Summary of tips: Basically along the lines of “lie, cheat and steal” (to your mind) - lie to yourself that you love it; cheat fear; steal back the confidence you were born with 1. Erase the fear of rejection - Your brain doesn’t know what you’re telling yourself so tell yourself - “I have CHOSEN this” “and I choose to feel GREAT about it” “I love it” 2. Create rewards for yourself to complete the task bc humans are wired to be drawn to awards. 3. Your mind works for you; not you to it. Cheers and good luck to becoming the best version of you :)
Doreen, we need to watch this video once and again until we apply these wise advices that Marissa Peer shares with us, re-read your comment and you will notice that you would have written it differently, thank God for the blessing of having brought Marissa Peer to this world and make such a possitive impact! 🙌
Marissa I was procrastinating rightt now and that is why I was on youtube and now things change because I was destined to come across your video. Thanks a lot marissa
I was JUST about to open an Amazon Package but my inner self said "NO, DO THE SINK FULL OF DISHES FIRST" so I decided to throw a You Tube while I did the dishes and it WAS THIS PERFECT message. I love how we are guided non-stop! Thank you for your great words of encouragement!
This totally worked! I was two minutes in and I stopped the video and cleaned my house, rearranged my living room and did a 40 minute recording session on electric clarinet... but eventually I had to stop procrastinating and finish watching the video.
If you find yourself not motivated to get started. Emotionally connect with your goals. If you visualize the feeling of reaching your goal and see it before you, it WILL motivate you to push further and make it MUCH easier to do so. Get real specific, the joy inside of you when it happens, the people congratulating you, the things you can give back to your family. Be imaginative! That's how I stay motivated. I've just started my RUclips Channel and even though not many watch me I know WHY I'm putting in all the work. Cause my goal is a part of me, it drives me.
The thing is you have to do things in your life that you don't want to like studying for highschool diploma. I don't need it bc I already got accepted at uni (I live in Germany that works here in some cases)
@@bumblebee2001 But you have to get through uni, and don't kid yourself that these tips won't continue to help you throughout life either. Enjoy it, all the energy you put in will be a great reward!
At 4:38 I want to .... I love to .... I feel so great when I’m .... I’ve chosen to .... I’ve chosen to LOVE IT I love .... I want .... I’ve chosen .... and I’ve chosen to feel great about it!
I have one earnest desire. Before I go back to Nigeria,my country, when my toddlers are adults😀 I wish to meet with you. I promise not to record it. No phones,no cameras. Just give you a twenty- second-hug and that's it. You have molded me into a piece of diamond. 🙏
Sometimes I’ll tell someone what I plan on doing. That way when I finally do it I don’t look a lazy ass when they ask if I did it. I can proudly say yes I accomplished that. It holds me accountable.
I don't know why, but I am exactly the opposite. If I dare to mention to anyone a plan or idea I have, it's the kiss of death for it. Even a To Do List seems to be the guarantee I will do ANYTHING except what is on that list. It's very frustrating.
I have had an excersise program for a week. I keep saying 'tomorrow' I WILL start at 6am tomorrow. I choose to be fit and healthy not fat and lazy. Fit or fat its a choice. Today I choose fit. Thank you for all you do.
I listened to this this morning, then just put it on again for my middle child, who had self regulation issues, and the issues discussed on here. I didn't think he was listening,but then you made him laugh, and we have talked about how we can approach his frustrations with a different attitude. I'm always so thankful for your help! ♥️
I am big time procrastinating and it's a lot about fear as you talk about. Some times I get myself out of the sofa, but right now with Corona and less work it's easy to do nothing. Thank you for reminding me, because I have a lot of things to do!!
Was a huge procrastinator, but since I started doing what I don’t look forward to first like exercise and reading a self help book, my life has changed for the better...Everyday I get better at doing my tasks on time, Thanks Marissa Peer♥️
Your truth hurts, and is so unbelievable, but as soon as you said fear of rejection my spirit knew you were right! When I returned home 20 years ago with my interracial family were were subliminally rejected from my family. Took me 5 years to recognize the rejection of our choice to blend cultures. It never dawned on me that turned into fear and procrastination and starting new projects getting almost to completion and then quit and start again. Thanks for the advice to get my mind excited and my confidence up!!! Going to a children’s park this weekend social distancing of course. Really, thanks so much. Our sons are early 20s now. I’m choosing to follow my passion and leaving my “empty Nestor “ pitty party. Thank you. Going to begin writing on my book that I outlined over 6 mos ago when I committed to writing 500 words a day and never did it. I’m reading 2-3 books at a time. Perfect distraction,
I have suffered procrastination all my life. I am 62 years old, many bad habits acquired through the years. I am listening intently, i have never tried motivating myself, now I will do it, i want this for me, i like this , thank you so much Marissa.
Thank you for sharing these gifts of empowerment! “I HAVE CHOSEN to recreate, regenerate, and re-manifest my thought processes!” I truly needed to hear this TODAY! My MIND works for ME.
Your voice and motivation makes me more ready and positive for the day. I am struggling with my last exams and sharing an apartment with a quarreling boyfriend. This time is difficult to move out because of the virus. I just pray and listen to you, that's all I do to keep staying strong. Thanks for sharing.
Marisa, can you please do a video about overcoming being so tired I struggle to get out of bed every morning? This has been my reality for the past few years.
I watched it yesterday when I was procrastinating. To my surprise, I did not realize I procrastinate because I was fearful, fear of rejection until Marisa said and something within me "clicked". I did some changes yesterday and I am happy to say that I'm seeing (small) positive outcome. The thing is my mind tends to go back to what I am used to and as such I need my daily dose of Vitamin M and constant reinforcement. Thank you Marisa xoxo
Please address in future talks: As a mum, I have difficulty putting my needs first. When I do I feel selfish and like I'm not being a good mum or employee. I take care of my children, husband, job, home, shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. Yes, I ask my family to help me but I still have to manage or supervise and I don't like to. I need to take better care of myself: more sleep, more exercise, better meals, more quiet time!
This is 100%. My new year's resolution is to stop procrastinating, or to use positive language: to be productive and take the risks I know are necessary to be successful. So glad I found this video.
Marisa, it was like you were describing me!!! I hate being like this. If I put in as much energy doing the things I SHOULD be doing as I do procrastinating, I would be SO much further!!! You have a subscriber for life... thank you so much!!! and implementing those affirmations right now!!!
Very educational. I will write those two sentences down and try to repeat daily! Even tho I never watch Netflix or TV in general, I still procrastinate by sitting down, maybe reading articles online, consuming too much different information everyday is also a type of procrastination. Sometimes I think I need that information but the truth is, if I don't apply it anywhere then why learn. Do what you have to do right now!. Also, I watched another video on this topic and it helped me greatly. Basically, we procrastinate all day and then punish ourselves and stay up until late night to manage our chores, which leads to sleep deprivation, making us procrastinate the next day too! This was huge for me. It opened my eyes and I am never ever again missing on my sleep.
Sometimes no matter what I do nothing excites me I don't see meaning in life itself even if I'm not sad! Please make a video about this topic. I realize I procrastinate because of this. I don't want to feel like I need to force myself to do anything!
I needed to hear this so much. I am chronically ill so when I do feel like doing something it can be easy to put things off. Especially after weeks of chemo, my body is so weak it is so hard to push. This was awesome.
Sending you a lot of love, health and happiness! Ave fun practicing this great video. Talking about fun, I heard of people that got better by watching comedy every day!!!
Like the quote yr mind works for you, don't work for your mind tell it better things,it will do better thinks . Lie Cheat Steal love it love love ,chosen it chosen it reward regenerate,reactivate , thank you Marisa Peers
I procrastinated watching this, but kept it up until I finally did. I find the best way to stop procrastinating is if I see something that needs to be done, to do it right then. It boosts my mood and I feel like I accomplished something, no matter how small a task it was. It also gets me moving so that I see more things, and as long as I so one thing and finish it, I can and will do more. I feel pressured and tend to close down when I am told to do something, and given a deadline. That's when I close in on myself and suffer from depression and anxiety.
The other reason we procrastinate is because we think we have a lot to do and just by thinking of that, we are already overwhelmed. The pressure we put on ourselves and the invisible danger, they stress our hearts and brains. In order to survive, we find something "fun" to do to ease the pressure, but really not get any nearer to our goals. It's such a challenge to discipline ourselves. You're not being honest if you deny this. However, we take over the inner voices and say, "Oh it's easy" "Oh it's not a lot to do, I can do this".
I really need to stop procrastinating! Fear of doing paperwork & facing financial situations. My block "I'm not good enough" & being yelled at by narcissist! I'm getting so far behind!!
I've been putting off staining a pine bookcase I bought a while back and after watching this, I feel fired up. I'm going to take your advice and just do it now. I know I'm going to feel fantastic once it's finished. Thanks Marisa!
You are amazing Morissa.Listening you enabled me to call out for HELp first time.all my life i been thinking wrong. You are my inspiration,my problem is when i work on law of attraction i indulge myself in procrastination.and i cannot get over it.Result i have a list of failures, i am scare now, i am aging,finance is not good,no savings,no business,no love life only loneliness and procastinatination.please give me solution. I want to feel happiness,abundance and calmness in reality,practically not in procrastination.
@@MarisaPeer Hi Marisa! Is there a european site to this? I've purchased your course 'Uncompromised Life' on MindValley and it's helped me SO SO much - I can't even express how grateful I am. You've helped me help myself out of a really horrible state, so since then if I ever struggle with anything I always turn to you. I'd love to see you speak about the topic you've linked, as I can relate to it a lot right now and is more specified to my personal blocks. I've been procrastinating with my studying for a while, but didn't know why. After watching this I asked myself what I'm afraid of. Why aren't I progressing? And honestly, I'm afraid of not being as good, or knowing as much as I expect myself to. Not specifically because I'm afraid of rejection, but because I'm afraid of humiliating myself (?). Maybe that's a strong word but essentially I fear of not performing as well as I know I can. Quite a foolish 'reason' to procrastinate now that I think of it. Would 'Pass Your Exams with Confidence and Skill' help? Can I purchase it in EUR or GBP?
Listen to Ben Hart talk on Why Learn Algebra ruclips.net/video/eD2hLhhYmbg/видео.html and Why do Well in School ruclips.net/video/5K1B5UEvqdU/видео.html as these are so helpful. He's a millionaire who has other videos on how to get what you want.
Thank you for a little advice which I have been needing to (thoughtfully) hear. Sometimes the thought of doing a particular job gets buried by lack of motivation and procrastination. The idea of working toward getting motivated and not just expect it to hit you at a given time is a better idea. And, don't procrastinate with working toward getting motivated. Think about it, and do it.
Thank you for your insight on this this! I’ve struggled all my life with procrastination and I can directly relate it to feeling the fear. I can become so excited and hyped up about what I can achieve and do and as soon as I detect the slightest negative remark or doubt I’ll retreat back to procrastination. I’m going to remember this and revisit when I catch myself again!
Hi Lora, really glad you found this video helpful, I will pass your kind words on to Marisa. What you experience is really common, but with awareness and strategies in place, I'm sure you will achieve your goals 💖 - Marisa Peer Team
I've been procrastinating about getting my yoga room together, get back into a regular practice in my room and do my yoga teacher training. The best bit is, yoga is my reward! I love practicing yoga so much and I want to help others like myself who have a disability or who think they can't practice for other reasons that they can. Yoga helped me so much and then I was in a bus accident that, flared my condition up and knocked my confidence. I stopped practicing as much and put weight back on but I practice every night before bed and the weight is coming off. I know what to do to help myself and others. You've done it again and taught me the words I need to say. I'll do it in hypnosis, even if I record myself saying it on my phone and listening, then that's what I'll do. I'm going to have that room set up and the ball rolling in the next couple of weeks. I have found an RTT in Monkton which isn't far from me and he's not expensive. So I'll wait until this virus takes a hike, incase my husband has to take time off work because he gets it or they have to close for a few weeks, which I don't think will happen, and moneys tight. Then I'll contact him because there's things that was said to me growing up that I need help with. My mum, Mary, would tell me I was repulsive and getting fatter by the minute when I was about 7 and this continued for the rest of my life until I cut all ties with my family. I'm 46 on the 18th, I struggle with my weight but I can't accept myself and if I could, I know I'd lose weight a lot easier. Thanks Marisa, much love, really appreciate all the help you're giving me, you're a wonderful person xxx
Unfortunately, I struggle with that. I tend to procrastinate the tasks I don't like to do and feel very unhappy working out. But I realized that being fit, fitting on my clothes and feeling good with my body is more important and way more pleasurable that binge watch Netflix and eating lots of unhealthy food. And being honest, many times, the problem is the lack of control with portions and time management. We can do it!!! Let's do it!!!
Marissa Peers, thanks for this fantastic video material. Is it possible that you make a video about: How to start working on your highest priority in life? (What for me is wealth, because I really want to have more financial freedom to be less independent) Your work is highly appreciated by lots of people. Thank you very much ❤️
Love this. I’ve been using all your videos throughout this pandemic. They have made such an impact on my life. Thank you! Forever sharing your content! 🙌🏽💖🤩🥰
My procrastination isn’t actually fear of rejection I’d have my best ever year if I could just be a finisher. Finish something... Marisa my problem is just thinking I’m not good enough to win it, I’ve always played small with work etc so attempting to change and switch into an exciting new career leaving me procrastinating out of control
Thanks 🙏 I’ve got blinded and deft by all the possibly material things and people who i chose to surrounded with, to the point where I forgot who I really am!, ... so every time I think of my true self and bringing that person back, all those demons I put in my life are the ones who keep telling me I’m not good enough and make fun of me ! So thank you for reassuring those positive voices I still have deep somewhere in my head! As from today I’m choosing to get rid of those people and those distractions and be my happy self again !! 🙏 X
This is so off topic but I'm always intrigued by the shelves behind you with the vinyl records. I recognize some of the albums. Some great artists there! 😄
You are just an awesome lady and your information that you share for the people is just superb thank you grateful for you keep up the good work God bless you
"The only person who has the power to reject me is ME." Love that. Thank you.
You are open minded, mature 🌹👍❤️
Who is watching it while procrastinating? Lol
😂😂😂👋🏼
Hahahahaha ....
this was the last time.
Me lol
If I have q good audiobook I will clean the house like there s no tomorrow though
Me
Polyana Martinez why else would you be here
Ha! My first thought was "I'll watch this later!"
Jackie Root SAVED to watch later!😂
Jackie Root 😂
Lol. Me too.
Before watching this video, did you do your homework !?
I was looking for an escape you tube clip when this one came up and my first thought was to watch it later.... 😂😂🙌
Summary of tips:
Basically along the lines of “lie, cheat and steal” (to your mind) - lie to yourself that you love it; cheat fear; steal back the confidence you were born with
1. Erase the fear of rejection - Your brain doesn’t know what you’re telling yourself so tell yourself -
“I have CHOSEN this”
“and I choose to feel GREAT about it”
“I love it”
2. Create rewards for yourself to complete the task bc humans are wired to be drawn to awards.
3. Your mind works for you; not you to it.
Cheers and good luck to becoming the best version of you :)
Ahh thanks Vina! :)
Thank you so much
Wonderful. Thank you Vina!
Thanks for this! 👍🏽😁
The hero we don't deserve
I struggle so badly with procrastination it's making me so unsuccessful. Thank you for your advice it really a stepping stone to doing better.
Doreen, we need to watch this video once and again until we apply these wise advices that Marissa Peer shares with us, re-read your comment and you will notice that you would have written it differently, thank God for the blessing of having brought Marissa Peer to this world and make such a possitive impact! 🙌
Marissa I was procrastinating rightt now and that is why I was on youtube and now things change because I was destined to come across your video. Thanks a lot marissa
Me too!🙂
Me too😎
Marisa, you're an amazing lady! Thank you for sharing so much with us!
I was JUST about to open an Amazon Package but my inner self said "NO, DO THE SINK FULL OF DISHES FIRST" so I decided to throw a You Tube while I did the dishes and it WAS THIS PERFECT message. I love how we are guided non-stop! Thank you for your great words of encouragement!
This totally worked! I was two minutes in and I stopped the video and cleaned my house, rearranged my living room and did a 40 minute recording session on electric clarinet... but eventually I had to stop procrastinating and finish watching the video.
Good one!
😁😆👍
If you find yourself not motivated to get started. Emotionally connect with your goals. If you visualize the feeling of reaching your goal and see it before you, it WILL motivate you to push further and make it MUCH easier to do so. Get real specific, the joy inside of you when it happens, the people congratulating you, the things you can give back to your family. Be imaginative! That's how I stay motivated. I've just started my RUclips Channel and even though not many watch me I know WHY I'm putting in all the work. Cause my goal is a part of me, it drives me.
Great
The thing is you have to do things in your life that you don't want to like studying for highschool diploma. I don't need it bc I already got accepted at uni (I live in Germany that works here in some cases)
@@bumblebee2001 But you have to get through uni, and don't kid yourself that these tips won't continue to help you throughout life either. Enjoy it, all the energy you put in will be a great reward!
Thanks for sharing. Good luck with your channel
Incredibly helpful Marisa. You have distilled the wisdom of 100s of books to come up with this 10 mins of talk.
lol seriously? I got nothing from this
At 4:38 I want to ....
I love to ....
I feel so great when I’m ....
I’ve chosen to ....
I’ve chosen to LOVE IT
I love ....
I want ....
I’ve chosen ....
and I’ve chosen to feel great about it!
Thanks for writing this down
Great advice. Many of us experience procrastination every once and awhile.
Once in a while.. I experience it weekly
I have one earnest desire. Before I go back to Nigeria,my country, when my toddlers are adults😀 I wish to meet with you. I promise not to record it. No phones,no cameras. Just give you a twenty- second-hug and that's it.
You have molded me into a piece of diamond. 🙏
“Your mind works for you... not you for it”👏🏾
Sometimes I’ll tell someone what I plan on doing. That way when I finally do it I don’t look a lazy ass when they ask if I did it. I can proudly say yes I accomplished that. It holds me accountable.
I don't know why, but I am exactly the opposite. If I dare to mention to anyone a plan or idea I have, it's the kiss of death for it. Even a To Do List seems to be the guarantee I will do ANYTHING except what is on that list. It's very frustrating.
I have had an excersise program for a week. I keep saying 'tomorrow' I WILL start at 6am tomorrow. I choose to be fit and healthy not fat and lazy. Fit or fat its a choice. Today I choose fit. Thank you for all you do.
Procrastination is acquired. Makes total sense.
I listened to this this morning, then just put it on again for my middle child, who had self regulation issues, and the issues discussed on here. I didn't think he was listening,but then you made him laugh, and we have talked about how we can approach his frustrations with a different attitude. I'm always so thankful for your help! ♥️
“Your mind works for you, not you work for it.” 👍
I am big time procrastinating and it's a lot about fear as you talk about. Some times I get myself out of the sofa, but right now with Corona and less work it's easy to do nothing.
Thank you for reminding me, because I have a lot of things to do!!
WOOOW THIS JUST COMPLETELY CHANGED MY LIFE RIGHT NOW!!
Was a huge procrastinator, but since I started doing what I don’t look forward to first like exercise and reading a self help book, my life has changed for the better...Everyday I get better at doing my tasks on time, Thanks Marissa Peer♥️
Your truth hurts, and is so unbelievable, but as soon as you said fear of rejection my spirit knew you were right! When I returned home 20 years ago with my interracial family were were subliminally rejected from my family. Took me 5 years to recognize the rejection of our choice to blend cultures. It never dawned on me that turned into fear and procrastination and starting new projects getting almost to completion and then quit and start again.
Thanks for the advice to get my mind excited and my confidence up!!! Going to a children’s park this weekend social distancing of course. Really, thanks so much. Our sons are early 20s now. I’m choosing to follow my passion and leaving my “empty Nestor “ pitty party. Thank you. Going to begin writing on my book that I outlined over 6 mos ago when I committed to writing 500 words a day and never did it. I’m reading 2-3 books at a time. Perfect distraction,
I have an exam and i'm procrastinating by watching this video🤦♀️🤷♀️
Goddess Tanala 😂💓
Perfect timing! Instead of preparing for my final exams I'm spending way too much time scrolling Instagram. Thank you
Fear and Rejection is acquired. I believe it.
Marisa, as we build and grow our business, you are a source of inspiration from which we draw sustenance. Thank you for sharing your abundance.
Thank you! 😊
- Marisa Peer Team
I have suffered procrastination all my life. I am 62 years old, many bad habits acquired through the years. I am listening intently, i have never tried motivating myself, now I will do it, i want this for me, i like this , thank you so much Marissa.
Thank you Marisa I have become the worlds best procrastinator over time. I wasn’t always like this. Thank you for your wonderful guidance and help
Thank you. You are right. Fear of rejection is killing me from writing my book.
I want it, I've chosen it and I've chosen to feel great about it!!! Yes!
I love her!!!! She's such a light on earth
I could listen to you all day♥️ I've procrastination regarding wallpapering, self sabotage is present in my life also. Thankyou for this!
Came at the right time. Thank you Marisa. 🙏🏼
The point about reward is amazing.
from now onward i am going to apply this in my daily routine. THANK YOU MARISA.
"I will have a shower
but actually....
I will have it later! "
lots of love & blessings ❤️❤️🇬🇧
I really liked the choice comment so I don't feel forced now, I choose to do this essay then I choose to do whatever..makes such a difference 🌞
Thank you for sharing these gifts of empowerment!
“I HAVE CHOSEN to recreate, regenerate, and re-manifest my thought processes!”
I truly needed to hear this TODAY! My MIND works for ME.
Fear the root!!!Thank you!
Your voice and motivation makes me more ready and positive for the day. I am struggling with my last exams and sharing an apartment with a quarreling boyfriend. This time is difficult to move out because of the virus. I just pray and listen to you, that's all I do to keep staying strong.
Thanks for sharing.
Stay strong 💪 You've got this x
Marisa, can you please do a video about overcoming being so tired I struggle to get out of bed every morning? This has been my reality for the past few years.
Great idea, thank you x
I watched it yesterday when I was procrastinating. To my surprise, I did not realize I procrastinate because I was fearful, fear of rejection until Marisa said and something within me "clicked". I did some changes yesterday and I am happy to say that I'm seeing (small) positive outcome. The thing is my mind tends to go back to what I am used to and as such I need my daily dose of Vitamin M and constant reinforcement. Thank you Marisa xoxo
Thank you, dear Marisa, you're wonderful! I was wondering how I can make for myself a better life. You've just gave me the answer. God bless you!
What a beautiful speech to wake up too!!!! Thank you!!!
I am gong to give your ideas a go. I have two very bad issues, procrastinating and perfectionism. Thanks for your information!
Such strong and powerful individual.
Please address in future talks:
As a mum, I have difficulty putting my needs first. When I do I feel selfish and like I'm not being a good mum or employee. I take care of my children, husband, job, home, shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. Yes, I ask my family to help me but I still have to manage or supervise and I don't like to. I need to take better care of myself: more sleep, more exercise, better meals, more quiet time!
Same here, but no more, We can start applying Marissa's advice with our childrens to improve their cooperation!!
This is 100%. My new year's resolution is to stop procrastinating, or to use positive language: to be productive and take the risks I know are necessary to be successful. So glad I found this video.
I have chosen it and I feel good about it
I want it
I have chosen to love it
No 1 fear for many people I suppose, fear of making a mistake; that could be a good topic!
Great suggestion, thank you x
Your mind works for you don't make yourself work for it
Marisa, it was like you were describing me!!! I hate being like this. If I put in as much energy doing the things I SHOULD be doing as I do procrastinating, I would be SO much further!!! You have a subscriber for life... thank you so much!!! and implementing those affirmations right now!!!
Very educational. I will write those two sentences down and try to repeat daily! Even tho I never watch Netflix or TV in general, I still procrastinate by sitting down, maybe reading articles online, consuming too much different information everyday is also a type of procrastination. Sometimes I think I need that information but the truth is, if I don't apply it anywhere then why learn. Do what you have to do right now!. Also, I watched another video on this topic and it helped me greatly. Basically, we procrastinate all day and then punish ourselves and stay up until late night to manage our chores, which leads to sleep deprivation, making us procrastinate the next day too! This was huge for me. It opened my eyes and I am never ever again missing on my sleep.
Exactly, it is so so important that we apply what we learn otherwise, what is the point? 😊
- Marisa Peer Team
To me, the idea of " I've chosen to.." it's very powerful. Thank you for your always powerful and life-changing key words 😘
Sometimes no matter what I do nothing excites me I don't see meaning in life itself even if I'm not sad! Please make a video about this topic. I realize I procrastinate because of this. I don't want to feel like I need to force myself to do anything!
I needed to hear this so much. I am chronically ill so when I do feel like doing something it can be easy to put things off. Especially after weeks of chemo, my body is so weak it is so hard to push. This was awesome.
Sending you a lot of love, health and happiness! Ave fun practicing this great video. Talking about fun, I heard of people that got better by watching comedy every day!!!
I have the feeling that we are going to be very good Friends. Love your videos and your message Marisa.
Like the quote yr mind works for you, don't work for your mind tell it better things,it will do better thinks . Lie Cheat Steal love it love love ,chosen it chosen it reward regenerate,reactivate , thank you Marisa Peers
I have realized the reason of my procrastination is all about of fear of rejection ( a feeling of not enough)
Thank you, now undestand why i procrastinate, i always want all to be perfect, then my fearvof failure stops me,
I procrastinated watching this, but kept it up until I finally did. I find the best way to stop procrastinating is if I see something that needs to be done, to do it right then. It boosts my mood and I feel like I accomplished something, no matter how small a task it was. It also gets me moving so that I see more things, and as long as I so one thing and finish it, I can and will do more. I feel pressured and tend to close down when I am told to do something, and given a deadline. That's when I close in on myself and suffer from depression and anxiety.
The other reason we procrastinate is because we think we have a lot to do and just by thinking of that, we are already overwhelmed. The pressure we put on ourselves and the invisible danger, they stress our hearts and brains. In order to survive, we find something "fun" to do to ease the pressure, but really not get any nearer to our goals. It's such a challenge to discipline ourselves. You're not being honest if you deny this. However, we take over the inner voices and say, "Oh it's easy" "Oh it's not a lot to do, I can do this".
I really need to stop procrastinating! Fear of doing paperwork & facing financial situations. My block "I'm not good enough" & being yelled at by narcissist! I'm getting so far behind!!
I've been putting off staining a pine bookcase I bought a while back and after watching this, I feel fired up. I'm going to take your advice and just do it now. I know I'm going to feel fantastic once it's finished. Thanks Marisa!
You are amazing Morissa.Listening you enabled me to call out for HELp first time.all my life i been thinking wrong.
You are my inspiration,my problem is when i work on law of attraction i indulge myself in procrastination.and i cannot get over it.Result i have a list of failures, i am scare now, i am aging,finance is not good,no savings,no business,no love life only loneliness and procastinatination.please give me solution. I want to feel happiness,abundance and calmness in reality,practically not in procrastination.
It's like you spoke directly to me. Your a life saver and an absolute angel xoxo
Dear Marisa I Love Your Voice And Your Intentions I Love You!!
I would love to see a video about succeeding an exam! What I can do before the test, during etc.
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@@MarisaPeer Hi Marisa! Is there a european site to this?
I've purchased your course 'Uncompromised Life' on MindValley and it's helped me SO SO much - I can't even express how grateful I am. You've helped me help myself out of a really horrible state, so since then if I ever struggle with anything I always turn to you.
I'd love to see you speak about the topic you've linked, as I can relate to it a lot right now and is more specified to my personal blocks.
I've been procrastinating with my studying for a while, but didn't know why. After watching this I asked myself what I'm afraid of. Why aren't I progressing? And honestly, I'm afraid of not being as good, or knowing as much as I expect myself to. Not specifically because I'm afraid of rejection, but because I'm afraid of humiliating myself (?). Maybe that's a strong word but essentially I fear of not performing as well as I know I can. Quite a foolish 'reason' to procrastinate now that I think of it.
Would 'Pass Your Exams with Confidence and Skill' help? Can I purchase it in EUR or GBP?
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I wish you had a relaxing chill channel on Spotify of these vids narratives.... I would listen to you all day. 😁
Thank you for a little advice which I have been needing to (thoughtfully) hear. Sometimes the thought of doing a particular job gets buried by lack of motivation and procrastination. The idea of working toward getting motivated and not just expect it to hit you at a given time is a better idea. And, don't procrastinate with working toward getting motivated. Think about it, and do it.
Thank you for your insight on this this! I’ve struggled all my life with procrastination and I can directly relate it to feeling the fear.
I can become so excited and hyped up about what I can achieve and do and as soon as I detect the slightest negative remark or doubt I’ll retreat back to procrastination. I’m going to remember this and revisit when I catch myself again!
Hi Lora, really glad you found this video helpful, I will pass your kind words on to Marisa. What you experience is really common, but with awareness and strategies in place, I'm sure you will achieve your goals 💖
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I've been procrastinating about getting my yoga room together, get back into a regular practice in my room and do my yoga teacher training. The best bit is, yoga is my reward! I love practicing yoga so much and I want to help others like myself who have a disability or who think they can't practice for other reasons that they can. Yoga helped me so much and then I was in a bus accident that, flared my condition up and knocked my confidence. I stopped practicing as much and put weight back on but I practice every night before bed and the weight is coming off. I know what to do to help myself and others. You've done it again and taught me the words I need to say. I'll do it in hypnosis, even if I record myself saying it on my phone and listening, then that's what I'll do. I'm going to have that room set up and the ball rolling in the next couple of weeks. I have found an RTT in Monkton which isn't far from me and he's not expensive. So I'll wait until this virus takes a hike, incase my husband has to take time off work because he gets it or they have to close for a few weeks, which I don't think will happen, and moneys tight. Then I'll contact him because there's things that was said to me growing up that I need help with. My mum, Mary, would tell me I was repulsive and getting fatter by the minute when I was about 7 and this continued for the rest of my life until I cut all ties with my family. I'm 46 on the 18th, I struggle with my weight but I can't accept myself and if I could, I know I'd lose weight a lot easier. Thanks Marisa, much love, really appreciate all the help you're giving me, you're a wonderful person xxx
Your delivery is beautiful. Thank you for this wonderful video with fantastic content.
love this post. truly healing. amazing how insight and wisdom can change your perspective completely
Unfortunately, I struggle with that. I tend to procrastinate the tasks I don't like to do and feel very unhappy working out. But I realized that being fit, fitting on my clothes and feeling good with my body is more important and way more pleasurable that binge watch Netflix and eating lots of unhealthy food. And being honest, many times, the problem is the lack of control with portions and time management. We can do it!!! Let's do it!!!
Do what you hate first. So if it's working out, get it over and done with first thing. You'll soon get used to it and look forward to it x
Thanks Marissa!!
Marissa Peers, thanks for this fantastic video material. Is it possible that you make a video about: How to start working on your highest priority in life? (What for me is wealth, because I really want to have more financial freedom to be less independent) Your work is highly appreciated by lots of people. Thank you very much ❤️
I had a FB friend in Nigeria. I ask him if he ever procrastinated. His response was so on target. "No, I live in the real world."
Thank You Dear Marisa !!!
Glad I' ve known you !!
This went straight to the heart 💘
Just what i needed to hear from you Marisa! x
Thanks for this! I love the idea that the brain doesn’t know the difference between fear and excitement. Brilliant 🙌🏾
Love this. I’ve been using all your videos throughout this pandemic. They have made such an impact on my life. Thank you! Forever sharing your content! 🙌🏽💖🤩🥰
This video is an Albert Bandura chance encounter. Just what I needed to overcome procrastination.
Thank you, Marisa.
Marisa Peer - you are blinkin' brilliant!!!!
So are you x
@@MarisaPeer Thank you so much for responding! I'm feeling rather chuffed. :) x
Your mind works for you.
Excellent video, very eloquent, to the point, succinct, very impactful and love her subtle wit. Thank you!
My procrastination isn’t actually fear of rejection I’d have my best ever year if I could just be a finisher. Finish something... Marisa my problem is just thinking I’m not good enough to win it, I’ve always played small with work etc so attempting to change and switch into an exciting new career leaving me procrastinating out of control
Plz can u make a video on how to heal emotional wounds.
That would be very helpful.
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Wonderful. Do what you love, nothing can stop you , hence convince yourself to love whatever you want to do.
Absolutely x
Thanks 🙏 I’ve got blinded and deft by all the possibly material things and people who i chose to surrounded with, to the point where I forgot who I really am!, ... so every time I think of my true self and bringing that person back, all those demons I put in my life are the ones who keep telling me I’m not good enough and make fun of me ! So thank you for reassuring those positive voices I still have deep somewhere in my head! As from today I’m choosing to get rid of those people and those distractions and be my happy self again !! 🙏 X
I’m so grateful for you .
You are a gift to this world. Thank you for all your knowledge, thank you for changing our lives. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕💕💕💕
Like is so minimal for this video...Marisa thanks alot you are helping so many ppl who are struggling.☺️☺️☺️
This is so off topic but I'm always intrigued by the shelves behind you with the vinyl records. I recognize some of the albums. Some great artists there! 😄
What a wonderful video. I don't know who you are Marisa....but I LOVE you! Thank you for making this!!!
You are just an awesome lady and your information that you share for the people is just superb thank you grateful for you keep up the good work God bless you
Thank you so much Marisa! Will take your certification shortly 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thank you SO much for being so AWESOME and generous with your time and knowledge! Thank you for existing! May God bless you always! 🙏😘
Thank you so much 💕💕💕💕
I definitely needed this. I'm going to try this. I am desperate to change and heal.