because he was to short also imagine if 2 guys in the family said the girl was to fat to her face if the roles were switched thats kinda the same thing imo
@@triciamndyeah it’s worse for the guy cause they can’t do anything to increase their height without getting significant surgery. While the woman can always go on a diet and lose weight
I really liked Amare. All the other guys were great too of course! But his bubbly, sweet and caring personality got me. Especially when he went for a group hug. Makes me just wanna pick him up and put him in my pocket, lmao! This was a great video Nectar. 😊
@@nessa7356yes. It’s still “controversial” and a big talking point amongst a lot of families when someone dates outside the race. The guy they picked had fboy vibes and they seemed fine compromising with that so they could get the guy who’d bring up less questions in the family photo
Worked with max for a few years. Most fun guy to work with, he’s that coworker that when you’re on a shift together you know it’s gonna be a great day!
maybe its just me, but the way his hands were placed around her friend, and his grand-daughter is just off putting to me a little bit. he seems nice but that did set me off a bit. especially at the end when his hands were on the grandaughters waist and moved up towards under her breast area.
I think Amari was the best pick he had the best style, his face is perfectly groomed and symmetrical. He seemed like the most genuine nice guy there imo.
It’s interesting to think you don’t trust their positive judgment yet you faithfully believe in their negative judgment. People are interesting when it comes to their love for negativity
I don't think it's that bad. But i was kinda confused by their logic. That you can't be a fuckboy and have a stable life at the same time. Jackson will break her heart
2:57 it was a bit awkward when he said he thought an art major didn’t make that much money, which isn’t always true. Then her family said Talia is studying arts as a graphic designer and he said that he was studying to be one before. Also 9:15 when he said he used dating apps before like a fun little game and he said he had a hoe phase in first year of college…it was giving player vibes. Hopefully that still remains as his past
As an artist he’s right on for saying that. You will always work two jobs minimum until you get off the ground and the majority of people don’t make it.
@@DeskPop So he'd be the breadwinner in the relationship and likely resent her for picking a major that doesn't make that much money, and a major that he even quit for a better paying job. I thought he would be eliminated the second he said he switched from art to business for money.
Really? I thought Jackson was the obvious pick. Seemed to have the most in common with Talia. And had that confidence - outgoing and ambitious. He was tall and handsome too
Just came from Strawberry Park's reaction vid...according to Julia they never went on a date, Jackson didn't even reach out to her, and they suspect he had a girlfriend already.
Yeah I didn’t like the first round where they swiped left or right just based on physical appearance. The ones they swiped left on could have had great personalities
@@curtiscovinolmao itd socially acceptable to make fun of guys for things they can’t control like height, d*ck size, and balding, but god forbid you make fun of a fat woman, something that you can control, and you get absolutely crucified and told you’re a hateful misogynist.
I don't know THIS GUY'S story, but I had an abusive ex who asked me to write him a character letter so he could get a girl that he dated after me kicked out of his college program. He "would appreciate if I mentioned that I was black" since there were also accusations of him being racist. (He had made countless racist and sexist comments to and about me while we were dating).. Sometimes the bad people are projecting 😬
This was probably One of the toughest decisions ever made in these type of videos,the last 4 were all great,that must be soo hard to take a decision i can't even imagine
All the black guys in the comments get salty for no reason stop making everything about race. She had more in common with Jackson and he was the best looking one
@@cookiesarelikecreamlmao seriously. Lots of black guys are pathetically trying to live vicariously though the black contestants, getting with a good looking white woman. Amare was definitely a quality guy, but she definitely has more in common with “the white boi” than Amare.
@@subtopewpewpie ehh, I think all skin tones are beautiful and I’m attracted to all races of women. But a lot of black guys are weird, as they see white women as a special conquest due to the history of slavery.
Great video! Lovely choice of bachelors and such an interactive learning experience for both parties. Looks like everyone had a fun time and I hope her date went well💗
My band director once told me that opposites attract. And, my science teacher too of course. Lol. That always stuck with me and made sense in relationships as well.
@@kj_usa2987 okay you can absolutely not equate height to skin color. I get what you're saying about both being something you can't control but absolutely not the same thing
@@yani4645 Just like height, no one can force you to be attracted to someone. If someone isn’t attracted to a certain skin colour that is totally fine. You and only you get to decide your requirements for dating.
imo, if i were the family, id more so lean towards max or amare. jackson mentioned he meets girls at the bar. if talia is 20, and hes a social guy, shes not 21- but yes ofc underage ppl get into bars but just thinking in terms of most social events once ur over 21 involve drinking. just a thought
Maybe this is actually feasible for someone who is super super super close and have an impossibly healthy and self-disclosured relationship with their family.... But, personally, the thought of involving my family/friends in my romantic life in this way makes me sick. I feel it would be a betrayal of myself, a deprivation of my independence/freedom of choice to just let any other people choose the person I'm supposed to get into a relationship with. Feeling intense amount of dread watching this show. I wonder if I'm the only one...
the entire family immediately swiping no, no thinking twice, no looking at each others, is crazy. i would go cry right after
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ME TOOO for reaal
Might just be edited that way
It depends on the person they are trying swiping for
Getting dismissed by an entire family is brutal
Who would sign themselves up for that 😂
because he was to short also imagine if 2 guys in the family said the girl was to fat to her face if the roles were switched thats kinda the same thing imo
@@PARASAIL_WZthat’s not the same thing
@@triciamndyeah it’s worse for the guy cause they can’t do anything to increase their height without getting significant surgery. While the woman can always go on a diet and lose weight
@@PARASAIL_WZ😅
I definitely think we need Amare in a video. He's definitely a nice guy and so wholesome
YESSSSS
He’s beautiful inside and out 😭
I really liked Amare. All the other guys were great too of course! But his bubbly, sweet and caring personality got me. Especially when he went for a group hug. Makes me just wanna pick him up and put him in my pocket, lmao! This was a great video Nectar. 😊
The group hug thing was a little too much in my opinion though he really did seem like a cool dude and all
@@Shaz-Daz True but I think he was a little nervous and wanted to do something special but yes it was a little too much😅
yeah he was so wholesome AND attractive
Right??? I was cheering for him, the other guy that they chose kinda felt like...🚩🚩🚩
Amare was the best one.
I personally thought Amare was the right one. Hopefully we see him again, he was a good kid.
Right!!
I totally would have picked him!!
@@KJ-vl7uvme tooo
i think the friend wanted him
@@speedyspeed8178can’t blame her 😂
I could have sworn they were going to pick Amare
he fine af for sure but i think the friend liked him more than Talia herself lmao
lol you kno what I’ve learned watching these?! if their in the thumbnail, they aren’t the winner 😂
Me too adi!
@thehomie7121 😂omg I'm taking a note of this for every future nectar video
lol wat? they family wouldn't choose outside of race if theres race to be chosen in
The guy with the great smile was perfect for her
But I already new who the family was gunna choose
The blasian dude?
idk he was from Texas though
He vibed with the family the most tbh
i need to see more David appreciation he seemed so genuine and his response to the perfect date question was so sweet and thoughtful 🤧🤧
He was my #1
They couldnt choose a black guy as much as they said they liked him
i LOVEDDD David’s answer there too 🤭
@@iahmarielle Gurl yes I was like husband material right there if he's still single... lol
Wasn't David in a previous video with choosing dates by presentations or am I thinking of someone else, also didn't he win?🤣
The winners has fboy energy but I figured the family would go that route. An “all American boy”
cus he's white lol?...
@nessa7356 yes, basically
@@nessa7356yes. It’s still “controversial” and a big talking point amongst a lot of families when someone dates outside the race. The guy they picked had fboy vibes and they seemed fine compromising with that so they could get the guy who’d bring up less questions in the family photo
@@Ray03595 👏🏾💯
😳 nectar needs to ccap if that’s the case wtf
The family fumbled Amare so bad. Bring him back
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yessss
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he a baddie
he was really sweet , id pick him
Amare seems really nice and wholesome. He’s cute too!! I’d choose him if I were her
I totally would have picked him!!
Worked with max for a few years. Most fun guy to work with, he’s that coworker that when you’re on a shift together you know it’s gonna be a great day!
Much love Jack 🖤 always a pleasure working w you too 🤝
@@Mhammer123 yessir!
which one is mark?
i just love the grandpa, totally wish i had someone like him in my life
He's had the most correct assessment tbh .
he is so wholesome
maybe its just me, but the way his hands were placed around her friend, and his grand-daughter is just off putting to me a little bit. he seems nice but that did set me off a bit. especially at the end when his hands were on the grandaughters waist and moved up towards under her breast area.
like the grandpas hands lingered so long around her friends waist even after they broke apart to reveal jackson it's just a little weird
SO wild how family and friends could choose a walking 🚩 red flag. He showed the least maturity out of the men and had toxic dating patterns.
LOLZ yeah Jackson seemed ok but some of his responses were a bit eyebrow raising.
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LOL RIGHT all they saw was his appearance let’s be honest
really? I didn't notice any red flags or anything unmature...
@@voyance4elleI mean he does have a restraining order……
I think Amari was the best pick he had the best style, his face is perfectly groomed and symmetrical. He seemed like the most genuine nice guy there imo.
Such a weird comment
@@novelist5380yh I get that amari was a great person but the face bit doesn’t sound right ‘perfectly groomed and symmetrical’ 😒💀
@@-maryam_-I think for perfectly groomed they just meant he keeps himself well and clean but definitely worded weird
@@mkalyeq406 Yh, i thought that aswell but it's still sounds odd. 💀
@@-maryam_- I really didn’t mean for it to. 😭😭😭
I love that the best friends are close with the family too
i would never trust my family to pick a date for me but i would trust them if they told me they were bad news.
Sameeeee
I would only trust my sister because I told her what I want. the other will choose the opposite 😂. Specially my dad.
Lmao facts
Wasn’t even her whole family tho her friends still influenced her
It’s interesting to think you don’t trust their positive judgment yet you faithfully believe in their negative judgment. People are interesting when it comes to their love for negativity
jackson saying he uses dating apps like a game, red flag imo
Women do the same. There are women on dating apps just to boost their ego.
I mean don’t the majority of people do that? sounds pretty normal to me
@@carotadeelnormalized because alot of ppl do it
I don't think it's that bad. But i was kinda confused by their logic. That you can't be a fuckboy and have a stable life at the same time.
Jackson will break her heart
@@carotadeel no
Lets be honest we all knew who they were gonna pick from the beginning
Amare and Gary were definitely the best choices
100% I loved both of them
Gary was so poised and honest, like how he didn't over-talk. I get that maybe Jackson was better for her, but gary my winner fr
gary hella slept on
yup
THE RESTRAINING ORDER MAN?????? 💀
2:57 it was a bit awkward when he said he thought an art major didn’t make that much money, which isn’t always true. Then her family said Talia is studying arts as a graphic designer and he said that he was studying to be one before.
Also 9:15 when he said he used dating apps before like a fun little game and he said he had a hoe phase in first year of college…it was giving player vibes. Hopefully that still remains as his past
I was SO surprised they picked him, he definitely showed major 🚩 red flags
As an artist he’s right on for saying that.
You will always work two jobs minimum until you get off the ground and the majority of people don’t make it.
@@electriksnake He seemed like a smart and outgoing guy which Talia likes since she’s also outgoing
@@DeskPop So he'd be the breadwinner in the relationship and likely resent her for picking a major that doesn't make that much money, and a major that he even quit for a better paying job. I thought he would be eliminated the second he said he switched from art to business for money.
@@Ray03595 seems like a bit of a reach man
In my opinion I think they should have chosen Amare instead of Jackson that just me though 🤷🏾
Really? I thought Jackson was the obvious pick. Seemed to have the most in common with Talia. And had that confidence - outgoing and ambitious. He was tall and handsome too
@@cookiesarelikecream being tall is not a personality
@@cookiesarelikecream the friends like Jackson more than taila
I agree
Youre black so you would say that
Just came from Strawberry Park's reaction vid...according to Julia they never went on a date, Jackson didn't even reach out to her, and they suspect he had a girlfriend already.
Source?
There goes the short king 😔
It's over for midgets
Yeah I didn’t like the first round where they swiped left or right just based on physical appearance. The ones they swiped left on could have had great personalities
@@alyssaalcantara6739 I really liked the one (Brian) from another video😢
AMARE IS THE GOAT! BRING HIM BACK 🫡
The dating with family members episodes are definitely the best, if you can win over the family you can do anything
Max and gary seem like genuine and sweet guys
GO AMAREEE so proud of u little!!!
yall left out the fact that amare donated 100k to an orphanage
LOL
When did he tell, i cant find the clip
thank you for my 5 seconds of fame!!! sincerely, blue/white shirt guy
you were adorable lol cute smile
u slayed
I'm still getting fboy vibes from the pick. How does having good grades in high school negate that?
Brian is my favorite from another nectar video! "I think you're too short"?Why would you say something so hurtful to him?
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ooooh, I knew his face was familiar
How is it hurtful to state a fact? He's short, and if he's hurt by reality maybe he should get thicker skin.
@@Zedd... If the shoe was on the other foot and a guy said a girl was too fat; he'd get crucified.
@@curtiscovinolmao itd socially acceptable to make fun of guys for things they can’t control like height, d*ck size, and balding, but god forbid you make fun of a fat woman, something that you can control, and you get absolutely crucified and told you’re a hateful misogynist.
ya good idea to choose the guy with a restraining order
He got one on the ex, which probably means he was the one feeling unsafe
I don't know THIS GUY'S story, but I had an abusive ex who asked me to write him a character letter so he could get a girl that he dated after me kicked out of his college program. He "would appreciate if I mentioned that I was black" since there were also accusations of him being racist. (He had made countless racist and sexist comments to and about me while we were dating).. Sometimes the bad people are projecting 😬
He has it against someone’s how is that his fault? Let’s not blame the victim in the situation
The guys in this episode are SO great! They have GOT to bring back a bunch of these guys for other episodes!!!
Catch 5 of us in the valentines special 👀
This was probably One of the toughest decisions ever made in these type of videos,the last 4 were all great,that must be soo hard to take a decision i can't even imagine
I tought they would've eliminate him and choose one of the 2 black guys,i dont remember names sorry 😅, all great peoples
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I wasn’t that hard actually 😂
@@samia1780 broo why every time someone say a word people find a way to say bad things 😭💀
@@im-a.potato06 I didn’t say anything bad it was too obvious but okay🙄
I think amare should have won 🤷🏾♂️ side eye to her freinds and family tho…. But the guy chosen was still a good choice I guess
Shout out to gary for being a pet bird parent 🦜
I love that they included the best friends :')
My parents and i cant even agree on movie night, so having them pick my partner would be a SHAM
Amare is gorgeous. Loved his sessions
...Well that was a surprising pick...David, Gary and Max seemed like great choices.
10:37, The way Julia tried to say gary was "too nice" without being mean💀
The Family Fumbled Gary
hmm, how can someone be too nice?
can I just adopt Amare as my son? He was so precious. and had a million dollar smile for sure.
As a South African , we already have such a concept and it is hilarious
They really picked the guy that uses dating apps for entertainment and picks up girls at the bar lol
Jackson was just tall, that's it
And white
jackson has a lot of red flags and yet they still picked him lol
DAVID’s BACK?!? We gotta find him love
I KNOW RIGHT HE'S SO PRECIOUS 😭
This reminds me of a non-toxic version of Parental Control! Love it!
Amare should of gotten chosen!
if i were them, i'd choose MAX, he was far more mature and driven in life than the rest of the guys
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The Grandpa is tooooo funny!!
How tf did they not pick Gary??? He was so cool man he seems fun too
Yes! I feel like Gary had chemistry with the whole group!
They helllaaa vibing w jackson
Wow the white boi...never saw that coming 😆😆😏😏🙄🙄
Real
All the black guys in the comments get salty for no reason stop making everything about race. She had more in common with Jackson and he was the best looking one
@@cookiesarelikecreamlmao seriously. Lots of black guys are pathetically trying to live vicariously though the black contestants, getting with a good looking white woman. Amare was definitely a quality guy, but she definitely has more in common with “the white boi” than Amare.
@@neverbackdown1918I dont understand it though cause white girls are mid
@@subtopewpewpie ehh, I think all skin tones are beautiful and I’m attracted to all races of women. But a lot of black guys are weird, as they see white women as a special conquest due to the history of slavery.
Amare seems so cool, he is so handsome he looks like my crush in school😭😭
Great video! Lovely choice of bachelors and such an interactive learning experience for both parties. Looks like everyone had a fun time and I hope her date went well💗
they had no date
The guy left her after the show
team gary and amare 🙌 love those two
My band director once told me that opposites attract. And, my science teacher too of course. Lol. That always stuck with me and made sense in relationships as well.
swiped cuz he to short yeah thats real pain something u cant control
It sucks but no one is forced to be attracted to you. Just the way it goes.
@@poejavelski148yeah I know but if u say something about skin color everybody loses there mind
@@kj_usa2987 okay you can absolutely not equate height to skin color. I get what you're saying about both being something you can't control but absolutely not the same thing
@@kj_usa2987 Let them lose their mind then. When it comes to dating you can set whichever standards you would like.
@@yani4645 Just like height, no one can force you to be attracted to someone. If someone isn’t attracted to a certain skin colour that is totally fine. You and only you get to decide your requirements for dating.
really shocked they picked him idk he gave me bad vibes
BRING BACK AMAREEEE
love the family, and the ending was so wholesome!
I feel like Gary was the best out of the finalists.
Jackson seems like a flawed potential red flag.
Jackson scares me for some reason
Best group of guys I’ve ever seen on one of these shows!
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Gary is so handsome like genuinely beautiful. Wow
The picks were so conventional omg .
They should cast more people for these
And the restraining order
Love this concept and structure!! And her fam was awesome!!
That was wild I could NEVER let my family do this
Bring Amare back. I loved his energy.
I really thought they were going to pick Amare, he was so sweet and to be honest was my favorite out of all of them.
jubilee really did good to bring fine guys😂
So glad David’s back
I really liked jackson's energy , they are perfect for each other❤
A white blondie fmaily choosing a whige blondie guy
Shocking 😂
I picked them two from the start. Great job family.
imo, if i were the family, id more so lean towards max or amare. jackson mentioned he meets girls at the bar. if talia is 20, and hes a social guy, shes not 21- but yes ofc underage ppl get into bars but just thinking in terms of most social events once ur over 21 involve drinking. just a thought
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Jackson's an open book, you can tell the man's full of red flags
I was rooting for max!!! He had all the right answers and his mindset is very mature!
OMGGGG Amare was so adorable and cute, BRING HIM BACKKK💘🙏🙏🙏
Amare is the only correct answer. Bring him back #goat
I really liked Jonathan’s presence
is no one gonna talk about how beautiful her friend on the right is
Yeah, because....
Toooo short on the face😢😢😢
HER FAMILYS LOSS AMARE IS AMAZING
omg David really got my attention! he was a cutie :)
That mom is hilarious 😂
Maybe this is actually feasible for someone who is super super super close and have an impossibly healthy and self-disclosured relationship with their family.... But, personally, the thought of involving my family/friends in my romantic life in this way makes me sick. I feel it would be a betrayal of myself, a deprivation of my independence/freedom of choice to just let any other people choose the person I'm supposed to get into a relationship with. Feeling intense amount of dread watching this show. I wonder if I'm the only one...
Amare saved 5 kittens from a burning fire btw
Team Amare, when Jackson said he used dating apps like a game and only meets people at bars 🚩 😬
damn justice for the guy with the long hair
Personally picking Gary
This is a gorgeous group of people
Amare was my favorite, he seemed so sweet and bubbly.
the way the entire family lost interest when they talked about sports lolll
i like max. he is a tough man