I would love to hear more about what it has been like to be in a relationship with a 2/4 emotional manifestor as a 3/5 splenic projector. What has stood out for you? (if you care to share)
Hi Diederik, are you also Dutch? Sounds like it! I'm only halfway the video, but I can already feel myself dropping into my projector essence again by watching your embodiment. I watched all of your video's since I really resonate with your vibes. You are a good example for how a healthy splenic projector can be. Did you ever found yourself having a bit of a human design crisis or something in your deconditioning journey? I guess you did? How did you find the believe in yourself (in your worth as a projector) when your surroundings did not see or/and invite you? I'm going up and down in this deconditioning and the big contrasts are speeding up more rapidly over time that it is quite exhausting. One minute I see and feel my worth totally, the next minute I doubt my whole existence. When I can guide, I feel so good. But besides guiding I always feel a really strong pull to be a writer, an artist. It's the thing I did as a kid, but lost it while growing up and tried to pick it up many many times. I didn't see the guiding piece in my creative work at first, but lately I'm feeling it more since I use my own experiences in it. But I can feel jealousy and bitterness around me not having the sacral energy to create a lot, like my favorite artists and some friends can. Luckely I have a few projector friends nowadays and I guess we are guiding each other to be our best versions? Thank you, you give me courage to continue this bumpy journey. Sending you some root-energy, 3/5 Splenic projector, almost quad right :)
hehehe And yes, I am Dutch :) Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Happy to hear you are feeling more aligned and that you are finding yourself surrounded by people that see you and recognize you at your core.
literally crying rn. Wish that I was valued and recognized just as I am without a doubt and that I am just being or doing what I'm meant to without any excessive thoughts. I am so tired. 🙏
I hear you, my friend. It's all about speaking our truth, knowing we needn't compete with the output of others, and let our fractal family find us. Let yourself be heard so that the right people can recognize you
Thank you again for your sharing, Diederik! I am curious about the dynamics between two projectors who are romantic partners as I have been with two projector partners and both didn't work out. One was very passive and when I tried to be active it felt like I was pushing him... so I wonder if you have any insights on this. Thanks and good day!
Thank you for the great question. In the literature, it is said that each type does well romantically when paired with the same type. I can imagine two Projectors would recognize each other deeply and invite one another into sharing their insights and wisdom. However, as you mentioned, such a dynamic may lack in activity. There's a big difference between Projectors depending on many nuances, but in terms of energy, it can be due having few or no motors defined. The sacral, root, heart, and solar plexus centers are motors. As a Projector, we don't have a sacral center defined. Some Projectors don't have any centers defined (self projected & mental projectors) while Emotional Projectors can have up to three defined motors. Does this align with your experience and the designs of your previous Projector partners?
@@ProjectorProjectI also wanted to ask about projector-projector relationship 😄 I have been in a relationship for 5 and a half years with another projector (I discovered about human design after we split up) and my "issues" in this relationship were the energy level and the wait for the invitation part. For the energy level : quite difficult when the other projector is always very low in energy (also I think that ignorance isn't helping...). I felt I had so much more energy than him - despite the fact that I'm a projector myself. Regarding the invitation: very challenging to be with someone who projects at you all the freaking time - without been invited 😅. You just need a shoulder to cry on, arms to surround you but instead you get a whole lecture and bunch of advice 🤯. I don't really feel I've experienced the "been seen" part. But I really think that those issues are related to not knowing ourselves and being in our shadow sides. Today I have more understanding and compassion for his level of energy- and my own. And I'm also more mindful about the waiting for the invitation for myself (a tough one...). My question was about waiting for the invitation: we know as projector that we need to wait for it for the "big" events in ours lives (like getting together, getting married, having kids...). How does that work in that case, if I'm supposed to wait for my partner to ask me to have kids fx, but he is also supposed to wait for this invitation from me...? 😅🤔 Thank you for your really good videos. 🌺😊
Thank you for your heartfelt honest and elevating videos
Thank you for your honest and powerful share. From experience, things can change very quickly when you align with your projector mechanics 🙏❤
I'm in Alaska 😊
Thank you for this video
I am a mental projector with a reflector and 2 kids generator 😁
Thanks for the love
It would be interesting to talk about relationships with the other types too. I am a 3/5 splenic projector married with a 2/4 emotion Manifestor..
I would love to hear more about what it has been like to be in a relationship with a 2/4 emotional manifestor as a 3/5 splenic projector. What has stood out for you? (if you care to share)
I really enjoy your insights & how you shared them with this chill, pretty videos 💜
Thank you
Hi Diederik, are you also Dutch? Sounds like it!
I'm only halfway the video, but I can already feel myself dropping into my projector essence again by watching your embodiment.
I watched all of your video's since I really resonate with your vibes. You are a good example for how a healthy splenic projector can be.
Did you ever found yourself having a bit of a human design crisis or something in your deconditioning journey? I guess you did? How did you find the believe in yourself (in your worth as a projector) when your surroundings did not see or/and invite you? I'm going up and down in this deconditioning and the big contrasts are speeding up more rapidly over time that it is quite exhausting. One minute I see and feel my worth totally, the next minute I doubt my whole existence. When I can guide, I feel so good. But besides guiding I always feel a really strong pull to be a writer, an artist. It's the thing I did as a kid, but lost it while growing up and tried to pick it up many many times. I didn't see the guiding piece in my creative work at first, but lately I'm feeling it more since I use my own experiences in it. But I can feel jealousy and bitterness around me not having the sacral energy to create a lot, like my favorite artists and some friends can.
Luckely I have a few projector friends nowadays and I guess we are guiding each other to be our best versions?
Thank you, you give me courage to continue this bumpy journey.
Sending you some root-energy,
3/5 Splenic projector, almost quad right :)
Listened to the second part and you almost answered everything I asked later on I guess 😂
hehehe
And yes, I am Dutch :)
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Happy to hear you are feeling more aligned and that you are finding yourself surrounded by people that see you and recognize you at your core.
Do you think you could do a video for lonely projectors, how to find your ‘tribe’ thank you!🌼
Thank you for the recommendation. I will for sure
Yayyyy thank you so much 🙏💎
literally crying rn. Wish that I was valued and recognized just as I am without a doubt and that I am just being or doing what I'm meant to without any excessive thoughts.
I am so tired.
🙏
Thank you
I hear you, my friend. It's all about speaking our truth, knowing we needn't compete with the output of others, and let our fractal family find us. Let yourself be heard so that the right people can recognize you
Thank you again for your sharing, Diederik!
I am curious about the dynamics between two projectors who are romantic partners as I have been with two projector partners and both didn't work out. One was very passive and when I tried to be active it felt like I was pushing him... so I wonder if you have any insights on this. Thanks and good day!
Thank you for the great question.
In the literature, it is said that each type does well romantically when paired with the same type. I can imagine two Projectors would recognize each other deeply and invite one another into sharing their insights and wisdom. However, as you mentioned, such a dynamic may lack in activity. There's a big difference between Projectors depending on many nuances, but in terms of energy, it can be due having few or no motors defined. The sacral, root, heart, and solar plexus centers are motors. As a Projector, we don't have a sacral center defined. Some Projectors don't have any centers defined (self projected & mental projectors) while Emotional Projectors can have up to three defined motors.
Does this align with your experience and the designs of your previous Projector partners?
@@ProjectorProjectI also wanted to ask about projector-projector relationship 😄
I have been in a relationship for 5 and a half years with another projector (I discovered about human design after we split up) and my "issues" in this relationship were the energy level and the wait for the invitation part.
For the energy level : quite difficult when the other projector is always very low in energy (also I think that ignorance isn't helping...). I felt I had so much more energy than him - despite the fact that I'm a projector myself.
Regarding the invitation: very challenging to be with someone who projects at you all the freaking time - without been invited 😅. You just need a shoulder to cry on, arms to surround you but instead you get a whole lecture and bunch of advice 🤯.
I don't really feel I've experienced the "been seen" part.
But I really think that those issues are related to not knowing ourselves and being in our shadow sides. Today I have more understanding and compassion for his level of energy- and my own. And I'm also more mindful about the waiting for the invitation for myself (a tough one...).
My question was about waiting for the invitation: we know as projector that we need to wait for it for the "big" events in ours lives (like getting together, getting married, having kids...). How does that work in that case, if I'm supposed to wait for my partner to ask me to have kids fx, but he is also supposed to wait for this invitation from me...? 😅🤔
Thank you for your really good videos. 🌺😊
Who’s this guy you’ve been referring to , plz ?
I am referring to Richard Rudd, the author of the Gene Keys and someone who has been doing work in the human design realm as well.