I was mentally and physically abused by my father until 14 years of age. I have pushed the emotions back for years. It has affected my gut..my relationships..I drink more than I should. This was amazing 👏
Marissa you know what I find funny, you are the only one I have scene online this far that actually provides a formula. We all know what trauma is, many of us know how it effects us, our health & our lives, and even more of us are told we need to heal the trauma. Accept 1 thing, no one specify's how. Glad you are one that does.
@@JamieR Now, that is simply Not true. Marisa💓 is Very GENEROUS... publishing Hundreds of Helpful videos, with hundreds of helpful examples... for us to be able to work... and Help Outselves in the privacy of our homes🙏 THANKYOU 🙏 So Much, dear Marisa💓, I am Forever GRATEFUL 🙏
@@stevelily1763 Yeah she does give away a lot of free content and that is amazing. But the cost of the actual rapid transformation content requires deep pockets.
Seeking answers and support for your health concerns is a vital step toward a healthier and happier future. Reach out to our trained RTT® professionals for personalized guidance here bit.ly/3QdQiud Regards, Team Marisa
The only 'solutions' I have found are journaling, meditation and positive affirmations. Take responsibility for yourself, change yourself using neuroplasticity, get on with life.
Thank you! I am in an astounding amount of pain that I know is from my mind, my past, my early childhood. So I am going to do what you say. But I just remembered that my body, my unconscious speaks in metaphor. My right leg is what is in pain and I have been tryinq to step up, like from below deck to upper deck. I'm so excited about my plans and then I have become incapacitated. I can barely walk. It's called fibromyalgia. I couldn't even speak when spoken to as a little kid, all those horrible neglects you talk about.
*PEOPLE IN ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES, JAIL AND PRISON NEED TO HEAR THIS.....''BEFORE''....ENDING UP WHERE THEY ARE NOW!!!!* *THIS INFO IS GOLD, SILVER AND DIAMONDS!!!*
Whilst our beliefs do shape our lives as we search for evidence to uphold them mostly unconsciously, merely talking about what has been identified as a feeling in the body is not enough for the body to release the tension and trauma brought about by suppressing emotions, we have to actually to the depths and feel what we feel especially those emotions we find uncomfortable. Thinking and talking can create a barrier between how feel as much as it can be a link to this. I've been able to talk about what happened to me and the trauma in my life fluently without feeling a damn thing, shedding a tear or shaking which I'd become very adept at hiding, it's not until I actually began to feel the pain, sadness, and most of all the terror which has been the most harrowing experience to feel in my entire life as the backlog of contained emotion felt overwhelming to begin with but now a fleeting sensation that I've come to cherish because I know what's on the other side, that I've begun to feel released, relaxed, secure and confident that I can deal with anything that comes my way and I've done all this without talking about it to anyone, understanding what emotions are and that they can't hurt me, only suppressing does that. I find all I need to do is tell people what works for me and what doesn't and accept how they respond to this, altering my relationship with them accordingly. They don't need to know how I feel about what they've done, they only need to know what I need..I only need them to know what I need from them. Many people hear us telling them how we feel about what they do threatening, a personal attack which then can lead to all kinds of friction and confusion in relationships..I've been there too. It doesn't have to be so complicated. Now I simply need to feel how I feel which is now so fleeting it's barely noticeable as it's also very comfortable, which leads to instinctively knowing what I need to do or not do and then do that. If we were all attuned emotionally the story would be very different, we wouldn't need to talk about how we feel or what we need because people would sense from our accepted expressions but we're not there as we would have been once upon a time so to expect anyone to know what we need without us saying anything is also an unrealistic expectation. I feel totally alright with however I feel now and have no issue shedding tears, shaking or dancing in the rain if that's what I need to do. What other people think of me is none of my business, only what they do to me is and how I feel about that is mine alone to bear. The world looks and feels like an entirely new place to me and my body is healing, perhaps it won't entirely as in my 60th year there's been a lot of damage but that's alright too, it's worked hard with the actions I've taken that have worked against myself to keep me alive and I honour myself for that as well as the child I was that had to keep all in because of the repercussions from parents who didn't know any different either. It's nobody's fault, it's a society's failure that we oppress ourselves and others, but it is all our responsibility to understand as best we can how to heal ourselves and by extension, the world around us. We are society after all. It's also worth bearing in mind that we are deliberately not educated to heal ourselves, we are taught instead how to profit others or ourselves financially as a means to uphold capitalism. There is much research into healing but this is largely ignored by the educational systems. The same goes for how the economy really works but that's another story!
i was taught by life never to show or express hurt ... what a marvelous phrase "i was hurt ..." I feel something releasing in my gut every moment I say that or even think that. imagine that, years of dealing with IBS / crohn's all because i didn't express myself. thank you
This video is extremely helpful for me Marisa! After I did yoga 20+ years I couldn’t afford to go in person the last 2 years, so I am trying to do it at home 🏡 This video is very informative so thank you ☺️ I will watch it and also incorporate my yoga 🧘 again even if I have to practice at home 🏡 for free. I was angry because I couldn’t afford it due to my health situation and being unable to work also. I also learned to express it instead of repressing it.
7:07 just confirmed that crying out sleep training can affect human beings negatively. This video should be a must to watch for everybody. Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
So healing. Stop feeling sorry for yourself was the toxic code. To let the child express and then speak to the truth of the actual matter about the shoes instead of just squashing her perspective is so incredibly beautiful and love filled. Crying has helped keep Trauma out of my body, and when I didn't, came that angry rash or some other bodily phenomenon. Had hypochondriac symptoms from the high stress until I found Louise Hays book you can heal your life that had the disease grid with probable causes and affirmations like a prescription with no negative side effects. Thank you for being an effective healer with the sharing of your wisdom.
I appreciate your authenticity and loving, caring, ways Marissa. I wish my ex trauma therapist had / used your skills. I was left feeling worse in and after her services overall, than before I started therapy with her. I love how you lift us up, don't keep us stuck and provide solutions/ positive treatments. God Bless you. I am so, very Grateful for you. Validation, love, solutions. Amen
Thank you Marisa for this video, it is so helpful and meaningful❣I have know for many years about the mind/body connection but the way you conveyed it adds another level of depth and gives us a tool to work with.
.....wonder why no doctor so far understands that prescribing pills ia not the solution. Our daughter has constant headaches and often migraine and now sharp pain during the day on her right temple lobe. She is not willing to take further medication and we totally agree. She us 16 years and just want to get help. Actually, I know why doctor's never ask any background or out of the box, because they never learn about it in medical school and if they have no interest to dig further, nothing changes.
Thank You from my heart! Now I realised, that I have had experiencing in my childhood extraordinary trauma situations, which I have been normalising until now. This is life changing for me! Thank You, Marisa!!!!
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️ We are so glad you came up with this realization. If you wish to book an RTT session, I would recommend connecting with one of our certified and trained RTT professionals. We have a directory of our practicing therapists and practitioners here: professionals.rtt.com/ You can search by location, issue, language, and more to connect with the most suitable therapist, practitioner, or coach. If you cannot find a suitable Professional in your area, many also offer their services online. As RTT is a closed-eye therapy, you are just as supported online as you would in person. You must liaise directly with the professional to know their availability and costs. They will also be happy to answer any questions you have about the structure of the sessions and follow-ups. Kind Regards, Marisa Peer Team
Marisa thank you for this video you are talking about TMS i have chronic pain in my mouth and ribcage teaching my brain now or talking to my inner child now that i am safe. ❤❤❤❤😊
Thank you Marisa for this particular message .I totally needed to hear this over and over and over again. I keep being hurt by my daughter and for the sake of peace I kept bottling all in .I'm so relieved to hear this word. Thank thank you for your teaching on how to deal with hurt .God bless you Melisa
That you feel hurt is not because of your daughter, it's something she does that reminds you of a past hurt. She will learn to respect you as you learn to respect yourself and we do this by accepting how we feel, actually feeling it and hearing what our instincts tell us we need to do. Your feelings are not your daughter's responsibility. I've had to learn this the hard way too, my daughter still holds resentment toward me and that's totally acceptable but as we discuss what emotions are for and how feeling them not simply talking about them enables us to free ourselves she's growing to respect herself too and in turn respect me as I expect her to.
@@Myheartofthematter thank you very much for the response.it came just as I received another dose of outburst from my daughter which sincerely speaking I can't even imagine what triggered it. You are absolutely right. She reminds me of the violence of her father who was both physically and verbally abusive towards me. I was the sole bread winner while he was not working, drinking changing women etc. Eventually I had to leave him and took my children with me became a single mother for over 25 years now. My son is very calm and respectful and responsible and I never had any challenges with him. It's very painful to experience such hurt from your own child but like you said,she is not the one but what her father use to do that triggers the pain over and over. I thought that I have reached the point where such incidents will not affect me but I'm determined to heal from all this. I keep affirming all that you have been teaching us on self love. Thank you so much Marisa for all your kindness and time to answer my message I'm deeply grateful for your sacrificing your precious time to answer me. It's very very comforting reading your words.very comforting You are indeed a blessing to me and to the world. Much love Cristina ❤️
@@christinaatuanya9395 ... apologies for any confusion, I'm not Marisa. My name is Julia and I can relate to all you say having experienced similar abuse as my daughter also did as her father manipulated her to turn her against me as a means to control my life once I ended the relationship. I've been researching and experimenting with treatments for trauma and have finally found a way to release the past hurts and fears as I'd explained already. I was a practicing counsellor in the UK but had to give that up due to the impact all the trauma had on my health but never stopped my personal development and education. My daughter used to have terrible outbursts most of the time I had no idea why, sometimes I simply said no to her demands and that was enough for her to fly into a frightening rage. I was told I shouldn't show my fear but her temper reminded me of my childhood, my mother's rages so this was an expectation that harmed me further as I had to hold even more in than I was already doing. Many medical, psychological and alternative treatments don't entail a full understanding of what trauma is. I highly recommend you look up Gabor Mate if you've not already. His experience and professional expertise is the only take I've heard on trauma that makes complete sense to me..and if you like, Irene Lyon also, she explains in greater detail what happens in the body and how to release the tauma and tension. My life has turned around and now out the other side where the effects of trauma are barely noticeable and that's whilst living through a horrendous situation at home with a structural issue and nasty neighbour without any support for myself!! If you have support all the better but it's all very doable alone as I've proven to myself. All the very best to you and your daughter, you both deserve so much better.
Marissa ...thank thank you from bottom of my heart ♥ you are very humble beautiful soul Value all you have expressed 😮😊😂❤🎉you are helping me to understand..clearly Much love ❤Helen xxxx😊
I have been voicing my hurt for decades. I have failed in life, it has not left me. I am alone and miserable living the 'victim' existence, getting more and more contempt, hope lost..
We are really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone who can provide the support you need. Please consider talking to a mental health professional or your doctor. We are wishing you the best on your healing journey.
OMG,I'm dealing with severe gut/ acid burning inside my mouth,over a tear now,PAINFUL,scary!!!! Im so VERY grateful I found this video!!! Thank you Marisa!!!😌🙏💚💜🫶🫂☮️🥰
Thank you so much MARISSA. :) You have no idea how your videos, your advices, your hypnosis have been helping me and giving me insight about my childhood trauma and how to deal with them and heal them. THANK YOU SO MUCH. :) May the one and only true God always blesses you and protects you. Amin.
Wow Marissa this was really powerful for me! I almost scrolled past…… thank you so much for giving me this gift to release hurt. I am enough ❤ you are such a gift thank you 🙏
❤ You are wonderful! I just discovered you after about a year of deep diving into similar work. So excited for the growth that is to come. Thank you for making this information free.
Beautiful words of wisdom well illustrated to its core. The examples used in this subject was simplified, but had so much worth to indicate it’s truest meaning, This work you do is of great importance to us humans. Keep up your excellent work. God bless you.!❤❤
I did this with writing...i wrote my answers to those questions technique instead of verbalizing coz im not good at expressing verbally, one particular event in my childhood that gave me so much hurt done by my mom and brother that to this day still vividly remember .i run feeling terrified because my brother would beat me up, when he told our parents our mom wished he could have done worst than chasing me i was expecting to be comforted by parents because im the youngest.but she just applauding my bro. During that incident i even said to myself im gonna do revenge to my brother's future daughter ,30 years later he had a daughter unconsciously i did the same to her 4-5 year old daughter and after the terrifying chasing that incident in my chilhood , flashback. I was like oh my god it happened i ask forgiveness to my niece and explained make sure that she would still feel loved by me. So now i wrote everything i felt and vibrationally picked up during that event it was as if i was experiencing it all over again and i sobbed like a child again. as i continue writing it lead me to discover how it shape a pattern in my relationship why am i feeling those kind of hurts in my romantic relationships that im not worthy that my feelings arent important, that i only exist to please obey my mother it leads me to discover that every character of those exes and my behavior towards them is exactly those feelings of that incident. Im so amazed by how it unfolds everything by answering those questions.
Hi Mark, thanks for reaching out! Rapid Transformational Therapy achieves breakthroughs by finding and fixing the root cause, rather than just addressing the symptoms of the presenting issue. RTT does this by using an array of techniques and tools that are crucial, not just in teaching you how to communicate with your subconscious mind, but also directly accessing and fixing whatever blockages may be there. For more info on the RTT method see: rtt.com/whatisrtt/ Let me know if you have any other questions :) Marisa Peer Team
I have developed psoriasis since 2016, my eyes have been quite sore for years, my next door neighbors have made a lot of noise to the point where I would sit in my car in the countryside just wishing I had a different life, I could go on. My life has been very hard from the beginning and other people never stop to consider anyone else, the dog is barking?, who cares, slamming our doors?, it’s our house!. I have had enough of human beings, I want a house in the middle of nowhere, im 32, I shouldn’t have a life this hard.
I’m sorry to hear you are struggling. Stress has a terrible effect on psoriasis and then it gets worse which makes you more stress (I’ve had it in my ears for years and they itch constantly so I know how annoying and painful it is) Amy Morrin did a ted talk about how to get through difficult times, it helped me a lot.
Our certified RTT® and RTC® professionals are here to provide tailored support that suits you best. Learn more here bit.ly/3QdQiud Regards, Team Marisa
Thank you! This video came just in time because I have an immense SI joint and tailbone pain. I can't walk, sit, or lay, I am literally blocked. And I was thinking about that I am really stuck in my life. No future, no progress, no success. So I am now looking for some solution. I wish I knew what to do next to be mobile again because apparently I can't change my life overnight. Should I think of any psychic pain from my past, too? Or do I need to be more specific?
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time with your physical pain and feeling stuck in life. It's great that you're looking for solutions to improve your situation. Realign your body and mind with its own natural intelligence with our Health Vortex here bit.ly/3RZXED3 Regards, Team Marisa
You might wish to take a look at this video where one of our therapists tells her story of overcoming Multiple Sclerosis here: bit.ly/46QVkT6. I hope this helps. Regards, Team Marisa
It's important to express your feelings in a way that feels safe and appropriate for you. Our certified RTT® professionals are here to provide the support and guidance you need. Learn more here bit.ly/3QdQiud. Regards, Team Marisa
Past :)? The hirt come from the hate-shame-anger-fear or what ever for the side you dont like and have to use the rest of your life to understand and love ;)
Your journey to self-discovery and healing is unique, and you have the strength to overcome the challenges you've faced. Reach out to our trained RTT® professionals for personalized guidance here bit.ly/3QdQiud Regards, Team Marisa
I want to die. I beg to die. My entire life is hell. Just suffering. The man whom I thought was my best friend... He raped my soul. My soul is anguished and tormented and raped, I am so so so traumatized. I have SEVERE PTSD. My soul is raped. He raped me. Oh the anguish and the agony. He fucked me up. Ruined me. Destroyed me. Raped my soul; shattered my heart; fucked with my mind. I am debilitated from the trauma. Paralyzed frozen. Living in constant terror and panic. I DIE INSIDE. THE PAIN IS UNCEASING AND UNBEARABLE. I LIVE IN A STATE OF PERPETUAL TRAUMA AND PANIC. He betrayed and abandoned me, discarded me like garbage!!! (HOW THE FUCK COULD HE?) Replaced me for another. My mind can't fathom, my heart can't comprehend. I live in perpetual panic and constant longing... How could he not miss me? How could he do this to me? * An important thing: people (such as I) who had a difficult childhood, especially those who never had their emotional needs met, are prone to limerance. The reason is because we were always prone to imagining a parallel reality, a whole world of fantasies we could escape to... Fantasies have always been a safer world for us than the real one, so our mind is already used to this dynamic (it's basically like 'muscle memory'). When something triggers this dynamic, it's like opening a portal to our safe fantasy world, and as destructive as it is, we are used to actually loving it... * REMINDER TO SELF: This was a karmic friendship, meant to be there for a limited time (17-months-ish) to teach you, about yourself! About boundaries, about self-love, about self-respect, about self-worth, etc... About a whole plethora of magical, juicy, alchemical things! The universe, God, your guides, your ancestors, are pushing you, lovingly, in the right direction: into your own magnificent powerful magical freedom! When you let go. The universe will catch you. It’s talking to you. Let go of everything and trust the universe. It’s within you. ✨💫 NOTE TO MY TWIN FLAME: Dearest twin flame, I’m working on myself, I am being 100% healed, on every level, in every way. This is my purification process. I am doing this for me, for you, for us. I’m proud of myself, and I’m getting ready for you. I love you.
We are really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone who can provide the support you need. Please consider talking to a mental health professional or your doctor. We are wishing you the best on your healing journey.
How about if u unravelled why your having problems expressing your feelings of pain hurt rejection anger but still have the fear of being rejected abandoned like u were in your childhood and u are cronically ill and have already done this expressed your feelings with family members and been abandoned with no support from those very people, whom u ran immediately to help whenever they needed you in the past and now your in this Web of isolation with a very serious condition that there is no treatment for , No Dr's clinics to go to because half of the medical staff don't even believe its a condition because nothing shows up in all investigation so its not taken seriously many know this condition ME/CFS it's horrendous and your given the diagnosis and go live with it any insights into what course of action to be taking now emotionally
I was mentally and physically abused by my father until 14 years of age. I have pushed the emotions back for years. It has affected my gut..my relationships..I drink more than I should. This was amazing 👏
Marissa you know what I find funny, you are the only one I have scene online this far that actually provides a formula. We all know what trauma is, many of us know how it effects us, our health & our lives, and even more of us are told we need to heal the trauma. Accept 1 thing, no one specify's how. Glad you are one that does.
Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words towards Marisa, I will be sure to pass them on. Marisa Peer Team 🌺
Totally agree with you! The practical tools you equip with your teachings truly are a treasure! Very, very grateful!
You have to pay $999.99 to find out @Smarie 😂
@@JamieR Now, that is simply Not true.
Marisa💓 is Very GENEROUS... publishing Hundreds of Helpful videos, with hundreds of helpful examples... for us to be able to work... and Help Outselves in the privacy of our homes🙏
THANKYOU 🙏 So Much, dear Marisa💓, I am Forever GRATEFUL 🙏
@@stevelily1763 Yeah she does give away a lot of free content and that is amazing. But the cost of the actual rapid transformation content requires deep pockets.
My parents would tell me "children are meant to be seen not heard". I have a thyroid nodule and have had stomach issues for as long as I can remember.
Seeking answers and support for your health concerns is a vital step toward a healthier and happier future. Reach out to our trained RTT® professionals for personalized guidance here bit.ly/3QdQiud
Regards,
Team Marisa
The only 'solutions' I have found are journaling, meditation and positive affirmations. Take responsibility for yourself, change yourself using neuroplasticity, get on with life.
Thank you! I am in an astounding amount of pain that I know is from my mind, my past, my early childhood. So I am going to do what you say. But I just remembered that my body, my unconscious speaks in metaphor. My right leg is what is in pain and I have been tryinq to step up, like from below deck to upper deck. I'm so excited about my plans and then I have become incapacitated. I can barely walk. It's called fibromyalgia. I couldn't even speak when spoken to as a little kid, all those horrible neglects you talk about.
*PEOPLE IN ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES, JAIL AND PRISON NEED TO HEAR THIS.....''BEFORE''....ENDING UP WHERE THEY ARE NOW!!!!*
*THIS INFO IS GOLD, SILVER AND DIAMONDS!!!*
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️ Marisa Peer Team
Whilst our beliefs do shape our lives as we search for evidence to uphold them mostly unconsciously, merely talking about what has been identified as a feeling in the body is not enough for the body to release the tension and trauma brought about by suppressing emotions, we have to actually to the depths and feel what we feel especially those emotions we find uncomfortable. Thinking and talking can create a barrier between how feel as much as it can be a link to this. I've been able to talk about what happened to me and the trauma in my life fluently without feeling a damn thing, shedding a tear or shaking which I'd become very adept at hiding, it's not until I actually began to feel the pain, sadness, and most of all the terror which has been the most harrowing experience to feel in my entire life as the backlog of contained emotion felt overwhelming to begin with but now a fleeting sensation that I've come to cherish because I know what's on the other side, that I've begun to feel released, relaxed, secure and confident that I can deal with anything that comes my way and I've done all this without talking about it to anyone, understanding what emotions are and that they can't hurt me, only suppressing does that. I find all I need to do is tell people what works for me and what doesn't and accept how they respond to this, altering my relationship with them accordingly. They don't need to know how I feel about what they've done, they only need to know what I need..I only need them to know what I need from them. Many people hear us telling them how we feel about what they do threatening, a personal attack which then can lead to all kinds of friction and confusion in relationships..I've been there too. It doesn't have to be so complicated. Now I simply need to feel how I feel which is now so fleeting it's barely noticeable as it's also very comfortable, which leads to instinctively knowing what I need to do or not do and then do that. If we were all attuned emotionally the story would be very different, we wouldn't need to talk about how we feel or what we need because people would sense from our accepted expressions but we're not there as we would have been once upon a time so to expect anyone to know what we need without us saying anything is also an unrealistic expectation. I feel totally alright with however I feel now and have no issue shedding tears, shaking or dancing in the rain if that's what I need to do. What other people think of me is none of my business, only what they do to me is and how I feel about that is mine alone to bear. The world looks and feels like an entirely new place to me and my body is healing, perhaps it won't entirely as in my 60th year there's been a lot of damage but that's alright too, it's worked hard with the actions I've taken that have worked against myself to keep me alive and I honour myself for that as well as the child I was that had to keep all in because of the repercussions from parents who didn't know any different either. It's nobody's fault, it's a society's failure that we oppress ourselves and others, but it is all our responsibility to understand as best we can how to heal ourselves and by extension, the world around us. We are society after all. It's also worth bearing in mind that we are deliberately not educated to heal ourselves, we are taught instead how to profit others or ourselves financially as a means to uphold capitalism. There is much research into healing but this is largely ignored by the educational systems. The same goes for how the economy really works but that's another story!
i was taught by life never to show or express hurt ... what a marvelous phrase "i was hurt ..." I feel something releasing in my gut every moment I say that or even think that. imagine that, years of dealing with IBS / crohn's all because i didn't express myself. thank you
Where have you been my whole life?! I can not express in words how much better that made me feel. I am so greatful for you Marisa
She speaks so much sense.
Thank you SO much for your videos!❤
I always think what the mind represses the body expresses.
Absolutely!!!!
Is it normal to instantly cry when saying "I was hurt when...". Damn, I really need to heel, but I'm on my path. Thank you, Marisa.
This video is extremely helpful for me Marisa! After I did yoga 20+ years I couldn’t afford to go in person the last 2 years, so I am trying to do it at home 🏡 This video is very informative so thank you ☺️ I will watch it and also incorporate my yoga 🧘 again even if I have to practice at home 🏡 for free. I was angry because I couldn’t afford it due to my health situation and being unable to work also. I also learned to express it instead of repressing it.
I have never in my life have related to a video as much as this one. Everything you said is my life.
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Marisa Peer Team
7:07 just confirmed that crying out sleep training can affect human beings negatively. This video should be a must to watch for everybody. Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Please share with everyone you know.
Best regards,
Marisa Peer Team
So healing. Stop feeling sorry for yourself was the toxic code. To let the child express and then speak to the truth of the actual matter about the shoes instead of just squashing her perspective is so incredibly beautiful and love filled. Crying has helped keep Trauma out of my body, and when I didn't, came that angry rash or some other bodily phenomenon. Had hypochondriac symptoms from the high stress until I found Louise Hays book you can heal your life that had the disease grid with probable causes and affirmations like a prescription with no negative side effects. Thank you for being an effective healer with the sharing of your wisdom.
I love hearing stories of people being kind, and really caring about what children (& others) think & feel.
hello, which book is that?
Can't tell you how grateful I am for you and for God who sent you to me. Wishing you a blessed life. Pls continue,.❤️
I appreciate your authenticity and loving, caring, ways Marissa. I wish my ex trauma therapist had / used your skills. I was left feeling worse in and after her services overall, than before I started therapy with her. I love how you lift us up, don't keep us stuck and provide solutions/ positive treatments. God Bless you. I am so, very Grateful for you. Validation, love, solutions. Amen
Art therapy and hurt from the past. I feel this every day.
Wow i stumbled onto this gem 44 minutes after its release. You are a truly amazing woman
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I got hurt in my present life. Not that easy to leave that painful zone. Releasing hurt does mean to me. Thank you
I'm so glad she's talking about this. And also that it's a great thing to let a child to talk and explained. Children really need that.
Thank you Marisa for this video, it is so helpful and meaningful❣I have know for many years about the mind/body connection but the way you conveyed it adds another level of depth and gives us a tool to work with.
.....wonder why no doctor so far understands that prescribing pills ia not the solution. Our daughter has constant headaches and often migraine and now sharp pain during the day on her right temple lobe. She is not willing to take further medication and we totally agree. She us 16 years and just want to get help.
Actually, I know why doctor's never ask any background or out of the box, because they never learn about it in medical school and if they have no interest to dig further, nothing changes.
You are the most brilliant therapist I've ever encountered in my life. Thank you so much.
Thank you for your kind words and support.
Regards,
Team Marisa
Thank You from my heart! Now I realised, that I have had experiencing in my childhood extraordinary trauma situations, which I have been normalising until now. This is life changing for me! Thank You, Marisa!!!!
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
We are so glad you came up with this realization.
If you wish to book an RTT session, I would recommend connecting with one of our certified and trained RTT professionals.
We have a directory of our practicing therapists and practitioners here:
professionals.rtt.com/
You can search by location, issue, language, and more to connect with the most suitable therapist, practitioner, or coach.
If you cannot find a suitable Professional in your area, many also offer their services online. As RTT is a closed-eye therapy, you are just as supported online as you would in person.
You must liaise directly with the professional to know their availability and costs. They will also be happy to answer any questions you have about the structure of the sessions and follow-ups.
Kind Regards,
Marisa Peer Team
@@RapidTransformationalTherapy Thank You!
You’re welcome ❤️
Marisa Peer Team
Marisa thank you for this video you are talking about TMS i have chronic pain in my mouth and ribcage teaching my brain now or talking to my inner child now that i am safe. ❤❤❤❤😊
You are an amazing woman Marisa. Thank you so much for your videos
Thank you madam Marisa peer I love you
Thank you Marisa for this particular message .I totally needed to hear this over and over and over again. I keep being hurt by my daughter and for the sake of peace I kept bottling all in .I'm so relieved to hear this word. Thank thank you for your teaching on how to deal with hurt .God bless you Melisa
That you feel hurt is not because of your daughter, it's something she does that reminds you of a past hurt. She will learn to respect you as you learn to respect yourself and we do this by accepting how we feel, actually feeling it and hearing what our instincts tell us we need to do. Your feelings are not your daughter's responsibility. I've had to learn this the hard way too, my daughter still holds resentment toward me and that's totally acceptable but as we discuss what emotions are for and how feeling them not simply talking about them enables us to free ourselves she's growing to respect herself too and in turn respect me as I expect her to.
@@Myheartofthematter thank you very much for the response.it came just as I received another dose of outburst from my daughter which sincerely speaking I can't even imagine what triggered it. You are absolutely right. She reminds me of the violence of her father who was both physically and verbally abusive towards me. I was the sole bread winner while he was not working, drinking changing women etc. Eventually I had to leave him and took my children with me became a single mother for over 25 years now. My son is very calm and respectful and responsible and I never had any challenges with him. It's very painful to experience such hurt from your own child but like you said,she is not the one but what her father use to do that triggers the pain over and over. I thought that I have reached the point where such incidents will not affect me but I'm determined to heal from all this. I keep affirming all that you have been teaching us on self love.
Thank you so much Marisa for all your kindness and time to answer my message
I'm deeply grateful for your sacrificing your precious time to answer me. It's very very comforting reading your words.very comforting
You are indeed a blessing to me and to the world.
Much love
Cristina ❤️
@@christinaatuanya9395 ... apologies for any confusion, I'm not Marisa. My name is Julia and I can relate to all you say having experienced similar abuse as my daughter also did as her father manipulated her to turn her against me as a means to control my life once I ended the relationship. I've been researching and experimenting with treatments for trauma and have finally found a way to release the past hurts and fears as I'd explained already. I was a practicing counsellor in the UK but had to give that up due to the impact all the trauma had on my health but never stopped my personal development and education. My daughter used to have terrible outbursts most of the time I had no idea why, sometimes I simply said no to her demands and that was enough for her to fly into a frightening rage. I was told I shouldn't show my fear but her temper reminded me of my childhood, my mother's rages so this was an expectation that harmed me further as I had to hold even more in than I was already doing. Many medical, psychological and alternative treatments don't entail a full understanding of what trauma is. I highly recommend you look up Gabor Mate if you've not already. His experience and professional expertise is the only take I've heard on trauma that makes complete sense to me..and if you like, Irene Lyon also, she explains in greater detail what happens in the body and how to release the tauma and tension. My life has turned around and now out the other side where the effects of trauma are barely noticeable and that's whilst living through a horrendous situation at home with a structural issue and nasty neighbour without any support for myself!! If you have support all the better but it's all very doable alone as I've proven to myself. All the very best to you and your daughter, you both deserve so much better.
Marissa ...thank thank you from bottom of my heart ♥ you are very humble beautiful soul
Value all you have expressed 😮😊😂❤🎉you are helping me to understand..clearly
Much love ❤Helen xxxx😊
Thank you Marisa I needed to hear this today. On to releasing the hurt!
I have been voicing my hurt for decades. I have failed in life, it has not left me. I am alone and miserable living the 'victim' existence, getting more and more contempt, hope lost..
We are really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone who can provide the support you need. Please consider talking to a mental health professional or your doctor. We are wishing you the best on your healing journey.
Omg resonating bigtime! I felt like every word is made for me to hear
OMG,I'm dealing with severe gut/ acid burning inside my mouth,over a tear now,PAINFUL,scary!!!! Im so VERY grateful I found this video!!! Thank you Marisa!!!😌🙏💚💜🫶🫂☮️🥰
Thank you so much MARISSA. :) You have no idea how your videos, your advices, your hypnosis have been helping me and giving me insight about my childhood trauma and how to deal with them and heal them. THANK YOU SO MUCH. :) May the one and only true God always blesses you and protects you. Amin.
I'm so glad to hear that my content has been helpful to you in your healing journey.
Regards,
Team Marisa
I had two psychosomatic illnesses i got over using dr. John sarno technique of TMS syndrome. She is correct about psychological becoming physical.
I feel better already, thanks.
Wow Marissa this was really powerful for me! I almost scrolled past…… thank you so much for giving me this gift to release hurt. I am enough ❤ you are such a gift thank you 🙏
That's wonderful ❤️ You are enough!
Yes,yes, thank all makes sense, how pain has to be stored.
❤ You are wonderful! I just discovered you after about a year of deep diving into similar work. So excited for the growth that is to come. Thank you for making this information free.
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My Mother left me at 5 years of age during WW2 when i found her i U.S.A in the 1960's she said i was not lost i was here how disgusting is that
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I am in awe with this simple and beautiful practice. Thank you.
Beautiful words of wisdom well illustrated to its core. The examples used in this subject was simplified, but had so much worth to indicate it’s truest meaning, This work you do is of great importance to us humans. Keep up your excellent work. God bless you.!❤❤
this was very helpful
Marisa Peer, you are the best! ❤
I did this with writing...i wrote my answers to those questions technique instead of verbalizing coz im not good at expressing verbally, one particular event in my childhood that gave me so much hurt done by my mom and brother that to this day still vividly remember .i run feeling terrified because my brother would beat me up, when he told our parents our mom wished he could have done worst than chasing me i was expecting to be comforted by parents because im the youngest.but she just applauding my bro. During that incident i even said to myself im gonna do revenge to my brother's future daughter ,30 years later he had a daughter unconsciously i did the same to her 4-5 year old daughter and after the terrifying chasing that incident in my chilhood , flashback. I was like oh my god it happened i ask forgiveness to my niece and explained make sure that she would still feel loved by me. So now i wrote everything i felt and vibrationally picked up during that event it was as if i was experiencing it all over again and i sobbed like a child again. as i continue writing it lead me to discover how it shape a pattern in my relationship why am i feeling those kind of hurts in my romantic relationships that im not worthy that my feelings arent important, that i only exist to please obey my mother it leads me to discover that every character of those exes and my behavior towards them is exactly those feelings of that incident.
Im so amazed by how it unfolds everything by answering those questions.
Hi Marisa, is it useful to write about what hurt us?
Thanks so much so important to acknowledge the hurts 🙏
I really love this so much we do normalize things
What happens if you don't know what hurt you? But still have physical issues? (Lots)
Hi Mark, thanks for reaching out!
Rapid Transformational Therapy achieves breakthroughs by finding and fixing the root cause, rather than just addressing the symptoms of the presenting issue.
RTT does this by using an array of techniques and tools that are crucial, not just in teaching you how to communicate with your subconscious mind, but also directly accessing and fixing whatever blockages may be there.
For more info on the RTT method see: rtt.com/whatisrtt/
Let me know if you have any other questions :)
Marisa Peer Team
we were not allowed to bicker or really show anger or feel heard. I'm wondering what is causing this lump and pain on my head.
Blimey how great to hear, thanks
Thank u mam.
Marissa You are so real in practical advises. Great!
Brilliant video. Thank you ❤
I’d this the same as rapid resolution therapy?
thank you ) good video .working on self
This is so true. I need your help please
Thanks
I want to learn.
This is truly amazing
Thank you❤
Thank you,
Beautiful ❤❤❤
I have developed psoriasis since 2016, my eyes have been quite sore for years, my next door neighbors have made a lot of noise to the point where I would sit in my car in the countryside just wishing I had a different life, I could go on. My life has been very hard from the beginning and other people never stop to consider anyone else, the dog is barking?, who cares, slamming our doors?, it’s our house!. I have had enough of human beings, I want a house in the middle of nowhere, im 32, I shouldn’t have a life this hard.
I’m sorry to hear you are struggling. Stress has a terrible effect on psoriasis and then it gets worse which makes you more stress (I’ve had it in my ears for years and they itch constantly so I know how annoying and painful it is) Amy Morrin did a ted talk about how to get through difficult times, it helped me a lot.
What a great video!!❤❤❤❤
Is it possible to heal Vitiligo, old vitiligo spots
Marisa that's amazing but if there are multiple hurts n don't remember when 😮
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Team Marisa
Thank you! This video came just in time because I have an immense SI joint and tailbone pain. I can't walk, sit, or lay, I am literally blocked. And I was thinking about that I am really stuck in my life. No future, no progress, no success. So I am now looking for some solution. I wish I knew what to do next to be mobile again because apparently I can't change my life overnight.
Should I think of any psychic pain from my past, too? Or do I need to be more specific?
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time with your physical pain and feeling stuck in life. It's great that you're looking for solutions to improve your situation. Realign your body and mind with its own natural intelligence with our Health Vortex here bit.ly/3RZXED3
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Team Marisa
@@RapidTransformationalTherapy Thank you, Team Marissa - I am currently at the hospital. I would look at your hyperlink 😘
What if you know what happened/hurt you hecause someone told you but you can't remember it at all.
Can you Marissa, if you happen to see this have a session or two with me so I may release my pass hurt if you ever come to New York?
Can I reverse back my diabetes, hypertension, depression, insomnia?
You might wish to take a look at this video where one of our therapists tells her story of overcoming Multiple Sclerosis here: bit.ly/46QVkT6. I hope this helps.
Regards,
Team Marisa
Indeed!
What do you people think about traumas that you're not even able to remember? Even if you wanted to
if I express the hurt it will go away... Ummm. Well not really, it keeps hurting. I can't believe that you suggest miracle cures.
Should we say it out loud in front of the person who hurt us? Or just casually say it anywhere anytime we like
It's important to express your feelings in a way that feels safe and appropriate for you. Our certified RTT® professionals are here to provide the support and guidance you need. Learn more here bit.ly/3QdQiud.
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Team Marisa
Past :)? The hirt come from the hate-shame-anger-fear or what ever for the side you dont like and have to use the rest of your life to understand and love ;)
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A 💡 moment. In childhood: "boys don't cry". So girls neither. Now there's issues with eyes 🤑🤓
You spend the whole-time flashing Hand Signs. LOL
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Marrissa,
The children are punch bags. For there frustrated parent's..
What if I don’t remember most of my childhood? But i know it was shity
Your journey to self-discovery and healing is unique, and you have the strength to overcome the challenges you've faced. Reach out to our trained RTT® professionals for personalized guidance here bit.ly/3QdQiud
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Team Marisa
My wife tells me to shut up on a regular basis. I am trying to be positive but the continual hurtful comments are hard to ignore.
Did you ever think to say do not speak to me that way? Stick up for yourself. That is a very rude thing to say to someone.
IT sucks, comercial in the middle of your discorse
I want to die.
I beg to die.
My entire life is hell.
Just suffering.
The man whom I thought was my best friend...
He raped my soul.
My soul is anguished and tormented and raped,
I am so so so traumatized. I have SEVERE PTSD.
My soul is raped. He raped me. Oh the anguish and the agony.
He fucked me up. Ruined me. Destroyed me.
Raped my soul; shattered my heart; fucked with my mind.
I am debilitated from the trauma.
Paralyzed frozen. Living in constant terror and panic.
I DIE INSIDE.
THE PAIN IS UNCEASING AND UNBEARABLE.
I LIVE IN A STATE OF PERPETUAL TRAUMA AND PANIC.
He betrayed and abandoned me,
discarded me like garbage!!!
(HOW THE FUCK COULD HE?)
Replaced me for another.
My mind can't fathom, my heart can't comprehend.
I live in perpetual panic and constant longing...
How could he not miss me?
How could he do this to me?
* An important thing:
people (such as I) who had a difficult childhood,
especially those who never had their emotional needs met,
are prone to limerance. The reason is because we were always prone to imagining
a parallel reality, a whole world of fantasies we could escape to...
Fantasies have always been a safer world for us than the real one,
so our mind is already used to this dynamic (it's basically like 'muscle memory').
When something triggers this dynamic, it's like opening a portal
to our safe fantasy world, and as destructive as it is, we are used to actually loving it... *
REMINDER TO SELF:
This was a karmic friendship,
meant to be there for a limited time (17-months-ish)
to teach you, about yourself!
About boundaries, about self-love,
about self-respect, about self-worth, etc...
About a whole plethora of magical, juicy, alchemical things!
The universe, God, your guides, your ancestors, are pushing you, lovingly,
in the right direction: into your own magnificent powerful magical freedom!
When you let go. The universe will catch you. It’s talking to you.
Let go of everything and trust the universe. It’s within you. ✨💫
NOTE TO MY TWIN FLAME:
Dearest twin flame, I’m working on myself,
I am being 100% healed, on every level, in every way.
This is my purification process. I am doing this for me, for you, for us.
I’m proud of myself, and I’m getting ready for you.
I love you.
We are really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to reach out to someone who can provide the support you need. Please consider talking to a mental health professional or your doctor. We are wishing you the best on your healing journey.
How about if u unravelled why your having problems expressing your feelings of pain hurt rejection anger but still have the fear of being rejected abandoned like u were in your childhood and u are cronically ill and have already done this expressed your feelings with family members and been abandoned with no support from those very people, whom u ran immediately to help whenever they needed you in the past and now your in this Web of isolation with a very serious condition that there is no treatment for , No Dr's clinics to go to because half of the medical staff don't even believe its a condition because nothing shows up in all investigation so its not taken seriously many know this condition ME/CFS it's horrendous and your given the diagnosis and go live with it any insights into what course of action to be taking now emotionally
Thanks Marisa, you are amazing. Much love. 💕❤🤗
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
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