The BRUTAL truth (and lies) about SEWING PLUS SIZE CLOTHES!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2021
  • Today I am sharing 10 truths and lies about plus size sewing. Whether it is things I have been told, things I have learned through experience or my own personal opinion. I do get pretty opinionated!!
    Plus size sewing has a lot more to think about than regular size sewing, and there is still a lot of stigma that us plus size sewing people have to deal with for being large. That sometimes filters down into sewing patterns and while we have come a long way in the last couple of years, there is still progress to be made.
    If a pattern company doesnt go into your size bracket then I recommend you give that company a miss! Watch my video to find out why i think this!
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  • @Penguinandpear
    @Penguinandpear  2 года назад +26

    Thank you for watching and for your wonderful comments! I’m reading them all and loving hearing your views! A great and well needed discussion. Please share this anywhere you think will interest people so we can get the message out there and further open dialogue x

  • @katespencer4038
    @katespencer4038 2 года назад +161

    Many years ago a boss told me I would look much taller if I wore higher heels. I polity told her at 5 ft tall the only thing would make me look taller was a pair of stilts and they weren't in the dress code

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  2 года назад +10

      Good for you!

    • @kateyare4708
      @kateyare4708 2 года назад +26

      I learned that heel height should be proportional to shoe size, so unless you have larger feet (like me, e.g., I'm 5' tall and wear size 7 - 7 1/2 US shoe) you will look best in lower heels, even flats. I look terrible in flats, but best in a 1 1/4 - 2 inch heel; and I am so jealous of those who do look good in flats! Really high heels on short women look about as good as a comb-over on a balding man.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  2 года назад +1

      @@kateyare4708 lol

    • @maxine2798
      @maxine2798 2 года назад +23

      We have a rule, anyone around 5 ft is the correct height. Any taller is a waste of resources. Your boss needs to sit on the naughty step for that comment

    • @katespencer4038
      @katespencer4038 2 года назад +1

      @@maxine2798 love that

  • @marykelz4851
    @marykelz4851 2 года назад +64

    I'm 76 , tall, shortwasted with really long legs. I've gained 20 pounds and can fit into my clothes. I don't like the clothes inthe stores now--for only the young, fit, or frumpy. Claire, I am so proud that you have attacked the lies about sizes... looking good is what matters. Ill-fitting does no one any favors. Thank you for this video..

    • @lorieburtt592
      @lorieburtt592 2 года назад +4

      Oh my goodness, I am also tall, shortwaisted with really long legs! I also gained some weight - 30 pounds from being on an antidepressant. After finally succeeding in losing some of the weight, I am still larger than I was before the medication and do not fit into many of my clothes. I totally agree that current fashion in the shops is for the young, fit, or frumpy. So frustrating.

    • @horsenroundstudio
      @horsenroundstudio 2 года назад +5

      I am tall, plus-sized but with a smaller chest and wide shoulders, and proportional lengthwise (everything on my body is just longer than any patterns or anything on the rack), so literally nothing fits as it's supposed to and hasn't for decades. 2022 is the year that I'm going to start making normal clothes for myself, and also tackling some significant costuming, which is its own nightmare for someone my size. Pretty excited for what's coming.

  • @Teetucker74
    @Teetucker74 2 года назад +65

    I've been pulled into looking inside some late victorian dress making books and almost all of them give a variety of adjustments for the different body shapes and types to, in the end, get the "fashionable silhouette" without body shaming, but rather tweeking the cut of the cloths to propperly fit the individual's body. Ready made cloths nowadays are made with the mind set of changing the body to fit the cloths/style. Which I think is a very wharped way of thinking.

    • @comfortouch
      @comfortouch 11 месяцев назад +3

      I've been learning about that too. The hourglass shape is often obtained by adding padding in appropriate places.

    • @hyemoibang6641
      @hyemoibang6641 8 месяцев назад

      Wow! Loving this. Any book recommendations for beginners?

  • @annewhitney8809
    @annewhitney8809 2 года назад +79

    Make yourself a block. If you have one pattern that fits you well ,you can add details and use different fabrics to create a totally different look. All of the alterations are done on the block. Make peace with your body. I have a friend who is petite and slim and has problems finding clothing small enough.If you have a favourite garment that you wear a lot,analyze what it is that you love about it. Fabric,colour,print? I find ready to wear plus size clothing sometimes has decorative touches that make them look cheap. I like plain colours,stripes,checks and some small prints. I see other wearing large florals and think they are pretty but past experience has taught me that I won’t wear them. Clare you are as charming ,entertaining and informative as ever. Have a wonderful holiday season. Black shoes,black leggings,a variety of tunics and a few accessories…I’m good.

    • @brennerc180
      @brennerc180 2 года назад +4

      I made my own trouser block because my body proportions aren’t right for any pattern! My widest hip point is lower than the “standard”. It’s made a world of difference, having blocks. I’ll still sometimes buy jacket patterns because I need collar help, but I’ll then overlay my block on top and adjust. Blocks have made a world of difference for me!

    • @bunhelsingslegacy3549
      @bunhelsingslegacy3549 2 года назад +2

      @@brennerc180 I've now got a princess seam block (which of course I'll have to alter if I ever start wearing a bra again :P) but I'm so intimidated with making trousers. I can usually find something that will stay on and not look too dumb in the men's department (thick waist, narrow hips, low rise, short waist), I don't even know what fits properly! I'm not a plus size but I am a weird shape, no patterns are ever made for "brick with boobs" as a shape :)

    • @SierradSushi
      @SierradSushi 2 года назад +1

      @@bunhelsingslegacy3549 It seems intimidating at first but once you try it it's not so bad. If you're interested in drafting it yourself, I really liked the one from the blog In the folds.

    • @helenyoung41
      @helenyoung41 2 года назад

      @@brennerc180 absolutely second this. Having a set of blocks (I’ve seen them called slopers too) is amazing, the possibilities are endless and with time and practice it becomes easier to get exactly what you want with basic style adjustments, rather than lots of fit adjustments every time.
      It is confusing and difficult when you first start, but keeping at it and developing that skill is useful, money saving and incredibly satisfying as an achievement.
      (My best tip is relaxing your brain and trusting the process - sometimes a question you have will be answered by reading the next couple of steps or just ‘trust falling’ and doing it, and RUclips videos will help. My second best tip is, if you can afford it, go to a class).
      The best set of instructions I’ve seen are in the Winnifred Aldrich books (but there may have been better written since) and most of the books come with instructions on style adjustments too.
      Or if you absolutely cant crack making your own, you can buy customised slopers on Etsy etc (they are an investment, but probably way less than a new commercial pattern for each project).

    • @nusaibahibraheem8183
      @nusaibahibraheem8183 2 года назад

      I think pattern drafting is easier said than done. Most people will sew very quickly if they don't have to draft. I draft my patterns but it was a huge learning curve

  • @lestranged
    @lestranged 2 года назад +20

    My brutal truth was when my bust or hips got over 44 inches, I often needed TWICE as much fabric as I did when they were under 44 inches. You might think if you are just a couple inches bigger than you used to be, you only need a little bit more fabric than you used to. But if your fabric is 44/45 inches wide, you often need twice as much fabric. When I got too big to make a pencil skirt from a single length of 44" fabric, I cried. Due to fixed standard fabric widths, there is a definite cutoff point when you will be spending double for your fabric. (and have a lot more waste).

    • @nusaibahibraheem8183
      @nusaibahibraheem8183 2 года назад

      This is why some brands charge more for plus size, but some people are upset about that. I mean I understand how they feel but the only way to keep the price the same is to raise it for all sizes.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  2 года назад +10

      Do you have any idea how much brands make off this. Brands need to take costings into account in the planning stages and treat everyone equally. They can absorb these costs quite easily. There’s no justification for increasing prices for plus size clothing. Otherwise bikinis would be almost free!!

    • @lestranged
      @lestranged 2 года назад +3

      @@Penguinandpear Yes and when a factory is making hundreds of the same garments, they can maximize efficiency in the layout for very little waste. Maybe cut a size 2 pant leg next to a size 16 pant leg. They fit their pattern pieces together like a puzzle to avoid waste. It's only home sewers who are usually only making one garment (from each fabric) at a time who have to buy double the fabric and waste a lot. So as home sewers our plus size garment cost us double to make, but on a factory level it doesn't.

    • @KnitzyKitzy
      @KnitzyKitzy Год назад +3

      This is why I love 60” wide fabrics! So much easier to fit all the pattern pieces on and less waste. Just made a lovely simple summer skirt with some 60” poplin.

  • @maggiesteel6878
    @maggiesteel6878 2 года назад +54

    The one thing that has really helped me was the back of vogue patterns. They show which body types would look good in each particular pattern. This how I found out I'm a rectangular. Fit and flair is a no go. I'm quite petit and short waisted. This why I have to make my own. I enjoy your channel.

  • @MeganGMakes
    @MeganGMakes 2 года назад +44

    When I started pattern testing, it really opened my eyes to the breadth and depth of adjustments made by sewists of all body types. Here I thought that MOST people were making the pattern as-is, and it was an issue with my size and body shape that resulted in needing to make adjustments, but that is definitely not true!

    • @jgsawka
      @jgsawka 2 года назад +4

      So true! I have yet to purchase a pattern that I did not have to make adjustments on. Don't even get me started on pants patterns, lol!!

    • @carolg.6838
      @carolg.6838 2 года назад +2

      @@jgsawka Absolutely. When I was 18, 125 pounds at 5'6", I still needed some adjstments (minor adjustments then, not now as an a very overweight senior) and a Vogue 10 was a little small. At that time, if I went to an expensive store possinly I could wear off the rack size 8. I cannot tell what sizes people wear. I work at a chain store that sells fabric. People will ask me how much fabric they need. Sometimes I tell them about sizing being different thsn off the rack, but probably have offended them. Many who ask are havng something made for them so their seamstress probably does the fitting adjustments.

    • @nusaibahibraheem8183
      @nusaibahibraheem8183 2 года назад +1

      We are all different, so unfortunately adjustments will always be necessary for anything mass produced. Patterns are also mass produced product that is supposed to be used by a variety of body types, so adjustments are a necessary evil.

  • @livewellbehappy6113
    @livewellbehappy6113 2 года назад +40

    I also like my clothes to fit, but sometimes I can be a little too picky with my own makes. I made a top recently and thought the arm hole was not sitting right. Luckily before I took it apart I tried on a 'bought' top I knew fitted well and I was pleasantly surprised that my own effort was good enough. Also confidence it a big deal. My friend put on a lot of weight last year and her glittery xmas top didn't fit and she didn't want to go out. Anyway after a bit of persuading she put on a t-shirt that fitted and zuzzed it up with some sparkly jewellery and hair glitter and she looked amazing and had a great time.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  2 года назад +4

      Yes there’s definitely the fear of over fitting. I guess in the end we just have to feel comfortable.

  • @belinda58sews29
    @belinda58sews29 2 года назад +17

    Thanks so much for this video. One thing really hit home and I appreciate that you said it: we look better in a garment that is the right size. What hit home is the “looks better” comment. With the body positivity movement, sometimes it seems taboo to say anything that suggests that as a larger person, I may want to look “smaller/not even bigger than I am/wear something flattering”. I want to wear things that make me look my best, and doesn’t show off things I don’t like. “Normal” size people choose garments and outfits this way, why can’t we? Just because I do this, doesn’t mean I hate my body. I want to look good, whatever that means to me.

  • @xedra
    @xedra 5 месяцев назад +2

    As a plus sized woman, finding a blouse that fits nice and looks nice is almost a miracle. At a thrift store I found a simple knit tunic-style blouse with a soft flare at the hips - I adore it and you better believe I drafted a copy and made several more for myself.

  • @debraclogston9379
    @debraclogston9379 2 года назад +11

    Cheers! Us oddball shaped people rise up!

  • @heidikolden625
    @heidikolden625 2 года назад +22

    Over the years, I have bought many, many (waaaay too many) big 4 patterns, knowing I would have to do major adjustments. I have really hated them, because they were styles that I liked, but the alterations would be way to hard. So, yes, your black shoe / blue shoe analogy is perfect. I do not buy the big 4 any more, even for their crafts. I have bought Cashmerette for many years, and I love them, because they do not treat me like an outcast. I wholeheartedly agree with you on your assessments, and I really feel that it is a huge market that most designers are missing.
    Thank you for your comments!

  • @annhewitt1615
    @annhewitt1615 2 года назад +13

    When I was in college, I worked in a fabric store part-time. I often had to convince customers to ignore their ready-to-wear sizes and go with the measurements on the pattern envelopes. I suspect that many couldn’t bear to sew up patterns in the correct sizes and instead made garments that were too small to wear.

    • @cincocats320
      @cincocats320 2 года назад +2

      Vanity sizing has been the worst thing for consumers mental health.

    • @SparkyOne549
      @SparkyOne549 2 года назад

      For me, going with my pattern measurements for woven patterns, I could fit another person in what I’ve made. I measure the pattern itself, and figure the ease, then make it and it fits perfect. That’s 2 sizes less than what my measurements are, Because the tops have 5” ease. I do 2.5” ease instead.

  • @dianecrews6130
    @dianecrews6130 2 года назад +14

    I absolutely agree that you should wear the colors that you feel good in and if you like stripes then wear stripes. That is a complete myth that women of size should always wear black and as far as I'm concerned it's nonsense. Most women don't look good in Black anyway

  • @mariamacksoud8284
    @mariamacksoud8284 2 года назад +23

    Thank you, Claire, for the honesty especially about the difference between learning how to sew and learning how to fit.

    • @catherineb6565
      @catherineb6565 2 года назад +2

      @Maria Macksoud yes, I found this differentiation was a 💡 for me too.

    • @kathrynsmith6598
      @kathrynsmith6598 2 года назад +1

      This reminded me of a question we (professional musicians) often ask each other before performing an unrehearsed song (by request): "Do you KNOW the song, or can you PLAY the song?" 😂😄

  • @kathythompson5800
    @kathythompson5800 2 года назад +4

    OMG! I am SOOOOOO glad you talked about the baggy styles and very dark coloring for plus sized women. I do like black, but I do not want a completely black wardrobe. Most manufacturers of plus sized clothing only know these colors: black, dark navy, dark grey, and dark brown solids. Plus women couldn't want anything else, right? And a lot of pattern makers only see us in baggy styles, not the slightly over-sized fashion style, but made like a grocery sack. I am done with all of that. I have taken to drafting my own patterns from beloved things that fit me and I love to wear. Sometimes it takes a bit of adjustment, but I get what I like in the colors I want.

  • @Lela-plants
    @Lela-plants 2 года назад +3

    I’m a US 4-6 bottom and a 10-12 top due the the girls lol. I have discovered you can’t really look at sizes. I have to buy dresses up and get them altered. It does hit your ego to buy that larger size and you know it’s a number and in other brands you wear something different; and you know nobody sees the tag, etc. but it’s still a mental thing.
    I love how you explain things. I’ve decided to venture into sewing for me. It will be a first. I made my daughters’ dresses and I make quilts, but grown up clothing is something foreign. Thank you for having such a wonderful channel!

  • @lorescien4148
    @lorescien4148 2 года назад +3

    Oh wow, I wasn't expecting to cry at the last point you made. I honestly crochet more than I sew anymore due to available space in my household and I do the same thing with my yarn the same way I do with my fabrics. I shy away from using any of my pretty things for myself out of fear that I'm just wasting it on my body... but what sense does that make, right?! It was purchased to be used and it deserves to be worn, be it yarn, fabric, makeup, whatever. Thank you for the perspective throughout this whole video, and especially right at the end. You're a wise woman.

  • @kentuckymarsha
    @kentuckymarsha 2 года назад +5

    Women get told to wear black so they are invisible. Society doesn’t want to see our very real, imperfect bodies. Love this video.

  • @SlapHappySewing
    @SlapHappySewing 2 года назад +6

    This hit a chord even though Im a bit late to the party! It occured to me last year that the reason that designers like tall people with little flesh on their bodies is that they are more standard and the clothes are interchangable. The more flesh you have, the more individual your body becomes, often in a delicious way! Great video :)

  • @cindywinkler4172
    @cindywinkler4172 Год назад +1

    My mother taught me if you're heavy, you're heavy, just because you wear black doesn't hide that fact, wear what you want and own it!! You're so refreshing

  • @lenore2944
    @lenore2944 2 года назад +8

    Excellent video as always. My issue with RTW is that they assume that we carry our weight everywhere on the body. The sleeve seam always ends up halfway down my arm as I have very narrow shoulders. Thank you again and have a great Holiday Season.

    • @lestranged
      @lestranged 2 года назад +2

      This is so true. Our skeletons stay the same size when we gain weight . People do not usually gain evenly all over the body. Just take legs for example, a lot more weight will accumulate in thighs than in the ankles. legs are still leg-shaped, not cylinders the same thickness all the way down!

  • @jadeelise7982
    @jadeelise7982 2 года назад +10

    great video. I can't say that i will never grade up a pattern. Im so glad that companies are expanding their size ranges. But honestly, these companies are often making the same types of painfully basic garments (how many t shirts and tiered skirts do I really need?) The intermediate patterns that I am craving may be just outside of my size range. My options are to never challenge myself with harder patterns, or grade up Big 4 patterns. 🤷🏽‍♀

    • @MangoMintMickey
      @MangoMintMickey 2 года назад +1

      Have you considered making a pattern block based on your measurements and drafting your own patterns?

  • @Cecibug1
    @Cecibug1 2 года назад +11

    I'm not plus size but I still love your channel. You always have great content for any sewer. Ellie and Mac patterns have a great range of testers when you go to purchase a pattern they have tones of pictures you can sift through. And their patterns go up to 5X. One of my favorite things about their patterns is they have adult and kid matching outfits!

  • @jojorey6886
    @jojorey6886 2 года назад +3

    On your first point, I would buy patterns that looked great on the model, made them and was sorely disappointed when it looked terrible on me. I’m not a plus size but everyone has to consider the body type of the model and if it matches your body. Even plus sizes have body types and I think you can make a regular pattern depending on the style and body type and the fit; fitted, semi-fitted, loose fitting etc also consider neckline and sleeve style and length. I like when they have mix and match patterns where you can choose neckline, sleeve style and lengths. I would go to stores and try on different styles then try to find a pattern for the ones I liked.

  • @anncasseldine9673
    @anncasseldine9673 2 года назад +15

    I follow you Claire because you give sound advice about sewing. I like the way you explain fitting adjustments, I actually understand them.

  • @SwimmingInSunlight
    @SwimmingInSunlight 2 года назад +5

    I'm size XS in Europe but ever since I started making my own clothes I've been using Asian patterns, and often my measurements (mainly shoulder width and torso length) put me comfortable into size L patterns... So pattern-sizing not matching with the preconceived shop-sizing notions apply to regular-sized folks too, all comes down to patterns we use 🙏🙏 Great video, I learned a lot!

    • @audreysavard3248
      @audreysavard3248 2 года назад

      Same there. XXS in north ameria. Asian patterns match me better than what is selled there.

  • @crafteed
    @crafteed 11 месяцев назад +1

    When the big 4 are polling people, maybe they're not taking into account all the plus sized sewists who have dropped out of sewing due to all the tedious upsizing that had to be done.thru the years. I was never a B cup & didnt know how to do a FBA way back but my younger body still fit better into standard patterns, so i just figured it out.
    YT has opened a door for me of pattern drafting, upsizing patterns, & other sewing skills that i never learned yrs back. I did a lot of natural "winging it" but it only took me so far.
    I'm learning to look up the pattern i want to make to see how it looks on a normal person, especially the plus version which is often not featured on the envelope.

  • @JustChreesha
    @JustChreesha Год назад +1

    Thank you for posting this lovely video. I have been reviving my sewing skills since last year. I learned when I was very young from my mom and grandmother. I made a goal, actually two but similar, one sew my own clothes, two start a handbag business ... by working on my skills first. I have been making different bags (not up and running yet, still working on skills) I have been making my own clothes and also some for my husband and grandson. I also did some alterations on suits for a friend. That actually gave me more confidence than before! I'm so glad you are here and documenting things that I align with. ❤

  • @sarahndipity9649
    @sarahndipity9649 2 года назад +2

    I would love to see a roundup of the styles well suited for plus size figures

  • @lilly3341
    @lilly3341 2 года назад +1

    So many great tips. Love when you said "If pattern designers won't invest in me, I won't invest in them!"

  • @samanthacoe9767
    @samanthacoe9767 2 года назад +4

    I really appreciate that you expressed your opinion about not waiting till you lose the weight to use that gorgeous fabric in your stash. I've been on an incredible journey of making my wardrobe (ready-wear clothes that I like on my body at whatever size I am are so hard to find), but I've also been losing weight! I knew when I started working on my wardrobe that I wanted to lose some weight, so I made sure to plan for alterations in the future, either to make things bigger or smaller because who knows where life will take me. I think it's important to remember that tomorrow isn't guaranteed, wasting time on "when I lose the weight" will only perpetuate the idea that you are not good enough for the garment you want to make and that is NEVER true. We should all appreciate and love out bodies in whatever stage of life or weight. Make the clothes we want and feel confident that we are the best version of ourselves when we do things for "me" not for the random person on the street.

  • @cemitchell6496
    @cemitchell6496 2 года назад +1

    Just found your channel. WOW! Can't wait to binge watch this weekend!

  • @aakaashsharma357
    @aakaashsharma357 2 года назад +2

    15:49 "YOU DO YOU" love it ❤❤

  • @Valandaimee
    @Valandaimee 2 года назад +2

    I agree , if you feel good in an outfit , your confidence shows and you look amazing .

    • @mssixty3426
      @mssixty3426 2 года назад

      So true! I recently attended a fancy dress-up function, and was so impressed with the gown a really tall, voluptuous, curvey lady wore - it was a form-fitting stretchy fabric with a swirly design in muted colors that just made the best off her figure, and what really carried it of was her casual, self-confident stroll.

  • @debbiewhite3270
    @debbiewhite3270 2 года назад +4

    U r wonderful. I agree w all of it. I'm not plus sized but I have been hard to fit. I've learned to sew but I'm still learning to fit. Jalie patterns uses letters to get past the mental block. Think of all patterns as reference points. Connect the dots and ur size is a "ME" size. No two people r fit exactly the same, even if they start w the same reference points. I want to learn the Fit Nice system. I like the idea that once I map my body, I just adjust for style. Keep up the great work, Claire

  • @callitags
    @callitags Год назад +1

    As a newbie, haven't yet made a garment, sewist, I absolutely loved this video. I'm in a place in my life where I've already started to ignore the numbers... size, weight, inches, what have you... as a measure of worth. I think that's a big reason that sewing has finally started to interest me. I have memories of my mother sewing when I was younger, and the difficulty in finding larger sizes, and I assumed for most of my life that sewing wasn't for me. It seems that my interest has grown at a time where I have many, many more options than I would've found even five years ago. Score one for me on timing. 🙂 Anyway, I love the information and opinions you've expressed in this and other videos, based on your experiences as a larger bodied sewist. It's been a wonderful experience to travel through RUclips and Instagram in the last couple of months to find people who look more like me and have experienced the world similarly. So, thank you for sharing yourself with all of us.

  • @tenapilkington1965
    @tenapilkington1965 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have enjoyed your prowess in sewing and have learned from you even though I started learning in 1948!

  • @dismurrart6648
    @dismurrart6648 2 года назад +2

    It seems to me that expecting larger people to learn to do pattern grading is a really good way to expect your entire market-based a potential customers to learn how to not need you

  • @annenorth8553
    @annenorth8553 2 года назад +3

    Make yourself a set of block patterns, in carboard, then they will be the only patterns you will ever need. From there you have a starting point in making any design you like. Please watch Bianca (The Closet Historian) for how to begin. You won't regret it. and the money you will save on patterns you can buy more fabric! There is nothing like a perfect fit, and if you're buying patterns and having to adjust every single one, why not make a block that you know is going to fit you every time, and the only thing you need to change is the design.

  • @michelleyoung7364
    @michelleyoung7364 Год назад +1

    Clair, I love this video., you are definitely telling the truth about the fashion world. However, you have also caused me to look inward and become more mindful in who i support (buy from) and only buy what I love. Love you Claire, you are truly a inspiration and a bit of a rebel.

  • @gladdy2104
    @gladdy2104 2 года назад +1

    Find a company they do patterns for cup A to I think D opened up my fully mind! 😂😂... They are outside there! Look for them! 💞 I'm a little slim person and had problems so often with fit! Now I'm glad to know the right companies! 💞 Thank you for your content! 💞

  • @mssixty3426
    @mssixty3426 2 года назад +6

    Thank you Claire, for your refreshingly practical views on garment fitting and body image imposed by misogynists (or unrealistic idealists at best). So many of your statements are true for average to slightly less than plus size women as well . . . Ready to wear and pattern companies have been stuck in a rut since Twiggy was a popular model in the 70's. I've had better results shopping in the men and boys section since I was a teenager. Blue jeans were only available in men's sizes when I bought them back then😄 I still buy some items there now . . . Like pants with POCKETS! - shirts with arm and shoulder movement! 🤨
    I recently was so pleased to see a display in our local Jo-Ann's Fabrics of voluptuous, curvey women in a wide variety of attire for a pattern company that I'm sorry to say, I can't remember the name of, but I think it was a new designer.
    You've inspired me to try garment sewing again after 40 years . . .whenever I get one of my sewing machines working again!
    A blessed, happy, and peaceful holiday to your and your family Claire🎄🎁

  • @qormi1000
    @qormi1000 2 года назад +7

    Excellent video Claire. Love it, love it, love it. Thank you.

  • @laurafarrer328
    @laurafarrer328 2 года назад +6

    When I got to be a bigger size in recent years, sewing just became so frustrating because I really didn’t understand how to alter patterns to make them fit me. Vlogs like yours are so very helpful. Thank you. Best regards from Sydney and all good wishes for Xmas and 2022! 🎄

  • @MsJ731
    @MsJ731 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for speaking the truth on patterns and companies. Drove me crazy for years not finding patterns which fit, many patterns companies seem to think when grading up into larger sizes we grow shoulders the size of football players. Many of the "grading rules" do not take into account how plus size bodies do not expand every direction - it is obvious that the people who follow these rules are not plus sizes and have no idea what plus size people need for a good fit. Plus size patterns are finally getting the message, however I learned to do my own patterns because paying for patterns that did not fit and basically I had to remake the pattern anyway was a waste of time and money. Love your channel with great advice.

  • @irenedale5256
    @irenedale5256 2 года назад

    Thank you for the excellent video and your good advice. Have a wonderful Christmas and a healthy, happy New Year. 💕

  • @thegreenpincushion510
    @thegreenpincushion510 2 года назад

    Thank you for a candid and helpful episode about plus size sewing. This was one of my favorites. Merry Christmas!!!

  • @rhonddalesley
    @rhonddalesley 2 года назад +2

    Looking really lovely today and the analogy of the blue shoes was genius!

  • @lisaemery879
    @lisaemery879 2 года назад +3

    Great video! I especially agree that we should only buy patterns that are being offered in our sizes and honor those companies that have chosen to invest in plus size.

  • @itcouldbeanyone
    @itcouldbeanyone 2 года назад +3

    I have naively assumed in the past that I had the skill to make patterns make do, as a quilter I can hide the evidence of that assumption... it is nice that more pattern designers are catching up to the need to make patterns more inclusive. I sew so I can have clothes that not every other plus size person at work is wearing, thankfully RUclips is a thing so I have been able to improve this for me. Keep your advocacy going - as a plus size sewer I need this too 🤩👍

  • @elainelott9916
    @elainelott9916 2 года назад

    Wonderful video!!! Enjoyed all your comments and truths !!! You look great !!! Have a happy new year !!!

  • @louisasmith3430
    @louisasmith3430 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for this video. You are so right on everything. We all need to know this information.

  • @ZeldaSews
    @ZeldaSews Год назад

    I don't know what your first name is, but my friend, you hit the nail on the head when you talked about, it's an emotional Adjustment that people need to make! I say that as a plus size lady, it is very true. Thanks for making this video.

  • @sheilastamps853
    @sheilastamps853 11 месяцев назад

    Love this video! Thanks for the information your giving us. I'm glad I found your channel.

  • @charlottehayward5943
    @charlottehayward5943 2 года назад

    Your channel gives me realistic advice. I love to sew but fitting myself has always been a problem for me.

  • @janettechapple6542
    @janettechapple6542 2 года назад

    I don’t really frequent instagram, but I will from now on. Excellent advice, thankyou. I always use the pattern sizes as ‘just’ a number, the difference between shop sizes and pattern sizes can be staggering.

  • @pjacksreads536
    @pjacksreads536 Год назад

    Really great point. I didn’t think of this. You are right on point. Thanks

  • @heatherthrone9999
    @heatherthrone9999 2 года назад

    As always a useful, helpful clear and funny video. Thanks Claire.

  • @elizabethwilson5349
    @elizabethwilson5349 2 года назад

    Spot on with this video! I completely agree with all you have said. I am returning to sewing clothes because I just can’t find clothes that fit well. I have been building my skills back sewing sleepwear. I am happy to say that more and more garments are successfully being worn out in public and it is so nice to not be stuffing myself into ill fitting clothes. I am in the grey area that is XL, but not plus size, and I am such a pear shape that sizes for tops and bottoms are dramatically different. Dresses and such must be graded out at the hips and the waist lengthened. It is an adventure in sizing with every pattern! Happy holidays to all!

  • @CalamityAna
    @CalamityAna 2 года назад

    You are so beautiful and this made me feel so empowered!!! Thank you so much!!

  • @hollyhock4160
    @hollyhock4160 2 года назад

    Very well spoken and spirited delivery…..needs to be understood and accepted!

  • @kristialexander7677
    @kristialexander7677 Год назад +1

    I am just entering my 70s and when I was in high school, my sewing teacher (yes, we had sewing classes then) told us the golden rule for looking chic, classy, elegant - wear what you like, what you feel you look good wearing whatever age the clothes came from. I personally fell for and still seek and trying to make, Katheryn Hepburn style slacks, (zipper placket with double front waist darts), silky slightly loose blouses with a keyhole back neck opening, so I can wear scarves, necklaces or brooches; enough of these I mix and match seeming as though I have a large wardrobe. Furthermore, I wear about a 28 or 30 pattern and am praying your instruction (thanks to finding your videos) and advice - and learning all these pattern companies offering my size patterns, will help me in my quest. How I wish I had a teacher in town, or knew where I could find someone to make patterns to fit me! Thank you for your time and wisdom.

  • @debe8890
    @debe8890 2 года назад +3

    Claire!, This video was awesome. Thank you. It is a real confidence booster. I whole heartedly agree with your "use that special fabric now" philosophy. I had someone tell me once that they could never wear their "special" earrings and asked me if I was afraid of losing mine. I replied that I would rather enjoy wearing them until I lost one instead of leaving them in the box and never getting the chance to enjoy them. I have adopted the same philosophy when it comes to that "special" fabric, enjoy it now!

  • @kathleennalon7239
    @kathleennalon7239 2 года назад

    The advice you give for body image is really true, wether you sew or not. Really enjoy your channel

  • @doloresw
    @doloresw 2 года назад

    Love your honesty and that you have been there done it and your so encouraging! I also love to hear you speak. I'm in the US as a kid I knew one person from the UK and loved to hear my mom's BFF partner's British accent. It's great!

  • @suek7086
    @suek7086 2 года назад +3

    I appreciate all this information. Your common sense encourages me. When I returned to sewing a couple of years ago I went and bought a bunch of big 4 patterns. I have yet to make a single one. I would have to do so many adjustments it just isn’t worth it.

  • @GrandmaJoy1
    @GrandmaJoy1 2 года назад +2

    The great thing about sewing your own clothes is you aren't chained to the RTW industry. Think about all those ladies who don't know how to create their own beautiful clothing that fits their body. Nothing looks more stunning on a woman than clothing that fits her body in a color that brings out her best features. Thank you , Claire for the encouraging videos. Plus sized sewing is not impossible.

  • @blackmirrorprisoners
    @blackmirrorprisoners Год назад

    these are such good tips! i'm definitely taking these on board

  • @jgsawka
    @jgsawka 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your views! Spot on! As an early sewist, I initially felt bad about myself regarding the pattern sizes I actually needed for fit. And even when purchasing plus size patterns, its crazy how much I have to adjust the patterns to fit my particular body shape. But you know, I find that my clothes fit so much better than ready to wear!

  • @carolg.6838
    @carolg.6838 2 года назад +1

    I want tell you how nice you look with your hair and makeup that way and the color of your sweater is complimentary to your skin tone . All black is a harsh color for many unless we wear a scarf of our color near our face. You are giving me giving me courage to try fitting. Thank you. P.S. And I like your tree and decorations in the background.

  • @ishachayil820
    @ishachayil820 2 года назад +1

    This is such wonderful points that even I who sewed many years need to hear again. It is so much easier now with Indie designers who offer a wide size range and cup sizes (yay!)

  • @lucilledaub5991
    @lucilledaub5991 11 месяцев назад

    I love your honesty about things. Loving your videos.

  • @charityrochford2175
    @charityrochford2175 2 года назад +5

    I’ve sewn for crafting and costumes for my kids, and have always feared making clothes for myself. Partly because of fit issues and partly because stretchy fabrics scare me! It’s been a pleasure getting to watch your videos and you’ve really helped boost my confidence. I hemmed the bottom of a too-long stretchy costume piece I had bought on Amazon and kept thinking back to your videos on knits. God bless you for helping me feel like I can do more than I ever imagined I could have before! I’ve made a few items for my daughter lately that she can wear as everyday clothes, and I’m getting so close to making something for myself now. A few more of these confidence builders and I’m sure I’ll get the gumption!

    • @Lilyfae84
      @Lilyfae84 2 года назад

      Oh charity you and me both. I made myself a midi length straight tulle skirt last year and although I was complemented I felt like an elephant. I have several patterns but scared to cut into nice fabric for me. Anything for my children I will do but me… nope.
      I’m determined though. I bought a bundle of affordable but nice navy jersey (I’m not scared of stretch) so it’s not an ‘expensive mistake’ and intend to make the cashmerette Turner dress (or at the very least copy a top!!) with it.

  • @isabelbourgeois4056
    @isabelbourgeois4056 2 года назад

    Hi Claire loved your video today. You are looking very good. Just love watching you and your advice. I have learned so much from you

  • @thejuniebugs
    @thejuniebugs 2 года назад

    I enjoy your videos so much, and this one was so spot on!

  • @beverleygregory863
    @beverleygregory863 2 года назад

    Great video! I'm tipping my toe back into the sewing machine world. I last did any meaningful sewing at sixth form college when I saw a perfect size 6. Now 57/58 and a plus size I am so happy that I came across your videos. Thanks.

  • @rosevinetube
    @rosevinetube 2 года назад +1

    This talk is wonderful. I learned to sew as a “skinny” teenager decades ago. I still love to sew, but have a very different plus/sized body now. Your advice and observations are spot on. I have a basic bodice that I’ve adapted for myself. From there I just play with fabrics I love, and incorporate pleats, smocking, trims, etc. to my hearts content.

  • @ColorJoyLynnH
    @ColorJoyLynnH 2 года назад

    Just found you! What a gift!!! Trying to teach three young friends to sew. They all are plus size. I am diving into a learning curve. My own sewing means a FBA and shortening the waist and sleeves, usually. I grade between 3 sizes but my hips are only 42.5”. I need lessons like yours!!! Thanks.

  • @kerstinshadbolt1003
    @kerstinshadbolt1003 2 года назад

    Identifying the techniques demanded most for sewing the patterns I use most gives me satisfaction and confidence to progress. You are so right Claire, get the sewing right, then develop fitting skills one by one as you need them and PRACTISE until you feel ready for the 'real thing'. Thanks for all your hard work.

  • @maryhull531
    @maryhull531 2 года назад +1

    Very helpful Claire . This resonated very much with me . I too have lost my sewing mojo and I am waiting for it to return . Maybe 2022 is the year for it to return .

  • @christineg8151
    @christineg8151 2 года назад

    I'm so glad I found your channel! I recently bought some clothing from a company that does semi-customized stuff, and they're SO much better-looking and better-fitting than off-the-rack stuff. As a result, I've decided to try making my own clothing again. Success in the past has been... not great, but I'm feeling better now that I have realized that altering patterns is not only acceptable, but expected. I'm almost 5'10" (178 cm) tall, so most clothes are too short, and figuring out where I need to add that extra length makes a huge difference in how well they look. Sure, I can lengthen a pair of trousers in the leg, and I probably need to, but I definitely need to add some in the rise. For shirts, I need extra length between the shoulder and the underarm, as well as in the torso where most patterns tell you to add the length. So, I've gotten to the point where I can figure out WHAT adjustments I need to make, but not necessarily HOW.
    I will say, the biggest lie that I have dealt with in my garment sewing journey is the idea that you are a consistent size all over your body. After taking my measurements and analyzing patterns, it turns out that part of the reason that trousers never fit before is because my waist is 2-3 sizes smaller than my hips. (This also explains why all my off-the-rack clothes gap at the waist.)
    I'm looking forward to watching the rest of your videos!

  • @cherylhuff1914
    @cherylhuff1914 2 года назад +2

    I’m coming back to garment sewing after 30 years away. I used to see almost all my own clothes but so much has changed, including a body that has gotten even further away from the norm.
    I’m so glad I found your channel!

  • @lilijanahowells8482
    @lilijanahowells8482 11 месяцев назад

    Ive just found you. Thank you Sooo much for your channel. You inspire us curvy girls to be ourselves. You never said a truer word when you spoke of that gorgeous stash fabric waiting for the smaller us. I've had some for years that comes out admired and then put away. Not for much longer, just spotted the perfect pattern. Thanks again. ❤

  • @AvrilBrown-ld6gm
    @AvrilBrown-ld6gm 3 месяца назад

    I'm really enjoying your video. I am a plus size person and have felt so much frustration when looking for patterns that I want to make. I should confess here that I used to be a designer but that was in another life and a very different size!
    What you say about having to create a whole new pattern for plus sizes is very true - after all not all of our bodies increase in proportion (I have incredibly slim ankles and wrists). I am pleased by the number of companies who are producing patterns for larger people as, although I know how to adapt patterns I don't enjoy it, especially if I've spent good money on buying it in the first place. So thank you - keep preaching ❤

  • @debm460
    @debm460 2 года назад

    My most favourite segment to date. Claire, it’s too bad you have lost your sewing mojo. Sewing has done so much for you (in a great way!). I have been watching some of your earlier videos. Thanks for being you 🇨🇦❤️

  • @robynlaszlo6128
    @robynlaszlo6128 2 года назад

    Thanks Claire i totally agree with you its all about the measurements it took me a long time to realize this I've been sewing for a while but have learnt alot through people like yourself

  • @dumbphonemom
    @dumbphonemom 2 года назад +4

    When I had my formal sewing training, I had the same measurements of the mannequin, just 2cm+ at the hips! Fast forward after 3 pregnancies and a lot of stress, I’m plus size and honestly I’ll never go back to the mannequin measurements to be realistic. I’m thankful that I learned how to make patterns from scratch and even find confusing using pre-made patterns, because I don’t think I would find a good pattern for my size unless I make it myself.

    • @JustChreesha
      @JustChreesha Год назад

      That's how I feel too. I am currently taking a pattern making class (its very good so far) because I don't like fast fashion they never fit well and are quite ugly for larger people. I have already made myself tops and am excited for the rest!

  • @miketa87
    @miketa87 2 месяца назад

    I love this video…thanks for the confidence booster!!!

  • @deborahsorgi8515
    @deborahsorgi8515 2 года назад

    Bravo well done. I’m a plus size woman and always had trouble finding a good pattern for my size. Thank you so much.

  • @jirup
    @jirup 2 года назад +6

    Regardless of what my size has been, I have never been able to sew a pattern 'straight out of the packet'. I have always needed to make a toile or two to adjust the pattern to match my proportions. I now have a handful of 'unicorn patterns' that I have adapted to my body and use over and over.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  2 года назад

      Yeah not everyone sees from the packet. I know quite a few who do though. It’s great you have tnt patterns!

    • @happytofu5
      @happytofu5 2 года назад

      ooh I love the term "unicorn pattern" - I think I found a pair of unicorn pants, but I need to make a few more samples before I am sure. and yeah, no matter my size, I can't wear patterns straight from the package, because i am not built like the models which are often tall and don't have that many curves. I am tiny and super curvy, my bust, shoulders and waist are so different in size; I can only wear oversized or very stretchy garments that I gather at my waist

  • @LS-vq2or
    @LS-vq2or 2 года назад

    Thank you for talking abt this! I gave up on using commercial patterns or buying ready to wear clothing because in both cases the fit is just not there. I am now working on making my own sets of basic pattern slopers so that I can have clothes that fit, and I sometimes get super upset seeing how much work goes into this, even following a guide to make your own pattern based off your measurements, it simply doesn't take into account the complexity of non-thin bodies, and so few of said thin people have to care. They can just take a pattern and make a garment easy maybe just make a very small adjustment here and there but they can sew SO much more as a result. Recently there's a youtube trend of showing off your 2021 sewing creations and each time one of those videos pops up I wanna cry, because it's just super unfair. How for them it's just about the sewing, so they can master sewing skills, and progress super fast while for us non thin people it's not only about the sewing there is a patternmaking hassle in the back to deal with, that makes the process much MUCH longer. We have to make a couple muslins, we can't use the free trendy beautiful patterns going around, there's a massive block in our own sewing process. And I say that, while just being mid size, it's just I have a big bust, and big hips and a rounded back and thick shoulders and a bloated belly due to chronic illness and it's impossible to find my size, because even a size 12/14 that should be my size, doesn't take into account my body shape. And it's really really frustrating to not have the same opportunities of progress as everyone else just because only one body shape is praised and taken into account. I hope I can finish all my slopers this year so I can be able to do more things later on, that fit, but right now I just feel stuck in between and I really miss sewing.

  • @amyoungil
    @amyoungil 2 года назад

    Fun pep talk! I am finding that I buy fewer patterns these days. I prefer to get a TNT of pants, or t-shirt, and then try to adjust that with some design elements -- a seam up the front, cuff-or-not, hood-yes-no, and so forth. I've only been sporadic with my woven pants basic pattern, but I took apart a muslin and transferred the fitting marks to my v2 pattern. I hope to be more able to let go of patterns that I won't sew (or wear) if I know I've got great basic slopers/patterns I can just cut out and sew up. Good luck and happy new year to all!

  • @lesleyharris525
    @lesleyharris525 2 года назад +2

    Hi Clare, I'm not a plus size but I'm an odd size, petit extra long big bust short body , I'm just fed up with nothing fitting,

  • @sarahmay3307
    @sarahmay3307 2 года назад +1

    I’m not plus sized but really enjoy your channel. I’m short with a large bust. I have to do so many alterations it puts me off and then I have to toile…... I now avoid patterns which don’t offer a fba in my size. It has to be really exceptional for me to consider a woven pattern without an fba option. I can sew but fit is my goal.

  • @theyarnfashionista
    @theyarnfashionista 2 года назад

    Hello! Wonderful video! I love fashion and I've never followed fashion rules. I've always worn what I like. Most don't realize that when you step out of your comfort zone, your personality will shine and your confidence would be unstoppable.

  • @kathleenstoin671
    @kathleenstoin671 11 месяцев назад

    I love this channel: Come for the sewing tutorials and tips, stay for the self-affirming philosophy!

  • @melenelewis2955
    @melenelewis2955 2 года назад

    What an Encouraging video! Thank you So much! I have been sewing for many years and have become so discouraged with being overweight but you have really made me want to see again ....I even sent in my 2 machine for servicing sothat they would be up to the task of plenty work again. I also downloaded this video to keep reminding myself of the points you made. Thank you Thankyou Thankyou 😁

  • @joannecava2418
    @joannecava2418 2 года назад

    Love your videos! Thanks for sharing this