yep, same.. had NO CLUE what was really going on.. and here I am decades later in this situation 😑 ain't nobody got time for that.. I'll sing the song, but I ain't sleeping with nobody's husband FOH.. folks done lost their damn minds.
The young People will never get a chance to experience Music from our Era 80’s -90’s watching Donnie Simpson on BET jamming to these classics as young kids and teenagers ❤❤
I don't know why this song came to mind. But I love it. This song is pretty much saying: Have some SELF RESPECT LADIES, just because it feels right its not right. If he's not yours don't do it. Especially if he's not your HUSBAND. . .
Men need self respect as well both can be deceiving but in the end if true love is there some1 will get hurt if they can't admit their wrong doing. Some Men don't say hey I am married they want their cake and eat it too no 1 should do it but it happens
SHIRLEY IS A PRETTY SISTA AND ALSO HAS A BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT ....SHE IS A BEAST WHEN IT COMES TO DELIVERING A SONG.......HER LYRICS GIVE U FOOD FOR THOUGHT. HER MELODY STIRS THE SOUL..
I miss the days of shirley murdock . The woman's voice will send chills up your spine. Just an all together lady. Some of songs would bring tears to your eyes. Also she reminds me of another beautiful lady, Patti labelle. Both of those ladies get me going.Woo!" But I just want to say, thank you Shirley for the memories. May God bless and keep you as you prosper with God. ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
The end of the intro at :08 sounds like a snip from the hymn "let all mortal flesh keep silence" As a married man that gets tempted often, the message in this speaks volumes and you can't get past the way GOD is using her in this song.
I swear this is one of my favorite songs! Even though I'm young, I've been in the same situation before. But I kept it classy and let him go on about his business as soon as I found out he was married
I still like her "secular" music the best. You can't beat her two albums that Roger Troutman produced. "No More" was great, "Somethin' For Nothin'" was very cool. Her vocal arrangements were also really great. There are lots of great gospel singers around, but I miss her funk and soul songs.
I'm 22yo this song is so out of my age group but I heard it about 8 years ago for the first time. fell in love with her now I just found it after looking for this song so hard.
I love this song reminds me of my son Dad he passed away on 9-7-23 and I still love and miss him so much he wasn't no one's husband but he was pose to be mine and now I live in pain but I love you baby r.i.H ❤❤❤❤❤and no he wasn't married we both like the song❤❤
You satisfied a real desire in me without apologies. I still have those needs. But I'm a lady with class, And I know my desire will pass, Since you might have guessed. Because you are her husband. My desire for you is strong, And I won't do wrong, 'Cause I know in my heart that you are her husband. I know, I know you are her husband. That's why I got to let you go. Desire says I should, but I say no. I say no
I did not know that Roger Troutman did this for Miss Shirley Murdock, and I remember this classic, and timeless jam, and all of her songs really says a good, and real profound message
love her passion!! I can watch her sing all day lol.. she goes IN!!! this is back when artists, songs, videos, etc were so good!!! man.. miss those days..
One Of Our Generations Greatest Voices. This Is Classic. And Check Out The Neckwork around 2:17. Shirley Was Meaning Every Single Word. #VocalExcellence101
I use to stand in mothers big mirror that hung over the sofa and sing this song with that neck move and facial expressions as a 13 years old 😂😂 Thought I was Shirley and lets not forget that jumpn too
I don't thank that's weave! That her real hair! Back then our moms took care of the girls hair by washing it and braiding it so it would be long and healthy. It's not like that now. But you go ahead and rock the weave tho babe. Whatever makes you like good. I love the weave to in our sista's
this song teaches you the difference between a Lady and a Woman! Shirley sung about being a Lady, (Respects herself to do the right thing by letting him go). A Woman would have been selfish with no morals nor self respect (therefore she wouldn't respect others), and kept seeing the married man! There IS a difference in being a Lady and being a Woman! 💜
Lil Mo remade this song and she did her thang!!! I didn't know about this song until I looked it up. I love both versions. Shirley music is timeless! As We Lay is my favorite song.
If more women thought like this, had morals when they found out about these trifling men...then we could raise our standards and get men to be more responsible.
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Shirley say she dont need no backup singers, she'll do it herself!!! LoL
RIGHT👍🏽
Lmfao!!! U hear me!
She did!
And she doesn't!!
🤣. Ok!! She said she want the job done RIGHT 👏🏾!!
this wasn't music.. this was Therapy!!!!!
Yes it was
sei
listen here!! 🙌🙌🙌
Husband
Michael Lynch Not "JUST" music!!
This song told the story of a woman who fell in love with a lier after things didn't add up she respected herself and the wife, ....let the drama go
for real done with dishonesty
I can respect that response 👑✌🏾
@@heavenly5467😢😢😢😢😢😮😢😢😢😢
I sure miss Roger Troutmann's great producing!
Yessir
I never knew but I've never heard anything else like this song and "As We Lay"
Let's NOT Forget @ShirleyMurdock HAVE One OF The Most Wonderful, Strongest Voices OF All Times Period🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💙💚💖💖🥰🥳💋😍🤩😊☺️🖤🤎💜🤍♥️🧡❤️💛
My mom use to play this on repeat. Now I’m playing it on repeat!
Is that right?
Ain't nobody blowing like Shirley,can we get back to Real Music,Please?
That'll never happen. Those pipes were a gift from our Great Carpenter. There's only a selected few that have that gift. Can I get an Amen?
Sherman Burns Jr. Epitmea of soul love you Shirley
Maybe 1 or 2 today
so so true she can blow
This song was the truth in the 80s! Still holds up!
She said a mouthful. She's incredible.
It's the message in this song 🎵 Don't be a fool for someone's man. God ain't gonna give you somebody's husband.
Absolutely 💯
"Decency prevails and it won't let me keep you." Adultery doesn't always have to win.
I was like 13 singing this damn song... I had no idea what she was talking about.. but I loveeddd her voice.
hope mcgill I know I had no idea what she was talking about...then
Big Facts!!!💯 I was like 8, but this was my KNOCK!
yep, same.. had NO CLUE what was really going on.. and here I am decades later in this situation 😑 ain't nobody got time for that.. I'll sing the song, but I ain't sleeping with nobody's husband FOH.. folks done lost their damn minds.
Girl me too, I just liked singing. Lol
I wasn't that young but as I sang it I realized what she was singing about.. need to Tik Tok to this song
The young People will never get a chance to experience Music from our Era 80’s -90’s watching Donnie Simpson on BET jamming to these classics as young kids and teenagers ❤❤
I'm so happy that one of my teen daughters loves the R&B music I grew up on.
Video soul😊
1988... Back when women had morals, and no meant NO. #PreachShirley
J Miller amen
Some Did!!!!😥
I'm waaaaay late, but what do you think of " As we lay" though ? 😅😅
Men respected women and one refusal was enough.
@@pnewman7279 was about to say this lol
Shoulder pads were real serious in the 80's.
I got a linen suit jacket 🧥 with "Dynasty-era" in my closet now & I dare some1 2 dare me not to pull out and rock to THIS 👇🏾 day!!
Yes they were!!!
Shirley, Vesta, Melissa Morgan, and Annita Baker, Oh Baby the Soulful Top Notch Music, Priceless Female Singers, a Trillion Thumbs Up!
Desire says I should but I say no... now that's real class
forreal
‘But I’m a lady with class, and I know my desire will pass’ - Drops mic 🎤 🔥🔥🔥 And to think that MEN wrote this song!😮💫
I've always loved how this ladies' voice fills the room.
She don't get enough credits .She s the truth !!!!!
I don't know why this song came to mind. But I love it. This song is pretty much saying: Have some SELF RESPECT LADIES, just because it feels right its not right. If he's not yours don't do it. Especially if he's not your HUSBAND. . .
AMEN!!!! BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT HE'S SOMEONE HUSBAND. BUT THESE WOMENS TODAY ARE PATHETIC.
Men need self respect as well both can be deceiving but in the end if true love is there some1 will get hurt if they can't admit their wrong doing. Some Men don't say hey I am married they want their cake and eat it too no 1 should do it but it happens
So relevant in 2019
these men are pathetic too!!!
SHIRLEY IS A PRETTY SISTA AND ALSO HAS A BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT ....SHE IS A BEAST WHEN IT COMES TO DELIVERING A SONG.......HER LYRICS GIVE U FOOD FOR THOUGHT.
HER MELODY STIRS THE SOUL..
Don't see how anyone can dislike Shirley's Music
A Woman's Point of View was an excellent album.
Her Unsung brought me here. " I will only be a fool for MY HUSBAND". Gotta to let you, I say no no no no. Yessssss Mrs. Shirley 👏👏👏👂
I'm in love shirley
Shirley Murdock telling the truth and leading and backing up her own songs,
I always thought how interesting it was that she followed up "as we lay" with "husband".She said not again!
I miss the days of shirley murdock . The woman's voice will send chills up your spine. Just an all together lady. Some of songs would bring tears to your eyes. Also she reminds me of another beautiful lady, Patti labelle. Both of those ladies get me going.Woo!" But I just want to say, thank you Shirley for the memories. May God bless and keep you as you prosper with God. ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
This song is timeless!
Agree
Kiss .kiss kiss her. I'm in love
Too old. Dam
Damn it’s been over 30 years! And this shit still goes deep!!!
She sang this song!
Definitely
Unsung brought me here!!!
YESSSSS SHIRLEY SANG BISH!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ok fuuuuuxxx!!
The sin is wrong but the sinner should be loved. Nobody's perfect. I thank God for this song. And the moral it teaches
ll SINS are man made concepts...Btw No such thing as a GOD that exist that punishes a person
Shirley Murdock…. what a TALENT!!!!!
My decency prevails... most side chicks dont have any decency
The end of the intro at :08 sounds like a snip from the hymn "let all mortal flesh keep silence"
As a married man that gets tempted often, the message in this speaks volumes and you can't get past the way GOD is using her in this song.
I swear this is one of my favorite songs! Even though I'm young, I've been in the same situation before. But I kept it classy and let him go on about his business as soon as I found out he was married
GOD bless your soul for honoring marriage the way we all are supposed to!!!
The best of "Side Chick" soul right here!
I love the way she sang the song she was so beautiful
Desire, My body and Mister says I should, but I say No, No, No!...Shirley you told this story honey. 🔥
That voice...love her!!!
I still like her "secular" music the best. You can't beat her two albums that Roger Troutman produced. "No More" was great, "Somethin' For Nothin'" was very cool. Her vocal arrangements were also really great. There are lots of great gospel singers around, but I miss her funk and soul songs.
I didnt know that roger produced this song it's the bomb
I'm 22yo this song is so out of my age group but I heard it about 8 years ago for the first time. fell in love with her now I just found it after looking for this song so hard.
this is my age group... lol..telling my age..lol..but it goes hard don't it?
Shirley is the truth!!
@@laqjacks1 the truth ruth lol
Damn never knew there was a video for this old school joint.. love this song
This should have a billion views already but I guess the sinner is better than the Saint!
March 2019 still my favorite song....when R and B was music
Me too!!
Shes like a much gracefully Countess Vaughn vocals plus a whole lot more umph
Shirley Murdock!!!
Thank you Unsung Mrs. Shirley ooh you SANG THIS SONG!!
I agree. Watching it now😁😁😁
@@zettawilson2236 Yessss 😊
Back when side chicks had a thing called "shame" :)
pHiL Kizer back when "side chics" refused to be a "SIDE CHIC"! THEY are the true Ladies with Self Respect and Class! 💜
pHiL Kizer listen to d song. She refusing to b a side chick.
pHiL Kizer well they don't now
Aman 🙌🙌🙌
That's right!!!!
I didn't know she was the one singing on computer love!!!!
That's my jam😁😎
I didnt know neither she was singing backup on computer love either
I didn’t know that either!😯
Same!! Until I Watched The Unsung!
Me neither until I saw unsung
She has a great voice! I can't think of any (current) major artists who can sing like this.
Nothing can compare to the music we had growing up in the 80's as teenagers and our parents had all the jam's to play, good memories live on💯
The lady in the 80's was so classical beautiful
I love this song reminds me of my son Dad he passed away on 9-7-23 and I still love and miss him so much he wasn't no one's husband but he was pose to be mine and now I live in pain but I love you baby r.i.H ❤❤❤❤❤and no he wasn't married we both like the song❤❤
😢
You satisfied a real desire in me without apologies.
I still have those needs.
But I'm a lady with class,
And I know my desire will pass,
Since you might have guessed.
Because you are her husband.
My desire for you is strong,
And I won't do wrong,
'Cause I know in my heart that you are her husband.
I know, I know you are her husband.
That's why I got to let you go.
Desire says I should, but I say no.
I say no
I did not know that Roger Troutman did this for Miss Shirley Murdock, and I remember this classic, and timeless jam, and all of her songs really says a good, and real profound message
I grew up hearing these songs and I gotta tell ya it doesn’t disturb the spirit at all but now the music of today is grim and evil
love her passion!! I can watch her sing all day lol.. she goes IN!!! this is back when artists, songs, videos, etc were so good!!! man.. miss those days..
WOW.. here I am a year or so after leaving that comment and I'm in this very situation my damn self 😱 life is truly something else!
".. BUT I SAY NO".
I'm in love with this song.
No disrespect...
The word 'no', sounding so good from a beautiful soul😊
I’m this way now..even if you are not married and you have another..you’re not the one for me!
One Of Our Generations Greatest Voices. This Is Classic. And Check Out The Neckwork around 2:17. Shirley Was Meaning Every Single Word. #VocalExcellence101
I use to stand in mothers big mirror that hung over the sofa and sing this song with that neck move and facial expressions as a 13 years old 😂😂 Thought I was Shirley and lets not forget that jumpn too
So UNDERRATED... This song right here. I can truly relate. This was me at one time...HUSBAND...
The hair style they whore then was off the chain! I love it!!😍😍
i trying to get some weave just like that. lol. lol
I don't thank that's weave! That her real hair! Back then our moms took care of the girls hair by washing it and braiding it so it would be long and healthy. It's not like that now. But you go ahead and rock the weave tho babe. Whatever makes you like good. I love the weave to in our sista's
18billions...hormones in the chicken my friend. THEY'RE trying to kill us and we're letting THEM.
@@demekonrn that's why I dont eat meat anymore 4 real
Love this song even when I didn't know what she was singing about!!
Shirley looks like Countess Vaughn aka Kim from the Parkers here
More like she looks like her lok
+sweetnika83 oh yes that's right😂
That's who's she is trying to sing like if you notice
And she sounds like her too
Not to me! Shirley is prettier
When women had respect, deserved respect and earned respect!
Any song from the 80s hold merit
In the r & b era ... this one here hands down yes.... her vests, regina, mikki etc
This sound was so dope. Real soul. Real music
Beautiful voice Mrs. Murdock
This song is turning 30 years old this Summer.
Man I miss real music
I always wanted to be Mr Murdock
That first “strong” gave me goosebumps😍
WOW!.....I love this song in 2017
Perfection
My Style OF Music Allday, Long🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💋💯😘🔥👍🏽💪🏽👏🏽
i have to listen to this song over and over and over again until it sinks in! This is a Message song .
This song has a rock and roll almost country feel to me. This was the jam back in the day. Still is
this was me a couple of years ago im so glad I woke up
Better late than never.
this song teaches you the difference between a Lady and a Woman! Shirley sung about being a Lady, (Respects herself to do the right thing by letting him go). A Woman would have been selfish with no morals nor self respect (therefore she wouldn't respect others), and kept seeing the married man! There IS a difference in being a Lady and being a Woman! 💜
A true classic, a classy women, my kinda women.
Lil Mo remade this song and she did her thang!!! I didn't know about this song until I looked it up. I love both versions. Shirley music is timeless! As We Lay is my favorite song.
My type of music
I miss this kind of R&B. Classy.
2:44 she was in church🙏🙌😁
Lmfao yes ma'am she sure took em to church!!!😂😂😂😂
Love ❤️ this woman 👩🏽. She was tired 🥱 of the bs. She respected herself and kicked 🦵 that dusty man to the Curb. Gone Girl with ya bad self!
Great voice and great message in the lyrics
The microwave oven beep always gets me. Lol
This Song touches My Heart everyone I listen to it and her other Song, My World came to a End is one of the Best Songs along with Vesta Sweet Love!!!
If more women thought like this, had morals when they found out about these trifling men...then we could raise our standards and get men to be more responsible.
I still love this song. Over 30yrs later and #HUSBAND is still heavenly in rotation. 30 July 2019! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I would love to meet her in person, a true classy women.
Brooklyn! Summer, '88.
When I was a kid, I had no business singing this song 😂
Still listening in 2015!
classic joint right here.
this gave me life!!!!!!
Who can sing with this much soul in 2019?
Sing It Shirley!!!
Classic......
I was 14 years old when this came out back in 1988.
I was 10