"I was inventing reasons to be mad at you instead of facing my problems like an adult." That line describes what I put up with for *years* until I finally got away. There was no version where it wasn't my fault, no peace until I apologized to her for whatever happened (or more likely happened only inside her mind). And this isn't that, but it is a warm reminder of what healthy relationships are like. What it sounds like when someone who has hurt me feels hurt as well, not because I didn't do what they want, but because they care that much. And this is already more than enough rambling from me, but I couldn't stop myself from saying it. Regardless, thank you for the audio, Kat.
I literally just cried hearing this. I wish I would hear this from my wife once in my life. Somehow I keep telling myself that being mistreated and taking the blame is just something I have to live with.
Tell her that, if she doesn't listen or starts an argument because you confront her. That's on her, you gotta have clear boundaries and not argue bout them cause there's nothing to say to a verbally abusive partner except "im leaving you." Don't take that kind of disrespect if she's making you feel bad in the relationship and doesn't even bother to apologize, you deserve better than that.
I feel you and i can understand u because i let my girlfriend just walk over me justifying her bad treatments in our relathionship. Im so sorry u are going through this :(
I really like how the speaker takes responsibility for what she did and makes how she felt very clear, as well as telling the listener that none of it was their fault and that she cares about them too much to let a bad day get between them. That ending is legitimately heartwarming and your performance with her being on the verge of tears makes it clear just how much she loves the listener.
NEVER had my (female) partner apologize even when she was wrong ever. I wouldn’t know how to react. She’s chewed me out to the point i didn’t feel like a person:(
first time bud? Over here our lovers always argue till their voice boxes shatter to pieces, it’s normal over here I suggest you build a wall of resilience if that makes you feel less of a person my friend
That reasonable communication sure is the key. If I had a loving GF I would ever be able to forgive myself for being mad at her just cause I had a bad day, no matter how tuff it was for me, especially when herself is wanting to help. That’s gotta be nightmare, accidentally hurting your true love. TY for another wonderfully made ASMR Kat, the part where you stared crying, I wanted to give you a hug even tho you were just obviously acting. Your real good at these ASMRs. ❤️
god, i thank you so, So much for this audio. This really, REALLY helps me to get through my depression episode after my favourite person left and blacklisted me after another one of my hysterical fits.
It hurst. It hurts so much when you give everything to someone and this person still complaining and treating you bad because as Kat said if you try to help they get mad and if you dont is worst.
I would be astonished if this ever happened.....I don't think I would know how to respond. Not that I wouldn't appreciate it and completely love them for it. I wouldn't know what to say....
@@Saber23 is that a trick question or are you struggling to understand what I said do I need to type in a different language so that you can understand?
Good RP and VA. Seeing it in a way outside of a role, she should go to a psychologist. It is clear that she has problems and takes it out on the people around her, in this case, the listener. I know a couple of people who went through that and in both cases it was fear and insecurity with themselves, but they blamed someone else for not dealing with it themselves.
Despite all the internets flaws I am really glad it exists. My parents do love each other but they are far from being ideal role models when it comes to parenting and just communication in general. My parents never apologize for their mistakes and for the longest time I thought that was normal. The internet is where much of my knowledge of pretty much anything comes from.
I was just looking for audios to listen to while working, didnt want to listen to nsfw stuff so i thought huh maybe there are angst audios out there? Because I like angst and then i stumbled on this and holy shit!! The way it tugged my heart strings 😭😭 I've experienced being taken for granted, being the stressball of someone while im also experiencing so much stress, and this comforted me in a way. Thank you for this 💖
I have a brother that is like this. I do stuff for him, comfort him. But then he gets mad at me if I make a noice or even look at him but also if I ignore him. I am supposed to comfort him for his panics attacks but also deal with him treating everyone in my house like shit because there is no wifi yet he gets pissed when it is time for his therapy session. Only difference, he won't ever apologize. So as someone who is the oldest sibling and father figure for many people, this audio hit too close. Thanks
aw fuck...this made me tear up, come here kat! i need to kiss you. hugs bc i forgive you. i was never mad. i was sad, bc i felt like there was nothing i could do
Please please please do some dominant girlfriend audios just like soft dom ones in which you'll be scolding and then caring the listener like a baby...i love your voice and no one on RUclips has that good voice please I'll be very blessed if you do that kind of audios ..... Pleeeeeeeease
Reasonable communication? From the movie "as good as it gets" Secretary: How do you write women so well? Jack Nicholson: i think of a man. Then i take away reason, and accountability.
Many men literally don't listen and don't take accountability, they'll literally gaslight women. The fact people claim women are unreasonable is ridiculous. Some of course, but so many men cause problems and act like they did nothing, ignore the woman's complaints, and then expect her to somehow not eventually blow up on you.
Sounds like you set him up and that's horrible of you and then when he tried to help you hurt no scared him with your words are you kidding me you should feel bad treating him like crap not once twice but three times not ok in the least. Really 3 times. If I were the boyfriend here I'd be in tears angry tears but I would calm down and ask if we could have a polite calm conversation about what had gotten into you and we'd work it out together. I would forgive you kiss you and cuddle with you on the couch a watch whatever movie you wanted to watch. Kat as always not talking to you as a person your character is who I'm refering to.
Proving once again that reasonable Communication is key.
but unfortunately not many people know how to make good use of it.
Excuse me but how tf did you comment 12 days ago???
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Communication is for people with somebody to communicate with.
"I was inventing reasons to be mad at you instead of facing my problems like an adult."
That line describes what I put up with for *years* until I finally got away. There was no version where it wasn't my fault, no peace until I apologized to her for whatever happened (or more likely happened only inside her mind).
And this isn't that, but it is a warm reminder of what healthy relationships are like. What it sounds like when someone who has hurt me feels hurt as well, not because I didn't do what they want, but because they care that much.
And this is already more than enough rambling from me, but I couldn't stop myself from saying it. Regardless, thank you for the audio, Kat.
I’m proud of you for standing up and making that decision. That must have been very hard
You go man your brave and inspiring
I literally just cried hearing this. I wish I would hear this from my wife once in my life. Somehow I keep telling myself that being mistreated and taking the blame is just something I have to live with.
Tell her that, if she doesn't listen or starts an argument because you confront her. That's on her, you gotta have clear boundaries and not argue bout them cause there's nothing to say to a verbally abusive partner except "im leaving you." Don't take that kind of disrespect if she's making you feel bad in the relationship and doesn't even bother to apologize, you deserve better than that.
I feel you and i can understand u because i let my girlfriend just walk over me justifying her bad treatments in our relathionship. Im so sorry u are going through this :(
Me too... this would never happen in reality but wow would it be wonderful
Leave her and find better king.
I’m crying because I know none of my family members would ever apologize for doing something like this.
Time for a new family
I really like how the speaker takes responsibility for what she did and makes how she felt very clear, as well as telling the listener that none of it was their fault and that she cares about them too much to let a bad day get between them.
That ending is legitimately heartwarming and your performance with her being on the verge of tears makes it clear just how much she loves the listener.
NEVER had my (female) partner apologize even when she was wrong ever. I wouldn’t know how to react. She’s chewed me out to the point i didn’t feel like a person:(
Sounds like you're in a toxic/abusive relationship. I would recommend rethinking your relationship status.
first time bud? Over here our lovers always argue till their voice boxes shatter to pieces, it’s normal over here I suggest you build a wall of resilience if that makes you feel less of a person my friend
@@deathrow4686 Just because that's normal for you, doesnt mean it has to be normal for them though.
I’m single as fuck so I wouldn’t know but that doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship
@@deathrow4686 Healthiest Canadian(?) Relationship lmao
*places a newborn kitten on Kats lap in hopes of cheering her up*
This is hands down the best apology. Great job
i almost shed a tear when you started to sound like almost crying, bro, that hit really hard
That reasonable communication sure is the key. If I had a loving GF I would ever be able to forgive myself for being mad at her just cause I had a bad day, no matter how tuff it was for me, especially when herself is wanting to help. That’s gotta be nightmare, accidentally hurting your true love. TY for another wonderfully made ASMR Kat, the part where you stared crying, I wanted to give you a hug even tho you were just obviously acting. Your real good at these ASMRs. ❤️
I think the last time I cried was 5 or 6 years ago, I think this audio hits pretty close to home
god, i thank you so, So much for this audio. This really, REALLY helps me to get through my depression episode after my favourite person left and blacklisted me after another one of my hysterical fits.
It hurst. It hurts so much when you give everything to someone and this person still complaining and treating you bad because as Kat said if you try to help they get mad and if you dont is worst.
I am a forklift that has left mayoral office, and has since written a best selling autobiography
I would be astonished if this ever happened.....I don't think I would know how to respond. Not that I wouldn't appreciate it and completely love them for it. I wouldn't know what to say....
It’s ok most arguments can be fixed by talking, listening and hugs 🤗
Most being the key word l.
@@kaijuking5971 yeah most the hell are you on about?
@@Saber23 is that a trick question or are you struggling to understand what I said do I need to type in a different language so that you can understand?
@@kaijuking5971 Goofy 💀
I literally love ur videos no joke definitely helps me out with my rough days
I’m so glad you enjoy them!
Good RP and VA. Seeing it in a way outside of a role, she should go to a psychologist. It is clear that she has problems and takes it out on the people around her, in this case, the listener.
I know a couple of people who went through that and in both cases it was fear and insecurity with themselves, but they blamed someone else for not dealing with it themselves.
always good to talk things out and sort them
Best part of Saturday listening to kat
This is torcher I can’t hold you close I can’t love and comfort hug your voice is amazing 10/10
Despite all the internets flaws I am really glad it exists. My parents do love each other but they are far from being ideal role models when it comes to parenting and just communication in general. My parents never apologize for their mistakes and for the longest time I thought that was normal. The internet is where much of my knowledge of pretty much anything comes from.
Nah I'm easy in these situations if I'm trying to be helpful and get snapped at multiple times I'm like cool don't ask me for shit ever again 🤣
It’s okay my love, no need to worry. I just needed to get some space, and so did you. Now. Cuddles await us.
I was just looking for audios to listen to while working, didnt want to listen to nsfw stuff so i thought huh maybe there are angst audios out there? Because I like angst and then i stumbled on this and holy shit!! The way it tugged my heart strings 😭😭 I've experienced being taken for granted, being the stressball of someone while im also experiencing so much stress, and this comforted me in a way. Thank you for this 💖
OKKKK HOLD UP, u ate my chicken nuggies, thats unforgivable 👺.
Ok I think it's time for my afternoon gf apologize's
Also I love ur videos so much
Great Audio Kat❤
thanks Kat for the video Have a great weekend I didn't do anything other than see if you were ok don't get mad at me
"Taken for granite." Yes.
I wish my girlfriend had said this to me instead of breaking up
I have a brother that is like this. I do stuff for him, comfort him. But then he gets mad at me if I make a noice or even look at him but also if I ignore him. I am supposed to comfort him for his panics attacks but also deal with him treating everyone in my house like shit because there is no wifi yet he gets pissed when it is time for his therapy session. Only difference, he won't ever apologize. So as someone who is the oldest sibling and father figure for many people, this audio hit too close. Thanks
that is some good audio
Is it sad that I started crying when she started crying
Damn. If only my ex was this reasonable
Hey Kat today's is very gloomy , cloudy perfect timing to upload and listen to this once again amazing audio 💖✨
She's only human after all. Don't put the blame on her
Fantastic audio 😺
aw fuck...this made me tear up, come here kat! i need to kiss you. hugs bc i forgive you. i was never mad. i was sad, bc i felt like there was nothing i could do
Thanks for your video Kat
One thing i wanted to hear from my girl bully
this is so good
Love these vids
Angy moment
Please please please do some dominant girlfriend audios just like soft dom ones in which you'll be scolding and then caring the listener like a baby...i love your voice and no one on RUclips has that good voice please I'll be very blessed if you do that kind of audios ..... Pleeeeeeeease
you are good behind the mic do you have previous acting ensperience like theater or drama classes?
orlin: YOU RUINED MY LIFE
I LOVE IT😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍!!!
I got my Instagram friend to hypnotize me last night
What's it like to receive an apology?
This is always proves in my head that love is scripted :c
Very nice
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People saying sorry to me feels weird
Ayy, I don't even know if u check comments but just incase if u do..... *Insert Kratos theme*
Gimme Hug!
How have you been?
I been good thanks bro B)
God, I've always wanted an apology from my mother, I'm tearing up
Fellas : stay single for life. If you are a Catholic please consider priesthood.
Sounds awful, lonely, and not a life worth living.
Nice one
Too bad this isn’t real life…
Hey can you do an audio rp comfort for color blindness I would really appreciate it
I love you so much madam
GET A JOB PLEASE
edit: I get this now, most people don’t get apologies from their partners and this makes them feel better…
11:22 did you just say "taken for granite"?
I did sound like she said “granite”, but she did say “granted”. Sometimes you got to listen in carefully.
2:27
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Is there any f4m ones by any chance?
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🤙🏻💯💚☺️
hello there
Women in 2024 just make ASMR and lie.
Reasonable communication?
From the movie "as good as it gets"
Secretary: How do you write women so well?
Jack Nicholson: i think of a man. Then i take away reason, and accountability.
Many men literally don't listen and don't take accountability, they'll literally gaslight women. The fact people claim women are unreasonable is ridiculous.
Some of course, but so many men cause problems and act like they did nothing, ignore the woman's complaints, and then expect her to somehow not eventually blow up on you.
Epic 👍
Sounds like you set him up and that's horrible of you and then when he tried to help you hurt no scared him with your words are you kidding me you should feel bad treating him like crap not once twice but three times not ok in the least. Really 3 times. If I were the boyfriend here I'd be in tears angry tears but I would calm down and ask if we could have a polite calm conversation about what had gotten into you and we'd work it out together. I would forgive you kiss you and cuddle with you on the couch a watch whatever movie you wanted to watch. Kat as always not talking to you as a person your character is who I'm refering to.