Ex-Mean Girl Gets Catty With Her Bridesmaids! | Say Yes To The Dress Bridesmaids
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- Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2018
- Young bride, Jasmine Martin, has learned to be a kinder person through her faith, but will the stress of bridesmaid dress shopping be enough to bring her inner mean girl out?
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Anyone else notice that when the brides are quiet they get told they need to "take control" or "be more assertive" but when they do those two things they get called "mean" or "bossy"??
Yes it's like brides just can't win smh
Brice McDaniel and she wasn’t a bitch so your point?
@Brice McDaniel please refer to the numerous other comments citing how flexible the bride was, I.e. she only had 2 conditions
yes omg!! she put her foot down and knew what she wanted!
She’s guilting herself based off her past behaviors. Definitely flexible now. And gorgeous 😍
I do love how Jasmine wanted all of the bridesmaids to have a different dress because of their different body shapes and because she wanted them to feel beautiful
Yvania O same
Me too but then she started being kinda rude 😂
Coco Channie exactly the dress didn't fit Ericka properly it draws a lot of attention to her stomach and it wasn’t flattering on her at all. She should have taken what she said into consideration instead of shutting her down if her intention was to cater to all of their different body types that was the wrong response and it was mean.
They were kinda running over her at some point tho
That's what my best friend did and it worked out just fine. Same fabric, same color, same length, but different dresses. It looked great
The fact that they keep calling her a mean girl is more disrespectful than anything.
But she's the one constantly talking about it. I think she is struggling with it which is why she keeps talking about it. I don't think it feels natural to her yet, which kinda makes you wonder how rude was she before.
@@Chy-vs7en A 'mean girl' is a girl/woman who bullies other people. She makes rude comments, spread gossips... etc. Its usually done passive aggressively.
chaitra BS If you’ve seen the movie “Mean Girls” with Lindsay Lohan, you’d understand, especially paying attention to the character Regina George. That’s where the reference comes from.
But the bride herself stated that the mean girl is still within her and comes out whenever she's told 'no'.
She’s the one calling herself mean!
Bride: "ok stop"
Everyone: "the mean girl is back!!"
Like she was just taking control of HER WEDDING
literally! it was getting too loud and they were getting ahead of themselves! she just wanted them to hear her!
They're using her past to guilt trip her into what they want...
exactly there the first to say “ The bride needs to take back control”
no you idiot, she said “erika is wearing that blue dress” “i’m done” and when the bridesmaid said she didn’t like the way it looks on her body she said “i don’t care” and almost said “okay shut up” in the beginning and stopped her self and said “stop”
She kept calling herself mean girl too
She literally had two conditions:
Navy blue and long
That’s not a lot, she’s literally being soooooo flexible
Sally Smith YES SISTER! 👏👏
Sally Smith those brides mares were not good
Aves Bailey yeah, they are not really her friends !
Exactly!
So true
I'm a Christian. But I don't understand why they gotta play soothing guitar music everytime Christianity is mentioned 😂
WaterLily 1011 lol. Same. I get u I’m Christian too
Catholic here
Im catholic too
Lol I’m Christian too. Like seriously what do guitars have to do with Christianity
WaterLily 1011 drama
Is anyone going to notice how pretty the bride is tho
With her curly hair yeah like when it was in high school
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Jemima Dillon her hair cut is atrocious though
Yessss sooo pretty
Yes
I feel like the part where she said "I don't care" was cut in there from a different conversation with the bridesmaid, to make it seem as if her "inner mean girl" was showing.
Same
The quality of the sound is different I agree
It just seems a bit off..
well yeah, this show is very very edited lol
I agree.
If this is 'mean', then I must be evil. She wasn't being mean, she was being assertive, and she took into account what looked good on each bridesmaid. That's her job as the bride. Duh.
Vi Haze nah re watch hun
She picked the ugliest style for the biggest girl, who was clearly uncomfortable in that dress.... that is being evil. Bride or not, that was a really bitchy moment, especially given how uncomfortable her friend looked.
reanna she picked the dress that her friend felt the prettiest in if you watch to the end
reanna I don’t know if I was the friend I would do anything to please the bride.
@@Jyudee But the bride is only a person she isn't God.
She’s not being mean. This is HER WEDDING.
A wedding is a reflection of the bride and it is her wedding
RIGHT?
Lauren Lovell I think she means this isn’t the bridesmaids wedding, it’s hers and even tho it’s also the groom’s, the groom isn’t picking the bridesmaids dresses.
Kamber 0826 exactly
@Lauren Lovell In most the bride plans everything all the groom has to do is show up on time
I feel like the consultant was embracing the “drama”
Right like why even ask if they wanted a short dress
I mean....what gay boy don’t like drama. Plus it’s tv.
Of course. It's a reality TV show! That's literally what they are instructed and paid to do!
@@kupidrosalindavateri3965 Ok and...
@@jask4968 ew
It’s frustrating because when the bridesmaids don’t agree with the bride, then everyone gets mad because it’s her wedding. But, when the bride makes her statements about the dress, then she’s being “mean.”
She's not being a mean girl right now, she's being a bride
Dr Agon Stupid🤣
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I swear this guy always picks out the worst dresses
Dresses? They look like tacky coloured trash bags
I thought it was just me they’re truly so ugly 🤢🤮
big facz
I love that someone said this
Hannah Mac
You do need to remember this was the fashion years ago
That guy consultant was the mean girl to me. He keeps calling her out of her name. He’s so rude and unprofessional. The bride wants what she wants. Get with the program or get out of the bridal party.
Allie Oops It’s for the drama effect.
I don't like him, I prefer the female consultant, she doesn't smile much but she's very honest and considerate
I think he likes to create drama. Plus he is never on the bride's side🙄
The consultant started off by immediately undermining her and insulting her.
The bride stood up to that, and at one point she got fed up, but she didn't get catty.
The bridesmaids started off with a bad attitude but eventually got past it and the consultant got them into dresses that actually worked and fit the description the bride originally had in mind.
Conclusion: Consultant and bridesmaids should honor the bride's vision, bride is doing a good job trying to grow as a person, and show needs to be a little less judgmental.
I don't think she was mean. I think there were too many opinions and she was being firm. She's the bride. When it's their day they can do what they like.
Yeah but the bride is just a person, like the rest of us. She isn't anything special just because she is getting married. It's just a day where some words are said and a ring is put on your finger. Yes, it is sentimental in different ways but it can also be special to you because the people you love are there.
I really liked this bride. She seems so supportive of her bridesmaids. Loved her attitude
Candy Chan but even then it’s HER wedding. If they don’t like it they don’t have to participate at all.
Park Jimin well they want to support their friend in what they thing is “important”
{ Candy Chan } regardless it’s the people who are getting MARRIED’s special day. they’re pledging the rest of their lives together and that’s extremely important. she is entitled to be firm and get what she wants because for most, the wedding is the most important day of their lives. she gets what she wants and that’s that. no excuses, (unless religion and actual personal issues come into play).
I like this bride she is trying to become a better person. Also she wasn't mean she had to put her foot down or else like other brides the appointment would be controlled by braidsmaids. I love how she said yes to the black dress cause her friend was happy
Bridesmaids not braidsmaids LOL!
@@kykyakalakya2348 omg lol typo mistake! I didn't even notice 😂
Pink Heart I agree. It didn’t sound good when she was going to originally have Erika wear the dress she hated, but it shows she is genuinely nice when she realized Erika was going to be happier in the black dress
In hungary its really rude to wear black or white in a wedding 🤔😶
@@MalloryNewcomb True😊
How is that mean? This is legit one of the least confrontational dress trials ever
She’s not being mean she just knew what she wanted. She literally only had two conditions(navy blue and long) and was being quite flexible. At 4:22 you can clearly hear that they edited the rest of her sentence out.
Truuuue
Why am I watching girl drama at 3 am
I have no idea
5:30
I don't even like drama to begin with..but here I am om
2:33am im like why 😣
I'm asking the same thing right nw😂
Well, she made a great choice. Most brides on the show get guilt-tripped by their bridesmaids... She went with her gut and couldn't have chosen better. If you have friends who can't accept you for your choices,they're not fit to be your bridesmaids.
If my friend ever got married and forced me into a dress i did not like or feel comfortable in and make me pay for the dress, i would consider the friendship over and withdraw from the wedding because if you have friends who can't accept the choices about how you wish to spend YOUR money, the bride is not fit to be my friend
they need to feel comfortable and happy in what they're wearing too
@@neha-di6cb yeah but if you're not paying for it then you can either walk down and address that she found pretty or just not be a part of the wedding🤷🏾♀️
she literally wasn’t being mean? it’s her wedding and they need to respect her vision
bride: i want navy blue and long
dude: immediately picks short pink and white dresses
She let them wear individual dresses...she's being considerate!
Kori Cloud "I just want them all to feel beautiful" wow sounds like such a controlling bully to me
@@Katie-wf1lx by wanting her to friends to feel confident... okay, buddy...
kbear calm your tits, she was joking
kbear r/woosh
@@kbear6797 It's called sarcasm... Jesus, what happened to people?
Y'all exaggerate too much. That bride was an angel
Alyza Kashif SERIOUSLY! It’s HER big day! If she didn’t used to be the mean girl, they wouldn't be like “Oh, the mean girl's back.” Cause I think the way she was acting is reasonable and was understandable and wasn’t even that mean!
Copy Rose just because she’s the bride does not mean there dresses have to be ugly
keke I didn't say that.
Copy Rose but your acting like the bride was so nice and the brides mates were the mean ones
I agree! She was being honest and not letting anyone decide for her! I dislike how people perceive that attitude as “mean girl”.
She’s NOT being mean , she’s being a bride with good opinions
This is clearly edited to make her look mean!
If so they failed, she was nowhere near mean imo
In Austria there's a "rule" that no one except of the bride is allowed to wear white. And also not black bc black says you're said about the wedding
Of course the bride can pick whatever she wants, but if it is a traditional wedding and one the guests wears black or white😬🤯
Elena Maria Gehmayr servus bin in linz wow what a small world fröhe ostern
@@favouredblessed2631 danke dir a
Lmao austria for the win
@@elenamariagehmayr9278 danke memez
Not just Austria, its a very European thing in general
She just wasn't a pushover. She wasn't mean. I loved her attitude about it. It's HER wedding!
She can’t afford to lose another group of friends? That was completely uncalled for.
Seriously, like what was the need?
Well, having an opinion is not called “being mean”.
I'm so annoyed that they kept calling her rude. It's HER day! I think it was really nice of her to let her bridesmaids choose different dresses. Personally, I would have everyone wear the same dress. I would let my bridesmaids help pick it out but it would mainly be my decision. THE WEDDING IS ABOUT THE BRIDE.
And the groom
Jacqueline Palshaw I only agree if she bride actually pays for the dresses SHE choses. If she doesn’t then they have a say in it
Cant forget the groom!
I couldn't have said it any better. Honestly, if it was my wedding, I'm sorry, but it's either my way or none at all. Maybe I can make a few compromises here and there, but it has to fit with my theme and such. If I don't like it, I wouldn't want it to be apart of my wedding that I worked hard and planned for y'know? At the end of the day, I feel like the BRIDE should have the final decision because it is her special day.
So we gonna just forget that there's groom in the picture aren't we?
I like her. I don't think she's mean. It's her wedding so she can decide on what she wants them to wear.
Albi O only if she pays for the dresses
@@user-ls7tm1rj9y no. It's her wedding. They buy it and wear what she wants.
But at the same time she says she wants them to feel beautiful but tries to force Erica to wear the blue dress even though she didn’t like the way it looks on her. And I understand, it’s her wedding but....nvm🤐
@@emilycheek1899 or maybe she should also be a good and respectful friend and respect some boundaries such as budgets and stuff... If my bridesmaids couldn't afford the dresses I'd want them to wear I'd either help them out financially or chose something else they can afford... Just because it's your big day it doesn't mean you can boss people around and their OWN money... Just because it's your big day it doesn't mean you don't have to be considerate of your friends... If you really love and respect your friends it should go both ways... If you want a dress that your bridesmaids can't afford then you should be willing to pay for it... If you pay for it then they have no say, but if they're putting their money on it the least you can do is respect some boundaries... Some of you are too entitled and insecure and it shows
@@lovemaze8683 I let my bridesmaids pick their dresses as long as it was knee high, has some lace, and navy blue. She's allowed to have an idea what she wants. Is all I'm saying.
Wow... she actually cared about these girls body types
So basically she was a popular cheerleader and then when she graduated and realized life isn’t anything like high school 😂😂😂😂
These bridesmaids are so rude omg... It's not your wedding guys!
Agreed
They don't deserve to be ugly just because they're bridesmaids. That blue dress was so unflattering l the first girl who wore it!
Not all of them
Alicia Molén
Yea, but even then they shouldn’t make it a huge deal
Your wedding day doesn't mean its okay to make someone downgrade themselves on a hideous dress. It doesn't necessarily mean let the bridesmaid choose whatever but you need to reason. The blue dress on Erica looked AWFUL, and she was going to make that her dress and Erica hated it, because it did not look good on her body what so ever. At the end when they tried on the other dresses, she made her decision because it looked way better on her body. Stop trying to justify that just because you are a bride means everyone has to kiss your ass and do whatever you say.
the heck, the bride wasn’t being at all mean! it is her day so she can decide whatever she wants.
Then she should pay for what she decided.
If you felt like crap in a set of clothing and had no other choice but to where it, would you still be saying this?? I know that I would break down crying at the end if it.
Jasmine was definitely not being mean she was being clear about what she wants and is still being considerate of her bridesmaids insecurities, she’s being incredibly flexible and was willing to try the things that they want just in case.
Bride: Can I get a collective no on that?
Everyone: NO
Mean? It's not mean it's speaking your mind and be honest with the people around you. Sometimes there's better ways of doing it but I don't think she's mean
She is blunt than mean
She's not mean. She also made it clear she wants to be like Christ. HIM ALONE makes someone different from our past.
When she said "i dont care" when her friends didn't like the dress was mean tho
I've had to deal with mean girls through out all my years in school and I hate them. But the bride here isn't being mean now, *It is her wedding day* ! The bridesmaids seemed to have forgotten that it's an honor to be picked and that it's not about them. If I was picked I think would wear almost anything the bride choose. :/
They should be happy. I was picked by my mom as her flower girl even though i'm old enough to be a bridesmaid but still, i'm thankful she picked me hahaha
Such a good point.
She was my fave bride in the show. She has good styling knowledge on her bridesmaids and never had to people-please anyone for everyone to be happy.
She's not mean at all. She's direct and knows what she wants. If a man behaves that way he gets to be a CEO, not labelled "mean".
It is her day. LET HER DECIDE. Amazing choice 👏
Not if the bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses.
May Zed I do agree. She has the right to decide. Its upsetting if the bridesmaids will just going choose whatever they want and in the end, if I was the bride (I will regret it). Because their dress must match the theme/mood of the wedding otherwise it will look off , the result is not okay. I do like the set of dresses that she picked, different tops but pretty.
May Zed Right
Except that she specifically said that she wanted each girl to feel beautiful and the (initially) tried to force someone into a dress they hated. People who get all "planning a wedding is stressful, I'm the bride it's my choice" need to get knocked down a peg or 60 before they lose all their friends.
I get that but the often times the girls buy the dress themselves
She was probably really stressed which made her seem a little bit mean
Ok. This consultant is a little too much. It’s like he’s constantly trashing the clients behind their backs non-stop. And his style isn’t that great either. A lot of the episodes I’ve seen of him, he seems to be the catty one.
I’m sorry short dresses aren’t for weddings to me😂
Facts they are tacky asf
For the last time, *ITS NOT UP TO THE BRIDESMAIDS*
If anything, they’re being the mean girls rn. It’s literally her wedding like...and a long dress looks better anyways
There's a difference between being mean and assertive. This bride is definitely being assertive. Good golly, these women need to support their bride
"I want them to feel beautiful"
"I don't like it on me"
" i don't care"
😂😂 yass quueeen
Haha
Period 😹
They really should get over this "she had a reputation of a mean girl" nonsense, we all had a bad past. We Christians always tend to point fingers at others and play self righteous, it's her wedding and she can switch up whatever she wants to be done at any time. Give her a break! 🙄❤️
Chima-ijeoma Okeke truee girll.. people their problem is that they only remember ur bad things .. not good things
Preech
No we did not. Let's not say we were all the same. Some people have always been nice and polite to others. Sone people have done some REALLY AWFUL THINGS.
She's the one who choose it to be her story line for the show. No one needed to know that but she decided to use it as her 'thing' to get herself on TV.
Book Bag shut up
I love how Brandon was like “wait you’re saying yes to all three” and Jasmine “yes” like as if it was the most obvious thing in the world 😂
I don’t understand why most of the time these workers are “it’s the brides day do what she wants!!!” And then this once time he’s like “go short everyone wants short”
He should’ve never pushed her boundaries
Jordan Moore it always depends on the episode too. I’ve seen episodes where the bride is like “I want them in short lemon yellow dresses with fuchsia sashes” and the workers are like “she’s the bride, y’all just have to roll with it 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️”
If that’s “mean” I know some women who were downright cruel during their consultations. 😂
The bride wasn't being a 'mean girl' by standing up & reminding her bridesmaids that in the end, it's her wedding & her choices that matter, but I think it's nuts to tell them they can choose their dresses if, in the end, you are going to pull I have final say. Just tell them they can have input on the dress & what styles look best on them, but you have final say.
Exactly my point
They where acting like the bridesmaids were being kind but they were being rude to her and she wasn’t that rude it’s her wedding
She knows what she wants. She's pretty. She was decisive but fair and understanding. A great bride to work with honestly.
She just definitely has a Choleric personality and there's nothing wrong with that. She's being honest and people don't like that 👀
Chima-ijeoma Okeke ya but she can talk in more gentle way not as what she did in the video
Salama Nasser Or people can just not be extremely sensitive and realize it is not their day or place to be causing problems.
It's her day, let her decide. Would you let your friend choose what you should do on your own birthday? No, right? So let her be
@@meagandesalvo2373 Its her day but not her body or money
@@nyainchinekonyaaaarigatouwu Yet she told them to pick something they liked..........still wanna talk?
Oh I thought the title meant that she acted on the movie Mean Girls
I thought the same thing!
Why would you think that ?
@@bstmeg5237 the movie is called "Mean Girls". I shouldn't have to say more than that.
Me too!! But the girl was so cute, i'm not even mad she's not a mean girl 😂
same
So the only time she was mean was when she said "YOU'RE WEARING THIS" after the girl said she was uncomfortable
Yeah, and that was clearly edited to cut off her sentence and make her seem awful
this is the one exception where I say she’s actually not being mean. this is HER wedding. she gets to pick? why is that so hard for people to understand
these dresses are so underwhelming 😂😂😂
cynthia chemweno that’s because that are bridesmaids.
The last three dresses looked great on the bridesmaides!!
Just because she wants what she wants is not being mean. It’s HER wedding!
3:47 personally Brandon was being more mean than the bride was, in fact she wasn’t it’s HER wedding.
Holy crap the bride is so pretty
It’s HER special day. She should be able to control it.
3:22
All she said was “okay stop” in quite a calm voice because her bridesmaids were being fussy and noisy how was that even being mean?
She’s hilarious!!! She wasn’t being mean, it’s not like she was asking them to compromise on showing more skin.
She’s got a great sense of fashion even
IT’S HER WEDDING SHE IS NOT BEING RUDE!!! That guy annoyed the crap out of me 🙄🙄🙄
Tbh the second dress the taller blond bridesmaid wore looked horrible on her. The bride is completely wrong in saying it flatters her midsection and I'd feel really bad if she was forced into that dress for the wedding. I get that it's the bride's day but she did say she wanted her bridesmaids to have dresses that look good on them and that one was just so unflattering. The bridesmaid herself didn't like it.
I love this bride! She did a great job with her final dress choice, and she’s definitely come a long way from her mean girl days
Well, I must say I loved her no-bs personality, sarcasm, class and the way to impose her criteria and make decisions so quickly. She’s also willing to listen to others’ opinions and consider their emotions. This girl is a master class of leadership! - I hope she’s taking advantage of all those skills.
they're making it a bigger deal than it actually is. shes just frustrated because her bridesmaids are making it about them. its not that deep
*MY WEDDING MY RULES. PERIOD.*
So the groom has no say huh?
*periodt
Nunu Sakura he can worry about the suits he’s not supposed to see the dresses nor pick them out.
@@onepunch2310 True, but the wedding involves both the bride and grooms decisions overall.
Nunu Sakura yeah on the venue, budget, color scheme, food, decorations, and who they’re inviting and when to have it but not on each other’s outfits or their best mans/bridesmaids outfits. The wife choose her dress and her bridesmaids dresses and the husband pick out his suit and his friends suits.
Why did he not pick the red dress on the side at 5:20 . It was beautiful!
Brandon was lowkey the mean girl tho...
The girl in the background at 6:20 was like “whoops wrong room” lmao XD
0:47 *when the cashier gets ur order from mcdonalds wrong*
Jazzy is so considerate of her friends wishes. They do all have different body types. I love her Christ centered heart ❣️❣️. Overall she should have the final say on her bridesmaids dresses.
People are forgetting you don’t have to be a bridesmaid you can always say no thank you, it’s her day and her choice
I mean... like that iconic phrase: "if my friend wanted me to wear a plastic bag, i would". And she's the bride, she chooses. Whats wrong with bridesmaids????
Right?
Maybe its the fact that she isnt paying for the dresses and told them to pick a dress THEY liked
3:53 why are the bridesmaids picking out white dresses like it’s their wedding day 😭 ✋🏻
she really has become a nicer person, especially because she wants everyone to feel beautiful, I adore her.
she's the prettiest bride on the show
I swear that should be how every bride handle thier bridesmaid.
By showing you dont care for their intrests or how they feel?
savannah scotland I mean it’s her wedding. Her day. She imagines how she wants it. And I know for a fact she would wear what her friends what for their wedding.
@@savannahscotland1166 if she didn't want it she wouldn't have bought the black dress
1. The bride is gorgeous
2. The bride was not acting like a “mean girl”, she was being assertive
Uh oh! Mean girl creeping in! Hope she doesn’t lose her cool!
Me: she will if you keep pushing her boundaries
It's totally okay that a bride can chose anything for her bridesmaid. All the bridesmaid looked upset.. anyway all those dresses were gorgeous.
They were upset because she went back on her word
They look better in long dresses 👏
I admit she lost her cool, but it is her wedding and so ultimately, the decision is her own 🤷
She's not being mean, I mean it's her wedding day so she's going to be critical, it's kind of petty how they kept mentioning her past " mean girl" attitude
She's 21.... And none of her friends are particularly Christ like either
Right? Lmao
Who knew you were psychic ??
Molly Boord C
I don't know about ya'll, but she's the only bride that I've seen not take any crap for HER WEDDING DAY and I like it lol!
"Yes, I'm aware that you have bigger hip".
She said that like it's a bad thing?? It's not.
Amanda Fagrell no she didn’t. You reaching
The transition from judgmental mean girl high-schooler to judgmental mean girl christian adult is absolutely seamless.
I hate how they are trying to decide which dress they wanna have. Like it’s her wedding so she can decide.
Mara Kupke she told them they could choose their own dress and that's what they were doing.
Anibody scrollin down the comment section while watchin to see if she had got ani mean comment...but i like her😊
Anybody