Competition, Comparison, Jealousy & Gossip Are Ruining The Sisters | To My Sisters, The Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- Let's talk about it sis...these ugly habits have ruined more female friendships than a lot of other things.
As a sisterhood we have to lay some rules in order to do the work. So grab your tea, and let's dig deep.
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Competition & comparison drives up my anxiety. Once I clock that someone is comparing & competing with me, I shut them off, same with relatives who do this, I limit their access to me.
I resonate with this so much!! Yes girl
It’s not healthy at all. Even though many of us are guilty
Tending to your own garden is definitely something that you cannot ever do enough of. Don’t be preoccupied with others.
I relate to the dilemma so much! I’m 21 and I’m going through the same thing, and in a way feel guilty for going through it. But I have to say what’s been helping me get through it, is looking for God, and deepening my relationship with Him.
I think my favourite part of you girls talking is when you switch to American accents to say something 😂. Because my favourite American creators do the exact same thing with a British accent!
HAHA no way??? Glad to hear it's not just us 😂
Social media is a barometer of success, I think it is intentionally set up that way. In reality it’s not normal to see what everyone in your life and strangers are doing. I’ve been struggling with these comparisons too esp as a dancer- I don’t post much content because of my comparison and often jealousy of other well established dancers. I’m workin on it daily. Thanks for this convo. It was needed👏🏾
Somethings that helped me tackle jealousy is;
If they didn't have it, would I still want it?
Me complimenting and encouraging another, doesn't take anything away from me.
Nothing is as it seems.
That person has that thing because they were willing to do the work and/or things that I wasn't willing to do.
I could have something that somebody else wants, so cherish the things that I already have
There's enough room at the table for everybody to eat
My sistas why are you attacking me like this, eh!?!? lol! But for real, being content and having joy is an active and something we are to choose every day! I always love your talks! Keep it up, sistas!! :)
Liking the video before I’ve even watched it ❤️ I know from the title you girls are about to get my LIFE and SNATCH all of my edges !!!
Not the edges 😭 but me too ! Our sisters always come to serve!!!
Whenever I am faced with challenges in this area I find solace and perspective in Psalm 131. Thank you. This was a timely conversation.
Thank you sis
This is a good video once again, but I think there are some areas worth clarifying. I think most people experience envy but incorrectly describe it as jealousy. Envy is simply wanting what someone else has and I don’t think that’s unhealthy. I think we have to be careful not to shame people for another human emotion. I also think we should consider the role of privilege in the frequency of these emotions. If you are a fairly happy individual who has an abundance of academic, financial, emotional achievements then sure of course it’s easy to say that you rarely experience envy. If you are someone who is working hard to do something new or turn your life around - it is likely that some of it is fuelled by seeing what another person has achieved and wanting the same for yourself.
Yallllllll....... This episode right here!!!!! Tis tew mush😭😭😭.... Comparison kills. Great jobs ladies. You articulated your thoughts so elegantly and logically, wow. Utterly amazing.
Gossip is such a terrible habit in friendships. Friendships with other women should be based on growth, love, honesty, and respect.
You both provide me the most amount of value and joy ❤️❤️❤️
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Liking the video before I start watching 👍🏿🤭 I'm so ready for this episode!
This was great. Ladies thank you so much for this cast. I'm glad I found it, I never really had much feminine energy around me in my life but as I've gotten older I crave it more. Now I'm living in another country and now I'm playing life on ultra hard mode and I just needed this so badly.
We got you ma! All good - a work in progress, and we'll definitely continue to encourage you ❤️
You shouldn't strive to be anyone but a better version of yourself! Comparison is the thief of joy! Especially in this yolo social media generation. Love yourself and only seek help from others for motivation and moral inspiration. :)
Amen
Well said! And you never know what people are going through. Especially with mental health going on. Thank God for closed doors
This is a powerful conversation. Being fake definitely says a lot about your character.
These are definitely conversations in your friendship to nip it in the bud. Especially as a believer. Pray with your friends if this is a struggle. Life is too short not to hard beautiful friendships.
This is a much needed episode. Thank you ladies!!! Let’s admire and become confident women 💚
Whew! What an introduction to the sisterhood. Love the content and conversations had on this platform. Can’t wait to see you both in the states ✨.
Thank you so much for this ❤️🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Clicking my fingers in agreement👌🏾 Such a word from two incredibly amazing sistas 💕💕
Knocking it out the park yet again ladies
, I feel so blessed to be part of the sisterhood 💗
This is the kind of conversations we subscribed, continue to share and like for!!! 🔥 🤝
Renee loves singing 🤣love her personality 🤗great episode 💋
haha thank you 😂
Love from America !!!! Ive been watching for a while now, I like to start off my mornings with this podcast :)
🕯🕯 For ALL my South African sisters to find this podcast and subscribe to this channel 😭 I love love this channel ❤️❤️
yessss i want that for us !
ALL OF THIS! ALL OF THIS! ALL OF THIS!!!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Jealousy to the point where you adopt my personality traits and character in public but assassinate my character behind closed doors by means of gaslighting……putting me up against others for comparison sakes in order to bring me down…….complimenting my skin tone when it’s convenient for you as a worker in the beauty industry but the minute we get into an argument, they throw a colourist remark your way……..whheeeew chile!
They CONFUSE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR JEALOUSY and I remember being called a witch because they couldn’t prove my discernment to be off.
I love doing my homework daily so it’s aggravates my spirit when others consciously choose not to. This whole episode was wholesome for me to say the least as it applies to not just friends but family too as they too often tend to freely think they can tap dance their way through your boundaries and violate you on many levels. Education has been power for me and watching videos like this shows me I’ve survived a loottt. Thank you online sisters❤️
This was truly insightful 🖤 wow you ladies are amazing 👏🏾
No ways guys 😭😭😭😭 Renee was coming for our edges chile.. Great episode ladies ❤️
"peoples real lives are up to be dissected" yol are talking to me staright up!!!!!
*NOT
Mmmhmm….Sisters! You are PREACHING today!
I’m taking notes 📝
I needed this cchhille she spoke to my soul😍
🙌🏾Preach!!
Courtney are you referring to me? Sis is always going for the honest truth 👏🙌
This episode though 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This! This is why I remove myself. Defamation of character
Anyone from Kenya here?
52:41 REST BELOVED! no but honestly say it louder
Any advice on not being sucked into toxic people? I know someone is very competitive and jealous and openly competes and compares themselves to me, I'm not like that but I makes me, in turn compete with her just to make them sore...I know, petty. How do I stop vengefully competing in these jealously based competitions?
Distance yourself from the person..?
Me nodding the whole episode !!!!!! my edges
Whewwwwwwwww. No this is good *claps*
Yes!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
ngl Courtney what toothpaste do you use sis because dayummn your teeth do be glistening !!
From Namibia
Not AstroTurf 😭😭😭 #whyisyourgrassbrown
So what you’re telling me is my mom is an op 🤔
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you get ads? 😮 i have never gotten ads while watching their videos before outside of one in the beginning
@@phizzy123 girl the adds are none stop.
@@Cairo21 damn that’s crazy, i wonder why i don’t get them. maybe it’s because i’m always pausing it to watch something else then i resume later 🤣
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