We are dating the same guy! || STEVE HARVEY
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2016
- The conclusion of the 30 Day Date ex edition ends with a shocking surprise for one of the couples.
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If more women acted the way these two women did at the table, more of these lying, cheating men would be exposed. Ladies, we need to start sticking together ✊🏾
Too bad that'll never happen. Women are too spiteful and can't control their emotions.
Henna Royals So, in a bigger sense, men are the puppeteers for how women act? Women create those problems themselves. They're naturally driven by emotion.
ATL Steelo Hopefully someday. I have to admit I'm a very emotional person but I would never blame a woman for destroying my relationship with someone because he was the one who entertained her, made her feel special or told her he loved her and possibly ended up sleeping with her thinking that he could have the best of both worlds. I don't like how some women argue with each other based on competition, but they're the same ones who be saying "I'm over him" or "I don't need him" 😒
Henna Royals Men don't make us jealous of each other, but they can be the little whispers in our ear to try to make us go against each other. It is based on our actions to decide on rather to attack each other or go against the guy who hurt us. I think that we should think rationally before we go head first with our emotions.
Exactly you are you so right.
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them"
Amen sister
Preach it sista!!
c hollyrock maya angelou !
Those are wise Maya Angelou words. :)
c hollyrock, can I get an amen??!!
Even when caught, he still trying to lie.Ladies, open your eyes and prioritize yourselves.
BlackRadiance Yes 🙌🏼We Have To Honest About The Situation When Someone Show You Who They Are Please Believe Them Unless You Desire To Live a Lie❤️❤️
They will always keep lying even with proof infront of their eyes . Smh 🤦🏻♀️
Wow. Sometimes I get lonely being single then I see things like this and I’m like thank You Jesus.
Same
Me to honey wow
Yup! me too.
Yup 3 years single .. Thank god
Amen!
This happened to me. At first I was angry with the girl but then I realized who the problem was.Now me and the other lady are best of friends and we've both moved on from the punk of a guy.
good decision, some people go around fighting everyone their man/woman cheated on them with, how many people will you fight?
Thank you everyone for your kind words 💞
this men,I was in such a situation with two other ladies,it's been a year am glad av moved on even though am single and am way better now.
Annie makori I'm glad you moved on. Better to be single and happy than in a relationship and miserable.
good for you glad you move on
I'm so proud of these ladies for not getting mad at each other and putting the blame where it belongs. This is how it should be.
Carla Jackson hands 👐 down I agree.
Carla Jackson but if she knew he was still with his ex then why didn't she just leave the cheater and let the ex deal with his no hoo5d ass
👌👌👌👏
Yeaa because the ''side chick'''already knew she ''won'' and that she was wrong...she knew that's why she was this calm
The other girl needs to run him away too
Never reach back.. your blessing is always in front of you..
👏👏👏
Thank you needed to hear that TODAY
Amen!
Sooo true
That's Sew Sandra Everything you said
She's too classy and beautiful, she deserves better...
Right she could find better
Totally agree
This guy is the reason why women think we are trash
Thabang Matsela not all of them, there are still good men!
ikr
Hopefully not all men
+Vanessa joseph were
Fashion Portal "hopefully" really bro that's disrespectfull
And this fool sitting beside her laughing. I would've knocked him out that chair! Why do you even need closure? Girl he showed you what it is. Let him go and move on with your life
Serena DLove I am kinda she did not hit that dude with a jab. You don't do women like that. If it was his mother going through something like this he would be furious.
WORD...He is not worth it.
She got big hips she should have used them
Certified G shut up... you sound ignorant
My comment stands. I am saying she got hips and she should have knocked him out of that chair on national tv for doing her like he did
She's too mature for him, plus he doesn't look like a match for her, she looks to be more confident and classy. Please do not waste your time with a kid, because this is what he is, move on and wait on a more mature man, period.
Yea. He had a really immature and shady vibe
God please continue to keep these type of men from me.
Amen 🙏
Me as well Amen
Yes...thats the best way to handle this. Give it to God
From all of us
Plz God 🙏🏾
If he cheated on both y'all why would y'all go back ? That's dumb
Jacob's Ladder You know she is. Just like a dumb chick.
Brenda B. Welp!😂
The D. is good
she is toooooo fine to be played by this dude SMH.
nineties Baby no she ain't I'd have cheated on her ass too
nineties Baby she probably likes the way he flirts at her
She looks hot!
nineties Baby isn't she???
nineties Baby yes he is a joke
He isn't worth the time! Not even a conversation..smh
I’m glad that the women are able to talk and be civil.
They are lucky they knew each other like gosh!
Her crochet braids are lit.
Yes they are
@LS House Sistas must learn that weave is unsanitary, unnatural and unappealing. My daughters don't wear it.
That's the only thing that's not attractive to me about her. Like she's beautiful but if i had to see that hair everyday I'd cheat too 💀
@LS House thank you.
Why would anyone want to continue dating someone whose still physically attached to their ex ? Let them stay with their ex and move on to bigger and better.
Precious Baby Doll
Physical attraction isn't lost, but I admit he shouldn't have any contact with her whatsoever.
Precious Baby Doll yessss!! She is beautiful!!
I really hope she dont stay with him!
She should be respected, loved and appreciated! Its not easy when your heart loves someone thats not good for you, but she is way better then him!!
Eli C right. Thank you. Same thing I told my Ex
Akesha Chapa sometime we women we over love. I been there, now I'm teaching myself about #selflove.
No chances Leopard never changes his spots.
Some men are crazy...he said "if you think something happened " ... she needs to not walk but run from this man smh
That's how pimps talk 😂😂😂
You mean she needs to KICK him Away 😂😂
Never go backwards and remember why did you break up the first time. I'm just saying 🤔
Thats funny....I used to tell guys I dont do repeats. When Im thru witchu you are done, period. So you better get it right the first time cause you only got one try
Ladies, please please please please listen to your intuition, 99.3% of the time you are correct!
The fact that i ain't sleeping with you doesn't mean i ain't having it. I can wait 6 months for a women to make up her mind, in the meantime i will be with women who make up their mind quicker. Simples.
@@MrSupermanbe That's fine but be upfront about it. Not everyone wants stds as some people actually care about their health.
true
You're spot on, Shawn!
He's not even sorry at all smh she deserves better
Alison Allen but will she leave him..
Alison Allen right sitting over there with a big ass smile
@@Redd91ful she wont leave him . cheaters always have a way through women
He’s not cute enough to be cheating 😂😂🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
😂😂😂😂😂
I just hollered...😂🤣😂
At allll 😭😭 she is gorgeous & needs to run
True.. but if he was cute it still wouldn't be an excuse!
@@Rina021 I think Aaliyah Ramsay is being facetious. She didn't mean for her comment to be taken that serious.
This audience turned in to the jerry springer show real quick 😭
The Ex is still gonna sleep with him after this. She don't even care about nobody but her and the waste man.
Joshua Pierre
...& waist man! SMH!
Tiny Towz lol yeah
***** nope
Joshua Pierre yeah i was thinking the same thing. She dumb the ex probably thinking she the special one bc he was cheating with her he chose her to cheat with... twisted warp of whats going on.
ha i know right!
Nothing worse than someone who gets caught in a lie and still continues to lie. Just own up and be truthful.
So sad!!! Like Steve said just move on. Life is too short. Blessings!
She’s beautiful! Honey pick your chin up and keep it moving! Gods going to bless you with one fine intelligent husband!
This joker still gets the women, while the good man or men gets stuck in the friend zone.
Start putting your bid in or walk away and watch that friend zone disappear
And this why theyll continue to get dogged
The 'good men/man' are in the 'friend zone' because they're not stepping up. They need to take the lead, pursue her and tell her what they want. She'll either say yes or no. If she says yes, great they've got a girlfriend. If she says no, then they need to move on. Simple as that. Guys have choices, too.
No such thing as a good man? Do you think of yourself as a good woman? Bet you wont say no? And what would you rate yourself? and why? Because thats a seriously pessimistic point of view....dont you think, thinking like that is setting yourself up for failure?
***** I get it, he who cast the first stone i guess lol...that dont mean every man the same...every man isnt a dog and every female isnt a hoe.....but ppl are attracted to certain things and most women like the bad boys/douches/macs/and the playboys, so if theyre getting all the attention guess what every man is going to try to be to get some attention? its honestly pretty simple #shrugs
Do you really need to have Steve Harvey to tell you to move on? Damn it, Ricky ain't the problem
The Exalted Nation of Truth #Facts
The Exalted Nation of Truth true it took my husband one time
The Exalted Nation of Truth -EXACTLY.
Exactly! Like you can't be this dense!
Word
I love how these two beautiful smart ladies come together peacefully to discuss what what going on behind their backs. He's just a player that's happy dating. A guy like that isn't ready for a committed relationship. I agree 100% they both need to move on to someone else.
He isnt even good lookin'. He's goofy.
What is closure!¿ 😂 case should had been "closed " when he cheated!!😕
Andrea right :/ . She's real patient for meeting up with this ex. Clearly they're both dumb. Rickie & his ex that is
Andrea however when you love someone you give your all and you want to believe best in them.
ausafrikbabe 😂 Girl both of them was STILL messing with him. His ex would be the women who want continue with his foolishness. 😏 The story is told the "ex" is the ex because he was with her first, but he just never stop messing with her.Girrl this story is really petty. Some grown ppl I see act like this who acts clueless might as well be fighting. I'm not bout to have a liar try to explain himself to me on something that I have 20/20 vision on.
Andrea Yeah when you say it like that, its so true! girl right? this is one messy story indeed. Love is one helluva a drug. It can stop you from thinking and seeing all the foolery right in front of you
ausafrikbabe Yes it is hun.📍
I'm glad Steve wasn't trying to get them back together. like that smile has lies written all over it
This is low self esteem manifested. She knew all this all along. She wants that man, it is what it is.
Yup!!
Correct
There are alot of women that turn down good men and choose the player. We as women need to make better choices in who we choose to give our hearts to
stop dating him eew
THIS IS SO AWKWARD
I honestly find it commendable how the first woman was a dignified lady to meet her boyfriends cheating mate. And had a logical conversation getting to the main point. I was wowed. There was no passing blame and irrational wild talk. The issue was about HIM and thats where they kept it. 👍😉
he think it's a game. laughing and going on. what's funny this guy is only treating these females like this because they allow him to
damn that conversation was casual AF between those ladies hahahaha
Thabang Matsela cameras were there. the fists and mouth had to take a back seat😂😂
Thabang Matsela Actually its possible if you are both mature. A guy I was dating baby mama called me and we talked about everything that was going on. I didnt even know she existed. If you understand that you are a women first there is no need for drama. no man is worth all that drama. I felt terrible for her because she was in really deep with the guy and I was just able to walk away.
GodsDe I think it proves men are polygamist by nature but western society has this unrealistic standard, so men have to lie in order to get around it and do what's natural.
Elle D Lots of women have that attitude. That's why they are single and stay in circular relationships. Our parents understood men. Their behaviors were not openly confronted and as a result they had more successful relationships. Throughout most of time, in most countries, in most holy books...polygamy has been the norm. I get the denial and why it would be difficult to accept that. Many women have lost great men, providers...people who loved them...just because they want to live a western fantasy which is unnatural and unreasonable. They'll die alone just to prove their point. Or turn lesbian like many women have done. It's unfortunate.
Elle D I agree in part with ur definition of successful. Men make mistakes. ..a lot of women have ruined relationships with people who loved then only to be lonely or go into worse situations. I also agree that lying and cheating is wrong. This is why people should be upfront and the man should marry and provide for both families honorably as done in many traditional societies. Yes, it would not work in the reverse. There is a difference between men and women in terms of psychology and emotional needs. Most women desire one man, most men desire multiple women. It is not fair, but the discussion is based on reality not fairness.
Steve needs to do this more often, expose cheaters lol
but with Todd chrisley 😂😂😂
dabaergurl76 yez pleasee 😂😂😂😂
+dabaergurl76 Yes that would be epic.
dabaergurl76 This isn't the Maury show go watch him.
He did the same thing to his wife! Birds of a feather flock together!
The Dark skin one is so pretty OMG 😘😘😘😘
He still smashed after the show 😂
😂😂
Facts
They're still with him.
Neither one of them wanna feel like they took a L to the other woman
😂
It's "her" fault now. After she talked to the other women, they should have taken a selfie together waving goodbye. Now it's on her. This is what's called "closure".
Survivormj q
What would been better is whichever one he's got to go out with or the night cap next time, both of them be there. He #$#%%#$ in his pants
Wow..Love the comment Survivormj
I actually really admire the mature way she handled this. Instead of being angry with the other woman, the two of them calmly sat down together and gathered evidence. He is coming across as a scumbag. It seems like he is using their lack of a relationship status as a green light to be a misogynist. And even when they caught him red-handed, he still tried to back-pedal his way out of it.
Deanna Brownlee
Never understood why women get angry with the other woman who most likely, did not know about the other woman. Women need to learn to refocus their anger!!
sylkyj A lot of times, when people are sad, it's just a lot easier to be angry. And cheating feels so personal that she lashes out at whoever happens to be closest. That's all I can think of that would explain the misplaced emotion.
Once you know....then it's....
YOUR!!! Fault!🤕✌
Harvey said “rick.... you didnt just say that” boyyyyyyy he looked maaadd
These women finna be best friends now 😂
😅😅
Michael Akinsoji yeah ...you right 🙄🙄
Michael Akinsoji they will but I can bet one of them will remain messing with him! I would drop both of them!
GlamNP yes! The light skin one will stay with him. She's inlove with him
Threesome in the near future, no doubt.
I love that the ladies could come together and communicate like grown mature women! this is AWESOME! THERE IS HOPE!
WOW just two grown woman having a conversation about a cheating partner like adults ✊
Miss Miselo u do know it's because they are on camera right ?! Obvi they can't start fighting on camera
So sad. I rather be single my whole life than have to deal with that.
Sugar Spice And Everything Nice most women like you will be. But not by choice.🤷🏾♂️
He's a pathological liar
Please ladies... you deserve better.
We GET what we ALLOW!!!...Ladies!🤕🤕🤕✌
THANK YOU!! He keeps doing it because BOTH ladies have continued to allow it! What reason does he have to stop??
🗣️"A lier and the truth ain't in him. The nerve to be Smiling.🤧 Wth😒🙄😚😠
This makes me stand firm in my decision. ..
She's a class act staying so level headed in the conversations with the man and his ex
Move on, he is a web of lies..✍🏼don’t trusts him no way 👎🏽
Ideally we want closure when a relationship is over.
Sometimes the person you were dating will not give you closure.
Don’t wait for someone to give you closure give it to yourself and move on.
Do a postmortem on the relationship.
What went wrong?
Be brutally honest with yourself!
What role did you play in the relationship not working out?
What will you do differently?
Don’t rush the process.
Allow yourself to heal and recover before you start a new relationship.
Don’t begin a new relationship until this process is over.
It may be tempting to want to distract yourself from feeling the pain with a new relationship but you will do the new person and yourself a disservice.
Forgive the ex and yourself.
Don’t bring old baggage into a new relationship.
When the postmortem is over and you’ve done the work, put a period (. ) signifying the End.
This is what I do and this is what I taught my daughters to do as well when they were growing up.
They’re now grown women with families of their own.
This is from an elder.
Sandy G. Good advice from a wise woman. I had to do that as well after finding out the ex was a narcissist. I learned that the hard way after I spoke to the other woman, gave the ex another chance only for it to happen all over again 🙄 u gotta just walk away from men or women like this. They are compulsive cheaters, liars, and incapable of love. But when I found this out, it was the closure I needed to move on.
Well said I needed to hear this
why is the audience laughing that is not funny. I'd send him a picture with both of us after he text both. Same girl. same girl. Steve better get him all the way together!
Yeah...they laugh like it's something funny. By laughing is like your saying "it's okay...it's not a big deal". To do something like that to someone is soo disgusting.
And if it was a woman they would be booing her for hurting two guys. It's a double standard! Youre right it's not funny.
Theyre aren't laughing at her! Theyre laughing at the fact that this man has been caught red handed and hes STILL LYING! Its a "no this fool is not still lying" type of laugh!
They’re laughing because they are amused at how stupid she is.
Steve ain't no better but he's ya'lls hero now.....smh
I feel for this woman and women like this who invest their hearts into dogs and spend way too much time waiting for them to become the men they want them to be. Ladies, move on with your lives! There is a man--a real man--who is waiting and willing to treat you like the good woman you are, but you can't get him if you're stuck with stupid. Move on.
I guest u r right. ......that's d fact
I don't feel sorry for these ladies at all. Women choose men. So her choice is a reflection on HER, not him. If you CHOOSE a cheating dog, that's what you want and deserve.
onenightstand691972 Straight bs... Women dont choose men. people choose things to do and who seems to fit that. Some women are fixated on being coupled because it is socially ingrained to connect to her self worth. So, a man that lies without a itch, has the advantage since he can seem to offer anything. It is a two way street but one is in their lane and the other is blocking all traffic... that is the furthest thing from women being able "choose" anything. Lying is a tool of manipulation and aggression against the unknowing party. It deprives the recipient of their actual choice.
+kemuna p Wth are u talkin about? Some philosophical bs babble that makes no goddamn sense...smh
LOL... Someone is no good at philosophy... It makes no sense to say that people who are comfortable being deceptive have an unfair advantage over those who are not trying to deceive?? Well on top of that their have been numerous empirical studies on it. What I speak of is beyond the theory realm so... maybe you have to have some sense to comprehend it...
The thing I love the most about this is, The two woman aren't fighting. I love it!! We all need to deal with a situation like this JUST LIKE THIS!! NOT FIGHT ONE ANOTHER.
Women should come 2geda like this and not fight at each oda👏👏👏
Nzem Diane 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾love them
Use proper English. You sound like an idiot saying 2geda and each oda.
MOVE ON! Sometimes you need to stop using closure as an excuse to linger and simply move the hell on.
MogulMade: amen!
AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!
He is always going to be one of the guys that say "You gonna believe me or your lying eyes?".....
You know it's bad if Steve had to say he'll back hand yo azz!😂😂
Let him gooooo Sis he ain't worth your time 🤔u so much better
On national TV?! Nah, Rickey should've just apologized after seeing the tape. That dumb lie wasn't worth it.
This is why Ricky got shot in Boys in the hood..
Eric Wany-Prince you ain't even right😭😭😭
lol...wow.
Eric Wany-Prince 😂😂😂😂
lol!!! 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #thiscomment
“I’ll back hand yo ass” 👋🏾
-Steve
😂🤣
AND THIS IS WHY STD's ARE HIGHEST IN OUR COMMUNITIES
Gerardine Granjean wrong. The STD rate for women is more than DOUBLE what it is for men. Women are just being trifling, and blaming everyone else as usual.
@@harrisonbooth6129 um I don't know if we are trifling.... Example, you have 1 guy sleeping with 10 ladies. We are trying staying loyal to our 1 guy. Prime example with this dude. This is one major reason our STD rate is super high. We aren't trifling
Harrison Booth let me break it down for you simple. If one guy has an STD and sleeps with five women. That ONE man has the STD and now so do FIVE women. Who then, sir, is gonna have the higher STD rate? Women. Who is still more trifling, the man.
Damn Steve said he was gone back hand him
lmao i love steve
That was my favorite part
She is a fool. If I suspect you cheated on me and I still feel like you did even after I confront you and you swear you didn't. We are done I don't need to call the chick to confirm anything. A man will lie to the grave even if you bring him proof of the cheating.
He will bring the side chick to your funeral
I read somewhere that men are such liars that Adam probably ate the fruit and said Eve did it...and that's why the Adam's apple stuck into their throat.😂😂😂😂
Lol I’m learning this now
He's not even cute enough to be lying and cheating. 🤦🏾♀️
Girl let him goooooo !!!! 😩
What gets me about the cheating Guy is he's still denying his infidelity after being caught...WOW! lol. Both these women need to be strong enough to walk away from him. The ex seems like she's still in it for the ride, regardless. I feel really sorry for her. Scientifically it takes a woman two years to no longer be chemically bonded to a Guy she's been intimate with. This Lady on Steve Harvey needed another year to heal.
Goes to show Ricky ain't nothing but a dawg...... lowdown and disFREAKINGrespectful I don't like him and the ladies need to delete him and move on like everyone says!
Jeannette Marie Catch a guy in the action, they still deny it. You can put his hands in flammable fire, they still deny it...,
Damn he lied to Steve and his now ex, he made a fool out of himself getting caught like that and still tried to act like it wasn't his own fault SMDH!!!
I just love your afro ! No matter the cheating 😘😘😘
That brother is no where near where that sister is going! She needs to move on and he needs to grow up!
Time is too precious to waste on drama, it is what it is! Queen, your King is waiting on you to drop that "zero!"
Just an observation!
I don't want Steve Harvey's show to become the next Maury .. so I hope this is just a segment that pops up once in a blue moon instead of something each day .. because this show is very helpful & such a blessing in so many ways. Either way I love Steve!
Girl, you're a queen and he's a dirtbag. Let him and the ex continue to do each other, and you do you boo!
@soulstrenth crusader You right! Amen! That dude's a tool, she can do much, much, much, much better.
Melanie Gonzales Amen to that!
soulstrenth crusader It's ashamed when the public have to tell you something you should already know by now
I truly appreciate the mature convo
“I’ll backhand you.” Steve is every African parent 😂😂😂😂
Why girl why that's all I am saying for the love of God please stop dating him this man will never change and Steve needs to have her back on the show and find her a man and he don't care that's why he is laughing
Anne D i don't think it necessarily is that he lost respect for her, it could be he doesn't want to be honest and respectful to her. He's clearly a liar and a cheater and i think she needs to leave him right where he is because he is only concerned about himself
I don't think she's ready. She's still stuck on him. She needs time to heal before she ruins a good guy
He's telling on himself by skinning and grinning like a silly boy.
Steve "GREAT" recommendation.
Girl move on, there is a man out there who will treat you like a queen. Be open to ALL ethnicities.
I'm impressed they can be so candid with each other. Good for them.
The look she gave to him at 2:30 😂😂
I love Steve's reccomendation. Forgive & move on!
Is it me or does he have absolutely no regret and could care less whether he was caught. He is riding his lies out. Why is the ex sleeping with him tho? They are both beautiful women with low self esteem. The one with the big hair needs to face reality. He is not into you. Sorry, but you can't force someone to care for you. It will hurt for a while hun but MOVE ON! He is garbage.
Thank you Steve for saying that "It's time to move on".
I love how all of these women are supporting each other and not bagging on on or the other girls looks. Beautiful. ❤
Just do not go back to yo god damn ex!!! It just ends up a mess and more heartbreak. Start fresh and new, MOVE ON!!!
Wow Wow!! Girl get you a life. He’s not worth it, but you continue to talk to him and go back and forth as if he has something valid to say. Sometimes being alone is okay damn...
I couldn't agree more sis
Dammmm same text wilding🙈👉the door
The whole DOOR!! Chileee
Lmaoooo when Steve said I’ll backhand you , I screamed
Question: Why is she doing this to herself?! She already knew the answer. Move on...
He doesn't respect women smh
nah its both
experience271
He's an overgrown child. Real men know how to love one woman!
experience women are Ressources for him.
and the dog is laughing not even shame, he is not even handsome find a better one you are away to beauty for him, u can have any guy
Wow
BUT HE IS SAYING IT...
HIS ACTIONS.
When he said I’ll back hand yo ass 😂😂