Your love of being alone is hindering your spiritual maturity

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • I get it y'all, being alone is so easy! You don't have to deal with difficult people and get to protect your energy and peace, I get ittttt. But I believe that the entirety of God's word is based on relationship: with Him first and then with others. As we grow to love Him more, our love for others will come naturally. This is an area God is continually working on me in so, as much as this might've challenged you, it's challenging me too.
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Комментарии • 35

  • @kiyahlashon
    @kiyahlashon 7 месяцев назад +2

    “As much a I love ppl I love being alone”.I felt this in my soul 🙌🏾😂

  • @tasharhodes1592
    @tasharhodes1592 7 месяцев назад +4

    This was definitely God speaking to me through you! I’ve been isolating myself to avoid difficult people, but the next step to growth is dealing with Gods children IRL

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      Aw I'm so glad! May God help us with this 🙏🏿✨

  • @NaileaGuerrero
    @NaileaGuerrero 7 месяцев назад +2

    Your video popped up randomnly for me and I watched. Definitely relate. God has called me to socialize more with Christian community. He even led me to an unlikely church. I love it but I also feel overwhelmed. I love people while I also find them exhausting 😂 I want to socialize while I love to be alone. God is working on me haha

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад +2

      Hahah yes this is exactly how I feel too! It's definitely a struggle sometimes. Im glad God has opened doors for Christian community for you and I pray that time with them grows you in ways you can't even imagine 🙏🏿

  • @chilyn5
    @chilyn5 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you 🙏🏽 this is very timely message for me as I started withdrawing from certain individuals in my church. However, during my morning reflection today, it dawned on me that these people are in my life for a reason and I should not be so quick to cut them off just because we have different worldviews. Life is a journey of continuous learning and having a teachable spirit makes the journey so much more fulfilling. Your video came up in my recommendations 20 minutes ago, and I almost didn’t watch it. But God moves in mysterious ways and I thank Him for using you to speak to me. Subscribed to your channel. God bless and keep you 🙏🏽

    • @dontlookatmyaccount5113
      @dontlookatmyaccount5113 7 месяцев назад

      praise God! :))

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      Aw Im so glad! May God help us with this because it definitely isn't easy 😩 God bless you too 🙏🏿

  • @ZoZoe2
    @ZoZoe2 7 месяцев назад +1

    thank you for your video, God bless you!

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      My pleasure! God bless you too ✨

  • @muniratappiah8789
    @muniratappiah8789 7 месяцев назад +2

    i stumbled on this, and i'm so glad i did. Had to subscribe. I've learned so much from this. Thank you for sharing, Tolu🤗

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      I'm so glad! Welcome in, thank you for watching ✨

  • @valinemoraa593
    @valinemoraa593 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this video. I am more introverted and relate with all you've mentioned in the video. One of my goals for this year is to be better at communicating. I believe l will achieve this goal by practicing the tips you have shared here.

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад +1

      My pleasure! I'm glad you could relate, may God help us 🙏🏿✨

  • @georgia_nelo
    @georgia_nelo 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hey sis- just newly joined your beautiful family😊. And I will say that I can quite relate because I’m an introvert too and not shy to use the block button even in real life🙈😂 , I’d rather work on my relationship with the Lord and limit as much interaction with everyone and as much as that brings peace ,it does really not yield a certain level of spiritual growth because those uncomfortable moments bring out God’s glory and how will we live out those scriptures if then we’re always by ourselves or only with those that bring us peace. So thank you for this.

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      Im right there with you sis! May God give us the energy and courage to get out of our comfort zones and be fully available to Him, no matter how uncomfortable the situation ❤️

  • @dontlookatmyaccount5113
    @dontlookatmyaccount5113 7 месяцев назад

    So true

  • @kiyahlashon
    @kiyahlashon 7 месяцев назад

    Yess I loved this video so much 🤍 I feel like we need to use our discernment as well. Discern who to be patient with and discern who you should love from a distance. But listen and don’t be so quick to react is important!!🤍✨ thank you for shedding light on this.

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      Yes exactly this! My pleasure 💗

  • @meganhall3666
    @meganhall3666 7 месяцев назад

    Love your account, glad I found it since I started my journey with God. Keep going girl✝️🕊️

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад +1

      Aw I'm so glad! Thank you for your comment ✨

  • @TheBigBen247
    @TheBigBen247 7 месяцев назад

    Don't know why I clicked to watch your video but thank you for sharing that.

  • @esther509_
    @esther509_ 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been feeling like this lately !!! I’ve just had faith

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      So glad you could relate!! 🙌🏿

  • @talkswithzharia
    @talkswithzharia 7 месяцев назад

    Ummm I don’t appreciate this drape ❤ thank you sis !

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      Hahah I'm sorry! My pleasure 💕✨

  • @beppet4077
    @beppet4077 7 месяцев назад

    I think most churches need to be open

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад

      I 100% agree! Have you experienced churches being closed off to you?

    • @beppet4077
      @beppet4077 7 месяцев назад

      @@tolutalksfaith Yep most of the time, I’m thinking to give up on churches, honestly I make friends more at work 😅

    • @tolutalksfaith
      @tolutalksfaith  7 месяцев назад +2

      @@beppet4077 Gotcha, thats hard :/ I have found that it takes time to feel comfortable with people at church to actually become friends that hang out outside of church. I need to be really consistent in showing up and putting myself out there because other people are introverts too and might be too shy to socialize and make friends