6:54 Yeah sometimes I feel like that. Because like if my friends are going worse than me I’m scared to tell them because I’m afraid they’ll be jealous or feel bad and resent me for it.
7:17 Hi. Well, I know this feeling way too well of feeling like some kind of showoff....I am 27 right now. It is not the end of the world if I haven't figured it out yet by 30, but it doesn't harm to try. Also, I am currently learning Chinese (Mandarin). This is by nature also a process, I notice how my proficiency does slowly, but steadily improve and how am able to slowly read more and more text in that language. Still not much, but this does take time.
Oh? Tactfully disclosing good news without feeling like bragging is a big maturity filter! It can cause drama with insecure or jealous friends especially in the mid twenties. I think it has a lot to do with just life experience and frontal lobe fully developing/fleshing out. It has a lot to do with maybe.. like how your brain can hold conflicting complex ideas from different perspectives but also understand things in a deep way, not just a shallow or snap judgement/black and white (if this --> then only that) kind of way. It is about growing past cheat code mentality. Also learning that the universe isn't always "just or fair" or that things just don't always go as planned or assumed to expectations. Sometimes people get lucky or unlucky, but it's how you handle curve balls that determines your mettle, not the stuff that happens to you.
Imma start this by saying ima guy So I've had a girl for almost 2 years now and my friends at work ask me what to do. I usually tell them to just be nerdy around them. One of my first dates with my girl was building lego baby Yoda at a park and I thought that was nice. So I just tell them to be themselves. If u have to chance for someone then they don't know the real you ig idk tho.
1) Learning to let go, like a Buddhist: appreciate the memories no matter how painful or nostalgic because they made you who you are. Holding onto emotions and memories prevent you from moving forwards to healing and forgiving others/self-forgiveness. Also, 2) learning g to not taking things serious, life is already hard as is. Not everything needs to be taken at face value or as serious, sometimes a good laugh helps make situations less stressful. A mantra I like to remind myself is “Everything will work out for the best in the end”. Also also, learning to enjoy time alone; an example is going hiking or cinema or the beach by yourself and simply take in the moment day by day, breathing gently into your belly and exhaling profoundly to lower the shoulders and relaxing the chest area. Btw, I’m an early 90’s millennial
@ Christina no disrespect, but I call Bullshit @ 16:50. Debatable at best….Women have had dating and relationships on easy mode for hundreds of years. Now more than ever women have a lot more control over that in my opinion.
Interesting video. As someone who’s in his 30s, I don’t agree with everything you said. Being lonely is a choice reserved only for normal society. I once met 50 people in a single summer (I kept count) at the apt swimming pool. I don’t want to hear it. it’s real hard for me to feel sorry for you and generation z. You guys choose to be alone. There’s meet up groups for just about everything these days. The only people in society I feel real sorry, compassionate for being lonely are people with autism, bi-polar, schizophrenia, the physically handicapped, and the elderly. The stigmatism from society towards those individuals is insane. They want friends, and want to meet new people but can’t. It’s not their choice to be lonely.
You post this, the day I turn 29 lol
365 days to go
hahahah perfect timing
I’m also a ‘95 Libra!!!
THE FEAR OF RELATIONSHIPS WAS SO RELATABLE TO ME
6:54 Yeah sometimes I feel like that. Because like if my friends are going worse than me I’m scared to tell them because I’m afraid they’ll be jealous or feel bad and resent me for it.
I started watching you a week ago, thank you for everything
you're so welcome
@@ChristinaAaliyahI’ve been trying to ask you: since you are demisexual, would you say that you fall in love easy, with your male friends, or no?
Hello, doc. As a pre med, I'm inspired to keep pursuing my med career after you talked about the stress of being in a med school in a previous video ❤
I just love this video
One of mine would be "be okay with not having a plan"... ironically 😂
7:17 Hi. Well, I know this feeling way too well of feeling like some kind of showoff....I am 27 right now. It is not the end of the world if I haven't figured it out yet by 30, but it doesn't harm to try. Also, I am currently learning Chinese (Mandarin). This is by nature also a process, I notice how my proficiency does slowly, but steadily improve and how am able to slowly read more and more text in that language. Still not much, but this does take time.
I'm getting certified in automotive I just wish I was more focused in my twenties. I just turned thirty five
Oh? Tactfully disclosing good news without feeling like bragging is a big maturity filter! It can cause drama with insecure or jealous friends especially in the mid twenties. I think it has a lot to do with just life experience and frontal lobe fully developing/fleshing out. It has a lot to do with maybe.. like how your brain can hold conflicting complex ideas from different perspectives but also understand things in a deep way, not just a shallow or snap judgement/black and white (if this --> then only that) kind of way. It is about growing past cheat code mentality. Also learning that the universe isn't always "just or fair" or that things just don't always go as planned or assumed to expectations. Sometimes people get lucky or unlucky, but it's how you handle curve balls that determines your mettle, not the stuff that happens to you.
Imma start this by saying ima guy
So I've had a girl for almost 2 years now and my friends at work ask me what to do.
I usually tell them to just be nerdy around them. One of my first dates with my girl was building lego baby Yoda at a park and I thought that was nice. So I just tell them to be themselves. If u have to chance for someone then they don't know the real you ig idk tho.
If not for selfish reasons you are not grabing its just conquesting thing and be happy for that no shame on that
What's something you hope to have figured out by age 30? 👇
1) Learning to let go, like a Buddhist: appreciate the memories no matter how painful or nostalgic because they made you who you are. Holding onto emotions and memories prevent you from moving forwards to healing and forgiving others/self-forgiveness.
Also, 2) learning g to not taking things serious, life is already hard as is. Not everything needs to be taken at face value or as serious, sometimes a good laugh helps make situations less stressful. A mantra I like to remind myself is “Everything will work out for the best in the end”.
Also also, learning to enjoy time alone; an example is going hiking or cinema or the beach by yourself and simply take in the moment day by day, breathing gently into your belly and exhaling profoundly to lower the shoulders and relaxing the chest area.
Btw, I’m an early 90’s millennial
i love these, letting go has been a huge one for me this year
me, 30: you’re giving me this info a little late… 😂
Oh, guess this one isn't for me
* 🏃🏻♀️ runs in 31 *
Well I’m 31 so it’s too late for me
How are you 23??? Were you just birthed with all this knowledge?? 😂
@ Christina no disrespect, but I call Bullshit @ 16:50. Debatable at best….Women have had dating and relationships on easy mode for hundreds of years. Now more than ever women have a lot more control over that in my opinion.
Interesting video. As someone who’s in his 30s, I don’t agree with everything you said. Being lonely is a choice reserved only for normal society. I once met 50 people in a single summer (I kept count) at the apt swimming pool. I don’t want to hear it. it’s real hard for me to feel sorry for you and generation z. You guys choose to be alone. There’s meet up groups for just about everything these days. The only people in society I feel real sorry, compassionate for being lonely are people with autism, bi-polar, schizophrenia, the physically handicapped, and the elderly. The stigmatism from society towards those individuals is insane. They want friends, and want to meet new people but can’t. It’s not their choice to be lonely.
Gyut giara 🧓