Mooji 2017 - How To Handle Negative Emotions

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2017
  • Excerpted from Satsang October 8 2017
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  • @ooohlaa13
    @ooohlaa13 5 лет назад +89

    Because we have been taught and conditioned that neon melodrama is Life, we have a built-in sufferer by default ... I love the notion he suggests to locate the sufferer and that in fact there are no buttons to be pressed ... we made it all up through indoctrination, Hollywood, identity politics, guilt trips laid on us by churches and education and institutions and groups that cultivate victimhood, shame and guilt. What a beautiful being this man is. His teachings are worth everything to me, along with other mentors who I have found and found me along the way for the past 52 years. I am 77 and thrilled to say I treasure all that each day brings to make me more aware and more grateful, and less lulled by the lure of society and materialism even though I love to play with and create with "stuff". Freedom from conditioning and awe for the mystery of Life is the highest art form for me, and nectar for my everyday life.

    • @marietorri
      @marietorri 3 года назад +6

      What beautiful words🙏🏾

    • @ooohlaa13
      @ooohlaa13 3 года назад +6

      @@marietorri Marie thank you, you caused me to re-read this and to savor it. These days I have gone back to A Course in Miracles study. It is the most difficult but the most liberating. I love David Hoffmeister as my teacher. He lives totally outside the illusion, best I can see.😇

    • @adirondackshiller
      @adirondackshiller Год назад

      Beutiful words indeed. I had to screenshot it so i can reread myself one day :)

  • @jayjayfreeman
    @jayjayfreeman 4 года назад +90

    "The ego loves evidence." Whoa. I never heard this phrase before.

    • @adriapayne4624
      @adriapayne4624 3 года назад +2

      I love that. So true.

    • @kristenwilliams9123
      @kristenwilliams9123 3 года назад +2

      Yea there’s always a bunch of trials going on in the mind

    • @ooohlaa13
      @ooohlaa13 3 года назад +1

      yes I think it "needs" it because it cannot perceive through the inner promptings of the heart!

    • @claudelebel49
      @claudelebel49 3 года назад +3

      Looking for evidence that it was mistreated and unloved. Even worse, it is so wanting to prove that it is right that it will find itself unable to accept even the most sincere demonstration of love.

    • @soraiya2065
      @soraiya2065 3 месяца назад

      Lol​@@kristenwilliams9123

  • @anthonya2006
    @anthonya2006 6 лет назад +92

    "Don't create the sufferer - just see if it can be found"
    "Stay empty- just keep looking."
    "All is taking place in the Isness"
    "The most heavy experience you can have is to experience life as a person"

    • @naztubez
      @naztubez 5 лет назад +6

      "Isness is your natural climate"

    • @darrensings3494
      @darrensings3494 3 года назад +1

      Doing this tonight 👍👍👍

    • @funkyfreshEazyO
      @funkyfreshEazyO 10 месяцев назад

      The sufferer can be found, though. My mind is the sufferer which is in my head. I don't understand

  • @furiosasinclair2018
    @furiosasinclair2018 3 года назад +10

    "Is-ness has no favorite thoughts, no favorite way to be. It makes everything divine." Just lovely.

  • @savhanna
    @savhanna 4 года назад +60

    "Depression is for the person, not the isness." Nobody else will ever tell you this

    • @robertjsmith
      @robertjsmith 4 года назад +2

      thought labels feeling

    • @barbaraschmitt9688
      @barbaraschmitt9688 3 года назад +4

      Very true, but when dealing w/depression resulting from actual trauma/violence/assault, the topic isn't quite as "light" or laughable. I'm searching for the path, but at times, as Jung said, the ego is also protective. This is where boundaries can become confusing.

  • @chica2030
    @chica2030 6 лет назад +317

    I want to thank God I came across this video. I was thinking to kill myself tonight and then I found this. I thank god for Moojii. I Thank god for the person who owns this RUclips Channel.

    • @yoyomi
      @yoyomi 5 лет назад +51

      If you ever have feelings like that again, just remember (if you can) that everything changes and nothing stays the same......all those feelings will pass and life will be better.

    • @bernardstcroix6804
      @bernardstcroix6804 5 лет назад +24

      chica2030 Dear Chica, I trust you are feeling better...Yes...this is a great tool “message” from God through Mooji. I am also so glad you found this message. It was here for you to discover. We find what we need to find along our path when we are ready and open. Blessings to you! May you be Happy, May you be safe, May you be free of suffering. 🌈🙏🏼💖🕊🌷🌟

    • @bernardstcroix6804
      @bernardstcroix6804 5 лет назад +21

      chica2030 Keep coming back to this as often as you need to help remember you are beautiful and to know you are not alone...🙏🏼

    • @aster4725
      @aster4725 5 лет назад +19

      chica2030 beloved Chica.... remind yourself every morning you are a precious beautiful soul & a gift to the world.... I pray you have transformed the experience & in a state of strength & power now!!! Sending you love & light! I applaud u for having the courage to share your experience 👏🙏🌸🌺✨✨✨

    • @HansMebius
      @HansMebius 5 лет назад +9

      chica2030 Love

  • @eternalrosa1
    @eternalrosa1 5 лет назад +88

    Mooji helps me during every step on my transformation unto my real self. My is-ness. I would love to meet him one day.

    • @valerijaaouni5366
      @valerijaaouni5366 5 лет назад

      Why you don't first meet one psychiatrist?

    • @floryniculescu
      @floryniculescu 4 года назад +7

      You can see him in his ashram, in monte sahaja, Portugal ♥️

    • @tararichardson7860
      @tararichardson7860 4 года назад +5

      I'm the same and if we believe we will meet him it will come a reality 😊

    • @kolarz2128
      @kolarz2128 4 года назад +1

      You are not transforming into something. You are counsciousness right now.

    • @eternalrosa1
      @eternalrosa1 4 года назад +2

      @@kolarz2128 I know this now. 🙏🏼 Thank you for your reaction. 💜

  • @goldenjaguar7690
    @goldenjaguar7690 4 года назад +17

    Mooji is the personification of the creator's heart. I AM Grateful you exist for us all, great friend!

  • @manishapatil4747
    @manishapatil4747 3 года назад +1

    Thank you thank you thank you mojiji🙏🙏🙏

  • @jedi32r2
    @jedi32r2 5 месяцев назад

    Still watching this Masters lessons for Wisdom. Love how he guides us to taunt them to come back after shining light. ❤

  • @anthonywhiteman175
    @anthonywhiteman175 5 лет назад +13

    Thank you Mooji for your grace wisdom and humility. Your example is one of true beauty.

  • @sayyadina8966
    @sayyadina8966 5 лет назад +17

    I love this kind soul; he has taught me so simply what takes some years to understand....I listen to him almost every day❤️✨

  • @meghapillay1991
    @meghapillay1991 5 лет назад +10

    Speechless! Mooji ji helped us to remove negative emotions from its roots. Not on a superficial level !! Godbless you Mooji ji !
    Love!

  • @28105wsking
    @28105wsking 5 лет назад +33

    Remember that to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. So after a strong period of meditation and teaching, once you leave that supporting environment, all these strong doubts and reasonings come. Don't be impressed by them at all! That is your ego fighting for it's life! Your ego, mentality, etc. needs doubts, conflict, contradictions to stay alive. If you stay still, centered and confident in the still center with all these waves of reactions coming back, just stay still inside. You have to find it for yourself. We all encourage you to keep sitting, don't be seduced by those dancing daughters of samsara. Just stay still and focused on the center of meditative experience. Dont get involved with it, don't do anything. Just sit with it and stay in your center. What Mooji says here is exactly right. Depend on him.

    • @19stylzbybree83
      @19stylzbybree83 4 года назад

      Mrs Wendy thank you I received it

    • @pukljica
      @pukljica 4 года назад

      Deeply true..much love♡

  • @arianematos1995
    @arianematos1995 6 лет назад +44

    Mooji, You save me! Te amo! Thank you for remainding me That all problems come from the person

  • @paulstoran7183
    @paulstoran7183 Год назад

    Namaste 🙏 thankyou God bless 🙏 🙌 💖 ❤️ all 😊😅😮😢🎉😂❤ glory to truth

  • @mojamurphy4905
    @mojamurphy4905 6 лет назад +69

    Ok, so I was already able to use this. And the sufferer is the girl (me) in the sad story called "my life". You know, the woman that doesn't even exist...... except in the sad story in the head. And the incident wasn't even personal. It actually was just people doing their thing. Somehow the made up sense of personhood made it about itself. This is a GREAT tool. Thanks for uploading. Imma use it a lot. Namaste to you and Mooji Baba.

    • @mohamedladha7054
      @mohamedladha7054 5 лет назад

      We try to box our stories into some meaning.This is body's way not to die.To keep alive,but there are no tigers,and wild animals around anymore.

  • @thirumalkumartv1461
    @thirumalkumartv1461 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Mooji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @anoopsharmatv1740
    @anoopsharmatv1740 5 лет назад +73

    Step 1 : Let the body feel the negative emotion , let it be , don't appose it , it has come and it will pass , Your body is made to take the emotion, let it be.
    Step 2 : Know what message it is giving , For ex : You are going to be jobless , you will suffer poverty etc.
    Step 3 : Try to know to whom does this message is concerned , who is suffering it. Try it.....
    All the best ,
    You are free only when you k ow you are not the sufferer

    • @uniquelykc7755
      @uniquelykc7755 4 года назад

      ANOOP SHARMA T V Thank you

    • @bartmeise3450
      @bartmeise3450 4 года назад +2

      Hello anoop, I heard this but I don't understand. Is it not me and my children suffering from poverty, who is it?
      Anke

    • @nitefox4411
      @nitefox4411 4 года назад +4

      @@bartmeise3450 No, it is the body and the mind that suffers pain. YOU are not the body or the mind and neither are your children. Above all provide Love for your children. Work to provide for needs, not wants and do not confuse the two in your mind.

    • @Geogaddi4
      @Geogaddi4 4 года назад +1

      Step 4 : ???
      Step 5: Profit!

    • @ladylpeacock3355
      @ladylpeacock3355 4 года назад

      I said that, tooo..come, I'm ready. Thanks, this helps.

  • @shubhvijayaphalguna1125
    @shubhvijayaphalguna1125 5 лет назад +4

    This is exactly the middle path the Buddha taught! ,🙏

  • @madadalyrajabali5236
    @madadalyrajabali5236 6 лет назад +25

    Mooji so beautifully, with such crystal clarity carries you on this journey into self discovery. He make you feel and live with the whole inward process

  • @123ilovesocks456
    @123ilovesocks456 Год назад +2

    This has really struck a cord with me. Sometimes I often forgot spiritual teaching and become to identified with personhood. I am this I am that. Labels in otherwords however listening to this has gave me a sense of serenity and calm again hopefully it sticks :) thank you Mooji 🙏❤️

  • @CatsPJS2027
    @CatsPJS2027 6 лет назад +26

    What synchronicity listening to this piece for me this morning. I will be meeting with my brother today. I see him about once a year. He has always enjoyed bullying me throughout my life or so it seems to me. I know it must be a deeper resentment. I hero worshipped him until I was in my fifties and realized why I couldn't please him or get the time of day from him. We will be going to dinner where he will talk directly to my husband but will not look or talk to me if history repeats itself. Here is a way to not get wrapped up in that feeling of contempt from him. A single gay man, he grew up in the 60's, I feel compassion for how tough life has been for him. Compassion not rejection. Thank you Mooji, even your name makes me smile.

    • @tamsinthai
      @tamsinthai 6 лет назад +6

      I have the opposite problem. I've just seen off an old friend who has been holidaying in my home in Asia. He's BPD with NPD and to say basically, simply ignore him, is impossible. He's all fun and laughter one minute (quite literally) and nasty and murderous the very next. I've put up with Mr Hyde for the sake of Dr Jekyll all these years but have come to the end of my rope with it all. I have tried ignoring/silent treatment but it's impossible when you have someone storming about making snide remarks for no reason. He's threatening a return visit in a couple of months. Hey! Mooji! Come around and work your magic on the bastard please. Free room and board :D

    • @rachelarmel7547
      @rachelarmel7547 4 года назад

      @@tamsinthai if this old friend is so obnoxious, why don't you set boundaries and/or stop communicating with him. Don't be such a martyr. Life is too short. I would not put up with that!

  • @bobizes5058
    @bobizes5058 Год назад

    *RASTAFARI Kedusan Girmawi Kedamaw'e Haile Selassie I JAH Almighty First Negusa Negas Ababa Jon Hoy...PROVIDENCE & GRATITUDE bearing clarity...Moving on up...Selah..*

  • @lizbmusic11
    @lizbmusic11 4 года назад +9

    Thank you dear Mooji. I’ve been contemplating suicide after the death of my partner. You are quite literally saving my life!

    • @missspiritual5025
      @missspiritual5025 4 года назад

      Stay strong Liz. You have the rest of your life to live..sending love from the u.k

    • @CanadianDrifter777
      @CanadianDrifter777 4 года назад +2

      Please hang on Liz. It's no accident that you are here and watching this. Let the love and wisdom flow into your heart.

    • @CanadianDrifter777
      @CanadianDrifter777 4 года назад +1

      @Thank You That is very heartbreaking to hear. I'm so sorry for your loss. Just try to trust that you will find the strength and Grace to carry on. Just do your best and Life will help you heal from this. Trust as best as you are able. Peace :)

  • @monicawolf9234
    @monicawolf9234 5 лет назад +9

    throw the punch :) so grateful Mooji has come into my feed. i think an angel placed you there

  • @CaliGirl11-11
    @CaliGirl11-11 5 лет назад +11

    Just like the Buddha says . . . . . .the suffering IS ALL IN THE MIND!!!!

    • @marilainavanderburg2834
      @marilainavanderburg2834 4 года назад +1

      @sunn power physical suffering is a whole different thing.Your words are very true and sad,but im 99% sure this comment was only talking about ego- based mentall suffering.

    • @barbaraschmitt9688
      @barbaraschmitt9688 3 года назад +1

      Agreed. Sexual assault is not "all in the mind" & to try to convince someone he/she was not violated feels cruel. I adore Mooji. I feel this is a different topic however, than "rejection" as a topic, followed by audience laughter.

  • @marialauramartina5044
    @marialauramartina5044 4 года назад +2

    I love Mooji! God bless all of you.

  • @1DaTJo
    @1DaTJo 5 лет назад +3

    Sri Ramana Maharshi said that the only true test of a gnani is the peace you feel in his or her presence. When I listen to Mooji my spirit flies free and I see/am the beautiful truth that makes me simply start laughing. ❤️

  • @bigsexxi2224
    @bigsexxi2224 5 лет назад +4

    So beautiful and uplifting, upon listening alone you can feel yourself RISE!🙏🏽❤️✌️✊.

  • @syeddawoodbukhari5207
    @syeddawoodbukhari5207 6 лет назад +8

    Mooji is a excellent person I like him very much his thoughts was amazing I learned so many lessons from him he's a great master.

  • @piranhas1980
    @piranhas1980 6 лет назад +12

    Thank you Mooji, from the bottom of my heart...

  • @pukljica
    @pukljica 4 года назад +1

    Mooji is my savior..he touches my soul so deeply every time I hear him or even more when I feel lost or owerhelmed by the world around me..for long time now I felt a heavy burden in my cheast(Iam in a dark night of the soul)and he took it away with his presence today.Iam so blessed!thank you,thank you,thank you dear Mooji&much love&light to all💞

  • @melissabeljeter5599
    @melissabeljeter5599 4 года назад +5

    Wow this hits home. I have gone thru this and learned so much about myself. You have to go in to get out.

  • @vinodpillai8820
    @vinodpillai8820 2 года назад

    Simply love you for this to fight the suffering...The welcomng of IS ness ]..Is ness will remain and fight all this illusion and isness will prevail

  • @One-Of-One_01
    @One-Of-One_01 6 лет назад +6

    It's so different when we look at things...

  • @1234kingconan
    @1234kingconan 5 лет назад +2

    Love you Mooji

  • @gerreddy9287
    @gerreddy9287 4 года назад +1

    This man has so much wisdom and inspiration and wit and love

  • @lourdesangulo413
    @lourdesangulo413 4 года назад +1

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟✨ So much power in Mooji's teachings... And so much love.

  • @modernmonk9629
    @modernmonk9629 5 лет назад +8

    The most heavy experience u can have in life is to expirience the Life👌

  • @tinacorr9398
    @tinacorr9398 6 лет назад +8

    Your amazing .. A new way of thinking.

  • @katherine56631
    @katherine56631 6 лет назад +8

    This is the best thing I’ve listened to in a while.

  • @DYANA2773
    @DYANA2773 4 года назад +1

    Love you , Mojoi may you always shine.

  • @veganallison
    @veganallison 6 лет назад +7

    im so greatful for all you wonderful beings sharing ALL your love n wisdom to God's beloved children... So greatful... it makes me so happy n touched... 😊😍💖

  • @yvonnestarr1830
    @yvonnestarr1830 5 лет назад +9

    This is my first time to visit Mooji, I'm Addicted!!! Thank you Mesha!!!❤️😎😎😎

  • @Lover1Jb
    @Lover1Jb 3 года назад +1

    Such amazing beautiful words 💓Mooji🙏

  • @DebbieRodgers
    @DebbieRodgers 6 лет назад +8

    Beautiful! Thank you!

  • @johnsargeant3690
    @johnsargeant3690 4 года назад +2

    This is a very powerful message for me...I engaged myself in a search to I.D the "sufferer" and found some interesting results. The first thing I felt was my mother being the sufferer because of her inability to be a helpful parent...she id gone now . but I'm guessing she had a tough time reconciling her her behavior..the second thing I felt was the suffering that Jesus endured at the hands of predators..that thought haunts me...I will continue to search

  • @LVXMagick
    @LVXMagick 4 года назад +2

    Love and happiness are like the breath. The moment you hold onto it, it is no more. Let it flow!

  • @marysusa6985
    @marysusa6985 5 лет назад +5

    Profoundly helpful teaching...thank you as always, Mooji!

  • @English_With_Shweta
    @English_With_Shweta 6 лет назад +7

    Beautiful 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @sngscratcher
    @sngscratcher 6 лет назад +7

    Magnificent guidance !

  • @shivamumbai1
    @shivamumbai1 2 года назад

    Om Namah Shivay.
    More nearer to earth more gravitational force, more away from it, more free and less resistance.Alone like satellite eye.

  • @nettyabbott5412
    @nettyabbott5412 4 года назад +1

    I accept this open invitation, to grow from your words of wisdom.
    & Learn to accept that nothing is as it appears on the surface♥️🌺

  • @1032rhodes
    @1032rhodes 6 лет назад +12

    Excellent ! very helpful! DIVINE THANKS!

  • @candicemariebeadco
    @candicemariebeadco 4 года назад +2

    Beautiful soul, you are! ❤️

  • @Poohpooh4627
    @Poohpooh4627 3 года назад +1

    Be firm in the weakness

  • @katiekoehlmoos6472
    @katiekoehlmoos6472 5 лет назад +4

    Beautiful. Thank you 💜

  • @carolthompson2588
    @carolthompson2588 6 лет назад +10

    Thankx so much mooji

  • @cptkev
    @cptkev 3 года назад

    Just what I needed, exactly when I needed it. So grateful.

  • @ravithilakaratna226
    @ravithilakaratna226 3 года назад +1

    Thank you sir

  • @tejkaurrajpal9765
    @tejkaurrajpal9765 3 года назад

    love hearing u MOOJI JI.. grateful for all that is received 🙏🌹

  • @sutraandseed4078
    @sutraandseed4078 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for publishing this excerpt. I often can't make it through Satsang as i have trouble sitting through the painful questioners.. LOL I would like more of these. I love to hear just MOOJI speak, soothes my soul. Also here he gives the similar guidance that several other teachers are giving us. Elsewhere it has been given the name 'completion process' and it works!!! Thank you Beloveds

  • @rigidbob
    @rigidbob 6 лет назад +7

    Thank you, as is it.

  • @carolf9302
    @carolf9302 4 года назад +1

    Thank you. This is very good teaching. Very helpful.

  • @daryljohnson3945
    @daryljohnson3945 4 месяца назад

    Thank you.

  • @ladylpeacock3355
    @ladylpeacock3355 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Mooji. Timely.

  • @letgo1064
    @letgo1064 4 года назад +1

    This is it. All I need to know is right here. Thank you!

  • @mrlife2007
    @mrlife2007 6 лет назад +4

    Brilliant, brilliant teaching

  • @joeurbreviewandcopyvids
    @joeurbreviewandcopyvids 6 лет назад +3

    This is something really targeted and applicable. Thanks a lot.

  • @adelesantos8175
    @adelesantos8175 6 лет назад +10

    It is absolutely true!

  • @linettewhite2122
    @linettewhite2122 4 года назад +1

    Truly want to meet mooji before leaving this planet

  • @marija068
    @marija068 3 года назад +1

    This is 💎

  • @ramongadellaa6889
    @ramongadellaa6889 5 лет назад +4

    Wow; this is so powerful!

  • @feel4Ugia
    @feel4Ugia 6 лет назад +5

    Thanks for your upload and for Sri Mooji for showing the path. I found my lust for life since I am not in a fight with a non-existing idea of myself. Infinite LOVE is here.

  • @freedomandmoralsaboveallco7519
    @freedomandmoralsaboveallco7519 4 года назад +1

    Love mooji!!

  • @floryniculescu
    @floryniculescu 4 года назад +2

    This is super powerful...
    Thank you, Mooji, I love you ❤️

  • @jasoneast8753
    @jasoneast8753 5 лет назад +2

    I appreciate you so at my time of enlightenment your helping me out so much

  • @marcusmuse4787
    @marcusmuse4787 4 года назад +1

    oh great mooji i'm so glad to have located you on my way to bangladeshi i found your transforming and healing speach to be very uplifting and now i'm on a jet vehicle on my way to dharamsala to discuss with the great tibetan yogi ashram banogee.

  • @robertwalter4390
    @robertwalter4390 5 лет назад +1

    Lucky to see this video!

  • @johnrichards6080
    @johnrichards6080 4 года назад +2

    So many beautiful comments here.

  • @mbithe85m57
    @mbithe85m57 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @giuseppeieni641
    @giuseppeieni641 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you ! You help me allot tru my journey god bless you all ❤🙏

  • @globalsisterzmediax7348
    @globalsisterzmediax7348 6 лет назад +4

    NAMASTÈ🙏😊📝

  • @esneliamunoz4475
    @esneliamunoz4475 4 года назад +2

    🕉🕉🕉🙏

  • @guilliannecumberland1397
    @guilliannecumberland1397 4 года назад +1

    This is a wonderful breakdown

  • @cup4468
    @cup4468 5 лет назад +2

    thank you for your words!

  • @Cass-vo8kf
    @Cass-vo8kf 4 года назад +1

    Only way out is within ✨🙏

  • @theblackairbender
    @theblackairbender 5 лет назад +3

    thanks for sharing

  • @MrYatesj1
    @MrYatesj1 6 лет назад +14

    "Projections not working. BingGo". It is the Ego wanting control over the relationship. If your control is not work you think things are wrong and you want it over or want the other person to be different (More like YOU want them to be) That is not love. Control and Projection is NOT Love. They are who they are. Love Them or separate yourself from them. Be sure your Monkey Mind is not creating the problem when they are not doing the things you "think" they are doing. Negative emoting is "thinking" Thoughts are not real. Wanting leads to suffering, Loving is free it is excepting everything.

  • @timmy07155
    @timmy07155 5 лет назад +2

    Thank u great master

  • @naishlarox23
    @naishlarox23 6 лет назад +8

    Sage advice

  • @timmy07155
    @timmy07155 5 лет назад +2

    Being aware is enough

  • @podrugiejstroniezwierciada6921
    @podrugiejstroniezwierciada6921 5 лет назад +1

    thank you 🙏

  • @krishnansundram5539
    @krishnansundram5539 5 лет назад +1

    TQ Moojiji

  • @InnerJoyCreation
    @InnerJoyCreation 3 года назад +1

    *Isness makes everything divine *
    💜😊

  • @marianamercedescava1441
    @marianamercedescava1441 3 года назад

    I love you. Thank you.

  • @danielakung4049
    @danielakung4049 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much! p.s. led

  • @padmajapaturu2069
    @padmajapaturu2069 6 лет назад +8

    Namaste mooji baba

  • @mbithe85m57
    @mbithe85m57 5 лет назад +2

    Than you......