"It's just weird? What is? Not being yelled at... Maybe one day that will feel normal." This line just... it's exactly how I felt listening to this, and I cried a little when you said it. When you're expecting the anger and then it just never comes, it's so confusing that you don't know what to do. This is how it should be instead. Thank you, Kat.
The only time I accidentally broke something, my mum wasn’t mad at me. Granted, my dad was shouting at me and grounded me for 4 hours for what reason? For defending myself after he slapped me. Yep. I got grounded for 4 hours because my dad slapped me.
Usually when I accidentally break a mug or a cup, I would stood in fear, then I would start to shake like crazy then I would start tearing up and apologise over and over
Not me listening to this and my mind went "jup they're being sarcastic, they're actually mad" etc. Made me realize how bad my parents treated me. Even if someone was genuine my trust issues make me believe that secretly are mad or smth. 💁♀️😕i hate it. Its like even know I this is supposed to be a genuine asmr with a healthy relationship, and yet I see the potential lies. I know theres people that feel like this too, so I hope you're learning to heal. I'm still working on me but realizing whats wrong helps me heal what I feel. 💜 this is great thank you Pine Kat, I think this helps a bunch of people heal. ❤
@@MR_AngelgdYou know at my place when people get married , divorce is very rare , I mean I've never heard that people got divorced in my locality in my whole life. So yeah, I guess here people know the essence of a relationship and that's why rarely they got divorced
"Im sorry you've experienced a misdirected anger from people who were supposed to be protecting you." As someone who was raised in an abusive household with my father's anger issues, this made me cry.
As someone who was often punished in school early on due to being neurodivergent, I've developed a habit of catastrophizing things. Even all these years later and having the most supportive family it's still something I'm struggling to work past, making me hesitant to take any risks. This even gets in the way of me enjoying things I used to love doing, because my mind automatically tries to blow the smallest anxiety out of proportion. Thank you for making a video like this so people can realize that the worst possible outcome is not only not likely, but often is much less worrying than it seems.
Kind She’s So Incredibly Kind Intensely; Comically Great for Those with Intense Fear Causing Self Deprecation But for Me It’s Just Coomfi Great Comfort Audio Adorable VA
This is helping me a lot on a really difficult night with non-stop harassment earlier from a family member. This helped me calm down and now I think I can sleep. Thank you so so much ❤
What’s most important is if your partner is hurt not a object, even if it’s expensive or important. Accidents happen (something I forget a lot, but then again I’m not the type of guy to be nice to myself. I’d feel so bad for breaking something that belongs to someone) Ty for another amazing audio Kat, love these comforting and reassuring ones, definitely some of the best. ❤️🩹
I felt this. Im 16 now. My mum has always screamed at me for every little bad thjng ive done. For example, spilling something on the carpet which comes out in 2 seconds, breaking something by accident and itger stupid shit she didnt need to scream abt. Still happens.
I’d honestly start balling crying and I would then constantly apologize and say sorry over and over again it’s just how I am when I make any mistakes I’m really emotional sensitive vulnerable when I break things by accident because I’m usually use to having people be mad at me and make me cry so crying is my response to any tense situation that feels like it’s my fault even when I know I didn’t do anything really bad
I actually broke something pretty important earlier cause it was a dead family member’s old mirror just cause I went to put something in a bin outside and the wind knocked it over, luckily it wasn’t damaged too badly and the main part of the mirror was fine but it still feels terrible as it probably should cause you know it was from a dead family member but everyone was a lot less mad and more forgiving about it than I thought they’d be
Yknow, I never understood why people had favorite mugs and stuff. Then I moved out and I swiftly realised that I did, in fact, understand and that I did, in fact, have a favorite bowl for eating out of. And then, of course, I broke the damn thing trying to scoop rrally stiff ice cream into it when I was having a really, really shit day. RIP my Badger Bowl, to this day I haven't found anything even close to as comforting to eat from.
Every Asian lad has a nightmare like (oh no, I broke my mum's favourite mug) Most likely we've never seen again after we broke up something from the kitchen ;-;
As someone who always gets yelled at for making mistakes unintentionally this makes me feel emotional I just don't know how to respond with your kind reaction after I incidentally broke something that is important to you... it's just that I was traumatized and so used being called names after making small mistakes 😔 even though this is just a scripted audio. Thank you for your caring and loving personality 🥺❤️
Does it mean something bad that I literally almost started crying about something I didn't even do?... I heard that it was her favorite mug and that she won it at an art fair and I almost started balling my eyes out
Hi Kat. I just want to say thank you for all of the hard work and effort you put in to please your listeners. You’re the most talented and passionate channel, and I thank you for all the times your audios have made my days better. I just re-listened to all of the “Interrogation” series, and just had the best time and had to say thank you. Maybe someday we’ll get a follow up to that story, but even still, every audio you create makes me happy and grateful. Thank you again, keep up the amazing work.
…I feel like it’s concerning when my first thought was that she was hiding her anger. Ugh. Or is she just special??? Is it normal for people *not* to get mad for accidentally breaking things????
It's sad to see a lot of us grew up torn apart to where we flinch and freeze up at even the smallest insignificant things that people made TOO significant... I hope you all find peace and growth day by day, and from the battles you fight inside but tell no one about.. 🕊️
I remembered when my mom used to hit me when by accident I broke a plate, mug, etc... And now when I broke a plate or things like that I don't feel safe or I feel sad. Note: I am hispanic and when someonne break something especially mugs or plates you get beat up by your mom or dad or both. Edit:I have ADHD and that make things worse because I remember when my mom or hit me too when I didn't follow directions corretly.
I wonder what a good healthy relationship feels like, and in general, I guess what love feels like. Im young and all, but the relationships my parents have and the ones I do have ended me with more loneliness and no friends. I just wish I could fix my stupid brain so that I wouldn't see the world as people who look at me as a burden, disgusting person. I wish i could make one mistake and not have everyone stab me for it, then it gets marked on me, and it huants me forever. I want someone who can love me, hold me, and tell me I am safe in this curl world, but with the things Ive done, I am always going to that one wiredo. And i hate it so much.
I moved out a few years ago and was living alone and I broke my own plate and cried bc I would get abused for breaking stuff… even tho I was alone and no one was gonna do anything
Growing up I cut myself trying to clean up the second plate I ever dropped. Because the first time got me beaten. I live on my own now, so it’s strange to not feel fear over small mistakes and being able to clean up safely instead of quickly. Stuff like that is seriously hard on kids, and even more so if their first relationships treat them the same. It’s sad honestly, because a lot of people don’t realize that isn’t normal.
when i was young i was yelled at by my parents and sister when i broke something unintentionally that today when i break things i start to cry immediately because i have a picture in mind that someone will scream at me because of that. So thank you for this audio, because it helps me a lot ❤️🩹
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I'm sorry about the mug, as payment for the mug I'll get a new one as well as a comment for the algorithm
The mug was a cannon event
If break a mug, the immediate thought was : "We had a good run, it's joever now."
"It's just weird? What is? Not being yelled at... Maybe one day that will feel normal."
This line just... it's exactly how I felt listening to this, and I cried a little when you said it.
When you're expecting the anger and then it just never comes, it's so confusing that you don't know what to do.
This is how it should be instead. Thank you, Kat.
Amen brother. N7 with pride!
The only time I accidentally broke something, my mum wasn’t mad at me. Granted, my dad was shouting at me and grounded me for 4 hours for what reason? For defending myself after he slapped me. Yep. I got grounded for 4 hours because my dad slapped me.
@@venomgaming7014 Hopefully your dad learns to stop sucking
@@venomgaming7014 Then Take Your Dad To Jail
Usually when I accidentally break a mug or a cup, I would stood in fear, then I would start to shake like crazy then I would start tearing up and apologise over and over
Not me listening to this and my mind went "jup they're being sarcastic, they're actually mad" etc. Made me realize how bad my parents treated me. Even if someone was genuine my trust issues make me believe that secretly are mad or smth. 💁♀️😕i hate it. Its like even know I this is supposed to be a genuine asmr with a healthy relationship, and yet I see the potential lies. I know theres people that feel like this too, so I hope you're learning to heal. I'm still working on me but realizing whats wrong helps me heal what I feel. 💜 this is great thank you Pine Kat, I think this helps a bunch of people heal. ❤
"We don't make mistakes, we have happy accidents"
Bob Ross
😭no cuz I’m so scared of breaking, loosing or misplacing anyone’s things I swear i would genuinely cry about it so much and feel crappy about for DAYS
Days? It took me almost 4 years to get over the fact I accidentally broke a small cheap Mickey Mouse ornament at Christmas...when I was 7 years old
Damn, Sometimes I imagine how much better a relationship could be if both sides were genuinely like this ❤️
@@vallen8660 Absolutely true. Unfortunately nowadays that’s really hard to find a relationship like this
@@MR_AngelgdYou know at my place when people get married , divorce is very rare , I mean I've never heard that people got divorced in my locality in my whole life. So yeah, I guess here people know the essence of a relationship and that's why rarely they got divorced
That's why it's so important to work on yourself before even meeting someone. And then, you got to get to know each other very well before committing
It is so fun to pretend youre just a cat being talked to by a lonley cat person and you did, in fact, break the mug on purpose.
"Im sorry you've experienced a misdirected anger from people who were supposed to be protecting you."
As someone who was raised in an abusive household with my father's anger issues, this made me cry.
I'm crying right now 😭, please bro not my fault I have trauma. Thank you pinekat
the fact that i dropped my plate multiple times n i always get shouted at, cursed at or even get hit for it.
As someone who was often punished in school early on due to being neurodivergent, I've developed a habit of catastrophizing things. Even all these years later and having the most supportive family it's still something I'm struggling to work past, making me hesitant to take any risks. This even gets in the way of me enjoying things I used to love doing, because my mind automatically tries to blow the smallest anxiety out of proportion.
Thank you for making a video like this so people can realize that the worst possible outcome is not only not likely, but often is much less worrying than it seems.
Kind
She’s So Incredibly Kind
Intensely; Comically
Great for Those with Intense Fear Causing Self Deprecation
But for Me It’s Just Coomfi
Great Comfort Audio
Adorable VA
This is helping me a lot on a really difficult night with non-stop harassment earlier from a family member. This helped me calm down and now I think I can sleep. Thank you so so much ❤
What’s most important is if your partner is hurt not a object, even if it’s expensive or important. Accidents happen (something I forget a lot, but then again I’m not the type of guy to be nice to myself. I’d feel so bad for breaking something that belongs to someone) Ty for another amazing audio Kat, love these comforting and reassuring ones, definitely some of the best. ❤️🩹
"Are you sure you're okay? You seem upset"
One time I broke a mug when I was like 12 and I've always been scared of dropping mugs since
Ok it triggered something, and I actually cried
I felt this. Im 16 now. My mum has always screamed at me for every little bad thjng ive done. For example, spilling something on the carpet which comes out in 2 seconds, breaking something by accident and itger stupid shit she didnt need to scream abt. Still happens.
I’d honestly start balling crying and I would then constantly apologize and say sorry over and over again it’s just how I am when I make any mistakes I’m really emotional sensitive vulnerable when I break things by accident because I’m usually use to having people be mad at me and make me cry so crying is my response to any tense situation that feels like it’s my fault even when I know I didn’t do anything really bad
I actually broke something pretty important earlier cause it was a dead family member’s old mirror just cause I went to put something in a bin outside and the wind knocked it over, luckily it wasn’t damaged too badly and the main part of the mirror was fine but it still feels terrible as it probably should cause you know it was from a dead family member but everyone was a lot less mad and more forgiving about it than I thought they’d be
“Those words aren’t true” that really hurt. I still remember all the names people have called me. It plays in my head like a cassette tape
PTSD from excel spreadsheets...
My eyes started to water thank you for the audio pine kat
Yknow, I never understood why people had favorite mugs and stuff. Then I moved out and I swiftly realised that I did, in fact, understand and that I did, in fact, have a favorite bowl for eating out of.
And then, of course, I broke the damn thing trying to scoop rrally stiff ice cream into it when I was having a really, really shit day. RIP my Badger Bowl, to this day I haven't found anything even close to as comforting to eat from.
If I Had Someone Like This All My Worries Would Go Away💕
I THOUGHT THE TITLE SAID "YOU BROKE MY LUIGI" 😭
YOU BROKE MY MARIO.. 💔
YOU BROKE MY PEACH 😭😭
@@TotallysomethinghereNOT EVEN GONNA MENTION THE BROKEN DAISY. 😡
I miss Iraq
@@UrFavConehead YOU BROKE MY BOWSER!
Damn, it's like she is hugging me with words.
Thank you
I like how this is the comeback to the second comfort after an abusive relationship where you mention that I broke a mug.
Every Asian lad has a nightmare like (oh no, I broke my mum's favourite mug)
Most likely we've never seen again after we broke up something from the kitchen ;-;
its normal for uz 💀
Me trying to surprise Kat with a snack while she's working, then breaking her mug and having a panic attack just to ve comforted. Pretty good day. 👍
ah such a healthy relationship
As someone who always gets yelled at for making mistakes unintentionally this makes me feel emotional I just don't know how to respond with your kind reaction after I incidentally broke something that is important to you... it's just that I was traumatized and so used being called names after making small mistakes 😔 even though this is just a scripted audio. Thank you for your caring and loving personality 🥺❤️
Does it mean something bad that I literally almost started crying about something I didn't even do?... I heard that it was her favorite mug and that she won it at an art fair and I almost started balling my eyes out
Me looking at my parents: see was that so hard😒
Love the content you’re doing a great job
If that was me I would of burst into tears the second she came into the kitchen😭
Rip the mug 😔🙏
I NEED MORE!!!!! This series is so great! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am a grown ass man and I'm crying
My dearest apologies for the mug, I may not have the funds to pay it back but I do have the ability to apologize via comment
Hi Kat. I just want to say thank you for all of the hard work and effort you put in to please your listeners. You’re the most talented and passionate channel, and I thank you for all the times your audios have made my days better. I just re-listened to all of the “Interrogation” series, and just had the best time and had to say thank you. Maybe someday we’ll get a follow up to that story, but even still, every audio you create makes me happy and grateful. Thank you again, keep up the amazing work.
Wow , It's actually a very healthy relationship ❤
This was both difficult to listen to and much needed. It brought up some past trauma that I didn't realize was still so intense and scary. Thank you!
You’re one of my favorite ASMR creators.
😲is this the prequel of the “comfort after an abusive relationship” series? 😱
Yay! I'm so happy to hear more of this series! It's one of my favorites from your channel.❤
Love the audio it happens all the time in my house breaking stuff
Apparently I really need therapy
I love all of your videos. I LOVE THEM
POV I break a mug at home: Well.... I'm going to be seeing Michael Jackson 😅😓
when you break a mug you don´t just break it you have to completley atomize it so you can´t even begin to recognize what it was
…I feel like it’s concerning when my first thought was that she was hiding her anger.
Ugh.
Or is she just special??? Is it normal for people *not* to get mad for accidentally breaking things????
I dont cry like ever but these make me cry because of anxiaty and i dont know if its healing or breaking
Well... i... I'm not used to it... feels good not being yelled at
Is this what a healthy relationship is like? It's so nice 😭
Should try it some time
Imma be honest first I was scared like my body was just clenched then I was confused and calm at the same time by the end of it
My wife yells and cussed at me when I break things 😪
I must repent for my sins.
Pls dont kill me😂
I'm actually for Kat's uploaded can't wait to watch this tonight always looking forward to them upload's 💙✨
This was very encouraging to listen to. Here, have my 800th like!
Me: Breaks mug
Kat: No negative reaction
Me: Calls myself names
Kat: >:0
Wonderful!!
MUGMAN NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
This audio is what I want in life, instead of being beat for my mistakes
Why am i like this
Oh no
It's sad to see a lot of us grew up torn apart to where we flinch and freeze up at even the smallest insignificant things that people made TOO significant... I hope you all find peace and growth day by day, and from the battles you fight inside but tell no one about.. 🕊️
My life is miserable.. i cried to this.. is this normal?
Im so sorry for the mug, i promise il never do it again
Rip mug 😢
Juan approves
To replace the mug ill give you the stuffed bunny my dad gave me,since you liked the mug and i like my bunny i guess its a fair trade 😁
💙🧡
I remembered when my mom used to hit me when by accident I broke a plate, mug, etc...
And now when I broke a plate or things like that I don't feel safe or I feel sad.
Note: I am hispanic and when someonne break something especially mugs or plates you get beat up by your mom or dad or both.
Edit:I have ADHD and that make things worse because I remember when my mom or hit me too when I didn't follow directions corretly.
Yayyyyy I’m early this time I love you Kat 🫶🏾❤️
Very nice
I wonder what a good healthy relationship feels like, and in general, I guess what love feels like.
Im young and all, but the relationships my parents have and the ones I do have ended me with more loneliness and no friends. I just wish I could fix my stupid brain so that I wouldn't see the world as people who look at me as a burden, disgusting person. I wish i could make one mistake and not have everyone stab me for it, then it gets marked on me, and it huants me forever.
I want someone who can love me, hold me, and tell me I am safe in this curl world, but with the things Ive done, I am always going to that one wiredo. And i hate it so much.
Omg, you’re sooo reassuring and nice! I love this audio!❤
Why does you not getting mad make me even more angry...
i feel like the first minute could be said to a cat
I moved out a few years ago and was living alone and I broke my own plate and cried bc I would get abused for breaking stuff… even tho I was alone and no one was gonna do anything
My deepest apologies my dear
After listening to this heavenly audio... I wish I could be at Your 24/7 on call disposal...😢😢❤❤
🩵💕🕊️
Hello there 😢
Do you plan on continuing the series?
Healing from when i accidentally spilled milk and got screamed at
Wait, not being in the doghouse for accidents is normal?
:)
👍👏
Skibidi
😀🤙🏻💯💚
Growing up I cut myself trying to clean up the second plate I ever dropped.
Because the first time got me beaten.
I live on my own now, so it’s strange to not feel fear over small mistakes and being able to clean up safely instead of quickly.
Stuff like that is seriously hard on kids, and even more so if their first relationships treat them the same.
It’s sad honestly, because a lot of people don’t realize that isn’t normal.
😺
I broke down while listening I’m not even kidding is the worst part
when i was young i was yelled at by my parents and sister when i broke something unintentionally that today when i break things i start to cry immediately because i have a picture in mind that someone will scream at me because of that. So thank you for this audio, because it helps me a lot ❤️🩹
the fact that this pops up om my recommended after I broke my absolute favorite mug this week🥲
Fuck, dude...