We proud of you ,Vanika ,who bravely accepts and acknowledge the mistakes on the public platform and becoming the genuine human, who want love, attention and care. Fabulous!!✨🌻
Your courage to openly share your childhood mistakes and the journey to self-discovery is truly commendable. It takes strength and honesty to confront our past and grow from it. Your insightful line at 02:10 time stamp 'Jab bachpan ki jhoot pakde nahi jate to vo bachpan ki adatein ban jati hai aur jab vo adatein sahi waqt par badli nahi jati to vo jarooratein ban jati hai,' resonates deeply and serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. Thank you for being an inspiration to others through your vulnerability and authenticity. Keep shining your light and making a positive impact on the world!
Dear Vanika, It takes a lot of courage to speak about your wounds that you had face as an 8 year old child ...and congratulations for the new beginning
I just don't want this story to end ✨. Vanika always concludes it thatyou're not wrong if you're feeling what you're feeling. It's okay to feel what you feel just a need to acknowledge them 🌸🌼✨
Are Vanika tu to badi ho gayi hai re, I remember the curry you made in Whoopers Goa and fed everyone (at least I got my part even though I wasn't part of your batch); you are a great storyteller I was listening to you there as well and here again. So happy to meet you. Keep Doing this thing. Take care.
Felt like my story being told in your words through your tongue. The only disambiguition being the absence of my mum, to hug and complain. You are so strong to discuss this on a public platform. To bring forth the darkest night of your life. And to acknowledge that its not the diseased but the disease and its cause that is to be blamed. It feels so heartwarming to see you doing so well in life. Keep doing whatever it is that you do❤
Gosh, that was really something else I'm so proud of what you have become from that 8 year girl Hope you live a life full of love, attention and care You deserve it
I also did something like this in my childhood.. I don't know why... I felt that no one wants me... I felt that I'm not important to anyone and it's true 🙂
Ab bologe humari behan ko bhi galat nazar se dekhte ho , aisi soch walo ko dub ke mar jana chahiye bhai , nazar bigad jati ye baat sach ho koi paidayasi rapiest nahi hota , we need best future best partner best persone who notice holistic promblem and solve it ! Billion ladko ki nazar kuch ladkiya nahi badal sakti , 🙏 i am really appreciate to exist, but don't act femest this universe is same for you and we ,aur ye bhi yaad rakho Bollywood wale ya movie wale sexiest kapde pahne he to wo movie attractive karne ke liye tum kapde pehn sakti , but koi chede to ulta jawab bhi de sakte but tume comments londe ke aayenge this is reality 🙏 that's why indian tradition wears are , they don't show sexiest they show you like a indian respectively women 🙏
@@smart-g-one And if you are saying about Indian traditional wear, go and check jitne b rape case hue hai wo kisi kapde ke wajah se nhi balki kisi ki gandi soch aur gandi nazar ke karan hue hai... Ek 6 saal ki bachi ka rape ho gaya tha usne kon se bold kapde pehne the? Clothes never decide intentions jo insan galat niyat rakhta hai wahi galat hai. Aur mai feminist nahi ho Raha hu jo sach hai wo sach h! Dubb ke tumhe marna chahiye Bhai jo tum abhi b wahi soch rahe ho ki ladkiyon ke kapde k karan insan ki niyat kharab hoti hai!
Vanika I still have tears in my eyes after listening to your story,...... Because I also do such excuses many times to get attention from the ones I love......when you tell that it is related to the past....I also looked into my past and I got the reason......I also want to get out of this habit.......after hearing this story of yours......now I am also getting the power of love, care and attention rightfully.❤ Thank u so much 🥰
"Sach kahu toh love,attention aur care mujhe ab bhi chahiye aur hak hai Mera toh maang leti hu lekin uske liye mujhe ab pet me dard nhi hota" !!! 🥺 And that's how she got out of her childhood fears and towards a life where she understands herself more 💓
In the middle of the video i feel why i feel so relatable to you.... And i realised I should start loving myself and stop expecting things from people who are just temporary in my life!
I hurt myself many times just to get attention, just because I feel I am neglected child since childhood. This is getting worse day by day. Thank you for this story. I would try to change myself too.
Great tale👌👍 and yes that's the power of theraphy. We often think therapy bahot costly h bas sunna toh hota h unnhe blah blah but a therapists is much more than that. This again really peaks my interest in studying psychology further..i hope im able to do it ❤
Jb insaan sbke rhte huye bhi akela mehsoos kre to vo ander se bhut tuta hua rhta h and uss time usko bss thodi si attention chahiye hoti h overcome krne ke liye ❤❤
i am from a village i went city for study when i was 13yrs old..i used to live alone and i was from village so i did not use to talk anyone especially with girl..i took care for myself and now im 22yrs old and still alone..and the only person who cares me is my mom❤
Such a beautiful story 😇💙 and the way u told us vanika .... seriously i also want my loved ones attention but not at the cost of my mental peace ....thanku i need this now i m feeling better to listen uh becoz i was asking thinking that that's my problem that i m expecting something from my love ones but that's ok if they r not giving such that i m dieing to feel ....becoz i know and believe we can't get something from anyone if he or she isn't heartily give to us there love , attention , care or support . I m accepting that it's taking too time but i will do it soon 💙
Really good video. The day everybody looks into self and realise the flaws in their own personality, people can change for the good. Thanks for this enlightenment
Jb bachpan ke jhooth pakde nhi jate to voh bachpan ki adatein bn jati hai aur jab adatein sahi vakt pr badli nhi jati toh vo jaruratein ban jati hai...🤍
I wish healing was this easy that one conversation one hug could resolve years of childhood trauma. It isn’t so. It’s a very long journey you have to be patient and persistent in snd show up for yourself every single time.
Today just because of you i got my answer... Why am i doing this to myself..? The fear scares but it haunts when it becomes true.. that is what i am suffering from but its okay sometimes not be okay... I know i will heal and recover soon...❤
DAMNN!!!... those lines.... " khud s nfrat krna bnd krna hoga...." mmy is all i need to found mahself....cuz jbse unse pyaar milna kho sa gaya h..dr lgta hai...hr us shakhs ko khone k..jisse pyyarr haii!!🥹❤🩹❤🩹 ( yr words!! )
Sometimes when we desperately want attention , when it is hardly needed and we dont get that than some people do this..and this was her childhood habits and at that time everyone is immature and want attention.. But when we grow up we dont show that we are hurted and gather attention instead we just hurt ourselves really and in real , and we just keep it to ourselves.. And its just a matter of maturity and how our parents treat us..if they give us attention when we need then asking for attention in wrong ways will never become a habit or need...
Today its 8 nov 2024 on the way to office i wanted to listen smethg funny so i starting browsing RUclips. Dnt knw how i was this video which made my eyes filled with tears and i stoped my bike to write this comment.. every1 i hve seen including me, we all try to get attention, care, love from those ppl we like the most.. 5:37 for tht care harming others is too bad and i realised from this video.. tq sm for making my day..
After knowing your experience..... i feels like I'm not the only one to do like that.....attention ke liye efforts krna....khud ko harm krna.....after your video i think i need a therapist to understand everything
I wish I could share my feelings,my thoughts like you. Unfortunately I can't. When I am watching this video I feel like I am talking & sharing my feelings
seriously its soooooo relatable ye attention mujhe bhi chahiye hoti h sirf ek person se she is my ex pr such m bhut hurt hota h todi si expectation rkhna or unka fullfill naa ho pana i really thaught ki ye sirf meri story h pr aaj kl sbse sth same cheez h pr acceptance is best part of our life
Jab aadteinn sahi waqt par badli nahi jaati na, toh voh jaturtein ban jaati h.
❤
That whole THOUGHT❤😊
Jarurate =Jaturate
Hahahah
Aur jab addatienn jarurat ban ne pr bhi na badli jae toh vo barbadi ban jati h
We proud of you ,Vanika ,who bravely accepts and acknowledge the mistakes on the public platform and becoming the genuine human, who want love, attention and care. Fabulous!!✨🌻
Yes
Your courage to openly share your childhood mistakes and the journey to self-discovery is truly commendable. It takes strength and honesty to confront our past and grow from it. Your insightful line at 02:10 time stamp 'Jab bachpan ki jhoot pakde nahi jate to vo bachpan ki adatein ban jati hai aur jab vo adatein sahi waqt par badli nahi jati to vo jarooratein ban jati hai,' resonates deeply and serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. Thank you for being an inspiration to others through your vulnerability and authenticity. Keep shining your light and making a positive impact on the world!
Dear Vanika,
It takes a lot of courage to speak about your wounds that you had face as an 8 year old child ...and congratulations for the new beginning
I just don't want this story to end ✨.
Vanika always concludes it thatyou're not wrong if you're feeling what you're feeling. It's okay to feel what you feel just a need to acknowledge them 🌸🌼✨
True...
😊
Are Vanika tu to badi ho gayi hai re, I remember the curry you made in Whoopers Goa and fed everyone (at least I got my part even though I wasn't part of your batch); you are a great storyteller I was listening to you there as well and here again. So happy to meet you. Keep Doing this thing. Take care.
Bandi mai dum hai yaar,vanika becoming more and more good with hr work😊
Itni saaf baatein itne saaf dil se itne simple tarike se keh dii💓💓
Felt like my story being told in your words through your tongue. The only disambiguition being the absence of my mum, to hug and complain. You are so strong to discuss this on a public platform. To bring forth the darkest night of your life. And to acknowledge that its not the diseased but the disease and its cause that is to be blamed. It feels so heartwarming to see you doing so well in life. Keep doing whatever it is that you do❤
same 🥺
Yes
Gosh, that was really something else
I'm so proud of what you have become from that 8 year girl
Hope you live a life full of love, attention and care
You deserve it
I also did something like this in my childhood.. I don't know why... I felt that no one wants me... I felt that I'm not important to anyone and it's true 🙂
"There is nothing wrong with how you wear clothes, the shyness must be in eyes of those who are watching you with bad intentions."
Sir , I never thought I will see a person with exact thoughts of mine...... thanks for existing sir
Simple meaning:- "i know I'm doing something wrong but I really want to do this. I'm begging, please don't judge me"
Lol
Ab bologe humari behan ko bhi galat nazar se dekhte ho , aisi soch walo ko dub ke mar jana chahiye bhai , nazar bigad jati ye baat sach ho koi paidayasi rapiest nahi hota , we need best future best partner best persone who notice holistic promblem and solve it ! Billion ladko ki nazar kuch ladkiya nahi badal sakti , 🙏 i am really appreciate to exist, but don't act femest this universe is same for you and we ,aur ye bhi yaad rakho Bollywood wale ya movie wale sexiest kapde pahne he to wo movie attractive karne ke liye tum kapde pehn sakti , but koi chede to ulta jawab bhi de sakte but tume comments londe ke aayenge this is reality 🙏 that's why indian tradition wears are , they don't show sexiest they show you like a indian respectively women 🙏
@@smart-g-one Bhai kiske liye likh rahe ho wo bhi likh diya karo @smart-g-one
@@smart-g-one And if you are saying about Indian traditional wear, go and check jitne b rape case hue hai wo kisi kapde ke wajah se nhi balki kisi ki gandi soch aur gandi nazar ke karan hue hai... Ek 6 saal ki bachi ka rape ho gaya tha usne kon se bold kapde pehne the? Clothes never decide intentions jo insan galat niyat rakhta hai wahi galat hai. Aur mai feminist nahi ho Raha hu jo sach hai wo sach h! Dubb ke tumhe marna chahiye Bhai jo tum abhi b wahi soch rahe ho ki ladkiyon ke kapde k karan insan ki niyat kharab hoti hai!
Vanika I still have tears in my eyes after listening to your story,...... Because I also do such excuses many times to get attention from the ones I love......when you tell that it is related to the past....I also looked into my past and I got the reason......I also want to get out of this habit.......after hearing this story of yours......now I am also getting the power of love, care and attention rightfully.❤ Thank u so much 🥰
"Sach kahu toh love,attention aur care mujhe ab bhi chahiye aur hak hai Mera toh maang leti hu lekin uske liye mujhe ab pet me dard nhi hota" !!! 🥺
And that's how she got out of her childhood fears and towards a life where she understands herself more 💓
In the middle of the video i feel why i feel so relatable to you.... And i realised I should start loving myself and stop expecting things from people who are just temporary in my life!
Yes
Smeee
i literally cried :) and it was so relatable to some extent
I hurt myself many times just to get attention, just because I feel I am neglected child since childhood. This is getting worse day by day. Thank you for this story. I would try to change myself too.
You're the bravest girl I've ever seen! Thank you so much and lots of admiration for sharing the story of your journey with us, way to go!
Really
KIsi ko badalna hai tho...kisi ko samajna hai...what a line !!
Fan of this youngster since I watched her live. Very talented!!!
This is truly inspiring and real thing. Brave girl. Kudos❤
Vanika, you are an amazing person. You speak from heart and full truth. तुम्हारी हर कहानियां मेरा दिल जीत लेती हैं. सच कहूं, एक सुकून मिलता हैं.
Great tale👌👍 and yes that's the power of theraphy. We often think therapy bahot costly h bas sunna toh hota h unnhe blah blah but a therapists is much more than that. This again really peaks my interest in studying psychology further..i hope im able to do it ❤
Literally i was waiting for vanika storytelling eagerly🤗😌
ThanksTapeATale for bringing this to us❤
Vanikaaa... You just awesome... Random hi ye video dekhi or.. It's totally Releted to me yr.. 😩❤🧿
Jab bachpan ki galtiyan sudhari nhi jaati to baad mein aadatein ban jaati hai"" 🙌🏻
you are so strong vanika, always stay strong and stay blessed
Jb insaan sbke rhte huye bhi akela mehsoos kre to vo ander se bhut tuta hua rhta h and uss time usko bss thodi si attention chahiye hoti h overcome krne ke liye ❤❤
U r very brave for accepting ur faults and making efforts to get better❤
Amazinggg tale vamika didi!!!! it's okay to feel what you feel just a need to acknowledge them 🌼✨this tale just win my heart!!! lots of love... 💗
Thank you so much for sharing story daju your voice is painkiller of every my pain & sleeping tab for me. Your voice inspired in my activities😊
i am from a village i went city for study when i was 13yrs old..i used to live alone and i was from village so i did not use to talk anyone especially with girl..i took care for myself and now im 22yrs old and still alone..and the only person who cares me is my mom❤
Tbh one of the best video i have ever seen in my life 🤩
Ufff... Vanika.. U always show some magic with your words... That everytime I listen you.. My heart melts..my eyes cry like a small child .. 💕🥺
Yes
Such a beautiful story 😇💙 and the way u told us vanika .... seriously i also want my loved ones attention but not at the cost of my mental peace ....thanku i need this now i m feeling better to listen uh becoz i was asking thinking that that's my problem that i m expecting something from my love ones but that's ok if they r not giving such that i m dieing to feel ....becoz i know and believe we can't get something from anyone if he or she isn't heartily give to us there love , attention , care or support . I m accepting that it's taking too time but i will do it soon 💙
Excellent vanika, understanding urself, ur inner turmoil and get direction is the trait of powerful individuals and u r one God bless u
Vanika, I am short of words to appreciate you, but I am going to tell this story to all my students
You are a gem ❤️...you really nailed it 💕
Hatsssss offff to vanika diiii.. love you di. You are seriously so amazing..💓💓
❤️❤️heart touching & it's beautiful the way you presented !!!
Thank you so much for telling me that I am not alone. Thank you for telling me not to think bad about myself.
Damn!❤ I wasn't expecting the twist
Really good video. The day everybody looks into self and realise the flaws in their own personality, people can change for the good. Thanks for this enlightenment
Right
Aapne sahi kaha vanika dii...mujhe vi bahut dar lgti h ye baat ki mai jisse pyar kru or wo mujhe chhor ke chala jaye...ye line
I cried listening to every line... Each of your word is related to my life..
Khoobsurat k saath itni a6i storytelling 🤩😍
That was so deep, and you have done a great job, that was so smooth as well as hard at the same time which is like impossible, touched me❤
Jb bachpan ke jhooth pakde nhi jate to voh bachpan ki adatein bn jati hai aur jab adatein sahi vakt pr badli nhi jati toh vo jaruratein ban jati hai...🤍
Di... trust me.... you has inspired a lot of teenagers like me... i love you so muchhhh❤
It was beautiful from start to finish
Awsm storyyy. some people don't get rid of it
Damn! This was so wholesome!! 💗 Loved every bit of it 🙌🏻
Sach me
Your stories and the art of your story telling is amazing ..
Such a brave girl who is telling her childhood story 🥺❤
This is so pure and genuine ❤️
Mind blowing Vanika 🤗... Naratting way is wonderful 😊
I wish healing was this easy that one conversation one hug could resolve years of childhood trauma. It isn’t so. It’s a very long journey you have to be patient and persistent in snd show up for yourself every single time.
I cried the so hard from bottom of my heart in a first time in a while thank you so much it helped to understand and to learn so many things ❤
Vanika you are my favourite story teller
God bless you sister 🙏🏻
Today just because of you i got my answer... Why am i doing this to myself..? The fear scares but it haunts when it becomes true.. that is what i am suffering from but its okay sometimes not be okay... I know i will heal and recover soon...❤
Wow Yrr So Soo Beautifully Narrated 😊
Amazing Tales ❤️
Muchhh needed❤❤❤
DAMNN!!!... those lines.... " khud s nfrat krna bnd krna hoga...."
mmy is all i need to found mahself....cuz jbse unse pyaar milna kho sa gaya h..dr lgta hai...hr us shakhs ko khone k..jisse pyyarr haii!!🥹❤🩹❤🩹
( yr words!! )
Really love your stories. Keep up the good work Vanika ❤
Sometimes when we desperately want attention , when it is hardly needed and we dont get that than some people do this..and this was her childhood habits and at that time everyone is immature and want attention..
But when we grow up we dont show that we are hurted and gather attention instead we just hurt ourselves really and in real , and we just keep it to ourselves..
And its just a matter of maturity and how our parents treat us..if they give us attention when we need then asking for attention in wrong ways will never become a habit or need...
Today I really need to hear this🌱... Thank you❤️
Today its 8 nov 2024 on the way to office i wanted to listen smethg funny so i starting browsing RUclips. Dnt knw how i was this video which made my eyes filled with tears and i stoped my bike to write this comment..
every1 i hve seen including me, we all try to get attention, care, love from those ppl we like the most.. 5:37 for tht care harming others is too bad and i realised from this video.. tq sm for making my day..
I viewed it as to watch a standup comedy but watching it made me cry
You are too genuine and sweet :)
U stories are really inspiring for me ... Thank you 🙏
why this video is relatable to me 😭😭
After knowing your experience..... i feels like I'm not the only one to do like that.....attention ke liye efforts krna....khud ko harm krna.....after your video i think i need a therapist to understand everything
You are a beautiful human being, Vanika ❤
To love someone first of all love yourself ❤️
Pta nhi kiu mujhe rona aa gya😩😭
I wish I could share my feelings,my thoughts like you.
Unfortunately I can't.
When I am watching this video I feel like I am talking & sharing my feelings
I think you can 👍 , storytelling and articulating thoughts into words is like a skill one can learn.
Sach mai yrr mere sath bhi hmesha thi hota h sb phle attention dete hai or fir cle jate hai or uski vgh se mai khud ko bhot hurt krti hu yrr 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Love you Vanika, this wouldn't have been easy yo recite this story. Thank you choti
Bachpan ke jhuth agar pakde na jaye to aadat ban jati hai...hats Off girl!!
Loved it💗
More importantly you found a good counselor, which is very hard to find
Loved this Vanika❤. Soo good💯
Loved the story telling.
This struck a chord ❤ Lots of love
OSHO ne thik hi kha tha....ki log pyar pane k liye bimar hone lagta hai 😊
This is amazing ❤❤❤
I love my father when i was 6 and now you gave me the solution 😭🤞🏻
Ya allah ❤️❤️❣️❣️ heart melt ❣️❣️
Sending so much love to you Vanika 💕 it was a great decision to seek help
seriously its soooooo relatable ye attention mujhe bhi chahiye hoti h sirf ek person se she is my ex pr such m bhut hurt hota h todi si expectation rkhna or unka fullfill naa ho pana i really thaught ki ye sirf meri story h pr aaj kl sbse sth same cheez h pr acceptance is best part of our life
Thought*
BRAVO!! 👌👍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Wonderful Vanika..You are just awesome
Jhooth -> Aadatein -> Zarooratein
What a Line>>>3
superb story yaar
❤
We all do this at a point in our life maybe even a lot but its normal caues everyone craves for love.
You go girl! ❤❤
Loved it ❤️👏
Your really very best diii
Beautiful di 💕
She is superb always 🤍😌
More power to you girl 😊