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Комментарии • 51

  • @samcobb1353
    @samcobb1353 Год назад +16

    I love watching Megan Acuna too! Her concept of romanticizing motherhood and taking all the small moments (good and bad) and making them so special because you’re never going to have those moments back was truly life changing. When you’re at your limit, remembering you’re not going to have that moment back, you make the most of it and find the joy, humor, happiness, etc instead of the negative. Hope that helps someone out there.

  • @ftmbytalita
    @ftmbytalita Год назад +1

    Letting go of control was a huge one for me too. I’m intrigued to see how baby #2 will change things.

  • @Boymamaaax3
    @Boymamaaax3 Год назад +1

    My sons are 18 months apart and I’ve followed you from the beginning, I just love these q + a’s so much ❤️
    When I’m nursing baby bro, my toddler is either doing an activity, playing with his older brother, or he gets iPad time 🤷🏼‍♀️ I really don’t see screens as awful as people make them out to be. I’m an elementary school teacher and half of our kids day is on a computer. It’s the way they are going to grow up, and I’d rather have them learn how to be successful with technology and use it as a tool than just avoid it altogether. We bought a visual timer from Amazon that shows how much time is left. He sets the timer and hands me his iPad when I’m done nursing and his time is up🤗 Also, my me time is watching your videos with a cup of coffee and my whole household knows this😂 So much love for you guys 🤍

  • @melissa_ann_p
    @melissa_ann_p Год назад +1

    I do love when you show Rocky and Ekko. My little guy is 17 months old and he loves seeing your babies! We are home a lot together since I stay at home but most of my friends kids are in daycare during the day. So for him it’s like getting to see his friends I think ! Love all that you do ! You are doing great ! ❤

    • @KileanRodriguez
      @KileanRodriguez  Год назад +2

      This gives me so much happiness and validation in what I am doing. Thank you so much for sharing and watching 🥹

  • @angelharmon2465
    @angelharmon2465 Год назад

    I appreciate your transparency ❤

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 Год назад

    Very nice job, Kilean!❤❤

  • @Pixief13
    @Pixief13 Год назад

    Love an honest Q&A! Sat here watching this with my 3m old 😊

  • @UreskItAllVlogs
    @UreskItAllVlogs Год назад +2

    You are doing such a good job mama! My husband and I bickered the very most with 2 kids at the exact ages yours are. It gets better, I promise. I see you guys look at each other, flirt with each other, and show unconditional love. You deserve some credit for hard work in trying to have a good relationship with your spouse and be the best mama you can

    • @KileanRodriguez
      @KileanRodriguez  Год назад +1

      This makes me want to cry. Thank you 🥹 I needed these words!

  • @shelbycook8471
    @shelbycook8471 Год назад

    i love watching courtney capano! she is a twin mom and she is so relatable

  • @Hanbanz
    @Hanbanz Год назад

    Brunch with desb! Loveee her🤍 motherhood and fitness and life all wrapped together! Best podcast she’s so fun hahaha

  • @livandtyler
    @livandtyler Год назад

    I love Sarah Owen too! Thank you for your realness on motherhood! It’s all so true!

  • @CarlyMitchell937
    @CarlyMitchell937 Год назад

    Thank you for speaking into the toddler on 1 nap/baby on 2 schedule. My son is 6 months and we’ll be doing the 3-2 transition soon and I’ve been so nervous because of my older son’s nap, so I’m glad you’ve been able to manipulate the schedule to make it work! I’d love to hear you share more about Ekko and Rocky’s sleep schedules!

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 Год назад

    Hi Kilean I enjoyed this Q & A Thankyou for sharing your experiences I wish I watched RUclips when my son who is now 12 I’m not sure there were families documenting their lives back then I am a single parent and these videos would of been so helpful to me. It has been hard but has Mum’s whether a single parent or in a relationship we get through and it’s not all bad i am so greatful for my kids. ❤

  • @rosemariemiranda3748
    @rosemariemiranda3748 Год назад

    Thank you for listing other RUclipsr moms that you follow, I watch a few of the ones you mentioned as well. I just wanted you to know that you are one of my favorites to watch. Your honesty and attitude (negative or positive) are very relatable. Can't wait for your next one :D

  • @SarahOwenVlogs
    @SarahOwenVlogs Год назад

    Love this ❤

  • @kaylabuasod
    @kaylabuasod Год назад +2

    I know this is kind of the opposite of what you asked for, but just wanted to say that you're the only mom youtuber I still watch and tbh I try to focus more on your updates with your house, fitness, clothing, etc because I've caught myself comparing my son to Rocky or my mothering to yours so many times and it always makes me feel so badly in the moment. I've stopped watching almost every other mom channel because it wasn't bringing me joy at all, and was instead making me feel very inadequate. And that's nothing against you or any of them - and I'm happy it feels like more of a community for you. But I just recognized at one point, my life and circumstances were so wildly different from the people I watch (I work a regular 9-5 and do a lot of freelance work from home while watching my son) and that was making me feel like I was failing at being a mom. So all this to say, I have to be more selective with which videos I click on these days for my own mental health, but I still come back to your channel because of the way you weave motherhood with other topics as well.

  • @dolphynlvr4
    @dolphynlvr4 Год назад

    I discovered Megan Acuna last year, and you and Cara Jane a few months ago. I love you all so much. It feels like I have mom friends through you all on RUclips. Motherhood can feel so lonely at times and your videos help. I don’t know how you all don’t have more followers but people are missing out! ❤

  • @hannahflora1
    @hannahflora1 Год назад +1

    Love your content! You keep this new mom company A LOT 🥰
    Ps. Where is your sweater from? So cute. Thank you!

  • @amandahaw4643
    @amandahaw4643 Год назад +1

    I just want to say - thank you for sharing the parts about your relationship struggles. I feel like since having kids (I have two almost the same age as yours) my relationship with my partner has been a struggle at times. We’re so tired and stressed and doing so much on our own. And then to see people online that just seem to have it all together and have a perfect relationship with their spouse is even harder. Makes me want to dig a hole and never come out. So thank you for sharing. We love our spouses, but kids are hard and they sure do take a toll - especially in these first years.
    Wishing you guys all the best 💖

    • @KileanRodriguez
      @KileanRodriguez  Год назад +1

      Thank YOU for not making me feel alone either. It can be so hard to only see someone’s positives and although I never want to come off negative, this is exactly why I share 🤎

    • @annavangemerden6745
      @annavangemerden6745 Год назад

      I literally just talked about this with a mom friend today. I have an 11 month old and my marriage is so different now. I would love to hear any tips, advice or encouragement you’re comfortable sharing on relationship changes and navigating that ❤

  • @Lolofint0
    @Lolofint0 Год назад

    Helloalliy you and her are my favorite you helped me thur my pregnancy and moodhood so much so thank you!

    • @Lolofint0
      @Lolofint0 Год назад

      Oh and Olivia zappo! Can’t believe I didn’t mention her

  • @hayleyblake3311
    @hayleyblake3311 Год назад +1

    What you were saying about Ekko being really easy at first, that’s how my first baby was and I thought my second would be the same. She’s so different and basically only sleeps if I’m holding/nursing her. It’s been such a shock since I planned on this time her being a sleep anywhere easy baby like my first for at least a while 😅 For me the 1-2 transition has already been way harder than 0-1 because of their temperaments!

    • @KileanRodriguez
      @KileanRodriguez  Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry girl!! It’s so hard when things aren’t what yoh think they will be. Hang in there, I am a believer your second will be super easy soon 🤎

  • @emilybrookeee
    @emilybrookeee Год назад

    Loved this video! After I had my second, the newborn days were easy for me too. She is about to be 4 months and I’m seeing it is getting harder as we go 😅

  • @AngelicaMartinez-to9ur
    @AngelicaMartinez-to9ur Год назад

    Not me watching this video, folding laundry and drinking my coffee 😂

  • @kellymasten4030
    @kellymasten4030 Год назад

    You and Tara Henderson are my fave RUclipsrs!

  • @sophiecarter7773
    @sophiecarter7773 Год назад +1

    Loved this video!!! I’m due in July with our second little babe and they’ll be 16 months apart (a very happy and loved little oopsie babe lol) so the advice and heads up is so appreciated.
    Also, rant or ramble incoming - but I think the conversation on child exploitation is so so important to keep talking about especially in this current climate were all in. I love how you incorporate your children and I think so many other RUclips mums do a great job. I think the issue arises with channels or accounts like the whole wren eleanor stuff and families like the labrant fam (please no hate people). I just find they use their children as clickbait and it feels so weird. I listened to this podcast and it went through the analytics for the ig that the labrants have for their eldest daughter and there was SO many male accounts… I dunno man, it feels so so scary and I just feel as parents it’s their job to protect their children from this stuff but I think a lot of family channels and accounts fall short.
    I think there definitely needs to be some regulations put into effect about what children can do/ be used for in terms of ads and sponsorships etc
    Omg sorry for my novel😂

  • @MoonstoneElements
    @MoonstoneElements Год назад

    I completely agree with you. I do want a third baby ONE day lol but I have a 2 month old and an almost 2 year old and I definitely can’t even imagine being pregnant until they’re both older toddlers or kids who are self sufficient
    Having two babies is so difficult but definitely doable. Mine are 21 months apart

  • @CaraJane
    @CaraJane Год назад +2

    I loved hearing your opinion on child exploitation... it's so scary and makes me never want to show my kids, but also like you said.... I don't see how I could share my life without them when they are part of almost every second of my life! Definitely something I'm trying to figure out my own boundaries on. Also, thanks for the shoutout! :)

    • @KileanRodriguez
      @KileanRodriguez  Год назад

      It’s a hard balance for sure, but I truly believe intention is everything and I know both our intentions are good 🤎 and of course 😘

  • @Hannah-mu3zx
    @Hannah-mu3zx Год назад +1

    Would love a link to your top in this video.. I love it!!

  • @tigger72397
    @tigger72397 Год назад

    Can you include the list of mom RUclipsrs you said you like to watch? ❤️

  • @jennybellucci6605
    @jennybellucci6605 Год назад

    I have a 10 month old and 2.5 year old. I relate to you so much. Both boys…. I am not having anymore kids. I thought I was going to have more and I’m sad, but I need a break and I don’t think I can handle another child

  • @ChristinaGisele
    @ChristinaGisele Год назад

    Love your channel & honesty! Having baby #2 soon and been trying to prepare mentally. Deep down I know I’ll figure it out as I go. It goes by so fast going to try to let go of the hard times and cherish the good times.

  • @rebeccaacklin5077
    @rebeccaacklin5077 Год назад

    Well I just wanted to tell you then I miss when you don't do your videos I enjoy watching you the way you work with your children you're so loving and your husband is so funny with Echo I mean you can tell us Daddy's girl anyway I'm happy that you're back I'm able to find out how you're doing how's all your weight and you know feeling so stressed out how is that working out for you now sweetheart you look great no matter what you do look great and you're a beautiful woman so you have a good one and God bless you

  • @tarrynsturt7942
    @tarrynsturt7942 Год назад

    What is rockys schedule? I have a nearly 3yo but we're struggling with5.30 wakes. I'm wondering if shes ready to drop nap but she always wants her nap

  • @KarliClark
    @KarliClark Год назад

    You should check out Sydney Adams if you haven’t yet! She doesn’t have kids but she is definitely fitness & aesthetic goals!

  • @natashajohnson6428
    @natashajohnson6428 Год назад

    It is so reassuring to hear that you can’t feed Ekko with Rocky playing I am struggling with this big time with my daughter she is SOOO distracted 😂 she will only feed if I go into a quiet room and lay down with her away from her toddler brother and feeding out in public is entirely impossible now!

  • @Pmar1635
    @Pmar1635 Год назад

    My son just turned two a few days ago and he needs me to lay with him for him to take his nap and sleep at night. I have a 5 week old and sometimes he’s awake while I need to put my 2 year old down. Any tips on how I can get my 2 year old to sleep on his own? He was great at it up until he outgrew his mini crib and now he sleeps on a toddler bed. I cant just put him in and walk away bc he knows he can just get off the bed.

  • @zohanrayan2453
    @zohanrayan2453 Год назад

    hi kilein i am from pakistan ,i am a mother nd i have the kids, there ages are same like your kids ,means 1 is two year old nd the other is 8 months old..,but idk i am unactive i am so so so lazy..nd now after kids i gain alot of weight just becuz i spend time with my kids nd get hungry again and again. i want to loose weight i want to be active nd productive.. plz share with us some tips i want your help

  • @theelittleone1
    @theelittleone1 Год назад

    What a great video! I really enjoyed this sit down video. I have a14 month son who still doesn't sleep thru the night and I'm trying to find the balance of finding me and my own time
    Check out Cara Jane, Beth grace Moore and Brittany Moran ♥️

  • @wee2424
    @wee2424 Год назад

    she has an echo in her head? Kind of gives an impression she's silly

  • @BrielleCherie
    @BrielleCherie Год назад

    Thank you for the shoutout🥹 You are the sweetest! I also feel like it’s harder now than it was when my 2nd was a newborn. It’s hard because everyone always says the newborn stage is the hardest but I’m in the trenches right now. So grateful to have found your page 🤍

  • @dvo1060
    @dvo1060 Год назад

    Not milena ciciotti 🫤 she’s so problematic

    • @desprusak
      @desprusak Год назад

      She’s really not. She’s also been making so many changes lately that are so positive

    • @dvo1060
      @dvo1060 Год назад

      @@desprusak posted Ari naked on her stories.
      Lies about Alethea being weaned off pacifier and potty trained, but she’s constantly show in the background with a paci and full diaper.
      Pretended she lost her baby#2 weight by working out, when it was just neosculpting.
      Says “Beauty enhancements are vanity” while sitting there with FILLER still IN HER Lips.
      Also according to her “sunscreen can be vanity”. It literally prevents skin cancer…. That’s the same thing as saying that brushing your teeth to prevent cavities is vanity.
      I can go on if you wish