Would You Choose Me Over Having Kids? | Eating With My Ex: Faye and Sade

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Jealousy, arguments and children - Faye & Sade had some fundamental issues in their relationship. Can they overcome them and give things another go?
    This is the sixth episode in a new ten part series of Eating With My Ex where former couples meet up for dinner and have to answer brutally honest questions about where their relationship went wrong. Is this going to be super-awkward or is there still a spark?
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Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @lasercat3598
    @lasercat3598 7 лет назад +5521

    I feel like people need to talk more instead of instantly breaking up when something goes wrong

    • @megcook1829
      @megcook1829 6 лет назад +35

      Absolutley agree with you

    • @SuperSimoholic
      @SuperSimoholic 6 лет назад +111

      What's wrong with breaking up? There's nothing wrong with realising the person you're with might not be right for you. There are billions of people in the world, and most of them wont be right for you.
      If anything, breaking up is the mature thing to do. So many people stay in failing relationships because they're afraid to be alone, or don't want to seem like a "quitter".
      If a relationship is good and strong and worth having, it wouldn't feel like a struggle.

    • @novirose6253
      @novirose6253 6 лет назад +91

      SuperSimoholic That's the thing though, all relationship will have a struggle and life and people won't always be perfect. Of course there's nothing wrong with breaking up, but it's important to talk about things instead of just instantly saying, "The honeymoon phase is over and I think we should break up."

    • @megcook1829
      @megcook1829 6 лет назад +21

      I agree with what you are saying for sure, I mean every relationship is different but I feel a lot of the time these days, some not all people can give up too easy without chance or seeing it through as well that;s all

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 6 лет назад +4

      NoviRose 6 All relationships have struggles of course! But what matters is wether the days you struggle or way more frequent and intense than the happy ones. Specially not being on the same page about huge life changing topics like wanting to be married or javinh children can simply not be compromised about
      I would be miney on this couple to not work out because of this main disagreement. You can tell they both are not ove eah other and justcause it sucks to not be able to kove on the rekindled and both pretend they could change something out of their controle (being able to see yourself as childless or as a mother)
      It is simply impossible to change how one feels about kids and soon the misery and unhappyness will set in again cause nothing has changed

  • @AllieinSK
    @AllieinSK 5 лет назад +566

    You're not a difficult person to be with you're a difficult person to argue with.
    Emotional maturity right there.

    • @nomnothojiyane7813
      @nomnothojiyane7813 4 года назад +3

      Yea for me too and also "so you think you can dance"

  • @sma4o1
    @sma4o1 6 лет назад +1361

    Would you choose me over having kids? I would choose you because the reason to have a kid is to have it with you...to have a family with you... awwwwww commonnnnn my emo heart rn

  • @leemonakhisi1029
    @leemonakhisi1029 4 года назад +530

    Haibo. We've lost Sade 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ 🤣 🤣. Even the accent

    • @Zama-K
      @Zama-K 4 года назад +6

      🤣

    • @mmakgomomangena5770
      @mmakgomomangena5770 4 года назад +20

      🤣🤣🤣 same thought i had while watching

    • @peacechokoe9087
      @peacechokoe9087 4 года назад +17

      I was also LOST! What happened to the fresh accent she had?

    • @miraclebaloyi5700
      @miraclebaloyi5700 4 года назад +10

      I am soo hurt😂😂aowa

    • @etvscandalfanpage2011
      @etvscandalfanpage2011 4 года назад +29

      Yep🤷‍♀️ but Im glad she's doing well though. And Shade plz Khumbule' khaya 😉

  • @marghe2116
    @marghe2116 5 лет назад +147

    Their connection is so so so beautiful and genuine. The love they show even when they're just looking at each other is what makes me come back to this interview every now and then.

  • @BijoubyBecca
    @BijoubyBecca 7 лет назад +2376

    Awwww my heart!!! One that actually resulted in them getting back together! YES

    • @Ilrodeo
      @Ilrodeo 6 лет назад +6

      There is also the couple of S1 E3 :)

    • @ruvimbozhou720
      @ruvimbozhou720 6 лет назад +6

      mine too!!! i couldnt stop sayin awwww in a crying voice lol

    • @CLSQWUN
      @CLSQWUN 6 лет назад

      🙌

    • @erinashleyisabella3577
      @erinashleyisabella3577 6 лет назад

      yay

    • @zebmars8944
      @zebmars8944 6 лет назад +12

      Until they start fighting again ... jealousy and anger issues, not a good mixture. The issue regarding having kids will pop up again. Would love to know if they are still together. People break up for a reason and very few will be happy returning to a ex. Obviously this is just my highly questionable gut feeling... ;)

  • @user-bp2bc9ek8y
    @user-bp2bc9ek8y 7 лет назад +613

    My grandfather gave me the most powerful advise. He said the one who apologize is consider the more ethical and powerful person, apologizing is not easy but it is the best way to cure wounds.

  • @cammie4923
    @cammie4923 7 лет назад +1656

    Stop it you're making me feel again

    • @etherealgoddess1890
      @etherealgoddess1890 6 лет назад +2

      Cammie Almost

    • @ruvimbozhou720
      @ruvimbozhou720 6 лет назад +1

      yoooh!!! the feeels!!

    • @monifamaebahad7524
      @monifamaebahad7524 6 лет назад +1

      Gosh me too

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @ambraosadiaye1639
      @ambraosadiaye1639 3 года назад

      Yh me too and I am about to cry my eyes out 🤧😢🥰🥰

  • @ithinkimjas3565
    @ithinkimjas3565 4 года назад +307

    I bet half these couples aren’t even broken up, they just want the free food.

  • @zovuyosijadu7298
    @zovuyosijadu7298 4 года назад +260

    South African 90s kids know Shade😁

  • @briannaholmes8156
    @briannaholmes8156 6 лет назад +504

    When she said she only wanted kids to have a family with Sade I literally cried. Soooooooo sweet ♥♥♥

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @thereisnopandemic
      @thereisnopandemic 4 года назад +2

      A woman cannot impregnate another woman.

    • @alettangati3360
      @alettangati3360 4 года назад +2

      😭 I thought I was the only one in tears.. God!

    • @jornalimosmultimidia3254
      @jornalimosmultimidia3254 4 года назад +8

      @@thereisnopandemic neither a man with infertility, genius... So.many ways...

    • @bayern4ever771
      @bayern4ever771 3 года назад

      Gfys

  • @ValerieAbena
    @ValerieAbena 7 лет назад +658

    When one wants a child and one doesn't that spells bad news

    • @Cabesmum
      @Cabesmum 7 лет назад +25

      LadyChaos101 People's minds can change; Faye might decide she doesn't and Sade might decide she does, they know where they stand; Sade did ask if she would choose her and Faye said yes.

    • @ValerieAbena
      @ValerieAbena 7 лет назад +159

      Bethy Rose I know people's minds change but you don't go into a relationship/marriage hoping your partner will change their mind on children. That's one of the top reasons why couples split up

    • @hayaglamazonluxe
      @hayaglamazonluxe 6 лет назад +23

      Sade said not right now, not that she won't consider it

    • @derryair9419
      @derryair9419 6 лет назад +18

      She said it's not, NOT an option, maybe at a later date when she's more ready. Miscommunication was the problem here

    • @funnymcallister
      @funnymcallister 6 лет назад +3

      *coughs
      SANVERS

  • @pt8793
    @pt8793 7 лет назад +2085

    wait.. I grew up watching Sade on Yotv,SABC 1😱😁 .Any fellow South Africans?

    • @romydamons9351
      @romydamons9351 7 лет назад +228

      phaphama mya tsolekile like why does Sade suddenly have some sort of British accent?

    • @janeprinsloo6673
      @janeprinsloo6673 7 лет назад +34

      Romy Damons because she lives there now

    • @romydamons9351
      @romydamons9351 7 лет назад +97

      But her accent drastically changed very quickly

    • @janeprinsloo6673
      @janeprinsloo6673 7 лет назад +66

      Romy Damons Some people pick up on accents quicker than others. It happens.

    • @lelengema814
      @lelengema814 7 лет назад +26

      how long has she been abroad kanti? 😒

  • @jrose9755
    @jrose9755 4 года назад +223

    Me, a straight male, crying over this incredibly powerful moment! All the best ladies; I hope you've made up!

    • @Kizdo69
      @Kizdo69 4 года назад +5

      You’re not straight

    • @AtrolinK
      @AtrolinK 4 года назад +26

      @@Kizdo69 Yes he is, and so am i, and this got me crying as well.

    • @Kizdo69
      @Kizdo69 4 года назад +2

      @AtrolinK then you are not straight also

    • @CCubes88
      @CCubes88 4 года назад +16

      Knightmare PylosPK Ok alpha male lmao

    • @Chrispd2005
      @Chrispd2005 4 года назад +2

      Bro, you never like pussy or have kids. I agree with kk. Bro you gay. Mannerisms of gay man crying watching gays.

  • @Klapaocious77
    @Klapaocious77 5 лет назад +80

    The way she said “If you’ll have me back” at 6:04 is so charming!
    My heart feels full. ❤️

    • @xxyes8879
      @xxyes8879 2 года назад

      I thought 'No! Don't say that!'...it makes her seem too insecure and desperate which just ain't attractive

  • @cloudedzeus
    @cloudedzeus 7 лет назад +983

    3:13 when her eyes lit up 😍😍😍

    • @julianazhou1403
      @julianazhou1403 7 лет назад +18

      CloudyHD I just melted

    • @Thammarith
      @Thammarith 7 лет назад +31

      her eyes are so beautiful

    • @NotExplicable
      @NotExplicable 6 лет назад +9

      I cried 😭

    • @Whimswirl
      @Whimswirl 6 лет назад +4

      Ichimar486 same😭

    • @karikareh6018
      @karikareh6018 6 лет назад +21

      And the way she looked at her after that... It's like it dawned on her afresh that she really loves this woman; she found her why. Oh my 😍... I LOVE LOVE!

  • @thehoneyeffect
    @thehoneyeffect 7 лет назад +126

    This is a grown ass conversation

  • @MurrayMintyMe
    @MurrayMintyMe 7 лет назад +330

    OMG, this is like a movie or something. That was so beautiful. I had tears in my eyes from the moment she said those lovely things about wanting a family with her. I am dead.

    • @sarahmichelle6385
      @sarahmichelle6385 6 лет назад +2

      i know, i am crying.

    • @naomiafandi3299
      @naomiafandi3299 5 лет назад

      MurrayMintyMe h

    • @EmmyKhan
      @EmmyKhan 5 лет назад +1

      I WAS CRYING TOO

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @SCAVULLO
    @SCAVULLO 5 лет назад +101

    I cried when they went about the “her over children” And I’m a guy.

    • @Techbros53
      @Techbros53 4 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dorcin.m3018
      @dorcin.m3018 4 года назад +12

      Guys have feelings too its a natural human instinct

  • @SoulFullOfMusic81
    @SoulFullOfMusic81 5 лет назад +180

    I would never be able to eat, while having this heavy conversation.

    • @ramonanaya6236
      @ramonanaya6236 4 года назад +6

      Same I'd be dripping and crying everywhere

    • @louellarobertson8074
      @louellarobertson8074 4 года назад +1

      I know huh...

    • @butterpecanrican_
      @butterpecanrican_ 4 года назад +2

      You know what I'm saying? lol

    • @LilBafta
      @LilBafta 4 года назад +2

      My stomach closes at the mere suggestion of anxiety! Depression on the other hand... 🙄

    • @cassie1560
      @cassie1560 3 года назад

      honestly, sometimes it's good to "chew" over something and think things over and see what you have in common, when you eat the same things and share with each other

  • @tulinbeyduz920
    @tulinbeyduz920 7 лет назад +1332

    My aunts biggest regret was marrying a man that didn't want children . They split after 25 years together . Her biggest regret is choosing a partner over having children . Now she has no husband and no kids . I'd never sacrifice having children ...

    • @Sunflowers9191
      @Sunflowers9191 6 лет назад +93

      tuley bee No me neither. No matter how much I love someone, if they don’t want a child I couldn’t be with them.

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 6 лет назад +73

      That is why I did leave my ex fiance. He really wanted kids and kept pretending whenever I was about to give up like he ould maybe change while I knew he simoly was hoping for me to change my mind. But I knew I didn‘t and I know now he still misses me every day so it is hard to stay stromg and not give in. But I know by the bottom of my heart he would have felt just like your aunt down the lime even if we never split up. Having kids does simply change everything. It‘s chosing between 2 completely different ways of living and picking one means not living the other version

    • @ChooseU4ever
      @ChooseU4ever 6 лет назад +16

      tuley bee I would never choose anyone over having children.

    • @daisyvono
      @daisyvono 6 лет назад

      🙈🤣

    • @rycbar12345
      @rycbar12345 6 лет назад +58

      You don‘t get together with someone if they do or don’t want kids.. Kids should come from the relationship and from the love of two people..

  • @tamdoll3823
    @tamdoll3823 7 лет назад +350

    I feel like they have only been broken up for a week

    • @willnash5950
      @willnash5950 7 лет назад +36

      Beauty E they broke up for 2 months

    • @ryanroberts2598
      @ryanroberts2598 7 лет назад +18

      It's been a couple weeks for me and my girlfriend.. I want her back:( but she wouldn't communicate. Just wanna love her again💔

    • @tiffanywhite6736
      @tiffanywhite6736 7 лет назад +8

      Trinity Renée Roberts awhh damn bro, you hurt me in my feels. Good luck with who ever gets your love

    • @ryanroberts2598
      @ryanroberts2598 7 лет назад +17

      Tiffany White thank you. Weirdest thing.. after I wrote that comment she called my phone and it was an amazing conversation. Not together but friends. Thank You

    • @jacobyuri779
      @jacobyuri779 5 лет назад

      Trinity Renée Roberts how’s it going?

  • @1986shereen
    @1986shereen 7 лет назад +875

    The reason i want kids is because i want it with u.i hope they get back together

    • @die_moehre5658
      @die_moehre5658 7 лет назад +28

      shereen they got together again

    • @tammy1071
      @tammy1071 7 лет назад +7

      shereen with the way that girl was giving her serious bedroom eyes, i would goddamn hope so.

    • @1986shereen
      @1986shereen 7 лет назад

      die_moehre aww thats good .☺

    • @1986shereen
      @1986shereen 7 лет назад +19

      honestly trash lol true .i wish a man will look at my that way😂😂😂

    • @TRILLG9
      @TRILLG9 7 лет назад

      then you would call him pervert

  • @MmmMulholland
    @MmmMulholland 6 лет назад +375

    YES, absolutely ditch someone if they do not want the same things as you. No matter what. Take it from someone who was in a 15 year relationship from 20-35 and has nothing to show for it but debt and dying ovaries.
    You can be 100% in love with them and they can be a beautiful person as wonderful to be with etc, but trust me - IF 👏 YOU 👏 DON’T 👏 WANT 👏 THE 👏 SAME 👏 THINGS 👏 IT 👏 IS 👏 A 👏 MISTAKE 👏 TO 🤝 CARRY 👏 ON. End of. Don’t compromise on the things important to you. EVER. You will be left with animosity that will grow into anger and it will end anyway. You may be left with nothing but rotting ovaries, just like me.

    • @tiffanys6747
      @tiffanys6747 5 лет назад +9

      Melanie H wow

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад +1

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @laputauk
      @laputauk 5 лет назад +1

      Spot on!

    • @successfulpsychology4393
      @successfulpsychology4393 5 лет назад +16

      Melanie H sorry to hear you have been through so much. Sounds like you would love kids. Don’t give up- society tells us that our ovaries are useless in our 30s... it’s based on outdated research. I had my babies in my late 30s and they are healthy and awesome. Good luck my friend :-)
      (Ps I was single age 30-35 and felt having kids was impossible. I was wrong)

    • @zaysay5422
      @zaysay5422 4 года назад

      Woah

  • @ChewingGum113
    @ChewingGum113 6 лет назад +6

    I cried when Faye said she would choose Sade over kids.... it's her honest answer and shows how much they love each other....I'm so happy they are together, their love is so beautiful!!

  • @cuterthaneva101
    @cuterthaneva101 7 лет назад +1879

    This is the best one so far

    • @nneka81
      @nneka81 6 лет назад +9

      her answer was sooo authentic and honest....

    • @NewYoricanChic
      @NewYoricanChic 6 лет назад

      cuterthaneva101 FACTS

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @dylanjones9354
      @dylanjones9354 3 года назад

      @@jessicanewman4956 That is both illegal, highly immature and frightening to hack someone's personal device, let alone advertising it. I hope the guy you are with left you for being a control freak like that. If you are that paranoid then just be single and be done with it or sort out your own mental issues before getting into a relationship.

  • @deliberatelypositive5812
    @deliberatelypositive5812 7 лет назад +256

    Aww.. her eyes lit up when she walked in. Haven't finished watching, but I'm predicting they are gonna get back together cause that's love right there.

    • @deliberatelypositive5812
      @deliberatelypositive5812 7 лет назад +3

      yep. called it. :D

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 6 лет назад +1

      Nope you read other comments

    • @deliberatelypositive5812
      @deliberatelypositive5812 6 лет назад +8

      False. I'm actually a lesbian and I have looked at someone I love that way who I never fully fell out of love with- hoping it could be worked through and re-kindled. I was rejoicing in that.

  • @elrobins5989
    @elrobins5989 6 лет назад +112

    “You’re not difficult to be with, you’re difficult to argue with” ❤️

  • @lindz3695
    @lindz3695 4 года назад +117

    Why am I only seeing this now????? In 2020 hle🤷🏾‍♀️ ...... Sade 😊....Sending my 'fan' love from South Africa.

    • @soukazurich2434
      @soukazurich2434 4 года назад +1

      Am seeing that on May 2020 sooo you re not only here :)

    • @lindz3695
      @lindz3695 4 года назад +1

      @@soukazurich2434 😂😂😂

    • @soukazurich2434
      @soukazurich2434 4 года назад

      @@lindz3695 😂🥰

  • @thandiwemaphanga1205
    @thandiwemaphanga1205 5 лет назад +36

    Sade from YOTV 😃🤩 I'm so happy I ran into this video. Sade is SA national treasure 🇿🇦

  • @s.sally.368
    @s.sally.368 7 лет назад +477

    I HAVE MASCARA ON HOW DARE YOU

    • @NotExplicable
      @NotExplicable 6 лет назад +2

      Sarah Monique SAKNI 😭😭😭

    • @AR-bl4mp
      @AR-bl4mp 5 лет назад

      get a grip

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @teabooks2291
      @teabooks2291 5 лет назад +1

      😂

    • @msshay0933
      @msshay0933 4 года назад

      Get waterproof Hun 🤣🤣

  • @thulasmads9229
    @thulasmads9229 6 лет назад +286

    Wow! This moved me and actually made think about my current relationship. Communication is vital in a relationship, I need to call my girl tomorrow, we have to talk. I'm glad I bumped into this.

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @Sacred_Heart333
      @Sacred_Heart333 5 лет назад +7

      Thulas Mads Hope you and your gf are still together✨🙏🏾✨

    • @kirbkirbpoyo3623
      @kirbkirbpoyo3623 4 года назад +4

      @@jessicanewman4956 sounds legit

    • @Liverpoolboy01
      @Liverpoolboy01 4 года назад

      Victoria J if there are doubts, and want to hack a photo, where is the trust!

    • @nothingtm7355
      @nothingtm7355 4 года назад +1

      @@jessicanewman4956 df this is fucked up u should talk with him not spy on him

  • @neomdluli7186
    @neomdluli7186 7 лет назад +431

    SADE!! SADE!!! SADE!! 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
    Listen👏🏿
    All 90's South African kids grew up watching her!! Like she's on BBC 3!! WTF!!
    I always knew she was gay.. I love u Sade!

    • @bongekandwandwe5205
      @bongekandwandwe5205 6 лет назад

      Nami shem

    • @tshepomofoti4558
      @tshepomofoti4558 5 лет назад +7

      It's sad that she had to go somewhere for her to be accepted as a gay person . We need to evaluate ourselves as South Africans . We are free . We live in a democrac country where everyone is allowed to be who they want to be , so why should there be an exception for gay people ? . I believe we lost her to Britain because of the mistakes we have made over the past years

    • @nosizwemasiza740
      @nosizwemasiza740 5 лет назад

      BROWN.DONUT

    • @mbalifrans3510
      @mbalifrans3510 5 лет назад +1

      I love her

  • @setshwaneng
    @setshwaneng 3 года назад +11

    I feel like this is one of those sad one sided relationships ... She changed her hair, she needs to get over her "jealousy issues", she needs to sacrifice having kids to keep the relationship. They're both good people but I dont feel like they are for each other.

  • @BLUEBERRYBOO
    @BLUEBERRYBOO 4 года назад +43

    This was so pure they clearly still love each other so much 🥺

  • @takundataderera8539
    @takundataderera8539 7 лет назад +276

    i grew up watching Sade..i miss seeing her in her element....and this is the sweetest dinner iv watched on this series.. happy for you both

    • @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147
      @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147 7 лет назад +2

      Takunda Taderera do u know her social media acc??

    • @takundataderera8539
      @takundataderera8539 7 лет назад +1

      just instagram its onesadie

    • @elliotleon1877
      @elliotleon1877 7 лет назад +1

      They have a joint one @chainsdigitalmedia

    • @sarah-leepretorius5465
      @sarah-leepretorius5465 7 лет назад

      I knew I knew her from somewhere!

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @MoniqueRoux
    @MoniqueRoux 7 лет назад +567

    i remember Sade from South African kids tv shows. These two are so CUTE

  • @thomasf.lukegilbane9291
    @thomasf.lukegilbane9291 7 лет назад +296

    2:42 is when things got so real between them ,I' can literally feel their emotions

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @clear21light87
    @clear21light87 5 лет назад +7

    Awesome moment when Sade likes how she looks and greets her so warmly, awesome moment when Faye is so honest about her jealous feelings, awesome moment when Sade apologizes from the heart, awesome moment when Faye says she would choose Sade over kids (if she had to) & you realize 'this girl really loves you Sade,' awesome moment when you realize Sade loves her too. Awesome when they give each other another chance.

  • @ntsoakimotapanyane5689
    @ntsoakimotapanyane5689 4 года назад +38

    Oh my word I didn't realise that it as Sade a South African child star🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

    • @Sousza1
      @Sousza1 4 года назад +3

      Ntsoaki Motapanyane lols she’s British now. Cava the accent

  • @lu_be_lurking
    @lu_be_lurking 7 лет назад +159

    When you click because you think you see Sade from YOTV and booom bam, you're right... #southafrican

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

    • @maboroamaruma574
      @maboroamaruma574 5 лет назад +4

      Bruh she must just come back home😂

    • @malebomohatli9964
      @malebomohatli9964 5 лет назад +4

      With an English accent

    • @Shaz_Caz
      @Shaz_Caz 5 лет назад +1

      Same!

    • @Nolooo
      @Nolooo 5 лет назад +1

      😂😂😂😂 she has a British accent. I feel betrayed 😂😂😂

  • @valeriebanks8877
    @valeriebanks8877 7 лет назад +96

    This proves that Love is Love. It doesn't matter what race, background, religion , or gender you chose to love . This is so beautiful and I wish they can work out their differences and continue to grow and move on together ❤️

  • @sambatchelor4031
    @sambatchelor4031 7 лет назад +66

    When will people learn that all jealousy, worry and all this does is make a situation worse, if you care for someone you don't need to do any of that

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @lindelwangwenya
    @lindelwangwenya 5 лет назад +28

    Sade!! We miss you in South Africa 🇿🇦 💕💕💕

  • @flowergirl4772
    @flowergirl4772 5 лет назад +544

    Ironic that the episode with no males was the most genuine one

    • @argenaS
      @argenaS 5 лет назад +14

      That made me giggle XD

    • @joannot6706
      @joannot6706 5 лет назад +30

      How is it ironic? woman aren't supposed to be as genuine as man? Why would you say something so sexist?

    • @joannot6706
      @joannot6706 5 лет назад +6

      Besides, doesn't seem genuine when she says, "without a doubt" when she takes 10 full seconds of doubt to answer the damn question.
      Bottom line girl, don't be sexist.

    • @quirkynugget9626
      @quirkynugget9626 4 года назад +10

      Joannot someone’s been triggered

    • @cgzmn7
      @cgzmn7 4 года назад +2

      And she actually noticed she changed her hair!!! And they were both very honest.

  • @JuiceMyRandomness
    @JuiceMyRandomness 7 лет назад +484

    this was such a roller-coaster

    • @valtersen559
      @valtersen559 7 лет назад +54

      Iqbal Mohamed they are both woman.

    • @AR-bl4mp
      @AR-bl4mp 5 лет назад

      get a grip then

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @kristenwalker9302
    @kristenwalker9302 7 лет назад +381

    I want cheesecake so bad right now

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147
    @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147 7 лет назад +1061

    They're so cute 😍 .i hope they will last long and maybe have a family 😊

    • @willnash5950
      @willnash5950 7 лет назад +5

      I'm also queer i hope they work

    • @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147
      @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147 7 лет назад +8

      Will Nash me too it seem like they really love each other 😍 i want to follow their journey 😁

    • @willnash5950
      @willnash5950 7 лет назад +2

      I'm also queer i agree

    • @willnash5950
      @willnash5950 7 лет назад +9

      Iqbal Mohamed you need to use your brain at sometime

    • @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147
      @fuckyouhomophobicasshole6147 7 лет назад +4

      Iqbal Mohamed gosh .technology man!! Like adoption. Ivf insemination., or they will ask for a sperm donor to impregnate the other woman .. So one of them is biological mother and the other can be the surrogate mother ..

  • @sanelexpxulu3240
    @sanelexpxulu3240 4 года назад +26

    cant i just find someone and we love each other like this.

  • @nokulungancube1334
    @nokulungancube1334 4 года назад +4

    The look she gave Faye when she said "without a doubt". ♥️♥️

  • @yeracontra
    @yeracontra 7 лет назад +275

    PLOT 👏 TWIST 👏

    • @lafewasentertainment8226
      @lafewasentertainment8226 6 лет назад +1

      Catherine Christanti what I was thinking 😹

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @nzungu7773
    @nzungu7773 7 лет назад +43

    Grew up watching Sade back in South Africa. It's good to see her again.

  • @campbellsoup8798
    @campbellsoup8798 7 лет назад +1408

    i only watched cause its gay

  • @backpacker3397
    @backpacker3397 5 лет назад +47

    Is anyone cutting onions in here.. Cz I swear I'm not crying🤧🤧

  • @brightesthell117
    @brightesthell117 6 лет назад +2

    "The reason I want kids is to have a family with you."
    I felt that so fucking much...

  • @Jobe-13
    @Jobe-13 7 лет назад +16

    Jealousy comes from pride. Pride will be the death of any relationship.

  • @CruellaDeVil.
    @CruellaDeVil. 7 лет назад +26

    the moment I saw the reaction to what she said about choosing her over children I knew they were getting back together

  • @black76561
    @black76561 7 лет назад +81

    This was beautiful to watch

  • @tshepomofoti4558
    @tshepomofoti4558 5 лет назад +113

    It's sad that she had to go somewhere for her to be accepted as a gay person . We need to evaluate ourselves as South Africans . We are free . We live in a democrac country where everyone is allowed to be who they want to be , so why should there be an exception for gay people ? . I believe we lost her to Britain because of the mistakes we have made over the past years . Fam please stop breaking other's children's heart and return home 🇿🇦🇿🇦to entertain us again . SA television is not the same without you . We will come fetch you with Khumbulekhaya ke ya o jwetsa .

    • @meriamlitabe9359
      @meriamlitabe9359 4 года назад +8

      Bathong, maybe the girl just wanted to move she isn't the first and won't be the last. people from all over the world relocate all the time. Re ntshe modilong rona, tjo!

    • @blessedforever2999
      @blessedforever2999 4 года назад +2

      You had me all emo until the last sentence 😂😂😂😂 Khumbulekhaya!!!!🙌😂😂😂

    • @eudyjames490
      @eudyjames490 3 года назад +2

      Same sex marriage is legal in South Africa, stop misleading people, and stop including us in your homophobic drama.

    • @tshepomofoti4558
      @tshepomofoti4558 3 года назад +3

      @@eudyjames490 oh you are right . Legally we've done the right but do know the reality or lesbian people in many places in the country ? They still being mistreated . They are still not accept .

    • @tshepomofoti4558
      @tshepomofoti4558 3 года назад +1

      @Hloni * apartheid end over 20 years ago but there still sentiments that we live in a country where there are racist . Yes same marriage is allowed in South Africa but lesbians are still not tolerated by a lot of South Africa males .

  • @jennzyram9946
    @jennzyram9946 5 лет назад +1

    I loved the intro for the way the girl hugged her when they saw each other again, it was that soft gentle “I care about you” hug I could tell she still had a thing for her ❤️

  • @pmplessie
    @pmplessie 7 лет назад +107

    😳 Sade Giliberti from Yotv days ❤️

  • @wandilebiyana682
    @wandilebiyana682 7 лет назад +150

    WOW, Sade Giliberti? Whoa!!! She seems so different, even her accent is different.

    • @blackrose4198
      @blackrose4198 7 лет назад +3

      Wandile Biyana 😂

    • @pearlypops813
      @pearlypops813 7 лет назад +6

      Wandile Biyana I thought I was the only one hearing an accent......where is she based nw?

    • @wandilebiyana682
      @wandilebiyana682 7 лет назад +2

      I believe in the UK, but I'm unsure.

    • @stephmashtakadi9932
      @stephmashtakadi9932 7 лет назад

      Oh she left South Africa?

    • @wandilebiyana682
      @wandilebiyana682 6 лет назад +1

      Yes, Sade is a well-known presenter in South Africa. She was on a popular kiddies show, and later did 'So You Think You Can Dance', essentially she was one of my favourite presenters as a kid. I wonder if she will ever come back to S.A.? But yeah that's the short version of her story I guess

  • @Lenseyesify
    @Lenseyesify 7 лет назад +21

    The emotions and passionate is truly there. The light when they stare at each other is just pure! Favourite one by far. 💙

  • @elearias6330
    @elearias6330 5 лет назад +7

    To choose you over kids, that say a lots of her. She’s the best person, cuz when you love, what you craved is to have the replica of the person you love. And love the lil one, cuz is the continuation of that fantastic and beautiful love....

  • @dwtbb00
    @dwtbb00 5 лет назад +45

    It’s been nearly two years since this, I wonder if they’re still together and if children are a potential future.

    • @justhuman7335
      @justhuman7335 5 лет назад +35

      Yes they are still together😊

    • @gosiame1
      @gosiame1 5 лет назад +47

      they got married!

    • @nerdyowl3407
      @nerdyowl3407 5 лет назад +13

      Yes to this date they are still together. But they haven't had any children yet. Probably someday they will when both of them will find the right mindset for a kid. But most importantly they are very happy with each other and very much in love. This love is what is keeping them together happily despite of different choices and wishes.
      They are one of my favorite couples that I learn a lot from. I hope we all will find someone to share this kind of unconditional love with.

    • @sharadaramachandran7428
      @sharadaramachandran7428 4 года назад +9

      @@nerdyowl3407 I bumped into this video today and I m glad to read that they are together and married..!!

    • @nerdyowl3407
      @nerdyowl3407 4 года назад +5

      @@sharadaramachandran7428 It's really amazing to see the couples we admire happy together years after years....

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 лет назад +7

    Oh you two made me cry Sade. When I saw the title, I know it would be a very interesting story, so no hesitation, I clicked it. And my expectation was right. This video is so intense and full of emotions. When Faye answered YES to that question, my tears just burst out and won't stop until the last part. I also agree that it is fundamental that you embrace each other's differences for the relationship to last.

  • @lrose662
    @lrose662 7 лет назад +34

    Sade fell back in love after her first question lol

  • @Chloe-yh5cm
    @Chloe-yh5cm 7 лет назад +9

    Oh my god I'm getting goose bumps and I'm gonna cry. More real people like this couple please!

  • @turnippoppy4662
    @turnippoppy4662 6 лет назад +13

    I can see them married and with a couple of babies in like 10 years. BC she said she wasn't ready right now but 10 years is a lot of time to grow. Best woahes for them.

  • @nessa8459
    @nessa8459 5 лет назад +4

    I haven't seen too many episodes, but this was the first time I saw where the couples love was genuine, Real cool😏 Good for them

  • @GianyGeorgianAnthony
    @GianyGeorgianAnthony 7 лет назад +171

    MY HEART, right in the feels

    • @AR-bl4mp
      @AR-bl4mp 5 лет назад

      get a grip

    • @jessicanewman4956
      @jessicanewman4956 5 лет назад

      If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp +1 518 290 0093 or send him an email cyberhackpros@gmail.com you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

  • @pinkinthenight
    @pinkinthenight 7 лет назад +37

    *is scrolling through youtube *
    *sees Sade in a thumbnail and is hit with childhood feels *

  • @aprilleann9245
    @aprilleann9245 3 года назад +4

    This has absolutely been my favorite episode this far. It is beyond evident that these two are head over heals in love with each other, you can see it just by the way they look at one and other. This is definitely a happily ever after 🥰💕🌺🌹❤️🦋

  • @gosiame1
    @gosiame1 5 лет назад +26

    if my ex and i argued like this, we would still be together.

  • @Mawzeen
    @Mawzeen 5 лет назад +3

    They are actually well spoken it's refreshing and self-aware.

  • @Carmensidea
    @Carmensidea 6 лет назад +21

    I’m dying for this kind of relationship. Where’s my wife at ?!!! 😭😭😭😭

  • @mokgadimatli2246
    @mokgadimatli2246 4 года назад +18

    Sade has an accent now 😆 y'all made a gorgeous couple ❤

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 7 лет назад +4

    Misunderstanding and conflicts in a relationship makes the relationship strong , and if couples do undergo this kind of situation I think it's better to give time to each other to think more before deciding anything. Congrats to the both of you I'm glad you still end up choosing to stay and love each other.

  • @taylorduvernay9789
    @taylorduvernay9789 3 года назад

    Sade giving her that South African charming look after the kids conversation. Love ❤❤❤❤

  • @thatsprettygood9435
    @thatsprettygood9435 5 лет назад +1

    There is so much communication and actually talking to each other. Accepting what you did was wrong and stuff like that. Compared to the ones with guys and girls- this is so much more supportive and better.

  • @missmammamia
    @missmammamia 7 лет назад +13

    They are a lovely couple I see that they still love each other you can tell in their eyes. Eyes don't lie. I'm glad they made up made me go aww #LoveisPower

  • @pinknightmare7467
    @pinknightmare7467 7 лет назад +8

    This one got me!! I've seen all episodes before this one and they're good, but UGH! The feels!

  • @rai_dee5881
    @rai_dee5881 4 года назад +7

    It melt my heart about the kids issue. I hope I can find someone like Faye.. I pray to God. 🙏🏻

  • @tuyetvo736
    @tuyetvo736 4 года назад +1

    why almost people saying bad things about each other after breaking up. We used to love each other and then become strangers, so our feelings were LIE in that time???
    This couple made me think a different, more optimistic
    I'm so HAPPY for you two and be HAPPY FOREVER.

  • @tartanhandbag
    @tartanhandbag 4 года назад +1

    omg, Sade's face when Faye walked in just choked me up. just to see someone melt like that, all the features become soft. pure emotion.

  • @Lifebydesignvlogs
    @Lifebydesignvlogs 7 лет назад +135

    Give it 2 months.. They will break up again .... Because she still want kids.

  • @lolo_z
    @lolo_z 7 лет назад +66

    OMG Sadé ! I grew up watching her and Cece, Psyfo, Carlie etv

  • @Lllllllll413
    @Lllllllll413 7 лет назад +27

    they are so sweet i love love love love them this is the best episobe so far

  • @achujamiseh9496
    @achujamiseh9496 5 лет назад +1

    The way Sade was looking at Faye when she was done explaining why she wanted kids was just beautiful I think☺️. U could tell she wasn't expecting that answer

  • @DanielleT192
    @DanielleT192 5 лет назад +1

    Aww this gave me so much happy tears 😭. I think some people breaking up, gaining a higher understanding and perspective of what went wrong can make a huge difference. Some people, if they broke up and ever met again, couldn't fight past their differences but for this couple, you can tell they probably needed this break to actually think of what went wrong and how they can work on things together.

  • @brooked9785
    @brooked9785 7 лет назад +9

    oh my gosh!! her face when the blond lady says she'd chose her over children! heart is melting!! :')

  • @carleythomas7478
    @carleythomas7478 7 лет назад +25

    ,aww they're so cute...make a lovely couple... Hope they can work things out x

  • @davidhues1304
    @davidhues1304 7 лет назад +4

    0:28 How did Sade get an English accent after living there for a year 😂?! Still good to see YoTv people still around!

  • @sinnaaah
    @sinnaaah 6 лет назад +2

    Oh my god, this really hit home for me. My ex girlfriend and I also felt differently about having kids - her wanting them and having such a strong maternal instinct and me just feeling so so unsure. Gosh, and the way Sade’s (thanks to the commenters for giving her make) eyes lit up when the blonde woman said she’d pick her over children. Wow. It reminded me of how much I miss my own ex, how I always saw our future together

  • @namjooniekim5374
    @namjooniekim5374 4 года назад +3

    Wow. This kind of content make me feel good. They just needed a deep conversation. That's it. ❤️

  • @renwarrenp5097
    @renwarrenp5097 6 лет назад +11

    Oh my heart dawg, my little gay heart😆 I cried, this was cute and so beautiful! I did not expect that❤❤🌈⚢💯

  • @shannonrogers4462
    @shannonrogers4462 5 лет назад +8

    I don't get why the food is there. It's a distraction. "Drinking with my ex" sounds just as good to me..

  • @justiceerimjunior3949
    @justiceerimjunior3949 5 лет назад +4

    I just malted when she said the reason i want kids is having a family with you 😥😥

  • @brandiemickle9493
    @brandiemickle9493 3 года назад +2

    Just two people who dont want to give up on each other. So beautiful. ❤️💖

  • @exoxbtsxtxtlover6328
    @exoxbtsxtxtlover6328 6 лет назад +1

    One of the cutest and most sweetest couples on this show my poor heart can’t take this much love