Therapist Reacts To: All Too Well (10 Minute Version) by Taylor Swift!

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  • Опубликовано: 12 окт 2022
  • A lot of you have been requesting this one so here it is! This is one of my favorite Taylor Swift songs of all time! As always, I love hearing all of your interpretations of the lyrics so please leave a comment below! I love making these reactions for you all so keep the suggestions coming! Don't forget to leave a like and subscribe :)
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  • @mrzimnafurane
    @mrzimnafurane Год назад +841

    I also think that this song very much indicates that the guy gaslighted the protagonist. Throughout the song she repeats, "I was there, I remember it all too well". And the fact that she keeps telling us details on what happened. I can almost hear him saying how their relationship wasnt very serious and minimizing her feelings. To the point that she had to write this song as a way to reassure herself, it was real, it was rare, she was there. In the end of the song she switches it and says "YOU remember it all two well". I can almost see her screaming at him "I know that you know what happened , why are you pretending it didn't?"

    • @theeemaven
      @theeemaven Год назад +40

      "...& was thinking...
      any time now, he's gonna say it's love.
      [[you never called it what it was]].
      'til we were dead & gone & buried
      Check the pulse & come back swearing it's the same after three months in the grave. & then you wondered where it went, as I reached for you,
      [[But all I felt was shame]]
      & you held my lifeless frame."
      Yes, I absolutely agree.

    • @irismargarita4249
      @irismargarita4249 Год назад +3

      Wow!

    • @kgsjk
      @kgsjk Год назад +4

      This 😭😭😭

    • @joseaguayo3185
      @joseaguayo3185 Год назад +30

      This screams gaslighting so loud it hurts. The music video also showed that.

    • @nealm6764
      @nealm6764 Год назад

      I wish "therapists" would correct you armchair psychologist who act like anytime there is a disagreement or difference of opinions the male is "gaslighting".

  • @Sofia-fp4mw
    @Sofia-fp4mw Год назад +453

    I saw someones comment on another video that the "fuck the patriarchy" keychain suggests that he was a feminist or trying to come across as one, but he throws the keys on the ground so she has to get down to get them instead of just giving them to her directly. So basically he was a feminist just for public. I found this really intresting. Again not my thought, all credit to the writer of the comment.

    • @lumarocha1847
      @lumarocha1847 Год назад +20

      Wow didn’t realize this until now

    • @allisonhunter1063
      @allisonhunter1063 Год назад +7

      That's amazing I've literally never thought of it that way I just assumed it was like you know like when you toss somebody to the car keys and they don't always catch them or like my mom she is always afraid that she'll hit me and hurt me or something I'm 32 LOL but when she tosses me the car keys she tosses them like at my feet next to me so she doesn't accidentally hit me with them cuz she has a wild pitch and it's just bad LOL. So that's how I always took that line was like he tossed her the keys and you know they just like fell on the ground like she didn't catch them but that makes so much more sense that he intentionally threw them on the ground and was like here you go like wow that's f***** up.

    • @nealm6764
      @nealm6764 Год назад +5

      @@allisonhunter1063 Oh no, it was a big conspiracy of him to undermine feminism, not just a spur of the moment jerk thing because he was angry at something else and wasn't focused on her.
      seriously I doubt he even thought a second about it, let alone pan it as some grand gesture to put her in her place. He just tossed them and they came up short.

    • @laurafritch658
      @laurafritch658 Год назад +4

      I've also wondered if there was something to the fact that she didn't catch them...like the stereotype that girls can't catch and she felt stupid that she dropped them. The F the patriarchy part plays into this interpretation too.

    • @ninawoltmann
      @ninawoltmann Год назад +16

      @@nealm6764 totally agree, although I think the key throwing is more of a lyrical metaphor and not a real thing he did with full consideration. I also read a comment saying the 'fuck the patriarchy' ob the ground just metaphorically means that he pretends to stand behind these values but (if he gets mad) he really doesn't care about them at all and just 'tosses them tobthe ground'. So I guess its more about the interpretation than what he really did and/or intended with it :)

  • @michelle6337
    @michelle6337 Год назад +303

    "The idea you had of me, who was she? A never-needy, ever-lovely jewel, whose shine reflect on you." Is SUCH a great line and is definitely one of my favorite things she's ever written. It is poetic and brutal and cuts straight to the core of that type of man who seeks out beautiful young women to make them look good, but as soon as they start acting "needy" they're out the door. I've always loved All Too Well, but that line really elevated it even more which I didn't think possible.

  • @tessarenae4712
    @tessarenae4712 Год назад +224

    “You kept me like a secret, but I kept you like an oath” everyone says they were only together for 3 months but this almost reads to me like they were together longer but he kept it secret. 😢

    • @xgise
      @xgise Год назад +7

      I'm confused by this line now that I think about it. Like, she said he kept her like a secret but everyone knew they were dating, I mean he introduced her to his family and friends, there were pictures of them together from very early on in the relationship, if we asume the scarf from the song is the one she is wearing on that photo and she had that scarf the very first week like she says in the song and ended up losing it after they went to her sisters house, then it doesn't leave much space for the theory about them dating for longer if we consider the time frame described in the song and the fact that Jake was photographed wearing that scarf some time later. So I don't really understand what she means when she says he kept her like a secret and "nobody had to know"

    • @tiannemcgee646
      @tiannemcgee646 Год назад +12

      So i think it had to have started before they “announced it” and made it public. Maybe he just was saying we’re just friends for awhile meanwhile the feelings for her were real and continuing to get stronger. And she knew he liked her. Spending time with her, as her friend, knowing he was interested in her. He kept her around….secretly. So like a secret meanwhile she kept him like an oath. She fell hard for him. The trip to Maggie’s house she mentions it was fall. Fall in upstate New York starts in September. The “very first week”… there’s no way. They had to have spent time together enough before they drove up to meet his family. Then after that trip they split up and he called her back up after “3 months in the grave” of the relationship being over to try again ya da ya da ya da then he no showed on her bday.

    • @tiannemcgee646
      @tiannemcgee646 Год назад +15

      And also….it’s said the scarf is symbolic to her virginity. Sounds like while on that trip she gave it up to him. The next line after the oath line is sacred prayer and we’d swear to remember it all to well. Like they talked about it and how much it meant to her for her to give herself to him and to him he yes’d her into bed then once he got what he wanted he decided she’s too needy and not what he wants. So the drive back down to the city she was sitting there smitten and envisioning their future desperate for him to turn to her and say he loves her and he was thinking of his way out.

    • @keymeko95
      @keymeko95 4 месяца назад +1

      I just assumed they probably were on and off without people knowing

    • @keymeko95
      @keymeko95 4 месяца назад +1

      Also like she was 19 but she mentions turning 21 and wanting him there and we are never getting back together also suggests that somehow he might have been still feeding her feelings in some ways

  • @ksenijajemensek6126
    @ksenijajemensek6126 Год назад +135

    In my opinion, this is the most beautiful song ever

    • @daisy2499
      @daisy2499 Год назад +12

      I think it’s her “magnum opus” up to this point, at least. She’s absolutely brilliant though. I love Taylor.

  • @C-Iris
    @C-Iris Год назад +159

    The outro in this version gives me the feeling of closure or reminiscence of the relationship as opposed to the 5min version where the heartbreak feels much more recent.

  • @Desperica
    @Desperica Год назад +171

    The most chilling thing to me is that John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal were less than a year apart.
    She barely had time to blink after the first slimeball, and then here comes Jacob with his maple lattes and his dumb keychain.
    So much empathy for Baby Taylor, and so much awe for her songwriting ability. ❤❤❤

    • @kakuspis
      @kakuspis Год назад +25

      here comes Jacob with his maple lattes and his dumb keychain is the best beat thing I've ever heard. Thank you!

  • @meghaname9271
    @meghaname9271 Год назад +101

    The line "If we had been closer in age maybe it would have been fine" and "I'll get older but your lovers stay my age" hints that he continues to treat the new women (after Taylor) like how he treated her. This is how emotional abusive partners are, they continue to remain the same.

    • @lovingherwasgay
      @lovingherwasgay Год назад +12

      And that their age was never really the problem in the first place! If it was, he wouldn't keep on dating people much younger than him. So whatever problem she had with Taylor (probably that she didn't live up to the idealized version of her he had), he couldn't even be honest about it, he used the age as an excuse for dumping her.

  • @ryansmith2015
    @ryansmith2015 Год назад +94

    when i think of the crumpeled piece of paper line I think of how in like my fourth grade class our teacher had us take a piece of paper that was great and crumple it and then try to flatin it back up but it never fully goes back to straight so I think like those like words and feelings always stay with you even if you don't want them to.

    • @JessicaNicoleFaust
      @JessicaNicoleFaust Год назад +4

      I love this! I never thought of that. Thank you for explaining.🙌

    • @readaholicgirl_5
      @readaholicgirl_5 Год назад +3

      In elementary school they did a contest with a few students to see who could get all the toothpaste out of the tube. They then asked them to put it back in. It was then a segway to explain it's easy to let hurtful words out of your mouth but much difficult to take them back.

  • @brucebrown3837
    @brucebrown3837 Год назад +55

    The song about her 21st birthday that J*ke missed was "The Moment I Knew"

  • @marielarvizu9761
    @marielarvizu9761 Год назад +76

    This song is a playbook of what love bombing is all about in a relationship with a narcissist. Thanks for doing this video ❤

  • @FuseboxFan-zf2nk
    @FuseboxFan-zf2nk Месяц назад +3

    I am a 73-year-old man. This song touches my heart and reminds me so much of several relationships. (One in particular.) And just of loss and longing. I cry to this song. I remember it all too well. I might be ok but I am not fine at all. My tears help me heal and know how much I was hurt. I was there.

  • @deemora495
    @deemora495 Год назад +32

    A twin flame is when a soul splits into two and then two people emerge into separate lives only to find each other later or in another lifetime. It can be romantic or any other relationship but either way, meeting again is meant to teach a life lesson, often difficult, bc the bond will never end.

  • @autumnpatena7498
    @autumnpatena7498 2 месяца назад +3

    Twin flames tend to get mixed up with soul mates
    Your twin flame is not who you’re meant to be with. A twin flame is someone who tends to show up seemingly out of no where but you two instantly click. It burns bright and passionate FAST. But like all flames, especially a candle, it eventually goes out. The purpose is a twin flame is to leave you with a lasting impact in life and teach both a major life lesson ❤️

  • @kakeen1977
    @kakeen1977 Год назад +14

    "when I was an old cardigan"
    My mom always used to say "don't become the old shoe under the bed to your man".... that's when a man is completely taking you for granted
    I think there was a man taking her for granted, ignoring her, neglecting her.
    He came along and said "hey you're special, you're not JUST special, but you're my favorite" and he pulled her out from under the bed.

  • @waceylittleben8148
    @waceylittleben8148 Год назад +40

    The scarf reference is literal and metaphorical.

    • @XxBloggs
      @XxBloggs Год назад +1

      It is JUST a metaphor. It was never ever literal.

    • @WildeMermaid
      @WildeMermaid Год назад +9

      ​​@@XxBloggs it is both. There are actually photos of him wearing one of her scarfs after their breakup (or an identical one to photos of her wearing it while they were together)... it could be argued maybe she wore his then but given the lyrics I doubt it. All you have to do is Google both of their names with scarf & there are plenty of pics with dates & everything.

    • @bronwyn117
      @bronwyn117 3 месяца назад

      @@WildeMermaid I know Taylor said it was a metaphor, but I really think the scarf is real based on the pics I’ve seen!

  • @gend4926
    @gend4926 Год назад +60

    This song kills me. It's just about being sure - probably incorrectly - that it's really love, and that he's just SCARED by the intensity of his feelings ("I was there, it was rare", "maybe I asked too much", "maybe this thing was a masterpiece 'til you tore it all up, running scared"). He wasn't scared, he just wasn't invested in the relationship. He didn't call it love, because it wasn't for him. Ugh. This kills me, because I dated a version of this guy. I was so sure that he cared but just couldn't or wouldn't admit it - it was too hard and painful to accept that he just didn't care. He acted like an asshole because he is. "Just between us did the love affair maim you too?". Nope. It didn't. That's hard to accept.

    • @xgise
      @xgise Год назад +9

      I kinda disagree, I think that he actually was very invested and maybe did see a future with her, but he was insecure and a bit of a coward who ended up self sabotaging and destroying her in the process. He wasn't self aware enough to admit that he was in love and also not brave enough to do what he needed to do to help the relationship grow and probably that's the reason behind the rage she lets seeps through in her voice, because it probably was leading up to be a masterpiece but then he ended up destroying everything. I've never gotten the feeling that the moments she remembers were fake, after all he did take her to meet his family, she got to meet his friends, they did have all those beautiful moments together, so I don't think he was faking his feelings for her, at least early on. And I think you can kinda tell when someone is faking their feelings, gaslighting you into believing they love you when actually they don't. If not in the moment, at least retrospectively and I don't get that feeling from the song. The feeling I get from the new lyrics is that they had something good but he was too much of a coward to fight for it and do what needed to be done

    • @alfictabla5215
      @alfictabla5215 Год назад +2

      @@xgise I didn’t say - and don’t think - that the memories were “fake”. I think he’s too emotionally immature to have a real relationship. It’s overly charitable to think he was “scared”.

    • @nealm6764
      @nealm6764 Год назад +2

      This is correct.
      He had an endless stream of attractive young females who would love to be with him, and he wasn't as serious about this relationship as she was.
      This was her first serious relationship and it wounded her, but he moved past it with little effort.

    • @blymperopoulou5410
      @blymperopoulou5410 Год назад +2

      Yeah but you see we have other songs of him too, like we are never getting back together which tells me that he did return multiple times. And this points to strong emotion combined with immaturity. So, I too believe that writing these songs nowadays she wouldn’t be sure of his emotions had they been fake. Probably he hit her up again multiple times and she was the one to ultimately reject him after what he put her through back then. That’s why she wrote bet you think about me. Probably she knows if he does or not. But who knows? Probably he is a little bit shallow to admit that or to work on it.

  • @Eden_Rivers
    @Eden_Rivers Год назад +118

    I'm a writer and it surprised me that so many people miss the "fu#! the patriarchy" line. It's not the key fob that says "fu#! the patriarchy." "Fu#! the patriarchy" is what he says to her as he tosses her the car keys, indicating that she should drive instead of him--in opposition of the idea that when in a couple, the man usually drives. We can take it even further and say that the keys and the car and the act of driving are metaphors for the relationship itself. He's telling her, "you take the lead." And even further, the keychain ends up on the ground ... She doesn't catch the keys, meaning: she doesn't take the lead. She then immediately realizes they're always leaving town ... That's not her idea it's his. He wants to keep her a secret. And he's definitely not giving her control of the relationship.

    • @user-sn2cx7fb5w
      @user-sn2cx7fb5w Год назад +4

      wrong. lyrics arent put in quotes and grammatically doesnt make sense

    • @patlafever2049
      @patlafever2049 Год назад +7

      YES, YES, YES!! That's it exactly! I keep trying to tell people that. That he throws the keys and he's saying in a way "F**K the patriarchy by having her drive instead of him. When, as you said, it's usually the man driving. There's no key chain that says that literally. You are so totally correct there that I had to respond! Thank you!

    • @Shant3ll998
      @Shant3ll998 Год назад +11

      I think it could have a double interpretation, as a meaning hasn’t been officially confirmed, because a fuck the patriarchy keychain was sold, people believe it means he tossed her a keychain that said it, others believe he said it while tossing her a keychain. i think both meanings are valid and make sense.

    • @CatherinesClaws
      @CatherinesClaws Год назад +7

      @@user-sn2cx7fb5w what do you mean "wrong" 💀 thats quite literally what it means, even in the short film

    • @cynhanrahan4012
      @cynhanrahan4012 10 месяцев назад +1

      Replying the next summer, I think this is where the curse of being a very successful woman not trying to top a man but that's how he takes it because of fragile ego or whatever comes into play in that situation. I try to not think of it as a curse because there are several very successful women artists I can think of who manage a decent relationship with regular guys on the long term, but she was a kid when she wrote this, and honestly so was he. No man is really grown at 28/29 and no girl is a woman at 19/20/21. Analyzing it as adults ten + years later, or for me 3+ decades, we see things differently now. So does TS. But I'm so glad she produced the long version, it's an amazing slice of life art piece.

  • @emmaisinexile1987
    @emmaisinexile1987 Год назад +33

    You can tell it still hurts when she sings this song 🥺

  • @captain.yaryar
    @captain.yaryar 10 месяцев назад +9

    All Too Well (10 Minute Version) is one of her best songs ever, in my opinion, the lyrics, the production, the way you can just feel how she was feeling during this relationship. everything is just wonderful and beautiful.

  • @RiskaYulya2807
    @RiskaYulya2807 Год назад +34

    I think when she says 'I am a soldier who is returning half her weight' means that now she is moving on. When they were in relationship, like you said, it felt like a war and now the war is over and she is returning the armor that had been weighting her all this time.

    • @lindseycassella3015
      @lindseycassella3015 Год назад +4

      That's how I interpret it too

    • @tiff5756
      @tiff5756 Год назад +8

      She actually has spoken out about having an eating disorder

  • @servicedogkyzanna1761
    @servicedogkyzanna1761 Год назад +25

    He threw the keys down in the dirt- he was fighting with someone on the phone about the paparazzi finding them even in upstate NY and getting pictures- you see the references in the film.

  • @daisy2499
    @daisy2499 Год назад +23

    You should do an analysis on “sweet nothings” from Midnights. Such a peaceful (truly peaceful, finally) song and hopefully means she is finally secure and happy

  • @morganproctor7521
    @morganproctor7521 Год назад +17

    I’m sure others have talked about this but this was her first serious relationship after John Mayer. Imagine how devastating that year had to be for her.

  • @henrywasserman
    @henrywasserman Год назад +20

    When Taylor says "Just between us" it has a double meaning. It fits for her ex lover - but - "Just between us" is also Taylor calling to anyone who is listening to the song. And those lyrics make the song intimate between her and the listener. 'Just between us did the love affair maim you" now the conversation becomes whether the love affair we had maimed us and Taylor won't tell a soul about it.

  • @radhikasharma7727
    @radhikasharma7727 Год назад +10

    I feel that I remember it all too well is an underrated line cause he gaslighted her so bad that she has to remind herself I was there it was rare I remember it all too well. Like was it even real because he is acting like it never happened.

    • @tricia007100
      @tricia007100 11 месяцев назад +2

      That's exactly it! Narcissist behaviors...they tell you..."That never happened" to try to make you think you're crazy. No - I REMEMBER IT ALL TOO WELL!!!

  • @causeimamirrorball
    @causeimamirrorball 11 месяцев назад +7

    I think we should talk about the " 'Til we were dead and gone and buried, check the pulse and come back swearing, it's the same after three months in the grave."
    It shows how they felt, especially her, after the relationship was over. She was dead and buried and he used to check the pulse, to find out about her feelings, and then swear about how this whole thing ended up. Taylor, also, says that for three months, as long as the relationship lasted, she was in a grave, representing her falling out and how he and the relationship somehow ruined her.

  • @direwolf6234
    @direwolf6234 8 месяцев назад +3

    the specific imagery she chooses is reminiscent of the details that speringsteen weaves into a song that we all can relate to .. the cold / a sister's house / a scarf / autumn leaves / being upstate / small town streets / red lights / snow / downstairs ... you get the picture .... without thinking each one triggers a feeling and an emotional response

  • @karlyjones8257
    @karlyjones8257 Год назад +65

    Can you do illicit affairs next !!?

  • @Brianna-yx6xl
    @Brianna-yx6xl Год назад +21

    Thank you for reacting to All to well!!! I love this song so much and I love your videos. You help me understand the meaning of Taylor’s songs and make me think of her songs in a totally different way :)

  • @roseelliott2728
    @roseelliott2728 Год назад +8

    You’re channel just came up,on my recommendations. Really enjoying your reactions, edits, and commentary ❤

  • @jadepeters7625
    @jadepeters7625 Год назад +5

    Ok so if they first were rumored together when she was 19 and he didn’t come to her 21st bday they DEF had a thing longer than 3 months

  • @crgreen8145
    @crgreen8145 7 месяцев назад +4

    The outro is like an incantation or hymn & uses the words ‘sacred prayer’. This relationship affected her on a profound & spiritual level, and she felt utterly bereft & confused by how easily he could discard something that mattered so much to her. She is almost using this incantation to remind herself it was real & her feelings & responses were valid, as he obviously minimised the whole thing. We can all relate to those relationships where one person gives their all & the other has one foot out of the door (whilst performatively giving their all too). It’s deceptive & damaging & creates huge trust issues.

  • @aprildawnsunshine4326
    @aprildawnsunshine4326 Год назад +6

    Just watched the would've could've should've react vid and OMG the scarf is her "girlhood" for sure!
    "Kept me like a secret" gods I can relate to that! He actually had me convinced it was a good thing he cheated on all his girlfriends with me, like it proved his love for me and how special I was to him.

  • @Love-so7rs
    @Love-so7rs Год назад +9

    I’m not much of a talker so I’m not one to comment much but I felt compelled to say thanks .Yes you’re reacting to Taylor’s lyrics, but you share so much of yourself with us in the process and that takes a lot of courage, vulnerability and strength. ❤️

  • @suzanneo.4491
    @suzanneo.4491 4 месяца назад +2

    I love now you picked up on the lyric “made me your own” and equated it to the scarf. I took the made me your own to be loss of her innocence as well. ❤😢

  • @user-mu1jb8jj9b
    @user-mu1jb8jj9b 10 месяцев назад +2

    i will never get tired of your content ily mere

  • @pepeoctam.8327
    @pepeoctam.8327 4 месяца назад +1

    Finally someone talks about the verse "Just between us did the love affair maim you too?" 😢 I love that line

  • @bronwyn117
    @bronwyn117 3 месяца назад

    Loved this reaction video! Great job!

  • @taychristine2993
    @taychristine2993 Год назад +23

    Love your reactions/ analysis. Would love to see you react to the video sometime too 😊 Thank you for taking the time

  • @viktoriejalovcova3038
    @viktoriejalovcova3038 Год назад +12

    Please, react to The Moment I Knew, it sheds more light on what happened at the birthday party.

  • @gabriellajasmine4479
    @gabriellajasmine4479 10 месяцев назад +2

    you remind me so much of my therpist it’s so comforting

  • @daisy2499
    @daisy2499 Год назад +9

    The twin flame reference is also about them both being Sagittarius

    • @tiff5756
      @tiff5756 Год назад +1

      I don’t think so…if you look into twin flames, a lot of people believe that age gaps are common and a runner and a chaser are common. I believe her mentioning it has more to do with that and the kind of connects she believed they had at the time

    • @nealm6764
      @nealm6764 Год назад +2

      Twin flame references separated soul mates. The love that burns you the deepest.

    • @NinjaBooKitty
      @NinjaBooKitty 2 месяца назад

      She literally said it in 'State of Grace'-'Just twin fire signs, four blue eyes'.@@tiff5756

    • @agwarddd
      @agwarddd 2 месяца назад

      i think connected, but not necessarily a reference. the concept of the twin flame references soulmates more, but she did also refer to them as “twin fire signs” so its fits as a connection.

    • @NinjaBooKitty
      @NinjaBooKitty 2 месяца назад

      Y'all really do believe anything. No means no, not chase me against my will. @@tiff5756

  • @gemmafortino7423
    @gemmafortino7423 Год назад +4

    Some lines link this song to the 19th song in Midnight. And the age of the protagonist: 19 at the start, 21 at the end. Same wound, different approach. Thank you, Taylor, your truth is deeeper and connects us all.

  • @sandracosta3845
    @sandracosta3845 Год назад +18

    You should watch the short film it has a great fight scene that I'd love to hear you break down

  • @crazyslothlady419
    @crazyslothlady419 Год назад +8

    They dated for 3 months. So the “after 3 months in the grave” line I think refers to the length of the relationship and the toxicity of it and effect it had on Taylor

  • @feelingReckless13
    @feelingReckless13 Год назад +1

    I live upstate too! but definitely not near the city; think wine and ivy league :) this song is so much fun to listen to here in the fall, it's a perfect match for fall in upstate NY! which is funny because it's generally a very sad song. When it first came out I listened to this song every day on my walk to the bus stop to go to work which coincidentally was a 10 minute walk. I love hearing your thoughts on her songs!

  • @michaelaegger3260
    @michaelaegger3260 Год назад +3

    I think it would be amazing to see you react to the All Too Well short film followed by the I Bet You Think About Me music video. They take you so much deeper into the story back when Taylor wrote All too well - and then to today.

  • @JasmineBella
    @JasmineBella Год назад

    I love this video series !!!!!

  • @roseelliott2728
    @roseelliott2728 Год назад +8

    Would love to see you tackle Mad Woman

  • @karenbrown1026
    @karenbrown1026 Год назад +7

    The intro of the 10 minute version has music that sounds like it is from her song Don't You. I cry every time I hear that song. I think the two songs are related because it's about not getting back together. What do you think?

  • @nick-cx5od
    @nick-cx5od Год назад +5

    taylor swifts new album midnights out on Oct 21st make sure you buy and stream 😊👏🏻

  • @MissEnemark
    @MissEnemark Месяц назад +1

    I feel like the end of this song where she for like 30 seconds keep saying "wind in my hair", "down the stairs" , and follow it with "I was there, I was there" is like she is trying to convince herself she's not imagining it like "it happened, i remember it".
    And that's why she ask him "Do you remember it all too well", like does he remember and is he affected by the memories aswell? Cause the way he seems unbothered is making her question her self. Just like in Tolerate it "If its all in my head tell me now". And its the worst feeling. Knowing deep in your core that it was real, that happened but the other one walks on in their life like nothing ever happened.. 💔

  • @kathysjourney3868
    @kathysjourney3868 Год назад +2

    ❤️❤️thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @ayendysalcie2509
    @ayendysalcie2509 Год назад

    GIRL I M HERE FOR IT

  • @Michelle-mh2tg
    @Michelle-mh2tg Год назад +14

    I discovered your channel like two hours ago and I love it so much already!!! When you’re done with Taylor, perhaps you could check out some Conan Gray, Sabrina Carpenter or Gabrielle Aplin, I think their songs are just up your alley

  • @melliecara
    @melliecara Год назад

    The music video of this 10 min version is great!

  • @Natex251
    @Natex251 Год назад +1

    Yes! Please do the movie also

  • @grassgrees6728
    @grassgrees6728 11 месяцев назад +1

    i love this song personally because i am able to validate my shadow of codependency and "needy" and clingy. and realising that im one step closer to secure attachment!!! yeayyy

  • @MariaLuiza-uw4xz
    @MariaLuiza-uw4xz Год назад +5

    pleaseee react to Dear John, for me its even sadder than all too well, when she dated John she was 19 and he was 32

  • @allisonhunter1063
    @allisonhunter1063 Год назад +6

    A twin flame is like your soul has been split in half and you've met the person who contains the other half of your soul. Whereas a soulmate is just somebody that makes your soul feel at home and you have a lot of the same likes and things like that. So neither twin flames nor soulmates have to be romantic in nature it could be a friend a sibling anybody.

    • @MermaidCore_
      @MermaidCore_ Год назад

      Sagittarius are fire signs. Taylor and Jake are both Sagittarius (December)

    • @allisonhunter1063
      @allisonhunter1063 Год назад

      @@MermaidCore_ Twin flame doesn't mean fire sign... has nothing to do with it. Many ancient cultures including the Romans, thought your life was like a candle lit within your chest and that you could be killed if someone ran up to you and blew it out. Flame was another word for the soul, life.

  • @luanadesouzaleandro6100
    @luanadesouzaleandro6100 Год назад +4

    Again OMG all your reactions are The best! I m here from brazil on my knees asking YOU to react “emails i cant sand” from Sabrina please love u

  • @madlybs
    @madlybs Год назад

    So many insights!

  • @Sofia-fp4mw
    @Sofia-fp4mw Год назад +20

    I think the twin flame lyric was about them both being fire signs. You know flame/fire? Also saw this in someone elses comment

  • @MrNicoagb
    @MrNicoagb Год назад +3

    Please do happiness. One of my faves on evermore

  • @rominamoheno9378
    @rominamoheno9378 Год назад +14

    Can you do happiness by Taylor?? :)

  • @samanthayuen1315
    @samanthayuen1315 Год назад +12

    “Crumbled up piece of paper lying here” - back to John mayar calling her a “paper doll” -> emotional abuse lasting b/c the relationship w JG was not far after JM

  • @juliakunzler7511
    @juliakunzler7511 Год назад +4

    you should react to her documentary!!!

  • @gc4037
    @gc4037 Год назад +5

    You need to do Stay Stay Stay! I think it could be interesting

  • @MandiSings94
    @MandiSings94 Год назад +2

    The subtlety of the repeated "I was there" throughout the song almost to convince herself, "we were both there, I was there, I remember it even if you want to pretend it didn't happen." 💔 Makes me think there was gaslighting or she was made to feel overdramatic and that their connection wasn't as profound as it was, and she's saying "the two of us know what truly went down."

  • @gwendolynpatterson3185
    @gwendolynpatterson3185 Месяц назад

    When she references her birthday as a sad day in other songs, I can’t help but to think it’s because of Jake, in this song

  • @3Chinchillaboys
    @3Chinchillaboys 22 дня назад

    I read a theory that the Manuscript is about this song and relationship and how she then wrote and directed the short film.

  • @AustinAshburn
    @AustinAshburn Год назад +2

    a reaction to "happiness" by t swift would be amazing

  • @GoldenPerception
    @GoldenPerception Год назад

    I recommend reacting to the moment I knew! It covers the birthday party

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 7 месяцев назад

    Alot of love songs are about Tony and I but we have been soulmates for a least 4 lifetimes and they've kept us from getting married. I remember being bonnie and clyde I remember halloweentown I remember buffy the vampire slayer, I remember burning as a witch at Washington school. There's so many meanings to this. Most important thing is we've been trying to protect the amendments and get tesla the credit they deserve. Not the damn trumps

  • @awesomelyandrea2652
    @awesomelyandrea2652 Год назад +8

    I believe the scarf is her virginity. I never realized that, but she strongly alluded to that in a press conference recently.

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Год назад +6

      Hi Andrea, I actually had that in the video, that I believed it was her virginity and it may have happened at the sisters house but I cut it out because for some reason, it made me feel bad to point that even though it is my first instinct. What do you think? Should I have kept it in?

    • @awesomelyandrea2652
      @awesomelyandrea2652 Год назад +5

      @@mendwithmere I agree that it's a bit icky to speculate or talk about someone else's virginity! I don't blame you for taking it out. I only mentioned it because she has strongly alluded to the this, and I missed that when I heard the song. And it's actually a beautiful metaphor! And it also explains a lot about why a relatively short relationship impacted her in such a strong way.

    • @kxue
      @kxue Год назад +6

      I used to think so too, but then I listened to the "took my girlhood" reference in Would've could've should've, and it seems that she lost it to John Mayer 🤔

    • @missblondie998
      @missblondie998 Год назад

      @@kxue Same and now I've just been wondering what the metaphorical meaning of the scarf is

    • @timaessam1401
      @timaessam1401 24 дня назад

      ​@@missblondie998
      Could be her innocence.

  • @BenjaminBill-jw4rn
    @BenjaminBill-jw4rn 6 месяцев назад

    U were so good my my

  • @daliavg1
    @daliavg1 Год назад

    Yes, react to the video version.🙏

  • @jerryfoust3860
    @jerryfoust3860 Месяц назад

    What is that painting behind you about?

  • @jdb8104
    @jdb8104 Год назад +1

    Omg. Can you do Mad Woman next?

  • @fitiaratsirarson6781
    @fitiaratsirarson6781 Год назад

    2:57 um please Taylor drive safely, 10:09 God my fave part of the song, 12:16 so true😂 14:26 the moment I knew😅

  • @melandloloveholo2519
    @melandloloveholo2519 Год назад +3

    After listening to would've, could've, should've do we not think that the red scarf in all too well is a metaphor for her virginity? I think it could've been either one of them

  • @berndgruner8510
    @berndgruner8510 16 дней назад

    Danke für die Musik 🎶 für die Welt 🗺 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HeffaSwift
    @HeffaSwift 7 месяцев назад

    I remember anything I've ever written down even if they repeatedly erased my memory to make me forget my soulmate

  • @Sassyglbeauty
    @Sassyglbeauty 6 месяцев назад

    My daughters 3 year boyfriend broke up with her on her 21st birthday. As a mom, your heart breaks when your daughter has her heart broken on one of the “big” moments in their life. But, she’s met someone great and he made sure t9 treat her to the best Birthdsy ever. Spent 1100 on Lana tickets and took her to Florida, got her friends to write things sweet about her and had them in a little bag for her. Just a gem of a man!

  • @cynhanrahan4012
    @cynhanrahan4012 10 месяцев назад

    I love it that there is a therapist Swifty. My therapist doesn't get any of my pop references, and it takes all my language skills to describe what I need to communicate. "...it reminds you of innocence, and it smells like me." The sister said there was no scarf left, so we artists use a lot of creative license but I've always believed there really was a red scarf she lost. Maybe that's because of the closing scene in the short film. FWIW, I'm crocheting a red scarf as a talisman to remind me to hold onto myself.

  • @ronaldmoreno3504
    @ronaldmoreno3504 Год назад +4

    Please react to Tis' the damn season

  • @pauls0305
    @pauls0305 Год назад +2

    could you please react to moon song by phoebe bridgers??

  • @elenakeudel3981
    @elenakeudel3981 Год назад +2

    pls react to enough for you by olivia rodrigo!!!

  • @lolmsp1749
    @lolmsp1749 11 месяцев назад

    please react to peace next by Taylor Swift! Love your reactions!

  • @babyjane534
    @babyjane534 Год назад

    I love you

  • @CAMPFIRESKY
    @CAMPFIRESKY 4 месяца назад

    Hopefully you have reacted to the MINI MOVIE.... It is a masterpiece.

  • @allisonhunter1063
    @allisonhunter1063 Год назад

    It's like a guy I was just getting to know and everything was going great he's dealing with a lot of stuff right now and he truly does not believe that he is worth being cared for and he hasn't talked to me for weeks and won't respond to anything so I've just stopped trying. There's only so much that you can do to let somebody know that they are worth your time and that you do want to take that time and spend it on them and that you think it is a valuable investment even if they don't. But like you said in another video when somebody tells you who they are listen. He told me basically the very first couple of days that we were hanging out that he would do this that he always does this and it's when he gets feelings for somebody that he really cares about and knows that they care equally about him it like freaks him out and makes him think that something is wrong with you because you care about him it's really sad and really f***** up and I wish I knew how to help but I'm smart enough to know that I can't help somebody who doesn't want me to.

  • @ns9131
    @ns9131 Год назад +3

    TS sold f*** the patriarchy keychains. I wonder if he bought her merch.

  • @Kate-hi1us
    @Kate-hi1us Год назад +1

    I feel
    Like Taylor keeps getting love bombed 😅

  • @malakmohamed4644
    @malakmohamed4644 Год назад +1

    Can you please react to family line by conan gray

  • @Nadinefrankena
    @Nadinefrankena Год назад

    Can you watch the shortfilm to

  • @samanthamiller3314
    @samanthamiller3314 5 месяцев назад

    Given that Taylor has said that she and Kelce dated for a bit and that the chiefs game was not the first date like everyone presumed. I do not think they dated for three months. There is too much in the song for such a short period of time. Given that he was keeping her like a secret, I think the paparazzi finally caught on at some point and that became the "first date". And the scarf is literal. She came out and said it was metaphorical because John Mayer sued her for Dear John. She won that case but is not gonna want to take a chance with Gyllenhaal filing a lawsuit. She is very smart.

  • @ItsRodolfoSousa
    @ItsRodolfoSousa Год назад

    you should watch the short movie

  • @SagaciousSilence
    @SagaciousSilence 9 месяцев назад

    I love how brutal this song is too. She puts these guys (probably more than just Jake) on blast for basically dismissing how she felt and her worth (e.g. thinking she’s just immature due to her age so they bail after a couple months of leading her on).