Moses Hacmon on Raising Newborn Elvis, Malibu As a Big Sister & Being a Girl Dad | Just Trish Ep. 87
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2024
- It's a 'Just Trish' Father's Day special with everyone's favorite dad, Moses Hacmon! Trish checks in with her hubby to dish on how life has changed since welcoming their newborn daughter, Elvis, into their lives. How are they adjusting to life with two girls? Plus, the couple reflects on how life would be different if they were raising a son.
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TIMESTAMPS!:
0:00 Sharing Married Names, First Family of 4 Walk, a Gift for Moses
8:15 A Father of 2, Birth of Elvis Experience
19:20 Raising Newborn Elvis vs Malibu, Malibu Adjusting to Having A Sister
26:20 Have You Always Wanted to be a Father? Past Relationsips
35:00 Favorite Part about being a Dad
40:00 Moses' Father
49:00 Learning to Forgive others, Parents
58:00 Is Baby #2 Easier or Harder, Discipline, Nannies
1:06:30 Would Raising a Son be Different?
1:13:00 What's the most surprising thing about being a Dad?
1:22:00 Filming Malibu's Childhood
1:26:00 Moses' Coffee and Pasta
1:31:30 What are your dreams as a father?
1:38:00 Best Part of Fatherhood, Art, Photography
1:48:00 Finding Balance for his passions
1:53:00 What's the most fun thing we do as a family?
1:59:00 Father's Day Plans
2:13:00 Going from 1 to 2 Kids
2:25:25 Advice to Dads from Moses
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One thing about Trisha Paytas, she’s going to speak her mind. The viral megastar has made a career out of unabashedly spilling her heart out to millions of viewers. While she’s been both praised and canceled for it, Trisha has never been afraid of stirring the pot.
Now, the meme queen is taking back the mic and truly telling it how she sees it-from the latest Internet drama to the hottest celebrity gossip. In this weekly podcast, Trisha gives her hilariously unfiltered take on the biggest headlines and trends currently taking social media by storm. Alongside her friend and co-host-Emmy-award winning entertainment news journalist Oscar Gracey-she provides her brutally honest, and sometimes highly controversial commentary on pop culture. It’s not personal, it’s ‘Just Trish’.
Moses is the definition of healthy masculinity! Very protective energy but with such compassion
Yes!!!! Exactly my thoughts too! The world needs more men like him ❤
Truly. He’s the best
The only man we’d pick over the bear 🐻 for protection ❤❤
THIS!!!
well.. i guess that happens when you’re forced to grow
Moses talking about not getting angry with kids cause you’re the adult in the room literally healed me
He is such a naturally gentle parent, it heals me in ways I didn't even know I needed
Moses has changed my way of thinking as a parent and I’m a mom of four. ♥️
@@dawnpatterson2457same
Easier said than done, Moses! But it is true.
Moses needs to have a monthly episode. I find his perspective to be so interesting, and he truly helps me to see the world differently and understand it better.
1000% agree
Just Moses!
same
Right!? I can listen to him talk for hours
@@HillsVEVOyou’re so boring
I love that Moses is a silent yapper. Meaning he’s quiet and reserved until you get to know him. And then he unleashes the lore. Lol
I could listen to him for hours. Trisha is so lucky
lol I can relate I’m like this too. I’m soft spoken/kinda shy but once u get me talking bout somthing I love or to somone I love I can talk for hours 😂
He’s just the best
Yes that is a perfect way to explain this personality type! I knew a few people like that, and they really are the most interesting!
Best men. Or - my favorite men.
No one is any better than anyone else :)
I will not settle for anything less than what Moses is for Trish
Same. So I’ve accepted that I’ll just be alone.
Sameeee girl Moses really setting every guy out there for failure
Period!!
This is what soul mates look like. I want someone to love me for me, just the way I am. I love the way Moses love her.
You shouldn't. I didn't love myself enough to think I deserved a better partner, and I get lonely, so I settle and ultimately become a people pleaser that puts my partner's feelings before my own, to my detriment. Then I'm reminded that love like Trish and Moses does exist, and I regret my choices. Every fucking time. I realise in my 30s that I'd rather suffer being alone, and building a relationship with myself and my friends/family rather than settling for "okay", and that's backwards. If I would've loved and taken care of myself first, the rest of my bad choices wouldn't have been made.. Sorry for dumping this, I just don't want others to make the same mistakes I did❤
Moses is such a good husband and father…. It’s so crazy to think men like this actually exist. It gives me hope.
You made a beautiful innocent family Trish I’m
So proud of you!
They do !! Don’t waste ur time w a douche !!!
Same!
Especially because it happened to Trish after all her mental health crises and alienating moments. Few suffered as much and made so many mistakes - publicly. Yet, she found redemption for herself, in the public eye, and genuine happiness.
In no specific order :)
moses is right about getting angry w your kids speaking from being a kid of angry parents it really sets you up for depression, anxiety, & self esteem issues
I couldn't have said it better myself. The amount of therapy I've had to try to begin to untangle things. 😪
And it starts from the beginning too. Babies learn emotional regulation from watching their caregivers even before they can conceptualize feelings. Babies aren’t just little blobs, they’re taking EVERYTHING in.
Yup 😢 I’m proof of it 😢 I work with kids now and I do my best to be patient and kind always because I know what it was like to be on the other end of the negativity and anger
Even now when I go to visit my parents, they’re always very high levels angry yelling at each other and I tell them you guys can just talk to each other like normal. You don’t have to yell and raise your voices and aggressive about it.
My parents never got angry at me and were so loving yet I'm full of anxiety, despression and self esteem issues. It can also develop outside of the house due to traumatic school experiences and bad treatment of people from the outside world.
Moses talking about the children of palestine. I totally appreciate that ❤
same ❤
Free Palestine 🍉
❤
I needed that, I love him and Trish so so much but since he is from Israel I was hoping hed say something ❤
Can someone please time stamp this? ❤
Moses automatically saying “it’s not a big deal” to load up both babies for a family walk. He has truly set the example for what an amazing dad should be. Take notes, men! 🥹
Yes! Usually "it's not a big deal" for men when they are arguing why their wife should do it alone. If it's actually not a big deal surely the man can do it too! (like Moses does)
“Every child in the world became my child” when Moses spoke those words I’ve never felt more emotional and seen watching a podcast 😢🙏🏼
They can adopt me 😢
@@KarmenCarroll-xy3mbsame
Agreed ! Free Palestine ❤
fr if only more ppl thought like him!
@@sarashaban9586FREE THE HOSTAGES! MOSES' FELLOW ISRAELIS.
“Suddenly every child became my child” WOW I am blown away by Moses’ articulation of his empathy. This is what the world needs. ❤️
“Every child in the world is now my child. Every child that feels pain, I feel it too” WOW 😢
Moses sees Malibu and Elvis as a human being of her own, and not just an extension of him, so he is such a great dad cause hes letting them be who they are , so sweet ❤
I love Moses’s take on discipline. Discipline is not about being angry or abusive but it’s necessary for a child to have boundaries. We teach them boundaries so they can in turn enforce their OWN boundaries as adults
Absolutely! I understand Trishas take but she needs to understand from Moses that a form of loving discipline might've prevented her from going through a lot of the dangerous situations she went through
Trisha is being naive… to think her kids are never going to throw a fit if she has to say no or to think her kids are never going to fight with each other. There is a broad spectrum when it comes to discipline. I guarantee Trisha was disciplined, she just doesn’t remember. She just always knew the boundaries as a kid? No.
I agree. Discipline is important and I think Trish just doesn't understand what he was trying to say. Same with the Nanny thing. I agree with Moses that the Nanny is a placeholder for a parent and sometimes children DO learn they can boss people because their parents aren't there to put them in check. Kids don't just listen like she tried to claim. I think the way they discussed it was nice though. I'm used to seeing people yell and argue so it was refreshing to see a healthy disagreement.
I get that sometimes there can be a negative connotation associated with the word but it really is just guidance when done in a healthy way :)
i feel like trishas definition of discipline has a very negative connotation that may be hard for her, and a lot of us, to separate. simple redirection, explanation of cause and effect, and conversation are all disciplinary tools. not everyone may see it like that, but it definitely can be. regardless, discipline is definitely important and I do think she will discipline the girls it just might be in ways she doesn’t acknowledge as discipline bc of her personal negative feelings, around the word which is totally understandable and common. i also absolutely think shes been disciplined in some way shape or form, just maybe not in a way she could recognize with the negative definition she identifies with.
Moses is such a healing person. He was placed on this earth to heal and teach healing. He’s such a healer he found Trisha, someone who needed healing the most lol ❤
Exactly. I wish everyone who needs it could have a Moses in their lives.
I feel Trish did the same for him as well 🩷
"People who don't have money usually try to have power" was an interesting, insightful statement by Moses.
Moses being Trisha's husband is just everything.
Truly love that this pod is made up of fishies, water droplets and otters. We have the aquatic spectrum here 💅🏻 love seeing Moses episodes, you two are such a beautiful couple.
Who otter? Her cohost?
@@westcoastorbust2462yeah Oscar’s otters lol
@@lizzjohnsen30hahaha yes otters
I love how calming moses videos are. These are my favorite! As someone with anxiety I just feel so calm when watching these
I was just about to say this they make me so calm and sleepy
same!!!
Me too
Fully agree and I second the anxiety thing.
yesssss
I truly believe Trisha and Moses are changing the pathway for so many young impressionable women to hold better standards for themselves in relationships, self love and how the past doesn’t have to taint the future. Thanks for bringing so much hope, joy and love to the internet, Moses and Trisha.
THIS
moses kickin his little feet in response to trish talking about dating eachother again was so so cute 😭😭😭 the relationship im in must be real toxic if these little gestures make me wanna cry 🥲
I think wrong timestamp
@@iAmMadeOfSouplmaooo you’re absolutely right 💀💀💀💀💀 i’ll fix it
Timestamp?
Moses patience is admirable, truly.
i think it’s really cool that Trisha talks about how she struggled so much at first after having Malibu and being transparent and sharing her growth as a mother. i’m sure so many postpartum people can relate and can look to you for hope and honesty instead of feeling any shame or insecurity around it. Elvis & Malibu are so lucky to have two such loving and accepting parents 🩷 also the video of Malibu cracking up absolutely made my day omg
Extremely. She is a treasure
Everytime I hear Moses speak about life I become more and more of a water droplet 💧
I literally started crying during the segment where Moses is talking about Malibu’s cleaning habits and her personality. The way he set her up for success is just so beautiful and healing my inner child to hear him validate that the adults are the problem not the children.
love that Malibu is already a neat lil’ virgo 🥹🤣🩷
U being a Trisha fan makes me love u even more
40:00 Hearing Moses speak about being a patient/nonjudgmental father brought me to tears. My father was very impatient and expressed himself by yelling ever since I was very small. I love him so much but as I’ve struggled with ADHD and anxiety from my teens to now, I realize the role my father played in that. I was never allowed to try something and make a mistake so that translates to a lack of internal confidence that has carried with me all my life. Thank you for being an amazing father Moses, it felt healing to know Malibu & Elvis will be expressive and confident women in the world💓
YES ❤ my dad was the same and it’s so hard to see people on Father’s Day show love to their dad when I never had that
Same!
“I wasn’t disciplined and I turned out fine” 😀 and there goes self-aware Trish
Moses said something in his last episode that literally changed how I react to other people. He said that if we were born and lived someone’s exact life we would turn out just like them. Made me take a step back before getting so angry or hurt by others. So many awesome pieces of wisdom, he shares.
I don’t have a healthy relationship to look up to so I’m so grateful I get a glimpse of Moses and Trish’s relationship. It gives me hope.
@@lomarss1589that’s just me though. I haven’t been paying close attention to anyone but myself over the past decade though. So you have better insight since you are tracking every aspect of their relationships.
I relate !!!!
Not only does Moses talk so highly of Trish, the way he talks about Malibu is so sweet. You can tell he truly admires and appreciates his family. I am so happy for you Trish❤
“When hate sees love it just wants to destroy it.” Brilliant.
❤❤
Wow
Moses needs a segment😭 Seeing how he treats Trish and the girls really raised my standards and expectations with men, i read the comments and see the same from other women. It IS possible to be treated right ladies. Dont take any excuses why you have to be treated bad or feel bad in relationships.
how calm Trisha is omg she is winning at life right nowww
I’m so happy these two found each other😭 literally soulmates
moses needs to be on here once a week because everytime i listen to him i literally remember my worth and we need more of this.
I've watched Trish since I was like 13, she was one of the first people I subscribed to on RUclips, and I'm now almost 30. Even in the odd years I didn't actively watch her, I was always checking in. seeing her come full circle, build a beautiful family, and find a husband her respects her, understands her, supports her, and truly brings out the best in her, makes me so emotional. She truly is the embodiment of 'good things are coming' ❤ So proud and happy for them all.
If I would've seen this video 5 years ago, I wouldn't believe my eyes! I'm so PROUD and happy for you Trish. Moses, you're one in a million.
I never want kids, so I live vicariously through your sweet little family❤ it's not "perfect" but it IS for you, and it makes me happy to see😊
I am not someone that just cries over sentimental things but you guys describing Elvis being the missing piece and the harmony you all have makes me tear up and it’s so beautiful and wholesome and there’s no much negativity surrounding creating a family online and this healed something in me
Most comments are about the way Moses talks about Trisha (which is wonderful) but the way she talks about him is also beautiful. I can imagine It’s not easy for her or any mom to admit that she didn’t find parenthood natural, and that Moses was so effortlessly good at it, and how much he does in that regard. Trisha points out very specific ways Moses contributes to the family, and sometimes discredits herself in the process. These types of compliments are not common. I wanted to point this out since the emphasis is usually on how Moses shows appreciation to Trisha, and how lucky she is, but they are BOTH lucky ❤
When Moses mentioned the nanny situation he didn’t think about it on a deeper level. When you are raised by a nanny your brain is literally formed off of conditional love. The person who is ‘there’ for you is being paid and taking care of them is literally transactional, therefore later in life the child realizes the person who is there for them is being paid to do so. This causes the child to not understand and feel unconditional love so the brain is in deep trauma mode and thinks that is truly how the world works because they never felt someone who truly loved them unconditionally take care of them.❤️ The brain wiring is truly off and maybe so subconscious they don’t know. So we have to remember to send everyone love because they probably never felt unconditional love.
"Monthly Moses" or Moments W' Moses or Moses Monday's.......we need MORE MOSES!!
Yes!!!! Monthly Moses
1:15:30 Moses talking about children in other parts of the world being harmed and how it causes him a different kind of pain as a dad.. he’s an amazing person ❤ Trish is very lucky
The way Moses talks about trisha and her kids is so beautiful. I will not settle until I find my Moses. Trisha is really her dream right now. I so happy for this whole family
When she said “your calmness healed me” OMG 😭😭😭😭
Moses episodes are my fave. I love the dynamic between you two. I can’t wait to see your beautiful family grow together ❤
I've never heard my mom say 'i'm sorry'. I appreciate the candid parent talk
Moses is like water personified idk how to explain it. He’s so calm and unhurried
Is tarot and astrology water represents intuition and love, id say that is totally what Moses represents❤❤
Moses is literally the most Zen guy ever. He's like this magical being that just calms Trish and they just adore each other. It's really very sweet.
Moses is the dad we all needed growing up 🥹
“But there is a reason I’m a father”, he respects and loves Trish so much, and she deserves it. All Trish needed was that support and love, she got it and stepped up to the plate. I’m so glad she is receiving her blessings.
Moses is such an iconic man. He literally deserves a GQ cover. I live for the hours of trisha talking, this couple brings so much peace to my life ❤
Moses has a little more realistic opinion on discipline lol....boundaries are important and needed for humans
I love calm Trish, it feels like this is how she as a chill hangout once you're close friends just watching a movie together or smth. When she's like this you can really see how Moses couldn't help but fall in love with her.
They really bring the best out of one another.
moses talking about the family over the videos clips has me in tears!!!! 🥹
literally only 3 minutes in and just have to say for the billionth time, trish’s growth gives me so much hope. that woman has done the WORK and is getting everything she deserves🥹 im just so happy for her.
I LOVE the Moses lore. He’s so wise and I’m so happy Trish got the life she always wanted and is so much healthier and happier then ever ❤️
Moses is so interested. I really enjoy listening to his stories and his perception of life. He’s so mature and wise
I love seeing people thriving, happy and continuing to heal together. I know their toxic past has been brought up, but people don’t have to stay the same forever. We’ve all been hurt and been in dark places. Healing is possible and I love seeing an example of that ❤
I see why Moses is Trish’s peace. He seems like such a calming & good man. Watching these episodes with him in them feels like watching a meditation video🥲
Moses and Trisha are so sweet. His outlook on life and parenting is so refreshing. Trisha is such a good mom as well. She gives off such a calm energy now. Malibu and Elivs are blessed to have such wonderful parents. Bless this lovely family.
The conversation about if you raise good children then you dont have to worry , buckle up because you never stop worrying my son is 20 and is at university (uk) he is a really well rounded good kid but bad things still can happen where you worry sick. He has been physically attacked and was in hospital, also was spiked and in hospital. Sometimes your kids can be so good but its others that are bad so the worry is always there. But being a parent is the biggest blessing in the whole world , my youngest is 15 and time goes by so fast . Enjoy every moment ❤❤ Malibu & Elvis are absolutely beautiful and you are a beautiful family 😊
your personalities balance each other out so beautifully. trisha and moses, you have created such a sweet family. sending you so much love and light!
This is the most love filled open honest communication between a couple I’ve publicly seen, it is so so refreshing and needed these days! Healthy
Moses being the BIGGEST Trisha Stan omg - they are just so precious together and I’m obsessed with their family. Manifesting this for my future
i’m so impressed with moses. he is so introspective and wise. trisha you and your girls are lucky to have him. god bless your family ❤
Trish trying to say michelada is killing meeee 😂❤
I love Moses view on parenting and how gentle he is with Malibu. I wish more parents would understand how getting angry or even screaming at children does more damage than good.
My dad recently died from a dr*g OD & wasn’t a good father. But it does bring me a peace understanding not all men are like my father. Mose is a gem & so wise. I’m almost jealous I wish he was my dad!!!
THIS is what a husband/wife podcast should be. You two are made for each other.
Moses’ new glasses suit him so well! Also, if you did combine your last names Pacmon would be so cool!! 😆
😂 that would be cool!
It’s so beautiful to see a happy couple online. A breath of fresh air. I’m lucky enough to have my own Moses for 26 years now & this is a nice reminder not to ever take him for granted. ❤
When I grow up, I want to be and see life the way Moses does ❤ (I’m 32 yrs old) 😂
Shoutout to Moses for speaking on the medical issues going on as far as mothers feeling like they have no control. Seriously god bless anyone who recognizes and acknowledges it. For all mother’s sake. Thank you Moses! Forever a stan of this family and what they stand for.!
If my parents were this self aware I would’ve been unstoppable
Same bestie 🥹💪🏾
I LOVE Moses episodes. Whenever I feel stressed I always think, WWMD What would Moses do? and I immediately calm down
Moses is so insightful, I’m a mom of 2 and I want to parent in a calm, compassionate way also. I’ve seen such a change in my family since then ❤
Lololol “did I say your last name right” is wild
I dont understand how you said you were never disciplined as a child and you turned out fine??? After mental hospitals, drug abuse, sexual abuse and all the things you mention all the time you think is wrong to discipline a child for them to understand what’s right and wrong in life. Let your husband do it, he would never do something terrible to them ever but they do need guidance.
i clocked that too 😂
I think Moses thought that too as he kept quiet 😂
i peeped that and thought the same thing. I also correlated her behavior when I listened to that portion of the conversation
I hope she was joking 😭
🥴
Malibu laughing is what I needed to hear today. The cutest little girl ever! 🥲
Moses is so right about not getting angry around kids. The memories I remember most are my parents being angry, snapping at me and how painful it was
It’s so wonderful seeing you two bloom in your relationship, i’m 25 and been unlucky in my relationships yet i crave having a family, i aspire to have what you have ❤
Awww. 💛 You're still young and sometimes we have to go through many relationships to learn lessons. You'll have a great relationship and beautiful family one day. 😊
@@rebeccaspratling2865 this is very sweet, thank you ❤
@@rebeccaspratling2865that’s so sweet of you, thank you ❤
Seeing trisha cry alone in her kitchen wondering if she will ever find love and kids and now she has beautiful two daughters and a husband everyone wishes for...... trisha we love u and God loves u 💖 how blessed u are
Moses is SO RIGHT ON BOUNDARIES!!!!
My dad loves to grill and some of my fondest memories are of him grilling by the pool. Even now at 23, I will go home at least once a month to get a homecooked meal from him. He's the sweetest dad ever and has become more sentimental with age. He will always make bulk of all my favorite foods so I can freeze them and have the stuff I love until I can go back home again. Now that I'm older he's started to teach me how he makes my favorite stuff so I can do the same for my family one day!
Moses has me in tears over here. My childhood trauma just roaring in my mind 😵💫😭❤️
he seriously calms her down, you can literally see how at peace she is around him 🥹❤
Moses, thank you for your words about how every child feels like your own. I had chills as you spoke about the deep pain felt for every child lost in Gaza. Sending love
I agree with moses about the entitled situation after having a nanny.
You truly need boundaries and discipline otherwise you end up with entitled little turds. Trust me I found it hard to say no and now my 9 & 10 yr old kids think they run our household
I like how Trish and Moses can respectfully disagree with each other. Yall really showing us what a healthy relationship can look like ❤ feel like you guys complement each other so well
Moses is seriously the sweetest man 🥹♥️
Trisha the growth and mom energy you are giving is astonishing!!! Moses is the BEST dad! We need a monthly pod with him ❤ You guys deserve only the best!!!! Happy Father’s Day Moses!
💯 we are never guaranteed a perfect, healthy baby. As a mother of 4, I understand how grateful you feel having 2 precious babies. Congrats, Trish and Moses, on your perfect family. God bless you all
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Moses is truly one of a kind. You are the luckiest Trish. I am so happy for he. He is the calmest, kindest, most understanding human. I find myself wanting to hear more and more of his philosophy because his temper and aura are just so inspiring.
Moses is so smart and insightful, always love hearing from him. He balances trish out so well and they've made such a beautiful family together
I think a lot of times people confuse discipline with punishment. Discipline doesn't have to involve any kind of a punishment. Perhaps there's consequences that are a natural chain of events from the decisions that are made... But overall, I think discipline really means education. Educating your child on what is correct and incorrect. I am sure that you guys both do a great job of that and will continue to guide and educate your daughters as they grow.❤❤
The way you guys talk about Malibu is beautiful I can tell that she is gonna be a confident and smart girl in the future 💗
I'm so happy to see Moses appreciated the differences in both of you, and was willing to make it work no matter what! What a great person, as well as you, Trisha are too🩷 You found a Gem with your husband!! So blessed! Wow
1:04:30 im trying to teach myself discipline as an adult and its really hard and makes me feel bad. i wouldnt have hated my parents for it, and i always liked the stricter teachers because i could actually learn without being disrupted. just to say discipline isnt bad like it can sound its a really positive thing :)