunni short film lol

  • @flossyrainbowsbailey2691
    @flossyrainbowsbailey2691 2 года назад

    I love his voice so calming

  • @nadanalia3000
    @nadanalia3000 3 года назад +12

    I love seeing Black-Brown couples! 🖤🤎

  • @starsigngirl9789
    @starsigngirl9789 3 года назад +3

    They are both so lovely xx

  • @lewiswilkgaming4320
    @lewiswilkgaming4320 3 года назад +2

    BRING IT BACK TO TV

  • @Warhawk_
    @Warhawk_ 3 года назад +9

    She's a keeper dude.. don't waste it.

    • @AAMM101
      @AAMM101 3 года назад +2

      Is she a keeper though lol. She just left back then, and got mad why did he let her leave, but also said she'd have been mad back then if he tried to stop her from leaving.

    • @lasupremapersonal615
      @lasupremapersonal615 3 года назад +2

      @@AAMM101 she is. She felt he didn’t care

  • @Speckz-11
    @Speckz-11 3 года назад +3

    Mim shaik looks like me and my uncle ffs
    I think I found my uncles long lost twin on BBC

  • @mommysina
    @mommysina 3 года назад +1

    YAY! They are so cute! I hope things work out for them. :)

  • @DONPTV
    @DONPTV 3 года назад

    rated this, wish these 2 the best whatever happens.

  • @christabelyeboah5703
    @christabelyeboah5703 3 года назад +4

    They make such a cute couple.

  • @laytalksabout
    @laytalksabout 3 года назад

    I love this mini series 😩❤️ super adorable

  • @moodymargaret2033
    @moodymargaret2033 3 года назад +9

    They’re soo cuteeee🥺

  • @farzaslasher422
    @farzaslasher422 8 месяцев назад

    Mim is an amazing guy!!! Any girl would be lucky with this guy

  • @Notifysender90
    @Notifysender90 3 года назад +2

    They make a beautiful couple

  • @moyoutube4473
    @moyoutube4473 3 года назад +5

    I hope it works out for them ... let go of the male pride geezer 🤩

  • @kaizen3039
    @kaizen3039 2 года назад

    It seems to me that mim shut down emotionally. It may be the way she delivered the news of the trip, how much compassion she had for his feelings has a lot to do with the trip he took to his man's cave.
    Seeing the reaction he had, she became confused and emotionally shut down as well.
    There was a complete breakdown of communication, he felt hurt and no longer looked for a way to reinitiate communication with her, she also felt hurt and did not try to communicate with him either.
    It would be interesting to know which of the two initiated the reunion.

  • @dadiazz1447
    @dadiazz1447 3 года назад +3

    This guy accent 🥰

    • @starj5114
      @starj5114 3 года назад

      We don’t have accents in London.

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 года назад +1

      @@starj5114 this has to be the dumbest sentence of all time. Everybody that speaks has an accent

  • @bef3442
    @bef3442 3 года назад +1

    They're so adorable ❤

  • @aminkhan1292
    @aminkhan1292 3 года назад +8

    The Black Emilia Clarke

    • @queenvee9729
      @queenvee9729 3 года назад +2

      No wonder she looked familiar

  • @MissLinCee
    @MissLinCee 3 года назад

    Mim, said do you want to go get a drink we all know what that meant especially with the look he gave!

  • @keziahmwende9528
    @keziahmwende9528 3 года назад +1

    Go for what you want life is too short man pride😔😏

  • @ClaUDiishmoO
    @ClaUDiishmoO 3 года назад

    The best one so far

  • @michelesposito83
    @michelesposito83 3 года назад +6

    they are so cute :D

  • @canadadry9693
    @canadadry9693 2 года назад

    My 1st glance at the title I saw “Eating My Ex!”😲

  • @Worldculture7371
    @Worldculture7371 3 года назад +1

    They are so cute!!!

  • @claireosborne692
    @claireosborne692 3 года назад

    Just goes to show you need to speak your truth and communicate what you really feel ❤️ x x

  • @caliden3785
    @caliden3785 3 года назад +28

    wait she wanted to travel but expecting him to beg her to stay...sounds like manipulation to me....these young kids crack me up...sexual tension does not make a relationship...

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 года назад +9

      How on earth did you get to that conclusion from this video?! That’s so far from what was being discussed it’s hilarious!
      There is NOTHING wrong with either party in a relationship wanting to be desired or wanted. He clearly came across as disinterested when she told him she was going away to travel, & showed no interest in wanting to continue long distance despite the fact he’d have loved to do exactly that. All she wanted was for him to express how he was feeling. It was a complete breakdown in communication. How on Earth you got to the conclusion she was manipulating him .. I don’t know!

    • @caliden3785
      @caliden3785 3 года назад

      @@LauraBidingCitizen We all have a right to our opinion....do you know them personally? That's what I took from thier conversation....have a blessed day 😉

    • @jewsaregenocidalhores
      @jewsaregenocidalhores 3 года назад +1

      @@LauraBidingCitizen youre right.

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 года назад +2

      @@caliden3785 You edited & still can’t spell *their* - how embarrassing. If you’re going to state your ‘opinion’, it’s probably best to back it up with something a bit factual, you pulled that crap out of thin air 🤣 As for stating ‘these young kids’ - you sound younger than they are! Hilarious!

    • @caliden3785
      @caliden3785 3 года назад +1

      @@LauraBidingCitizen This is what you get heated about? GET OUT MORE English isn't my first language...I speak more then one unlike you I'm sure.

  • @genellmorris4759
    @genellmorris4759 3 года назад +5

    They look like fertermal TWINS!👀

  • @WAKINUPwithDee
    @WAKINUPwithDee 3 года назад

    Does the full episode feature just one couple?

  • @SoDarlyng
    @SoDarlyng 3 года назад

    I don't know... the fact that he didn't get up until he got what he wanted says so much... Communication means nothing without comprehension... But the actions taken mean so much more. He could have reached out before, it's all for show, he doesn't seem very genuine IMO

  • @CK-ho9lp
    @CK-ho9lp 3 года назад +1

    So adorable 🥰

  • @yolalola9029
    @yolalola9029 3 года назад +1

    They are a beautiful couple

  • @yasso2031
    @yasso2031 3 года назад +6

    she's so pretty Wtf

  • @gabbync6788
    @gabbync6788 3 года назад

    she's soooo pretty

  • @IronicIrony.
    @IronicIrony. 3 года назад +10

    “Celeb”

  • @aquastar5314
    @aquastar5314 3 года назад +1

    They better stop n go ahead annndddd they did. So cute!!

  • @dharmascool2009
    @dharmascool2009 3 года назад +7

    She is like the black Billy Piper. Hella cute. I hope they make it work. Maybe he should to therapy so it can help him open up more and on a regular basis.