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Its easy. Just pray to allah and allah will automaticlly put the perfect person infront of you. When u meet them u wont even need to ask any questions. YOU WILL KNOW THEY ARE THE ONE!! this is what happrnd to me الحمد لله
@@bushraqaasim4677 alot of people jyst think dua does the job, its our job tho to make dua AND go out and ask around and search, thats a major addition to dua
Awesome video Gabriel, good topics covered here for choosing a spouse. Learned a few things here and what type of questions to ask sisters when I’m looking for a spouse. InshaAllah everyone looking for a spouse can find one soon that are both compatible with each other and help each other in their deen. Ameen
Thats the key: work together to come to a solution. There's to many partners who treat each other as the enemy whenever there is a difference in opinion.
Thats all you gotta look for, as far as appearance goes, make sure they're just attractive enough, nothing too fancy that's enough to get you by easily.
بارك الله فيك brother Gabriel May Allah ﷻ bless you immensely for your hard work towards the Ummah. As a female, I see how important your work is and we need many men like you in our Ummah. جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
There were poor sahaba, who got married. I think if a man can work in this day and age, even if it's not a well paid job. If such a man is pious and has good character then they shouldn't be turned down for marriage.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته Indeed, it's like everything is being well planned. The conspiracy theory has convincing proofs, people should just look and be honest. May Allah guide us through this wordly journey.
'Compatibility' is overstated. Two people trying to please Alllah (SWT) is compatible, regardless backgrounds. Different backgrounds require some adjustments to make but there are many wow factors to learn from and grow... People of Makka never had problem marring people of Madina due to 'cultural compatibility'. We live in a global village now, many things common. If Allah(SWT) destined otherwise, it would be successful!!!
Brother Gabriel ,why don't you make a series of videos about the topics below , collaborating with youtuber ,Farhat Amin , who has written a book about this topic, marriage. She asks and you answer. 1- How does islamic way of marriage process run ? Asking a wali , etc. 2- What kinds of rights do men and women islamically have during this process , before the marriage ? Do we have to marry the person we first meet ? Do we have to have a wali every time we talk? 3- What kinds of rights do men and women islamically have during the marriage ? Okay , we re married and now what are my rights , as a man or as a woman ? 4 - How does prophet Muhammad treat her wives ? a - in terms of having conversations, activities, etc. - People tend to think that religious people are boring ,but we do know that the Prophet was a very active person. Remember his running race with his wife Aisha in the street. b - concerning having a sexual intercourse. - I am especially asking that because religious people tend not to talk about sex but it leads to , really weird and sad to say, both sexless marriages and porn and toys or zina. Also, no one on this planet can claim that they re more religious than the Prophet ,which would sound utterly stupid. 5 - At the end of the videos, you can also advise books ,related to the topics above, for viewers to read. 6 - Extra topic, what kinds of obstacle do single people have before the marriage ? Farhat amin says that people tend to marry someone from their own tribe. For instance, one problem is that the saudi parents want a saudi candidate ,or the pakistani parents want a pakistani candidate. Another issue is that people tend not to want to see reverts as a candidate, which is crazy cos reverts search for the truth and decide to become muslim ,but born muslims do not want them. I seriously did not know that racism was so widespread among the ummah.
Marriang cousin is ok, Prophet(s) showed it once, that's good enough, no need to look for 'whether recommended'. Even marring own sibling was ok (Habil,Kabil), now it is not because Allah(SWT) has withdrawn that custom. What Allah(SWT) has ordained, find infatuations in that, forget the current social constructs.
Situational questions will never ending. Question for potential spouse- *Where do you want to get to?* *How do you want to get there?* *What are the challenges?*
Regarding the wife who didn’t want to have kids yet. You said if the husband wants kids it’s his right. But isn’t it also her right to decide when to have them too. Why is his right prioritised in this situation ?
But all jokes aside why does a husbands have to provide for his family? Doesnt he have the right to decide what he does with his money? Why are the wife and child rights to his finance put ahead of his discreation in this situation? EASY ANSWER BECAUSE THE ALL KNOWING,MOST JUST, THE WELL AQUINTED COMMANDED US TO. Be the definition of a muslimah. Submit ur will to ur creator. Dont let someone who doesnt even know how to wipe their bums tell u what ur rights are. Not saying u r a feminist, but that was a very familiar question if u know what i mean. May Allah grant us understanding and obidience ameen. Keep steadfast sister i know u can do it👍
@@smeshcel3025 I get your point but she can take his feelings into consideration and they can reach a mutual agreement. It is not Islamic to force someone to do something against their will either.
@@sammyz4eva u arent forcing if she doesnt comply after trying to explain and maybe having a sheikh speak to her and trying to get her family to convince her then u just divorce her. Just because she isnt giving u her right doesnt mean u put a gun to her head. Just means she aint the one
@@sammyz4eva and it isnt a matter of mutual agreemwnt it is what is one of the main objectives of marriage that Allah stipulated for us. Unless there is a dier need illness,danger etc then there is no justification that can be made period
@It doesn't Matters thank you, we were just discussing lack of respect or awareness in regards to emotional well-being. Many cultures ignore the sensitivity and emotional cycles (why women can not be at the top politically ect ) women go through such ignorance is damaging! Then we have the Bollywood inspired sisters that have overentitled bad attitudes wanting more more more yet have low standards of provision themselves
YOU can get the reward and help ME educate and give dawa to people around the world
Click www.patreon.com/galromaani
or send via PayPal gibreelk@gmail.com
You want to send some BITCOIN?
Contact me directly
Depression? Anxiety? Sexuality Problems? Fatawa? (With Qualified Shaikh)
Book a POSITIVE ISLAMIC PSYCHOLOGY COUNSELING SESSION
alromaani.simplybook.it
Want to Sponsor a counseling session for someone? Send a donation to PayPal gibreelk@gmail.com with message Counseling Sponsorship
Order my NEW BOOK Journal of a New Muslim newmuslimjournal.company.site/
Become a REAL MAN and Support Group for Men ONLY - Join the Muslim Alpha Men Society
t.me/AlphaMuslim
Its easy. Just pray to allah and allah will automaticlly put the perfect person infront of you. When u meet them u wont even need to ask any questions. YOU WILL KNOW THEY ARE THE ONE!! this is what happrnd to me الحمد لله
How is it going?
What you have written is the truth wallahi if you make sincere Dua to Allah for a pious and righteous spouse wallahi Allah will grant it to you
@@bushraqaasim4677 alot of people jyst think dua does the job, its our job tho to make dua AND go out and ask around and search, thats a major addition to dua
Awesome video Gabriel, good topics covered here for choosing a spouse. Learned a few things here and what type of questions to ask sisters when I’m looking for a spouse.
InshaAllah everyone looking for a spouse can find one soon that are both compatible with each other and help each other in their deen. Ameen
Masha Allah Brother you are doing a great job May Allah reward you tremendously Ameen🤲🏼❤️
Just look for *Deen and Character* , and then work as a team, everything else will be taken care of insha'Allah!
Thats the key: work together to come to a solution. There's to many partners who treat each other as the enemy whenever there is a difference in opinion.
@@7001sonni
What do you think is the cause?
Thats all you gotta look for, as far as appearance goes, make sure they're just attractive enough, nothing too fancy that's enough to get you by easily.
اسأل الله عزوجل ان يرزقنا الزوجة الصالحة
آمين يارب
As-Salaam Alaikum very good points May Allah bless you forever.
God bless you and bless your family!
بارك الله فيك brother Gabriel
May Allah ﷻ bless you immensely for your hard work towards the Ummah. As a female, I see how important your work is and we need many men like you in our Ummah. جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
He right in all that he has said so far. I agree with him.
Fantastic work brother
Looking forward to the video showing how a sharia state'd look like
Another great video.
20:50
That is true expalin
جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم
Wa alekum salam wa rahmutallah wa baraktuh
For men:
- Deen (taqwa), modesty, beauty, youth, fertility, nurturing, caring & obedient
For women:
- Deen (taqwa), strong character, decisiveness, height, physical strength/muscle, good finances
There were poor sahaba, who got married. I think if a man can work in this day and age, even if it's not a well paid job. If such a man is pious and has good character then they shouldn't be turned down for marriage.
Like like and like . Jazakallahu khairan
Family system broken everywhere,
radical approach required to counter this!
There is a new term 'Sigma male',
if one is striving to be good Muslim, he is way ahead of this alpha, beta, sigma etc. game/race.
Looks pay a big role for anyone
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته
Indeed, it's like everything is being well planned. The conspiracy theory has convincing proofs, people should just look and be honest.
May Allah guide us through this wordly journey.
Please make me a moderator next time Insha Allah
Aside from dua what could a person do to call/convince their cultural confused spouse to the correct manhaj?
What helped me was educating myself about aqeedah. For example there is a really nice book by Dr. Bilal Philips called fundamentals of tawheed
i am an Arab and if any man praises my wife's beauty i would straight knock him down no questions asked
Te iubesc brother
'Someone currently not wearing hijab', give her a small task towards that direction, see how truthful the person is.
Don't drag it long, keep it short, if your *heart is content* go for it!
2:48 😂😂😂 The pple are in COVID time and there is nothing to do that is why 😂😂😂
What about a husband prays etc but doesn't change his ways , what can a wife do
'Compatibility' is overstated.
Two people trying to please Alllah (SWT) is compatible, regardless backgrounds.
Different backgrounds require some adjustments to make but there are many wow factors to learn from and grow...
People of Makka never had problem marring people of Madina due to 'cultural compatibility'.
We live in a global village now, many things common.
If Allah(SWT) destined otherwise, it would be successful!!!
Not tru
@@hm9825
Thank you for telling us the truth.
One week is more than enough, one meeting is sufficient, just have the mindset to make it work at any cost.
The more you
meet,
the more questions there will be!
Do not open
the pandora's box.
Be clear of
what you want,
take time- settle it in *one meeting.*
Bad advice
Brother Gabriel ,why don't you make a series of videos about the topics below , collaborating with youtuber ,Farhat Amin , who has written a book about this topic, marriage. She asks and you answer.
1- How does islamic way of marriage process run ? Asking a wali , etc.
2- What kinds of rights do men and women islamically have during this process , before the marriage ? Do we have to marry the person we first meet ? Do we have to have a wali every time we talk?
3- What kinds of rights do men and women islamically have during the marriage ? Okay , we re married and now what are my rights , as a man or as a woman ?
4 - How does prophet Muhammad treat her wives ?
a - in terms of having conversations, activities, etc. - People tend to think that religious people are boring ,but we do know that the Prophet was a very active person. Remember his running race with his wife Aisha in the street.
b - concerning having a sexual intercourse. - I am especially asking that because religious people tend not to talk about sex but it leads to , really weird and sad to say, both sexless marriages and porn and toys or zina. Also, no one on this planet can claim that they re more religious than the Prophet ,which would sound utterly stupid.
5 - At the end of the videos, you can also advise books ,related to the topics above, for viewers to read.
6 - Extra topic, what kinds of obstacle do single people have before the marriage ? Farhat amin says that people tend to marry someone from their own tribe. For instance, one problem is that the saudi parents want a saudi candidate ,or the pakistani parents want a pakistani candidate. Another issue is that people tend not to want to see reverts as a candidate, which is crazy cos reverts search for the truth and decide to become muslim ,but born muslims do not want them. I seriously did not know that racism was so widespread among the ummah.
Environment 'may have' temporary effects, doesn't change the real you- Prophet Yousuf (a).
'Someone not leaving social media', why did you marry him in the first place for?
Those who have no faith will follow the commandments of the Creature OF the Earth rather than Allah.
زوّج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم ابنته فاطمة من ابن عم أبيها علي بن أبي طالب ، وتزويجه ابنته زينب من ابن خالتها أبي العاص بن الربيع
Marriang cousin is ok, Prophet(s) showed it once, that's good enough, no need to look for 'whether recommended'.
Even marring own sibling was ok (Habil,Kabil), now it is not because Allah(SWT) has withdrawn that custom.
What Allah(SWT) has ordained, find infatuations in that, forget the current social constructs.
'Low confidence', do your *morning evening adhkars!*
Situational questions will never ending.
Question for potential spouse-
*Where do you want to get to?*
*How do you want to get there?*
*What are the challenges?*
Regarding the wife who didn’t want to have kids yet. You said if the husband wants kids it’s his right. But isn’t it also her right to decide when to have them too. Why is his right prioritised in this situation ?
**ALERT ALERT**FEMINIST IDEAS DETECTED
But all jokes aside why does a husbands have to provide for his family? Doesnt he have the right to decide what he does with his money? Why are the wife and child rights to his finance put ahead of his discreation in this situation?
EASY ANSWER BECAUSE THE ALL KNOWING,MOST JUST, THE WELL AQUINTED COMMANDED US TO. Be the definition of a muslimah. Submit ur will to ur creator. Dont let someone who doesnt even know how to wipe their bums tell u what ur rights are. Not saying u r a feminist, but that was a very familiar question if u know what i mean. May Allah grant us understanding and obidience ameen. Keep steadfast sister i know u can do it👍
@@smeshcel3025 I get your point but she can take his feelings into consideration and they can reach a mutual agreement. It is not Islamic to force someone to do something against their will either.
@@sammyz4eva u arent forcing if she doesnt comply after trying to explain and maybe having a sheikh speak to her and trying to get her family to convince her then u just divorce her. Just because she isnt giving u her right doesnt mean u put a gun to her head. Just means she aint the one
@@sammyz4eva and it isnt a matter of mutual agreemwnt it is what is one of the main objectives of marriage that Allah stipulated for us. Unless there is a dier need illness,danger etc then there is no justification that can be made period
Work after marriage?
Make home your thriving workplace for others to flourish.
Support if really necessary.
“What are husbands soposed to do for a wife”
@It doesn't Matters thank you, we were just discussing lack of respect or awareness in regards to emotional well-being.
Many cultures ignore the sensitivity and emotional cycles (why women can not be at the top politically ect ) women go through such ignorance is damaging!
Then we have the Bollywood inspired sisters that have overentitled bad attitudes wanting more more more yet have low standards of provision themselves
Gaming?
Move to coding instead.
Remember priorities.
Everytime muslims have to justify every curse agains them. Stop stop
This was not the behavior of MOHAMED sws