[f4a] You Broke Your GF's Mug! [caring] [reassuring] [it's not your fault]

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  • @JakeSm4sh
    @JakeSm4sh Год назад +556

    I'm sorry about the mug, as payment for the mug I'll get a new one as well as a comment for the algorithm

  • @Blindluck92
    @Blindluck92 Год назад +332

    "It's just weird? What is? Not being yelled at... Maybe one day that will feel normal."
    This line just... it's exactly how I felt listening to this, and I cried a little when you said it.
    When you're expecting the anger and then it just never comes, it's so confusing that you don't know what to do.
    This is how it should be instead. Thank you, Kat.

    • @EternaGlow
      @EternaGlow 11 месяцев назад +8

      Amen brother. N7 with pride!

    • @venomgaming7014
      @venomgaming7014 6 месяцев назад +5

      The only time I accidentally broke something, my mum wasn’t mad at me. Granted, my dad was shouting at me and grounded me for 4 hours for what reason? For defending myself after he slapped me. Yep. I got grounded for 4 hours because my dad slapped me.

    • @DrDolan2000
      @DrDolan2000 4 месяца назад

      ​@@venomgaming7014 Hopefully your dad learns to stop sucking

    • @bryxjhomanadagio1557
      @bryxjhomanadagio1557 Месяц назад +2

      @@venomgaming7014 Then Take Your Dad To Jail

  • @alca0059
    @alca0059 10 месяцев назад +92

    "Im sorry you've experienced a misdirected anger from people who were supposed to be protecting you."
    As someone who was raised in an abusive household with my father's anger issues, this made me cry.

  • @neurowolf7594
    @neurowolf7594 Год назад +88

    If break a mug, the immediate thought was : "We had a good run, it's joever now."

  • @Tufflyin_asmrVA
    @Tufflyin_asmrVA Год назад +70

    Usually when I accidentally break a mug or a cup, I would stood in fear, then I would start to shake like crazy then I would start tearing up and apologise over and over

  • @lopipverson
    @lopipverson 10 месяцев назад +38

    "We don't make mistakes, we have happy accidents"
    Bob Ross

  • @MR_Angelgd
    @MR_Angelgd Год назад +128

    Damn, Sometimes I imagine how much better a relationship could be if both sides were genuinely like this ❤️

    • @MR_Angelgd
      @MR_Angelgd Год назад +7

      @@vallen8660 Absolutely true. Unfortunately nowadays that’s really hard to find a relationship like this

    • @SatyamKumar-pv1yq
      @SatyamKumar-pv1yq Год назад +3

      ​@@MR_AngelgdYou know at my place when people get married , divorce is very rare , I mean I've never heard that people got divorced in my locality in my whole life. So yeah, I guess here people know the essence of a relationship and that's why rarely they got divorced

    • @DrDolan2000
      @DrDolan2000 4 месяца назад

      That's why it's so important to work on yourself before even meeting someone. And then, you got to get to know each other very well before committing

  • @Innnnnk
    @Innnnnk Год назад +26

    😭no cuz I’m so scared of breaking, loosing or misplacing anyone’s things I swear i would genuinely cry about it so much and feel crappy about for DAYS

  • @primrosevale1995
    @primrosevale1995 Год назад +51

    As someone who was often punished in school early on due to being neurodivergent, I've developed a habit of catastrophizing things. Even all these years later and having the most supportive family it's still something I'm struggling to work past, making me hesitant to take any risks. This even gets in the way of me enjoying things I used to love doing, because my mind automatically tries to blow the smallest anxiety out of proportion.
    Thank you for making a video like this so people can realize that the worst possible outcome is not only not likely, but often is much less worrying than it seems.

  • @TimeToTossTheDiceOfTime
    @TimeToTossTheDiceOfTime Год назад +51

    It is so fun to pretend youre just a cat being talked to by a lonley cat person and you did, in fact, break the mug on purpose.

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 Год назад +69

    What’s most important is if your partner is hurt not a object, even if it’s expensive or important. Accidents happen (something I forget a lot, but then again I’m not the type of guy to be nice to myself. I’d feel so bad for breaking something that belongs to someone) Ty for another amazing audio Kat, love these comforting and reassuring ones, definitely some of the best. ❤️‍🩹

  • @hobbiiii1338
    @hobbiiii1338 7 месяцев назад +12

    Not me listening to this and my mind went "jup they're being sarcastic, they're actually mad" etc. Made me realize how bad my parents treated me. Even if someone was genuine my trust issues make me believe that secretly are mad or smth. 💁‍♀️😕i hate it. Its like even know I this is supposed to be a genuine asmr with a healthy relationship, and yet I see the potential lies. I know theres people that feel like this too, so I hope you're learning to heal. I'm still working on me but realizing whats wrong helps me heal what I feel. 💜 this is great thank you Pine Kat, I think this helps a bunch of people heal. ❤

  • @DannaGallegos22
    @DannaGallegos22 Год назад +43

    I'm crying right now 😭, please bro not my fault I have trauma. Thank you pinekat

  • @amber_long
    @amber_long 9 месяцев назад +13

    This is helping me a lot on a really difficult night with non-stop harassment earlier from a family member. This helped me calm down and now I think I can sleep. Thank you so so much ❤

  • @ComfortsSpecter
    @ComfortsSpecter Год назад +17

    Kind
    She’s So Incredibly Kind
    Intensely; Comically
    Great for Those with Intense Fear Causing Self Deprecation
    But for Me It’s Just Coomfi
    Great Comfort Audio
    Adorable VA

  • @kierstengusler8759
    @kierstengusler8759 Год назад +23

    My eyes started to water thank you for the audio pine kat

  • @khushighalot6342
    @khushighalot6342 Год назад +11

    Ok it triggered something, and I actually cried

  • @replacedzina
    @replacedzina 11 месяцев назад +13

    the fact that i dropped my plate multiple times n i always get shouted at, cursed at or even get hit for it.

  • @taakofromtv150
    @taakofromtv150 Год назад +16

    I actually broke something pretty important earlier cause it was a dead family member’s old mirror just cause I went to put something in a bin outside and the wind knocked it over, luckily it wasn’t damaged too badly and the main part of the mirror was fine but it still feels terrible as it probably should cause you know it was from a dead family member but everyone was a lot less mad and more forgiving about it than I thought they’d be

  • @theeternal2734
    @theeternal2734 Год назад +15

    If I Had Someone Like This All My Worries Would Go Away💕

  • @maxthedinochild4521
    @maxthedinochild4521 Год назад +15

    Me looking at my parents: see was that so hard😒
    Love the content you’re doing a great job

  • @Stop_Inc.-cg6hk
    @Stop_Inc.-cg6hk 2 месяца назад +2

    "Are you sure you're okay? You seem upset"
    One time I broke a mug when I was like 12 and I've always been scared of dropping mugs since

  • @Orion69_34
    @Orion69_34 Год назад +10

    I like how this is the comeback to the second comfort after an abusive relationship where you mention that I broke a mug.

  • @Vinnie-nx3yw
    @Vinnie-nx3yw Год назад +99

    I THOUGHT THE TITLE SAID "YOU BROKE MY LUIGI" 😭

  • @Frozenkoldfury
    @Frozenkoldfury Год назад +11

    Yknow, I never understood why people had favorite mugs and stuff. Then I moved out and I swiftly realised that I did, in fact, understand and that I did, in fact, have a favorite bowl for eating out of.
    And then, of course, I broke the damn thing trying to scoop rrally stiff ice cream into it when I was having a really, really shit day. RIP my Badger Bowl, to this day I haven't found anything even close to as comforting to eat from.

  • @TheLittlestBun
    @TheLittlestBun Год назад +7

    I’d honestly start balling crying and I would then constantly apologize and say sorry over and over again it’s just how I am when I make any mistakes I’m really emotional sensitive vulnerable when I break things by accident because I’m usually use to having people be mad at me and make me cry so crying is my response to any tense situation that feels like it’s my fault even when I know I didn’t do anything really bad

  • @SuperChristopher-ll8bd
    @SuperChristopher-ll8bd Год назад +16

    Me trying to surprise Kat with a snack while she's working, then breaking her mug and having a panic attack just to ve comforted. Pretty good day. 👍

  • @kaylahossack5048
    @kaylahossack5048 10 месяцев назад +4

    I felt this. Im 16 now. My mum has always screamed at me for every little bad thjng ive done. For example, spilling something on the carpet which comes out in 2 seconds, breaking something by accident and itger stupid shit she didnt need to scream abt. Still happens.

  • @cassiohenrique6815
    @cassiohenrique6815 Год назад +5

    Damn, it's like she is hugging me with words.
    Thank you

  • @glacier-gr9tf
    @glacier-gr9tf 9 месяцев назад +7

    I NEED MORE!!!!! This series is so great! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @iamhere4988
    @iamhere4988 Год назад +5

    As someone who always gets yelled at for making mistakes unintentionally this makes me feel emotional I just don't know how to respond with your kind reaction after I incidentally broke something that is important to you... it's just that I was traumatized and so used being called names after making small mistakes 😔 even though this is just a scripted audio. Thank you for your caring and loving personality 🥺❤️

  • @ulfatkhan3229
    @ulfatkhan3229 10 месяцев назад +5

    If that was me I would of burst into tears the second she came into the kitchen😭

  • @jisleep
    @jisleep Год назад +10

    ah such a healthy relationship

  • @partner_ngampilan2312
    @partner_ngampilan2312 Год назад +10

    Every Asian lad has a nightmare like (oh no, I broke my mum's favourite mug)
    Most likely we've never seen again after we broke up something from the kitchen ;-;

  • @aidenmarch3447
    @aidenmarch3447 Год назад +18

    You’re one of my favorite ASMR creators.

  • @mellojello6888
    @mellojello6888 Год назад +22

    Hi Kat. I just want to say thank you for all of the hard work and effort you put in to please your listeners. You’re the most talented and passionate channel, and I thank you for all the times your audios have made my days better. I just re-listened to all of the “Interrogation” series, and just had the best time and had to say thank you. Maybe someday we’ll get a follow up to that story, but even still, every audio you create makes me happy and grateful. Thank you again, keep up the amazing work.

  • @luizpauloribeirolessa5796
    @luizpauloribeirolessa5796 Год назад +5

    I am a grown ass man and I'm crying

  • @SatyamKumar-pv1yq
    @SatyamKumar-pv1yq Год назад +4

    Wow , It's actually a very healthy relationship ❤

  • @tjjt6294
    @tjjt6294 Год назад +6

    This was both difficult to listen to and much needed. It brought up some past trauma that I didn't realize was still so intense and scary. Thank you!

  • @RavenAsher
    @RavenAsher Год назад +9

    Rip the mug 😔🙏

  • @maythechaosgremlin
    @maythechaosgremlin 6 месяцев назад +3

    PTSD from excel spreadsheets...

  • @josephbiddle1637
    @josephbiddle1637 Год назад +12

    Yay! I'm so happy to hear more of this series! It's one of my favorites from your channel.❤

  • @lilfunguy20
    @lilfunguy20 Год назад +7

    I love all of your videos. I LOVE THEM

  • @jameshilton3769
    @jameshilton3769 Год назад +6

    Apparently I really need therapy

  • @inner.smoothie7637
    @inner.smoothie7637 11 месяцев назад +4

    😲is this the prequel of the “comfort after an abusive relationship” series? 😱

  • @lenovotablet4675
    @lenovotablet4675 Год назад +5

    POV I break a mug at home: Well.... I'm going to be seeing Michael Jackson 😅😓

  • @Asmrvoiceacing
    @Asmrvoiceacing Год назад +4

    Love the audio it happens all the time in my house breaking stuff

  • @angelmatiastorres
    @angelmatiastorres Год назад +15

    I must repent for my sins.
    Pls dont kill me😂

  • @HanaMangaka
    @HanaMangaka 6 месяцев назад +4

    Me: Breaks mug
    Kat: No negative reaction
    Me: Calls myself names
    Kat: >:0

  • @ConnorLouJones
    @ConnorLouJones Год назад +3

    My wife yells and cussed at me when I break things 😪

  • @sonickountz
    @sonickountz Год назад +3

    MUGMAN NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @TheRedBaron298
    @TheRedBaron298 8 месяцев назад +2

    My dearest apologies for the mug, I may not have the funds to pay it back but I do have the ability to apologize via comment

  • @John_Gillman
    @John_Gillman 9 месяцев назад +1

    when you break a mug you don´t just break it you have to completley atomize it so you can´t even begin to recognize what it was

  • @Supershadow1501
    @Supershadow1501 Год назад +1

    This was very encouraging to listen to. Here, have my 800th like!

  • @chumbussy2440
    @chumbussy2440 Год назад +3

    I'm really at rock bottom rn

  • @lucaspimentel8730
    @lucaspimentel8730 Год назад +1

    Well... i... I'm not used to it... feels good not being yelled at

  • @quanta0
    @quanta0 5 месяцев назад +1

    Is this what a healthy relationship is like? It's so nice 😭

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 3 месяца назад +1

      Should try it some time

  • @andrewdavido963
    @andrewdavido963 Год назад +4

    I'm actually for Kat's uploaded can't wait to watch this tonight always looking forward to them upload's 💙✨

  • @amaya6091
    @amaya6091 Год назад +2

    Imma be honest first I was scared like my body was just clenched then I was confused and calm at the same time by the end of it

  • @LIFE_IS_TRINITY
    @LIFE_IS_TRINITY Год назад +6

    Yayyyyy I’m early this time I love you Kat 🫶🏾❤️

  • @h.hamed.hakimmi5941
    @h.hamed.hakimmi5941 Год назад +1

    Wonderful!!

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 Год назад +3

    Oh no

  • @vaalyun777
    @vaalyun777 5 месяцев назад +1

    This audio is what I want in life, instead of being beat for my mistakes

  • @MKP-Hook
    @MKP-Hook 3 месяца назад +1

    I dont cry like ever but these make me cry because of anxiaty and i dont know if its healing or breaking

  • @SuperSpike47
    @SuperSpike47 Год назад +7

    💙🧡

  • @ChickenHero143
    @ChickenHero143 Год назад +1

    Rip mug 😢

  • @Juan.The_Approver1
    @Juan.The_Approver1 Год назад +1

    Juan approves

  • @RandomGuy14321
    @RandomGuy14321 3 месяца назад +1

    My life is miserable.. i cried to this.. is this normal?

  • @odin0707
    @odin0707 Год назад +1

    Very nice

  • @Nick-id8um
    @Nick-id8um Месяц назад

    My deepest apologies my dear

  • @deathkidsx
    @deathkidsx Год назад +3

    💙💙💙

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 Год назад +5

    Hello there 😢

  • @JuicyDragonfruit
    @JuicyDragonfruit 4 месяца назад +1

    Healing from when i accidentally spilled milk and got screamed at

  • @Stevetrevor360
    @Stevetrevor360 8 месяцев назад

    After listening to this heavenly audio... I wish I could be at Your 24/7 on call disposal...😢😢❤❤

  • @reginaldchu3051
    @reginaldchu3051 Год назад +5

    :)

  • @juanjoseruiz269
    @juanjoseruiz269 7 месяцев назад +1

    I remembered when my mom used to hit me when by accident I broke a plate, mug, etc...
    And now when I broke a plate or things like that I don't feel safe or I feel sad.
    Note: I am hispanic and when someonne break something especially mugs or plates you get beat up by your mom or dad or both.
    Edit:I have ADHD and that make things worse because I remember when my mom or hit me too when I didn't follow directions corretly.

  • @stereotypical01
    @stereotypical01 8 месяцев назад +1

    Why does you not getting mad make me even more angry...

  • @cedean6755
    @cedean6755 Год назад +5

    🩵💕🕊️

  • @AlexandriaChopin
    @AlexandriaChopin 7 месяцев назад

    Omg, you’re sooo reassuring and nice! I love this audio!❤

  • @ultiduo
    @ultiduo Год назад +2

  • @bowlingstoned2113
    @bowlingstoned2113 6 месяцев назад

    It's sad to see a lot of us grew up torn apart to where we flinch and freeze up at even the smallest insignificant things that people made TOO significant... I hope you all find peace and growth day by day, and from the battles you fight inside but tell no one about.. 🕊️

  • @KrayaFcknRiver
    @KrayaFcknRiver 5 месяцев назад +1

    I moved out a few years ago and was living alone and I broke my own plate and cried bc I would get abused for breaking stuff… even tho I was alone and no one was gonna do anything

  • @Nathan-n6s
    @Nathan-n6s Месяц назад

    Wait, not being in the doghouse for accidents is normal?

  • @infertrax
    @infertrax Месяц назад

    Skibidi

  • @sametucar9544
    @sametucar9544 6 месяцев назад

    👍👏

  • @JohnWick-qf6lx
    @JohnWick-qf6lx Год назад +1

    😀🤙🏻💯💚

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 3 месяца назад

    😺

  • @mostlyjovial6177
    @mostlyjovial6177 8 месяцев назад

    Growing up I cut myself trying to clean up the second plate I ever dropped.
    Because the first time got me beaten.
    I live on my own now, so it’s strange to not feel fear over small mistakes and being able to clean up safely instead of quickly.
    Stuff like that is seriously hard on kids, and even more so if their first relationships treat them the same.
    It’s sad honestly, because a lot of people don’t realize that isn’t normal.

  • @bullworthguy5999
    @bullworthguy5999 6 месяцев назад

    I broke down while listening I’m not even kidding is the worst part

  • @amyisheartbroken_
    @amyisheartbroken_ 6 месяцев назад +2

    when i was young i was yelled at by my parents and sister when i broke something unintentionally that today when i break things i start to cry immediately because i have a picture in mind that someone will scream at me because of that. So thank you for this audio, because it helps me a lot ❤️‍🩹

  • @dufel2549
    @dufel2549 Год назад +3

    the fact that this pops up om my recommended after I broke my absolute favorite mug this week🥲

  • @chunkytomatosoup1826
    @chunkytomatosoup1826 3 месяца назад +1

    Fuck, dude...