As someone who grew up in the shadow of a golden child sister, I can tell you the sweetest victory is watching your parents who overlooked and ignored you all your life, squander their savings and retirement years miserably trying to prop up the golden child daughter and her fatherless spawn who also leeches money and happiness, gives you the satisfaction of knowing being excluded from the golden child triangle was the greatest gift to me. I have a wife, kids, a house, and happy life. Things none of my parents, sister, or her confused spawn will ever have.
In a way you gotta feel bad for the grandchild and maybe the golden sister, they had parents like that so now they don't know how to do anything at all.. especially a baby born to someone like that no father, growing up in a bad environment, only getting taught by entitled adults who make bad financial decisions... honestly he landed on the bankrupt panel in the wheel of being born.
You know, as someone who works in finance and stuff, nobody competent would be dumb enough to give a business out of favoratism to someone incompetent. But hey human are really dumb sometimes
@@MikeSVZ classic construction manglement. Ever seen anyone destroy a 100 year old historic restaurant. I have, similar happened. Dude thought allergies weren't real. Yeah, let's just say the government takes a dim view of poisoning people.
I like how this guy reacted. He didn't try to pick up a fuss no matter how much he was entitled to it, he just had a one on one talk with them in private calmly. Not only that but he didn't just stay still either, he immediately quit to go to a place that actually wanted him there. The father should've at least to let OP be the CEO and let the nephew be a lower rank until he gets enough experience to actually run the business. For the OP it's probably good for them that the father showed his true values early though, so they didn't get into a fight about giving up the position once the nephew could be a CEO.
I'm from Brazil, I co-own an agroindústry of spices, sauces and other similar things with both my mother and father. In march I Intent to launch my own restaurant (as administrator not the chef) using said spices and sauces as the core of it. Luck would allow me, this can boost both the agroindustry and the restaurant in a nice symbiotic relationship
I technically manage a business. My father was a farmer. As he got older, he started to worry that he would develop dementia like his father and put everything into a Trust that I manage so he doesn't have to worry about his future self doing stupid things. It's not common, but also not rare.
As always, golden child-scapegoat child dynamics fall apart when the scapegoat child is no longer there to be a doormat and take the blame and responsibility for everything...
In my Country, a bunch of private companies do this and wonder why they lose money and clients. This whole "Keep it in the family" schtick always ends badly. When they have an amazing relationship with workers, they mess it all up by making an incompetent brat (mostly nephews) as the boss instead of the worker of multiple years. Those guys end up leaving and the company goes under. They have to rebrand in order to save themselves.
I can see apologizing to them, but only once they do it first. The audacity of the sister to say anything like that after ignoring her brother. Don't help them though they reap what they sow.
Mentally he essentially is Spoiler to no end, no concept of consequences, no Fatherly discipline and going to college with everything paid with no concept of hard work
To be fair, at 22 you really aren't an adult yet... you are smart enough to know what's wrong, but you aren't at the same time. It's not good to give an inexperienced person an important job until they're taught to do it. At 22 you should know the basics at least tho, like not killing, not stealing, etc.
Your story is a clear testament that failure is not the end but an opportunity to start again better. Congratulations on turning challenges into motivation for success.
so let me get this straight, the dad who clearly had enough competence to run a business as the ceo made quite possibly the dumbest decision by making a 22 year old, with zero knowledge or experience, his successor. did he go senile or something? because I can't believe anyone competent would do something so stupid.
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he made his nephew the CEO instead of his own son and they only cared about their Golden child nephew over their own son and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for made his nephew the CEO instead of his own son and they only cared about their Golden child nephew over their own son and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his dad's fault not yours.
The parents didn't owe OP anything. Same way OP doesn't owe them anything. No explanation, or mercy. The thing that bugs me is how are you going to take over a business and then be scared to start your own? "Business model " is something I don't understand. My brother in law and I just did it. My buddy just did it. The only people that have failed are the ones who are scared to start. There's a guy that has the money but wants a guarantee. There are none, only that it's guaranteed he'll keep working for someone else.
The whole point of a business degree is so that you know how a business is ran, it makes no sense to make a fresh out of school graduate the CEO when you have someone with decades of real world experience. Almost every degree just makes you book smart and the company you end up working for still has to train you because what you learned in school almost never applies to the real world as every company operates differently. They all use different in-house programs for office work or have systems in place that take time getting used to and how they run things in general. What they should've done was have OP be CEO and act as a mentor and then when OP retired make the Nephew CEO and everything would've been solved easily. Unless OP himself had kids he planned to give the business to but by that point he would be the owner so it wouldn't matter as it would be his choice.
Maybe I’m in the minority but I do agree that a lot of the comments were very personal. It is an accomplishment to graduate top of your class, and scamming people although I obviously don’t agree with it does take intelligence to pull off as well. I don’t agree with what the parents did, but I do think OP’s comments weren’t about the business but were personal attacks.
I think helping the nephew with the fraud might be a bit nice since he's just 22, but I also really don't think that OP can help the nephew out at this point anyway... Nephew is kinda screwed at this point and just doesn't wanna look any worse. I don't think the dad is fully trying to guilt tripping OP, he's just incredibly stupid. There is defo a little guilt tripping tho. Since they NEED this. I think the dad genuinely somehow believes that he has actually shown OP enough to say he's family but he hasn't. The dad's just delusional and didn't realize how much he was ignoring his kid. Edit: omg why is my spelling so bad.
Anyone get the feeling that op is a serious narcissist from hearing this, like what they're family did was wrong but op isnt any better with the personal insults exepting to be a nepo baby, and I told you so additude, and honestly entiled personallity honestly this op sounds like someone who would show up on the wrong side of r/fuck you karen because they seem to be a karen
You are not entitled to a position, no matter how much you think you deserve it or how qualified you are. You can’t demand a position, even if you work hard and objectively deserve it, you can’t act like an ass about other people’s choices. The owner decide who to pick, whether you like it or not. You are however, entitled to decide whether or not you agree with the choice. You can’t act like a butthole because of it, but if you want to leave because you don’t want to work with them or feel undervalued, you are perfectly entitled to quit on the spot and stop working with them. I don’t think you have the right attitude about it, but I also don’t think you acted like an ass about it. Anyway that’s just my opinion…
As someone who grew up in the shadow of a golden child sister, I can tell you the sweetest victory is watching your parents who overlooked and ignored you all your life, squander their savings and retirement years miserably trying to prop up the golden child daughter and her fatherless spawn who also leeches money and happiness, gives you the satisfaction of knowing being excluded from the golden child triangle was the greatest gift to me. I have a wife, kids, a house, and happy life. Things none of my parents, sister, or her confused spawn will ever have.
In a way you gotta feel bad for the grandchild and maybe the golden sister, they had parents like that so now they don't know how to do anything at all.. especially a baby born to someone like that no father, growing up in a bad environment, only getting taught by entitled adults who make bad financial decisions... honestly he landed on the bankrupt panel in the wheel of being born.
You know, as someone who works in finance and stuff, nobody competent would be dumb enough to give a business out of favoratism to someone incompetent. But hey human are really dumb sometimes
ai works at its finest
You'd be shocked how EXTREMELY common this is
Key word is competent. Plus, people make stupid mistake sometimes
I have seen it, not in finance, but in construction. The kid is now in jail because his “cost cutting” turned to to negligence homicide
@@MikeSVZ classic construction manglement. Ever seen anyone destroy a 100 year old historic restaurant. I have, similar happened. Dude thought allergies weren't real. Yeah, let's just say the government takes a dim view of poisoning people.
“In my book, experience outranks everything.” Captain Rex
the perfect quote for this story!!
"Experience is only what you make it"
“We love THE COMPANY, THE COMPANY, THE COMPANY”
-Markiplier
I like how this guy reacted. He didn't try to pick up a fuss no matter how much he was entitled to it, he just had a one on one talk with them in private calmly. Not only that but he didn't just stay still either, he immediately quit to go to a place that actually wanted him there. The father should've at least to let OP be the CEO and let the nephew be a lower rank until he gets enough experience to actually run the business. For the OP it's probably good for them that the father showed his true values early though, so they didn't get into a fight about giving up the position once the nephew could be a CEO.
Damn how many of y'all have businesses ?
America's definition of freedom
i do not
I'm from Brazil, I co-own an agroindústry of spices, sauces and other similar things with both my mother and father. In march I Intent to launch my own restaurant (as administrator not the chef) using said spices and sauces as the core of it. Luck would allow me, this can boost both the agroindustry and the restaurant in a nice symbiotic relationship
@@deni140492deni hope it goes well
I technically manage a business.
My father was a farmer. As he got older, he started to worry that he would develop dementia like his father and put everything into a Trust that I manage so he doesn't have to worry about his future self doing stupid things.
It's not common, but also not rare.
As always, golden child-scapegoat child dynamics fall apart when the scapegoat child is no longer there to be a doormat and take the blame and responsibility for everything...
In my Country, a bunch of private companies do this and wonder why they lose money and clients. This whole "Keep it in the family" schtick always ends badly. When they have an amazing relationship with workers, they mess it all up by making an incompetent brat (mostly nephews) as the boss instead of the worker of multiple years. Those guys end up leaving and the company goes under.
They have to rebrand in order to save themselves.
I can see apologizing to them, but only once they do it first. The audacity of the sister to say anything like that after ignoring her brother. Don't help them though they reap what they sow.
I love how OP says "the 22 year old adult man is just a kid"
Mentally he essentially is
Spoiler to no end, no concept of consequences, no Fatherly discipline and going to college with everything paid with no concept of hard work
To be fair, at 22 you really aren't an adult yet... you are smart enough to know what's wrong, but you aren't at the same time. It's not good to give an inexperienced person an important job until they're taught to do it. At 22 you should know the basics at least tho, like not killing, not stealing, etc.
Because this is just AI ragebait
Good for you for standing up for yourself and proving them wrong 💪
Your story is a clear testament that failure is not the end but an opportunity to start again better. Congratulations on turning challenges into motivation for success.
so let me get this straight, the dad who clearly had enough competence to run a business as the ceo made quite possibly the dumbest decision by making a 22 year old, with zero knowledge or experience, his successor. did he go senile or something? because I can't believe anyone competent would do something so stupid.
fells like i heard this before unless is another story like this
Yes I heard it too but it was the younger brother who took over🤷
Same same different name
You : using what any humane person would do in that situation
The mom : *motorcycle noises* , *horse noises* AAAAA *engine noises*
I heard this one before. Just with different names.
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It's copy-paste story which is all the story in this channel
I think the parents and sisters brain is upsidedown cuz no one is the dumb. im surprised they survived being a toddler😭🙏
There are 42,000 CEOs in America, and they have all made reddit posts
Someone call Luigi, he's got some work to do...
@@adamkaufman724 lol
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he made his nephew the CEO instead of his own son and they only cared about their Golden child nephew over their own son and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for made his nephew the CEO instead of his own son and they only cared about their Golden child nephew over their own son and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his dad's fault not yours.
The parents didn't owe OP anything. Same way OP doesn't owe them anything. No explanation, or mercy. The thing that bugs me is how are you going to take over a business and then be scared to start your own? "Business model " is something I don't understand. My brother in law and I just did it. My buddy just did it. The only people that have failed are the ones who are scared to start. There's a guy that has the money but wants a guarantee. There are none, only that it's guaranteed he'll keep working for someone else.
The whole point of a business degree is so that you know how a business is ran, it makes no sense to make a fresh out of school graduate the CEO when you have someone with decades of real world experience. Almost every degree just makes you book smart and the company you end up working for still has to train you because what you learned in school almost never applies to the real world as every company operates differently. They all use different in-house programs for office work or have systems in place that take time getting used to and how they run things in general.
What they should've done was have OP be CEO and act as a mentor and then when OP retired make the Nephew CEO and everything would've been solved easily.
Unless OP himself had kids he planned to give the business to but by that point he would be the owner so it wouldn't matter as it would be his choice.
AI or not(still think its AI) its a nice story
LOVE the music!!!
Maybe I’m in the minority but I do agree that a lot of the comments were very personal. It is an accomplishment to graduate top of your class, and scamming people although I obviously don’t agree with it does take intelligence to pull off as well. I don’t agree with what the parents did, but I do think OP’s comments weren’t about the business but were personal attacks.
A degree in business is worthless. You have to get experience to back it up. Just because you are educated does not mean you are qualified.
Nice song change
I think helping the nephew with the fraud might be a bit nice since he's just 22, but I also really don't think that OP can help the nephew out at this point anyway... Nephew is kinda screwed at this point and just doesn't wanna look any worse. I don't think the dad is fully trying to guilt tripping OP, he's just incredibly stupid. There is defo a little guilt tripping tho. Since they NEED this. I think the dad genuinely somehow believes that he has actually shown OP enough to say he's family but he hasn't. The dad's just delusional and didn't realize how much he was ignoring his kid.
Edit: omg why is my spelling so bad.
22 and just a kid hmm.
Huh, that was surprising, hearing OP call their parents ungrateful instead of the other way around, as usually these reddit stories go. 5:33
True
Well he is right.
i know 3 version of this story one with golden brother or cousin and now nephew.^^
Womp womp
Interesting story I'm pretty sure I heard this one a week ago except somehow Jack became the nephew instead of the son-in-law........
Anyone get the feeling that op is a serious narcissist from hearing this, like what they're family did was wrong but op isnt any better with the personal insults exepting to be a nepo baby, and I told you so additude, and honestly entiled personallity honestly this op sounds like someone who would show up on the wrong side of r/fuck you karen because they seem to be a karen
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You are not entitled to a position, no matter how much you think you deserve it or how qualified you are. You can’t demand a position, even if you work hard and objectively deserve it, you can’t act like an ass about other people’s choices. The owner decide who to pick, whether you like it or not. You are however, entitled to decide whether or not you agree with the choice. You can’t act like a butthole because of it, but if you want to leave because you don’t want to work with them or feel undervalued, you are perfectly entitled to quit on the spot and stop working with them. I don’t think you have the right attitude about it, but I also don’t think you acted like an ass about it. Anyway that’s just my opinion…
Worst AI story ever.
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It went from younger brother to sister to nephew in like twelve second tell tales needs to screen these better
FYI, this is a weird amalgamation of at least 3 different stories. I know because I've read them on r/BORU
I’m early asf😧
First
You’re not first
Yes I am, sadly tho the one uploading is damn kid as well and he deleted my comment. As usual
@@grevenistgeil270you weren’t first I was first and you can check the timing cause my original comment is still there💀
being the first comment is not that serious y’all look like losers arguing ab this