Button always makes the conversation weird. Like two people will be having the perfect convo about to go on a date and then the button is like “JASON DONT WIPE HIS ASS”
The button is like that immature friend that sees something between two people and decides to go inappropriate like "SMELL HIM, SHOW THEM THAT WEIRD THING YOU DO HUIHUIHUI".
I agree. This was prolly the most awkward and least diverse version of the button. It was just one female buzzing dudes with a weird twist by adding two extra dates for no reason..
I think because the video would have been too short but yes it was awkward having her reject 2 more ppl for nothing cuz she wasn't gonna switch up but you never know. Idk maybe she was really looking for someone and this episode was about her finding someone? Since the guys couldn't buzz
I always wondered how people end up in years-long relationships filled with infidelity or just a general dislike for each other, and now I’m starting to accept that airheads will always go for airheads and do airhead things.
"He's never been on a date, I don't wanna ruin him" 🧢 The painful irony is that there's nothing in the world that would actually HELP him more than actually giving him a chance.
Yeah it's what most people don't understand. It's similar to the people who break up with their girlfriend/boyfriend because they think they don't deserve to be with them like PEAK insecurity shit.
Lol bro not every girl who rejects you wants to bring u pain. Bro was radiating low value by saying he never been on a date but wants women to approach him.
Or at least press the button a bit more chill. Explain why. That PLEASE BE GONE type smack is just reassuring his path to inceldom and possible hate of women. Like cmon the guy would never in a hundret years press on her, so whats the rush?
Somebody has to admit that finding love in this type of show is very toxic and is teaching people the wrong way to find love in people. There I said it.
I think what Preach is tryna say is that,this episode felt like the emotion you get when you see a cold bottle of sprite in the fridge, excited, you pour it into a glass, you take a drink..... and realize it's water
@@laurenreynolds9755 prob right. but people always screaming about privileges. ((i meant it more in a joking way)) Only the button truly knows their reasoning. lol ♥
They all go back to the same room. In the blindfold esp. the big girls told the other girls what the guy was doing. I’m sure they film multiple videos in one day. The 2nd guy that they asked to smell each other was wearing the same outfit from another video A&P reacted to.
@@mikethepokemaster2012 Her skin is perfect. Her voice is cute. Her face is pretty. I could change my "score" a bit deepening on her figure but it looked straight from here. Im also obviously talking about looks alone.
The thing this episode showed is that across various walks of life, dudes aren't saying no to an attractive lady that can converse in a bubbly manner that indicates some level of interest. You still stand no chance. She knew how to play this game
I'm inclined to think it was less of what Preach said about having ties to the producer, and more likely that they weren't expecting such an early match and just wanted to force in a few more to extend their content.
Preach is right, this was a boring episode of the button. Its just four dude who's first words were "you're beautiful." Stagnant. This episode felt Stagnant.
"Why did you reject him?" "Because he hasn't been on a date, and I dont want to ruin him. . ." Bro, you literally killed this man's confidence by slamming that button.
i think the difference between the "awkward virginity stuff" as aba called it between the first and 2nd guy is all on the way they present themselves too not just if they're cute. the 2nd guy was clear spoken and flattered her. difference between "im nervous because this is my first date" and "you make me nervous because you're so beautiful" flattery is always good.
Nah both are a fail. Most women believe they're better than the average guy and they're special and the prize. But don't ever give her confirmation of that. Most women want to feel like they were chosen by a guy that could've chosen anyone else. Or focused more on his purpose. Not by a guy that is lucky to have her with little else going on.
@@Codenamelana Really? The cliché "who hurt you" shaming tactic? What about what I said was wrong? Can you try to explain that instead of being condescending?
@@Codenamelana He's not wrong. "Most women believe they're better than the average guy" All you have to do is look at how much guys they reject to see that. Most don't want guys on the same level "Most women want to feel like they were chosen by a guy that could've chosen anyone else" Women like men that get attention from other women. A lot of people can attest to this.
Goddam, that first dude went on a roller coaster of emotion when the button lit up "Yep, here we go." "Any second now." "...oh, my god." "Oh my god, she hasn't pushed it??" "Maybe I have a cha-" WHAM BEEP
And those are the type of guys who become multi millionaires and then these same women complain the guys aren't choosing their used up 3 baby daddy and obese selfs
I still don't understand why people put themselves out there like this. It's entertaining for those not involved, and some of the ones involved. But, my God. Imagine going back and seeing yourself in these moments
Well I could say the same thing about most things online 😂 ppl post a lot of crazy stuff not even thinking about the fact that once it's out there, it's forever.
Honestly wouldn't think much of it. It's a game if anything as long as you're comfortable with yourself. If you're not fearful of being rejected you have nothing to lose. Oh they decided to reject? Wouldn't have worked out anyway so onto the next one. Remember that.
@@signalfire15 because the purpose of the button is that if no one presses the button, it's a date and the game is won and it's over for both. The point of the game is to take the one you think you'd get along with and go on a date, not make sure you go trough all contestant before you go on a date with contestant #2. In a real life situation, you're right. But in this case, it defeats the whole purpose of the show.
Grady 1) get in the gym, take up boxing and or mma to build your masculine physic and confidence. 2) take up toastmasters and ice breakers to get comfortable speaking in public. 3) network and engage the chicks in the spaces and extra curriculars you enjoy. 4) take up a trade or become a subject matter expert where they have to come to you for help and advice, hook them with knowledge and keep them with personality 5) volunteer for a nonprofit join a social group positively impacting the community poor, elderly or youth. If those chicks are still choosing the opposite of you go back to #1 commit to 21 days, then 6 months and then a year. ***get your money up***
Man a girl was wondering why I was so closed off and not talking about sex around her. I told her my story she laughed about in her group chat with friends. I only found out because her friend was dating my friend and told me. Crazy men's emotions and problems are laughed at🤷🏾♂️
damn… i don’t wanna be that guy but, you can’t be pillowtalking with girls bro especially ones you just meant. save that for your therapist..or family most women won’t hesitate to gossip or weaponize things told to them in confidence, I sincerely wished this was NOT the case an it didn’t happen as much to men as it does but unfortunately my wishes don’t amount to much regarding this sadly. Sorry that happened to you bro, that shit wasn’t right!
@@jayclearmen411 nah I wasn't pillow talking her. And I was talking to a therapist then. I was talking with her for like 6 months into it when I finally told her🤷🏾♂️
@@namejeff6090 yea bruh never tell women shit. They always say they want emotionally available men but they always like to use your emotions or shit you dealing with against you
Yep, when a chick is fine no dude is rejecting you unless you're an attractive guy. Attractive guys like attractive women way through their options to see what else is at the end.
My dudes. Never tell a girl you haven’t been on a date before. Especially if you’re average at best. Girls wanna think that youre a cool guy who could be with any girl you want but they chose her. RIP my dude.
True ... they love " preselection " the more she could hate you now but if she sees that 3 of your exes where supermodels somehow the next day she's in your bed.
@@Gymthingz no... never talk about that girls like mistery they wanna find out themselves if you tell them you ruin their fun and leave... even the nicest girl dosen't want an insecure dude next to her
Depends on two things : 1. If you just want to date and score with women 2. The type of woman. There is indeed an algorithm if you want to get with as many women as possible that works, but chances are that those relationships will be void of connection and actual meaning. But you'll get laid. Statistically, you only need one person to really admire you for who you are. But many men and women go for glitz and glamor and never for the people who actually will make their lives more meaningful. I don't really need multiple guys to like me, I would want one person who connects with me on most meaningful levels.
Exactly this is why i tell my guys do talk to much let her do most of the talking. Cuz too many guys have talked there way out of some potential 🐈 don’t do that.. As much as women say they want the truth they often can’t handle it..all your doing is providing them reasons to disqualify you.
a 27 yr old still in her h04 phase looking to fuk around with a younger dude with no financial security without realizing the wall's coming for her very soon. That's most women in 2022.
This show is a personification why online dating is horrible for society. The enemy of good is perfect. If everyone is seeking nirvana....no one will find peace.
Aba nailed it. It's unfathomable to some women that men don't have it as easy in dating. The average man doesn't get pursued or even complimented once in 24 hour period.
It can also be true for some women too. There are women, including myself who have never dated anyone or has never been pursued. We are out here....unfortunately haha
INDEED. if your honest enough with a women she’ll lie to herself. They often don’t prioritize relationships an marriage in life…then wonder why their not in a marriage or relationship.. they don’t even realize that their mindset is what’s repelling what they say they want. truth is ladies have had plenty of chances; but, ignored em an chose not to pursue because, of shallow criteria like height not even considering moral character an ethics.. you ladies aren’t alone because of men but, because of you; and your choices.. she never had a chance she merely just had an opportunity.. this knowledge doesn’t sink in until much later in life.
@@Ne55y Do you put yourself out there to be noticed and approached? Because unless you're below average in looks and/or an extreme introvert? An average woman gets approached and complimented.
@@mule5785 It absolutely was. This just proves that attraction is not about connection, personality, or any of that nonsense. Attraction is either about looks or sexual arousal.
Just goes to show that when you find that person attractive, you make it easier for them to get with you. No matter WHAT comes out their mouth. Which is dope when it’s genuine & upfront, but people waste time when it’s the opposite in order to not hurt feelings. I’d rather a girl let me know I’m ugly or not her type from jump instead of her leading me on or beating around the bush.
Not speaking for every woman, but I tread carefully with rejection because I’ve had some unsafe experiences simply for saying no (being stalked, SA, harassed, etc).
@@JustAyedan I definitely feel that. There are a lotta men who can’t take rejection to save their life & NEED to convince that woman she’s wrong. Those are some scum of the earth type of men, cause no man should ever make a woman feel unsafe, regardless of the situation. Especially when you wanted her at first. The best thing I can say for you is to: - Always keep something on you (Mace, gun, knife, anything.) incase they start acting funny. - Always have a great guy friend & homegirls to watch your back. - & think about the places you’re going where those type of men are. But I also hope you know there’s men like myself who can take that shit with grace. 👌🏿 “No” isn’t the end of the world. - Maãlík
they dont waste peoples time though. they waste socially inept and desperate dudes time because they either dont pick up on or ignore f* off signals. which of course isnt their fault, but you cant also blame women for not being up front when naturally they dont want to hurt feelings. its within your power to change your actions, not the actions of random women you wont know for longer than a week
@@tramarthomas6105 You contradicted yourself & literally said they waste a man’s time cause they don’t wanna hurt a person’s feelings. That’s literally a time waster. I do agree that every man needs to be able to take rejection, adapt to how they talk to women, & read social cues, but to sit here & not hold a woman accountable when she leads a man on cause she’s not attracted to them? It’s just as bad as the situation the young lady above me went through with men who couldn’t take “no” for an answer. I’ve literally been told stories from some women who were literally using a man as a rebound, whom she led on & made feel like she wanted to be in a long term relationship with him, until the guy she REALLY wanted got back in the picture. No one wants to feel used, & should truly be honest with their intentions, man or woman.
5:54 I agree with Aba, she might the other guys, he shouldn’t shake on that decision. DeJa already interested with the guy because he have a Gene Simmons tongue.
Exactly! This grass is always greener mentality kills dating and relationships. People need to learn to make a choice and be content with it. Unless there's a significant reason to change that choice.
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 if you are asking for dating advice on youtube comments then you are probably beyond helping. However, if you want a pretty black girl just go to Africa.
Maybe i worded it wrong i dont have females like this female has males. If you know what i mean but i do have females just not as much for a darkskined male
Most ppl buzz out of defense it’s a vulnerable little to take that risk and get hurt. Most ppl now have no intimacy or vulnerability that’s why the don’t do relationships. I’m. Sure ppl gave buzz there souk mate because the more you like them the harder the reject and hurt is. Cuz it’s super personal you can’t try and blame shit but then not liking you cause they see you and know you’re interested
It's fine, when I see two people make it on this show, it doesn't even fulfill me emotionally because I can just tell most of these relationships won't last.
Oh man I felt for the guy. Guys if you looking for love don't go to dating sites or clubs or anything like that, join a group and meet ppl who like what you like and who with time can grow to like you, build relationships and shit
We men are used to rejection. In the outside world there's always this idea that in dating women are the most victims of rude behavior of men, while in reality lots of women can be very disrespectful to men who doesn't match their (unrealistic) standards. Or worse take advantage of them.
Best advice I can give is work on yourself and be outgoing and someone will come along. Looking for love can land you in some bad spots.....call it learned experience.
There was no need for it really was there, I'm not saying that sort if thing should be able to destroy somebody completely, but it could really destroy that guys week at least.
True, but they could’ve just kicked them both if they wanted to go in a date, and continue playing the game without them with the other participants. Not as climatic, but more fair
Button is like that socially awkward friend with no filter that you bring with you on a date and will just say the most outlandish things out of no where 🤣😂🤣
Im pretty sure the reason they let her do the "see the next 2 guys thing" is because The Button saw that this was about to be a quick episode so they prolonged it. Also they saw every guy was fawning over her at first sight so why not get 2 more reactions in 😂
Date #1 was peak evidence that honesty IS NOT the best policy, at least not early on. At the very least, don't overshare. I doubt he had a chance there anyways, but just saying, he basically nuked himself from orbit when he willingly said "yup, youre the first!"
If he was attractive it wouldn't have mattered at all. Let's be real she pushed the button because he was over weight, balding and looked like he was 25 going on 50. Quick fire dating games like this are as vapid and shallow as dating apps.
It’s good to be honest but you gotta paint yourself in the best light possible. It’s like a job interview you not gonna say I’m a trash man, you gonna say I’m a municipal employee tasked with maintaining the local environment.
@@bballforlife1231 BINGO!!!!!! I cant stress this enough to men. Women use that shit as ammo. You cannot tell her everything. Even when you married or deep in a relationship. DO NOT tell her stuff. When(not if) she gets mad at you she will use that againn you. Women will call this lying. Men, dont let them fool you. Its not lying at all
@@afrosamourai400 Hope is the only thing that can drive someone in the shitter forward, if u wanna get cousy with despair until you off yourself that's on you. But don't go around portraying stupid sentences like "there's nothing to do about it", as a definitive general answer to a fucked up life.
At 22 i dated a 27 year old... lets just say we were at totally different point in our lives. Still remember the day it ended when she wanted to go to baby gap to buy something for her "cousin" only for her to press some "if i wanted to have a baby would u be ready" BS. Then when i told her naaa im straight she threw a piss fit and wanted to walk at breakneck speeds forgetting that i had the car keys and could leave whenever i wanted
Exactly!!!! it’s either that or they try to dominate/son you..or press you into taking it serious FAST!thus why i could never really take em serious.. they’re for fun only.
@@jayclearmen411 That’s mean. If you see someone is in another life stage and wants kids you should not mess around and play with their time like that.
I think this was the worst episode because it was unfairly favorable to the admittedly beautiful girl Deja. She had all the power in every interaction and she knew it. I don't like that the Button basically told her it's her world and she gets all the options while Von'Rico gets none. He should have advocated for himself, but he won't. Good luck getting made a doormat. Couldn't be me.
@lilbbgrinchiepoo I'm a heterosexual female, so I don't see females that way. I will say she's average at best. And the way she buzzed out everyone, particularly the first guy, she seemed like an asshole to me.
I just wonder… because im not a fan of this shows premise… but This makes the concept of dating very.. disposable. Imagine if you only had a select few men to choose from and if you couldn’t choose from those, you’re out of luck and you can’t date again. If you wanted to, you could only select from those men that were appointed for you. What it would do is it would cause people to treat dating and people with a lot more respect and not take dating for granted. Also an excellent plot twist would have been for him to press the button after she went on those two dates and came back to him , because it would show how she’s not in the moment with the guys, she’s looking past them and she was willing to risk the sure thing for something possibly better.
Having less people to choose between to date would not guarantee a relationship. I was telling people, "next" long before social media showed up. If the person isn't into them then it doesn't matter how many other people are around to choose from. The only time that mattered was before women had the ability to vote, own property, and have a bank account.
@@ChristianB-d5j It was kind of deceptive of her to press the button so quickly to the first guy and say things like "I said no to him because I don't want to ruin him"
Another comment said on a previous video, "Aba be deep in the jubilee cinematic universe." Yall seen enough to dissect producer influences and motivations And we love it 😂
"I don't want to ruin him". that's the single most dishonest bullshit thing you can say when you reject someone based on their lack of experience. he might be sore after this one for a while, but he dodged a bullet.
Button always makes the conversation weird. Like two people will be having the perfect convo about to go on a date and then the button is like “JASON DONT WIPE HIS ASS”
LMFAO🤣🤣
Remember that the purpose of this is to make entertaining content, they don’t care if they mess up the date or not 😂
You got it bruh ☠️
Lmao facts!!!
jason prolly french
The button is like that immature friend that sees something between two people and decides to go inappropriate like "SMELL HIM, SHOW THEM THAT WEIRD THING YOU DO HUIHUIHUI".
I read this in Tina's voice from Bob's Burgers lol.
Haha 😂
@@erk8520 Why is her voice so fitting for OP’s quote, lol?
@@erk8520 definitely something she would say 😂
BRUUUUUUUHHHHH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree. This was prolly the most awkward and least diverse version of the button. It was just one female buzzing dudes with a weird twist by adding two extra dates for no reason..
8 days ago? Wtf
@@Wuking93 cuz of the membership program I think. Members probably gets vids a week early
@@Wuking93 the patreon squad be seeing some videos before they're public lol. Dope community too, I'd recommend checking it out!
I think because the video would have been too short but yes it was awkward having her reject 2 more ppl for nothing cuz she wasn't gonna switch up but you never know. Idk maybe she was really looking for someone and this episode was about her finding someone? Since the guys couldn't buzz
*He's a time traveller* 👁👄👁
Shout out to Grady. 🙏 When Preach said “there was no right way to do it, but that way, was not the right one” I FELT THAT!! 😭🫣 poor homie
Pour one out for our boy grady, even his name sounds virginal
In the previous video I watched, they were going in on another dude for having no dating experience, mocking the shit out of him. 🫤
I always wondered how people end up in years-long relationships filled with infidelity or just a general dislike for each other, and now I’m starting to accept that airheads will always go for airheads and do airhead things.
Airhead things LMAO
Yup
So true. On this show it’s always the pretty people matching with other pretty (usually egotistical people)
"He's never been on a date, I don't wanna ruin him" 🧢
The painful irony is that there's nothing in the world that would actually HELP him more than actually giving him a chance.
He looks like a loser.......he can't even get in the front gate what you mean give him a chance?
Yeah it's what most people don't understand. It's similar to the people who break up with their girlfriend/boyfriend because they think they don't deserve to be with them like PEAK insecurity shit.
Lol bro not every girl who rejects you wants to bring u pain. Bro was radiating low value by saying he never been on a date but wants women to approach him.
Or at least press the button a bit more chill. Explain why.
That PLEASE BE GONE type smack is just reassuring his path to inceldom and possible hate of women.
Like cmon the guy would never in a hundret years press on her, so whats the rush?
She probably believes he deserves a chance, just not with her.
Somebody has to admit that finding love in this type of show is very toxic and is teaching people the wrong way to find love in people. There I said it.
I was sure this show is about making fun of people not finding love.
Thinking love is real. LOL. Women aren't capable of it. Don't think of them as people.
There is no such thing as the right way to find love btw
@@spikecool50 well no, but this ain’t it lol
Why?
I already get rejected enough in real life. Why the hell would I join a game show to get rejected?
To go viral if you are lucky enough? 🥲
Because it's "fun"
Forced dates where you have a 1% higher chance
So you would be a pro at this game
To add to more rejection for more validation.
"I don't wanna, like, ruin him," she said, after having absolutely destroyed him beyond the point of mere ruination.
She definitely contributed to the villain origin story by snapping at the button so fast lol
I think what Preach is tryna say is that,this episode felt like the emotion you get when you see a cold bottle of sprite in the fridge, excited, you pour it into a glass, you take a drink..... and realize it's water
Not gonna lie, I've had many crispy refreshing Sprites and I played out your scenario in my head and got sad. XD
@@flashchrome640 shits fucking depressing bro
literally same @@flashchrome640
Pretty privilege. Even the button broke it's own rules for her lol.
🎯
ITS not it’s
nahhh button broke its own rules to get more content lol :p they didn't do all that for her
@@smartyjonez5470 more reason to hate English
its... a possessive rule breaker.
- i'll have to remember that phrase
@@laurenreynolds9755 prob right.
but people always screaming about privileges. ((i meant it more in a joking way))
Only the button truly knows their reasoning. lol
♥
The moment they started opening up to her, I literally knew they all lost. I screamed noooo.
Exactly
It is a sad life..
Right? Nothing turns women away more than this. Especially those who ask you to do it.
Weird to open up to a stranger
There should be like a reject room where all the rejects talk and try to get together
There is
Torture 😆
I'd watch
Lmao "the rejects" that's funny as fuck.
They all go back to the same room. In the blindfold esp. the big girls told the other girls what the guy was doing. I’m sure they film multiple videos in one day. The 2nd guy that they asked to smell each other was wearing the same outfit from another video A&P reacted to.
She’s a beautiful woman she just had all the power in every situation and she knows it
She’s not all that beautiful and they only have her weak beta males.
She okay
@@mikethepokemaster2012 foh lol
@@DmanDice nah she okay she 6. Nothing special
@@mikethepokemaster2012
Her skin is perfect. Her voice is cute. Her face is pretty. I could change my "score" a bit deepening on her figure but it looked straight from here. Im also obviously talking about looks alone.
The thing this episode showed is that across various walks of life, dudes aren't saying no to an attractive lady that can converse in a bubbly manner that indicates some level of interest. You still stand no chance. She knew how to play this game
I'm inclined to think it was less of what Preach said about having ties to the producer, and more likely that they weren't expecting such an early match and just wanted to force in a few more to extend their content.
Absolutely, that was going too well too early, would've been too boring. She was definitely already set on that guy.
Why not just continue filming with the other people 😂. It doesn’t have to end with a match or just edit the match at the end idk.
They could've just continued with the next contestants though
Nah, because theres still other people in the back to keep it going. So I think its either preach or Aba being right
&/ they wanted more drama......stirring the pot.
Preach is right, this was a boring episode of the button. Its just four dude who's first words were "you're beautiful." Stagnant. This episode felt Stagnant.
No story.
Like....hotdog cart water
It was bad
🤣🙄
Its not really the episodes fault. Its just that shes so freaking gorgeous you already knew what was going to happen.
"This is a SIIIIIIIIICKNESSSSS!" - My reaction to the intro 🤣
I heard this in his voice and I want it as a notification tone
Damn i actually read that in his voice 😂
"It is deviant and we don't want it" 😂😂😂
"Why did you reject him?"
"Because he hasn't been on a date, and I dont want to ruin him. . ."
Bro, you literally killed this man's confidence by slamming that button.
i think the difference between the "awkward virginity stuff" as aba called it between the first and 2nd guy is all on the way they present themselves too not just if they're cute. the 2nd guy was clear spoken and flattered her. difference between "im nervous because this is my first date" and "you make me nervous because you're so beautiful" flattery is always good.
Nah both are a fail. Most women believe they're better than the average guy and they're special and the prize. But don't ever give her confirmation of that.
Most women want to feel like they were chosen by a guy that could've chosen anyone else. Or focused more on his purpose. Not by a guy that is lucky to have her with little else going on.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 woah, dude who hurt you.
@@Codenamelana Really? The cliché "who hurt you" shaming tactic? What about what I said was wrong? Can you try to explain that instead of being condescending?
Nope as woman I can't even stand it when guys come up to me to tell me I'm beautiful 😩 But that's just me and all of my friends haha.
@@Codenamelana He's not wrong.
"Most women believe they're better than the average guy"
All you have to do is look at how much guys they reject to see that. Most don't want guys on the same level
"Most women want to feel like they were chosen by a guy that could've chosen anyone else"
Women like men that get attention from other women. A lot of people can attest to this.
Goddam, that first dude went on a roller coaster of emotion when the button lit up
"Yep, here we go."
"Any second now."
"...oh, my god."
"Oh my god, she hasn't pushed it??"
"Maybe I have a cha-"
WHAM BEEP
She fuckin dunked that shit.
I felt that so bad!
He saw it coming that's why he walked away so calmly
I just feel sorry for the dude. He just needs some help.
And those are the type of guys who become multi millionaires and then these same women complain the guys aren't choosing their used up 3 baby daddy and obese selfs
I still don't understand why people put themselves out there like this. It's entertaining for those not involved, and some of the ones involved. But, my God. Imagine going back and seeing yourself in these moments
Well I could say the same thing about most things online 😂 ppl post a lot of crazy stuff not even thinking about the fact that once it's out there, it's forever.
They're probably getting paid. I mean, they even reuse a lot of the same people
Honestly wouldn't think much of it. It's a game if anything as long as you're comfortable with yourself. If you're not fearful of being rejected you have nothing to lose. Oh they decided to reject? Wouldn't have worked out anyway so onto the next one. Remember that.
It's the intention. Some go there specifically to troll and they are proud when they see the cringe
For Money
This episode of the Button is way too realistic, with the chick finding a dude she connects with and then proceeding to still try other dudes out
Why would anyone do otherwise in a similar situation? They JUST MET. Any person would keep their options open.
Women will women, care not for the thot, for if she breathes, she is one.
@@signalfire15 because the purpose of the button is that if no one presses the button, it's a date and the game is won and it's over for both. The point of the game is to take the one you think you'd get along with and go on a date, not make sure you go trough all contestant before you go on a date with contestant #2. In a real life situation, you're right. But in this case, it defeats the whole purpose of the show.
i ain’t tryna hear 😭 let me be delusional
@@339blackdiamond The point of the game is whatever the producers want it to be. Clearly, they wanted to mix it up.
0:12 did the video repeat itself
No, you are crazy…
Grady 1) get in the gym, take up boxing and or mma to build your masculine physic and confidence. 2) take up toastmasters and ice breakers to get comfortable speaking in public. 3) network and engage the chicks in the spaces and extra curriculars you enjoy. 4) take up a trade or become a subject matter expert where they have to come to you for help and advice, hook them with knowledge and keep them with personality 5) volunteer for a nonprofit join a social group positively impacting the community poor, elderly or youth. If those chicks are still choosing the opposite of you go back to #1 commit to 21 days, then 6 months and then a year. ***get your money up***
Man a girl was wondering why I was so closed off and not talking about sex around her. I told her my story she laughed about in her group chat with friends. I only found out because her friend was dating my friend and told me. Crazy men's emotions and problems are laughed at🤷🏾♂️
damn… i don’t wanna be that guy but, you can’t be pillowtalking with girls bro especially ones you just meant.
save that for your therapist..or family
most women won’t hesitate to gossip or weaponize things told to them in confidence, I sincerely wished this was NOT the case an it didn’t happen as much to men as it does but unfortunately my wishes don’t amount to much regarding this sadly. Sorry that happened to you bro, that shit wasn’t right!
what was your story?
@@jayclearmen411 nah I wasn't pillow talking her. And I was talking to a therapist then. I was talking with her for like 6 months into it when I finally told her🤷🏾♂️
@@namejeff6090 yea bruh never tell women shit. They always say they want emotionally available men but they always like to use your emotions or shit you dealing with against you
We already knew that..don't believe the hype you don't know who you are talking your secret to..
The problem with this episode is she was fine so none of the guys were gonna reject her, so it was basically her choosing
Yep, when a chick is fine no dude is rejecting you unless you're an attractive guy. Attractive guys like attractive women way through their options to see what else is at the end.
She’s average as hell.Looks like she’s 27 going on 45.
@@tobiaslawrence8928
Well, I can't say you're wrong 🤔
I don't find her attractive at all
Real life simulator pretty much
My dudes. Never tell a girl you haven’t been on a date before. Especially if you’re average at best. Girls wanna think that youre a cool guy who could be with any girl you want but they chose her. RIP my dude.
True ... they love " preselection " the more she could hate you now but if she sees that 3 of your exes where supermodels somehow the next day she's in your bed.
Let that girl know, you tryna find the right one since there’s too many chasing.
@@Gymthingz no... never talk about that girls like mistery they wanna find out themselves if you tell them you ruin their fun and leave... even the nicest girl dosen't want an insecure dude next to her
Depends on two things :
1. If you just want to date and score with women
2. The type of woman.
There is indeed an algorithm if you want to get with as many women as possible that works, but chances are that those relationships will be void of connection and actual meaning. But you'll get laid.
Statistically, you only need one person to really admire you for who you are. But many men and women go for glitz and glamor and never for the people who actually will make their lives more meaningful.
I don't really need multiple guys to like me, I would want one person who connects with me on most meaningful levels.
Exactly this is why i tell my guys do talk to much let her do most of the talking. Cuz too many guys have talked there way out of some potential 🐈 don’t do that.. As much as women say they want the truth they often can’t handle it..all your doing is providing them reasons to disqualify you.
2:38 “I don’t wanna, like, ruin him”
Honey, I think you just did
11:48 Preach’s face when Aba said “if your looking for love and companionship” he didn’t know wtf was about to come next🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damn she literally looks like walking melted chocolate. You know when chocolate melts and it has that shine to it.
You’d are talking about tempered chocolate
To me, she looks like a ReDead from “OoT”, but except with makeup on.
That look is nothing but cocoa butter
the imagery XDD
She looks trash tbh
The Button: His tongue can touch his chin
Her: He seems very mature for his age...
Yeah, totally it's that. For sure. No doubt.
🤞🤣😂
a 27 yr old still in her h04 phase looking to fuk around with a younger dude with no financial security without realizing the wall's coming for her very soon. That's most women in 2022.
Right... like she didn't want to "ruin" the first guy but Mr. Long Lingus was probably the same age.
Imagine being that guy in an ultra Chad move to say he never goes down lol
Lmao a mature tongue
Most of these just devolve into a competition for who can press the button first
Think that’s the point, cut producer salivates when people’s hands twitch
Which I really think is just so bizarre. I'd be saying yes to most people. You're committing to a date. It's really not that serious
As I've learned from my last relationship, if I'm the second best option, I'm no option at all.
The reason why they asked her was because this was the “Absolute Button”, she could not be buzzed out.
This show is a personification why online dating is horrible for society.
The enemy of good is perfect. If everyone is seeking nirvana....no one will find peace.
Never. Period. And these women still keep hoping...
Bleach was right
Aba nailed it. It's unfathomable to some women that men don't have it as easy in dating. The average man doesn't get pursued or even complimented once in 24 hour period.
24 hour period? What about 24 days or even weeks lol
It can also be true for some women too. There are women, including myself who have never dated anyone or has never been pursued. We are out here....unfortunately haha
24 hours? More like 24 months.
INDEED.
if your honest enough with a women she’ll lie to herself.
They often don’t prioritize relationships an marriage in life…then wonder why their not in a marriage or relationship.. they don’t even realize that their mindset is what’s repelling what they say they want.
truth is ladies have had plenty of chances; but, ignored em an chose not to pursue because, of shallow criteria like height not even considering moral character an ethics.. you ladies aren’t alone because of men but, because of you; and your choices.. she never had a chance she merely just had an opportunity.. this knowledge doesn’t sink in until much later in life.
@@Ne55y Do you put yourself out there to be noticed and approached? Because unless you're below average in looks and/or an extreme introvert? An average woman gets approached and complimented.
He was never gonna press it she didn’t need to go with the quickness LMAOOO 😂
Don’t blame her for that😂
She was just way too aggressive 😂😂
11:15 Preach: *Laughs in disappointment* 🤣🤣🤣🤣
7:20 YES❕Peach, you've got some SKILLS...
We need ABA ON THE BUTTON SHOW! or the CUT!
100% AGREE
Petition signed
Way too smart for Cut or Jubilee.
Petition signed
There won't be a show.
The button talking about his tongue was the dopest alley oop.
I feel like that's when he won her 😂
Cheat code
@@mule5785 It absolutely was. This just proves that attraction is not about connection, personality, or any of that nonsense. Attraction is either about looks or sexual arousal.
@@GPhonse257 Facts
@@GPhonse257 yup, that was all she thought about the rest of the show.
She really said: "That's the vulnerable part right there. I love that :)" 🏮🏮🏮
WHAT???
She like one those ghost 👻 things from Harry Potter that suck away your happiest memories 😂
@@NixLotus Quick someone conjure an illuminate deer or something.
@@tomfoolery7797 the fact that you niggas barely know Harry Potter but I know what you tahm bout makes it funnier 😂
@@NixLotus dementors 😆
Just goes to show that when you find that person attractive, you make it easier for them to get with you. No matter WHAT comes out their mouth.
Which is dope when it’s genuine & upfront, but people waste time when it’s the opposite in order to not hurt feelings. I’d rather a girl let me know I’m ugly or not her type from jump instead of her leading me on or beating around the bush.
Not speaking for every woman, but I tread carefully with rejection because I’ve had some unsafe experiences simply for saying no (being stalked, SA, harassed, etc).
@@JustAyedan
I definitely feel that.
There are a lotta men who can’t take rejection to save their life & NEED to convince that woman she’s wrong.
Those are some scum of the earth type of men, cause no man should ever make a woman feel unsafe, regardless of the situation. Especially when you wanted her at first.
The best thing I can say for you is to:
- Always keep something on you (Mace, gun, knife, anything.) incase they start acting funny.
- Always have a great guy friend & homegirls to watch your back.
- & think about the places you’re going where those type of men are.
But I also hope you know there’s men like myself who can take that shit with grace. 👌🏿 “No” isn’t the end of the world.
- Maãlík
@@LoneStoneMaalik 🙏🫂
they dont waste peoples time though. they waste socially inept and desperate dudes time because they either dont pick up on or ignore f* off signals. which of course isnt their fault, but you cant also blame women for not being up front when naturally they dont want to hurt feelings. its within your power to change your actions, not the actions of random women you wont know for longer than a week
@@tramarthomas6105
You contradicted yourself & literally said they waste a man’s time cause they don’t wanna hurt a person’s feelings. That’s literally a time waster.
I do agree that every man needs to be able to take rejection, adapt to how they talk to women, & read social cues, but to sit here & not hold a woman accountable when she leads a man on cause she’s not attracted to them? It’s just as bad as the situation the young lady above me went through with men who couldn’t take “no” for an answer.
I’ve literally been told stories from some women who were literally using a man as a rebound, whom she led on & made feel like she wanted to be in a long term relationship with him, until the guy she REALLY wanted got back in the picture.
No one wants to feel used, & should truly be honest with their intentions, man or woman.
5:54 I agree with Aba, she might the other guys, he shouldn’t shake on that decision. DeJa already interested with the guy because he have a Gene Simmons tongue.
What people don’t realize is that there is always going to be something better
Exactly! This grass is always greener mentality kills dating and relationships. People need to learn to make a choice and be content with it. Unless there's a significant reason to change that choice.
It's actually funny how you 2 changed the meaning of the Law & Order theme for me 😂😂
It's no longer the Law & Order theme. It has become the Aba & Preach kinky song
@@Kaybye555 lmao facts
It was a joke implying the guy was a sexual predator...
Why the hell would she smack that button at 1:31. There's no way he was gonna press in a 100 years and she slams that buzzer...
She was the most pleasant and good looking girl they've ever had.
There was an Asian woman on here as well that was equally attractive & nice!
Idk I got the impression she was fake af
Dude I’m darkskinned male I don’t have females like that what am I doing wrong
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 if you are asking for dating advice on youtube comments then you are probably beyond helping.
However, if you want a pretty black girl just go to Africa.
Maybe i worded it wrong i dont have females like this female has males. If you know what i mean but i do have females just not as much for a darkskined male
12:07 PREACH LMFAOOO THAT WAS PERFECT!!!! "its not enough meat" i completely understand 🤣🤣
The button makes me depressed because I know I'd be buzzed out immediately.
Be honored to not even be apart of that circus show
Chin up king
If it makes you feel any better it’s more like a race to see who presses it first 😂 you just gotta be quick
Most ppl buzz out of defense it’s a vulnerable little to take that risk and get hurt. Most ppl now have no intimacy or vulnerability that’s why the don’t do relationships. I’m. Sure ppl gave buzz there souk mate because the more you like them the harder the reject and hurt is. Cuz it’s super personal you can’t try and blame shit but then not liking you cause they see you and know you’re interested
It's fine, when I see two people make it on this show, it doesn't even fulfill me emotionally because I can just tell most of these relationships won't last.
Oh man I felt for the guy. Guys if you looking for love don't go to dating sites or clubs or anything like that, join a group and meet ppl who like what you like and who with time can grow to like you, build relationships and shit
We men are used to rejection. In the outside world there's always this idea that in dating women are the most victims of rude behavior of men, while in reality lots of women can be very disrespectful to men who doesn't match their (unrealistic) standards. Or worse take advantage of them.
Best advice I can give is work on yourself and be outgoing and someone will come along. Looking for love can land you in some bad spots.....call it learned experience.
What are you talking about
Except if your interests are DnD, science/chess clubs, larping, Magic the gathering and video games. Those are a sure way to not get any girl at all
@@suri-man exactly its just the way it is gotta accept it and move on.
Damn the button turned red and my guy was hyperventilating, about to relive every rejection he has ever been through 😤
There was no need for it really was there, I'm not saying that sort if thing should be able to destroy somebody completely, but it could really destroy that guys week at least.
The Kodak “I hope so” hilarious Preach
The way preach hit that sniff and winked. He had to do lines of something before
tbh i thought the producers gave her more chances so the episode wouldn’t end so fast lol. More matches means more content for the vid.
That’s exactly what I thought
True, but they could’ve just kicked them both if they wanted to go in a date, and continue playing the game without them with the other participants. Not as climatic, but more fair
They could have made the girl move and the dude choose.
Or both.
Yes they're like this is going to well we need to ruin it
Never shake someone's hand sitting down.
Woooo she already reached for the button in that handshake
Button is like that socially awkward friend with no filter that you bring with you on a date and will just say the most outlandish things out of no where 🤣😂🤣
The first guy knew she was gonna press the button.
This episode of the button is like watching a movie that forces that good ending. It ends all happy, but you're like "Meh" at the end.
I bet Deja plays Mortal Kombat, cause that first button press was a Brutality lmfao.
She got to see Von'Rico again like Deja Vu
Women go off physical attraction so not surprised
Shoutout to Aba saying he woulda buzzed out of respect for the brothers. ‘Ppreciate you.
Im pretty sure the reason they let her do the "see the next 2 guys thing" is because The Button saw that this was about to be a quick episode so they prolonged it.
Also they saw every guy was fawning over her at first sight so why not get 2 more reactions in 😂
Date #1 was peak evidence that honesty IS NOT the best policy, at least not early on. At the very least, don't overshare.
I doubt he had a chance there anyways, but just saying, he basically nuked himself from orbit when he willingly said "yup, youre the first!"
Def something i learned while dating. You share too much too early. Will drastically hurt your chances. Gotta hit her with shit in stages
If he was attractive it wouldn't have mattered at all. Let's be real she pushed the button because he was over weight, balding and looked like he was 25 going on 50. Quick fire dating games like this are as vapid and shallow as dating apps.
Facts, don’t be an open book to everyone some will exploit you
It’s good to be honest but you gotta paint yourself in the best light possible. It’s like a job interview you not gonna say I’m a trash man, you gonna say I’m a municipal employee tasked with maintaining the local environment.
@@bballforlife1231 BINGO!!!!!! I cant stress this enough to men. Women use that shit as ammo. You cannot tell her everything. Even when you married or deep in a relationship. DO NOT tell her stuff. When(not if) she gets mad at you she will use that againn you. Women will call this lying. Men, dont let them fool you. Its not lying at all
1:42 yessss that was NOT the way to do it. But hey what was the right way in a limited date game thingy.😅
I do feel so bad for good guys that have a hard time finding a relationship- it really sucks.
There's nothing to do about it..life is not fair!
@@afrosamourai400 true life is shit, but going into despair isn't a solution
@@FalseKing hope can be worse than despair..
@@afrosamourai400 Hope is the only thing that can drive someone in the shitter forward, if u wanna get cousy with despair until you off yourself that's on you. But don't go around portraying stupid sentences like "there's nothing to do about it", as a definitive general answer to a fucked up life.
@@afrosamourai400 they can always buy it
0:06 Bro said his name is Griddy 💀
She pressed that button so fast on the first dude I almost missed it
They don’t want a happy ending, so the button gave her a silly deal to get more content. That’s the way I see it.
It must be so hard for some men. It's hard life for us.
It's certainly hard for men but it's definitively harder for women who don't get any attention..
@@afrosamourai400 even the most ugly women get laid....
@@suri-man it's not about getting laid it's about being wanted..sex is a given for women but love is something else..
@@afrosamourai400 Nope, men have it hard for both
There's no good way to do it, but there are worst ways 😅
10:23 MY DUDE I WOULD HAVE SO MADE A DEJA VU JOKE TO THAT YOU BLEW IT
Round about 4:45 that song popped into my mind:
🎵Alalala long alalalala long alalalala longi a long long long. Oh yeah!🎶 🤣
3:51 Flirting vs Harassment
That Preach tongue action tho wtf lmao
As someone who was a part of cut’s Strangers compete for $1000- this looks 100x more unpleasant 😂😂
Oh I remember you from that vid, didn’t expect to see u pop up in the comment section
Omg Ilah! I love u on the cut! You always brought such wholesome vibes! Don't change, girl!!
BEST opening to an A&P video is FOREVER
i really hope that one day, one of the guys on the button is an Aba N Preach fan, and he yells "ONE TIME FOR MY NIGGAZ!" as he slams that button.
At 22 i dated a 27 year old... lets just say we were at totally different point in our lives. Still remember the day it ended when she wanted to go to baby gap to buy something for her "cousin" only for her to press some "if i wanted to have a baby would u be ready" BS. Then when i told her naaa im straight she threw a piss fit and wanted to walk at breakneck speeds forgetting that i had the car keys and could leave whenever i wanted
Exactly!!!! it’s either that or they try to dominate/son you..or press you into taking it serious FAST!thus why i could never really take em serious.. they’re for fun only.
Hilarious...Lol
@@jayclearmen411 That’s mean. If you see someone is in another life stage and wants kids you should not mess around and play with their time like that.
@@Carolina-rd3gh they should be aware that someone that young will not want kids…
@@princediop8190 taking advantage of someone is always wrong, even if they were naive.
I think this was the worst episode because it was unfairly favorable to the admittedly beautiful girl Deja. She had all the power in every interaction and she knew it. I don't like that the Button basically told her it's her world and she gets all the options while Von'Rico gets none. He should have advocated for himself, but he won't. Good luck getting made a doormat. Couldn't be me.
@Onion Chips You make that sound like men in general have a harem of women chasing us lol! Anyway, Deja is pretty though.
She ugly
@Onion Chips What about Asian/Indian men?
@Onion Chips Nah, many don’t say that, don’t recommend having a victim mentality. The US is not a patriarchy.
@Onion Chips least dating options compared to other woman, not men
0:22 best take Preach has had all year
that girl knows somebody because this has never happen and that's totally unfair.
That poor dude had no confidence and could barely give eye contact.
I ain't gonna lie, that girl took my heart she so beautiful.
She's gorgeous and knows how to play the game well.
Gorgeous is a stretch lol
@@CasualHuman brethren u haven’t and wouldn’t even touch a girl like that or close to. She’s a football stretch to you
@@CasualHuman Yeah i got to see her without makeup to make that assessment. but, she is a pretty tho.
@@jayclearmen411 she is pretty u hater 🤣
@@jayclearmen411 hahaha wtf bro
God damn I love watching y’all review this show
They HATE to see a really pretty, intelligent, classy black woman. It goes against the rules of society 😂smh
That couple seemed more like a big sister little brother.
That woman is a BEAUTY
5/10
@lilbbgrinchiepoo I'm a heterosexual female, so I don't see females that way. I will say she's average at best. And the way she buzzed out everyone, particularly the first guy, she seemed like an asshole to me.
Fake hair and fake lashes
@@08daviepIncels mad 😂
I just wonder… because im not a fan of this shows premise… but
This makes the concept of dating very.. disposable. Imagine if you only had a select few men to choose from and if you couldn’t choose from those, you’re out of luck and you can’t date again. If you wanted to, you could only select from those men that were appointed for you. What it would do is it would cause people to treat dating and people with a lot more respect and not take dating for granted.
Also an excellent plot twist would have been for him to press the button after she went on those two dates and came back to him , because it would show how she’s not in the moment with the guys, she’s looking past them and she was willing to risk the sure thing for something possibly better.
And when i say not a fan of the show i mean the Button…
I’ll always be down with Aba & Preach.
I wish after four she automatically loses. And gets kicked. She only gets four chances and then that's it, no more chances. Like real life.
That's basically how it was before the internet and social media became apart of everyday life
Having less people to choose between to date would not guarantee a relationship. I was telling people, "next" long before social media showed up. If the person isn't into them then it doesn't matter how many other people are around to choose from. The only time that mattered was before women had the ability to vote, own property, and have a bank account.
She seems like the kind of girl who is toxic and mean but does it with a smile, pretty face, and cheery voice so everyone gives her a pass.
💯 just made a comment about how fake and put on she is
I think the same. She also the type that have a high body count off fck boys.
@@ChristianB-d5j It was kind of deceptive of her to press the button so quickly to the first guy and say things like "I said no to him because I don't want to ruin him"
She’s far from Toxic she was hella cool, Stop projecting my Guy not all Pretty girls are Toxic and mean.
@@scottowldn8239 do y'all even know what projecting means lmao
The first one.. man that's probably the hardest I've seen that button get hit
Bro the second guy is deadass that filter with the big asf smile 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Another comment said on a previous video, "Aba be deep in the jubilee cinematic universe." Yall seen enough to dissect producer influences and motivations
And we love it 😂
8:27
what every generation needs to learn
Love that middle part "mmm, yeah, that's the vulnerable part"......like a succubus feeding on the life force before killing its prey :)
Lmfao!!!
One time for my bros!!!! Love that ish Aba let’s goooooo. Pass em around and never love so much you can’t leave em
"I don't want to ruin him". that's the single most dishonest bullshit thing you can say when you reject someone based on their lack of experience. he might be sore after this one for a while, but he dodged a bullet.
Aba with that first read I felt so hard haha and then the girl gave him a 1.5 seconds to press the button and I died 😂