These parents always say “I understand the cases where a kid was neglected or abused” but never seem to understand that *their* kid was likely also that
It’s crazy to hear that your kid felt abused and neglected by you and go “kids these days don’t know what abuse is!” THATS LITERALLY THE ISSUE!!! FOR A LOT OF US THAT IS LITERALLY THE PROBLEM!!! When we say “hey you hurt me” the parent responds “no I didn’t, you don’t even know what pain is!”
The parents can't fathom why the kids don't want to be around rude, disrespectful, dismissive people who trounce on every boundary and feeling they have. Do they want to spend time with jackasses? That's assuming these parents even did the bare minimum of safety, food, clothes, shelter, medical, educational requirements. And before those parents say "AHA! You're one of those kids!", my SAH mother worked to neglect me. My working father had to do everything for my needs, but he couldn't stop the abuse when he wasn't there. My mom probably still says she did her best, although i haven't subjected myself to her in 18+ years.
She is saying that highly educated kids don’t know that indoctrination has been “done to them”. She is blaming college for her kid realizing she abused her.
She LOVES Trump and MAGAism...and they ALL hate education for the same reasons. They cannot stand it when people can think for themselves, and can see what toxic charlatans they're dealing with.
I'm 35 and to this day there are still thongs i tell people tgat my parents did that their reaction is like "Oh my God, thats so awful" and it makes me stop and be like "Huh, maybe I'm more messed up than I thought".
As an LGBT person myself, I truly hate when people like Diane call it an “alternative lifestyle” or “counterculture.” I am not leaving my culture by being open about who I am. I’m not making any choice to leave my community or reject my upbringing and traditions. If you think that being gay or trans is against your culture, then your concept of your community is very flawed.
11:59 The way she boils down accepting her child for who she is as “I don’t care who she sleeps with” and “I don’t care that she has an alternative lifestyle. I just don’t want her to shove it down my throat.” Is a clear indication that she does not, in fact, accept her daughter for who she is.
Calling it a “punishment power move” feels like a really immature take on the whole situation. Your child is placing boundaries and distancing herself to protect herself. She is not exerting power over you. She is exercising autonomous power over herself and you seem to hate that.
She is a great inspiration for a Halloween jumpscare costume. Isn't it magical how her blind rage creeps through the smirk as she plays the victim, and explains why we are all stupid for not taking the highly curated bait, and misunderstand her even though she did everything to show the 'truth'. How annoying to be surrounded by some many stupid people, whose opinion doesn't matter to her tormented soul, but thank you so much for commenting. She calls the no contact a 'power move', because she is thinking in terms of hierarchy and dominance, and not cooperation.love and connection. She is literally in a different reality.
I don't hate her, but I do think that she's lost her mind. If reconciliation is what she really wants, she really needs to take accountability. However, she seems to be really addicted to the supply she's getting from the estrangement!
She ended that video by saying her daughter cut contact 2 and a half years ago and that the video of her crying, "woe is me" was her birthday gift for her daughter. Even ending the cryfest with a, "Happy Birthday". She's a pos. I hope her daughter is soooo happy without them!
god I hate the smile she has had through this entire vid. She is trying to cope so hard but the moment she addresses her being accused of being a narccist, you can see she had done something with that whole response. God she is so vapid.
16:16 I found Diane's content because of this precise reason. I wondered if there were parents who were estranged and willing to consider the child's point of view. Spoiler: there aren't many and they seem ignored or dismissed if they respectfully share their experience on this type of content. Diane and others like her have monetized hug boxes where there are no solutions, just tears for themselves. Why listen to her? She can't even resolve her own issues!
Yeah a lot of parents who are willing to consider the kids POV don't make content because they're off living their lives with their kids~~ Like my parents, who got a taste of what no-contact would look like if my dad didn't stop being a dilhole and they got their Sh*t together. And I didn't even go real full no-contact, I just put some *hard* space between us for like a week after he insulted me to my face in front of my baby, I stayed away for a week and a half and my mom basically had to beg me to come back to their house for dinner, and he stopped doing it! it's possible! All these moms could've been like my dad and just...decided they liked being around their kid more than they want to die on a stupid hill.
I have a close friend who stopped contact with his parents due to them becoming nasty towards his wife over parenting decisions they were making for their newborn son. The saddest thing is he never expected it to be "this is no contact ever again". He made it clear to them that if they want to maintain a relationship with him and with their grandson, they have to keep their parenting opinions to themselves and show his wife the respect she deserves. He expected them in the short term to get angry and try and argue about it but he fully expected they'd eventually come around even if they didn't agree and decide it wasn't worth dying on this hill if it means not being able to see their son or grandson anymore. They did not. Their grandson is now 5, and they haven't seen him since he was a newborn. I would put money in the fact that their daughter has told them specifically what she expects of them if they want to have a relationship with her again, and they simply refuse because being right is more important to them than the relationship with their own child. I basically see that as it's the parent who decided to have no contact with their child - the ball is in their court if they want to have a relationship with their children again, and they refuse to pick that ball up.
"This is not a documentary..." just me documenting for years my experience as a mom. ??? Shes sick. But what is most disheartening is that shes coaching other parents when she has no idea what shes talking about.
I can see why her child cut her off. She didn't make it 2 seconds from "alternative lifestyles" to very very thinly veiled racist and homophobic rhetoric.
I cut my mother off years ago, tried to reconnect didn't go well, ofc. I explained myself to my mother and she, like Diane completely dismissed my issues with her. Bein all "sorry you feel that way" Trauma is when your sense of reality is torn, yes it's traumatizing to spend your life thinking everything is fine and your kid "suddenly" says it neve has been. REGARDLESS that's their truth, and not for you as the parent to assess if it's "real" or not. My mother assumed I said all that I said to "make her feel bad" as if I decided one day I wanted to be a meany butthead for what? shits and giggles? These parents just can't fathom that they're the common denominator!! This issue is YOU.
She just...her talking points, perspectives, and consistent disregard for the fact that her daughter is in pain TOO...the lack of any empathy or accountability...it's VERY familiar 😢 💔 Her pain is about her image or losing a favorite doll...it's not about another human being. It's basically a misbehaving pet or gadget or something...
This woman is a masterclass in passive aggressive gaslighting. She hasn’t followed the no contact request. She just admitted she made all these videos for her daughter. She made them public. She was trying to guilt her daughter about how her daughter was making HER feel. She was trying to find the kind of validation her daughter did and instead got called out. Tell the audience what you sent her as self help. Tell the audience what she accused you of doing. Telling the audience “I don’t care about how you choose to live, but don’t throw it in our face” is telling your daughter “you cannot be your true self around”. If your parent has ever used guilt to manipulate, this woman is to triggering.
I know the feeling of getting that bid for attention any holiday or birthday. It might come from a place of love but it's received as a crossing of the boundary we set and an offering of shame and guilt because we don't have a relationship with them. It's been nearly 5 years and they haven't stopped.
My therapist told me that there is only one way to really diagnose a narcissistic person. It's done best informally because there's not a single narcissist in this world who is going into therapy for the reasons of self-improvement. A narcissist believe there's nothing wrong with them. My therapist told me that a person who lives with this narcissist or interacts on a daily basis with the narcissist is the best person to recognize that that person is a narcissist.
As a child who's gonna no contact back to minimal contact and probably back to no contact. These parents will continue to infantilize their children and not see us as autonomous individuals even when we are almost middle aged adults
I t wsn't "random moments" when you cue the violins and tear up saying, "I thought I could do this without crying." It's not a trend. You have a letter explaining what shes thinking but her opinion doesn't actually matter to you.
As an estranged parent, I totally understand where I went wrong. I was a teen mom & we ended up in foster care! I aged out of system and fought to get my child out. I did NOT know that my child had been abused while in care. Being young, I didn’t know how to deal with a child acting out. That is no excuse to have FAILED my child. All I can do now is apologize and give my child space. This wack-job mom is really making me angry. Why can’t she take accountability for her actions and apologize? Why is she on YT trying to turn completely strangers into flying monkeys? I just can’t wrap my head around it. We all mess up, no one is perfect. We have to recognize where we went wrong, in order to do better!!!
I feel like the if you vote for this person I won’t talk to you is the sole reason then that is like a child holding their breath until they get their way. However, in saying that, I feel like if you vote for him isn’t the real reason no contact happened and was just the straw that broke the camels back and she needs to really reflect on her behaviors more before having an opinion as to why her daughter went no contact. 🙄
Both my Mommy Dearest and I are conservative politically. I stopped talking to her because she's a narcissist and nearly drove me to suicide. Full stop. Some parents are just horrible people.
Those of us that are not bigots say lifestyle not alternative lifestyle. You obviously do not accept her or the word alternative would not be in your narrative. If this woman was my mother I would go no contact just for the smug superiority and the condescending attitude dripping off her. YUCK!!
15:22 I don’t have to imagine this. It happened to me and it was literally the worst. I literally had to drag his ass to my therapist’s office to get him out of my fucking house. The only reason I didn’t get law enforcement involved was bc his minor daughter was living in my house and I didn’t want to traumatize her with that shit show. I know that’s not what the video is about, but it’s *NOT* a good situation at all. I’m so glad it’s beyond done and dusted now.
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These parents always say “I understand the cases where a kid was neglected or abused” but never seem to understand that *their* kid was likely also that
It’s crazy to hear that your kid felt abused and neglected by you and go “kids these days don’t know what abuse is!”
THATS LITERALLY THE ISSUE!!! FOR A LOT OF US THAT IS LITERALLY THE PROBLEM!!! When we say “hey you hurt me” the parent responds “no I didn’t, you don’t even know what pain is!”
The parents can't fathom why the kids don't want to be around rude, disrespectful, dismissive people who trounce on every boundary and feeling they have. Do they want to spend time with jackasses? That's assuming these parents even did the bare minimum of safety, food, clothes, shelter, medical, educational requirements.
And before those parents say "AHA! You're one of those kids!", my SAH mother worked to neglect me. My working father had to do everything for my needs, but he couldn't stop the abuse when he wasn't there. My mom probably still says she did her best, although i haven't subjected myself to her in 18+ years.
They say that, but never acknowledge it's their kid.
Non of thread parents do.mine certainly doesn't
Imagine over 13,000 people saying you’re a narcissist but you think you aren’t
Final Narc Boss 💀😂
Her lack of self-awareness is STAGGERING.
Dianne: We binge watched her Tiktoks to see if she mentioned us
Also Dianne: Stop cramming your lifestyle down everyone's throats
🤡💩😂🖕
Does anybody know the daughters Tik tok
@leighb8485 some people do but most have kept it out of the comments as she didn't consent to being connected to this.
Her daughter said she wants no contact so if the mother were to truly respect that she would stay away from her TikTok
Yeah no these people seem to be really bad at following directions or understanding the wants of others
She's getting lots of supply. I doubt she wants her daughter back when she's having the time of her life 😂
@Lyrielonwind Yeah she likes the attention but it still burns her up inside she can't control her daughter.
"Alternative lifestyles" was a visceral flashback to 2005, holy shit
She is saying that highly educated kids don’t know that indoctrination has been “done to them”. She is blaming college for her kid realizing she abused her.
She LOVES Trump and MAGAism...and they ALL hate education for the same reasons. They cannot stand it when people can think for themselves, and can see what toxic charlatans they're dealing with.
I'm 35 and to this day there are still thongs i tell people tgat my parents did that their reaction is like "Oh my God, thats so awful" and it makes me stop and be like "Huh, maybe I'm more messed up than I thought".
As an LGBT person myself, I truly hate when people like Diane call it an “alternative lifestyle” or “counterculture.” I am not leaving my culture by being open about who I am. I’m not making any choice to leave my community or reject my upbringing and traditions. If you think that being gay or trans is against your culture, then your concept of your community is very flawed.
This ^ I wish I could print it on a T-shirt. I am from the country in which the government and half of population are very homophobic
But gay ppl do have there own culture community
11:59 The way she boils down accepting her child for who she is as “I don’t care who she sleeps with” and “I don’t care that she has an alternative lifestyle. I just don’t want her to shove it down my throat.”
Is a clear indication that she does not, in fact, accept her daughter for who she is.
And, the "jamming it down our throat," was her stalking her daughter's social media.
I had to keep wiping the narcissism off my phone screen
Cramming it down our throats really means don’t ever talk about it. She needs an interpreter.
She’s sooo condescending 💯 ticking all the boxes for narcissistic tendencies
"I'm not a narcissist, I just am the victim in all of this."
So you’re a COVERT narcissist.
Calling it a “punishment power move” feels like a really immature take on the whole situation. Your child is placing boundaries and distancing herself to protect herself. She is not exerting power over you. She is exercising autonomous power over herself and you seem to hate that.
I am estranged after decades of abuse.
Diane is the same as my mother
This lady is wildly condescending
Her anti education dog whistle is LOUD. 😂
It comes from a place where narcs hate when someone is more educated than them, they see it as a slight against them.
The lack of self awareness is staggering
She is a great inspiration for a Halloween jumpscare costume. Isn't it magical how her blind rage creeps through the smirk as she plays the victim, and explains why we are all stupid for not taking the highly curated bait, and misunderstand her even though she did everything to show the 'truth'. How annoying to be surrounded by some many stupid people, whose opinion doesn't matter to her tormented soul, but thank you so much for commenting. She calls the no contact a 'power move', because she is thinking in terms of hierarchy and dominance, and not cooperation.love and connection. She is literally in a different reality.
Nobody needs 16 minutes to diagnose her narcissism 😂😂😂😂
Minute 1 everyone can tell
I don't hate her, but I do think that she's lost her mind. If reconciliation is what she really wants, she really needs to take accountability. However, she seems to be really addicted to the supply she's getting from the estrangement!
"PTSD: Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome" Diane be so for real rn
She ended that video by saying her daughter cut contact 2 and a half years ago and that the video of her crying, "woe is me" was her birthday gift for her daughter. Even ending the cryfest with a, "Happy Birthday". She's a pos. I hope her daughter is soooo happy without them!
god I hate the smile she has had through this entire vid. She is trying to cope so hard but the moment she addresses her being accused of being a narccist, you can see she had done something with that whole response. God she is so vapid.
Could you imagine having this woman for a mother? 🤦♀️
16:16 I found Diane's content because of this precise reason. I wondered if there were parents who were estranged and willing to consider the child's point of view. Spoiler: there aren't many and they seem ignored or dismissed if they respectfully share their experience on this type of content.
Diane and others like her have monetized hug boxes where there are no solutions, just tears for themselves. Why listen to her? She can't even resolve her own issues!
Yeah a lot of parents who are willing to consider the kids POV don't make content because they're off living their lives with their kids~~ Like my parents, who got a taste of what no-contact would look like if my dad didn't stop being a dilhole and they got their Sh*t together. And I didn't even go real full no-contact, I just put some *hard* space between us for like a week after he insulted me to my face in front of my baby, I stayed away for a week and a half and my mom basically had to beg me to come back to their house for dinner, and he stopped doing it! it's possible! All these moms could've been like my dad and just...decided they liked being around their kid more than they want to die on a stupid hill.
I feel so condecended to. I would no contact as well.
"She hates conflict"...as someone with a toxic parent myself I think I know why...
I have a close friend who stopped contact with his parents due to them becoming nasty towards his wife over parenting decisions they were making for their newborn son. The saddest thing is he never expected it to be "this is no contact ever again". He made it clear to them that if they want to maintain a relationship with him and with their grandson, they have to keep their parenting opinions to themselves and show his wife the respect she deserves. He expected them in the short term to get angry and try and argue about it but he fully expected they'd eventually come around even if they didn't agree and decide it wasn't worth dying on this hill if it means not being able to see their son or grandson anymore. They did not. Their grandson is now 5, and they haven't seen him since he was a newborn. I would put money in the fact that their daughter has told them specifically what she expects of them if they want to have a relationship with her again, and they simply refuse because being right is more important to them than the relationship with their own child. I basically see that as it's the parent who decided to have no contact with their child - the ball is in their court if they want to have a relationship with their children again, and they refuse to pick that ball up.
"This is not a documentary..." just me documenting for years my experience as a mom.
???
Shes sick. But what is most disheartening is that shes coaching other parents when she has no idea what shes talking about.
The likelihood of reconciliation is very low. And she is helping people make that true so she can stay right and make money.
She thinks she is the victim here😌...okay Dianne
somehow she keeps getting worse
The fact she thought everyone was going to kiss her bum says it all. She honestly thought she was making a good video.😂
I can see why her child cut her off. She didn't make it 2 seconds from "alternative lifestyles" to very very thinly veiled racist and homophobic rhetoric.
I cut my mother off years ago, tried to reconnect didn't go well, ofc. I explained myself to my mother and she, like Diane completely dismissed my issues with her. Bein all "sorry you feel that way"
Trauma is when your sense of reality is torn, yes it's traumatizing to spend your life thinking everything is fine and your kid "suddenly" says it neve has been. REGARDLESS that's their truth, and not for you as the parent to assess if it's "real" or not.
My mother assumed I said all that I said to "make her feel bad" as if I decided one day I wanted to be a meany butthead for what? shits and giggles?
These parents just can't fathom that they're the common denominator!! This issue is YOU.
Thank you for helping me get through this. I am so thankful to give her channels ZERO view time❤ So thankful to have found your channel!
She just...her talking points, perspectives, and consistent disregard for the fact that her daughter is in pain TOO...the lack of any empathy or accountability...it's VERY familiar 😢 💔 Her pain is about her image or losing a favorite doll...it's not about another human being. It's basically a misbehaving pet or gadget or something...
Imagine if she had spent all the time on estrangement content on therapy instead.
I want to see this daughter. Team daughter!
This woman is a masterclass in passive aggressive gaslighting. She hasn’t followed the no contact request. She just admitted she made all these videos for her daughter. She made them public. She was trying to guilt her daughter about how her daughter was making HER feel. She was trying to find the kind of validation her daughter did and instead got called out.
Tell the audience what you sent her as self help. Tell the audience what she accused you of doing. Telling the audience “I don’t care about how you choose to live, but don’t throw it in our face” is telling your daughter “you cannot be your true self around”. If your parent has ever used guilt to manipulate, this woman is to triggering.
I know the feeling of getting that bid for attention any holiday or birthday. It might come from a place of love but it's received as a crossing of the boundary we set and an offering of shame and guilt because we don't have a relationship with them. It's been nearly 5 years and they haven't stopped.
There's no way you cut contact with a parent purely because of their political opinion. That's just an excuse, there is more to it than that.
All my homies HATE Diane.
My therapist told me that there is only one way to really diagnose a narcissistic person. It's done best informally because there's not a single narcissist in this world who is going into therapy for the reasons of self-improvement. A narcissist believe there's nothing wrong with them. My therapist told me that a person who lives with this narcissist or interacts on a daily basis with the narcissist is the best person to recognize that that person is a narcissist.
Damn Max I’m loving these videos. Great job covering crazy Diane
"All I know about boating is from Spongebob and he is NOT good at it" LMAO
As a child who's gonna no contact back to minimal contact and probably back to no contact. These parents will continue to infantilize their children and not see us as autonomous individuals even when we are almost middle aged adults
This has to be satire!
I hate 13, 968 people for gangstalking.
I t wsn't "random moments" when you cue the violins and tear up saying, "I thought I could do this without crying." It's not a trend. You have a letter explaining what shes thinking but her opinion doesn't actually matter to you.
I really wonder how much AdSense money she's getting off of all the hatewatching
Awesome video. Way to see through her bs
shes the new internet lolcow narc, she reminds me of Onision with the entitlement!
She's a MAGA cultist. She is awful. I feel bad for her daughter.
Truly. They might have been cramming it down her throat. Trumpers are obsessed.
As an estranged parent, I totally understand where I went wrong. I was a teen mom & we ended up in foster care! I aged out of system and fought to get my child out. I did NOT know that my child had been abused while in care. Being young, I didn’t know how to deal with a child acting out. That is no excuse to have FAILED my child. All I can do now is apologize and give my child space. This wack-job mom is really making me angry. Why can’t she take accountability for her actions and apologize? Why is she on YT trying to turn completely strangers into flying monkeys? I just can’t wrap my head around it. We all mess up, no one is perfect. We have to recognize where we went wrong, in order to do better!!!
Bless you!
Only a narcissist feels the need to make a video about how they’re not a narcissist. This woman is a nightmare.
This woman is a stain on society
Cuckoo! Cuckoo!!🤪🤪🤪
Didn't one of her daughters join a monastery to get away from her?
So your kid just turns on you as an adult for no reason? That’s scary 😳
I feel like the if you vote for this person I won’t talk to you is the sole reason then that is like a child holding their breath until they get their way. However, in saying that, I feel like if you vote for him isn’t the real reason no contact happened and was just the straw that broke the camels back and she needs to really reflect on her behaviors more before having an opinion as to why her daughter went no contact. 🙄
Both my Mommy Dearest and I are conservative politically. I stopped talking to her because she's a narcissist and nearly drove me to suicide. Full stop. Some parents are just horrible people.
Those of us that are not bigots say lifestyle not alternative lifestyle. You obviously do not accept her or the word alternative would not be in your narrative. If this woman was my mother I would go no contact just for the smug superiority and the condescending attitude dripping off her. YUCK!!
Why put a video on a public forum if you can handle opposing views? Her narcissism is out in full force. Her poor daughter.
What's the matter? Is she making more money with her RUclips videos than you? LOL
lol where are your kids
@jameseglavin4 don't have any, and I'm glad I don't if this is how they behave.
@@youcanstickitplease don't ever
@amberinthemist7912 back at ya, you internet clown.
@amberinthemist7912 if you believe this idiot that every parent is bad because their kid says so, then you are too stupid to have kids.
15:22
I don’t have to imagine this. It happened to me and it was literally the worst. I literally had to drag his ass to my therapist’s office to get him out of my fucking house. The only reason I didn’t get law enforcement involved was bc his minor daughter was living in my house and I didn’t want to traumatize her with that shit show. I know that’s not what the video is about, but it’s *NOT* a good situation at all. I’m so glad it’s beyond done and dusted now.