The Harsh Reality Of Dating Men Today

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  • The Harsh Reality Of Dating Men Today #relationshipadvice
    The harsh reality about dating men today. The harsh truth about dating men today.
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  • @GretaBereisaite
    @GretaBereisaite  8 месяцев назад +3

    BOOK ONE ON ONE WITH ME OR WITH MY TEAM
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  • @auguri8255
    @auguri8255 8 месяцев назад +9

    Honestl, you are the only coach who actually tells how reality of life is nowadays without sugarcoating things.
    The best coach ever.

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 8 месяцев назад +7

    I experienced the call for 50/50 when I was about to meet this guy in Turin ( I moved from Italy so it was long distance ) . That was a huge , early indication this date wasnt going to go well. Therefore, I declined.
    Besides that, we still continued to talk and keep in touch for more than a year but seems like things were only getting worse. He was not only stingy, he frequently lied about many things. He was also stingy with his time, compliments, attention ( he would reply usually after a week ) , I stuck around to observe his behaviour. Things he did not even need to lie about, he lied about. That was super weird. To cover it up, he gaslit and blame shifted 😂 This month after my birthday, I unfriended him on FB cause after more than a year, I decided enough.

    • @lugm1034
      @lugm1034 8 месяцев назад +1

      A 50 50 guy is an instant NEXT. Time is precious

  • @jeanlemcke6458
    @jeanlemcke6458 8 месяцев назад +12

    I hate when guys tell me what year it is and that's their excuse for 50/50 rules, like women should call men! All ages of men do this now!

    • @endofexistence2149
      @endofexistence2149 8 месяцев назад

      yes because you kept saying how much better than men you are, how independant you are of us, how you go out and get that bag. So now go out and pick up that tab. I find it funny that women want to live this new age lifestyle but want men to be traditional. If you want men to be traditional then you need to start doing the traditional shit women use to do in the past. If you want to be a new age woman expect new age outcomes that means you pay for your own part of the meal, open your own door, handle you own problems. This is what feminist and women fought so har for equality, now men look at you doing man shit and view you as a man. Its your fault for abandoning the role of womanhood.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 8 месяцев назад

      Of course these men encourage women to do things that eventually turns him off and encourages laziness. Reject men who do this. They hope you don't know better or too desperate to walk away.

  • @alyshamorris6275
    @alyshamorris6275 8 месяцев назад +14

    This same dynamic is no different even in America. It’s like this young men aren’t even thinking about getting married after high school all throughout their 20s or 30s they think they can settle down and look for a young wife when they’re 50 years old. It’s insane!

    • @endofexistence2149
      @endofexistence2149 8 месяцев назад +2

      Men leaving the US actually achieve this, dating for men is not the same as women. We have no timeline and as we age we become more attractive to younger women.

    • @Thisismeofcourse
      @Thisismeofcourse 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@endofexistence2149 dream on...we are not physically attracted to you as you age. But we can fake it if the wallet is thick.

    • @alyshamorris6275
      @alyshamorris6275 8 месяцев назад +9

      @@endofexistence2149lol that’s actually not true,older men definitely struggle pulling 20 year old women. That older man would have to be very wealthy and closer to death for a young lady to want him! Average men always believe they can be the 1% and it never happens. And most men give up on wanting to start families when they’re past their prime, if they haven’t settled down yet. You’re wrong across all boards 😂

    • @alyshamorris6275
      @alyshamorris6275 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@endofexistence2149also MOST young women would rather date young rich men, and men their age because women care about how they’re perceived by family and friends about their “sugar daddy” boyfriends. A very small percentage of women would even have a sugar daddy. So older men are KILLING their options when they wait too long to get married

    • @wshyangify
      @wshyangify 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@endofexistence2149Don't argue and try to reason with sheep. Stay focused King.

  • @sharonwilliamspristineskincare
    @sharonwilliamspristineskincare 8 месяцев назад +8

    Yes I agree. I like a man that will pick up the bill on the first first dates. I don’t mind paying for a drink now and then. Or make a meal once in a while.

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 8 месяцев назад +1

      Making a meal once in a while is what I go through since most men are not providers so no need to fancy them with home-cooked meals. 😂😂

    • @endofexistence2149
      @endofexistence2149 8 месяцев назад

      Aren't those old fashioned archiac gender roles you ladies hate so much when they are placed on you?

    • @annabarlassina4715
      @annabarlassina4715 8 месяцев назад

      @@endofexistence2149Nope you’re on the wrong channel

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 2 месяца назад

      ​@@endofexistence2149 don't assume. Not all of us hate them.

    • @endofexistence2149
      @endofexistence2149 2 месяца назад

      @@SR77736 you clearly didn't understand my comment

  • @sharonwilliamspristineskincare
    @sharonwilliamspristineskincare 8 месяцев назад +2

    Exclusive is mandatory for me these days. If I was going to start again.
    I’m have learn my lesson the hard way.

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Месяц назад

    sad but true.
    Thank you Greta 💛💙

  • @carrino15
    @carrino15 8 месяцев назад +3

    In this video your honesty is illuminating....but it is sad state of affairs and actually quite dangerous for females now if it is a lot of blame game to avoid empathy and responsibility

  • @rebekahsumer7980
    @rebekahsumer7980 8 месяцев назад +12

    Nowsdays 50 y old man playing a game -))

    • @vm3249
      @vm3249 8 месяцев назад +5

      Facts, this happened to me and he was going through a divorce with his first wife and separation with his girlfriend who he accidentally got pregnant. That man was a mess!

    • @rebekahsumer7980
      @rebekahsumer7980 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@vm3249 yeah this typ ofman thinks they are 25 forever 😀

  • @bunnybgood411
    @bunnybgood411 8 месяцев назад +5

    I've had so many young women argue with me and tell me that I'm not a feminist because I expect the man to pay for the date. As far as I'm concerned, feminism is equal opportunities and equal pay for equal work. I totally agree with that. Plus, I'm an artist and I'm retired so there's no way I'm going to pay for a guy's drinks,and dinner.
    Anyway, I'm of the older generation, a baby boomer.

  • @vm3249
    @vm3249 8 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video Greta x

  • @Dr.Mrug1111
    @Dr.Mrug1111 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great video as always ❤️🥰

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 8 месяцев назад +4

    Very interesting video thank you and so true . Absolutely spot on with the so called dating today. It isnt dating as it used to be .

  • @kriskris4214
    @kriskris4214 8 месяцев назад

    Greta, you are our ❤️ 🙏 thank you for all your work.

  • @blue.papaya8595
    @blue.papaya8595 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is a scandinavian phenomenon. 50-50. It kills the attraction. I m Polish, lived in Sweden, was married there with a Swede.
    I dated an Israeli later on and he was very traditional. Could pretty well do my house stuff, except my regular work, but he would cover all bills, spoil me, take me on vacation.
    I am somewhere in between. Can live on my own resources. Like when a man is a bit above. Don't mind that house chores are never 50-50. But then a man should provide with a strong arm and contribute to my safety and well being.

  • @Astrologcomedy
    @Astrologcomedy 8 месяцев назад +1

    I took a 6 months break going to start dating again January 2024

  • @eadithcsiby1071
    @eadithcsiby1071 8 месяцев назад +3

    I consider that the person is not attracted to me and I do not undersand why he invited me to the date , it is a simply politness issue if you like the girl you invet into the date.I had only a relationship 50/50 , he had a girlfriend before 15:22 who paied for him all and after tthat he did not wanted to invest into his relationships. In my culture is extremely insulting if the man does not want to pay for the date it means that she is to old has not any value , or extremely low value and after the date he will go and will laugh behind yout back with his friends.I tried this type of relatinship and he was a constant cheater.. So it is better to avoid 50/50 type guys.Also, here I am mentioning that i was the girlfriend and from the start he clarified the type of the relationship but the side chick asked him for money and it was not an issue.He was so rude that he asked money if he needed to call, or once asked him to take a shower my boyler was brocken and he asked payment. I just do not understand how these 50/ 50 guys can provide safety for his woman. In m

  • @inagio7617
    @inagio7617 8 месяцев назад

    This is just the True and sad. I dont even In the mood anymore to date because of This reasons.

  • @ex-x7079
    @ex-x7079 8 месяцев назад +1

    men dont care about dates anymore.
    Love and respect is all we need.

  • @jordanrintoul-thomas722
    @jordanrintoul-thomas722 8 месяцев назад

    Staying single is alco an option.

  • @sylvanas2579
    @sylvanas2579 8 месяцев назад

    The lipstick though 😍

  • @braniya99
    @braniya99 7 месяцев назад

    Get married early in your twenties.
    Men usually will not take seriously if you over 30 especially over 35.

  • @sharis.6904
    @sharis.6904 8 месяцев назад

    I never had a date with 50/50 🙏🏻 only one time the guy was writing with the pen on the bill - I don’t understood and I went to toilet 😂 when I came back he paid. After a couple of days he called me gold digger and deleted my number

  • @user-ik7ji6td9y
    @user-ik7ji6td9y 8 месяцев назад

  • @Krwler
    @Krwler 8 месяцев назад

    I like how women pretend they don’t know why men have changed. It’s like they forget about feminism and strong and independent when it suits them lol

    • @Bubbles-od2tv
      @Bubbles-od2tv 8 месяцев назад

      Why does a woman being financially independent mean that men stop being masculine and sexy? Feminism means a woman won’t be broke when her partner leaves her, her money is like Insurance against being broke.

  • @jaquamusic4344
    @jaquamusic4344 8 месяцев назад

    As a dating coach What is your relationship status ?? if u can share it will be more inspiring

    • @Bubbles-od2tv
      @Bubbles-od2tv 8 месяцев назад

      That’s not anyone’s business but hers

  • @Sunshineandrainbows234
    @Sunshineandrainbows234 6 месяцев назад

    You have to date much older if you want a man

  • @amiami9536
    @amiami9536 8 месяцев назад +3

    The harsh truth is that a pretty, wise, mentally stable, educated and having her life together girl will find a husband in her twenties. All unmarried women over 35 lack something from that list.

    • @Bubbles-od2tv
      @Bubbles-od2tv 8 месяцев назад

      Not everyone is lucky enough to find their husband in college. I tell my teenage niece to look out for a boyfriend in college because it’s impossible to find a good guy after that. I wish my mom was wise enough to tell me that, but she told me the opposite:(

    • @CeciledeLuire
      @CeciledeLuire 2 месяца назад

      😂 You're funny.
      Ever thought about the fact that some of us women like a really cool man and that these are rare?