What the Cards Say - Jennifer Lopez - Ben Affleck Divorce

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  • What the Cards Say - Jennifer Lopez - Ben Affleck Divorce
    The LNX Files
    We pull tarot cards on Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, asking what the heck is going on with this marriage. Is this a break or is this divorce?
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Комментарии • 126

  • @lorrainenaytowhow9585
    @lorrainenaytowhow9585 4 месяца назад +21

    Man, they both need to stay out of relationships for a bit, but i don't think they know how.

  • @brunamagrini9014
    @brunamagrini9014 4 месяца назад +24

    She has prioritized her vanity and narcissisism over her marriage

  • @ashleykettner5093
    @ashleykettner5093 4 месяца назад +24

    Not a hater I wish them well marriage is hard, in front of media is harder. Truth is they are 2 different people with different goals, ways of living priorities before the first break up. No compromises or agreements on the same page in important details. It was bound to end up same place. To all the ones begging for an ex, it’s not going to work unless the relationship AND people change. Both are needed.

  • @dr.jenniferma3914
    @dr.jenniferma3914 3 месяца назад +20

    I disagree. It's over for Ben. It isn't over for Jlo. I don't think Ben ever truly loved Jlo. I think he loved the way she loved him.

    • @vt-yp7yq
      @vt-yp7yq 3 месяца назад +6

      Very good point. I agree.🤔

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess 3 месяца назад

      Jennifer gardner beg Ben to stay married to Jlo. She is a stabilizing factor in his life that helps him to be a good dad for her three children. Gardner is grateful for that

    • @annacarter4879
      @annacarter4879 Месяц назад

      It was a fever dream meaning he thought she was a dream but found out she wasn't

  • @ceiananunez1892
    @ceiananunez1892 3 месяца назад +5

    Maybe Ben is renting a home now that he's in a new movie away from home. JLo investing in a new home in New York, maybe family need's a place to stay someday!
    Bless this reunion, and everyone else's! Stop with all the negative assumptions!

  • @euniceokafor1245
    @euniceokafor1245 4 месяца назад +26

    She has had 4 marriages

    • @karolakarola8986
      @karolakarola8986 4 месяца назад +8

      Like if she's the only woman he the world that has married many times

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад +5

      Well, that alone is an excellent point. It’s like, “I mean…”

  • @julesbrowne1
    @julesbrowne1 4 месяца назад +55

    I feel sorry for her and he seems like a nightmare. Everyone seems to blame her too for his moods and behaviour. It’s unfair and misogynistic.

    • @Geengarner
      @Geengarner 4 месяца назад +11

      Very misogynistic. His mood is because of his feels and personality. I never understood why any celebrity particularly A listers are expected to smile at cameras chasing them while they run errands. Huh?

    • @kerry378
      @kerry378 4 месяца назад +11

      They're BOTH nightmares!

    • @JojoBean-zo7nx
      @JojoBean-zo7nx 4 месяца назад +13

      Lol is that a joke? As if jlo's need for constant attention by the media isn't the reason they are fighting ...she's a freaking narcissist

    • @BryRy-bb4xt
      @BryRy-bb4xt 4 месяца назад +8

      It is her job and career. His too. They both have to compromise to make it work. All relationships require it. Let’s not act like the blame is one sided. He knew who he married. No one forced him.

    • @julesbrowne1
      @julesbrowne1 4 месяца назад +3

      Exactly

  • @lrod_
    @lrod_ 4 месяца назад +6

    I think their biggest issue is that they don’t share core values otherwise they would have worked something out to meet each other half way. For example, he deeply values keeping the private aspects of their lives private whereas she likes to make them public. This go hand in hand with respecting each others differences in order to focus on what brings them together. I think he felt betrayed knowing she revealed his love letters to her team for song inspiration. They were meant to be intimidate but she made it public. If she was trying to control him, then she didn’t marry Ben for who he really is, she married what she saw as his potential and that’s very toxic. Ben also knew who he was marrying and should have known better than to expect her to stop being the open book she is. This is also toxic. If it’s true that they are divorcing, then it’s sad they couldn’t find a compromise to make it work. At least they tried.

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад

      Yeah I can’t help but wonder if that privacy vs publicity was a festering issue

  • @donnacolosimo3294
    @donnacolosimo3294 3 месяца назад +4

    I kinda feel bad for them they deserve happiness

  • @ginawoods9127
    @ginawoods9127 4 месяца назад +10

    JLOW IS TGE ONE WITH THE DRAMA. I think Ben is done. Always UNHAPPY.❤

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 3 месяца назад +3

    He needs to be alone so he can be miserable by himself ???

  • @Geengarner
    @Geengarner 4 месяца назад +8

    I never understood why he had to be on so many red carpets with her. I know it’s expected as A list couple. Many don’t. Who cares. When your spouse doesn’t like scrutiny is uncomfortable at lots of attention let him stay off the RC. Go with him to his or pick 2-3 per year if you need him to join. He already asked keep rel off social media yes he compromised bc not fair to ask that of her. Just like she has to compromise with the events and accommodate his preference less media scrutiny. We see them in lots of pap pics which he doesn’t like, they can’t avoid that but she can change walking carpets together. I’m not blaming her alone don’t get me wrong I know it is tough being with him. I hope they do whatever makes them happy. A long standing limbo with multiple kids isn’t stable hopefully they both give some part of what they want and equal the compromise. If one is carrying the burden it’s a red flag for resentment. Maybe this is all a little overblown or this is deeper and goes back to the issues they never were able to get past 20 years ago.

  • @martareedman4716
    @martareedman4716 Месяц назад +1

    Can you do a reading between the major differences of how Mat Damon is in relationships and how Ben Affleck is in relationships?

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess 3 месяца назад +1

    Excellent perfect 👍👍 reading

  • @electrictwilight
    @electrictwilight 4 месяца назад +7

    I hope that Ben is taking a mental health break and he and JLo are on the same page about it. I'm a sucker and after her doc, I'm now rooting for them.

    • @harleyharris238
      @harleyharris238 4 месяца назад +3

      yeah I came to like them I just hope neither are playing games and focus is on fixing problems. 2 should be too grown to be doing anything different. I don’t think people realize the damage heightened media attention does to mental health and happiness

  • @larita8530
    @larita8530 4 месяца назад +8

    He is just miserable... She needs to stay away from toxic men😊

  • @annacarter4879
    @annacarter4879 Месяц назад +2

    Jlo doesn't want ben Affleck around woman nor in a romantic movie yet jlo do what she wants.

  • @rturney6376
    @rturney6376 4 месяца назад +3

    TMZ only doesn’t positive about the Kardashians because Kris is best friends with the top guy..

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад

      Hmmm let me think on that one

    • @allisongaskin5656
      @allisongaskin5656 4 месяца назад +1

      I’ve heard this also.

    • @rturney6376
      @rturney6376 4 месяца назад

      @@allisongaskin5656 there was an actually news 🗞️ story about it.

    • @harleyharris238
      @harleyharris238 3 месяца назад +1

      Tmz is close with most prs.... lol that's why they are off

  • @ginawoods9127
    @ginawoods9127 4 месяца назад +4

    JLOW said he has a crush on Sofia Vergara

    • @shellyt1983
      @shellyt1983 3 месяца назад +1

      If so then it could be a problem. Sofia likes to drink and party. That’s part of the reason her and her ex husband didn’t work.

    • @annacarter4879
      @annacarter4879 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@shellyt1983Didn't read that

  • @hart3254
    @hart3254 4 месяца назад +9

    I think the 4 of wands for Ben is showing hes much happier not living with jlo. Is liking living seperate from her. I think its over for them. All this talk of them on social media of them splitting up. If they werent splitting up jlo would say so.

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 3 месяца назад

      You're right. She'd be the first person to post a pic of them saying how undying their love is. But she doesn't stop the rumors. It's over. It's just about finding a graceful exit at this point. They are putting on a front for the kids to show try to not to traumatize them but their union is done. Ben knows it more than Jlo at this point. She seems like a hard person to leave.

    • @hart3254
      @hart3254 3 месяца назад +1

      @@dr.jenniferma3914 they prob waiting until she's done with her tour, or after it gets cancelled. She was advised to cancel it because the tix aren't selling. Her doc and movie flopped too. Seems like she's getting cancelled.

  • @BryRy-bb4xt
    @BryRy-bb4xt 4 месяца назад +7

    Jlo has 4 marriages. TMZ has been off a lot especially this year. I do not see either wanting another divorce after 2 yr marriage. Not a true separation about to call divorce atty. A let’s stay at our other homes and work on marriage. TMZ have loyalties based on who will make deals with them. Many times they have been exposed to work closely with a celeb’s PR team to put a narrative out.
    Both would be tough to date because of their individual baggage, add in Bennifer1.0 baggage. Venus sq Pluto wouldn’t be so bad if he wasn’t a Scorpio moon and is a recovering addict. Scorpio moon makes everything tougher.

  • @catherinem.8804
    @catherinem.8804 4 месяца назад +2

    I've seen people read The World reversed the opposite way, as being completely done and over it. I think the logic behind that is that, in the upright, getting The World means you're still wrapping things up and you haven't technically started anything new yet, otherwise you'd get the Fool. We'll see but I hope they stay together so they can leave everyone else alone because they've got such issues as individuals.

  • @harleyharris238
    @harleyharris238 4 месяца назад +3

    I hope you’re wrong he isn’t playing games and the separation is mutual cool off and regroup move. This man has divorced, has grown kids time to face the issues not run to media and put out we are living separately info to get back at her. IF this is his doing. I find it hard to believe Jen who wants it to work badly is ok with these headlines.

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад +1

      I hope these cards are wrong too- or that they make a u-turn- they are an exasperating couple but I would still like to see them make it🖤

  • @DarjaTruth
    @DarjaTruth 3 месяца назад

    Both partners living in a fantasy land of their own (each), can prolong a separation twice as long, because the truth of it has to hit one or the other more than once, as long as it's necessary. Some people simply want to live in an illussion, they're not aware, that they're suffering and that there's something better for them, somewhere else, in this life.
    Or, they just can't decipher, mostly because of the external factors, like people lying to them, supporting their misery, setting them up, drugging them (drugs litterally), political, religious (cult, as Hollywood etc.), or family set up, or both - to keep the clout for them going, and for a cover up of the basic crimes of the society, the system, certain individuals, of the governments.

  • @lydiaroman4803
    @lydiaroman4803 3 месяца назад +4

    Ben does not have a attitude,it's her trust me

  • @JenniferLopez18187
    @JenniferLopez18187 2 месяца назад +1

    Wow u look like Garner just gorgeous...

  • @115manutd
    @115manutd 2 месяца назад

    Lookin Like Linny!!!!!!!! 😁😆😄😇

  • @LisaBrown-os8oj
    @LisaBrown-os8oj 4 месяца назад +10

    Jlo is very evil person 👹👹👹👹👹👹👹

  • @deborahluongo6794
    @deborahluongo6794 3 месяца назад +1

    Well, sorry I think she has more drama than he does! It was a time when she was celebrating her birthday on some island and she was walking through. Everyone was cheering for her and he was in the background. Seems like she leads him around like a puppy, she is very self-centered And him also being a Leo loves beautiful things, but he also loves his family as well. Jennifer. Garner was not only a beautiful person outside, but also inside,I loved when they would go to church and try to be the best family they could be! But what will be will be and I do feel that they are better off not being married! I cannot see them being together for the next 15 or 20 years

  • @eladan867
    @eladan867 4 месяца назад +5

    To me he looks like my moody psychopathic brother, very similar look and behaviours 🤔 I grow up with people like that so I have severe allergy for guys like that 😖 Big red flag for me 😝 I sure she could do better then him, she have this lightness of being not the heavy moodiness of him👍👌

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад +4

      lol- he does seem SO moody and just very difficult to deal with on the day to day 🖤

  • @wittykitty3748
    @wittykitty3748 4 месяца назад +11

    Guys it’s all just PR cmon!

    • @JB-jp9gp
      @JB-jp9gp 4 месяца назад +2

      New film too

  • @sharonwalters2190
    @sharonwalters2190 4 месяца назад +5

    He's filming on West coast, she's got work and commitments on East coast.. could it be that they're just busy with their jobs and the relationship is secure enough that they don't have to be up each other's ass all the time LOL

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад +4

      I really hope it’s just logistical-as exasperating as they are I realize I was rooting for them in my own way 🖤

    • @maryalove5534
      @maryalove5534 4 месяца назад +1

      @@thelnxfiles
      (: Yes ... True ... Why wish them worse .... It is sad in every way, but I think they just rushed into things ... !!!!! ... 😢

    • @maryalove5534
      @maryalove5534 4 месяца назад

      (: That can be too, but there must be alot of other issues that are very problematic for them... !!!!!

  • @user-tw8qj5od4z
    @user-tw8qj5od4z 4 месяца назад +3

    Do natalie portman update Reading please ?

    • @deedee3639-r5i
      @deedee3639-r5i 10 дней назад

      lol divorce is on so much for PR move. He went for her for PR and money. Then left.

  • @milacoress
    @milacoress 4 месяца назад +5

    Her movie will premiere on the 24th. I think it's just PR

  • @ceiananunez1892
    @ceiananunez1892 3 месяца назад

    She loves "Fame" he loves "Dunkin Donuts or Golden Arches!" JLo is a "Mover And A Shaker!"
    His "Laziness" probably makes her "Blood Boil!"

  • @pullupcrew4330
    @pullupcrew4330 4 месяца назад +1

    Just like Jayne west and Kim moon Pisces

  • @JB-jp9gp
    @JB-jp9gp 4 месяца назад +4

    Ben is a sick alcoholic guy 😂

  • @GracieAgraz
    @GracieAgraz 3 месяца назад

    I don’t believe in tarot cards I believe in GOD. The future is in the choices they make and GOD it’s there if they want you to call on him.

  • @marthamadrid7883
    @marthamadrid7883 3 месяца назад +2

    4 marriages

  • @michellepaden8746
    @michellepaden8746 2 месяца назад

    They are both doing it with their fan bases. Playing games.

  • @alexiscaldas353
    @alexiscaldas353 4 месяца назад +1

    Según tu leída de cartas por ahora no hay separación ojalá que no ellos se aman ❤

  • @luciamillerbooks
    @luciamillerbooks 3 месяца назад

    Not necessary to talk about "white boy"..is it?? why the Put down..?? He is from a working class background is plenty to say.

  • @Alene-vi2gj
    @Alene-vi2gj 4 месяца назад

    First time. I never understood how they were together again.😊so interesting.

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  4 месяца назад +1

      Yes I wish the best for both of them whatever that might end up being 💙

  • @chasgarza3960
    @chasgarza3960 Месяц назад

    I hope Jlo don't see this and ut gives her that lil hope that really isn't there. It's over. Ben loves JenG and it's so obvious. That card you read saying uts but over for Ben, might be about the other Jen because he's definitely over JLo and you can see it in his eyes. So i disagree with you.

  • @cereal_qilla
    @cereal_qilla 4 месяца назад +1

    I just realized that Kim k used to be married to someone who used to beat her allegedly, Damien something, what’s their story ?

    • @ianegfp
      @ianegfp 4 месяца назад

      Ouch!

  • @clorindaperry7900
    @clorindaperry7900 3 месяца назад

    He always looks so uncomfortable under the bright lights she prefers. Were is the compromises?

  • @PureSparkles22
    @PureSparkles22 4 месяца назад +4

    Tmz has lied in the past. They said Britney spears was at cade Hudson birthday party when she wasn't

    • @BryRy-bb4xt
      @BryRy-bb4xt 4 месяца назад +3

      Yeah they lie a lot 😂 people always forget the lies. A bunch of lies they put out this year alone.

    • @wplants9793
      @wplants9793 4 месяца назад +4

      They DO lie a lot

    • @PureSparkles22
      @PureSparkles22 4 месяца назад +1

      @@wplants9793correct and they do have loyalties namely the Kardashians , Britney’s dad and brad Pitt

    • @addyzian-tt7di
      @addyzian-tt7di 4 месяца назад

      @@PureSparkles22they have no loyalty = code for whatever pr calls tells tmz to put out a story 😂😂😂

    • @ashleykettner5093
      @ashleykettner5093 4 месяца назад +1

      They were just lying about the Biebers when for 6 months the fandom has known every clue pointed to a bb.

  • @pullupcrew4330
    @pullupcrew4330 4 месяца назад +1

    Hope he go back to his wife jlo only win win him and jlo moon Scorpio

  • @Fabienna
    @Fabienna 3 месяца назад

    obviously she does not listen. He told her that he does not like social media, yet she keeps ignoring that and pushes and pushes it. And her neediness and telling the whole world constantly how much she loves him is just annoying and too much. That would push anybody away. I am on Bens side, because I would leave somebody like that who ignores my needs. I would not forbid him to do whats his needs are but leave me alone if I wouldnt like the public. She keeps saying how important he is too her yet her carreer is more important, she has so much money she could care less and let him take care, he would much rather like that feeling like the man in the relasionship. Not to say, just when they got toghether she started selling alcohol. Not very smart. I think she loves dollar bills more than anybody.

  • @orls9068
    @orls9068 3 месяца назад

    I think Ben would do better out of Hollywood, he seems more low key and private
    He probably gets pissed off and moody knowing hes being followed around and shit
    Jlo seems to be the opposite, she always wants to be seen and cares about how she comes across
    Ben is this is how I feel and that's what you see, he could have a resting bitch face either 😂
    I think Jennifer Garner suited him better but he had his demons and she probably parentified him through his addiction which is not her fault or anything just can happen in that circumstance

  • @CreationBoss-b8m
    @CreationBoss-b8m 13 дней назад

    Garcia Donald Jones Jeffrey Lee John

  • @GutterGlitter83
    @GutterGlitter83 3 месяца назад +4

    J Lo is evil 😈 Naropath

  • @alexiscaldas353
    @alexiscaldas353 4 месяца назад

    Una pregunta ellos no estarán haciendo todo esto como para promocionar sus trabajos y como.sanennque la.prens Alos sigue estar en el ojo del huracán? O están viviendo.separados por alguna terapia de pareja?

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 3 месяца назад

    Right he’s the one that has the problems????

  • @beatrizmendoza9269
    @beatrizmendoza9269 4 месяца назад +2

    I heard he was furious when he learned she shared love letters on social media; JLo is not exactly blameless in this relationship breaking down; I understand she's very controlling!

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess 3 месяца назад

      He wants peace- she has alot of paparazzi like kanye west and Kim

  • @lojzkabavdek8365
    @lojzkabavdek8365 3 месяца назад

    What abaut Bradley and Gigi?

    • @thelnxfiles
      @thelnxfiles  3 месяца назад

      we've done some videos on them - but I would be surprised if they were still happening since oscar season is over... xo

    • @lojzkabavdek8365
      @lojzkabavdek8365 3 месяца назад

      @@thelnxfiles but they do

  • @claudiachiuaru6313
    @claudiachiuaru6313 3 месяца назад +1

    She’s a nightmare to deal with and I think Ben has had enough. I feel bad for him

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 3 месяца назад +1

      Imagine feeling bad for a dusty

    • @shellyt1983
      @shellyt1983 3 месяца назад

      He’s no bed of roses either.

  • @rileyreynolds5463
    @rileyreynolds5463 4 месяца назад +2

    Ben is emotionally immature JLo is emotionally codependent. According to Miss Guggi they are twin flame soulmate, do you think she's right? Also could you please make a video on Keanu Reeves twin flame soulmate. When are they going to meet? Lots of love and light.

    • @addyzian-tt7di
      @addyzian-tt7di 4 месяца назад +3

      Stop believing every pop astrology buzz word 😂 real twin flames are rare and many different kinds exist