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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

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  • @aspenwarden417
    @aspenwarden417 Год назад +4

    I'm 18 and just started my gap year full of crazy mind-opening experiences, and I got so excited when you talked about a gift-based economy!! I just got back from Burning Man 2023, and while it definitely has its issues, a complete gift-based economy is one of the coolest aspects of the city. There are ten principles, and three are "Radical Self Reliance," "Decommodification," and "Gifting." So you are in charge of making sure you have what you need, and then you come to the city prepared to gift your energy and resources to others without expecting anything in return. You can't buy anything but ice the entire time you are there! It was really beautiful because everyone felt so grateful and connected, and whenever anyone approached you, it was because they were trying to do something for you, not get something from you.

  • @shireen3339
    @shireen3339 Год назад +71

    I honestly love these Post-grad videos! I’m going to be graduating next year and I’m terrified of being out of routine, but this video is making me feel a lot better about it all! 😊

  • @callielee
    @callielee Год назад +12

    easing back into these simple little routines is part of what makes summer so difficult yet so sweet

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 Год назад +10

    It’s very cool you have broken through old stereotypes of what university is supposed to be and what work is. The idea of “everyone needing” to have an old fashioned “9-5” job is an outdated and narrow concept. You have more influence on people throughout the globe than so many people in regular jobs, so much more power, and you do it well. Good to see you charge forth doing things in your own way despite external projections. To each their own. Best wishes to you! 🍀

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +3

      This means so much, thank you! It’s not always easy being on an untraditional path where I have to define so much for myself, but it’s also extremely fulfilling 🦋

  • @EmEmJee89
    @EmEmJee89 Год назад +19

    I can't wait to see you get back from the retreat. I've done a couple of vipassana retreats and the silence was the easiest part of it!! I remember thinking I just experienced truth, like to comprehend impermanence but by feeling it through the body. Lots of love Jade!! What an exciting time of infinite posibilities you are living😍

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +2

      Oh wow this sounds soooo incredible!! Thank you for sharing 🦋🌟

  • @SarinaMotta
    @SarinaMotta Год назад

    That book sounds lovely, i love how food can be considered gifts. I always find that the best and most rewarding meals are those in which ive been involved in the process of getting the food, through gardening or harvesting, even if its just to get fresh herbs.

  • @marlieshogeveen
    @marlieshogeveen Год назад +6

    Even though you didn’t have your usual porridge, this video still felt so authentically you! And I love how you’re prioritising healthy aspects in your routine, I’m having this summer off from work and am also trying to focus on building such habits, even though it’s hard sometimes to stick to them or not feel like a failure when things don’t go as planned. Something I read lately, is that building good routines is not an overnight thing, instead it almost feels unnoticeable. Results don’t show quickly. However, it’s important that you trust Time as your friend, instead of enemy. Overtime, benefits will show from putting in those daily efforts. Every choice you made for you, DOES MATTER! Anyway, thanks a lot for making this video, I loved it!💚💚

  • @tajashania
    @tajashania Год назад +22

    So excited to watch! I’ve been having a really really tough time recently, but your videos are always like a ray of sunshine

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +5

      I’m so so sorry you’re having a tough time rn 🥺🤍 sending you the biggest hugs from afar!! you’ve got this, friend

  • @AnneleneLammers
    @AnneleneLammers Год назад +16

    Enjoy your Vipassana Jade, with whatever comes up ❤ Embrace the experience.
    I love the extra laughter at 13:13 ❤ Lots of love!

  • @garrettsantos7671
    @garrettsantos7671 Год назад +12

    I’m currently trying to have a good summer but I’m taking two accelerated summer classes to finish up at Community College before I transfer to University this fall. Let’s just say I’m getting burned out 😮‍💨 Your videos always help keep me motivated, thank you for that ❤

  • @KarenLovesColours
    @KarenLovesColours Год назад +39

    Just an advice because I know how important health is to you too: As much as I can understand that it's easier to make your bed first thing in the morning, it is actually very important, to give our mattress and bedding some time to air out before making the bed. in order to fight moisture and dust mites. Lots of love

  • @salome_psychostudy_asd
    @salome_psychostudy_asd Год назад

    Sometimes I put your videos I've already watched as a background to get good vibes 🥰☀

  • @TeiCMK
    @TeiCMK Год назад +12

    Honestly I’m so inspired by you Jade, you always do you and that’s what inspires me too. You appreciate all the little things and by doing that and putting it on here and on your platform you’ve taught me and probably many others to do the same :) thankyou 🫰⭐️🌸

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад

      wait this is so so lovely 🥹✨🌻🦋 life really happens in the little things

  • @kia-883
    @kia-883 Год назад +2

    Omg Hereford! That’s where I grew up 🥹

  • @millyd9481
    @millyd9481 Год назад +6

    jade, you are super positive and lovely!! Hoping to have your mindset for my alevels to begin, and beyond academia

  • @themoores9817
    @themoores9817 Год назад +31

    I love what you said there jade….. We have to embrace our failures aswell as our successes. Personally, I think the only failure in life is not trying. Nothing can be a failure if you try. Not trying is the failure. That's the advice I always give my girlfriends anyway 🙂

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +1

      yesss exactly!! we should celebrate even trying 🦋

    • @not-a-ghost2206
      @not-a-ghost2206 Год назад

      i try to not think of them as failures.. they are learnings. experiences. situations. and we grow through them 🌾🍄

    • @themoores9817
      @themoores9817 Год назад

      @@not-a-ghost2206 100% agree. The not trying is the only failure. You can't fail at anything. That's just what I think

    • @themoores9817
      @themoores9817 Год назад +1

      @@UnJadedJade exactly 🙂 like, I made a promise to my dog 13 & a half years ago, and sadly, Monday last week at 3:40am, I had to go through with the promise. I always promised her when her time came, she would be at home with me and her daddy, in her blanket and in my arms, and she was. I would have felt like I failed her if I hadn't been there to keep that promise. She would have been turning 17 years old next week

  • @Rinaa11214
    @Rinaa11214 Год назад +1

    As a recent postgrad who also doesn't know what she's doing, I lovee these videos

  • @strawbxrries.mp32
    @strawbxrries.mp32 Год назад +3

    aaaah I’m so happy you’re reading Braiding Sweetgrass! I read it last autumn in an English course on understanding contemporary indigenous voices and it was absolutely beautiful. Much love from Canada 💛

  • @celinefuchs4095
    @celinefuchs4095 Год назад +27

    You've just inspired me to go look into this sort of retreat, I'll be excited to hear your experience goes! And when you mentioned about leaving early and said we have to embrace our failures...I agree absolutely that we have to embrace our failures because we as humans aren't perfect, but I don't think leaving a 10-day, 12-hours-a-day meditation retreat early should automatically be considered a failure? Wouldn't that be similar to saying someone who is a runner, loves running, does it every day, but then signs up for an ultra marathon and has to stop because it's above what they are capable of at the time...would that stopping be a failure? I don't think so...but it definitely makes me consider what is considered "failing" as opposed to "succeeding" and who is setting that threshold. This is my own opinion, but I think if you push yourself as far as you can, and successfully disconnect and ground yourself, then it doesn't matter if pushing yourself as far as you can crosses the threshold of 10 days. I think whatever point is the furthest you can go, whether it is as far as you thought you could go, or shorter, or further, would be a success. 🙂
    There's a RUclipsr I love called Eva zu Beck, and she published a video about her quitting this run she'd set herself to; she's a traveler and a runner, but on this one intense run around a mountain (I think spanning 2 or 3 days, she had to set up camp) she had to make the tough call to turn around. She shared some valuable insights, I think, on what it means to quit, and that quitting does not equal failure. It's helped me keep some perspective on things, as well.
    Anyways. Just some thoughts. Wishing the best for you, Jade!

  • @anyaanderson1473
    @anyaanderson1473 Год назад +1

    Wow this is SUCH a relatable video as a student who is enjoying doing nothing in cloudy English summer after just finishing A levels.

  • @Offechen
    @Offechen Год назад

    i feel like with the gratitude, it could easily get exhausting constantly thinking everything is a gift and you somehow have to give back or gift back for everything you've received

  • @sarahconnor13
    @sarahconnor13 Год назад +1

    just finished secondary school and I was feeling pretty stressed out but this summer has honestly been great. It just feels good to focus on my mental health for a while and just live a peaceful life. I'm also doing duolingo german coincidentally haha.

  • @alicjabednarczuk9577
    @alicjabednarczuk9577 Год назад +3

    I love watching your videos Jade. You're genuinely such an icon and model ❤ I hope you find your way out through this crisis you're experiencing and that your life really blossoms going forwards!!! Sending love from the UK!!!

  • @sharvaripatil1966
    @sharvaripatil1966 Год назад +1

    This video has inspired me to try and create some healing and rest in my summer because I’m also really really burnt out after uni and a tough internship.❤

  • @resetbutton09
    @resetbutton09 Год назад +6

    You are so inspiring Jade! Just love the way you take things positively 🌿💛💛

  • @ivanpriscilla4741
    @ivanpriscilla4741 Год назад +4

    Jade you are such a inspiration. I am so proud of how far you have come❤️

  • @nuage140
    @nuage140 Год назад

    Hi, I first watched your videos to learn english. But I just wanted to say that you're amazing and adorable and that I love your videos💗

  • @sophielt_
    @sophielt_ Год назад +1

    Super random, but the song from the outro always makes me do a happy dance. So thanks for including that!!!! Love you loads Jade xxx

  • @sarajohanss0n
    @sarajohanss0n Год назад +2

    you're so inspiring jade!!!!!! 😭😭🫶

  • @amaryllisremes8863
    @amaryllisremes8863 Год назад +1

    In my Language & Culture course at uni we discussed almost that exact excerpt from Braiding Sweetgrass with the strawberry picking and the gift vs commodity culture that you talk about in this video :)

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +1

      Wait no wayyy that's so cool!! Do you remember any of what you discussed? 💐

    • @amaryllisremes8863
      @amaryllisremes8863 Год назад

      @@UnJadedJade yess! A bit similar to what you were saying, but how we can apply the market economy vs gift economy to today's society, how things change when they cross the boundary between gift and commodity, I thought about the concept of time as a gift vs a commodity, and how beautifully the author can combine indigenous knowledge and her botany studies.

  • @pilottttlover
    @pilottttlover Год назад +2

    Jadeeeee please do a room tour and an update on books you recommend reading 🫶💫💙

  • @rawfootageguy
    @rawfootageguy Год назад

    Siege and storm on the bookshelf!!! so good

  • @mojojojo1211
    @mojojojo1211 Год назад +1

    I'm kinda glad Jade is not too busy so now that her University phase is over and she can upload more videos 😬😬

  • @Real_Matt
    @Real_Matt Год назад

    I think one of the best parts about this video was the variety of camera shot choices you went with. Literally loads. Good work.

  • @ebrukson
    @ebrukson Год назад

    Loved listening to the audiobook version of Braiding Sweetgrass while taking a walk in the park! Agreed- it's the perfect book for being out in nature.

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Год назад +1

    We wish you the best of luck. Keep working hard to achieve your dreams.

  • @39_rifahanjumsamiha60
    @39_rifahanjumsamiha60 Год назад +1

    So happy to see a new video 🥹 it's always the best Jade 💗 ! Thank you so much for everything :)

  • @mvstrqrdd
    @mvstrqrdd Год назад

    jades voice itself is so calming omg

  • @Felix-o3m4o
    @Felix-o3m4o Год назад

    You always have such a positive energy

  • @marion8252
    @marion8252 Год назад +2

    Great video Jade and I'm so excited to hear about your experience with vipassana!🥰

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +1

      Awhh thank you so much!! 🌻🦋✨ I can’t wait to share my experience

    • @marion8252
      @marion8252 Год назад

      @@UnJadedJade I wish you much strength, I'm sure it's going to be challenging but I think it will definitely be one of the experiences you'll be so grateful for afterwards and I think you're just at the right point in your life to do something like that❤️💪🏼

  • @thetragicyouth
    @thetragicyouth Год назад +2

    Jade - given that you've spoken a lot recently about the sense of post-graduation confusion and lack of direction, frankly I think you've never looked and sounded happier and more playful! And I hope this doesn't sound inappropriate or creepy, but there's a real sensuality about the way you move that I've never noticed before; I don't know whether it's confidence, all the yoga, a playful kind of energy or just a sense of really owning your body, but it's super heartwarming and totally compelling. 😊

  • @mitz205
    @mitz205 Год назад +1

    Hey Jade!!!
    You are truly an inspiration ✨️ ❤️
    Lots of love and virtual hugs 🫂 💗

  • @lyphan308
    @lyphan308 Год назад +1

    Hope the new phase in your life will be happy ❤

  • @xmurphyxx8921
    @xmurphyxx8921 Год назад

    Jade please!!! Have you read throne of glass?!! 😫

  • @tigereyewarrior
    @tigereyewarrior Год назад

    Love and appreciate your videos so much Thanks for all the inspiration 🥰🙏🏻💖💖💖

  • @izzyyh5
    @izzyyh5 Год назад

    I start uni this September and your channel makes me so excited :)))

  • @liahlow1435
    @liahlow1435 Год назад

    I love jade nodding at the RUclips video! 😂❤

  • @marion8252
    @marion8252 Год назад +1

    Of course I had to pause and read the titles on the back of your books and for some reason it makes me happy that you read Throne of Glass as well😂❤️

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +1

      AHAHAHA stop exposing me through my books hehe 👉👈🦋 biggg fantasy fan !!!

    • @marion8252
      @marion8252 Год назад

      @@UnJadedJade Sorry but I always need to know what people read🤓 Also, fantasy is THE BEST!

  • @lilymannbenn4340
    @lilymannbenn4340 Год назад +1

    love ur routines

  • @sakz6064
    @sakz6064 Год назад +2

    So happy to see a new video! Can’t wait to watch it later today :) 🦋
    p.s thank you Jade for everything you do, wish you huge amounts of success for everything you do in the future!

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +2

      gahhh this is so sweet thank you!! 🥹🦋🤍 your love means the world hehe

  • @bursucantonia-luciana9380
    @bursucantonia-luciana9380 Год назад +1

    Great, a new video! ❤

  • @sagarika6811
    @sagarika6811 Год назад

    Love you❤ we will always support you

  • @ophelia3658
    @ophelia3658 Год назад

    so much love

  • @frederiquewilding6608
    @frederiquewilding6608 Год назад

    I did a Goenka Vipassana retreat 8 months ago. It’s very structured with a clear schedule that everyone follows so it all feels pretty normal within the first few days. There are ups and downs , emotionally and physically but that’s all part of it. Try not to see as something so intimidating, it’s not , it’s just a technique which is taught is a very specific and guided way. Follow the rules, listen to Goenka is who is hilarious and see what happens. It’s all about observation. The centre I went to allowed us to do some walking in the breaks and I know you will love the food …almost all vegan. Do not worry about the limited meals , you get used to it within a couple of days. I did this retreat after many years of meditation albeit on nowhere like the same scale and it was also as part of a bereavement process. I try to do as much work on preventative mental health care as possible in order to cope with lives huge challenges. The Camino de Santiago alone was another one 😊.
    The Goenka retreat was a real privilege and now I want to repay the kindness of the centre volunteers by becoming a volunteer myself later this year. May you go into this with an open heart. 💜

  • @ishitapaul7441
    @ishitapaul7441 Год назад +2

    good luck for the mediation course! Would love to know about the whole experience.

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад

      thank you so so much!! I’d love to share my experience 🦋

  • @Fandoms4Life
    @Fandoms4Life Год назад

    I would love to hear more about the different careers you've been learning about via people on Linkedin!

  • @annafortmann
    @annafortmann Год назад

    So inspiring

  • @ranmalnimathew2706
    @ranmalnimathew2706 Год назад +1

    wow... so proud that your going to try the vipassana meditation....
    basically its a meditationthat will help u understand the world (Eg: why things are the way they are)

  • @myriamtouil3347
    @myriamtouil3347 Год назад

    Love you ❤❤❤thank you

  • @vanessaalexander6783
    @vanessaalexander6783 Год назад

    Great video. I think you would also really enjoy reading “The Wayfinders” by Wade Davis

  • @princetate1586
    @princetate1586 Год назад +1

    10:31 He what? Hahah. I know🗑🧠🤣
    "I dare you to get off your device and go do something that makes you feel really good"- Jade.

  • @jamorfati
    @jamorfati Год назад

    ag1 is better with ice btw x

  • @easternblot
    @easternblot Год назад

    Having just bought a regular non-standing desk, £140 for an adjustable is actually not bad!

    • @GreenePearl
      @GreenePearl Год назад +1

      It’s actually super cheap hahah i was like normal desks can be more expensive than that 😅

    • @easternblot
      @easternblot Год назад

      @@GreenePearl My new regular sit-down desk was £130 on sale and that was one of the cheapest I could find!

  • @estincaptures
    @estincaptures Год назад

    i love your energy in videos (what kind of camera do you use?) if you don’t mind me asking

  • @hannahstobart5377
    @hannahstobart5377 Год назад

    Where do you get your earrings from? They're always so lush

  • @slickjumpedoverthelazydog
    @slickjumpedoverthelazydog Год назад

    Good video

  • @emmykragten3763
    @emmykragten3763 Год назад

  • @tearsofawaterfall2656
    @tearsofawaterfall2656 Год назад

    Hi Jade. Do you want to get another job now that you’ve finished your degree or will you pursue youtube full time?

  • @Indk1686
    @Indk1686 Год назад +1

    Gm ❣️😌

  • @itsjustferyel3291
    @itsjustferyel3291 Год назад

    Jade why don't y make for us a vedio in which you tell us about the universities that u studied in

  • @pandaaamaa
    @pandaaamaa Год назад

    In the UK do you drink tap water??

  • @silvialogan9226
    @silvialogan9226 Год назад +3

    Meditating for 10 hours for 10 days would be too much for me, Jade. I understand that it can be terrifying that you were at university for several years and you do not know what you want to do next.

  • @nina93102
    @nina93102 Год назад

    1:35 which podcast was it? I think I might listen to them too!

    • @nina93102
      @nina93102 Год назад

      Oops, nvm! I didn’t realize you showed it on screen

  • @nicole_holding
    @nicole_holding Год назад

    These supplements do not contain fibre so it is important not to rely on them as a replacement to a balanced diet. The five travel packs are given away whether you use the link or not.

  • @alexwyler4570
    @alexwyler4570 Год назад

    How is the AG green powder made? Where is the AG powder made? Where are the ingredients to make the AG powder come from? I am so curious. If we do not know that, it is just a "processed food" . Future video how AG is made? Thanks!

  • @weronikas2317
    @weronikas2317 Год назад

    4.11 what song is this ❤

  • @mhmm2930
    @mhmm2930 Год назад +201

    Please please please wear a cycle helmet Jade, it’s just not worth it- it only takes one stone for you to go head over heels 😢

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +107

      thank you for caring about me 👉👈💛 normally I do, but at home I’m always cycling in fields and small pathways and I convince myself I’ll be fine (probably silly but hey ho)

    • @pepsicolla123
      @pepsicolla123 Год назад +58

      Say this to Dutch people 😂 who don't wear helmets

    • @pepsicolla123
      @pepsicolla123 Год назад +1

      I'm not advising against it though

    • @roosiie2425
      @roosiie2425 Год назад +11

      Haha, wear it where the roads are not save. Dutch person here🙃

    • @lauramulder5914
      @lauramulder5914 Год назад +16

      As a Dutch person this is so funny because I don’t know a single person who has a helmet (I also don’t know anyone who’s hurt their head by falling of their bike even though everyone cycles here)

  • @KtT-sn8cy
    @KtT-sn8cy Год назад +1

    What does she mean by indigenous? Does she mean native Americans?

  • @theprodigalson4003
    @theprodigalson4003 Год назад

    Do you have any clue whatsoever what a standard study period is? I have to put it in a form and I’ve never heard that term in my life

  • @jennal1260
    @jennal1260 Год назад +1

    5:59 Reminds me of how the Bible tells Christians to give 10% of their wealth back to God. It's like a thank you. It shows God that we can give up money (which we need to survive) and trust that He will continue to provide for us.

  • @ViktorOddy
    @ViktorOddy Год назад

    Standing desks are bs

  • @maneskinnnnn7190
    @maneskinnnnn7190 Год назад +1

    Jade i fell off my bike on a busy road. If i hadnt have been wearing a helmet i might not be alive now

    • @UnJadedJade
      @UnJadedJade  Год назад +3

      this is so awful I’m sorry 🥺 I also had a really awful bike accident in Berlin (where I religiously wore a helmet!!). hope you were okay after

  • @safiyah8554
    @safiyah8554 Год назад

    7:332 All these things are gifts from GOD, noone else. think deeper

  • @joaodotcodes
    @joaodotcodes Год назад

    You're in what I would call the "good phase" post-grad before you, I guess, start to deal more with the work world as in having a 9-5 and all that. I'm aware you have RUclips and maybe other things that can be seen as work but still, at least to me, work responsibilities always felt more... important?
    Good luck Jade! Rooting for you!

    • @pepsicolla123
      @pepsicolla123 Год назад

      Not everyone works 9-5 nowadays

    • @joaodotcodes
      @joaodotcodes Год назад

      @@pepsicolla123 indeed you’re totally right, it was just an example I guess 😝

  • @qmuhammadahmed
    @qmuhammadahmed Год назад

    Jade, have you ever thought of nature, animals, and the ecosystem as existing solely for our (human being's) benefit, rather than us being a part of it, encouraging us to care for what is keeping us alive, happy and healthy? 🍀🤔💚
    Also first time watching a video before it has reached a 100 views! Yay! 🥳

    • @maneskinnnnn7190
      @maneskinnnnn7190 Год назад +1

      Nature does not exist for humans benefit. Nature doesnt need humans

    • @KtT-sn8cy
      @KtT-sn8cy Год назад +3

      Seems like a selfish and narcissistic way of looking at things