@@kevinsamson1693 who set those standards so easy for y'all to totally forget the pressure women are put through but yourself above to say women are picky like its so simple
I mean of course she's weirded out Society is literally inherently negative so given the fact that toxic relationships have always been normalized it's going to trigger that it's too good to be true feeling when she finally finds a person who meets her standards
@@robertoglencoco7861 she already took accountability in the video did she not? Like yes clearly she’s got screws missing but like that’s about it. Yall need to calm down fr😭
@littlemayo7136 At no point, in your rambling, did you even come close to expressing a coherent thought. Everyone here is dumber for having read it. I award you no points And my god have mercy on your soul.
My number one thing with the whole men v women dating nonsense, is the generalizations people make. Even more than that are the people who then go on to interact with people based off of other people's generalizations. When you're dating, date the human being before you for who they are. When you do end up experiencing someone crappy don't go and project that on the next person and if you find yourself projecting, please take the time to check in with yourself, so that you're not out here hurting people.
True I agree, but I think there is something to be said about people who don’t know themselves who require a lot from other people before they understand what they actually want. Both men and women do it. I think this woman provides an extreme example of what A LOT of people do when it comes to relationships. I don’t think this woman’s situation is a complete wash, in terms of a lesson for others to learn
@@Rob1Esco you're right because you don't know until you know. I wish people would give themselves and the other person grace when it comes to the point of realizing that this particular person does not work well with me in a relationship. Which I know, is easier said than done. My relationship ended horribly and it took time to just step back and look at it from an objective standpoint when it came to that particular person and myself and how and why we came to the ending we did. I do kind of pride myself on not becoming so jaded that I start thinking all men are one way because that's unfair and limiting for myself.
you can still acknowledge the man experience without making generalizations, it's only with women that yall will cancel a man experience but when something happens to women yall make generalizations.
@@kevinsamson1693I’m not 100% sure of how that correlates, but I’m not really here to change anyone’s mind. I’m just another nobody on the internet lol.
It’s like people are trying to end up alone. As humans we have to realize that we are not perfect and while there may be certain deal breakers that are fine. I think people can sometimes get to picky and end up shootings themselves in the foot.
@@kevinsamson1693 it’s really not. Its not good to go around in life generalizing, because it makes you prejudiced to people you might not even know yet. It s unfortunate that some men get called names for doing certain things, but that’s not all women and I think it’s important to make that distinction.
Some of the women just NEED to have something to complain about. Aint no damn way she would have been happy if ol dude said “Hey let’s go for a walk on our first date”. She would be on here complaining about how he’s a bum and don’t wanna pay for dinner.
As a women myself I was so confused by the title and thought “nahh this can’t be real” like I would love to come across a man like that she just describe. She is a weirdo and I hope gentlemen stay far away from her. She wants a gangster and it’s sad asf.
I’m so tired of ALL THESE REQUIREMENTS to be with somebody! But I’m really tired of these butthurt boys putting all women in the same boat! Like I’m over it & this toxic internet.
You right fr, coz why do we (including me) generalize everything like we have lived so many experiences when in reality we haven’t and we just be talking out our asses to get by.
So you need to first meet every person of a demographic to hold a belief on them? So for example you're gonna wait unitl you meet the 60 million plus hispanics in the US in order to hold any beliefs on them? Dee is stupid, we humans make generelizations on groups because were never in our lifetime gonna even come close to meeting even 1 percent of the population of any group. The vast majority of times we need to make conclusions we only have small amounts of data available to work with.
They really are, why would any conversation with a woman you’re interested in start like that? You believe in the gender war but still want a wife and kids in the future? It just doesn’t make since to me.
@@elvisvasquez7553 Hey…. Uhm I like to be polite because I don’t know you. Have a nice day/night. ❤️ Cause I’m not doing this with none of you people 😇
I agree we shouldn't generalize. My problem with the whole situation is women have been generalizing men for the longest. Now that women are getting some push back its a problem or all men who agree with some of these points are demonized as incels. Its ok you are not perfect ladies its called constructive criticism.
How many women are generalizing or men? Ive never met one IN REAL LIFE, GO OUTSIDE. There is 150 MILLION women in USA This whole generalizing la la land exists only online
@@mikko3 GROW UP and learn how to have conversation. Although we shouldn't generalize most people do. We get statistics from numbers and then we can make a generalization based off of the numbers. If you went out and asked black people if they thought cops are racists do you think a majority would say yes? Just because you don't experience the problem doesn't mean it doesn't exist how arrogant of you. I'm not starving that doesn't mean world hunger doesn't exists. Get over yourself.
It's ironic that you claim we shouldn't generalize while accusing ladies of not being perfect. Men, on the other hand are not perfect either... and I say this as a man. Nobody is and never will be perfect. I also believe you have everything mixed up... For the longest time, males have generalized about women. I'm curious how long you've been thinking. Because I've been pondering for a long time, thousands of years. Back when males stereotyped women as 'witches,' women were later labeled as 'weak' and insufficient. It's crazy how women had to live with being shamed for lifetimes (they still are, as do men), but now that some women are pushing back on some men, it's become a major issue.
I'm not on the red pil train, but why is it acceptable to cancel a man experience? When a black woman meet a black man that ain't shit yall don't say " well that's only a few black men who are like that" I don't like when women try to act like they don't know what men be talking about. If we gonna care about what happens when women are dating we have to also care about the men experiences too.
The issue here is that individuals who tarnish the reputation of relationships and dating are given prominent exposure, making their behavior seem like the norm and acceptable.
Men aren't mind readers, if a woman is different in what she likes in date outings she should say it. That's a part of two people getting to know each other.
too respectfully? first women want a man that super respectful now it’s “he’s too respectful”..even as a female i don’t understand this wishy washy logic at all
You listened to one woman and now you based everything around her. "first women want a man that super respectful now" who is "women". So every woman wants super respectful and now they dont want to because one girl said so?
It’s not too respectful, it’s too nice. Too much of a push over. No spine, no sign of leadership Woman want a guy who’s not gonna sit down to pee but stand for something. Too nice means he would tell you what you want to hear not what you need to hear.
Dee that war is not imaginary, many if not most men go through this shit, that situation is very common mostly in our community. You women gonna have to acknowledge this at one point
@@kevinsamson1693 no it not, and that’s your story💀I don’t know ppl in real life that cry over hair transplants. But projection from your experience makes it okay to generalize? Bc if we are, I can say we’ll all y’all men kill women bc they simply reject you bc a girl my moms friends daughter was murdered by a man bc he couldn’t have her. Is that fair?
I will say one point she made was “all that we say we want we really don’t want.” Yes for many people. People want familiarity not necessarily healthy. For example, men say they want a good girl who is a virgin that doesn’t sleep around and isn’t easy and is housewife material. But when they get one they expect her to have sex with them within THIER time limit. Like if she followed that she wouldn’t be the girl you’re talking about 😂
see like with this Virgin example, off of just basic logic cus it always made sense to me i always knew that so it don’t apply to specifically me. BUT, i can’t deny that a lot of other men dooo think like that whether it’s conscious or unconsciously. idk y others can’t accept that generalizations like u just said isn’t true for thoseee type of niggas. cus it is, there’s plenty of em out there and there’s plenty of em that dont
Fellas if u trynna understand women just let em talk. Thats literally all u have to do. Listen to them then believe them. Dont attack women. But just listen. Just like dee rant at the end, its alot u can tell just by what she said .
yea bruh u just gotta literally let them talk & pay attention to what’s said, how it’s said, the frame of mind it’s said in, etc etc.. usually off first convos with someone new if you use that time to smoothly pick their brain & ask the right questions you’ll have everything you need to know. 1-2 30+ min convos at max
The dude was ugly, that’s why she felt like he was weird. If he was attractive to her, she would’ve liked what he was doing from the start. That’s my opinion.
I feel like people need to ignore people that get online with their feelings bashing the opposite sex. It seems to be doing more harm in a lot of cases. For some it is very tough dating so there is a need for some of this but not to this degree.
Everybody makes generalizations. Also, it is wise to remember that generalizations are easier to make when one has extensive experience with something such as…dating🤷🏽♂️
@@kevinsamson1693 so does your experience count for the rest of the strangers you’re gonna meet out there? Are they gonna be the same people you came across when you got a manicure and hairline transplant? Everyone is different is what I’m trying to say and you’re not always gonna have the same experience with everyone you meet. If men and women would stop generalizing and start actually communicating with one another we could see the connection we desire.
@@Fatcat-ss6nh Then how the hell would we have any beliefs and thus make any decisions? Not making generalizations is one of those things that sounds good in theory only. Because in practise we cant possibly meet every women in the world.
i think low and agent generalize everything because the side of the internet they’re on is everything they say in these videos. cause i know me personally on twitter i see all the shit they talking about and see thousands of girls agreeing with the fucked up shit, but i also see women that have a good head on they shoulders and don’t condone any of the shit and call out the weird women they speak of.
wen it’s about shit like this i promise u tbey only talking about most of thoseee type of women/men lmao on some “ if the shoe fits “ type shit.. niggas clearly know that obviously ALLLL women/or men aren’t fitting into one type of category or characteristic.
She was weirded out which makes sense most bad things are normalized Which is why I always find it ironic when people use weird negatively given the fact that most things that are good or rare to come by and are painted as being too good to be true and make people uncomfortable So instinctively people will go to self-sabotage situations or find any excuse to leave them because they are uncomfortable because they are too good to be true
Do people actually got a checklist? Like Does he open the car door? Check Does she use makeup ? Check Does he pay on our date? Check Does he follow Andrew Tate or James Charles? Check I really wanna date someone but these kinda things turn me off. I want a relationship without the mental gymnastics and psychological maneuvers.
Actually, there's a study done that you yourself can read that western women killed chivalry and one of the reasons was because they didn't actually want it to begin with. So it's not just based off her, but thousands of other women with different backgrounds too.
Heteros, yall gotta start communicating. The gender war is only on yalls side💀💀💀 I personally don't like the sit down at a restaurant typa thing cuz...the anxiety be real but I just communicate that. It aint hard. And I'm tired of Playback thinking 1 woman's experience is everyone's. There are BILLIONs of women out here. Literally who hurt Playback cuz they stay doin this to women and women only💀
I think what she wants is genuine actions, some guys just do performative stuff like flowers and all that but you can tell its not genuine from the heart, im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt here really I suppose
I think playback has had a decent amount of videos on what men do wrong and they bring up some extreme example but still it usually makes sense and I think the same applies when they do it for women a lot of men mess up and a lot of women mess up i don’t think they are catering to one audience in my opinion
@@kevinsamson1693 yeah but people get trigged I never understood that people call men sassy all the time for doing regular things and we usually don’t say anything but when we call them out for spending money for them to just call us weird we are the problem idk it’s weird and when we try to use our voice we are starting a war but hey it is what it is
If she tired of the old first date routine of going out to eat at a restaurant than tell the guy that she want to do others things. Guys are not mind reader.
Titles don't generalize everyone. When it says "men this this this" or "women this this this" there are talking about a significant number of people who do these things. The reality is there are enough number of women who act this way that its relevant to speak on. Obviously not everyone acts the same. If someone don't fit the description then okay but vouching for the women in general as if there aren't any who act delusional and unappreciative is false.
is it just me or do these guys get more and more hateful and ignorant with every video? in my eyes she said nothing wrong, she was treated in a way she wasn't used to, wasn't sure how to react to it and brushed it off that's very normal in my eyes you can't just expect someone to just be 100% on board with something they are unfamiliar with. I would have been side eyeing this guy too if that's not what I'm used to yeah she didn't make 100% sense with everything she said but they like to pick and choose words and use that as their whole argument, they latched onto the word "corny" so hard this video
I honestly only remember one or two(?) videos of theirs that Dee reacted to, and in which I felt they made sense and/or were likable. They constantly acting ignorant and misconstrue most points purposefully. They just love acting dumb, and I'm surprised Dee still puts up with their bs and keeps reacting to their videos
@NaimTaha exactly, I mean only see their videos when I watch dee and personally despite how they are like dee I am interested to hear others opinions on things and that's why I watch her videos on them and she usually calls their bullshit out too which I like. but yeah they are just so ignorant and the blame seems to be on everyone but themselves particularly women it seems,
Yeahhhh she wasn’t making much sense but they should have came from a place of understanding and acceptance rather than mockery and dissection, it’s literally natural for women to see men who kinda act like squares and do everything to be corny. Chaos is the spice of life. When you do everything as it “should be done” that gets predictable and boring, which leads to cheating
This comment is very lacking in awareness. They watched a video and made a commentary on the woman in the video which Dee even agreed was accurate. It’s funny that today nowadays men make commentary videos being critical of women and it’s hateful but all those years and all those women talk shows hating on men were ok and no one cared. These are also content creators. Their job is to produce content that people will watch and consume. Making a commentary on a video dosnt make you a hateful person. People need to relax and stop being so selective
Dee I think you took that wrong low said females are all different. So they should help guide the man into what they actually like and don’t like. He worded it bad 😂😂😂
@@kevinsamson1693 I’m not saying it is or isn’t my guy. I was just saying what Low meant. Some ladies like a man to get pedicures some don’t you just gotta find the one for you. It’s no rules or guidelines to it if it was no one would be single. That’s just how it is. That’s what makes finding the one feel better. I personally don’t value things in life that come to me easy. The more I work the better it feels when I get any goal
Flowers coast 25 dollars open a door and showing interest is free. If you can’t do that you shouldn’t even be on a date. I thought they was finna say something crazy 😂. Sound like she use to being treated like a thot and accepted it
Why buy flowers and take a woman who hasn’t earned it to dinner? She ain’t used to being treated like a thot, she’s use to dealing with winners not losers who give her shit just for what’s between her legs. She’s use to a man leading, making her blush, smile, think, flirting. Nowhere did we hear of him having any mouthpiece, charisma, charm or smoothness to how he carries himself. He’d rather have his flowers and dinner talk for him😂😂😂that’s a loser
I hear generalisations aren’t really and good me myself I’m trying to break that habit. But let’s not act like everybody isn’t a victim of this in one way or another. You’ve probably generalised without even noticing or subconsciously
People who dont live on the internet dont usually generalize because they see multiple individuals daily and they are all different. This shit only happens online, people see a Karen video and they think every white woman hates black people and is out for them or sees crime video where black people are stealing and think black people out here just stealing
yeah so like what if he’s the type of guy that does it on every day and is like “oh so they do like this” but she just happened to be a girl that’s not used to that, just too ppl not on the same level is how i see it, all men and woman aren’t on the same page
Just because your mom says you should take her to dinner, buy her flowers, open the door, and throw your jacket over a puddle it doesn’t mean you should😂 that’s setting you up for failure. He looks corny, weird, and thirsty because he’s doing all this for a woman who hasn’t earned it. Mothers deserve flowers and a nice dinner before a woman you just met.
When shorty said she want to go to a museum I knew she was not on her own timing what type of people or environment setting you think you deserve to b around when you admit openly you want nothing you really want ? Smh walking contradiction head ah
Thing is Dee that most women that respect that type of man at home with their man not sitting around talking about how 'weird' a stand up guy is. She is a weirdo and confusing. But Playback need to understand 1 woman isn't all women.
It is kinda corny to give flowers and open doors when u very first meet somebody, she probably was thinking "i barely know you i dont deserve all this niceness", women wanna earn that ish
Hey Ms Dee, how you doing? listen. This is what we wanted back in the eighties and nineties this is what new edition and Keith sweat and Bobby Brown were singing about back in the'80s and 90s. Being a gentleman without being completely clingy and overwhelming is where it's at. Tell these young girls to get some Gen X in them😂😂😂 Gentlemen this little girl does not represent all of womankind. She is as confusing as a left turn downtown. Maybe she shouldn't even date until she grows the hell up.😅
Dee ur thinking “oh they’re taking one girl & saying all women” but ur forgetting the likes, comments, reposts & responses of hundreds of thousands of women condoning & supporting this. We see all of it, we’re not just hearing her & it’s coming from the horses mouth To answer ur question about why dissecting video on her when she don’t know what she’s talking about is cause to us men(who are actively dating) & women who really know…SHES NOT RARE or an outlier. Many women think how she thinks & move how she moves. One thing I find in similar in women who don’t believe many women are like her is that they’re maybe not & their small group of girlfriends aren’t so y’all assume all women are like y’all but y’all aren’t out here actively dating y’all so y’all really don’t know what we experience on a daily worth. Last response since I just finished the video, Dee men aren’t making large generalizations, women are & were listening & repeating what y’all, say, show & post that’s all
dats facts bruh. even with men it’s a lot of bad shit that i can’t relate to but im not gonna deny and act like it’s not some wild ass men that don’t be doin the certain things women claim they do lol. i just don’t personally know all the time cus i don’t date men, so i clearly wouldn’t know too much
All due respect, no, one woman doesn't represent the 8 billion people on this earth, but remember that includes men, children, and all races/cultures. But there are not 8 billions blk women in the US. Most of these videos are a fair representation of blk modern women in the US only, which is not 8 billion women. I will say that these gender war videos are meant to divide blk people because we are the only ones feeding these agendas. Instead of us getting to know each other as blk people and imperfect human beings, we create these videos to indirectly talk and degrade each other, sadly. 80% of blk kids are born to single blk mothers, there is something wrong in our community so these "Wars" do talk truth somewhat.
Words cant express how much i hate the gender wars😭 pls let this be over 2024
Facts
@@kevinsamson1693 who set those standards so easy for y'all to totally forget the pressure women are put through but yourself above to say women are picky like its so simple
I hate it so much jeezus
It wont because theres too many toxic people in both genders out here hurting people and making them bitter
Never gonna happen unfortunately 😂
So, she expressed her standards.. the minute she gets a guy who meets the standards, she goes “he’s weird”? Nah, more like she’s weird in my opinion.
I mean of course she's weirded out Society is literally inherently negative so given the fact that toxic relationships have always been normalized it's going to trigger that it's too good to be true feeling when she finally finds a person who meets her standards
@@littlemayo7136and here comes you with the lack of accountability 😂😂😂
@@robertoglencoco7861 she already took accountability in the video did she not? Like yes clearly she’s got screws missing but like that’s about it. Yall need to calm down fr😭
@littlemayo7136 At no point, in your rambling, did you even come close to expressing a coherent thought. Everyone here is dumber for having read it. I award you no points
And my god have mercy on your soul.
@@jessariianelson9521 I believe that person was referencing someone else, when mentioning the lack of accountability. Not the woman in the video
My number one thing with the whole men v women dating nonsense, is the generalizations people make. Even more than that are the people who then go on to interact with people based off of other people's generalizations. When you're dating, date the human being before you for who they are. When you do end up experiencing someone crappy don't go and project that on the next person and if you find yourself projecting, please take the time to check in with yourself, so that you're not out here hurting people.
True I agree, but I think there is something to be said about people who don’t know themselves who require a lot from other people before they understand what they actually want. Both men and women do it. I think this woman provides an extreme example of what A LOT of people do when it comes to relationships. I don’t think this woman’s situation is a complete wash, in terms of a lesson for others to learn
@@Rob1Esco you're right because you don't know until you know. I wish people would give themselves and the other person grace when it comes to the point of realizing that this particular person does not work well with me in a relationship. Which I know, is easier said than done. My relationship ended horribly and it took time to just step back and look at it from an objective standpoint when it came to that particular person and myself and how and why we came to the ending we did. I do kind of pride myself on not becoming so jaded that I start thinking all men are one way because that's unfair and limiting for myself.
you can still acknowledge the man experience without making generalizations, it's only with women that yall will cancel a man experience but when something happens to women yall make generalizations.
@@jalenwinstead9981your comment does not apply to me so I really don’t have anything to add
@@kevinsamson1693I’m not 100% sure of how that correlates, but I’m not really here to change anyone’s mind. I’m just another nobody on the internet lol.
Thank you Dee. Honestly seeing these videos be having me thinking folks is all crazy out here so its nice to hear your perspective
It’s like people are trying to end up alone. As humans we have to realize that we are not perfect and while there may be certain deal breakers that are fine. I think people can sometimes get to picky and end up shootings themselves in the foot.
@@kevinsamson1693 it’s really not. Its not good to go around in life generalizing, because it makes you prejudiced to people you might not even know yet. It s unfortunate that some men get called names for doing certain things, but that’s not all women and I think it’s important to make that distinction.
Going to the gym on a first date is crazyyy😂
trying to get that 'pump' in
@@bleepbloop7039 lol shit crazy out there in the dating world
I wouldn't mind honestly if both of you guys love working out
@blakesilvermark1 I love going to the gym but not as a date especially a first date hell no 😂
Some of the women just NEED to have something to complain about. Aint no damn way she would have been happy if ol dude said “Hey let’s go for a walk on our first date”. She would be on here complaining about how he’s a bum and don’t wanna pay for dinner.
That's all women know how to do anymore 💯
As a women myself I was so confused by the title and thought “nahh this can’t be real” like I would love to come across a man like that she just describe. She is a weirdo and I hope gentlemen stay far away from her. She wants a gangster and it’s sad asf.
And men too.
@@meh458Men too, but women seem a little more out of hand especially of the dating scene and divorces that come up.
I’m so tired of ALL THESE REQUIREMENTS to be with somebody! But I’m really tired of these butthurt boys putting all women in the same boat! Like I’m over it & this toxic internet.
Women be putting men in the same boat all the time now they know how we feel
@@hueyfreeman6262 Are you even real? 🤣
🙄yea cause women don’t do that….
You right fr, coz why do we (including me) generalize everything like we have lived so many experiences when in reality we haven’t and we just be talking out our asses to get by.
So you need to first meet every person of a demographic to hold a belief on them? So for example you're gonna wait unitl you meet the 60 million plus hispanics in the US in order to hold any beliefs on them?
Dee is stupid, we humans make generelizations on groups because were never in our lifetime gonna even come close to meeting even 1 percent of the population of any group. The vast majority of times we need to make conclusions we only have small amounts of data available to work with.
If I start dating again and a man tells me “women don’t-“ anything I’m out. These gender wars are wack asf…. And POINTLESS!
They really are, why would any conversation with a woman you’re interested in start like that? You believe in the gender war but still want a wife and kids in the future? It just doesn’t make since to me.
@@elvisvasquez7553 Hey…. Uhm I like to be polite because I don’t know you. Have a nice day/night. ❤️
Cause I’m not doing this with none of you people 😇
I just said this a while ago, playback sometimes don’t know what they talking about lol
I agree we shouldn't generalize. My problem with the whole situation is women have been generalizing men for the longest. Now that women are getting some push back its a problem or all men who agree with some of these points are demonized as incels. Its ok you are not perfect ladies its called constructive criticism.
How many women are generalizing or men? Ive never met one IN REAL LIFE, GO OUTSIDE. There is 150 MILLION women in USA
This whole generalizing la la land exists only online
@@mikko3 GROW UP and learn how to have conversation. Although we shouldn't generalize most people do. We get statistics from numbers and then we can make a generalization based off of the numbers. If you went out and asked black people if they thought cops are racists do you think a majority would say yes? Just because you don't experience the problem doesn't mean it doesn't exist how arrogant of you. I'm not starving that doesn't mean world hunger doesn't exists. Get over yourself.
It's ironic that you claim we shouldn't generalize while accusing ladies of not being perfect. Men, on the other hand are not perfect either... and I say this as a man. Nobody is and never will be perfect. I also believe you have everything mixed up... For the longest time, males have generalized about women. I'm curious how long you've been thinking. Because I've been pondering for a long time, thousands of years. Back when males stereotyped women as 'witches,' women were later labeled as 'weak' and insufficient. It's crazy how women had to live with being shamed for lifetimes (they still are, as do men), but now that some women are pushing back on some men, it's become a major issue.
@@neptune-fg6mq6wo2o your not a man.
She was gorgeous until she opened her mouth. I mean she still is but you know what I mean 😂
I look at it like everyone has an opinion but ill still take dee thicc ahh downnnn ong
That's most women 💯
@@dylancn and most men 💯
@@dylancnthis generalization smh
I'm not on the red pil train, but why is it acceptable to cancel a man experience? When a black woman meet a black man that ain't shit yall don't say " well that's only a few black men who are like that" I don't like when women try to act like they don't know what men be talking about. If we gonna care about what happens when women are dating we have to also care about the men experiences too.
So glad I’m not a yall 😂
The issue here is that individuals who tarnish the reputation of relationships and dating are given prominent exposure, making their behavior seem like the norm and acceptable.
Men aren't mind readers, if a woman is different in what she
likes in date outings she should say it. That's a part of two people getting to know each other.
Playback has gotten on my nerves for the last few videos so 😭 I'm over seeing them tbh
What has playback done to get on your nerves lmao. And in this specific video they didn't say a single thing that was wrong
@@NavTD03 that is your opinion :)
@@dantecee1875 nothing logical to offer just wanna spread your negativity nothing new with y'all 😭😭
@@dantecee1875 and no it's not my opinion objectively they ain't say nothing wrong in this video
@@NavTD03 to you
too respectfully? first women want a man that super respectful now it’s “he’s too respectful”..even as a female i don’t understand this wishy washy logic at all
You listened to one woman and now you based everything around her. "first women want a man that super respectful now" who is "women". So every woman wants super respectful and now they dont want to because one girl said so?
It’s not too respectful, it’s too nice. Too much of a push over. No spine, no sign of leadership Woman want a guy who’s not gonna sit down to pee but stand for something. Too nice means he would tell you what you want to hear not what you need to hear.
Dee that war is not imaginary, many if not most men go through this shit, that situation is very common mostly in our community. You women gonna have to acknowledge this at one point
No it’s imaginary like she said, go outside touch grass is my recommendation for you
You right
@@kevinsamson1693 no it not, and that’s your story💀I don’t know ppl in real life that cry over hair transplants. But projection from your experience makes it okay to generalize? Bc if we are, I can say we’ll all y’all men kill women bc they simply reject you bc a girl my moms friends daughter was murdered by a man bc he couldn’t have her. Is that fair?
@jessariianelson9521 talking to women outside still the same as listening to them on the internet the way they think doesn't change.
@@dylancn it does you would know if you actually socialize with one🩵enjoy being bitter tho🤷♀️
See Dee you be keeping me grounded with your reactions & takes on dating
EXTREMELY intelligent & down to earth woman ❤
Lmao she the same as all these other women.
I will say one point she made was “all that we say we want we really don’t want.” Yes for many people. People want familiarity not necessarily healthy.
For example, men say they want a good girl who is a virgin that doesn’t sleep around and isn’t easy and is housewife material. But when they get one they expect her to have sex with them within THIER time limit. Like if she followed that she wouldn’t be the girl you’re talking about 😂
@@kevinsamson1693 men should 100% take care of their nails and hair just like women do. It’s simple hygiene.
@@kevinsamson1693 but I get what you are saying. Even tho it doesn’t relate to my comment 😂 and I agree with you.
see like with this Virgin example, off of just basic logic cus it always made sense to me i always knew that so it don’t apply to specifically me.
BUT, i can’t deny that a lot of other men dooo think like that whether it’s conscious or unconsciously. idk y others can’t accept that generalizations like u just said isn’t true for thoseee type of niggas. cus it is, there’s plenty of em out there and there’s plenty of em that dont
Fellas if u trynna understand women just let em talk. Thats literally all u have to do. Listen to them then believe them. Dont attack women. But just listen. Just like dee rant at the end, its alot u can tell just by what she said .
yea bruh u just gotta literally let them talk & pay attention to what’s said, how it’s said, the frame of mind it’s said in, etc etc..
usually off first convos with someone new if you use that time to smoothly pick their brain & ask the right questions you’ll have everything you need to know. 1-2 30+ min convos at max
The dude was ugly, that’s why she felt like he was weird. If he was attractive to her, she would’ve liked what he was doing from the start. That’s my opinion.
I feel like people need to ignore people that get online with their feelings bashing the opposite sex. It seems to be doing more harm in a lot of cases. For some it is very tough dating so there is a need for some of this but not to this degree.
The women are different, but they don’t know how to tell the man what makes them different. I didn’t think that was hard to follow.
Not bum ass!!! 😂😂😂
Dee be going in!
People online are crazy.
Dee speaking facts at the end 😂💯
Everybody makes generalizations. Also, it is wise to remember that generalizations are easier to make when one has extensive experience with something such as…dating🤷🏽♂️
There’s nothing wise about generalizing when you know absolutely nothing about the rest of the population.
@@kevinsamson1693 so does your experience count for the rest of the strangers you’re gonna meet out there? Are they gonna be the same people you came across when you got a manicure and hairline transplant? Everyone is different is what I’m trying to say and you’re not always gonna have the same experience with everyone you meet. If men and women would stop generalizing and start actually communicating with one another we could see the connection we desire.
@@Fatcat-ss6nh Then how the hell would we have any beliefs and thus make any decisions? Not making generalizations is one of those things that sounds good in theory only. Because in practise we cant possibly meet every women in the world.
@@rgonzalo511 How did people survive before internet? You couldnt generalize because you didnt have access to millions of people
@@mikko3 Before the internet ALL we did was generelize
i think low and agent generalize everything because the side of the internet they’re on is everything they say in these videos. cause i know me personally on twitter i see all the shit they talking about and see thousands of girls agreeing with the fucked up shit, but i also see women that have a good head on they shoulders and don’t condone any of the shit and call out the weird women they speak of.
wen it’s about shit like this i promise u tbey only talking about most of thoseee type of women/men lmao
on some “ if the shoe fits “ type shit.. niggas clearly know that obviously ALLLL women/or men aren’t fitting into one type of category or characteristic.
I hate when people take something a person from any community says or does and make it sound like the whole community thinks or believes this way.
I’m too high for this, sounds like Dee and low are playing mental chess in this episode
She was weirded out which makes sense most bad things are normalized
Which is why I always find it ironic when people use weird negatively given the fact that most things that are good or rare to come by and are painted as being too good to be true and make people uncomfortable
So instinctively people will go to self-sabotage situations or find any excuse to leave them because they are uncomfortable because they are too good to be true
You can tell she was just chatting. She just happy to have a camera and a microphone in her face 😂
I can never take these guys seriously
Dee: ok guys wrap it up lol😂
Everyone has standards male or female
How tf is this a standard? You’re too polite?
Dumb standards
And anyone’s standards can be unrealistic or unreasonable
Facts. And people fail to realize standards aren’t the issue, unrealistic and inconsistent standards are.
Do people actually got a checklist? Like
Does he open the car door? Check
Does she use makeup ? Check
Does he pay on our date? Check
Does he follow Andrew Tate or James Charles? Check
I really wanna date someone but these kinda things turn me off. I want a relationship without the mental gymnastics and psychological maneuvers.
Leave it to Dee to keep it 💯
I love Dee so much bro 😂 she be having me dying
Your laugh is as joyful as ever ☺️
That list of of places of where not to take women on a first date gave hilarious content and I knew the response list would come
"That list of of places of where not to take THAT WOMAN"
The words "most," and "all" are different. General statements are general for a reason. Stereotypes are that way for a reason.
The guy sitting next to agent seems like he gets rejected a lot lol
He cheated on his girl like 4 times so probably not
@@kc87557 yikes
This gotta be some cointelpro type stuff 😂 these disagreements don't seem organic to me.
Not cointelpro lol. You might be on to something tho 👀
@@airamakknom Just a big ass brainwashing operation lmao nasty work man
Actually, there's a study done that you yourself can read that western women killed chivalry and one of the reasons was because they didn't actually want it to begin with. So it's not just based off her, but thousands of other women with different backgrounds too.
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Heteros, yall gotta start communicating. The gender war is only on yalls side💀💀💀 I personally don't like the sit down at a restaurant typa thing cuz...the anxiety be real but I just communicate that. It aint hard. And I'm tired of Playback thinking 1 woman's experience is everyone's. There are BILLIONs of women out here. Literally who hurt Playback cuz they stay doin this to women and women only💀
just be quietly gay, thanks. literally not a hetero or homo thing sorry.
That's social media period though
Nah, they do this to men, too.
Cause you alphabet freaks got enough issues to sort out between yalln
I hate when yall act like men who do these types of videos only talk about one gender. Playback has been talking about both genders for a while.
I think what she wants is genuine actions, some guys just do performative stuff like flowers and all that but you can tell its not genuine from the heart, im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt here really I suppose
I think playback has had a decent amount of videos on what men do wrong and they bring up some extreme example but still it usually makes sense and I think the same applies when they do it for women a lot of men mess up and a lot of women mess up i don’t think they are catering to one audience in my opinion
@@kevinsamson1693 yeah but people get trigged I never understood that people call men sassy all the time for doing regular things and we usually don’t say anything but when we call them out for spending money for them to just call us weird we are the problem idk it’s weird and when we try to use our voice we are starting a war but hey it is what it is
agree with dee, women like her only rep a certain flock of women, not all women are like that
If she tired of the old first date routine of going out to eat at a restaurant than tell the guy that she want to do others things. Guys are not mind reader.
Agree with you Dee!
agree, gender videos is soo outplayed, NOT everyone is like that, everyday people not like that,
Titles don't generalize everyone. When it says "men this this this" or "women this this this" there are talking about a significant number of people who do these things. The reality is there are enough number of women who act this way that its relevant to speak on. Obviously not everyone acts the same. If someone don't fit the description then okay but vouching for the women in general as if there aren't any who act delusional and unappreciative is false.
What is significant amount? There is 150 million women in USA, 1% is 1.5 million. Is that significant?
@@mikko3 Significant enough amount for there to be actual dialog on the topic.
is it just me or do these guys get more and more hateful and ignorant with every video? in my eyes she said nothing wrong, she was treated in a way she wasn't used to, wasn't sure how to react to it and brushed it off that's very normal in my eyes you can't just expect someone to just be 100% on board with something they are unfamiliar with. I would have been side eyeing this guy too if that's not what I'm used to
yeah she didn't make 100% sense with everything she said but they like to pick and choose words and use that as their whole argument, they latched onto the word "corny" so hard this video
I honestly only remember one or two(?) videos of theirs that Dee reacted to, and in which I felt they made sense and/or were likable.
They constantly acting ignorant and misconstrue most points purposefully. They just love acting dumb, and I'm surprised Dee still puts up with their bs and keeps reacting to their videos
@NaimTaha exactly, I mean only see their videos when I watch dee and personally despite how they are like dee I am interested to hear others opinions on things and that's why I watch her videos on them and she usually calls their bullshit out too which I like.
but yeah they are just so ignorant and the blame seems to be on everyone but themselves particularly women it seems,
Exactly 💯💯💯
Yeahhhh she wasn’t making much sense but they should have came from a place of understanding and acceptance rather than mockery and dissection, it’s literally natural for women to see men who kinda act like squares and do everything to be corny. Chaos is the spice of life. When you do everything as it “should be done” that gets predictable and boring, which leads to cheating
This comment is very lacking in awareness. They watched a video and made a commentary on the woman in the video which Dee even agreed was accurate. It’s funny that today nowadays men make commentary videos being critical of women and it’s hateful but all those years and all those women talk shows hating on men were ok and no one cared.
These are also content creators. Their job is to produce content that people will watch and consume. Making a commentary on a video dosnt make you a hateful person. People need to relax and stop being so selective
Dee I think you took that wrong low said females are all different. So they should help guide the man into what they actually like and don’t like. He worded it bad 😂😂😂
@@kevinsamson1693 I’m not saying it is or isn’t my guy. I was just saying what Low meant. Some ladies like a man to get pedicures some don’t you just gotta find the one for you. It’s no rules or guidelines to it if it was no one would be single. That’s just how it is. That’s what makes finding the one feel better. I personally don’t value things in life that come to me easy. The more I work the better it feels when I get any goal
Cause she's not the only woman that thinks like that
You definitely react to CJ Da Champ Shibuya Trials 1 & 2
Use me as a representation of all men, I'm tired of this gender war BS on both sides
Flowers coast 25 dollars open a door and showing interest is free. If you can’t do that you shouldn’t even be on a date. I thought they was finna say something crazy 😂. Sound like she use to being treated like a thot and accepted it
Why buy flowers and take a woman who hasn’t earned it to dinner? She ain’t used to being treated like a thot, she’s use to dealing with winners not losers who give her shit just for what’s between her legs. She’s use to a man leading, making her blush, smile, think, flirting. Nowhere did we hear of him having any mouthpiece, charisma, charm or smoothness to how he carries himself. He’d rather have his flowers and dinner talk for him😂😂😂that’s a loser
I hear generalisations aren’t really and good me myself I’m trying to break that habit. But let’s not act like everybody isn’t a victim of this in one way or another. You’ve probably generalised without even noticing or subconsciously
People who dont live on the internet dont usually generalize because they see multiple individuals daily and they are all different. This shit only happens online, people see a Karen video and they think every white woman hates black people and is out for them or sees crime video where black people are stealing and think black people out here just stealing
yeah so like what if he’s the type of guy that does it on every day and is like “oh so they do like this” but she just happened to be a girl that’s not used to that, just too ppl not on the same level is how i see it, all men and woman aren’t on the same page
Just because your mom says you should take her to dinner, buy her flowers, open the door, and throw your jacket over a puddle it doesn’t mean you should😂 that’s setting you up for failure. He looks corny, weird, and thirsty because he’s doing all this for a woman who hasn’t earned it. Mothers deserve flowers and a nice dinner before a woman you just met.
Their talking points is giving incels. If I’m being honest. I hate this gender war mess it’s so stupid
0:15 I was just talking about this yesterday, its so annoying🙄😂
These girls nowadays be weirdos it’s either you wit it or you not! That’s just my approach
So what if this happened in Atlanta... bum ass town right lmao
🗣️Talk yo shi D
People making issues and problems that don't exist istg..
3:18 at least she's self aware
When shorty said she want to go to a museum I knew she was not on her own timing what type of people or environment setting you think you deserve to b around when you admit openly you want nothing you really want ? Smh walking contradiction head ah
@@lidiagizaw3828 nothing at all honestly, but from what we watched how do she even know that’s what she wants
Just dont care about dating. Focus on yourself
Yeah she needs to speak for herself. And stop putting we in her sentences.
Thing is Dee that most women that respect that type of man at home with their man not sitting around talking about how 'weird' a stand up guy is.
She is a weirdo and confusing. But Playback need to understand 1 woman isn't all women.
These men vs women whatever is crazy .......cause they both do the same to each other what i see and hear
It is kinda corny to give flowers and open doors when u very first meet somebody, she probably was thinking "i barely know you i dont deserve all this niceness", women wanna earn that ish
Hey Ms Dee, how you doing? listen. This is what we wanted back in the eighties and nineties this is what new edition and Keith sweat and Bobby Brown were singing about back in the'80s and 90s.
Being a gentleman without being completely clingy and overwhelming is where it's at. Tell these young girls to get some Gen X in them😂😂😂
Gentlemen this little girl does not represent all of womankind.
She is as confusing as a left turn downtown.
Maybe she shouldn't even date until she grows the hell up.😅
Vietnam War
War in Afghanistan
Iraq War
Russo-Ukrainian War
Gender War
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the war of all wars😂😂😂
I don't believe her😑😑😑
Dee ur thinking “oh they’re taking one girl & saying all women” but ur forgetting the likes, comments, reposts & responses of hundreds of thousands of women condoning & supporting this. We see all of it, we’re not just hearing her & it’s coming from the horses mouth
To answer ur question about why dissecting video on her when she don’t know what she’s talking about is cause to us men(who are actively dating) & women who really know…SHES NOT RARE or an outlier. Many women think how she thinks & move how she moves. One thing I find in similar in women who don’t believe many women are like her is that they’re maybe not & their small group of girlfriends aren’t so y’all assume all women are like y’all but y’all aren’t out here actively dating y’all so y’all really don’t know what we experience on a daily worth.
Last response since I just finished the video, Dee men aren’t making large generalizations, women are & were listening & repeating what y’all, say, show & post that’s all
Stop living life on the internet
dats facts bruh. even with men it’s a lot of bad shit that i can’t relate to but im not gonna deny and act like it’s not some wild ass men that don’t be doin the certain things women claim they do lol. i just don’t personally know all the time cus i don’t date men, so i clearly wouldn’t know too much
@@sllkp5747 it’s not the internet it’s something called observable reality
wait you don't have to pay to go to the museum?!?
Mf must b in break dem views n likes keep going up
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Woman
All due respect, no, one woman doesn't represent the 8 billion people on this earth, but remember that includes men, children, and all races/cultures. But there are not 8 billions blk women in the US. Most of these videos are a fair representation of blk modern women in the US only, which is not 8 billion women. I will say that these gender war videos are meant to divide blk people because we are the only ones feeding these agendas. Instead of us getting to know each other as blk people and imperfect human beings, we create these videos to indirectly talk and degrade each other, sadly. 80% of blk kids are born to single blk mothers, there is something wrong in our community so these "Wars" do talk truth somewhat.
Wife no thot
I COMPLETELY AGREE. they do pander and it’s kind of sad because i really like agent.