Think extremely carefully before you separate. I asked my husband to separate then I changed my mind because I realized I wanted him home. I wish I had understood how to change myself to make it work at home. He moved out and got together with the neighbour where he was living. Not immediately but he was hurt and vulnerable. It did not help us, it’s made things exponentially harder. It’s been 15 months and he hasn’t come home yet. It has been devastating. Educate yourself on how you can improve your marriage while being together unless you are certain you don’t want your husband back. Trust me. If you find it hard to communicate while in the same house then it will be harder to talk whilst separated. Biggest regret of my life is asking him to leave. Think carefully!!
Thank you very much. This video was more down-to-earth and more maybe real than a lot of videos out there. Also, I'm glad that you're speaking from experience.
Hey Tasha, thank you so much for your words of wisdom..you are the inspiration I needed through my separation. I love my wife and you've gave me hope that it can work if the right corrections are made!!
Hello Tasha, thanks again for this much needed video. Did you go weeks without talking to your spouse during separation? Did you initiate most of the conversations?
Hello Delois, There were times when yes I didn't talk to my husband for weeks. At first I was the one always reaching out and then I stopped that's when we didn't speak for like 2 weeks and then he started to initiate the conversation. So when I pulled back he then started to lean in more.
You're welcome. Thank you for watching!! I think that's up to you. If you know you're going to run into them and you don't want that to happen then go to a different town or state. You don't have to stay close just because you might be thinking what if we reconcile. You have to think about yourself and not worry about if you leave the town, city, or state what is your spouse going to be doing. If you think it would be easier to stay, stay. If you think it would be easier to leave, leave. I stayed in the same town and state as my husband because I worked in the same town and I had years at my job I wasn't going to just pack up and leave. I know it's not a direct answer but I hope I answered your question.
Hi Tasha I have a question. My wife and I have been married for six years. Long story short she wanted a divorce. I moved out and got my own place. It has been three months. I have tried to talk to her about why she left and why she wasn't happy. I suspect she cheated again but she will not tell me the reason except that she is the problem that it is her fault. I have tried to see if she wanted to do marriage counseling and she refused that. I even asked her if she was one hundred percent sure she wanted this divorce. She is on the fence about it and just tells me she needs more time to work on herself that she can't say she wants the marriage or not. I have kept my distance. I don't try to text her unless it is about money or bills. I am at a loss and part of me just wants to go the other way and cut all ties and the other part of me wants to try to make it work. I don't want to see other people because I have only wanted to be with her as a soul mate and I'm sure she is either living with or seeing someone else. The thought of it does bother me and I don't know how long she wants to keep this going. She has told me she wants counseling for herself and that she needs to figure herself out. I told her that I would give her time to figure it out. My question is should I continue to let her do her own thing and see other people til she figures out what she wants or should I just cut all ties and go through with the divorce? I just don't know what to do or who to turn to for advice. I'm not trying to play the victim I need help.
@Tasha Curry, great video but I don't understand something. If I forced separation on my spouse, who had no clue what separation means or why I got angry at him/her and left without giving them any clue that I was separating from them, no communication about what separation is, how long its going to last, what we are supposed to do during this time, and I am not wanting to come back after a prolonged period of time and after multiple requests from them to discuss and resolve our issues and I am not doing any communication regarding any reconciliation, then why my spouse is forced to suffer staying alone and single for a long period of time, when I am not willing to even discuss anything ?
@@williamwhitejr153 You're so welcome. I'm sorry you are going through it and it does hurt. But it also gets better. Thank you for watching and commenting. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.
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Think extremely carefully before you separate. I asked my husband to separate then I changed my mind because I realized I wanted him home. I wish I had understood how to change myself to make it work at home.
He moved out and got together with the neighbour where he was living. Not immediately but he was hurt and vulnerable.
It did not help us, it’s made things exponentially harder. It’s been 15 months and he hasn’t come home yet.
It has been devastating.
Educate yourself on how you can improve your marriage while being together unless you are certain you don’t want your husband back. Trust me. If you find it hard to communicate while in the same house then it will be harder to talk whilst separated. Biggest regret of my life is asking him to leave.
Think carefully!!
Thank you very much. This video was more down-to-earth and more maybe real than a lot of videos out there. Also, I'm glad that you're speaking from experience.
I appreciate that! Thank you.
Hey Tasha, thank you so much for your words of wisdom..you are the inspiration I needed through my separation. I love my wife and you've gave me hope that it can work if the right corrections are made!!
I've been separated almost 5 months from my wife. Really hard.
Did she come back?
I really like your videos. Im trying to fix things with my wife
I really hope you do.
My husband and I are separated in the same very small house, luckily we have separate rooms~ needless to say it’s uncomfy.
Excellent advice.... Thank you!
You are so welcome!
Hello Tasha, thanks again for this much needed video. Did you go weeks without talking to your spouse during separation? Did you initiate most of the conversations?
Hello Delois, There were times when yes I didn't talk to my husband for weeks. At first I was the one always reaching out and then I stopped that's when we didn't speak for like 2 weeks and then he started to initiate the conversation. So when I pulled back he then started to lean in more.
@@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor Thank you
Thank you for this video. What about distance? Should you stay in the same town as your spouse? Same state?
You're welcome. Thank you for watching!! I think that's up to you. If you know you're going to run into them and you don't want that to happen then go to a different town or state. You don't have to stay close just because you might be thinking what if we reconcile. You have to think about yourself and not worry about if you leave the town, city, or state what is your spouse going to be doing. If you think it would be easier to stay, stay. If you think it would be easier to leave, leave. I stayed in the same town and state as my husband because I worked in the same town and I had years at my job I wasn't going to just pack up and leave. I know it's not a direct answer but I hope I answered your question.
You mean taking for granted...
Hi Tasha I have a question. My wife and I have been married for six years. Long story short she wanted a divorce. I moved out and got my own place. It has been three months. I have tried to talk to her about why she left and why she wasn't happy. I suspect she cheated again but she will not tell me the reason except that she is the problem that it is her fault. I have tried to see if she wanted to do marriage counseling and she refused that. I even asked her if she was one hundred percent sure she wanted this divorce. She is on the fence about it and just tells me she needs more time to work on herself that she can't say she wants the marriage or not. I have kept my distance. I don't try to text her unless it is about money or bills. I am at a loss and part of me just wants to go the other way and cut all ties and the other part of me wants to try to make it work. I don't want to see other people because I have only wanted to be with her as a soul mate and I'm sure she is either living with or seeing someone else. The thought of it does bother me and I don't know how long she wants to keep this going. She has told me she wants counseling for herself and that she needs to figure herself out. I told her that I would give her time to figure it out. My question is should I continue to let her do her own thing and see other people til she figures out what she wants or should I just cut all ties and go through with the divorce? I just don't know what to do or who to turn to for advice. I'm not trying to play the victim I need help.
@Tasha Curry, great video but I don't understand something. If I forced separation on my spouse, who had no clue what separation means or why I got angry at him/her and left without giving them any clue that I was separating from them, no communication about what separation is, how long its going to last, what we are supposed to do during this time, and I am not wanting to come back after a prolonged period of time and after multiple requests from them to discuss and resolve our issues and I am not doing any communication regarding any reconciliation, then why my spouse is forced to suffer staying alone and single for a long period of time, when I am not willing to even discuss anything ?
Hey Tasha during that separation did you date?
We’re new to separation, I asked for it because of some of his issues that I find difficult to forgive. But I wish he at least text me.
You asked for it. You knew him not communicating with you was going to be part of it. Now, how do you both move forward?
Did you and your husband communicate at all during that one year?
We did. It wasn't every day but we still made time to talk.
Thank so much Ms Tasha . I am going through this right now and boy does it hurt. Thank you for the encouragement.
@@williamwhitejr153 You're so welcome. I'm sorry you are going through it and it does hurt. But it also gets better. Thank you for watching and commenting. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.
We been married for 6 years and we been separated for 4 months no contact idk what to do 😢
Any updates??
thanks for sharing this, casting spells with the right caster makes it easier for beginners and I highly recommend *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* for any spells you want
Spells. No. That’s manipulation and witch craft set for destruction and disaster. If something is for you it will be for you and not forced.
Jesus is the way the truth and the life.
God Bless you