I have been without friends, I have been ghosted by friends and I learned from those experiences. I now have several very good friends that I support, they support me but we have clear boundaries something I didn’t know how to have before. These relationships are priceless and I cherish them greatly. I learned to care for myself and , in that, I can care for others while setting boundaries.
I don't really have friends, not in a standard meaning of a friend at least. But I'm ok with it, people usually just drain me. They drain me at work and at home because usually they make a fuss about every little thing. 😂
I have been by myself for a year now . Yes I am in a rrelasionship but I don' t let it control are define me. I am trying to get over the fact that I don't need validation from it are even to be told that the person loves me . I am trying to take a step back and find myself yes I still love the person but I am allowing this to define who I am .I am not the person I am with. My goal is to rely more on myself and my own needs and learning myself my likes and dislikes dose that make sense. I am trying not to be sad are lonely cause I don't have friends but I feel like a failure and my partner dose not seem to understand this . Why I feel lonely . I am trying that is all that matters I have done so much . Meditation , Journall, and my phone time ect. I am sorry for the crappy post I know it isn't perfect but I wanted to write something .
I have absolutely 0 friends right now, my choice. I chose this entire year of 2024 after moving to another state to go into a place of solitude and receive complete healing and gain a deeper relationship with the Lord. I absolutely love the peace that I have right now.
I have been without friends, I have been ghosted by friends and I learned from those experiences. I now have several very good friends that I support, they support me but we have clear boundaries something I didn’t know how to have before. These relationships are priceless and I cherish them greatly. I learned to care for myself and , in that, I can care for others while setting boundaries.
Thank you for this information, exactly what I needed to hear
Having no close friends doesn't mean solitude is preferred, she can have a close loving partner and family. Wanting solitude is something else again.
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I don't really have friends, not in a standard meaning of a friend at least. But I'm ok with it, people usually just drain me. They drain me at work and at home because usually they make a fuss about every little thing. 😂
I can relate to much of this
I have been by myself for a year now . Yes I am in a rrelasionship but I don' t let it control are define me. I am trying to get over the fact that I don't need validation from it are even to be told that the person loves me . I am trying to take a step back and find myself yes I still love the person but I am allowing this to define who I am .I am not the person I am with. My goal is to rely more on myself and my own needs and learning myself my likes and dislikes dose that make sense. I am trying not to be sad are lonely cause I don't have friends but I feel like a failure and my partner dose not seem to understand this . Why I feel lonely . I am trying that is all that matters I have done so much . Meditation , Journall, and my phone time ect. I am sorry for the crappy post I know it isn't perfect but I wanted to write something .
This is usually not a choice. Often it's very difficult to find compatible friendships (availability, depth, etc)
I have absolutely 0 friends right now, my choice. I chose this entire year of 2024 after moving to another state to go into a place of solitude and receive complete healing and gain a deeper relationship with the Lord. I absolutely love the peace that I have right now.
It isn't her, it's fake AI generated content. She never said this.
I have the same intuition
How do you know?