Who Told You Boys Don't Cry?! [F4M] [comfort] [cheering you up]
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- After coming home from work, your roommate Kim notices that you're not quite acting like yourself. She is determined to get to the truth and help you feel better.
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I’ve always had trouble showing tears in front of people. When someone points it out - instant defence. By myself I’m comfortable, but people - nope.
Same Id be caught dead before I cry infront of anyone who isn't family
I'll cry. I don't give a FUCK who's around!
Surprisingly, my dad *wasn't* the "men don't cry" sort of guy. My mom? Yeah, she would either tell me to "be a man" (real original), or say, "You can take it" like that somehow invalidated what I felt.
Anyway, I know it's an old and outdated stereotype, but thanks for saying it anyway. And thanks for the audio, Kim.
Also, about the orchestral covers of games? So freaking relatable!
For me it was slightly different it wasn’t « men can’t cry » it was and I quote « Are you in pain ? If you aren’t why are you crying » basically you can only cry if your feeling pain or dying no other possibilities
Oof. So wrong!
Same, my dad is very understanding and isn't ashamed of crying but my mother acts like men are cold, unfeeling monsters and that they should act the part.
I was raised with the same “Toughen up, don’t cry” attitude, as I had two dads. I wasn’t raised as a male, though I do identify as such. The amount of times i’ve found myself telling myself “you’re tough, boys don’t cry”
I really appreciate this. and your other audios.
"who told you boys don't cry?"
THE CURE 😔
Fellow man of culture!
"Who told you boys don't cry?"
Society.
And they're WRONG!
Why we live in a society where gamers don't rule the world
@@danielk5489GayMers (hehe Skyrim) are already ruling in the underground world and soon enough, We. Will. Rule. The. World.
Crying is a response to pain, whether physical or emotional and is not limited to be a man or woman.
The last time I cried was when I lost my dog, he died of a stomach illness, operating on him was unfeasible, so I had to make the only and worst decision: put him to sleep. I cried all day.
I raised him since he was 2 months old and he died at 12 years old. Anyway, good RP 👍
Your dog had a wonderful life with you, and you made the decision to help him pass peacefull over the rainbow bridge. That must have been so hard. I know that he's in a happy place now with all the toys and treats he could ever desire.
@@KimCarter he liked to play with the pillows, so he must have a lot of them 😄
@@Dredd-JB he’s in an intire place filled to the brim with fluffy clouds as pillows
Story time that no one cares or asked me to say.
I remember being in school. Kinda like...5th grade? We were playing Tag( I think it was tag, it surely was a game that you have you run)with some of my classmates. Then as I was running, I slipped and somehow managed to cut my whole ankle. It didn't hurt at all to be honest. But for some reason, I started tearing up. After the kids saw me tearing up. They were like "You're weak, man up." Or "Men don't cry". I was pissed off. Because the same people that were crying if you just throw them down, were telling me to man up. Especially now that if someone see me crying they would freaking kill me.
But for some unknown reason. I didn't felt or feel comfortable talking to someone about my feelings but YOLO.
You see... What I'm trying to say is...Thank you for the audio. It's good to know someone understands that men have feelings and we're not just soules beings.
The personality of this character is fabulous!
This character is one of my favorite human beings to ever live and she isn't even real.
I haven’t cried in the last 12 years and this really takes me another step forward and getting an idea on what it’s like
Not sure if it’s healthy but I haven’t genuinely cried in like 3 years, almost had me here Fr
Oh damn Ive been clean of crying for idk maybe 1-2 years I've lost count so yup we are both in the same boat of not crying for long periods of time
Same y'all.
Same but probably even longer. Tearing up a little bit every now and then but not actually crying.
Yep I know how it feels to be told that….. Anyone who has ever heard “Men don’t cry” and “Toughen up” please discard their remarks!
Also don’t bottle up your emotions or you may spend 2 and a half years in a horribly self hating depression. Just talk to someone about your issues. Believe me I wish I had done but the past is the past and hopefully someone will learn from this or take comfort.
Wise words!
@Dalton Sharp. Great advice the difficulty is finding someone to talk to who you trust enough which is a whole different situation.
Thank you so much for your amazing work!!
Your ASMR work is very impressive! Much respect! 👊
Thank you!
I don't have a clever way to say this but EVERYTHING YOU SAID WAS CORRECT AND GOOD AND TRUE AND WHOLESOME AND RIGHT.
Like, there's no other way to put it you nailed it on what a healthy human should be AND you made into and asmr video. Thank you!
EDIT: I appreciate the heart thank you.
* places heart onto a suspiciously large pile of cookies *
I have physically lost the ability to shed tears when I was younger I cried a lot but being autistic and going through bullying almost to the point of suicide. Well I can’t shed tears any more. I’ve actually been told by other girls my age that I’m a emotionless psychopath because I can’t cry. Well guess what I’m still alive I’m still here but now I have Gynophobia to an extent around girls I know nothing about. All because girls thought being autistic meant I was stupid. Well I’m not stupid and I have heightened senses smell and hearing and little did they know I could hear anything.
Society made me who I am and people wonder who hurt me well the female gender did but I don’t hold it against them. I appreciate the work you ASMR girls do it is nice it feels nice to hear even it isn’t real that for just a few minutes I’m told that I’m not retarded or stupid.
Sorry had to get this off my chest thanks for reading my Ted talk
Nowhere near as severe, but I have trouble with women too sometimes. But that has changed over the last decade or so. I’m glad this can be a safe space for you.
Heh seems I've met another autistic person (outside of my twin brother) just know I absolutely know people who have autism are not stupid (my brother has recommended so may good songs to me and have given me so many "simple sketches" its mind boggling)
My son is autistic too. I’m glad you’re here with us.
As a classical musician who does music as a career saying you like orchestral music warms my heart ❤️ 💙
Well, that would be the writer's words, not mine. BUT! I do love orchestral movie soundtracks and have great fun picking music to go with some of my audios
@@KimCarter still awesome to me! Thanks to both of you! ❤️❤️
This was so nice to listen too and to watch you make the thumbnail!! :D another amazing work
Yeah. I remember hearing that crap when I was younger. But it's ok to cry, regardless if your a boy or a girl or whatever.
That's right!
@@KimCarter Excellent work Kim!!!!! Your fans appreciate you!!!! 😁
I was fortunate to never have heard that from anyone close to me. From total strangers, and mildly known acquaintances sure. But noone I've ever actually cared about.
not really one to cry from music but the opening to the main medley from the Zelda 25th anniversary symphony CD that came with skyward sword gets me real close
My parents beat me for crying.
I’m so sorry. That wasn’t okay.
Hhhhh I really like this! It's a really sweet message to put out there 💖
"who told you boys dont cry" my brother and dad.
I dont think I remember the last time I heard kim swear, kinda caught me off guard lol
I actually love swearing.
@@KimCarter Same. The key is not being a try hard. Some folks swear every sentence, with every other sentence being a threat, all because they're some wannabe gangsters.
Who Told You Boys Don't Cry?!
Society, every social construct built upon masculinity and being a "man", my father, my grandmother (who's now dead) TV, youtube, social media, must I go on?
But they're all WRONG!
Don’t forget Twitter (saw one woman say they’ll cut off the fingers of a man who shows emotion and another that says they intend to use said emotions to basically blackmail them).
Me: *explains explain the worst work with a human could have*
Kim: ...
Me: Kim? it's ok reall-
Kim: stop talking, bud I don't know what fucking planet you're from but here on earth we call that a traumatic incident not an "oof", not to mention that we don't typically tend to call it a "bruh moment" it's literally impossible for me to emphasise enough how much we do NOT CALL IT A "MAJOR L"!!!!!
**has entire fucking arm ripped off** TIS BUT A SCRATCH
I don’t do it even when I am alone. I want to. I am numb. I can‘t cry anymore
Growing up in a family of girls with no dad I was taught what a man should be and not what a man actually is and how not to cry but as I got older I got more comfortable with myself and I cry as little things but I know that’s ok
It is okay! These patterns can end with us
Women tell us not to cry by getting the ick and dumping us after we show any kind of vulnerability.
I know no women that have ever done this. I’m sorry if it happened to you.
I'm not gonna lie you sound like my aunt Sam when someone in the family is feeling down
Idk why but partway through the video i could only hear red from overly sarcastic productions giving me a pep talk
She’s pretty cool, so I’ll take that 😅
as a girl i can’t cry infront of people knowing damn well it’s for guys i still watched it 😭😭
It took me a long time to be able to, honestly.
Actually correction: I had a hard time crying in front of women for a loooong time.
Can relate.
I couldn’t cry at my grandma’s sister funeral I just couldn’t cry I just stared into the distance
Inappropriate (context wise) joke incoming:
Me: A rando on the internet said so
Her: Twitter?
Me: Twitter
Her: Makes sense
Love the intro 😊
Yes, we cry, but only subconsciously.
It’s okay to let it out. 💙
No, we cry when we're in secret areas
👑
Is it really okay to cry in front of most women though?
I wish I could say that it's always going to have a positive, caring result. But there are some who would be unkind. HOWEVER! If they are, then that tells you they are not worth your time. A truly caring person would be kind and comfort you. And you are worthy of that.
@@KimCarter Thank you friend, needed to hear that
💙✨
How I ended up here i don't know but guess ill tell a lil story Whence I was a young lad I was a very adventurous soul yet reserved individual and very Self aware individual I gained my self awareness at a very young age and being 6 i was a emotional lil peice of shit in which I mean i was a master drama king and I was very capable of crying but soon my life took a turn and i was told at 6 "Man up (insert my name)" and shit I took that very seriously and since then i have not shed a tear unless I was sick and my eyes were literally leaking after every sneeze and im always getting asked by the same people"You want to Cry ? Its ok if you cry" i wrote it like that cause my mom is Hispanic and she talks with an accent and skips words anyway and ive been doin this act for the whole time after my young years and i don't even think i can willingly cry anymore send help please i know i can force myself but I don't think i can do it without wanting to die afterwards cause of how uncomfortable it is mentally
I’m glad you’re here.
❤️
Im not even a emotional person. But i just dont love myself 😂😂😂😂. But nothing has ever made me cry like failing myself. That stuff is suicidial.😂
Even if you don’t love yourself, you are still worthy of love.
Yeah bro failing yourself iS the FUCKING worst
Hello,,there
Robert Smith.
Well he was wrong!
This is so sweet!!! Especially with the ass#@+ remark. You make some great points. Well done Kim!
Edit: How do you handle Trans-Siberian Orchestra?
...what? I mean, I've seen them live but, handle them? Thank you though!
@@KimCarter I bawl through the Old Pub song. It gets me every time.
OHHHH. Gotcha. TSO usually doesn't get me. Soundtracks will get me.
I bottle and don't show
Kinda weird, I was always told that men dont cry or that I should man up or that if it doesnt hurt I cant cry. And now I cant cry no matter what, I hurt myself, I cant cry, I get hurt, I cant cry, I try to cry, but it still doesnt work. Lmao probably should go to a therapist
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