I tried to draw what introverts feel like😔*i wish i was an extrovert..* |JULIA GISELLA
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Hi guys, It wasn’t supposed to come across depressed and ofc being introverted has nothing to do with being sad, personally i just kinda wish i was more extroverted and in a lot of situations that’s annoying me a lot and makes me feel uncompfy. But anyways i love how everyone interprets this in their own way :)join my Patreon here if you want more real time drawings and paintings, Work In Progress updates, step-by-steps and the finished artworks in perfect resolution! 🥰💕 www.patreon.com/juliagisella
First!!
This is a disadvantage for us also, because we want you to speak more just because of your soothing and the most sweet voice ❤ love u julia 💖
I'm sorry for you
@@HiEveryone022 how bout you?
Can you Draw yourself and you are 6 years old 😁🍯✨
Being a introvert isn’t so bad, I like being in quiet spaces by myself.
Same human beings are annoying
Thanks
Ya
@@yuuji-chan Ya I got questioned for being quiet and mostly bullied for being a introvert. But I could honestly cared less.
I’m kinda both lol sometimes if I’m at a certain place I’m totally an introvert
Being introverted doesnt mean you don’t like to socialize, it means you recharge yourself by being alone instead of with people but its a very good drawing and hope you’re doing well
Exactly. It's so annoying to be told that I'm not introverted just because I'm happy to be around friends. Introversion is absolutely not the same thing as anti social
@KD Mac Yes, because the term “Anti-social” is a type of crime.
Also if your introverted it doesn’t mean you have social anxiety.
I hate the fact that introvert are always pushed to be extrovert, like if being introvert is an issue.
It's just the way people are, like you wouldn't tell someone to stop being extrovert. Or to stop having curly hair ir green eyes.
It's rude.
@@casldrlfppbbdbfoklpndbfjasw they literally didn’t put it in a way that sounded like they were tryna violate
I would just like to say, being introverted is not an issue, it's just a part of who you are. Don't feel bad or ashamed of yourself because of something about you that you can't control.
Thank you for this comment reading it helps so much ☺️
@@_faerie.soiree No probs, i just saw this and wanted to make sure people were feelin okay, you know? Not everyone sees themselves as who they are, and this is definitely one of the big things that is seen as a 'flaw' when it's not.
I meannn she draw herself on how she felt being an introvert
That’s literally what I was thinking introvert is NOT the same thing as being depressed. Idk what she was think ing because this came across pretty offensive. But then being an introvert too, she probably doesn’t want to have this negative judgement
Hi im the 555th like and the 5th reply 😊 thank you for the kind comment!
You are so f***king brilliant, its nice when an artist is also a genius! Being able to put feeling onto a canvas is foundational in going from an illustrator to an artist, you are great!
I am anti-social, socially awkward and an introvert and sometimes I feel bad about it. I don't even know how to comfort someone when they're sad, but writing helps me express myself
Then write to your heart’s content!! (But don’t hurt yourself) ❤️
I agree, one of my friends just got broken up with and I didn’t know how to comfort him. I’m also anti-social. On the last day of school everyone was in their own group in class and I was sitting alone. I felt horrible..
I never rly cared like sometimes I wanna talk to people, but then when we have a conversation, I get uncomfortable
I don't think anti-social would comment in social media
@@wasted8541 This isn't face to face contact or conversations. There's a difference. I'm an introvert and very antisocial irl, but on the internet I speak my mind.
The real definition of an introvert is someone who recharges their energy by being alone, unlike extroverts who gain energy by being with others.
Do you factually know because you studied? Or you are quoting it after you heard someone else say it?
@@sunfix991 it's roughly the definition/meaning for the social battery recharging theory. You can look it up too if you want :)
This works for me, too, actually. I like to talk to other people. My social battery just runs out and I'd want to be alone for the rest of the day.
@@sunfix991 just as easy for you to look it up rather than immediately questioning her source… sheesh.
@@sunfix991 counselors and psychiatrists / therapists use that definition. introverts are just people who “re-change” or gain energy by being alone, whereas extroverts are people who thrive off of being social. people with social anxiety are those who can be either introverted or extroverted, but they’re just people who really struggle with their anxiety towards / in social situations.
Being introverted isn't the same as being sad. However it definitely is when you feel drained/tired and ready to leave so early, or when you have social anxiety like I tend to have 😭😭
@Cheese omg whatttt
Omg cheese 1 i love tokyo ghoul
Yeah lol its just abt a person's energy level- how did these people make it abt depression 😭😭😭😂😂😂
She explains in pinned comment
Exactly. It really gets to especially when your forced to talk to someone
as another introvert, i'm not depressed when i'm alone. it makes me feel good when i don't have to be social every minute of the day. i get super tired at family gatherings so easily, but i don't get sad when i'm with people. most of the time it makes me happy.
This!
I love mingling with people from time to time, it's fun! But after a couple hours it's really draining me and I just wanna hide in my bed and recharge my social battery. I prefer reading a book at home just over going out to meet up with people even if I have no problem as in anxiety/shyness with it.
I love talking to people in small groups and whatnot, but it is so exhausting! I’m not going to lie, the pandemic is nice because I’m not having to spend tons of time around people. I spend it with my daughter and husband so it’s never exhausting.
Yes!! This!
This is what I can call an introvert! Your energy gets drained when around many people and you enjoy being alone!
Thank you for showing this, it's getting on my nerves how people misunderstand this.
Idk what I am, I feel scared when I’m completely alone, but with strangers I’m really uncomfortable, but then, I can be with my friends and feel so happy in every minute of it, maybe it’s because I have such hilarious friends or I am confutable with people I know
This is so me..
for me being an introvert isn't a bad feeling. Introvert is someone who likes being alone doesn't like people much.
But anyway beautiful draw 💖
edit: omg so many likes? Thank you guys, luv you❤❤❤
Thats the way I feal
Same, I’m an ambivert but slightly more introverted and I rather be alone in the internet watching shit
Same im an introvert myself i only like people who are smart and intelligent maybe that's because im a taurus?
Ahm... No, actually an introvert is someone who gathers energy by being alone and gets drained when being with a lot of people, while the extroverts recharge batteries being with people and get drained being alone.
I am just correcting this because there are introverts who like company and extroverts who dislike people lmao. I, being an introvert myself, had to deal with people thinking I “like being alone” just because I don't go to parties. I felt really misunderstood because of this, and then I learned it's not about liking or not liking people/being alone, but the way your body gathers energy.
Btw, I personally think the best thing is when you get to that moment in your life when you get the best of both worlds (just like Hannah Montana lmao). I enjoy being alone, but I like company too. My mom, being a 40 years old extrovert, is doing this too. She went crazy over parties in her 20s and now she's in the moment of her life when she has learned to appreciate alone time too.
PS: Of course, if you are introvert and like being alone, it's awesome too. You can be extrovert and like people, and that's cool. Just wanted to correct the concept(?).
@@ProverbiosOcho Well, technically the definition of an introvert is “a shy, reticent person.” but go on ig
im so glad you feel like you can be yourself and express yourself in your wonderful artworks that make other people inspired to make a change.
Being introverted doesn't mean being sad and it's not something you need to change. Just surround yourself with people who understand you and won't force you socialising when you don't feel to 💕
Goes way deeper. Being ashamed for being yourself is the cause working through emotions is the solution
Bruh how tf am I supposed to surround myself with people when I don’t like talking to them 🤨
@@Caddyleadz it's not only a personal matter. Western society always glorify extroversion so a lot of introverted people think they need to change themselves to be successful and happy
@@Aurora-dq4lt forget extrovert introvert it only keeps us stuck. We need to see the world through an emotional lens. You start to see people as emotional mature or emotionally immature. Then you start to realize that emotionally immature people pushed you into the person you are today and getting out of that means find emotionally mature people you can feel safe around. Building trust and deep emotional intimacy. Although we can't change our neurodivergence easily it can be done. We just need the support system. I hide out as an "introvert" but my true nature is extrovert. I want to socialize I'm just scared of opening because in my emotional immaturity I attract emotionally immature people and repel emotionally mature people
@@opal2239 it's really difficult for me too to make friends because I am shy and I hate small talk. But you don't need to be surrounded by a lot of friends. Quality vs quantity
It's more like you're smiling for everyone even if you're hurting deep down. Being an introvert, I like my own company. Nothing to be sad about. ❤
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Idk...I kinda feel sad I'm like this... I wish I were more outgoing and show my real self easily to ppl
@@kikirinhaa isn’t that social anxiety? That’s different from being introverted.
@@kikirinhaa That's social anxiety
@@Nat189 Idk, I'm not scared of talking to ppl, I just don't enjoy it...but I really don't know, maybe you're right
Being introverted is not being lonely as many people seem to think, rather i guess we could say it's just enjoying our alone/personal time more than others:)
Xiao pfp.. that.. fits so much with this comment..i-
Yes that's true....
but, it just hurts when you feel left out as an introverted person...
Yep, true
@@Cvpid172 well usually introverts like being alone so being left out is usually not a problem but i guess different people see it in different ways
I know how you feel Julia being an introvert can be bad sometimes even I feel like it but the way you express that feeling in your drawings I just love it. keep doing hard work and I hope you get support from every place in the world 🌍 . Love from India ❤
I'm the kind of introvert that can socialize really easily and I love hanging out with friends, but it's that's not how I recover after a tiring week. Extroverts get their energy by being in a social environment, while introverts can be social, but they get tired doing that and recharge by being alone
Exactly. Introverts don’t hate socialising. We just have an 80-20 ratio of having to recharge
Don’t care about energy since it only has to do with the fact that when you are comfortable you pile up less stress and that works in both extroverts and introverts inversely.
The main thing is that her post mislabeled introverts and extroverts thinking that introverts can’t have friends and or extroverts are more happy. You get it so you must understand when I say I think she is referencing social anxiety and doesn’t realize it.
Yessss exactly you explained it so well lol
@@tekamer6566 While you’re correct, now you are thinking that people with social anxiety are like that. I think she just misunderstood the concept altogether. A person with social anxiety is just an extreme over thinker with conspiracy theories about themselves. They aren’t necessarily sad, just EXTREMELY self-aware. Only seeing the worst in themselves. In my opinion, people with social anxiety are quite opposite to introverts. Introverts tend to avoid crowds because socialising drains energy, so, in a way, we avoid it because THEY are doing something to you. They are the ‘bad guys’. As someone with social anxiety, the person will see themselves as the problem.
@@HouseDiAngelo and how was I wrong ? I said that this is s mental illness and you just confirmed it. It is not normal and not self conscious to be like this. Your comparison is even worse since having a life style and a mentality problem are totally different things.
As an introvert I just love being alone more than hanging out with people because it’s like my only time to get my peace and quiet and knowing who I am as a person. I also don’t go out because I have social anxiety and I feel like I am being judge by people
Same..I used to be an extrovert and I guess puberty hit me or something and I became an introvert..I also always feel like people are staring at me and judging me even though I know they aren’t looking at me..My parents tell me to be more open, talk to people make friends and not always stay in my own world
that’s exactly how i feel
same here and people judge me for wanting to be alone, i’ve just been so used to it i only have a mom and no other family members so being alone is amazing to me
Same
YES, this is exactly me
Being an introvert is not always associated with anxiety, it's not an illness. We're comfortable being alone with ourselves. Socializing is necessary and enjoyable but just in a small doses. I really hope everyone that experiences introvertism as a direct result of anxiety learns to find a balance. And I hope your introvertism doesn't keep you from living a fulfilled life. Society seems so unbelievably extroverted, we can't forget that being introverted is also okay. Now leave me alone 🤣🤣🤣
I agree.
Sorry for bothering you lol
I CAN TOTALLY FEEL YOU
Yea
I'm both
I've seen you comment this exact same thing on another video
Girl your amazing at art you have nothing to worry about
"Behind every introvert there's a smile and it's beautiful ✨"
No no there’s not coming from a introvert
✨✨✨✨it's a smile not everyone sees,✨✨
It's a smile not everyone sees ✨✨✨
@@DaPringleSocks not all introverts are happy and not all introverts are depressed it depends on the situation tbh 💕
I needed that
Introvert people get their energy by having alone time. Extrovert people get their energy by meeting people.
Being an introvert doesn't mean you are sad, depressed, or anxious all the time. It's another different story.
I am an introvert. That means I have to have a "me time" after socializing. But that doesn't mean I hate people or lonely.
@@opheliavd3991 me too!!! I love when everything calm and quiet, but too quiet also frightens me :"))
Honestly most introverts don't like to record themselves on camera but I admire her courage
Yes i feel the same like you but i think im kinda in the middle of both
I don't even socialize lol
I think I am ambivert, i am kinda on both the sides, i am very awkward meeting with strangers but sometimes it just clicks between me and them and then i become an extrovert around them, i like being alone in my room but I also want to travel and meet people and spend time with them and nature
I love being an introvert. Being an I introvert is not an issue that needs to be fixed. It just means we recharge differently. Extroverts are no better than introverts. There doesn’t need to be a comparison or the stigma that you have to be an extrovert and that Being an introvert is something that needs to be fixed. You do you and love the way you do it.
Yeah 😊
As a Former introvert i must say i think being an extrovert is much more fullfilling and benefitial
Agreed 😊
You just gave me so much clarity that I didn’t know I needed🤎
@@martinrichter9694 are you sure you weren't just shy or just adopted some extrovert tendencies to make your life a lot easier? Making a 100% change from one to another, especially if you're past puberty, is virtually impossible.
Being an extrovert for most of my life, i have found i am leaning toward introvert as i become older. At 63, i am now completely comfortable staying out of the big world beyond my front door. It's the rebalance of dark & light i am seeking now. I feel ya, Julia! Sending you much 💕 love!
Being introvert and depressed isn't the same thing...some people enjoy their life while socializing less while some enjoy it by doing it more
but that's a wonderful art 💗
She explained the meaning of the art in her pinned comment
Thanks
Ok people here's the difference
Social anxiety: You feel anxiety being judged and being around others you may have panic attacks and you may hate being alone but also hate talking to others cause you might think they dislike you.
Introvert: We love being alone not because we are depressed but because we love our own company, it helps us to think, or recreate ourselves, we do like sharing time with other people like friends and family, but after a long time we may feel exhausted and just want to spend some time alone. We are not depressed but introverts
Is there a word for both?
It’s ambivert
Can have both tho
@@cynthiamartinez8994 You could just call yourself an anxious introvert to separate the two meanings.
It’s weird but I feel like I am both at the same time.
As an introvert I understand what she tried to give us with the drawing. Sad doesn't mean sad all the time and it has nothing to do with mental health. As we like to be introverted, at the same time we lack socialization and it makes us sad, that we think we are missing out something that many people enjoy outside. But in my case this feeling goes away pretty fast, thinking that my social battery can only last an hour 😊
I live around a lot of college housing and there are typically always a few parties on nice days. When I'm out and about and see groups of people I often think how and what's it like to have social skills and friends
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 You should go to some of the parties. I'm sure they wouldn't care. Have you ever heard of exposure therapy?
Lack of socialization doesn't make the introverts sad. In fact socializing makes them feel drained and lack of it makes them happier. What she meant to say in the drawing is, introverted people fail to express themselves at certain times.
@@Moitreyee473 Fair point! could be that, but was talking about my experience and what I've heard. And we also could talk about many other reasons, but wouldn't make sense because not every introvert experience same things.
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 I've gaved my best to go to parties and talk to many people, but I didn't enjoy it so much that it made me cry. I was young and I thought being around many people was the right decision (as adults told us often), but now I realise that it was completely wrong for me and certain situations gaved me traumas that I can't overcome. I didn't get any social skills while communicating with bunch of people, but after years later when I finally realized that being confident is a key for me and I've worked on that a lot
You’re not the only one Julia, I also introverted and I sometimes express my feelings through art
Fun fact y’all: if you’re an introvert, it takes up a lot of energy to have any social interaction. If you’re extroverted you gain energy from those interactions.
Most other feelings that people associate with introversion and extroversion, aren’t actually the real definition. Those are just other feelings about makes you you and your personality. As well as all your anxieties.
Very well put
Intoverts charging their social battery with loneliness meanwhile extroverts charging their social battery with togetherness...
Maybe something like that?
I honestly think im both- but lean more on introvert side.
If you’re an introvert it doesn’t necessarily take a lot of energy to hang out with people. You could very easily go hang out and enjoy yourself. At first you feel great but after a while you start to feel like you rather just be chilling at home. It’s like a battery that needs to be recharged.
I didnt have fun after reading that fact.
I love being an introvert, I just hate the crap everyone gives me for it.
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Ikr !? Like, what is wrong with wanting to be left alone and be given personal space !?!?
I don't even know if I am an introvert or extrovert.
@@chunnilal2111 Lmao, take your time to figure it out
@@enaayat6424 I don't know how. I am talkative and let people know my interests and daily life but it is only with the people I already know or sometimes when making friends (RN I don't have many friends but who are, they know almost everything about me). As a kid, I didn't feel shy talking to anyone but now I get shy to talk to people sometimes.
This comes way more as depressed and sad than preferring to be alone and having your own space. Being and introvert isn't bad, everyone wants their own space and time, introverts need it more and get tired more easily. I'd know since I am one too 😸
Yes! We recharge from solitude. Gimme a while to myself and and then I’ll have the energy to talk to you:)
Lmao true
So true, I feel like considering that there are more extrovert and ambiverts in the world, introverts are really misunderstood and we are just simply seen as asocial people to their eyes.
Yea, I don’t know if this is part of being an introvert but I can never look people in the eyes for more than a second. But being an introvert isn’t that bad, the only bad thing is that there’s a big stereotype abt being depressed if your an introvert.
@@thedeadgamer5057 I doubt that’s an introvert thing. An introvert is simply someone that needs to recharge after socializing. Like you can be socially confident while being introvert. Although, Introverts are more prone to having social anxiety and being shy than extroverts that doesn’t mean it’s an introvert thing.
Julia, it’s 100% okay to be an introvert, and I feel so sorry that you are depressed, or just sad. We all can get sad, and I would always love to support you in every way possible.❤❤❤ one of your biggest fans, Jade.
I can relate deeply. Glad there’s people out there who feeling the same 🥹
yea i thought i was alone😢
Im a introvert and Im SOOO sad and tired
same
“They always tell introverts to socialize, but they never tell extroverts to shut up” -someone on twitter probably
"Everyone tells introverts to come out of their comfort zone, but nobody tells extroverts to shut up and make the zone comfortable." 🤣🤣🤣
@@Jasmine-gp4vm good one
great words of great wisdom
@@Jasmine-gp4vm hahaha
@@Jasmine-gp4vm true
I would try to avoid seeing introversion as an issue. It’s made you who you are today. Take pride in that. 😊
I agree. But in America, if you aren’t loud, large, and in charge, you are automatically labeled a social outcast. Plus, extroverts bully introverts because they think there is something wrong with introverts simply because introverts often appear quieter and more individualistic, which extroverts shallowly dub “selfish”. Social and professional discrimination against introverts in this country is real.
That’s awesome! You draw and paint celebrity flawlessly but this is from your soul and I love it!!
As an introverted artist, I can relate to this sm! Your art is so beautiful and inspiring! 😩
Mhm
Same
Introverts love being alone. It doesn’t bring them sadness it being comfort and peace. It’s also not a “problem”, just a preference.
that’s not what EVERY introvert feel like though?
@@avalyn8111 loving being alone and feeling more energetic when you're alone is a part of what it means to be introverted. If you feel sad, lonely, and have low energy when you're alone, you're probably not introverted. Its possible for introverts to feel lonely, but if its a consistent thing you feel whenever you're alone you're probably extraverted
@@seaweed1068 honestly, it’s not really a big deal. idk why being an introvert and an extrovert has gotten to be such a debate. you CAN be an introvert no matter how different your “experience” of being an introvert is. i have depression and im an introvert … i feel sad, lonely, etc. i love to be by myself but wish i could be more outgoing. and i’m DEFINITELY not extroverted oh me gee 🥸
@@seaweed1068 depends, all human beings are social animals... Even introverts need to feel connected on some level to be happy.
The problem many of us face is that well... We have way less practice being social than our extroverted counterparts.
So when we feel the need for community it can be harder to find/ make us anxious to look. But that need still remains and it can get lonely if you don't already have close friends to reach out to.
@@seaweed1068 this is absolutely not true. i’m an introvert and social spaces exhaust me FAST. but i still get lonely and upset abt the fact that i AM introverted. sometimes i look at ppl i used to know who go out a lot, and seem happy and surrounded by people and doing loads of things and i feel like i’m missing out on smth that i’ll never get to experience or know how it feels bc i can’t go out and do that for myself bc i get all emotionally and mentally exhausted and retreat back into my room
Being introverted isn't that big of a deal (for me). It just means I will get exhausted around people pretty easily and I learnt to accept it. But growing up it was pretty hard and introversion definitely fueled my social anxiety.
She isnt introverted she is depressed, introverts are like you @Syclice or like me, i dont have hay social media, because im scared to have to answer something, and i dont want to fight that stress
@@octaviogarcia6004 you can't possibly be in any medical field to determine that. Being introverted also comes in many forms as you are already proving. I prefer not being social and can't hold a conversation to save my life yet I feel comfortable in social settings.
I love your work, in every aspect you do. You inspire me to get better at art and to be able to achieve goals and skills I try to pursue ❤
I sometimes like being introverted, sure it’s hard to make friends but I like cozy spaces by myself with my books and sometimes a sketchbook to draw. It’s comfortable.
As an introvert, I'm not sad or depressed, I just like being alone. It physically hurts when I'm in public as ALL my energy is taken from me within the first 5 mins at a gathering,. And it takes at least a week of being alone to recover. It's exhaustion, not sadness.
Same even when I laught for even a second, later that I get exhausted and feels blank
same, i hate the idea of going to parties after a long week of work. i love socializing with friends, but i tend to feel drained when i got home.
Same here! Everytime I'm in gatherings my body literally starts to ache after a few minutes 😭
Same
Yup!
The weird thing about this it implies that introversion is to hate socialization, you can love being social as an introvert, but it drains your battery and you need solo time to recharge whereas extroverts feel invigorated by said interactions and also people are always going to have moments and aspects of both
Im like that
That’s what I’ve never understood about myself since i consider myself introverted but I work in a job where I have to interact with customers and I love being around my friends but I’m very public places like bars and parties I get tired (and nauseous sometimes depending on the place)
Same, I like to be social but need a lot of me time too.
Her: Guys I'm introverted
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Everyone has different experiences on being introverted
This is exactly how I feel. I don’t like coming to big group hangouts, especially with people I don’t know. If one of my friends has other friends, I won’t be very comfortable talking to them because I developed trust issues in the past due to personal reasons. Maybe if those events didn’t happen I’d be more comfortable with talking to people…
Me too
Same here. People around me just always judge or compare me especially all my friend's moms . Yea but becuz of Covid it is really hard for extroverts to stay at one place without meeting anyone. But only introverts can relate this
me too
same :(
What's an introvert and an extrovert?
Well you even have the courage to show yourself on camera, I can't even do IT! I am an introspective Introvert and I don't have courage to talk to ppl or anything so ur just wayy better than me!!
Being alone is not as bad as people think. It’s beautiful and it helps to know ourselves better💜💜anyway i love this creative style of you julia! Its so beautiful must have took aloooooot of time 💜
Edit- as I feel that people will fight on this in reply section THIS IS ONLY FOR INTROVERTS
But there are qualities that you don't see in yourself and other people tell you about them
@@armyshope we have parents for that
@@arteature4387 Uh but I also have friends who tell me
@@armyshope i am saying that if you don’t like to socialise that much you always have your parents to tell things about you that you should improve 💜
Agree and without some yada yada going around i could live with that
being introverted isn’t a problem, but hiding your emotions is a lot different than being introverted
Who the fuck doesnt bottle up their emotions, what the fuck does that even mean dude i have so many goddamn people i play what does this comment mean
@@kiwo579 you are the problem lol makes sense 100%
@@kiwo579 i bottle my emotions
And when it comes out it’s a disgusting mess and I’m being real
It’s disgusting
@@ThaKidd1006 WHAT DOES THIS MEAN WHAT THE fuck ok what the fuck could this possibly mean cause i dont know, and i dont know what the 3 people who liked this thought this meant, cause i dont know what it means.
@@kiwo579 Dude finally someone that relates too me. None of my friends hide they're emotions they just take it out on me, they say im fat, im ugly, i shouldn't exist. I hide my emotions tho. Do i take it out on them? No im to scared. Yet they take it out on me.
Being an extrovert isn't better. It's like you CAN NOT live without a person you want to talk to someone which makes people think that you're an attention seeker which hurts and at home, you feel like there is no one for you to talk to. Just love yourself the way you are
REAL!!! i feel like SO many people think that introverts have it worse but thats not true.. we all have our own problems, whether we are an extrovert or introvert doesn't matter
REAL. I relate so much. I genuinely think I'm pathetic for this.
What's an introvert what's a extrovert
@@Pairatking
An introvert is a quire person that doesn’t socialize often and prefers keeping to themselves. An extrovert is someone who is more social and prefers to talk a lot.
i know right
I relate I draw anime and I am extremely introverted, I always love your videos never stop drawing ❤❤❤
Whenever people ask me to join on there plans, I always make an excuse not to go. My parents started to get a little worried why I wasn’t so social with other kids, but I honestly just feel tired and feel more comfortable just staying in my room on my phone.
Life's not about being comfortable friend. If you want the best things in life you have to get a little uncomfortable often.
Saaaame
Me too but that’s okay to be yourself
Same I like being alone and my mom doesn't understand that I like being alone when I say I like being alone
Yeah me too, like I always stay in my room and it’s rare for me to go with family or friends, my family just doesn’t understand that I love being alone just me and myself, they think I’m sad or depressed while I’m just relaxing and like enjoying my time and that’s what I like to do.
There’s a difference between being shy, having social anxiety, and being an introvert. Being an introvert is mostly about enjoying time alone more and feeling drained after social interactions.
thank you for pointing it out
this!! ppl needs to read first b4 start diagnosing themselves 💀💀
And yet.. i am all three of them....
Yes exactly. Introvert also doesn’t mean u are depressed or actively avoid social interactions. Also seen some comments saying they avoid friends and that’s not true either.
@@stupidandsensitive yeah they didn't diagnose themselves everyone is either an introvert, ambivert or extrovert. it's based on introvertion and extrovertion
also you can't be an introvert then suddently change to an extrovert and vice versa, nonono.
BUT! you can be an introvert and be talkative, etc. It depends on everyone
guys being introverted literally just means you get energy from being alone. being around people drains energy out of you. you feel tired after being around people. it’s not depression, it’s not anxiety. it’s just introversion. there’s nothing wrong with being introverted. extroverted people constantly expect introverts to socialise the way they do, but we just don’t work that way. and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I agree with you both
I agree as well
I think I'm an extrovert cause I'm the loudest among my friends , love being with a lot of people , I'm so talkative , restless. .... But the same me loves to be alone 👀 .... I just love to spend time with my self & have some peace nd sometimes I'm in my own world ... So what am I ?
@@hehehe8501 i would say an ambivert then, it’s in between introverted and extroverted. but then also. extroverted people do enjoy alone time, they just don’t get energy from it. they get energy from being around people! but if you get energy from both being alone and also other people then you are an ambivert
@@heavenbones Oh ok thank you so much ... I was so confused of my personality ... Thank you for explaining it to me ...guess am an ambivert then
everyone has their own pain so don’t be mean to people you don’t know, because you know what they could be going through ❤
This is a common misconception of the introvert & shy spectrum.
Being an introvert doesn't mean you feel sad, want to express yourself more, or that you have a hard time socializing. It just means you prefer to be alone and have a limited amount of energy you want to spend with other people.
On the other hand,
This is being shy. Being shy means that you don't feel that comfortable talking to other people, it can feel limiting and suffocating, and as if you can't get your true self out.
There's a vast difference between these two, so no, this has nothing to do with being an introvert, but being shy and anxious
Well said!
Thank you 🙏 so much for the explanation. I am definitely not shy. Prefer solitude. Hate wasting energy on others. Definite introvert. But at work I’m in sales I have to be very open. So I cannot be shy I’m in sales. Therefore I give out a lot of energy due to my profession. Maybe that’s why I prefer solitude ? Who will know know. 🤔
You can be both, it doesn’t have to be one or the other.
@@Moonlight-yx5sg i know, but here she was explaining introversion as anxiety and being shy, which are different things. She probably feels both, but the explanation isn't accurate. A better title for her would be to include both, not just introversion. Introversion and extroversion aren't exactly feelings, they're more personality traits, and don't have anything to do with how happy/sad you are. You could be the happiest person on earth and still be happy. She's saying it as if introversion is a bad thing that will make you feel alone and sad(not attacking the creator)
Thank you for the explanation I'm going insane with people here ☺️
I'm a proud Introvert though.
This is a really nice drawing and I’m an big introvert and partly depressed so I feel you 💙💜🦋
i have wondered if being 'introverted makes you depressed or if being depressed makes you introverted
@@badlydrawnslide2109 neither. being introverted doesn’t make you depressed
I like that I’m introverted, not having much of a social life isn’t an issue to me. I’m tired as is after a long day of work. I’m glad I can just enjoy the time alone vs feeling like I need to do something social and go out. I feel like it also helps to save money LOL cuz every time I hang out with friends we end up going out to do something.. and that adds up!
Same. But I just wish I was a Bit more extrovert tho
But again, if you were extroverted you would prefer to be extroverted, because that's the way it is.
Your art is amazing and julia, you are so beautiful
Being an introvert doesnt always mean depressed, its how we gain energy and focus. Sometimes extroverts also feel depressed
People gain energy by eating food and everything else we do depletes our energy
@@putriyulia5128 seriously, only like 60% of the stuff i eat is necessary.
the other 40% is bc im bored or comfort food.
depression is not a feeling
@@nusabygrace yes it is
@@LilYet It is a serious condition.
Introvert doesn't mean being sad . It's just that we feel more comfortable alone . That's how I fell about it.
Yes
Yes. We recharge and feel refreshed by solitude. Society inadvertently causes us to feel depressed and discontented by constantly equating friends with social success.
yup being socially active is hard especially when people judge you mostly in mistakes.
You're very right
True
as an assertive introvert, I'm not really prone to depression but this is what it felt like being alone vs being lonely, that makes a difference
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Its soo true art is a opportunity for almost everything.I like drawing as long as am not forced to and art can really give u peace 🕊️
I totally relate with you, being an introvert is really hard . honestly just like how art helps you to express yourself for me it's music . You're so talented , Love you Julia 💖
Edit: Thankyou for all your likes💖💜💜💜
Me too! I always feel quite lonely but because of music, I do not always feel as much anxiety as I used to whenever I have to speak with strangers or do a presentation to my class.
Love you Julia
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Yo you got so much going for you don't feel down you're incredibly beautiful And very talented Don't let yourself get in that hole it's very hard to get out of work hard pray it helped me I've been there for sure
For me being an introvert isn't sad or anything, I just wanna be alone (with the exception of my 2 friends) and I just wanna sleep basically.
*ME TOO*
Yeaaaah
Same
Sleep, eat, and read 😂😂
@@BingBongGamingAs an extrovert I also read
Being an introvert is not bad. I want to hang out with friends, but just not everyday. I kind of hate lengthy conversations.
Me 2
Such a great drawing❤
Extoverts: "I'm an extovert"
That one kid: "I'm eXroVertEd" 😶
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Tubbo
Must be tubbo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
TUBBO
TUBSS
Your talent is so amazing that there are no words to describe it. It is priceless and rarely do people like you come along once in a decade..........breath taking
I’m an introvert but i have many friends, social groups and am not socially awkward. I know how to talk to people but at the end of the day it’s so tiring and draining and I love being by myself the most. The pandemic (quarantine) was beautiful for me because I could spend weeks, even months just with myself and my thoughts, without the need to see anyone.
Exactly! Being an introvert doesn't mean you're depressed, socially awkward, etc. It means you just like to be alone and spending time with people drains your energy
how did you gain that ability to not be socially awkward?
@@bugi9309 just practice. Sounds hard, but the more you practice, the better you get. It starts with small talk... Just be understanding and kind. Lots of people just want to be heard so ask questions, (not super nosy ones lol) but srsly being quiet is a blessing in disguise sometimes. 😉
Same
I love being an introvert, but it hard to speak to someone if you feel sad or depressed
What shes saying:
Introverts are..
*emo depressed social anxiety sad*
Introverts just mean you get less energetic around people, not getting a heart attack with eye contact.
i am not emo depressed social anxiety sad etc u are right
True
Exactly. For me it’s just hard to make new friends because I’m shy at first but when I know them better I open up and become more comfortable.
Isn't what she meant.
That wasn't what she meant
She meant that she wished she was extrovert and feels kinda sad because of that. And also maybe that it's harder to open up to people
"I am an introvert" Julia, your arts speaks more than anyone else does. Keep going💕 BTW i felt really bad when I saw you crying in that drawing 😢
ikr when she was crying in that drawing made my heart chatter
This is beautiful. We're all just trying to figure out life in our own way.
There is no script. We do the best we can. Stay true to you. Your drawing is madly talented
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Bro what😭😭😭😭
There is a script... I just saying and we do what we believe
I'm an introvert too and I'm sorry you feel that way I can totally relate to you I think you are wonderful and amazing in every way don't let anyone take you down love the art❤
im not socially awkward, im awkwardly social. HUGE difference
LMAO
😂😂😂funny but same
LoL , Same
Bro I can’t agree more,people who are introverts want to be social and think they got it wrong when I’m an extrovert and I talk to much and it’s awkward 😑
LMAO same. 🤣 Like I don't fear social anxiety, social anxiety fears me.
This feels more like depression than introverts. I'm happier when alone. Sure i don't know how to express myself when i want to be around people but i'm not sad for it. Great art thought
Agreed...
I'm an introvert and this relates so much. I love being all alone by myself cause there are fake people in this world you can't trust. It's best to love yourself and be your own best friend.
Edit 1 - Y'all thank you for so many likes... I never got 210 likes
I have trust issues with everyone except my family😊
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U may not be an introvert if the reason for staying by urself is lack of trust
@@katlovegood4921 There are many more things which I won't like to share...
@@katlovegood4921that isn’t the reason I am a introvert. Sorry I didn’t clarify
it's so cool you can draw something on top of another drawing and it looks so good, keep doing your art it makes me happy and you're great at it :)
Why do I feel like most extremely good artists are introverted? ❤
Yeah
Because this is the only way to express our [introverts] feelings
Its because introverts almost never have ways to express their feelings but in art they do, so they get really good at it after practicing a lot. :))
yea like i am one
introverts often have a hard time expressing their feelings, due to fear of judgement, having to be social, etc. so they often express their feelings through more creative and often reserved ways, like drawing!
I get this 100% and it spoke to me. It’s about the duality of an introverts nature. Just because you recharge and feel most yourself when you’re alone doesn’t mean you don’t also crave connection and closeness with people. And as an introvert, most of the people in your life are going to crave more time or energy from you than you’re able to comfortably give- it’s a balancing act, between the two sides of your nature and trying to avoid burnout. Are you an empath too? Cause I am an introvert empath and this work you did just made perfect sense to me I thought it was beautiful
Exactly. Hit the nail straight on with a truck on its head so hard! This is exactly how it is. I'm an introvert who desperately wants to be am extrovert but doesn't know how or of I can even be social for a long time. Depends on the day, depends how I am doing emotionally, mentally and physically, depends if I have the energy. It's hard to be extroverted as an introvert, especially if there are underlying issues and problems. Not everyone is like that, I'm just saying that is my experience unfortunately. Also C19 did not help with the introverted mess at all.
It works the same way for extraverts, that's why its a good drawing. Extraverts recharge from being with people, but it doesn't mean they don't need the alone time and contemplation introverts get naturally.
Well said
I’ve recently come to the realization that society is fine with people who don’t know how to shut up but will instantly get mad because you don’t benefit their outgoing personality.
That's society
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So cool! Art gives me a way to decompress and express myself! Keep going, you have great talent!
So relatable! I’m an introvert as well, and I find it helpful to express my feeling through art and ps. Two layered colors are hard to work with so you did such a good job!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes
That’s not all true, not every introverted person has anxiety or mental (health) problems. We just like being alone/ aren’t as social as others. You can have problems or have “issues”,and I’m not trying to be rude, but what I’m saying is; don’t assume everyone is in the same situation as you, even if they’re introverted.
[no offense]
@Khounvathana Map and there’s nothing wrong with that, they probably just want you to be a little less introverted/shy and be more open to new friends and stuff like that
I meaaan you can read her comment on how she express it. Ngl every no offense comment will always make ppl hurt. You sound like you're trying to gatekeep introvert. Not saying you're tho.(no offense) Im introverted. I like being alone. But once in a while i wish i was more social.
@@kiritokirigaya6716 I’m sorry of any feelings I’ve caused, but at the same time, her comment wasn’t there when I watched this video/commented. I wasn’t trying to make anyone feel bad, just stating my own opinion. Also, many introverts want to be more social. It’s just that others don’t want to or they aren’t capable of doing so.
@ItzMeplayzz I’m aware now, I was just basing my knowledge off the title at the time
so true
being an introvert isn't an issue💕 social anxiety and being introverted are two different things
Thank you. I was like wtf is this.
@@leely577 obviously you didnt see the comment she made thats AT THE TOP
@@the_dark_therian3461 Yeah, but the fact that she just used the word "introvert" for the video and title is extremely infuriating and reinforces the image of us introverts being sad and depressed. I, for one, just don't have an active social life as it drains me too much to have one and I'm completely fine with that. I'm not depressed or sad at all.
@@SoftTangerineDreams and neither is she, as she states
@@SoftTangerineDreams thank you
Being an introvert dosent mean lonely and depressed it means to prefer being alone and in peace
Being an introvert is so beautiful .. like you get to observe , you notice the tiny details that often others miss just for the sake of spark and stimulation. We are capable of recognizing emotions in us and others.. we see magic in every little thing..we cherish and appreciate everything like no other ❤️❤️💜💜💜💜 I LOVED IT
This is describing anxiety. Many introverts just like being alone, but that doesn't mean they are necessarily scared or anxious about talking to people.
@akira she also writes in the title that she tried to draw what introverts feel like so this is just introverts explaining that that's...not what they feel like.
Besides introverts are love to be alone and they enjoy it
I live in a very extroverted place and I have not been able to make many friends. Apparently, if it's hard to talk to people, your weird? I was sent to therapy sessions because I didn't have a lot of friends and I found it hard to talk. I can totally relate to this. I love your art you are so talented!!
I'm an introvert but also a chatter box. Talking hides who I am, though I've been a chatterbox my whole life.
After this, I don't feel alone. I also wish to be an extrovert, but I guess I can't. I love you and your art. You always inspire me. glad having you there. keep it going! ❤❤❤
Being a extrovert isn't exactly what introvert's think it is sometimes we're wish we were an introvert 😥🥺
I love how you express how some people try to hide how they really feel and put a smile on anyway when they really don't feel like smiling. I just lost my dad last month and my husband is really worried about me being so depressed, so I try my best to keep smiling so he doesn't worry ... This painting shows exactly how I've been feeling...💔
Get therapy. It does help. If you belong to a church, talk with someone there. Also, if you feel you need to cry, do it. I'm saying all this respect, not trolling. I work in this field.
Wish you the best
Being introverted is not being sad or depressed, it's just liking to be alone
Yall are so dull in this gd section
You don't get upset when your social battery is drained? Cos that's what this picture is showing to me
@@spicysalad3013 no??
An introvert is a person who avoids crowds or large groups, staying with 1 or 2 persons mostly.
Also introverts tend to stay alone which also basically fills them with energy again
@@bluerobo2 No we are not, we like being alone more then hanging out with lots of people and socializing. It doesn’t mean we’re “dull”, and again, we just like being alone, that’s all.
@@Sakuuraa12 Maybe if you used a singular brain cell, you'd understand that I mean dull as in stupid. Y'know, because yall are sitting here tilted and correcting someone on how THEY feel about their own way of living.
She literally said that she wasnt saying being introverted is being sad. She made it sad because being introverted MAKES her sad since she wishes she could be more outgoing and sociable.
Ur art is beautiful and I think u are perfect just the way u are!!! Ur not alone girl!!
I totally understand you feeling of wishing to be more extroverted because i know how it feels like. I love this art.
this is so inspirational and well you drew exactly how i feel its amaizing your art helps me calm down alot tysm
I am at the edge of the scale classified as extremely introverted, but I don’t get this 😂
I feel angry, drained, exhausted, and awkward around humans and it literally drains me trying to act somewhat normal around them but sad isn’t one of the feelings tbh.. it’s just “omg I wanna lock myself in my room for the next 14 years” feeling!
God Christ Jesus bless you, have a nice day today
Jesus loves you :" )
Live in jungle for 14 years
Yeah but everyone experiences it differently
They didn’t mean for it to come across as sad read the pinned
This is such a cool two color way to express urself!! I love ur work ❤
As an ambivert, I can relate to this but when I'm extroverted, it's a lot of stress as well, because everyone expects so much from you, and if you ever stop being active they are gonna think ur feeling unwell or whatever
Same!
So true
This is exactly what is am like when I am still for a long period of time people get worried and think I am sick
EXACTLY.
Yah exactly . I am very extroverted so if one day I don't feel good or don't speak that much then.everyone are like
-" do you have depression ?"
" Why are u sad "
" Is something wrong at home"
Being an introvert doesn't mean ur sad or depressed. U just gain energy from being alone and vibing by urself instead of talking with ppl. I personally love talking to ppl, it's a great experience, yet its very draining, and I have to recharge by myself.
She explains in the pinned comment
I have social anxiety as well as introversion, and also use art as a medium. You express yourself so well 💟
I also have anxiety 🙂😅🥲
same! I use art and music as an outlet
you. don't. have. social. anxiety. its called being shy. you didnt even go to some psychologist. quit trying to get some attention with that
Same
Same, music. I like to draw as well tho
Yes me too, even my teachers and parents say this
I can understand
I am not having a single true friend❤❤
Seeing your arts makes me happy😊😊