At 16 I was so in love with a boy my parents wouldn't allow me to be with, I got into so much trouble sneaking running away so we could be together then my parents sent me away to family states away , this was our song.. 30 years later 2 weeks ago he contacted me on FB we've spent the night 2 times together since then and reminiscing about old times..its crazy how life is a circle sometimes.. You can't keep true love away from each other.
That's a fact! My daughter and her boyfriend mom tried everything we could to keep them apart.. And the more we tried tearing them apart the closer they got to the point we just gave up.. 3 years later they're still together🤦
JOHN 3:16 FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH, BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.
Beautiful songs and beautiful music video beautiful messages of songs beautiful and very graceful kumilos si jihyo jisoo jelliegantyeye Enya Yes amen thank you 😂😂😂 don't worryeye be happyeye yeyemanin in negosyo please Jesus Christ is healer nothing is imposible mama mamagaling sa sakit sa stroke 6 Years wag ma double stroke yes amen thank you
I sneaked out many times in 1986 with my now husband and years apart we finally found each other and tied the knot inn Las Vegas. It's our anniversary today. 7 years Anniversary today! and lots people tried to keep us apart, but in the end LOVE WON. I love you Buck Cyrus!
I'm 52 yrs old now...this brings back so many GREAT MEMORIES...I was 16 yrs old & in 10th grade in 1985. Man...1975 to 1985...to me 10 of the GREATEST YEARS of music to ever come around!!! I'm so glad I got to grow up in the 70s & 80s & experience all this AWESOME & AMAZING music!!! Much love from Mobile Alabama.
@@reginaldmeade9689 1985 was an AWESOME school year for me...got my driver license...got my first vehicle...met my first real girlfriend...met 4 of my best friends that I still talk to & get together with regularly...& the music was so AWESOME!!! Much love from Mobile Alabama
So true 👍 I was born in 1982 and my mother was into all sorts of music 🎶 She was 💯 percent Boricua 🇵🇷 and was a excellent dancer she danced salsa merengue disco etc and I remember listening to the oldies and good music dancing and just having fun
No decade will ever be like the 80s or it's wonderful music. This one was early in the year, 1986. (before this came out, my favorite song about secret lovers or cheating was 1976's "Kiss & Say Goodbye" by the Manhattans) The melody in this song makes me melt. Still have my 45.
@@1984knockingatyourdoor 🤣🤣🤣 no real talent in some cases, most of them use Auto tune.The 80's had some of the greatest music, they certainly don't make songs like these anymore,
No, this never gets old, especially when your husband is checking out every new hooch in town, and your thinking of a different life than what you currently have. I'm in the same boat....😀
No you're not on your own. Sometimes you wonder how or why it all took a different path. Then you look at what you have now such as children and realise why it went down that path. But can you ever retrace your steps ??
Right there with you. Just reminiscing about a time in my life where things were simpler. Less drama, hate and BS!! , and my escape was music. God Bless!! I think my generation had the BEST MUSIC! (GEN X)
To me, "AM I DREAMING" was the best slow jam by them. It always guaranteed me a slow jam with the woman of my choice at the club, every time. lol But in all seriousness, "Am I Dreaming", was the bomb and #1 for me.
I want my secret lover back!!! This was our song!! I had a nerve to dream of him last night!! PRAY FOR ME!! IT WON'T BE A SECRET THIS TIME😊 over 25 years ago!!!
Epic Epic song. I never used to pay any attention to this song when my mother used to play it when I was young. But after all these years and since my mother passed away, this song is so poignant and holds such powerful memories of my childhood. For six minutes this song plays, I return back to the 7yrs old boy I once was and my mother's soul fills the room for those precious few minutes . Once the song ends, I feel a real sense of comfort.
So so real nd so true!! Luv the song, luv the music, 🎶 the musicians the sensuality of these two singers, still do in my 50s now takes me back to my teens ❤ in a heartbeat. Don't have to have a secret lover on the side to luv this song...❤🧡💛💚💜🖤
I am 43. I was a youngster when they use to play this..didn't know anything about what the song actually met lol. Surprisingly I still know the words. Classic
I’m 40 and I didn’t either hahaha. I use to sing this song like nothing . When I really started paying attention I was OMGGGG a lot of my favorite songs is about being a side piece 😂
High school in the 1980’s....Atlantic Starr would get everyone on the dance floor, and have folks singing this song at the talent shows! Oh yeah! 🗣️In 1985, I heard my beautiful 35 yr old Mom singing it. I asked, “What do you know about this song?” She just “smiled.” And she’s still smiling!🥰
I was at this actual concert in San Bernadino. I was 18 years old and have just found this video on You Tube. What a night that was memories in my heart forever. ❤️ Atlantic Starr forever.
banksidematt At about the tender age of 14 I met this little “country tenderloin” visit her sister for the summer. We became love struck, nothing ever happened. The next summer she returned pregnant about to be married. Bewildered I ask how did she get away from. She explained, when I met your I was in elementary school and knew nothing about boyfriends or sex. OOH! How that broke my heart, some uuumm 50 years later she is as beautiful as ever and we are still close. It’s better than being a “Secret love”. To my “Niecie” I’ll always love you.
Back in the early 90's. I had a commercial photography studio in High Point, NC. I was contactacted by a guy who asked if I Would rent it out to a band to practice in for a week or so before going to Yokohama Japan for a concert. The guys name was Earl Cole. The band was Antantic Starr. I enjoyed the concert every day for 2 weeks. Barbara, the band and everyone involved were incredible people. My neighbors were idiots and called the police just for spite. Barbara, and Antantic Starr, thanks for the memories of those two weeks.
I remember listening to this song and singing along... As well as Babies having Babies in high school. Definitely brings back memories... Listening to this in June of 2024 here in Florida
This song was a huge radio hit! It was played so much back in the day that I still know it by heart...the times before mobile phones when lovers had to wait by the home phone not to miss a call.☎😆
Will always cherish this song. Thanx Mom for getting me into this song. This was our jam we'd sing together in our car rides. No we don't have no secret lovers. But we sure sang like we did. RIP MOM. ♥️♥️
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Once upon a blue moon. Being in love is fabulous. Being in love with two people, wow! I still ended up alone. I learned lots of respect for a person's heart. My love for two left me with 0 in the end.
@@aprilwashington7781 so sorry you're in pain, maybe one will change mind . Imagine the amount of pain felt of being the "zero" the sad person ended up with
What a child I was back then... Singing this song had no idea what it was about... Back then it was pure music and innocence .Now, music is a different story!!🤔🤔
When I was a kid I loved this song because of the voices...now at 40 I love it because I understand ❤. Beautiful Flawless Performance (standing ovation)
We need kind of 80s classics, to remind us we are free spirited humans, who need each other, say no to social distancing and all hug one and other, love you all every single one of you❤
I've been going through a really hard time lately. My sisters have all been sick & one just passed away. These songs have brought back so Many Wonderful Memories from long ago. All I need to do is close my eyes, play the songs & it brings me back to a Happy Place. Thank God for RUclips & these songs that will never die & keeps Our Memories Alive
Raise your hands if you wish this is 1985 and not 2020? NO COVID, but people with big hair, baggy pants and boomboxes on their shoulders walking around and having a good time
Boy boy boy this was that song. The adults use to have this on repeat. How in the hell could I be like 10 years old and singing this song word for word😂. This is right up there with " As We Lay" by Shirley Murdock. Beautiful duet. Forever a classic.
OMG Vijay You just hit a homerun with those comments 🎯 I will always have ode skool music in my blood 4EVER!!!!!Can't have it no other way AMEN!!!! The 70"s and 80's were my best golden years carefree 🍷💥🎊🥰😛🥳❤️💕😎🕺💯💃💃Still listening how about June 02 2022
This song goes so deep and further than just being about cheating. It's an amazing song that brings so many emotions up from my childhood. I don't think any other song hits me like this one does❤️
Listening in July 2024 and this song still brings tears to my eyes. I'm so nostalgic right now😢 I was just a little girl when I listened to it for the first time and it stuck with me. I love love love🥰🥰🥰
Here we are the two of us together Taking this crazy chance to be all alone We both know that we should not be together 'Cause if they found out It could mess up, both our happy homes I hate to think about us all meeting up together As soon as I looked at you it would show on my face Then they'll know that we've been loving each other They can never no, oh no, we can't leave a trace Secret Lovers that's what we are, we shouldn't be together But we can't let it go, oh no, cause we love each other so Sittin at home I do nothing all day But think about you and hope that your ok Hoping you'll call before anyone gets home I'll wait anxiously, alone by the phone How could something so wrong be so right I wish we didn't have to keep our love out of sight Living two lives just ain't easy at all But we gotta hang on and after fall Secret lovers that's what we are Trying so hard to hide the way we feel Cause we both belong to someone else But we can't let it go, cause what we feel is oh so real So real You and me, are we fair Is this cruel, or do we care Can they tell what's in our minds Maybe they've had secret love all of the time In the middle of makin love we notice the time We both get nervous cause it's way after nine Even though we hate it, we know it's time that we go We gotta be careful, so that no one will know Secret lovers, that's what we are Trying so hard to hide the way we feel 'Cause we both belong to someone else But we can't let it go 'Cause what we feel is oh so real So real
Ave been playing this sing none stop today 5/3/24. Its brought up all kinds of emotions happy and sad. Being in love, cheated on, missing lovers, warmness inside and loving those days when music was so real❤
Who else feels lucky and thankful to ever know a masterpiece like this and be alive to be listening?
Definitely me
I do it was so real for me.
I definitely had this experience🤔secret Lovers never ends up being your perfect lover!!
@@conniemoore4801 I should have married my secret lover.
@@conniemoore4801 you are right they tell you stuff to make you feel wonder not use.
😢 I can't stop missing those days when everything was just pure & original
@Amore, pure??? listen to the lyrics!
YES INDEED
The one you are married to is the only not
@@musicfan5520in a way it's pure life, pure human beings 😂
Pure ? Are you mad? When they cheating. Oh maybe it's Spanish
Music beyond words, I’m grateful to have been part of that era!😊
So you are a confessed cheater
Best ever!
😊@@neeser58
Lucky😏
@@dmr123kklaRight lol
I was 11 years old when this song came out. I'm 50 years old now. "1985"
This is the most beautiful cheating song ever recorded.
Carlos Moreno @ yes I agree !!🤩
Exactly
Word!
😂🤣♥️
For real
The first time my wife heard this song we looked at each other and laughed! We both loved this song! We have been married over 46 years!
Congrats and may your marriage last more love from Kenya 🥰❤
So you are saying that you are swinger's? or all two trashy ass peas?
Love you All there more great music to come and great time
❤
Smh
At 16 I was so in love with a boy my parents wouldn't allow me to be with, I got into so much trouble sneaking running away so we could be together then my parents sent me away to family states away , this was our song.. 30 years later 2 weeks ago he contacted me on FB we've spent the night 2 times together since then and reminiscing about old times..its crazy how life is a circle sometimes.. You can't keep true love away from each other.
wow
That's a fact! My daughter and her boyfriend mom tried everything we could to keep them apart.. And the more we tried tearing them apart the closer they got to the point we just gave up.. 3 years later they're still together🤦
You’ve said it all, same is happening to me right now life is indeed a circle
After 30 yrs thats a strong bond, the most time I'd spend with an ex is over a phone call.😂
The streets
Big up Derrick Morgannnn🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲….so reaalllll ….reaaaalllllllll
😂😂 so real to blct
😂😂😂dwl. Dwll whoa😅Jamaica 🇯🇲
So real nuh bbc😂😂😂
JOHN 3:16 FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH, BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.
Amen
Beautiful songs and beautiful music video beautiful messages of songs beautiful and very graceful kumilos si jihyo jisoo jelliegantyeye Enya
Yes amen thank you 😂😂😂 don't worryeye be happyeye yeyemanin in negosyo please
Jesus Christ is healer nothing is imposible mama mamagaling sa sakit sa stroke 6 Years wag ma double stroke yes amen thank you
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Amen
I sneaked out many times in 1986 with my now husband and years apart we finally found each other and tied the knot inn Las Vegas. It's our anniversary today. 7 years Anniversary today! and lots people tried to keep us apart, but in the end LOVE WON. I love you Buck Cyrus!
❤️
Trash needs trash to feel good I guess. 🤮
Sweet♥️
Happy Anniversary 🎉
Golden oldies Alabama days
I was a teenager when this jam came out now I'm 53 who still listening to this ❤️🔥 classic with me in 2023 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊
I was a teen those years , now I'm Fifty years and still love it
Me too lol
Me here at 57 yrs
Me too❤
I am 47 and listen
2024 and still rocking this song. . Music isn't like this now...
Whatever they call this crap today ain’t music!!!
I would rather listen to this era of music than the music of today any time. Songs back then were sang with passion and from the heart
They don't write beautiful melodies and lyrics like this anymore.
How can a cheating song be so beautiful 😭 low-key love it
You best believe it can. Lol
I am asking myself the same question too
😇😇😇🤩🤩🤫🤫
@@onemanagainsttheworld1630 I had to comment here. I don't know who in heavens name does not like this song. It is a great hit and it was done nicely
I feel you....... and I think about Keith Sweat song, “There’s a right and a wrong way to love somebody”.
2024 yet we still can't let go of this fire 🔥 if you have impeccable taste of music you can relate❤
👌👌✨✨🤍
Superb
@leahlynn7732 wow you're so beautiful say hi to whoever lucky guy of yours I wish if it was me❤
All time favourite
Who else get memories of the 80's in 2024 ?
Yes
If you are 30yrs and above show love here I am from kenya
Ninawakilisha Kenya pia. Huu wimbo ulichezwa sana nikiwa mtoi.
Tuko wengi
Bahamas
Tuko
U.S.A I'm 45
I'm here . December 2024. Beautiful song
Cheating song so beautiful
Amazing 🎉 see you on 2025 ...guys
Still listening to this song in 2021, and if you’re reading my comment May God continue to bless you.
And you 🙏
So rite lol sweetest 😂 jams
Bless you
I’m still listening everyday Beautifully Blessed
God bless you
Now that what you call a PERFECT live performance. Voices and stage presence was FLAWLESS! So CLASSIC 🌟
Okay how do you TBN sweet ain't just being a lady
Number one on hit pick for over one year!
Priceless ❤
I'm 52 yrs old now...this brings back so many GREAT MEMORIES...I was 16 yrs old & in 10th grade in 1985.
Man...1975 to 1985...to me 10 of the GREATEST YEARS of music to ever come around!!!
I'm so glad I got to grow up in the 70s & 80s & experience all this AWESOME & AMAZING music!!!
Much love from Mobile Alabama.
You know it
Birmingham AL
@@MrsQX56 I.loveri
Wow I’m the same age as you and I remember 1985 like yesterday I was only 15 and so much in love!!
@@reginaldmeade9689
1985 was an AWESOME school year for me...got my driver license...got my first vehicle...met my first real girlfriend...met 4 of my best friends that I still talk to & get together with regularly...& the music was so AWESOME!!!
Much love from Mobile Alabama
So true 👍 I was born in 1982 and my mother was into all sorts of music 🎶
She was 💯 percent Boricua 🇵🇷 and was a excellent dancer she danced salsa merengue disco etc and I remember listening to the oldies and good music dancing and just having fun
2024, this song is still amazing, I miss the ballads, Altaic Star, Surface, Roger and Zapp, Marvin Gay and Luther Vandross,.
❤
Computer love ❤️ changed my life🤩
Don't Forget Alexander O'Neal :)
yesss
It’s not the same!! Luckily we have the memories and lived in an era that had some beautiful music…. Kudos to US…. 🎶🎶
No decade will ever be like the 80s or it's wonderful music. This one was early in the year, 1986. (before this came out, my favorite song about secret lovers or cheating was 1976's "Kiss & Say Goodbye" by the Manhattans)
The melody in this song makes me melt. Still have my 45.
And 70s
@@tmstms2769 Yes I'm actually a 1970s person but the 80s were great, too.
This and "All Cried Out " by Lisa Lisa and cult jam hits me hard. Came out around the same time I think.
Great song for ever, no matter who you're as already said😊🐈💚💛❤
👏 classic tune
What i love most about musicians back then is that they sounded the same live as with their studio recordings🙂
They do so even more so today because today's pop stars all lip sync.
Sounds deafen the ear. (Tao 12)
For laying aside the commandment of God, ye hold the tradition of men. (Mark 7:8)
@@1984knockingatyourdoor 🤣🤣🤣 no real talent in some cases, most of them use Auto tune.The 80's had some of the greatest music, they certainly don't make songs like these anymore,
They were true singers..not that BS singers there are now with a crqpload of autotune lol..
Thank God, There was no iTune or music software 😭
who's listening in 2020? I need a time machine...this never gets old...
Yes me! X
Beautiful time guy's truly magical music and times indeed......!
No, this never gets old, especially when your husband is checking out every new hooch in town, and your thinking of a different life than what you currently have. I'm in the same boat....😀
@@nathangoines757 Shame on you Nathan Goines😉😉
Never gets old...an oldtime favorite
Listening to this beautiful song in 2024, anyone else?
Yes 😊😊😊
Linda
me
Yep.... still listening in 2024
Me now
Anyone else is going through their favorite jams thinking about life back in the days? Please tell me I'm not the only one✌🏼️
No you're not on your own.
Sometimes you wonder how or why it all took a different path.
Then you look at what you have now such as children and realise why it went down that path.
But can you ever retrace your steps ??
Oh you are not alone.. I rem someone 😊
It's amazing what a song can do. Put you right back at that DANCE, nervous as f. Not a thought in the damn world. But that person in front of you!!
@@lesleybrant3679 i'm with you in this...
Right there with you. Just reminiscing about a time in my life where things were simpler. Less drama, hate and BS!! , and my escape was music. God Bless!! I think my generation had the BEST MUSIC! (GEN X)
Extremely underrated female voice.
This one and their other hit, Always, are timeless jams.
If you don't know Atlantic Starr, you don't know jack.
Shut up jack!!😈😡😡🤮
Straight bippity bop
They had other hits. When Love Calls, Thank You, Touch a Four-Leaf Clover, etc.
To me, "AM I DREAMING" was the best slow jam by them. It always guaranteed me a slow jam with the woman of my choice at the club, every time. lol But in all seriousness, "Am I Dreaming", was the bomb and #1 for me.
Her voice is so soothing...... when she sings and goes "Hoping you would call... her voice is so clear and angelic
Let's get real. The fact that it's secret just intensifies some of the greatest feelings we will ever experience in our lives.
Well lust is a strong feeling.
So true.
Ms.Barbara Weathers WAS ATLANTIC STARR!! HER VOICE...
I want my secret lover back!!! This was our song!! I had a nerve to dream of him last night!! PRAY FOR ME!! IT WON'T BE A SECRET THIS TIME😊 over 25 years ago!!!
Damn 25 years ago
Hello Renee Davis. How are you doing?
Try Facebook
@@malakaimusa1476 lol yes!!
@@naomihopex647 tks...I did...!! I did and i found him!!! 😍
When this song comes on.....no matter who you are....someone always popping up in your mind.
It’s true though
yep
@@susanjohn826 Hello. How are you doing?
It don’t come on no more
Totally! A crush, fantasies, past lovers, the lot!
Epic Epic song. I never used to pay any attention to this song when my mother used to play it when I was young. But after all these years and since my mother passed away, this song is so poignant and holds such powerful memories of my childhood. For six minutes this song plays, I return back to the 7yrs old boy I once was and my mother's soul fills the room for those precious few minutes . Once the song ends, I feel a real sense of comfort.
Yeah my kids will hopefully feel the same way as you, I played it 24/7; 41 & 21, they're Ol Souls
I felt this comment... rip to my beautiful parents. Moms kept the radio on 24/7
#80s baby
May her soul in peace
God bless you.
❤️
These songs stand the taste of time…
I'm 55yrs old if i could go back in a time machine i wouldn't hesitate...
Yeah that was high school era for me. That song was all you heard.
Wow guys I wanna be just like you...😊😄😀
I would drop everything and jump back in heartbeat my friend.im 50 my names Steve.
So with you on that....
Agreed
It may be about cheating..., but it's sung so beautifully👍
LMAO right
Pamela Jackson from Jackson Tenn listen the good music
Chad Hahn true😀
Romance in a cheating song. ❤
So so real nd so true!! Luv the song, luv the music, 🎶 the musicians the sensuality of these two singers, still do in my 50s now takes me back to my teens ❤ in a heartbeat. Don't have to have a secret lover on the side to luv this song...❤🧡💛💚💜🖤
Can we bring old school music back...PLEASE!!!
Just listen to me
I second that.
i would pay..
LOYALTY IS ROYALITY
You will never appreciate or relate with this song till you live it. Masterpiece.
Facts
No Sean ! You can't appreciate it or relate to it inless you have had or have a secret lover. That is the point of the song.
I see y'all having secret lovers🤫
@@zeagazetotsiyon2942 😄
Lol so true & I have lived it!
Barbara Weathers' voice is so hauntingly beautiful.
I think she was the best female singer the group had
They dont make songs like this no more♥️♥️♥️♥️
tanny morrison true
I don't get tired of listening to this song. Everyone is a secret lover
I’m looking for a secret lover but until then this song will have to do. lol
Nowadays a lot of manufactured garbage music!
No they don't
Her voice is so soothing...... when she sings and goes "Hoping you would call... her voice is so clear and angelic
I am 43. I was a youngster when they use to play this..didn't know anything about what the song actually met lol. Surprisingly I still know the words. Classic
I’m 40 and I didn’t either hahaha. I use to sing this song like nothing . When I really started paying attention I was OMGGGG a lot of my favorite songs is about being a side piece 😂
That is beautiful
First time hearing this in many years. I still remember all the words. I love this song!
Im 41, I Know Now....
Iam 42 and love this song
An amazing song. Growing up in the 80's, life was simple, and we were blessed with songs like these. Best decade of music!
Growing up in the 80s was really amazing, I truly miss those days. Life was def simpler.
I dont know about simple, but it was fun. Maybe simple to us kids....lol
Happy memories
Hope you are listening nicky
80's was good.. but 70's still the best
It's 2023 and I am not ever tired of this song! 🙂
I’m here with you!!!
Here😂😂😂
Of course yes 2023 still it's always a perfect hit.
Neither am I! 😊
Us too
I'm only 19 years old but I love old school so much it's so touching
❤
High school in the 1980’s....Atlantic Starr would get everyone on the dance floor, and have folks singing this song at the talent shows! Oh yeah!
🗣️In 1985, I heard my beautiful 35 yr old Mom singing it. I asked, “What do you know about this song?” She just “smiled.” And she’s still smiling!🥰
I was at this actual concert in San Bernadino. I was 18 years old and have just found this video on You Tube. What a night that was memories in my heart forever. ❤️ Atlantic Starr forever.
banksidematt Wow. Awesome. Loved Atlantic Star. They were the best.💝
Good piece of music
banksidematt. That's good stuff brotha.....god bless...god bless
banksidematt At about the tender age of 14 I met this little “country tenderloin” visit her sister for the summer. We became love struck, nothing ever happened.
The next summer she returned pregnant about to be married. Bewildered I ask how did she get away from.
She explained, when I met your I was in elementary school and knew nothing about boyfriends or sex.
OOH! How that broke my heart, some uuumm 50 years later she is as beautiful as ever and we are still close.
It’s better than being a “Secret love”.
To my “Niecie” I’ll always love you.
There are so many fb errors, I don’t think it understands English. We all know what a “tenderoni” is not tenderloin.
Back in the early 90's. I had a commercial photography studio in High Point, NC. I was contactacted by a guy who asked if I Would rent it out to a band to practice in for a week or so before going to Yokohama Japan for a concert. The guys name was Earl Cole. The band was Antantic Starr. I enjoyed the concert every day for 2 weeks. Barbara, the band and everyone involved were incredible people. My neighbors were idiots and called the police just for spite. Barbara, and Antantic Starr, thanks for the memories of those two weeks.
Love this song ❤️ xx
Amazing
Lovely that you have such great memories.
Damn I wouldn't be calling the police I would have had a drink a listen and chill out.
If by Barbara you mean smooth singing Barbara Weathers, she left the group in 1987, supposedly
I remember listening to this song and singing along... As well as Babies having Babies in high school. Definitely brings back memories... Listening to this in June of 2024 here in Florida
This song was a huge radio hit! It was played so much back in the day that I still know it by heart...the times before mobile phones when lovers had to wait by the home phone not to miss a call.☎😆
Yep
Girl I got so much memories 😁
😄
We had earphones back then. Plus it into the source and relax and listen.
Good times. I wanna go back and do it all over but I can’t go back I no !!! Lol
If you ain't from the Oldskool...Then you don't understand good music! Nothing like 80s Slow Jams! The 80s had the best music EVER!
Will always cherish this song. Thanx Mom for getting me into this song. This was our jam we'd sing together in our car rides. No we don't have no secret lovers. But we sure sang like we did. RIP MOM. ♥️♥️
Love your mom!!
@@OWCHENTTV she was something else. Like my best friend. I miss her everyday. I lost her 3 yrs ago. love u mom. #fuckcancer 😢😢❤❤
@@tilot209 #fuckcancer stay strong goddess
Cancer can't fight her anymore she's in haven now stay strong tilo
@@OWCHENTTV thank u ❤️
I can't believe we wore clothes like this back then..beautiful song
A new year 2020 who else in still listening to this who's with me?
Im with you still listening always and forever January 2020 love this song,❤💓
Yip actually playing this on my car
In
It could be 2020 I'll be forever listening.....these are good music
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This is truly a throwback.....I mean look at the clothes, cars and surroundings. Man time sure changes things, but great songs are timeless! 💯💖🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵
@@marys9775 Hello. How are you doing?
@@marys9775 I agree with you 💯
Classic music is the greatest music ever there is a way it makes you feel calm
Actually, it is such a low-budget video, and their stage clothes are embarrassing to look at...but...ok, I guess it is a throwback.
i agree,i iss those times
The pain of loving two people at the same time ending up being undecided
💔
Once upon a blue moon. Being in love is fabulous. Being in love with two people, wow! I still ended up alone. I learned lots of respect for a person's heart. My love for two left me with 0 in the end.
@@aprilwashington7781 so sorry you're in pain, maybe one will change mind . Imagine the amount of pain felt of being the "zero" the sad person ended up with
@@aprilwashington7781 ended up alone? 😖😞💔 alone? Appetizer, drinks, dinner salad at 4 star restaurant last night, how was that quiet table for one? 💔
Clearly cuz u dont love 1
Anybody rocking with this song this May 2024?
oh yes...lovely music may 2024
Absolutely!
You know it...
Me
Me ✋🏾
If you're growing up in quarantine and ended up here (like me) you obviously did something right. Congratulations 🎊
Now that's how you sing LIVE, flawless almost as good as the original recording. So much vocal talent
Yes! No other words need to be said about it.
80's babies Standup 🙌🏾
70s represent Capricorn January 19
no sit down wit y’all old asses fo y’all break yuh back
Leo 1988 right here
Taurus ♉🐂may
@@uzii_ LML
This is real talented singers compared to today's off key singers
It's amazing that a 35-year old video looks so clean compared to other videos from this long ago.
Hello, how are you doing today I hope you’re having a great day so far
@The heart hugger nice dear, where are you from
@The heart hugger thanks dear, cool I’m from Virginia nice to meet you
How’s everything over there?
This song is beautifully trifling.
Lol
Sinfully beautiful for want of a better term
😂😂😂😅
Lol...😂😂
😂😂😂
Who's your listening 2020 classic forever
Love this....😀
@@nathangoines757 Me too😊
Toujours 😚😚😚
Randy Crawford she’s a legend
@@nathangoines757 is voor mijn selly
OMW! What a throwback! Who agrees?
What a child I was back then... Singing this song had no idea what it was about... Back then it was pure music and innocence .Now, music is a different story!!🤔🤔
I,was 18years when I first heard this song. Now at the age of 56yrs still listening to it. ❤❤❤ 2023
A song about cheating that can still set the mood for making love. That is odd, but true.
true,been there
All I can say is wheeew!!!
You don't know who the wife be making love to in her mind while you bump and grind 😁😁😁@Kevin Ler
@@explorelondon3695 word!
@@explorelondon3695 The damn truth. I'm waiting for that slip up of the tongue😂
I love this classic very relaxing and great music my 60th birthday Sept 13th 2024 .
Happy birthday
Happy belated Birthday 🎉 🎂 🌹
Happy belated birthday better late than never. I hope it was a great day
Happy belated birthday 🎉
When I was a kid I loved this song because of the voices...now at 40 I love it because I understand ❤. Beautiful Flawless Performance (standing ovation)
Same here
Wish I had a secret...
Its 2021 am still bumping this
We need kind of 80s classics, to remind us we are free spirited humans, who need each other, say no to social distancing and all hug one and other, love you all every single one of you❤
You and me TOO!!!! TO ME THIS RECORD IS THE.....S.H.I.T.!!!!!!IT'S SO FUCKING REAL....
Yes
Oh yeah👍
I've been going through a really hard time lately. My sisters have all been sick & one just passed away. These songs have brought back so Many Wonderful Memories from long ago. All I need to do is close my eyes, play the songs & it brings me back to a Happy Place. Thank God for RUclips & these songs that will never die & keeps Our Memories Alive
So sorry about your loss. May God comfort you deeply
♥️♥️♥️
@@folababs7442 - Just Read Your Reply. Thank You Very Much.
So sorry to hear about your loss. Also glad that RUclips is here to allow everyone the ability to go back in time to more pleasant times and loves.
Praying for you and your family.. My condolences
Such a classic, listening August 11, 2024..... Where did good music like this went?
Still around .. John Legend for starters
Away!!
October 14, 2024 and I'm here jammin this timeless classic.
Raise your hands if you wish this is 1985 and not 2020?
NO COVID, but people with big hair, baggy pants and boomboxes on their shoulders walking around and having a good time
Those were the days my friend I thought they would never end. (You know that song too?)
oh how i wish i could go back to the good old days 🥰
Those were they days when I was happy
Me 👍
No guns huh!!
I miss the 80s and 90s music will never be the same
Barbara Weathers voice was like magic..
yea,the song has go
gd lyrics but it should just be that-Imagination not reality
Jp Reddy i guess when u have a voice like that, singing is pretty much, effortless!
The best Christmas song of all time, reminds me of my dad xx
When the beats start, my entire body catches goosebumps😊
Me too
Me too!!! 🥰
Nice beard.
Omg yes !!!
Me too ,classic beautiful soulful
She sings like it's so easy for her. Beautiful voice.
Boy boy boy this was that song. The adults use to have this on repeat. How in the hell could I be like 10 years old and singing this song word for word😂. This is right up there with " As We Lay" by Shirley Murdock. Beautiful duet. Forever a classic.
🤜🤛
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Tell me about it baby,it's just like yesterday!
Classic music for losers. I agree.
No doubt baby
August 2024? #Classic My uncle’s favorite song. He listened to it in his way to hospice😢❤ Rest Easy Uncle Aaron
I normally don't like cheating songs but damn this makes it beautiful.
Music is the closest thing we have to a time machine! This song is timeless ❤
So true love
Apt
Yes it is
❤
When I was a kid, I loved this song. I didn't know until I was older that the song is about cheating. Lol
shunlvswx lol
So now that you know do you still love the song?Had to ask that question😊
I still like the song.
@@shunlvswx ok that s whats up👍🏿
shunlvswx 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm actually listening to it right now, in the month of June 2k24
Mi too
Me 2😊
Can’t help but to love this song for all the wrong reasons ❤️
Agreed😁
Sharon you stole my thoughts.
Me too🤪😍
@Sharon Hart - Cheater
Guilty as charged
I want my child hood back any body else want to go back in time
Absolutely
Yes!!!!
Take me with you
Absolutely, yes please, love from South Africa
More than you'll ever know.....
Some of the Best memories are the ones you can't tell anyone !!!! 👍🏽💯💯👌🏽❤️💋💋💋
Lateasha norris hahaha, cheater
Lateasha norris ... yup..
so true something you have to put in God hand
Lateasha norris WOW!!! Im never getting married bc of this song and your comment.
Definitely an interesting thought! Yet oh so True!
Listening in 2024, who else is singing and jamming to this? 💃💃💃🎶🎶🎶
Yes I am I absolutely love this song
Me ❤
i am again
Me in portugal
I'm hear❤
THERE'S NOTHING TO COMPARE TO THE MUSIC OF OUR DAYS ,THE EIGHTIES!
OMG Vijay You just hit a homerun with those comments 🎯 I will always have ode skool music in my blood 4EVER!!!!!Can't have it no other way AMEN!!!! The 70"s and 80's were my best golden years carefree 🍷💥🎊🥰😛🥳❤️💕😎🕺💯💃💃Still listening how about June 02 2022
This song goes so deep and further than just being about cheating. It's an amazing song that brings so many emotions up from my childhood. I don't think any other song hits me like this one does❤️
I had the single and thier album love the 80s music listen to it all the time
i know my friend
So true! This song always gets me.
My father loved this song.. And a I loved him...* Rest peacefully Daddy**
My sister’s song too. I miss her too. RIP
Bless xxxx
I'm guessing that you were truly a blessing to your dad.
@@wollins2 🤭
@@thelunchtable4637 timeless indeed. Love it.
Listening in July 2024 and this song still brings tears to my eyes. I'm so nostalgic right now😢
I was just a little girl when I listened to it for the first time and it stuck with me.
I love love love🥰🥰🥰
So nostalgic...it hits so hard despite some 30 years ago .
They are singing what happens in daily lives. Secret lovers are real
Yes they are
Obviously
The most romantic cheating song ever :)
And Me and Mrs. Jones too. 😆
@@Theezmoney True hahahhaha
Here we are the two of us together
Taking this crazy chance to be all alone
We both know that we should not be together
'Cause if they found out
It could mess up, both our happy homes
I hate to think about us all meeting up together
As soon as I looked at you it would show on my face
Then they'll know that we've been loving each other
They can never no, oh no, we can't leave a trace
Secret Lovers that's what we are, we shouldn't be together
But we can't let it go, oh no, cause we love each other so
Sittin at home I do nothing all day
But think about you and hope that your ok
Hoping you'll call before anyone gets home
I'll wait anxiously, alone by the phone
How could something so wrong be so right
I wish we didn't have to keep our love out of sight
Living two lives just ain't easy at all
But we gotta hang on and after fall
Secret lovers that's what we are
Trying so hard to hide the way we feel
Cause we both belong to someone else
But we can't let it go, cause what we feel is oh so real
So real
You and me, are we fair
Is this cruel, or do we care
Can they tell what's in our minds
Maybe they've had secret love all of the time
In the middle of makin love we notice the time
We both get nervous cause it's way after nine
Even though we hate it, we know it's time that we go
We gotta be careful, so that no one will know
Secret lovers, that's what we are
Trying so hard to hide the way we feel
'Cause we both belong to someone else
But we can't let it go
'Cause what we feel is oh so real
So real
Nice, really nice. lol
She is so Beautiful. Always a pleasure to watch
This song just grows better with time.
7
How can something so wrong, feel so right???!!!
My situation now
Rightttttttt 😂😂😂😂
@@bettynduta9511 it happens
@@bettynduta9511 woi Nduta, ndakusema😂😂😂
Ha 🤷🏾♀️🥰
nothing beat the 80's song it has a lot meaning emotion.
You got that right! 80's music defiantly had meaning.
Cherry Love Reyes YEAH IT DOES THE OL SCHOOL FROM THE 60'S & 70'S,WAS THE STUFF,SOME 80'S WAS GOOD ALSO
You are so RIGHT!!! the 60's & the 70's was the best and some of the 80's was good too.
Cherry Love Reyes that's girl it's jerry
Ave been playing this sing none stop today 5/3/24. Its brought up all kinds of emotions happy and sad. Being in love, cheated on, missing lovers, warmness inside and loving those days when music was so real❤